It seems like If you're a BM who goes to jail for 4 years instead of college, you'll will have more BW then you know what to do with when you come out of prison. BM have to behave violently to impress BW. But if more BW denounced those men who behave like that, the violence would slowly evaporate. Never dumb yourself down or engage in criminal activity to get black women to notice you as you'll be in for a huge disappointment. Black women like Black men who need help or need to be saved.
And if you say that the Ike Turner type dudes need to mellow down, what would be the point in doing so if that sort of behavior gets them pussy on a consistent basis? Sure there are some black women who take midway brothas but one would have to be blind not to notice that a significant majority of black women who are attractive and desirable tend to like guys who are either very dangerous, extremely popular, or just a societal drop out. And it's surely because brothas aren't hard enough.
More to the point, how is it that alot of white men who date black women are often nerdy, corny, short, and have many of the qualities black women claim they disdain in "nerdy" black men yet they accept these same white dudes with open arms? This whole "too corny" line only seems applicable to black men.
Once again, I can't help noticing that you seem to group all black men who have trouble with the sistas as the Steve Urkel type. And while that agree that whining about thugs is useless and won't change women anytime soon, I think you're alleviating alot of blame from women when you say that it's not them men these days are just too weak so they only have thugs to turn towards. That's true in SOME aspects but it's not THE TRUTH.
Women are just stupid, irrational and illogical. We all know about the bitches who wanted to fuck the serial killer Richard Ramirez back in the '80s. You can take it to the bank that thousands of women, educated and from the hood, will support and write love letters to Jerome Isaac, the guy who recently burned to death a 73 year old woman.
@dizzymasekela You know, a lot of thugs/bad boys do acts that get them respect. A guy comes up behind someone and shoots him in the head and people think he is a "bad so and so". Or a group of guys jump on one person and they get a rep. These acts are cowardly yet people of this sort are held in high-esteem.
Wow, this is amazing. Men should put on a false persona (i.e. get more 'BET thuggish') just to get with a whore (I say 'whore' because you're sure not going to find a woman with any class who will only talk to you if you're acting like a BET thug)! Man, I'm glad I was able to find a beautiful black wife who loves me "for being ME," ... not a fictitious character. I'm not on either end of the SCALE. I'm just me, and wouldn't want to be anybody else for all the money or women in the world. Be U!
@enlightenedchild This video series was aimed at the men who say, "ALL black women want is thugs!" In this series I prove that is not entirely true. Black women will get with a normal, average, everyday guy (LIKE YOU) as long as he is not a weak pushover or a wussy.
YOU are not a thug and YOU found a black woman so you are proof that what I said in my video is correct.
I agree with you on everything you've said and you've taken my own words out of my mouth especially on the scale, however I would have put Ike, Denzel and Will all at the top but had two sides with a zero in the middle. They have the courage and the swagger and the choice to veer to the negative or positive is theirs. -10,-5,0,+5, +10. One last thing, the Tupac pictures disturbed me because he was not one dimensional like most so called thugs. He had depth and was a poet.
Part 2. If a girl started to see the DUMB THUGS ain't no good they will start dating SMART THUGS and little do she know the SMART THUG will do her just as bad as the DUMB THUG so she ain't go want a man after that. even if he is a good man, and me I hope I will never turn out to be a DUMB THUG with multiple baby mothers.
There is A big difference between SMART THUGS and DUMB THUGS..... I consider myself a SMART thug because I ain't finna put up with nobody's BULLSHIT I don't do dumb SHIT and spend multiple years in prison I go to school I do go out and have a good time when I can, I don't smoke I am okay with with women with tattoos I tho I don't wear em.
Hahha- thats so funny. You are like the Black Version of me- it´t like the words come exactly come out of my mouth- only that mine are German. Strange. Keep up the good work
I will post your video to my newsletterlist and on my Facbook page.
your know , JuneBugObama , you have successfully summarised the million dollar pickup industry. I tore through those stuffs 2 years ago , but since then , ive developed my own mindset that gave me the concrete confidence and happiness with just being me. You have squeezed out the most imjportant gist of that whole shebang money cow industry within 30 minutes. reposted , subscribed , thumbs-upped.
@hendsem My experience with the pickup industry is similar to yours in the since that it served a purpose in my life at one time and ultimately I ended up improving myself but leaving the info behind and being happy with the sum total of who I am as a man. I appreciate the feedback.
Everything Junebug's saying in this series is 100% correct. It really is unfortunate that a certain mindset of black women do find thug-type men attractive and desirable, but that is the case.
Personally, I've found that it works better to deal with women who think more of themselves and want better out of life, than to try to change my ways and become more "thuggish" in order to attract them. Those types of women tend to be losers. Not the kind of woman I want in my life anyway.
@TrueW0man247 You like both of these guys? Okay...answer this. If you were trapped on an island with Ike Turner and Denzel and they said, "We're not going to share you. Make a choice!" Which of these men would you pick?
Look, only Brasil will save us... Brasil!!! Experiencing Rio, you will come back desensitized.. Zero tolerance.. I dont give a damn if Bey came up and said "step up ur game, and we can do something".. You'll tell that broad to kiss ur ass.lol.. However, Salvador, Bahia............................... You wont come back.. women/culture/knowledge..
No the difference is that 2pac wasn't a thug..2pac was an ENTERTAINER acting like a thug. 2pac my dude and all (musically) but 2pac wasn't no damn thug. That's the problem with black women..take waaay too much shit from TV.
wussy!! lmao!!! I have always been in the center...Jim Brown/Bill Cosby type. The generation thing plays a role as well.You never want to be Urkel..period. Gotta take charge fellas!! Ride the rhythm!
Great program! I enjoyed all of your series brother. This is true, a man have to approach a woman with confidence in himself, she is searching for a good leader.
Thugs dont have confidence; they use aggression as a tool to interact with the world. It's the only way they know how, and it's hard to learn otherwise, or even want to. On the other hand, a confident guy can be kind, because he is not relying on aggression to be his strength.
love this video:) it's like I already knew it, but I needed to hear it. Thugs are like crack. You know it's bad for you, but one day your self esteem is low and you let your guard down and become curious...before you know it- you're CAUGHT UP w some bs thug guy!
a lot of what you said is very true. I like your series.
but...lol. I am a latina/african american woman and i do not like thugs at all. never have and never will. fortunately my grandfather and uncles raised me and taught me what to look for in a man. my husband is a very "corny" man. he knows slang, but he knows that i don't understand what he's saying at all.
LOL! how often do you see asian women talk about needing a man to match and tame her rude, masculine attitude? ( personally, I have never seen it. lol)
How often do you see family oriented african women claim that they need their rude behavior challenged? "NEVER" sounds like a good answer.
The same goes for many european and south american women as well.
And now we get to black american women. . . and the game changes . . . unfortunately, for the worst! LOL!
@SuperJayZFan1 I'm glad he mentioned that because when I was in college I noticed that. Any girl regardless of nationality that came to this country to study was MUCH different than the females in this country. But this only shows how powerful socialization and more specific the MEDIA influences attraction. Attraction is a fad, it is heavily influenced by the arts, when I say arts I mean fashion, movies, and music.
It's more about do you have structure, core values, or a foundation that a woman can trust for her survival and in some cases to prosper. It's not the thug persona that young women find romantic but it is the unwavering confidence that so-called thugs display that give them confidence for their survival.
Guys go after the kim kardashians, melyssa fords and expect for these females to be good girls. These type of chicks are just after money (most of them) and the average woman gets used. Good video by the way
You know what I find Sad.. If a BW refuses to date these "low life thugs" then She gets told "your standards are to high" "your unrealistic" or the good old "gold digger" comments... Trying to find that inbetween is really hard in some areas...lol.. Then when these "thugs" get with White women they say "she accepts me for who I am"....this is such a tangled web.
i HATE BEING AN ASSHOLE! I am more of a sensitive type and I LOVE it! I sleep well at night. Let the thugso be thugs! I do agree with you to a point, but I have to a consistent personality. I probably will have date a foreigner. I need to be more on the sensitive side 95% the time. I am a city bus driver and i MUST be an asshole sometimes to get the job done. I hac to beat a guys ass a couple of years back because he hit me when I was working. I enjoyed it, buy that was out of character to me.
That was a very good video series that you put together. IMO you have hit the nail on the head and what you have said has been reflected in my life experience. Keep up the good work!
@surshot56 Yes, I will be talking about a certain aspect of interracial dating in the near future, but in the meantime, you can always go to my video archive and check out the videos I did called "Race and Sexual Fetish" Parts ONE and TWO. Those videos (especially part two) get into some very weird and freaky observations I have made.
@JunebugO I think you left one group of guys out. The nonchalant guy. I always had a go with the flow kind of attitude which is attractive to some and not so attractive to others. I found that I had to find women like me in order for them to like me lol and I think that's more the key than anything else. Women who are earners tend to like men who are earners and those who can hustle. People who are able to do this do so because of attributes like confidence, and assertiveness.
If somebody threatened you in the bathroom, you would say, "If you hit me, I am gonna call the police" You aint a trick daddy, you just a trick. Women want a protector, financially and physically and be mad if you want, Carlton does not cut it.
Yeah you see em all the time with the droopy pants idiot on a fasttrack to nowhere.Couple yrs later they single pushing a stroller down the street 2 or 3 rugrats in their orbit talkin bout 'men are dogs' and 'where all da good men at'.Oh now you wanna smile? Now you wanna act nice? Think I'ma raise your little hoodlums? fuck outta here.
Helll i aint gon lie i love my confident kinda cocky (not too) guys not thugs who gon beat you up :P but i love my funny, talented, good looking, gentleman kinda guys but can be tough nd do what he do cuz he got me :)
That's why educated and decent black men date/marry non-black women. I'm a senior in college and most of the black men that I see on campus (which aren't many to begin with) tend to date non-black women. I'm not trying to bash all black women but you can't deny the common trend of black women dating low-life thugs. When these thugs beat, impregnate, and ultimately abandon them with 3 kids they wonder why they can't find a decent man. By this time it's too late. No man a bust-down brawd.
@Thedarksecret1 Well said, that is so true. I see that nonsense all the time, and it never makes any sense at all. You'll see this beautiful woman with a piece of trash, and find yourself asking "how the hell did this criminal bastard get her"? I hate that shit man! A scumbag can get respect, but a decent man can't.
Black women ar obsessed with the word strong. Either they are going on and on about being strong or they ar looking for this strong black man. I think some black women are over aggressive anyway. I am african and in other culture, I don't here women going on and on about strong men and strong women
Hey junebug, Ive summed some of your theories and other people with knowledge (FJ shark) on woman
1. Woman like bad boys because they are unpredictable. (variable behaviour)
Now if I look at woman, They always buy clothes that they dont even wear later on sometimes. This makes you think that they get BORED with the first clothes wich they have bought. Later on they buy new clothes again, and get BORED again.
Hey junebug, Ive summed some of your wisdom and other people with knowledge (FJ shark) on woman
1. Woman like bad boys because they are unpredictable. (variable behaviour)
Now if I look at woman, They always buy clothes that they dont even wear later on sometimes. This makes you think that they get BORED with the first clothes wich they have bought. Later on they buy new clothes again, and get BORED again.
Most if not all your statement is either wrong and simply a weak assumption, unless you are strictly referring to African American women. Which in most cases is true because the AA women tend to be the victim of their own environment- if you do not come from a nuclear family, an absent dad, mom, or support system, from rough urban setting, a hard life with little financial support and/or countless short comings
. So it is expect that are attractive to the type of people in their environment and/or culture. The drug dealer, the brute animal abuser, the liar, cheater, liquor store rubber, unemployed type, etc.., but truth be told, most black women are not emotionally stable or happy to have germane judgment considering the numerous crux they face on a daily basis.
wow, at least we can agree that there are so many beautiful women in the world. i do see that women go for the jerk types. sure they go almost always toward ike turners, but there r other factors. things that would attract men, i would go into detail, but not my vid. for ex. women go BEJABBERS 4 a nice chiseled body and sense of security from power that allows women 2 put up with lots of stuff . vid was funny, but not really informative.
Good series. Do believe I'll subscribe. Last summer I was in a situation where a 'ghetto' didn't want to be with me and would rather date thug types. It was frustrating (especially since we had a few dates). I've since reformatted how I approach such situations and this series backs up my own conclusions.
@Kalyx Thanks, bro. I appreciate the feedback and make sure you also check out my video entitled, "DOES HER SEXUAL PAST MATTER?" It's important for us to remind ourselves of some of the points I made in that video because sometimes we lose focus when a woman is good in bed.
awhile back, I remember dating this fine half white/colombian mami who was so nice, she appreciated me( unlike some women-lol!), good conversation ,and homegirl got a donk on her like blidd-ow! she gave me some good oral sex , after that she bend over her big booty, and i banged her doggystyle more than 1 time- it was awesome! she enjoyed me too!-now that's what's up! I am getting me some more!
I am not completely given up on sistas but those dirty low-down type 1's can get screwed over by dem no good type of dudes if they choose. That's their choice, not mine. Just they like dont care 4 me , I don't care about them either, them filthy malevolent dirty skanks can suffer. those rotten b words-lol! i feel they could be straight up about things too instead of breaking these dudes heart and making some of them view them as lying mean b's who they can't trust.
i remember when i responded to this entry, i was like f dem rotten type women aka filthy mean hood b@#tches because of them dissing nice or polite type guys but i am still like screw those b words-lol 4their unnecessary lying, thievery, evil type tendencies and flat-out rude rejection. i see that dem witches aint worth my time or energy. i don't even try to figure them out. i'm like whatever, some other women get 2 enjoy the prize and the size!-lol!
Making money and building a successful career will make you more confident and women love confidence. Don't follow the crowd, be your own man. Don't focus on the women that don't like you, focus on the women that like you.
Truer words have never been spoken. Men need to aim to be their own alpha male. You don't need to be attached to women, if I like a girl I'll stop by and see her or call her when I feel like it. If you call her everday or visit her at work everday, you look needy. Which is an undesirable trait. You need to take care of your appearance, dress nice, build muscle and strive to be intelligent. Take charge but don't control. I'm black but I like all types of women. Too many to choose from lol
WTF!!!! up with these women not only black women but women in general some guy fucks them over royally and they let this guy slide like a mutha#&@%$@, but some guy with a heart and soul comes along and they don't give him an inch to fuckup. Not to mention by the time the asshole is through with em there so mentally and sometimes physically fucked up I wouldn't touch em with a rat's dick so WTF up with these crazy women!!!!!
My friend, do you have anymore videos about this subject, your really good. You take the words out of my mouth when it comes wit women. I myself is between not a nerd and not a thug and your right maybe I should date women outside this country cause I get rejected way too much for no reason and I know I look good. anyway But your right on point shalom.
@7thpowerable Thank you for watching and leaving your feedback. I don't have any other videos on this particular subject, but it may be something I will get deeper into in the future. Stay tuned.
You couldn't pay me to date a thug because they go to jail and get raped in their booty hole or they're the ones thats raping dudes. So BLACK WOMAN, date a thug if you want to and you will end up with the HIV. Why the heck yall think they sagg their pants all the time. LOL!!! If you don't believe me, check out this tv show called "The DL Chronicles"!
video was real talk.. i'm 25 i've been through the urkel thing but recently gotten better with girls.. a lot of what makes u more attractive with girls is ur wording.. like instead of saying "can i have ur number" u can say "you should give me your number" .. u know, like just talk with more emphasis and walk with more emphasis.. like if she's in ur way don't wait for her to move, just put ur hand on her and say excuse me.. be forceful but sensitive at the same time.. again.. real talk good vid
@JunebugObama LOL( Pt.1) What you say in your 3 pt. series is has very very good points.I early in my life was the steve eurkel type, complimenting women tryin to be romantic openin doors etc., etc., etc. Now in my early 30's I've notice when i talk to women a certain way meanin like (what do you want?) (why r you here?) ( I don't care what you think!!) BUTT
@JunebugObama (Pt.2) I don't totally disrespect them but @ the same time their wants and thought r not high on list. They do get mad to the point of walkin away then 5 MINS LATER THEY COME RIGHT BAC LIKE NOTHING HAPPEND!!!! Bac in the day in my teens & 20's if i treated they with any respect they look me like a sucka & leave AND WONT TALK TO ME AGAIN!!! so i hav from steve to a Stepan( Steve alter ego) but wit an attitude.A Stephan is closer to the middle without goin over i think.
I have to agree, women do take niceness and kindness for weakness. For whatever reason, they gravitate towards the opposite. The label of a nice guy carries a stigma in the black community and if she is a trophy chick, forget about it.
"Most men don't know how to be in the center of the spectrum." I agree wholeheartedly. Excellent video series. I think we all need to work on ourselves as a people. More men need to understand & employ in their own lives what it means to be a man. A masculine, confident, & successful MAN. I think with some self reflection & improvement, we will see some great change in the Black community on both sides. Thank you for this enlightening & mature video. Most dudes on YT aren't as smooth as you are.
The only thing i agree with this video is look for Black Women who are not American. God damn what a difference. Isn't it amazing that striving to be smart means your "weak" Sorry man but if im pulling 70k with a degree and a thug is flipping burgers at Mcdonals women will notice.
You have to be in the military to meet non american black women. When I was stationed in Germany, I dated a Somolian woman, and she was fine as hell. Down to earth and real easy to get along with. Her father did'nt like me, so that was the factor in her not comming back to the States with me. But I wish I could go back.
well if you mean b%&ches don't want a intelligent, talented upper middleclass brotha that is headed to higher economical standards than that is on them. i don't want to be bothered with yall low-self esteem having borderline lesbians anyway-lol you meanies. i am pretty much done with alot of you evil hoodrat habitual lying gameplaying skank trash-screw all of yall mean b**ches. i am moving on 2 some other flavors of women-lol!
lol, i care-lol, i end up finding that out the ahrd waywhen i had went to the club weeks ago and these evil rotten b@#ches had rejected me for thug cats that would just dance on them withoutout saying anything, and they had started banging them crazily hard like they were just nothing , and when i would approach these mean rejectful b%&ches would discriminate against me because i was educated-lol-ignorant mean hoodrats-lol
the hard way * when i had went to the club that these mean women only or have inclination towards thugs and not educated bruthas but it is aaight. i going for women in other races who appreciate bruthas like me and some black women who will appreciate me and benefit more from a handsome brutha like myself - dang some of your sistas missed out but it is do to your own ignorance-screw yall evil mean women- i am moving on you mean b*@ches!-lol-peace 2 yall women who really show me love-one love
JunebugO, excellent topic. You hit the nail on the head in all three parts. I'm not black (I'm Salvi as per my name Colonia IVU) but I do love beautiful black women and I can personally attest to Ethiopian women being grade A poon. I as well used to be a poindexter in a sea of thugs, but by hanging out with guys who were successful with women I learned how to, as you said, lean toward the masculine side. This education you're giving should be mandatory for all young men because it's the truth.
well at least their not as worst as white people who shoot up schools and have incest sex with thier fuckin kids and is looked at by the whole damn world as evil. so white people and the rest of this fake ass society are even more messed up!! ha ha ha ha ha!
I'm the guy in the middle. But black women call a brotha like me metrosexual? What In The Hell Does That Mean? Fellas, just stay the hell who you are. If you have to change your character just to get with a black woman then your failing yourself. A man who looses money, looses nothing. A man who looses his life looses something. But if a man looses his character, he looses everything.
You're right you don't need to change the core of yourself. That's not what junebug was advocating. He's not saying that if your true nature is that of a gentlemen or a nice guy that you should change that.
The problem a lot of nice guys have is being unassertive, overly sensitive, and weak. Those are character flaws. If a nice guy has those flaws he should try to strengthen and improve the power of his personality.
Enhancing your personality is like tightening the bolts on your character. You become stronger, more masculine, more assertive, and more influential. Qualities that not only women find attractive but everyone finds attractive.
That's why cats like Denzel and Billy D (oldskool) are admired by men and women. When a so-called nice guy refuses to change he is sulking in his pity. His pity is the woman who comforts him. As long as you are comforted by your pity you will never change.
im a nice guy and have been with girls who are usually attracted to thugs. It's like later on in the relationships they want to end it because i don't curse at them or i don't sag my pants all the way to my butt and things of that nature. ME, i just move on because i think it's just a whole process of trail and error and eventually i know that right one will come along
ah my guy those same women that wanted to it end up in situations thats less than desirable and guess what!!! you'll get a call on ur cell a few years later and to your suprise its them! yea they may have a couple of babies from dudes that are so called thuggish in swagger but somehow thing didn't pan out...now all of a sudden they looking for a good man...hmmm! do you my dude and keep it 100 with yourself, everything els going to pan out
fa sho man...i not gone even trip over it no more because later on in life they gone come running and it's gone be too late cause ima have me a LADY......notice i said LADY...not some lil girl
Another great video, Junebug. In listening to this video, I was thinking about how you mentioned(2:00-2:35) how good/weak men are sometimes the result of being raised by their mother.
Some mother's raise their sons to be respectable gentlemen. Even though they would know from their experience growing up that younger women aren't necessarily into those type of men. For most men to get some understanding of women, they either learn through trial and error. Or from another experience male.
Junebug, the videos where off the hook! I listened with interest because, as a non-thug, I want to improve my chances with black women. However, you spent more time describing the problem and glossed over the solution. Your entire thesis is: by exuding confidence, assertiveness and some sensitivity (leaning toward Ike Turner) you can become successful with women. Right? And this is what you did right? Why didn't you spend more time talking about what you did to become successful with women?
bantousy, thanks for watching, and yes, there is definitely more details for me to go into. Over the course of time, I will re-visit the subject and tackle all of the different aspects of what it takes to become more successful with women. Each aspect is an individual subject in and of itself and deserves it's own video to adequately explain.
Right on. The so-called "nice guys" need to wake up and realize they're part of the problem, maybe moreso than the women.
DoubleA9211 1 month ago
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It seems like If you're a BM who goes to jail for 4 years instead of college, you'll will have more BW then you know what to do with when you come out of prison. BM have to behave violently to impress BW. But if more BW denounced those men who behave like that, the violence would slowly evaporate. Never dumb yourself down or engage in criminal activity to get black women to notice you as you'll be in for a huge disappointment. Black women like Black men who need help or need to be saved.
TimAmerica1000 1 month ago
And if you say that the Ike Turner type dudes need to mellow down, what would be the point in doing so if that sort of behavior gets them pussy on a consistent basis? Sure there are some black women who take midway brothas but one would have to be blind not to notice that a significant majority of black women who are attractive and desirable tend to like guys who are either very dangerous, extremely popular, or just a societal drop out. And it's surely because brothas aren't hard enough.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
More to the point, how is it that alot of white men who date black women are often nerdy, corny, short, and have many of the qualities black women claim they disdain in "nerdy" black men yet they accept these same white dudes with open arms? This whole "too corny" line only seems applicable to black men.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
Once again, I can't help noticing that you seem to group all black men who have trouble with the sistas as the Steve Urkel type. And while that agree that whining about thugs is useless and won't change women anytime soon, I think you're alleviating alot of blame from women when you say that it's not them men these days are just too weak so they only have thugs to turn towards. That's true in SOME aspects but it's not THE TRUTH.
gwynplane723 1 month ago
Women are just stupid, irrational and illogical. We all know about the bitches who wanted to fuck the serial killer Richard Ramirez back in the '80s. You can take it to the bank that thousands of women, educated and from the hood, will support and write love letters to Jerome Isaac, the guy who recently burned to death a 73 year old woman.
dizzymasekela 2 months ago in playlist More videos from JunebugObama
@dizzymasekela You know, a lot of thugs/bad boys do acts that get them respect. A guy comes up behind someone and shoots him in the head and people think he is a "bad so and so". Or a group of guys jump on one person and they get a rep. These acts are cowardly yet people of this sort are held in high-esteem.
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago
The so-called "nice guys" will evolve...
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago
Wow, this is amazing. Men should put on a false persona (i.e. get more 'BET thuggish') just to get with a whore (I say 'whore' because you're sure not going to find a woman with any class who will only talk to you if you're acting like a BET thug)! Man, I'm glad I was able to find a beautiful black wife who loves me "for being ME," ... not a fictitious character. I'm not on either end of the SCALE. I'm just me, and wouldn't want to be anybody else for all the money or women in the world. Be U!
enlightenedchild 2 months ago
@enlightenedchild This video series was aimed at the men who say, "ALL black women want is thugs!" In this series I prove that is not entirely true. Black women will get with a normal, average, everyday guy (LIKE YOU) as long as he is not a weak pushover or a wussy.
YOU are not a thug and YOU found a black woman so you are proof that what I said in my video is correct.
JunebugObama 2 months ago
all black bitches do is complain about how there is no good men around I guess so when they are fucking and sucking thugs and losers
noremorse2012 2 months ago
I agree with you on everything you've said and you've taken my own words out of my mouth especially on the scale, however I would have put Ike, Denzel and Will all at the top but had two sides with a zero in the middle. They have the courage and the swagger and the choice to veer to the negative or positive is theirs. -10,-5,0,+5, +10. One last thing, the Tupac pictures disturbed me because he was not one dimensional like most so called thugs. He had depth and was a poet.
TheWorldMovesWithYou 3 months ago
your absolutely corrrect
91539able 3 months ago in playlist More videos from JunebugObama
Part 2. If a girl started to see the DUMB THUGS ain't no good they will start dating SMART THUGS and little do she know the SMART THUG will do her just as bad as the DUMB THUG so she ain't go want a man after that. even if he is a good man, and me I hope I will never turn out to be a DUMB THUG with multiple baby mothers.
TevinGMedia 4 months ago
There is A big difference between SMART THUGS and DUMB THUGS..... I consider myself a SMART thug because I ain't finna put up with nobody's BULLSHIT I don't do dumb SHIT and spend multiple years in prison I go to school I do go out and have a good time when I can, I don't smoke I am okay with with women with tattoos I tho I don't wear em.
TevinGMedia 4 months ago
what is with these women's asses they r huge, butt injections?
wiggie666 4 months ago
fuck these cum swallowing black bitches
noremorse2012 4 months ago
Hahha- thats so funny. You are like the Black Version of me- it´t like the words come exactly come out of my mouth- only that mine are German. Strange. Keep up the good work
I will post your video to my newsletterlist and on my Facbook page.
seductioncoach 4 months ago
@seductioncoach Thanks...I guess some of these concepts are universal.
JunebugObama 4 months ago
10 ppl like thugs
kkdb22 4 months ago
your know , JuneBugObama , you have successfully summarised the million dollar pickup industry. I tore through those stuffs 2 years ago , but since then , ive developed my own mindset that gave me the concrete confidence and happiness with just being me. You have squeezed out the most imjportant gist of that whole shebang money cow industry within 30 minutes. reposted , subscribed , thumbs-upped.
hendsem 5 months ago
@hendsem My experience with the pickup industry is similar to yours in the since that it served a purpose in my life at one time and ultimately I ended up improving myself but leaving the info behind and being happy with the sum total of who I am as a man. I appreciate the feedback.
JunebugObama 5 months ago
Yeah,it's called "Being Gay"!
Pimpczar2011 5 months ago
Everything Junebug's saying in this series is 100% correct. It really is unfortunate that a certain mindset of black women do find thug-type men attractive and desirable, but that is the case.
Personally, I've found that it works better to deal with women who think more of themselves and want better out of life, than to try to change my ways and become more "thuggish" in order to attract them. Those types of women tend to be losers. Not the kind of woman I want in my life anyway.
rayhend100 6 months ago
Damn Junebug, are you a barber? Lol.
JamesYoungTV 6 months ago
I LOVE IKE TURNER AND DENZEL!
TrueW0man247 6 months ago
@TrueW0man247 You like both of these guys? Okay...answer this. If you were trapped on an island with Ike Turner and Denzel and they said, "We're not going to share you. Make a choice!" Which of these men would you pick?
JunebugObama 6 months ago
@JunebugObama IKE!!
TrueW0man247 6 months ago
Im going to Ethiopia!!!!!!!!!!!!1
odgang19 6 months ago
Look, only Brasil will save us... Brasil!!! Experiencing Rio, you will come back desensitized.. Zero tolerance.. I dont give a damn if Bey came up and said "step up ur game, and we can do something".. You'll tell that broad to kiss ur ass.lol.. However, Salvador, Bahia............................... You wont come back.. women/culture/knowledge..
ogounlurker 6 months ago
I date out of my race a lot so I don't get the crap from american sisters. And I love women from other nations.
erictbrown1 6 months ago
PREACH, brotha Junebug. Fuck Oprah. We need to get you on TV to school these fools
Vergadoce 6 months ago
All in all long as you value your manhood you can get any woman of choice!
stanley2e 7 months ago
@CarnardP
And Wayne aint no thugs either. Jeezy acts like a thug but really aint but i dont know about Trick Daddy.
MaadAzzGang 7 months ago
@CarnardP
No the difference is that 2pac wasn't a thug..2pac was an ENTERTAINER acting like a thug. 2pac my dude and all (musically) but 2pac wasn't no damn thug. That's the problem with black women..take waaay too much shit from TV.
MaadAzzGang 7 months ago
Why do so many of you black women go out and have babies by these sorry ass no good bombs???
Twoodssax1234567 7 months ago
I wish I had the internet when I was young. I could have used this information then.
chiefal35 8 months ago
Good videos, but what happened to part 1 in this series?
ornitorrinco01 8 months ago
@ornitorrinco01 Ignore that question, I found it.
ornitorrinco01 8 months ago
wussy!! lmao!!! I have always been in the center...Jim Brown/Bill Cosby type. The generation thing plays a role as well.You never want to be Urkel..period. Gotta take charge fellas!! Ride the rhythm!
unique74muzik 8 months ago
Great program! I enjoyed all of your series brother. This is true, a man have to approach a woman with confidence in himself, she is searching for a good leader.
MrLawrence7777 9 months ago
Thugs dont have confidence; they use aggression as a tool to interact with the world. It's the only way they know how, and it's hard to learn otherwise, or even want to. On the other hand, a confident guy can be kind, because he is not relying on aggression to be his strength.
33melonpaws77 9 months ago 4
love this video:) it's like I already knew it, but I needed to hear it. Thugs are like crack. You know it's bad for you, but one day your self esteem is low and you let your guard down and become curious...before you know it- you're CAUGHT UP w some bs thug guy!
SazonDReyes 9 months ago
3:20 WOW!!!!!!!!!
ether150 9 months ago
True words spoke Junebug
Concussion2 10 months ago
a lot of what you said is very true. I like your series.
but...lol. I am a latina/african american woman and i do not like thugs at all. never have and never will. fortunately my grandfather and uncles raised me and taught me what to look for in a man. my husband is a very "corny" man. he knows slang, but he knows that i don't understand what he's saying at all.
anyway good series, have a wonderful year! tchau!
mrskaylee640 10 months ago
@mrskaylee640 Well, I'm glad to hear that you chose a "corny" man and found happiness. You are a smart lady. All the best to you.
JunebugObama 10 months ago
@JunebugObama thugs and n*ggas are pussies too. They either shoot, stab, or jump whoever they fight with
kkdb22 4 months ago
My wife argues wit me about bein more agressive and that makes me wanna go upside her head so thank you for this video I can play over and over
phillipakapedo916 10 months ago
You give the greatest advice..keep it up! you really helping us brothas out.lol
KINGSHELLZ101 10 months ago
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LOL! how often do you see asian women talk about needing a man to match and tame her rude, masculine attitude? ( personally, I have never seen it. lol)
How often do you see family oriented african women claim that they need their rude behavior challenged? "NEVER" sounds like a good answer.
The same goes for many european and south american women as well.
And now we get to black american women. . . and the game changes . . . unfortunately, for the worst! LOL!
realmanallen73 11 months ago
well i never been attracted to thugs!!!! yuck!!!!!!!!!!!!! i like sweet smart guys
650Pisces 11 months ago
Thumbs Up If Your About To Date Women From Other Countries LMAO!!! Fuck Trying To Change Your Ways For These Black American Women.
SuperJayZFan1 1 year ago 10
@SuperJayZFan1 haha then dont date a blk girl haha
650Pisces 11 months ago
@SuperJayZFan1 I'm glad he mentioned that because when I was in college I noticed that. Any girl regardless of nationality that came to this country to study was MUCH different than the females in this country. But this only shows how powerful socialization and more specific the MEDIA influences attraction. Attraction is a fad, it is heavily influenced by the arts, when I say arts I mean fashion, movies, and music.
ralx225b 11 months ago
Great, great video. Very informative and logically presented regarding dating and women. Keep up the good work.
goscott2 1 year ago
It's more about do you have structure, core values, or a foundation that a woman can trust for her survival and in some cases to prosper. It's not the thug persona that young women find romantic but it is the unwavering confidence that so-called thugs display that give them confidence for their survival.
chri8067 1 year ago
Guys go after the kim kardashians, melyssa fords and expect for these females to be good girls. These type of chicks are just after money (most of them) and the average woman gets used. Good video by the way
xugrl2010 1 year ago
this sum real talk. but uhh.. really. dont this just show how dumb women are ? why they want a thug ? dumb
godflowdorian 1 year ago
Enjoyed your video, thanks for spreading the word that the average woman is not attracted to thuggish behavior.
CharesesPieces 1 year ago
Man, where was this video 10-15 years ago? I could've used this...
ratesforless 1 year ago
I think some of these pictures of these black women have been photoshopped.
JesusChrist5000 1 year ago
You know what I find Sad.. If a BW refuses to date these "low life thugs" then She gets told "your standards are to high" "your unrealistic" or the good old "gold digger" comments... Trying to find that inbetween is really hard in some areas...lol.. Then when these "thugs" get with White women they say "she accepts me for who I am"....this is such a tangled web.
lanabana123 1 year ago
i HATE BEING AN ASSHOLE! I am more of a sensitive type and I LOVE it! I sleep well at night. Let the thugso be thugs! I do agree with you to a point, but I have to a consistent personality. I probably will have date a foreigner. I need to be more on the sensitive side 95% the time. I am a city bus driver and i MUST be an asshole sometimes to get the job done. I hac to beat a guys ass a couple of years back because he hit me when I was working. I enjoyed it, buy that was out of character to me.
nneo100 1 year ago
That was a very good video series that you put together. IMO you have hit the nail on the head and what you have said has been reflected in my life experience. Keep up the good work!
implerazure 1 year ago
@implerazure Thanks, I am glad to hear that some folks can understand and relate.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
@JunebugObama Great series!! Are you thinking of doing some videos on interracial couples?
surshot56 1 year ago
@surshot56 Yes, I will be talking about a certain aspect of interracial dating in the near future, but in the meantime, you can always go to my video archive and check out the videos I did called "Race and Sexual Fetish" Parts ONE and TWO. Those videos (especially part two) get into some very weird and freaky observations I have made.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
@JunebugO I think you left one group of guys out. The nonchalant guy. I always had a go with the flow kind of attitude which is attractive to some and not so attractive to others. I found that I had to find women like me in order for them to like me lol and I think that's more the key than anything else. Women who are earners tend to like men who are earners and those who can hustle. People who are able to do this do so because of attributes like confidence, and assertiveness.
raventakayama 11 months ago
If somebody threatened you in the bathroom, you would say, "If you hit me, I am gonna call the police" You aint a trick daddy, you just a trick. Women want a protector, financially and physically and be mad if you want, Carlton does not cut it.
Mbetserai 1 year ago
The great irony of this video is that Jaleel White, who played Steve Urkel, got arrested for domestic violence.
iwishiwasthemoon87 1 year ago 5
nicely put!!!
glasscitadel12 1 year ago
LMS! SWAGGER! SWAAAAAAGGGEEER!
candylaurenkaryn 1 year ago
u alrite my nigga keep up da gud work i actualli did learn somethin from yr video, gok work my nigga
movadex 1 year ago
Yeah you see em all the time with the droopy pants idiot on a fasttrack to nowhere.Couple yrs later they single pushing a stroller down the street 2 or 3 rugrats in their orbit talkin bout 'men are dogs' and 'where all da good men at'.Oh now you wanna smile? Now you wanna act nice? Think I'ma raise your little hoodlums? fuck outta here.
Alphaomega150 1 year ago
@Alphaomega150 lol
teddyd14 1 year ago
Helll i aint gon lie i love my confident kinda cocky (not too) guys not thugs who gon beat you up :P but i love my funny, talented, good looking, gentleman kinda guys but can be tough nd do what he do cuz he got me :)
ilikethewordrandom 1 year ago
That's why educated and decent black men date/marry non-black women. I'm a senior in college and most of the black men that I see on campus (which aren't many to begin with) tend to date non-black women. I'm not trying to bash all black women but you can't deny the common trend of black women dating low-life thugs. When these thugs beat, impregnate, and ultimately abandon them with 3 kids they wonder why they can't find a decent man. By this time it's too late. No man a bust-down brawd.
Thedarksecret1 1 year ago 22
@Thedarksecret1 truth spoken my friend. Well said
teddyd14 1 year ago
@Thedarksecret1 Well said, that is so true. I see that nonsense all the time, and it never makes any sense at all. You'll see this beautiful woman with a piece of trash, and find yourself asking "how the hell did this criminal bastard get her"? I hate that shit man! A scumbag can get respect, but a decent man can't.
kltiswhoib 10 months ago
damn dude if you dont already you should write books
AGElite87 1 year ago
Black women ar obsessed with the word strong. Either they are going on and on about being strong or they ar looking for this strong black man. I think some black women are over aggressive anyway. I am african and in other culture, I don't here women going on and on about strong men and strong women
ctibaga 1 year ago
real talk!
super9964 1 year ago
fuck women, i got better things to concentrate on (LET THE HATING BEGIN!!! FAGGOTS)
antdez1 1 year ago
aw stop baggin on steve hes ot a pussy lol he just needs a gurl desperatly nd i wouldnt walk all over him;D
jacoblover38 1 year ago
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dualshock3 1 year ago
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@junebugObama.
Hey junebug, Ive summed some of your theories and other people with knowledge (FJ shark) on woman
1. Woman like bad boys because they are unpredictable. (variable behaviour)
Now if I look at woman, They always buy clothes that they dont even wear later on sometimes. This makes you think that they get BORED with the first clothes wich they have bought. Later on they buy new clothes again, and get BORED again.
Endless boredom..
dualshock3 1 year ago
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@junebugObama.
Hey junebug, Ive summed some of your wisdom and other people with knowledge (FJ shark) on woman
1. Woman like bad boys because they are unpredictable. (variable behaviour)
Now if I look at woman, They always buy clothes that they dont even wear later on sometimes. This makes you think that they get BORED with the first clothes wich they have bought. Later on they buy new clothes again, and get BORED again.
Endless boredom..
dualshock3 1 year ago
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dualshock3 1 year ago
Fact: Bitches Go For Thugs and Ladies Go For Real Men...Getcha mind right.
Soultourist 1 year ago
@Soultourist more bitches than ladies SO THE RULE STANDS BITCH!!! :P
antdez1 1 year ago
not all of us want thugs or bad boys thank God
tdbrown88tdb 1 year ago
Most if not all your statement is either wrong and simply a weak assumption, unless you are strictly referring to African American women. Which in most cases is true because the AA women tend to be the victim of their own environment- if you do not come from a nuclear family, an absent dad, mom, or support system, from rough urban setting, a hard life with little financial support and/or countless short comings
Gluluman 1 year ago
. So it is expect that are attractive to the type of people in their environment and/or culture. The drug dealer, the brute animal abuser, the liar, cheater, liquor store rubber, unemployed type, etc.., but truth be told, most black women are not emotionally stable or happy to have germane judgment considering the numerous crux they face on a daily basis.
Gluluman 1 year ago
wow, at least we can agree that there are so many beautiful women in the world. i do see that women go for the jerk types. sure they go almost always toward ike turners, but there r other factors. things that would attract men, i would go into detail, but not my vid. for ex. women go BEJABBERS 4 a nice chiseled body and sense of security from power that allows women 2 put up with lots of stuff . vid was funny, but not really informative.
shazzaforeverthabest 1 year ago
Damn, I'm not Black but I would marry and have kids with that woman at the 8:00 minute mark.
Viktir666 1 year ago
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ScholaroftheDay21 1 year ago
@Viktir666 Well I am Black, and that woman you were talking about is Esther. Isn't she absolutely beautiful?
ScholaroftheDay21 1 year ago
@ScholaroftheDay21 Hell yeah!
Viktir666 1 year ago
you speak nothing but the TRUTH! IM on board as a new subscriber as well :) Im a black woman and I agree with this vid. GOD bless you!!
bRoWn3y3dGuRl17 1 year ago
@bRoWn3y3dGuRl17 Thank you...I call it as I see it.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
great vidz keep it up iam subscribing loooooooooool :)
t3ddyb3ar2k8 1 year ago
Dont cha hate it when you make a video but you have people that take what you saying out of context and unsubscribe.lol It happened to me too.
7thpowerable 1 year ago
@7thpowerable LOL! Yeah, I don't hate it as much now. I'm used to it.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
@JunebugObama i get what your saying but all lot of women like ovely sensitive guys too look at michael jackson
SSJasonX 1 year ago
Good series. Do believe I'll subscribe. Last summer I was in a situation where a 'ghetto' didn't want to be with me and would rather date thug types. It was frustrating (especially since we had a few dates). I've since reformatted how I approach such situations and this series backs up my own conclusions.
Kalyx 1 year ago
@Kalyx Thanks, bro. I appreciate the feedback and make sure you also check out my video entitled, "DOES HER SEXUAL PAST MATTER?" It's important for us to remind ourselves of some of the points I made in that video because sometimes we lose focus when a woman is good in bed.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
@JunebugObama I will.
Kalyx 1 year ago
awhile back, I remember dating this fine half white/colombian mami who was so nice, she appreciated me( unlike some women-lol!), good conversation ,and homegirl got a donk on her like blidd-ow! she gave me some good oral sex , after that she bend over her big booty, and i banged her doggystyle more than 1 time- it was awesome! she enjoyed me too!-now that's what's up! I am getting me some more!
Hafdav1999 1 year ago
I am not completely given up on sistas but those dirty low-down type 1's can get screwed over by dem no good type of dudes if they choose. That's their choice, not mine. Just they like dont care 4 me , I don't care about them either, them filthy malevolent dirty skanks can suffer. those rotten b words-lol! i feel they could be straight up about things too instead of breaking these dudes heart and making some of them view them as lying mean b's who they can't trust.
Hafdav1999 1 year ago
i remember when i responded to this entry, i was like f dem rotten type women aka filthy mean hood b@#tches because of them dissing nice or polite type guys but i am still like screw those b words-lol 4their unnecessary lying, thievery, evil type tendencies and flat-out rude rejection. i see that dem witches aint worth my time or energy. i don't even try to figure them out. i'm like whatever, some other women get 2 enjoy the prize and the size!-lol!
Hafdav1999 1 year ago
Making money and building a successful career will make you more confident and women love confidence. Don't follow the crowd, be your own man. Don't focus on the women that don't like you, focus on the women that like you.
Tsugua21 1 year ago
Truer words have never been spoken. Men need to aim to be their own alpha male. You don't need to be attached to women, if I like a girl I'll stop by and see her or call her when I feel like it. If you call her everday or visit her at work everday, you look needy. Which is an undesirable trait. You need to take care of your appearance, dress nice, build muscle and strive to be intelligent. Take charge but don't control. I'm black but I like all types of women. Too many to choose from lol
bedllama 1 year ago
Yeah Tupac was a thug but he was also very passionate and sensitive at times.
Wordlaw12 1 year ago
WTF!!!! up with these women not only black women but women in general some guy fucks them over royally and they let this guy slide like a mutha#&@%$@, but some guy with a heart and soul comes along and they don't give him an inch to fuckup. Not to mention by the time the asshole is through with em there so mentally and sometimes physically fucked up I wouldn't touch em with a rat's dick so WTF up with these crazy women!!!!!
lewal1972 1 year ago 2
Great series... a new subscriber and I love what you're giving both the men and women here on YouTube. Gob Bless.
rtegonline 1 year ago
@rtegonline Thanks for the positive feedback and I appreciate having you as a subscriber. Welcome aboard.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
lol i need a chick from ova seas trust me man girls over seas will flok to you f*** women over here lol
ANDREW26101 1 year ago
Thugs do give a damn what people think about them, that's why they dress tough and act hard all the time, they are really scared alone.
HybridD91 1 year ago 7
@HybridD91 True!
thuglifegreg24 1 year ago
My friend, do you have anymore videos about this subject, your really good. You take the words out of my mouth when it comes wit women. I myself is between not a nerd and not a thug and your right maybe I should date women outside this country cause I get rejected way too much for no reason and I know I look good. anyway But your right on point shalom.
7thpowerable 1 year ago
@7thpowerable Thank you for watching and leaving your feedback. I don't have any other videos on this particular subject, but it may be something I will get deeper into in the future. Stay tuned.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
Thanks man
NewJackBaby 1 year ago
What are you talking about because I'm not
a thug but I ain't no Steve Urkel either, hell nah
I ain't no Ike Turner. Sure Denzel can balance it
out, I agree but you sound like some sexist
women should be able to choose their own men
BigHRD2 1 year ago
JunebugObama I hear ya, gotta
know how to talk to the sistas.
BigHRD2 1 year ago
You couldn't pay me to date a thug because they go to jail and get raped in their booty hole or they're the ones thats raping dudes. So BLACK WOMAN, date a thug if you want to and you will end up with the HIV. Why the heck yall think they sagg their pants all the time. LOL!!! If you don't believe me, check out this tv show called "The DL Chronicles"!
lonialee90 2 years ago
video was real talk.. i'm 25 i've been through the urkel thing but recently gotten better with girls.. a lot of what makes u more attractive with girls is ur wording.. like instead of saying "can i have ur number" u can say "you should give me your number" .. u know, like just talk with more emphasis and walk with more emphasis.. like if she's in ur way don't wait for her to move, just put ur hand on her and say excuse me.. be forceful but sensitive at the same time.. again.. real talk good vid
videoshirt 2 years ago 2
Thanks for the insight, brutha
tunit1000 2 years ago
You're welcome...there is plenty more to come.
JunebugObama 2 years ago
@JunebugObama LOL( Pt.1) What you say in your 3 pt. series is has very very good points.I early in my life was the steve eurkel type, complimenting women tryin to be romantic openin doors etc., etc., etc. Now in my early 30's I've notice when i talk to women a certain way meanin like (what do you want?) (why r you here?) ( I don't care what you think!!) BUTT
BHolley76 1 year ago
@JunebugObama (Pt.2) I don't totally disrespect them but @ the same time their wants and thought r not high on list. They do get mad to the point of walkin away then 5 MINS LATER THEY COME RIGHT BAC LIKE NOTHING HAPPEND!!!! Bac in the day in my teens & 20's if i treated they with any respect they look me like a sucka & leave AND WONT TALK TO ME AGAIN!!! so i hav from steve to a Stepan( Steve alter ego) but wit an attitude.A Stephan is closer to the middle without goin over i think.
BHolley76 1 year ago
I treat a bitch like 7up i never have i never will!
remstyle 2 years ago
I have to agree, women do take niceness and kindness for weakness. For whatever reason, they gravitate towards the opposite. The label of a nice guy carries a stigma in the black community and if she is a trophy chick, forget about it.
11966ericp 2 years ago
1:35 Denzel is the MAN!
vamtheanomaly 2 years ago
"Most men don't know how to be in the center of the spectrum." I agree wholeheartedly. Excellent video series. I think we all need to work on ourselves as a people. More men need to understand & employ in their own lives what it means to be a man. A masculine, confident, & successful MAN. I think with some self reflection & improvement, we will see some great change in the Black community on both sides. Thank you for this enlightening & mature video. Most dudes on YT aren't as smooth as you are.
coconisha85 2 years ago
Thanks for summing that up. Very well said.
JunebugObama 2 years ago
The only thing i agree with this video is look for Black Women who are not American. God damn what a difference. Isn't it amazing that striving to be smart means your "weak" Sorry man but if im pulling 70k with a degree and a thug is flipping burgers at Mcdonals women will notice.
tObYStryker 2 years ago
I agree with you 100%
You have to be in the military to meet non american black women. When I was stationed in Germany, I dated a Somolian woman, and she was fine as hell. Down to earth and real easy to get along with. Her father did'nt like me, so that was the factor in her not comming back to the States with me. But I wish I could go back.
southboy99 2 years ago 7
@southboy99 Right!
thuglifegreg24 1 year ago
well if you mean b%&ches don't want a intelligent, talented upper middleclass brotha that is headed to higher economical standards than that is on them. i don't want to be bothered with yall low-self esteem having borderline lesbians anyway-lol you meanies. i am pretty much done with alot of you evil hoodrat habitual lying gameplaying skank trash-screw all of yall mean b**ches. i am moving on 2 some other flavors of women-lol!
Hafdav1999 2 years ago 2
@Hafdav1999 I agree a million % you hit on the head some women love misery stay away from em!!!!!!!!
lewal1972 1 year ago
lol, i care-lol, i end up finding that out the ahrd waywhen i had went to the club weeks ago and these evil rotten b@#ches had rejected me for thug cats that would just dance on them withoutout saying anything, and they had started banging them crazily hard like they were just nothing , and when i would approach these mean rejectful b%&ches would discriminate against me because i was educated-lol-ignorant mean hoodrats-lol
Hafdav1999 2 years ago 3
the hard way * when i had went to the club that these mean women only or have inclination towards thugs and not educated bruthas but it is aaight. i going for women in other races who appreciate bruthas like me and some black women who will appreciate me and benefit more from a handsome brutha like myself - dang some of your sistas missed out but it is do to your own ignorance-screw yall evil mean women- i am moving on you mean b*@ches!-lol-peace 2 yall women who really show me love-one love
Hafdav1999 2 years ago
who cares
cupcakekandy 2 years ago
I do!!!
DredgePhantom 2 years ago
thats nice!!!
cupcakekandy 2 years ago
Alright...
DredgePhantom 2 years ago
JunebugO, excellent topic. You hit the nail on the head in all three parts. I'm not black (I'm Salvi as per my name Colonia IVU) but I do love beautiful black women and I can personally attest to Ethiopian women being grade A poon. I as well used to be a poindexter in a sea of thugs, but by hanging out with guys who were successful with women I learned how to, as you said, lean toward the masculine side. This education you're giving should be mandatory for all young men because it's the truth.
coloniaIVU 2 years ago 3
MAH BRUTHA AMEN
x01897 2 years ago
Okay but you blacks especially black guys love us white women. That is the bottom line! You think we are perfect.
tgk468 2 years ago
that's a bald face lie....alot of times black men be with white women cause they know they can get into you all's panties easily
teddyd14 2 years ago 4
I guess black guys hate all black women! Black people are so messed up!
tgk468 2 years ago
Is that what you got out of this vid or is your inner klansman showing.
DaSurreal1da 2 years ago
well at least their not as worst as white people who shoot up schools and have incest sex with thier fuckin kids and is looked at by the whole damn world as evil. so white people and the rest of this fake ass society are even more messed up!! ha ha ha ha ha!
ioneking 2 years ago
i pray that im not the last of a dying breed an apart of a new generation but there is a balance n i set it
koltari2 2 years ago
I'm the guy in the middle. But black women call a brotha like me metrosexual? What In The Hell Does That Mean? Fellas, just stay the hell who you are. If you have to change your character just to get with a black woman then your failing yourself. A man who looses money, looses nothing. A man who looses his life looses something. But if a man looses his character, he looses everything.
southboy99 2 years ago 4
i agree wit u bruh
teddyd14 2 years ago
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@southboy99
You're right you don't need to change the core of yourself. That's not what junebug was advocating. He's not saying that if your true nature is that of a gentlemen or a nice guy that you should change that.
The problem a lot of nice guys have is being unassertive, overly sensitive, and weak. Those are character flaws. If a nice guy has those flaws he should try to strengthen and improve the power of his personality.
calstate 2 years ago
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@southboy99
Enhancing your personality is like tightening the bolts on your character. You become stronger, more masculine, more assertive, and more influential. Qualities that not only women find attractive but everyone finds attractive.
That's why cats like Denzel and Billy D (oldskool) are admired by men and women. When a so-called nice guy refuses to change he is sulking in his pity. His pity is the woman who comforts him. As long as you are comforted by your pity you will never change.
calstate 2 years ago
im a nice guy and have been with girls who are usually attracted to thugs. It's like later on in the relationships they want to end it because i don't curse at them or i don't sag my pants all the way to my butt and things of that nature. ME, i just move on because i think it's just a whole process of trail and error and eventually i know that right one will come along
teddyd14 2 years ago 2
ah my guy those same women that wanted to it end up in situations thats less than desirable and guess what!!! you'll get a call on ur cell a few years later and to your suprise its them! yea they may have a couple of babies from dudes that are so called thuggish in swagger but somehow thing didn't pan out...now all of a sudden they looking for a good man...hmmm! do you my dude and keep it 100 with yourself, everything els going to pan out
TheLonewolf313 2 years ago 3
fa sho man...i not gone even trip over it no more because later on in life they gone come running and it's gone be too late cause ima have me a LADY......notice i said LADY...not some lil girl
teddyd14 2 years ago
@teddyd14 Im still hangin on to hope because my future wife is out there somewhere
gemini19662010 1 year ago
Another great video, Junebug. In listening to this video, I was thinking about how you mentioned(2:00-2:35) how good/weak men are sometimes the result of being raised by their mother.
Some mother's raise their sons to be respectable gentlemen. Even though they would know from their experience growing up that younger women aren't necessarily into those type of men. For most men to get some understanding of women, they either learn through trial and error. Or from another experience male.
ayers01 2 years ago
Junebug, the videos where off the hook! I listened with interest because, as a non-thug, I want to improve my chances with black women. However, you spent more time describing the problem and glossed over the solution. Your entire thesis is: by exuding confidence, assertiveness and some sensitivity (leaning toward Ike Turner) you can become successful with women. Right? And this is what you did right? Why didn't you spend more time talking about what you did to become successful with women?
bantousy 2 years ago
bantousy, thanks for watching, and yes, there is definitely more details for me to go into. Over the course of time, I will re-visit the subject and tackle all of the different aspects of what it takes to become more successful with women. Each aspect is an individual subject in and of itself and deserves it's own video to adequately explain.
JunebugObama 2 years ago