Dan Savage on getting an Admirer to Back Off

[Kalferzu]

women need to listen to this. So many of attractive womens guy friends are actively pursuing a sexual interest in them, and it's really unhealthy.

A woman who says "your my friend".. it usually (not always but usually) leads a guy on to think he has a shot with her. women should be direct early on by saying no - if the guy really is their friend he might get pissy or whatever, but he will move on, and will be an even better friend than before if he sticks around. take heart sisters!:)

[g55coffia]

Man what ever happened to common sense? With all these sexy busty women around, when a man tells me he has no intrest in them & would rather suck the "TT" of some flabby like homo like Elton John...well that "man" has some kinda mental problem. Sorry, but its the truth!

Get help for the problem, don't listen to this bastard when he lies that its natural.

[Lizzzeg]

@g55coffia Lol, how is saying that all straight women are totally bangable (completely untrue) and that all gay men are totally fat and disgusting (also completely untrue) justify such hate? COMMON SENSE says that hating people for doing something that doesn't effect you is fucking stupid.

[kpslover]

Best choice of words: "When someone s**ts all over your heart!" Yet this is so true.

[canucksfan94]

Do the Will Smith in Fresh Prince technique... "BACK OFF!!! BACK OFF. JUST MIND YA BUSINESS..OK.. JUST MIND YA BUSINESS"

[Aicirt8]

The worst thing you can do when they cry is crack and pity-date.

WORST CHOICE EVER don't date them cause you feel sorry for them

[sunflyer40]

Sombody to shits all over your heart - LMFAO - Love you Dan!

[harlemw651]

lol; "when somebody shits all over your heart"

[vidfan30]

i know my boyfriends ex is still callin my bf at work asking him how hes doing and if he's still with me and i look kinda rough and if i hit him wich i would never do cuz im no coward, but yeah its so annoying if you had done a betr job at holding on to someone u still love you wouldnt be trying to get him or her bak, ud move on and find your happiness instead of dwelling on someone who is happier not being with you, common sense, it over cuz it over.

[ccm800]

i think she meant he wont back off! Not that he is still crying heehee

[pendulousphallus]

Three vids and countless columns and I'm subbed. Sorry it took so long for me to find you on YouTube.

[Flyleafsoup]

Ouch. thanks for the Straight foreward info.

[ChristinaRocks707]

wow thank you so much for posting this video its helped heaps, ive got a friend who has liked me for a while now but he just wont get over me. this has given the courage to let him know pleasantly that i dont like him,

Im Subscribing :D

Love your vids