people cut to stop the mental pain because they can take the physical pain better than the mental pain den the mental pain comes back and so on dont judge people because dey cut itsmean and it will hurt der feelings and make people feel worse than they already do it will put people off telling,and things will just get worse do some research, ur friends need u and they turned to u 4 help u need to help them try to look at things from their point of view just dont say u need to stop tht dont help.
thank you so much for putting this video up. it really made me think about it. i was a cutter but with the help of a a friend i was able to overcome it. thanks again! :)
Because what your saying is exactly what I thought before I did it. Then I did it, I became addicted and now I totally understand everything, even though I know it's wrong.
I'm not saying "do it, you'll understand", I'm just saying that IF you would have done it, you would understand.
hopefully by now you understand a little more, i mean you are right on the bringing back memories part but other than that you couldnt be further off.
people cant just decided to stop its an addiction and its very hard to stop, i cut myself (i try not to because as you said it doesnt solve anything) but its incredibly hard especially when im in a depressed mood.
if you are in pain one day and its like beating something or throwing something that make you feel good for that time tell me when your mad you throw a book or something and its the same feeling but your hurting yourself
i guess i understand where your coming from with the whole "seeing the scars brings back memories" i agree when i see my scars its makes me more depressed that i did it.. but you gotta understand thats it an addiction and we are all different and have different ways of dealing with things
it doesn't solve any thing, i do it because im addicted. when you cut you feel a kind of high but not like a real high, you can cut for no reason people just do it. its hard to explain
I can see his point guys, back off a little. It's an addiction. When you cut, you don't think "This will hurt in future" it's just for the rush, of knowing you did it
i no when i cut i feel alive, instead of numb. its like a heroin addicted, if they dont have heroin, they dont feel, there fore u cant say dont do it bc if i dont, i will shut down... and as for scars, not every cut leaves one, but all my scars tell a story and yes thay do remind me of how much of a hell ive been through, i am not ashamed of my scar but i m proud of them. they are me, this is my life. Imnot afraid of who i m and im not afraid to show it. cutting is apart of me...
I hug all of you who are going through hellish times... be strong. Try your best to overcome your addiction, and steer yourselves onto a better path. I know it will be hard, but know that there are people out there that will wanna help you, and care about you. Find them. It will SERIOUSLY help you in the long run. Good luck! I'm keeping you guys in my prayers.
Jesus christ! Did you say like enought times?! If you don't cut yourself don't worry about it!!! And youbsaid your friends do? So go ask them and get your gay self of youtube. Ass hole.
Cutting is about the release it provides after you let everything go for some people and, for some it's about showing the pain they feel on the inside on the outside. What ever it is there's a reason and usually a though out reason. you can't just say stop. It doesn't work like that.
I don't cut.... My arms. I cut my hands which is some times dangerous, but I'm no retard and I know not to cut too deep.
for all the emo kids who are watching this if you cutt ur self because ur mom didnt make u a cookies for school or didnt watch u playing that dosnt mean perfect time to cut my self look at the kids in africa their parents leave them work on their own when their like 5 years old and do they cut them self ??? NO thats because they think tomorow is a better and they will think in the future like are u fuking stupid " my bf/gf broke up with me im gona put drill in my head" thats wrong guys comon!!!!
okayy like dude ur stupid ur just stupid u don't know wat ur even tlking about this video possibly makes self harmers or "cutters" feel like shit cuz ur saying cutting Is bad and don't do it. u can't just stop just like tht it takes time to most self harmers cutting is like a drug tht u gett addicted to so if u don't know wat the fuk u tlkin bout just stfu like really .
what is the point of this video? seriously. you have to know that you have no clue what your talking about. Did you really think your mindless babbling would really help someone in that much pain to stop cutting?
okay first of all saying dont do it wont help and i cut because stress and because people call me a whore and thay hit me and rape me and all this shit i have a horrible life and i hate it so cutting makes me feel something and it makes me feel like im dead when im not
its the emotional pain were hiding w those cuts. every cut means something. and no its not bad to be reminded of them. its a reminder of what youve overcome not what mistakes youve made. i just wanna say to all those who have overcome cutting, stand up and be proud of yourselves. not everyone can hold on that long. and to those who are still fighting that battle: be strong, keep youre head up and dont give up. life has its ups and downs, but its still worth living. there ARE people who care. :)
Thats offensive. People who do cut themselves have pain that they have to go through. And if you dont cut u dont understand....i cut myself and i'm just a young girl and do i care what people say about me? No because they dont have to go through my pain. and the scars once u stop those aren't going to remind u of the pain its going to make u feel strong that u came across that and u wont ever do that again. And a lot of cuts dont leave scars so dont judge cause u dont have to feel what we feel
for me the scars from cutting dont bring back that moment it accually helps me remember that i got through a tough time..and everyone who cuts themselves already knows everything u said in this video and they know they could cut the wrong spot n maby die but they just dont care...and for all you stupid people who do it for attention you can burn in hell becuase you make everyone who do it becuase there hurting feel bad....so if ur gonna do it for attention then just dont fucking do it
don't ppl know tht they could cut the wrong spot and kill themselves?! it's very serious and dangerous. what i do hate is tht some do it for attention, tht's stupid. it's sad tht putting yourself in physical harm seems to be the answer.
Okay, for one, ITS NOT ABOUT YOU. You don't understand because you don't understand. People have reasons, and saying don't do it, is physically impossible. So stop.
Some people cry, some people get high. Some people turn to sex, and some to alcohol. We turn to cutting. Yes! It is a Hellish cycle and our scars DO remind us, but it helps us stay calm. and it doesn't have to be on the arms. I've done it for 4 years on my legs.
@hoppetyhizzle you dont have a clue do you? do you have any idea how many kids, teens and adults who have loved ones take their lives because of stupid people like you!? its people like you that make this world that much harder to live in. youve obviously dont know what real sorrow and loss is. what goes around comes around my friend. god bless you and i hope and pray to god you open your heart and realize that just maybe, something you say might take a life. god bless.
@hoppetyhizzle Your just ignorant, and i'm sure you posted this to get people mad. I don't judge, but you are one of the most ignorant people i've ever seen. I'm guessing you've never cut, so you don't understand. I'm not going to even waste my typing space on you because your just a small minded, insensitive dick who doesn't even know what your talking about. Even though i really, really don't like you, i wouldn't ever wish the emotional and physical pain a cutter like me goes through. its hard
People who believe in cutting themselves is to actually let out their pain an anger and anxiety they feel inside because they feel no body will ever be there for you or to understand what emotional pain you are going through, so by cutting yourself, it gives relief of the emotional pain you are going through, to be fixated onto something else. It is like smoking, you smoke to take away your problems, it is an addiction.
all I can say is, for those who hold the knife and cut...they didn't make the scars, they just brought them to the surface....for people like you who are watching a friend, or stranger suffer..and you don't know what 2 say or how 2 approach it...well, refer to the beginning of this and re read it...welcome to a START of understanding....and then, go tell the person, with a touch and gentle squeeze on THAT arm, that you love them and you're there if they need to talk. Say no more, say no less.
no....it's a form of O.C.D. it's wearing what someone did to you on the inside..outside, hence the term "wearing your heart on your sleeve"
and...it is also wanting it OUT..the hurt, the silence, the stiffling, the even if I can tell you, you won't get it.... There is way more to it than the scars you see and are "embarrassed" for your friend to wear,... reasons are many, but I can tell u, whoever holds the scars and the knife..the cuts aren't from them.
I see a pretty boy suburban kid who gets presents from his parents and talks shit about topics which he has no experience with. Being sheltered isn't bad, but stay away from serious stuff, we will pull you into our hell just to make you scream. People don't cut themselves because they lost a toy little boy, they do it to make all the little dollies with the pointy teeth go away.
You don't know much.. Really. But I understand where your coming from being an outsider and all.
I cut myself, It's great at the time. The blood and everything. I'm so emersed in it i compleatly forget why I was pissed in the first place. Yes it's a full time addiction and I don't remember how it started... But I know for a fact that I really truly madly want to kill myself but if i do My mother would be srsly depressed. But if i cut myself... It's just better than suicide. But the regret...
its not about solving things its part of a mental disorder some people can not help it that just how some people cope about things..this offended me a little bit because i know when i freakout i just cant control it, its embarrassing and yes people are like oh my god you cut yourself its hurts a lot
i used to cut because I didnt know what else to do. It would be the pressure.. the intensity of the moment. most people who cut have mental issues, like me. severe depression bipolar. I would feel like I had nothing else, so I would hurt myself. we know its bad, but we dont care. life is too complicated, and youre looking at it with a simplistic view, in which you have no experience on the subject. dont tell somebody not to do it... listen to them. because thats what no one is doing.
my first time it was scary but then i saw the blood and i just fell on the floor laughing cause its like a release from all the stress and bad emotions in life. it's like cutting away all of that. not that people should do it but that's what it feels like. to help your friends, if you can, just give them a big hug and tell them that everything is going to work out cause i kno that's wat i hope some1 will do when i feel that way. it never does happen tho. that's y u need to do that for them :)
it is a release of feelings. and the scars can remind you that you're better off now. you really need to research self-injury. and don't talk about something you honestly don't understand
I do it because I enjoy pain, and half of the time when I listen to opinions I have to be drunk, in which case, I cut to the names I identify with. In other words, I love life, Fuck off, and either accept me for who I am or not. coincidentally I'm educated and fairly social.
Its an addiction that's hard to stop. I should know I have very bad depression problem's. It really does sucks. Srry I think u need to do more research.
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Cutting yourself is completely stupid. (I'm saying this based on why MY friends cut themselves.) People normally cut themselves because they got heartbroken, or they claim "nobody loves them", seriously. Grow up people.
um no sometimes the physical pain is better to handle than the emotional pain and if your friends only do it because of heartbreak then they are officially dumbasses i'm a cutter and i did because i wanted control and it was easier to handle the pain on my arm than what was going on in my head so before you open your mouth don't place everything from your friends
You are really hot. I must say, I used to cut myself & I don't know about anyone else but I did it because at the time I wanted to feel anything but the pain INSIDE so physical pain was a relief. I still do it sometimes, it's hard not to. If you want to help your friend then just be sensitive about everything, and try and be sympathetic. ♥
People do because of depression, if life gets that bad they end up doing it, People believe "emos" do it for attention because of stupid people that acctually do, do it for that reason. But i know people that have messed up lifes and have no one to go to that have cut them selves to stop themselves doing something more like suicide its a way they let there anger out. Some people suffer from mental illness wich leads to them cutting, i should know since ive done it. Research it dude.
Just so you don't get ripped on ruthlessly by others, do research on it first. That has been said in the other comments but seriously when talking about an issue this sensitive you have to know what you're talking about before posting it on Youtube. Because I was slightly offended, no more annoyed at the fact that you just don't understand and you're posting videos about it.
Ive cut for 6yrs. Its a rlly hard thing 2 have 2 deal w/. Its a coping mechanism tht I CHOSE, a bad decision for sure. I DONTthink its cool or show off. Im ashamed:( U do make some good points here BUT theres SO much 2 it. Cutting is an awful addiction tht might save a persons LIFE, like 4me, but at the same time it destroys it =[ Im stuck. I cant seem to stop now. Its so hard. I get called emo ALL of the time& Im NOT. The cruel looks &remarks hurt so bad. Its the hardest addiction ive evr faced
i have had a self harm problem for 10 years now...its a really hard to stop and no matter what happens no 1 but u can stop it..please before you make another vidoe can you look it up or not post it...because ur video is affending people!!!
yeah it does bring back the monent of cutting i cut really badly the other week and had to go to hospital but it helps is hard to understand even harder to understand if you do do it my arms are completly coverd in scars and i pissis me off but ill still do it somthings it feel like its all you have and im 16 ive been doing it for 3 years
in short i hate my self for doing it even tho ill still do it the scars are a right pain in the ass i find it hard to meet people im scared they find out
its addicting. once u start its very hard to stop. if u tried it u would understand. it relieves mental pain by transferring to physical pain. look it up.
@narniafan1015 It's an addiction you can quench in several healthy ways. The SAME EXACT endorphin rush you receive from cutting, you can also get from drinking hot sauce and/or exercising. There's literally no difference between the addictive parts of these activities.
By the way, cutting your flesh is probably the least efficient way to satisfy that addiction.
@SolidSnakeRules If you know so much about addiction, you would know that cutting yourself is an addiction that CAN'T be stopped easily. I'm guessing your not a cutter, so you don't understand the addiciton. You don't just wake up one morning and say "hey, i'm going to stop cutting myself today." It doesn't work like that. I understand that your saying cutting isnt healthy, and i agree it's not, but it's an addiction that sucks you in like an other drug. I cut, so i know what i'm talking about.
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i agree that my harming doesnt solve anything x but you obviously havent been there x i cant explain sorry x i was sexually abused and raped by my grandfather frequently for 5 years since i was 8 years old so just give us the benefit of the doubt and please don't judge me x i am still normal x somewhere...
i think for most people who cut themselves it's a control issue. they feel like they have no control over anything that happens in thier lives so they start cutting to feel some sense of control. the only problem is that cutting can become addicting so after you depend on cuttin,you're not really controling that aspect of your life either. i can relate to the control issue because i'm a recovering anorexic. it starts out as your way of having control over something&then turns into a disease.
i ask myself this stuff everyday. i personally think its for attention. but you people that "cut" know why i guess. but personally i like hitting/breaking shit. works for me.
ur so stupid i cut myself 33 times on my arms and my butt and your voice is so gay and u have girls hair bitch big bird u mother fucker im putting my midlle finger at u and at least i dont master bate
I was stuck in traffic yesterday and just kinda thought it would be fun to masturbate. It was sunny and clear out, so I was worried one of the other drivers would see me, but my Jeep is pretty high off the ground, so I think no one noticed. I busted a nut and aimed it down, ruining my tweety bird floor mat. I felt kinda stupid after and my mom kept silent the rest of the drive home. It was awkward and I regret it.
To answer your question, it solves a lot of problems in our lives. It makes the pain we don't want to feel inside go away. A lot of us don't feel in control, so we cut to HAVE control. It's an addiction, just like being addicted to drugs. Cutting releases endorphins that make us feel good, so most of us LIKE to do it. For others like me, i don't like to cut, and i don't like the scars. But it's the only effective way for me and many others to cope. Many who don't cut, cant understand.
It turns emotinal pain into a physical pain. You can't see or do anything about an emotinal pain, so once the physical pain goes away, it makes me feel better. I don't know.
okay i understand where your coming from but hey some ppl feel so alone.no one to talk to, or if they do that person really doesnt listen and understand..your friends are cutting?.okay talk to them, hear them out dont judge them,listen to what they have to say.try to put urself in their shoes.their feeling.their pain..we're no one to judge ppl..it souynds stupid and shiit but that doesn mae them retarded they just need some one there for em.to understand,listen..
In my past experiences I have learned that people who haven't been through it don't understand or give good advice about it. It doesn't matter if the person is certified or is your mother, most of the time these people steer you in the wrong direction. Especially the doctors. They just used me as a guinea pig to try out different depression drugs that didn't even work for me. Just tell your friends to find that one special person they can trust to talk to them because scolding won't help.
i used to cut, a lot, your right, i have 6 scars on my left shoulder and theyre pretty much the only ones that havent faded, but perhaps, something people could consider is that, not everyone is blessed with a good life, and sometimes, forgeting everything for a minute, or even a second, and that relief feels good, you know. but then again, stopping was about one of the best things ive done, because like you said its a vicious, vicious cycle..
"omg people have bad stereo types of people who cut themselves.." and so wat?? peaople have bad stereos types of race, religion, ethnicity, friends, social status, economic status.. people stereo type people.. if u want to think negativly because of any of these reasons or any other stereo type than good for u.. i really dont care.. that just shows ur the ignorant one.. cuting urself is bad ur right.. and it does start a vicious cycle. but... i hope ur freinds never come to u for advice again.
OK, I will explain this for you. People cut because its is a mental disorder called DSH (delibrate self-harm). DSH starts when somthing happend to you that tramitized you and after cutting they feel as if it was an emotinal release of pain. I know this may not make anysense but yeah. And people who start cutting cant stop, its like a drug! Just remember this is a mental disorder! some people fake this or make fun of people who do this!
i cut myself bc its like at tattoo and i dont cut bc i feel bad about something, and i cut diff shit into my arms but i understand were ur coming from but thats not my reason for cuting at all, and u can get it proffenaly done and he like puts the thing on ur arm and the like cuts the disine in ur arm or were ever but that why i do it, its a tattoo in a way and its not permanet and after 2 weeks i cant see my scars anymore at all
noone WANTS to be looked down on, noone WANTS to be strange. scars arnt always a bad reminder, sometimes they can be like badges in a way as sick as that sounds. trust me I enjoy the summer as much as the next person but im stuck with this. It's addictive and for the most part makes u feel better but afterwards not so much. there's guilt and so many other negative emotions.
The first time it's uncertianty and it's a rush and like that it's addictive. You are drawn to the pain yet youre forgeting other pains. It does make you feel shity and it makes you feel ashamed but it becomes your security blanket. I'd take that first cut back I would have just called someone or took a walk or something, but I didn't. It was stupid very stupid. But If someone would have reached out to me then maybe i wouldn't have maybe things would be different.
*shrug* it doesnt solve anything. its like sex (lol) because it makes you feel good for a little then you go back to real life. would you rather have random people just start killing themselves to "solve" their problems. im one of the smartest people in my classes, one of the most respectful kids and i have millions of friends. i cut. a little. so FUCK YOU STERIOTYPES! haha...sorry.
it is possible to quit. and cutting doesnt make u a bad person. it turns into an addiction just lik ppl get addicted to smoking. or its something to get rid of their anger. some ppl write, or exercise, or throw shit and some ppl cut. ya its bad to cut and u shudnt do it but ppl who cut arent ppl.
my mom use to tell me when i told her my finger hurt that i should just cutt off a nother one (she was just kidding of coarse) but in a way its right that pain makes you forget the other pain
You are right to an extent. It doesn't solve anything. But seeing it doesn't start the whole process over again. It's a quick fix for a long problem. And just because others put self-inflicters into a stereotype doesn't mean everyone thinks that. When I knew someone was cutting I wanted to help, I didn't stop to judge. If people got around the whole "emo" thing I think a lot could be solved. Incase someone didn't know all emo means is emotional. Everyone is emotional, some more obvious though.
the point of cutting (well for me anyway) is to help me calm down and focus my racing thoughts and it helps me to make my emotional pain (that i don't know how to deal with) physical pain (that i can deal with). i mean i know that it sounds stupid, but it's the truth and that's the best way that i know how to explain it.
@bubbles666100 If your scars have gone away without any alien substance (like lotions, or oils and such) that's good. But those things only help if the scars aren't very deep. I still have scars I can see because I went to deep, cuz I lost control one day. It does relieve stress, for some at least, for me as well. But I don't think he's DISSING people who cut..just trying to understand why it seems like something to turn to, because he's never done it. He hasn't done it, therefor, he can't know
i watched this video 2 years ago and thougth wow this is so gay thats so int true .well really it is .casue when i look back on the marks ive done i fell bad and i know eveybody hase there problems and you may think oh its not a stage am going throw but when u grow up and change ur style you do look back on what you where before cause everybody does it ,
mmk...some people cut cuz they fel like its the only pain they can controll...or because the have fucked up so bad in their life and they dont give a fuck if anyones sees it or they do it in places where no one looks like around their wais line or their chest....yea to other people it seems like it don solve nothin but it makes the person who cuts feel a lil better untill the next time they do it.....some even cut because they lost someone and feel like they dont deserv shit....
cutting releases endorphins. It's like a high- it takes away the pain. The scars, don't really remind someone of that particular incident always- especially for someone who does it quite often. Sometimes it does, but...there's a song and it says, 'the scars remind us that the past is real' and sometimes that's nice. It's not good, but it's a vice. We all have them.
Ok you really don't know what your talking about. I cut myself and it the physical pain of it takes away from the mental pain. And you know nothing about cutting so just shut up. And who cares if you go to the pool and people see them?? Who cares what other people think??
i cut. i guess like i started because of serious family problems...i planned on never doing it again. but i cant stop now. and honestly, it doesnt solve anything. if i could stop i would. and whenever i do see my scars, i see them all over, i have about 18 on my stomach, 2 on my wrists, and 2 on my arm. i am ashamed everytime i see one and yeah, that makes me cut again. its just a vicious cycle....
I've cut in the past. I can tell you don't understand the psychology behind why people cut. I know you have good intentions, but everyone has their own coping mechanisms. Of course cutting is a negative way to deal with emotions, but unless you are one of those people, you won't understand it. It was a way to relieve stress. It sounds creepy, but it's true for some people. Also, I never look at my scars and relive all those bad memories. It's just my past.
She can to help me, all my friends do at least. It's just every day I seem to be getting to far into the darkness of my own mind. I don't know how to get out of my own sadness. I'm stuck in this hellish world of my own creation...
I like u man I really do, u seem like a nice guy. I cut myself because I lost my twin sister about 14 mouths ago. People tried helping me, it worked for a while but somehow I would think of my sis in some way and feel so down that I needed to feel something other than sadness, I guess pain was the route my mind took. My family tries to be helpful as best they can, I give them that. I guess the only reason I'm still here on this earth is because I don't want to hurt my family more than they alre
i hate how some peolpe say oh i do this because it makes me feel better but when someone cutts themselves they are like "why in the world would you cut yourself?" and if you say "because it makes me feel better" they say "thats not an excusse" idk i just dont get it i guess
there are many reasons why people cut living situations to horrible self esteem. me for example, i was picked on since second grade and had horrible self esteem and still do today. i started cutting when i was 12 now im 17. people go through life feeling pain and cutting is the only kind of pain that is in their control. its not something to be proud of and it effects everyday lives but its something they control. its their way of copping with their emotions. they only want the pain to go away
i do it and hell no,the last thing i want is attention and i cover it up to a point where people cant see them.i've been doing this for 2 yrs(ever since i was 12,now i'm 14).
its an addiction.i wish i could stop & lead a 'normal' life,but i just cant stop.
I just started cutting myself feels good when I am depressed I like seeing my blood come out of my wrist 4 some reason by the way u use the word like way 2 much
i cut and u dont think about the damn scars it is going to leave. that is the least of our worries. and we dont flaunt our cuts, we hide them. or at least the people that need cutting do. and its an addiction, so u cant just tell some one, " cutting yourselfs bad" and then expect them to stop. and if u dont know what to do, at least listen...
Cutting myself won't solve anything it actually makes me feel good (i'm amorexic so everytime i eat this makes me feel less guilty) at the moment but after cutting I feel like shit like "oh my god i did it again" " i have no control" " now i'm gonna have to hide one more scar" " what if i have to wear a bathing suit? i'm gonna have to wear make up on my leg" etc So this kinda helps cuz ure not just attacking like everyone else
Ive done it for 2 years and it helps for a split second but after the razor is out of your hand and you sit and just think about it you regret it. But you can't stop. You just keep doing it over and over again. It becomes a sick addiction, and the scars don't help, they just make you think lower of yourself but you feel an extreme sence of control and power that you want to hold onto and relive everyday. As much as alot of us hate it, it becomes a part of us and it sucks to hide from ppl
Cuz it's not I never wanted to harm myself but I have, and it hurts, and it addictive, it's hard to cut once when your down, and then you cut again when your depressed. I hate wehn you label people calling them emo, cutter, scene, and goth and shit. Sterotypes people.
it help you coop and you cant take anymore so u just have to do something to just help it by make you fell pain. I have tried to kill myself and cutting can help me cope with thing were i want kill myself just to feel pain
@rainbowsparkleton. I know wat u mean bro. It's one of the worst addictions u can ever get hooked on. I wish I could stop but cutting is my drug..........
dont you think we know it leaves scars? i do drugs too, why dont you make a video telling me to stop doing that too? tell my brain to stop driving me crazy to the point where i feel like i have to do something radical. if someone could make all my anxiety and anger and depression go away dont you think i would do anything for that?
At the time it does solve something but only temporarily. Cutting relises a chemical in your body that makes you feel better. And its not easy to stop its like being addicted to drugs. Not being mean just trying to help. If you have questions you can add me and email me :)
You can't asume these things about ppl who do cut I cut because something hapend to me and I couldn't stom it from hapining and yess you're right when you start you can't stop but unless you feel the pain each one of us is going through you can't say things like that and not everyone cuts on there arms I still swim I'm swming today so yeah.
at like 1:45 umm, you kind of left out the people who dont cut their wrists, the ones that cut other parts of their bodies because they actually dont want attention for it, unlike the ones who slice their wrists for the world to see, so people like you make videos about them with genuine concern.
people cut to stop the mental pain because they can take the physical pain better than the mental pain den the mental pain comes back and so on dont judge people because dey cut itsmean and it will hurt der feelings and make people feel worse than they already do it will put people off telling,and things will just get worse do some research, ur friends need u and they turned to u 4 help u need to help them try to look at things from their point of view just dont say u need to stop tht dont help.
mustang99190 1 year ago
thank you so much for putting this video up. it really made me think about it. i was a cutter but with the help of a a friend i was able to overcome it. thanks again! :)
GGgirl131 1 year ago
yes it does reminds you but im not sure why but it some how cams you down
ronanator789 1 year ago
ur a fag lol
crhoads015 1 year ago
You can't understand if you haven't done it.
Because what your saying is exactly what I thought before I did it. Then I did it, I became addicted and now I totally understand everything, even though I know it's wrong.
I'm not saying "do it, you'll understand", I'm just saying that IF you would have done it, you would understand.
hotelzimmer483 1 year ago
hopefully by now you understand a little more, i mean you are right on the bringing back memories part but other than that you couldnt be further off.
people cant just decided to stop its an addiction and its very hard to stop, i cut myself (i try not to because as you said it doesnt solve anything) but its incredibly hard especially when im in a depressed mood.
ImTyrantblade 1 year ago
if you are in pain one day and its like beating something or throwing something that make you feel good for that time tell me when your mad you throw a book or something and its the same feeling but your hurting yourself
dano411racing 1 year ago
i guess i understand where your coming from with the whole "seeing the scars brings back memories" i agree when i see my scars its makes me more depressed that i did it.. but you gotta understand thats it an addiction and we are all different and have different ways of dealing with things
soccerxstar 1 year ago
it doesn't solve any thing, i do it because im addicted. when you cut you feel a kind of high but not like a real high, you can cut for no reason people just do it. its hard to explain
m6mkk 1 year ago
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Marialash 1 year ago
I can see his point guys, back off a little. It's an addiction. When you cut, you don't think "This will hurt in future" it's just for the rush, of knowing you did it
zarakitten99 1 year ago
Your FUCKING RETARTED!!
TheGummybear700 1 year ago
i no when i cut i feel alive, instead of numb. its like a heroin addicted, if they dont have heroin, they dont feel, there fore u cant say dont do it bc if i dont, i will shut down... and as for scars, not every cut leaves one, but all my scars tell a story and yes thay do remind me of how much of a hell ive been through, i am not ashamed of my scar but i m proud of them. they are me, this is my life. Imnot afraid of who i m and im not afraid to show it. cutting is apart of me...
prettyemofarie 1 year ago
I hug all of you who are going through hellish times... be strong. Try your best to overcome your addiction, and steer yourselves onto a better path. I know it will be hard, but know that there are people out there that will wanna help you, and care about you. Find them. It will SERIOUSLY help you in the long run. Good luck! I'm keeping you guys in my prayers.
evalllamama 1 year ago
Jesus christ! Did you say like enought times?! If you don't cut yourself don't worry about it!!! And youbsaid your friends do? So go ask them and get your gay self of youtube. Ass hole.
Kthankshaveanicedaybye.
pooeyloversyou 1 year ago
Cutting is about the release it provides after you let everything go for some people and, for some it's about showing the pain they feel on the inside on the outside. What ever it is there's a reason and usually a though out reason. you can't just say stop. It doesn't work like that.
I don't cut.... My arms. I cut my hands which is some times dangerous, but I'm no retard and I know not to cut too deep.
BlueViolaTelevision 1 year ago
for all the emo kids who are watching this if you cutt ur self because ur mom didnt make u a cookies for school or didnt watch u playing that dosnt mean perfect time to cut my self look at the kids in africa their parents leave them work on their own when their like 5 years old and do they cut them self ??? NO thats because they think tomorow is a better and they will think in the future like are u fuking stupid " my bf/gf broke up with me im gona put drill in my head" thats wrong guys comon!!!!
WhyImHere619 1 year ago
Haha everyone here is EMO!!!! and gay....
jeppep95 1 year ago
wtf is this ... You can't say "Don't do it" because you don't understand. It's something some people can't help but to do. You're a fucking asshole.
iiTZzKY3RSTiiN 1 year ago
okayy like dude ur stupid ur just stupid u don't know wat ur even tlking about this video possibly makes self harmers or "cutters" feel like shit cuz ur saying cutting Is bad and don't do it. u can't just stop just like tht it takes time to most self harmers cutting is like a drug tht u gett addicted to so if u don't know wat the fuk u tlkin bout just stfu like really .
Hellowkittyfreak 1 year ago
what is the point of this video? seriously. you have to know that you have no clue what your talking about. Did you really think your mindless babbling would really help someone in that much pain to stop cutting?
wewachywachy 1 year ago
okay first of all saying dont do it wont help and i cut because stress and because people call me a whore and thay hit me and rape me and all this shit i have a horrible life and i hate it so cutting makes me feel something and it makes me feel like im dead when im not
XxXAloneEmoXxX 1 year ago
you must have a FABULOUSLY perfect life
livinluxuriously 1 year ago
its the emotional pain were hiding w those cuts. every cut means something. and no its not bad to be reminded of them. its a reminder of what youve overcome not what mistakes youve made. i just wanna say to all those who have overcome cutting, stand up and be proud of yourselves. not everyone can hold on that long. and to those who are still fighting that battle: be strong, keep youre head up and dont give up. life has its ups and downs, but its still worth living. there ARE people who care. :)
deathduchess88 1 year ago
Thats offensive. People who do cut themselves have pain that they have to go through. And if you dont cut u dont understand....i cut myself and i'm just a young girl and do i care what people say about me? No because they dont have to go through my pain. and the scars once u stop those aren't going to remind u of the pain its going to make u feel strong that u came across that and u wont ever do that again. And a lot of cuts dont leave scars so dont judge cause u dont have to feel what we feel
Jewel8151 1 year ago
for me the scars from cutting dont bring back that moment it accually helps me remember that i got through a tough time..and everyone who cuts themselves already knows everything u said in this video and they know they could cut the wrong spot n maby die but they just dont care...and for all you stupid people who do it for attention you can burn in hell becuase you make everyone who do it becuase there hurting feel bad....so if ur gonna do it for attention then just dont fucking do it
BloodIZYummy 1 year ago
don't ppl know tht they could cut the wrong spot and kill themselves?! it's very serious and dangerous. what i do hate is tht some do it for attention, tht's stupid. it's sad tht putting yourself in physical harm seems to be the answer.
DaLand4real 1 year ago
People cut for a number of reasons.
To punish yourself after blaming yourself what whatever happened earlier.
To stop feeling numb.
In hope to kill the pain on the inside by killing the outside.
Some people do it in hope of killing hemselves.
Some people are addicted to it.
Most don't want to, but they feel they have to.
You cant just say "hey, just dont cut yourself."
It doesnt work like that. there are so many psycological reasons.
It isn't just fun and games. It really hurts.
TamaraAIJones 1 year ago
Okay, for one, ITS NOT ABOUT YOU. You don't understand because you don't understand. People have reasons, and saying don't do it, is physically impossible. So stop.
FrecklesSmiles 1 year ago
Some people cry, some people get high. Some people turn to sex, and some to alcohol. We turn to cutting. Yes! It is a Hellish cycle and our scars DO remind us, but it helps us stay calm. and it doesn't have to be on the arms. I've done it for 4 years on my legs.
CCIR321 1 year ago
dude you dont understand
msm104 1 year ago
dude can you sit still of more then a minute?
RandomMcJagger 1 year ago
Cutting is for pussies.
hoppetyhizzle 1 year ago
@hoppetyhizzle you dont have a clue do you? do you have any idea how many kids, teens and adults who have loved ones take their lives because of stupid people like you!? its people like you that make this world that much harder to live in. youve obviously dont know what real sorrow and loss is. what goes around comes around my friend. god bless you and i hope and pray to god you open your heart and realize that just maybe, something you say might take a life. god bless.
deathduchess88 1 year ago
@hoppetyhizzle Your just ignorant, and i'm sure you posted this to get people mad. I don't judge, but you are one of the most ignorant people i've ever seen. I'm guessing you've never cut, so you don't understand. I'm not going to even waste my typing space on you because your just a small minded, insensitive dick who doesn't even know what your talking about. Even though i really, really don't like you, i wouldn't ever wish the emotional and physical pain a cutter like me goes through. its hard
narniafan1015 1 year ago
Fuck you. it solves alot of shit believe it or not. you wont know cause you've never done it.
iiTZzKY3RSTiiN 1 year ago
What does it solve, you ask?
Well, what does getting high solve?
Why do people get high?
"I don't understand"
Of course you don't- you've never done it.
StuckInTheStargate 1 year ago
People who believe in cutting themselves is to actually let out their pain an anger and anxiety they feel inside because they feel no body will ever be there for you or to understand what emotional pain you are going through, so by cutting yourself, it gives relief of the emotional pain you are going through, to be fixated onto something else. It is like smoking, you smoke to take away your problems, it is an addiction.
xTokidoki101x 1 year ago
all I can say is, for those who hold the knife and cut...they didn't make the scars, they just brought them to the surface....for people like you who are watching a friend, or stranger suffer..and you don't know what 2 say or how 2 approach it...well, refer to the beginning of this and re read it...welcome to a START of understanding....and then, go tell the person, with a touch and gentle squeeze on THAT arm, that you love them and you're there if they need to talk. Say no more, say no less.
MIORIGAMI 1 year ago
no....it's a form of O.C.D. it's wearing what someone did to you on the inside..outside, hence the term "wearing your heart on your sleeve"
and...it is also wanting it OUT..the hurt, the silence, the stiffling, the even if I can tell you, you won't get it.... There is way more to it than the scars you see and are "embarrassed" for your friend to wear,... reasons are many, but I can tell u, whoever holds the scars and the knife..the cuts aren't from them.
MIORIGAMI 1 year ago
sometimes i even find myself smiling when i let the knife talk
brooke1154 1 year ago
for some people (llike myself)
it's the only thing that keeps some of us alive.......
it releases the pain and keeps us from doing something we'll REALLY regret...
suicide.....
(i do like how he didn't say "emo" though)
brooke1154 1 year ago
I see a pretty boy suburban kid who gets presents from his parents and talks shit about topics which he has no experience with. Being sheltered isn't bad, but stay away from serious stuff, we will pull you into our hell just to make you scream. People don't cut themselves because they lost a toy little boy, they do it to make all the little dollies with the pointy teeth go away.
deadithink 1 year ago
fuk cutin urself just smoke some herb or do sum drugs
blazeyblazer 1 year ago
You don't know much.. Really. But I understand where your coming from being an outsider and all.
I cut myself, It's great at the time. The blood and everything. I'm so emersed in it i compleatly forget why I was pissed in the first place. Yes it's a full time addiction and I don't remember how it started... But I know for a fact that I really truly madly want to kill myself but if i do My mother would be srsly depressed. But if i cut myself... It's just better than suicide. But the regret...
mermaidmelodylover7 1 year ago
You get high. Fact.
nicolevins 1 year ago
it gives you adrenaline to live
to some people if they do not do it, they end up commiting suacide.
MrEadens 1 year ago
it gives you adrenaline to live
MrEadens 1 year ago
u cant explain y u do it it kinda becomes an addiction
ImmaPinja 1 year ago
its not about solving things its part of a mental disorder some people can not help it that just how some people cope about things..this offended me a little bit because i know when i freakout i just cant control it, its embarrassing and yes people are like oh my god you cut yourself its hurts a lot
yourbeingwatched3 1 year ago
this video was kinda offensive no your facts and i like my scars because they remnind me of what i got through
masterpiecetheater09 1 year ago 3
you dont understand.Thats why.
McRxox13 1 year ago
it must be cause when you do it the brain automaticaly sends out adrenaline, making you feel better, relieved and free of pressure,
dont take me wrong, i dont cut myself, but i can see why ppl under alot of stress or with depressions would do it.
RuffRaider69 1 year ago
i used to cut because I didnt know what else to do. It would be the pressure.. the intensity of the moment. most people who cut have mental issues, like me. severe depression bipolar. I would feel like I had nothing else, so I would hurt myself. we know its bad, but we dont care. life is too complicated, and youre looking at it with a simplistic view, in which you have no experience on the subject. dont tell somebody not to do it... listen to them. because thats what no one is doing.
lolbethanyxx 1 year ago
my first time it was scary but then i saw the blood and i just fell on the floor laughing cause its like a release from all the stress and bad emotions in life. it's like cutting away all of that. not that people should do it but that's what it feels like. to help your friends, if you can, just give them a big hug and tell them that everything is going to work out cause i kno that's wat i hope some1 will do when i feel that way. it never does happen tho. that's y u need to do that for them :)
Destinyofwill 1 year ago
it is a release of feelings. and the scars can remind you that you're better off now. you really need to research self-injury. and don't talk about something you honestly don't understand
Cherise1125 1 year ago 3
I do it because I enjoy pain, and half of the time when I listen to opinions I have to be drunk, in which case, I cut to the names I identify with. In other words, I love life, Fuck off, and either accept me for who I am or not. coincidentally I'm educated and fairly social.
groam6666 1 year ago
if only you ahd a higher education on the subject..
iambonnieful 1 year ago 2
@iambonnieful or a higher education at anything cos there were to many LIKE in there XD
demonditch 1 year ago
Its an addiction that's hard to stop. I should know I have very bad depression problem's. It really does sucks. Srry I think u need to do more research.
CJAmu1 1 year ago 2
it makes pain go away and more. try to look at it from there eyes..
XbrokenXgirl 1 year ago 2
This comment has received too many negative votes show
Cutting yourself is completely stupid. (I'm saying this based on why MY friends cut themselves.) People normally cut themselves because they got heartbroken, or they claim "nobody loves them", seriously. Grow up people.
FoxieEnvy 1 year ago
@FoxieEnvy
um no sometimes the physical pain is better to handle than the emotional pain and if your friends only do it because of heartbreak then they are officially dumbasses i'm a cutter and i did because i wanted control and it was easier to handle the pain on my arm than what was going on in my head so before you open your mouth don't place everything from your friends
Cherise1125 1 year ago
Your really cute:)
AllyStephens1 1 year ago
You are really hot. I must say, I used to cut myself & I don't know about anyone else but I did it because at the time I wanted to feel anything but the pain INSIDE so physical pain was a relief. I still do it sometimes, it's hard not to. If you want to help your friend then just be sensitive about everything, and try and be sympathetic. ♥
JustPlainMe95 1 year ago 2
it's like a drug.
Dixieannabelle 1 year ago
People do because of depression, if life gets that bad they end up doing it, People believe "emos" do it for attention because of stupid people that acctually do, do it for that reason. But i know people that have messed up lifes and have no one to go to that have cut them selves to stop themselves doing something more like suicide its a way they let there anger out. Some people suffer from mental illness wich leads to them cutting, i should know since ive done it. Research it dude.
TheShortStuff10 1 year ago
thats not the point, it makes you feel better at the time.
shannyteex 1 year ago
Your adorable :)
kaylitakitty 1 year ago
Are you gay?
MrUnknownPaper 1 year ago
Just so you don't get ripped on ruthlessly by others, do research on it first. That has been said in the other comments but seriously when talking about an issue this sensitive you have to know what you're talking about before posting it on Youtube. Because I was slightly offended, no more annoyed at the fact that you just don't understand and you're posting videos about it.
herWretchedlove 1 year ago
...you r ignorant.
eyelinerispiffy 1 year ago
Ive cut for 6yrs. Its a rlly hard thing 2 have 2 deal w/. Its a coping mechanism tht I CHOSE, a bad decision for sure. I DONTthink its cool or show off. Im ashamed:( U do make some good points here BUT theres SO much 2 it. Cutting is an awful addiction tht might save a persons LIFE, like 4me, but at the same time it destroys it =[ Im stuck. I cant seem to stop now. Its so hard. I get called emo ALL of the time& Im NOT. The cruel looks &remarks hurt so bad. Its the hardest addiction ive evr faced
rockerchick219 1 year ago
i can see where ur comin from... but u shud rele do sum research an think about wut ur saying b4 u make a video about it.
Pugzlee08 1 year ago
i have had a self harm problem for 10 years now...its a really hard to stop and no matter what happens no 1 but u can stop it..please before you make another vidoe can you look it up or not post it...because ur video is affending people!!!
icklebaba1 1 year ago
you seem really sweet, and smart
Pouchy17 1 year ago
yeah it does bring back the monent of cutting i cut really badly the other week and had to go to hospital but it helps is hard to understand even harder to understand if you do do it my arms are completly coverd in scars and i pissis me off but ill still do it somthings it feel like its all you have and im 16 ive been doing it for 3 years
in short i hate my self for doing it even tho ill still do it the scars are a right pain in the ass i find it hard to meet people im scared they find out
pingypong118 1 year ago
Your video slightly offended me. Do your research on self injury!
MPLUVMJ 1 year ago 47
@MPLUVMJ Lulz EMO...
MrUnknownPaper 1 year ago
yur really cute....ithink.....maybe.......&&&yu make sense
xGoingOutWithaBANGx 1 year ago
you make some really good points
zinga578 1 year ago
he's gay
zombiepromqueen123 1 year ago
its addicting. once u start its very hard to stop. if u tried it u would understand. it relieves mental pain by transferring to physical pain. look it up.
bellznjoss12 1 year ago
likes likean aditktionn and it cant goaway but if u think hadr enofe u can stop
kiikiirawrz13 1 year ago
I still cut myself, even after years of therapy. The habit won't seem to go away.
IntelligentBlackMale 1 year ago 2
You can't just say "dont do it". It's an addiction. And if you don't do it, you can't understand.
narniafan1015 1 year ago 57
@narniafan1015 It's an addiction you can quench in several healthy ways. The SAME EXACT endorphin rush you receive from cutting, you can also get from drinking hot sauce and/or exercising. There's literally no difference between the addictive parts of these activities.
By the way, cutting your flesh is probably the least efficient way to satisfy that addiction.
SolidSnakeRules 1 year ago
@SolidSnakeRules If you know so much about addiction, you would know that cutting yourself is an addiction that CAN'T be stopped easily. I'm guessing your not a cutter, so you don't understand the addiciton. You don't just wake up one morning and say "hey, i'm going to stop cutting myself today." It doesn't work like that. I understand that your saying cutting isnt healthy, and i agree it's not, but it's an addiction that sucks you in like an other drug. I cut, so i know what i'm talking about.
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freedom22yeshuua 1 year ago
i agree that my harming doesnt solve anything x but you obviously havent been there x i cant explain sorry x i was sexually abused and raped by my grandfather frequently for 5 years since i was 8 years old so just give us the benefit of the doubt and please don't judge me x i am still normal x somewhere...
ebbnmaggs 1 year ago
i think for most people who cut themselves it's a control issue. they feel like they have no control over anything that happens in thier lives so they start cutting to feel some sense of control. the only problem is that cutting can become addicting so after you depend on cuttin,you're not really controling that aspect of your life either. i can relate to the control issue because i'm a recovering anorexic. it starts out as your way of having control over something&then turns into a disease.
courtneythespian 1 year ago
i ask myself this stuff everyday. i personally think its for attention. but you people that "cut" know why i guess. but personally i like hitting/breaking shit. works for me.
funbagproductions 1 year ago
no its not it feels great for me dude
Desixox1 1 year ago
i used to do it bc i was stupid now i do it bc its addicting
solarshadox 1 year ago
maybe we're not trying to fix things? maybe we're just doing it to DO IT.
ChristinaMarieGeorge 1 year ago
Why didn't you just talk to your friends about this then instead of making ridiculous presumptions?
Also saying it doesn't help is stupid, why do you think people do it? Because it helps obviously.
jenniesaur 1 year ago
ur so stupid i cut myself 33 times on my arms and my butt and your voice is so gay and u have girls hair bitch big bird u mother fucker im putting my midlle finger at u and at least i dont master bate
musiclover36861 1 year ago
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jimjohnpoopsical 1 year ago
To answer your question, it solves a lot of problems in our lives. It makes the pain we don't want to feel inside go away. A lot of us don't feel in control, so we cut to HAVE control. It's an addiction, just like being addicted to drugs. Cutting releases endorphins that make us feel good, so most of us LIKE to do it. For others like me, i don't like to cut, and i don't like the scars. But it's the only effective way for me and many others to cope. Many who don't cut, cant understand.
narniafan1015 1 year ago
It turns emotinal pain into a physical pain. You can't see or do anything about an emotinal pain, so once the physical pain goes away, it makes me feel better. I don't know.
ilovehorses2255 1 year ago
you are soo cute !! :$
you are soo right !
Tokiohotelenzandri 1 year ago
@Tokiohotelenzandri You keep on believing that.
narniafan1015 1 year ago
you are soo cute !! :$
Tokiohotelenzandri 1 year ago
okay i understand where your coming from but hey some ppl feel so alone.no one to talk to, or if they do that person really doesnt listen and understand..your friends are cutting?.okay talk to them, hear them out dont judge them,listen to what they have to say.try to put urself in their shoes.their feeling.their pain..we're no one to judge ppl..it souynds stupid and shiit but that doesn mae them retarded they just need some one there for em.to understand,listen..
nEnAliCiOuS123 1 year ago
In my past experiences I have learned that people who haven't been through it don't understand or give good advice about it. It doesn't matter if the person is certified or is your mother, most of the time these people steer you in the wrong direction. Especially the doctors. They just used me as a guinea pig to try out different depression drugs that didn't even work for me. Just tell your friends to find that one special person they can trust to talk to them because scolding won't help.
xXxSourxJanexXx 1 year ago
I counted 33 times. You said 'like' 33 times.
MeganKilledTheNoise 1 year ago 2
i used to cut, a lot, your right, i have 6 scars on my left shoulder and theyre pretty much the only ones that havent faded, but perhaps, something people could consider is that, not everyone is blessed with a good life, and sometimes, forgeting everything for a minute, or even a second, and that relief feels good, you know. but then again, stopping was about one of the best things ive done, because like you said its a vicious, vicious cycle..
ifutoldmeulovedme 1 year ago
"omg people have bad stereo types of people who cut themselves.." and so wat?? peaople have bad stereos types of race, religion, ethnicity, friends, social status, economic status.. people stereo type people.. if u want to think negativly because of any of these reasons or any other stereo type than good for u.. i really dont care.. that just shows ur the ignorant one.. cuting urself is bad ur right.. and it does start a vicious cycle. but... i hope ur freinds never come to u for advice again.
magickalpyro 1 year ago
OK, I will explain this for you. People cut because its is a mental disorder called DSH (delibrate self-harm). DSH starts when somthing happend to you that tramitized you and after cutting they feel as if it was an emotinal release of pain. I know this may not make anysense but yeah. And people who start cutting cant stop, its like a drug! Just remember this is a mental disorder! some people fake this or make fun of people who do this!
jumbo56649 1 year ago
that "process" doesnt happen
rayshle 1 year ago
its like a drug.
SonyFoLife 1 year ago
i cut myself bc its like at tattoo and i dont cut bc i feel bad about something, and i cut diff shit into my arms but i understand were ur coming from but thats not my reason for cuting at all, and u can get it proffenaly done and he like puts the thing on ur arm and the like cuts the disine in ur arm or were ever but that why i do it, its a tattoo in a way and its not permanet and after 2 weeks i cant see my scars anymore at all
IHATEGOD666ify 1 year ago
you are so true! (: it doesn't solve anything!
katGarkia15 1 year ago
when you feel the pysical pain the emotional pain subsides
deathbyDecepticon 1 year ago 2
@deathbyDecepticon that's pretty stupid. it subsides..but it doesn't disappear.
sixxpistol13 1 year ago
noone WANTS to be looked down on, noone WANTS to be strange. scars arnt always a bad reminder, sometimes they can be like badges in a way as sick as that sounds. trust me I enjoy the summer as much as the next person but im stuck with this. It's addictive and for the most part makes u feel better but afterwards not so much. there's guilt and so many other negative emotions.
but I do understand where ur coming from.
TheTerrifictara 1 year ago
The first time it's uncertianty and it's a rush and like that it's addictive. You are drawn to the pain yet youre forgeting other pains. It does make you feel shity and it makes you feel ashamed but it becomes your security blanket. I'd take that first cut back I would have just called someone or took a walk or something, but I didn't. It was stupid very stupid. But If someone would have reached out to me then maybe i wouldn't have maybe things would be different.
xbrokenlybeautifulx 1 year ago
*shrug* it doesnt solve anything. its like sex (lol) because it makes you feel good for a little then you go back to real life. would you rather have random people just start killing themselves to "solve" their problems. im one of the smartest people in my classes, one of the most respectful kids and i have millions of friends. i cut. a little. so FUCK YOU STERIOTYPES! haha...sorry.
lesleycchao 1 year ago
cutting yourself releases endorphins that make u feel better
cutting yourself is addictive that is y it is hared to stop
but u r still right
i stoped cutting and i feel bad because i have stoped
but i no this is better for me
MrGangrel1992 1 year ago
i RARELY do it. But i do it for the blood. plus i have so damn many scars, i wont care. i just liek blood
LEGOZMEHEGOZBBLAHLOL 1 year ago
its like self punishment
SuperMrsnowman 1 year ago
i dont understand you being an insensitive douche?
bzeip09 1 year ago
you do it to feel alive,to know that your still alive i stoped cutting myself.now i just bite my lip as hard i can
DzLxNaTiOn 1 year ago
its a mental disorder sometimes. it is a symptom of depressive disorders and multiple personality disorders.
lilacroses5 1 year ago
IT DOESNT SOLVE ANYTHING!!!! thank you randyrisque
putting a scar on yourself..... what excuse are you gonna tell your kids?? BLAME IT ON THE CAT!!!! THE CAT DID IT!!
r92cab 1 year ago
you have a very good point here but its just a method people use for many reason
Its good you ask people about it rather than just laugh about it
Kudos
Sn1perzG3tM0rHed 1 year ago
wow your really gay.its not a fukkin mistake.it feels good,it makes you proud,and i LIKE it!!!
y0uNgG33kyf0 1 year ago
your hot.. :) just saying
iLoveMiseryBuisness 1 year ago
AGH!!!! I HATE YOU!!!!
xX4597Xx 1 year ago
it is possible to quit. and cutting doesnt make u a bad person. it turns into an addiction just lik ppl get addicted to smoking. or its something to get rid of their anger. some ppl write, or exercise, or throw shit and some ppl cut. ya its bad to cut and u shudnt do it but ppl who cut arent ppl.
depressment 1 year ago
some people do it cuz they think it's fun
MrJensface 1 year ago
one reasone:
my mom use to tell me when i told her my finger hurt that i should just cutt off a nother one (she was just kidding of coarse) but in a way its right that pain makes you forget the other pain
hinta987654321 1 year ago
You are right to an extent. It doesn't solve anything. But seeing it doesn't start the whole process over again. It's a quick fix for a long problem. And just because others put self-inflicters into a stereotype doesn't mean everyone thinks that. When I knew someone was cutting I wanted to help, I didn't stop to judge. If people got around the whole "emo" thing I think a lot could be solved. Incase someone didn't know all emo means is emotional. Everyone is emotional, some more obvious though.
iluvemmettcullen 1 year ago
i dont like it when ppl say about ppl who cut think/say theyre crazy. its mean.
XolisykeswifeX 1 year ago
lol wow UR funny
YokohamaFayRen 1 year ago
its a way to cope with there feelings
theemonextdoor47 1 year ago
the point of cutting (well for me anyway) is to help me calm down and focus my racing thoughts and it helps me to make my emotional pain (that i don't know how to deal with) physical pain (that i can deal with). i mean i know that it sounds stupid, but it's the truth and that's the best way that i know how to explain it.
KerriMarie202 1 year ago
@bubbles666100 If your scars have gone away without any alien substance (like lotions, or oils and such) that's good. But those things only help if the scars aren't very deep. I still have scars I can see because I went to deep, cuz I lost control one day. It does relieve stress, for some at least, for me as well. But I don't think he's DISSING people who cut..just trying to understand why it seems like something to turn to, because he's never done it. He hasn't done it, therefor, he can't know
MydniteDaun 1 year ago
wow.. look at all the long ass comments..... way to preach guys.. way to conform. v.v
GameCenture2010 1 year ago
i watched this video 2 years ago and thougth wow this is so gay thats so int true .well really it is .casue when i look back on the marks ive done i fell bad and i know eveybody hase there problems and you may think oh its not a stage am going throw but when u grow up and change ur style you do look back on what you where before cause everybody does it ,
1luvj3ss3 1 year ago
mmk...some people cut cuz they fel like its the only pain they can controll...or because the have fucked up so bad in their life and they dont give a fuck if anyones sees it or they do it in places where no one looks like around their wais line or their chest....yea to other people it seems like it don solve nothin but it makes the person who cuts feel a lil better untill the next time they do it.....some even cut because they lost someone and feel like they dont deserv shit....
xxemoluvbugxx 1 year ago
cutting releases endorphins. It's like a high- it takes away the pain. The scars, don't really remind someone of that particular incident always- especially for someone who does it quite often. Sometimes it does, but...there's a song and it says, 'the scars remind us that the past is real' and sometimes that's nice. It's not good, but it's a vice. We all have them.
MandyByken 1 year ago
Ok you really don't know what your talking about. I cut myself and it the physical pain of it takes away from the mental pain. And you know nothing about cutting so just shut up. And who cares if you go to the pool and people see them?? Who cares what other people think??
lllcccwww 1 year ago
I don't cut myself but if I did, I'd say the reason is because its the only pain in my life that I can control.
Makes sense right?
Killman1234567890 1 year ago
the person might not understand it themselfs either.
reggie0094 1 year ago
are u gay?
kodi665 1 year ago
@kodi665 i was gunna ask the same question after watching about 7 seconds of this vid.
canteenboy94 1 year ago
i cut. i guess like i started because of serious family problems...i planned on never doing it again. but i cant stop now. and honestly, it doesnt solve anything. if i could stop i would. and whenever i do see my scars, i see them all over, i have about 18 on my stomach, 2 on my wrists, and 2 on my arm. i am ashamed everytime i see one and yeah, that makes me cut again. its just a vicious cycle....
BunnykinzxXxX 1 year ago
I've cut in the past. I can tell you don't understand the psychology behind why people cut. I know you have good intentions, but everyone has their own coping mechanisms. Of course cutting is a negative way to deal with emotions, but unless you are one of those people, you won't understand it. It was a way to relieve stress. It sounds creepy, but it's true for some people. Also, I never look at my scars and relive all those bad memories. It's just my past.
courxcore 1 year ago
i cut my penis and than fried that shut and than NOMNOMNOM that penis :P
RAWRitsApples 1 year ago
You should shut up. Because you clearly don't know a thing.
MegaVeloceraptor 1 year ago
You should shut up. Because you clearly don't know a thing.
MegaVeloceraptor 1 year ago
Already are. My best friend does the best
She can to help me, all my friends do at least. It's just every day I seem to be getting to far into the darkness of my own mind. I don't know how to get out of my own sadness. I'm stuck in this hellish world of my own creation...
Shilling4594 1 year ago
I like u man I really do, u seem like a nice guy. I cut myself because I lost my twin sister about 14 mouths ago. People tried helping me, it worked for a while but somehow I would think of my sis in some way and feel so down that I needed to feel something other than sadness, I guess pain was the route my mind took. My family tries to be helpful as best they can, I give them that. I guess the only reason I'm still here on this earth is because I don't want to hurt my family more than they alre
Shilling4594 1 year ago
i hate how some peolpe say oh i do this because it makes me feel better but when someone cutts themselves they are like "why in the world would you cut yourself?" and if you say "because it makes me feel better" they say "thats not an excusse" idk i just dont get it i guess
Cherrybubbles321 1 year ago
there are many reasons why people cut living situations to horrible self esteem. me for example, i was picked on since second grade and had horrible self esteem and still do today. i started cutting when i was 12 now im 17. people go through life feeling pain and cutting is the only kind of pain that is in their control. its not something to be proud of and it effects everyday lives but its something they control. its their way of copping with their emotions. they only want the pain to go away
warriorofdeath1220 1 year ago
yeah um,you dont know what you are talking about.
i do it and hell no,the last thing i want is attention and i cover it up to a point where people cant see them.i've been doing this for 2 yrs(ever since i was 12,now i'm 14).
its an addiction.i wish i could stop & lead a 'normal' life,but i just cant stop.
glass321 1 year ago
I just started cutting myself feels good when I am depressed I like seeing my blood come out of my wrist 4 some reason by the way u use the word like way 2 much
TheBubblemint 1 year ago
You obviously don't understand the problem. It makes you feel better, and once you do it once it's hard to stop.
PunkizntDEAD 1 year ago
i cut my self:D
ickychunkyloveable 1 year ago
i cut and u dont think about the damn scars it is going to leave. that is the least of our worries. and we dont flaunt our cuts, we hide them. or at least the people that need cutting do. and its an addiction, so u cant just tell some one, " cutting yourselfs bad" and then expect them to stop. and if u dont know what to do, at least listen...
Shnazle12 1 year ago
Hellz youre right
Cutting myself won't solve anything it actually makes me feel good (i'm amorexic so everytime i eat this makes me feel less guilty) at the moment but after cutting I feel like shit like "oh my god i did it again" " i have no control" " now i'm gonna have to hide one more scar" " what if i have to wear a bathing suit? i'm gonna have to wear make up on my leg" etc So this kinda helps cuz ure not just attacking like everyone else
P.S your voice and hair are hot
keanera8 1 year ago
Ive done it for 2 years and it helps for a split second but after the razor is out of your hand and you sit and just think about it you regret it. But you can't stop. You just keep doing it over and over again. It becomes a sick addiction, and the scars don't help, they just make you think lower of yourself but you feel an extreme sence of control and power that you want to hold onto and relive everyday. As much as alot of us hate it, it becomes a part of us and it sucks to hide from ppl
letloveinn 1 year ago
This is really good...
And I cut myself but Im trying to stop.
Its not easy but it's not impossible.
Yeah you get scars, so what.
Im not saying cutting isn't good.
Cuz it's not I never wanted to harm myself but I have, and it hurts, and it addictive, it's hard to cut once when your down, and then you cut again when your depressed. I hate wehn you label people calling them emo, cutter, scene, and goth and shit. Sterotypes people.
MultiAlliecat 1 year ago
it help you coop and you cant take anymore so u just have to do something to just help it by make you fell pain. I have tried to kill myself and cutting can help me cope with thing were i want kill myself just to feel pain
bleach14yomama 1 year ago
@rainbowsparkleton. I know wat u mean bro. It's one of the worst addictions u can ever get hooked on. I wish I could stop but cutting is my drug..........
captcrack22 1 year ago
dont you think we know it leaves scars? i do drugs too, why dont you make a video telling me to stop doing that too? tell my brain to stop driving me crazy to the point where i feel like i have to do something radical. if someone could make all my anxiety and anger and depression go away dont you think i would do anything for that?
rainbowsparkleton 1 year ago
At the time it does solve something but only temporarily. Cutting relises a chemical in your body that makes you feel better. And its not easy to stop its like being addicted to drugs. Not being mean just trying to help. If you have questions you can add me and email me :)
toscaredtolive 1 year ago
I'm 13 and I cut. BFD my life sucks anyway
captcrack22 1 year ago
um cuting yourself is really retarded thats the same comparison of a 3 yr old throwing a fit over a toy or someone not wanting to play
drunkspartan711 1 year ago
I cut to show that yu'r not the only person who can hurt me.</3
XLaurenxBXx 1 year ago
i'm not proud of my scars but i'm not ashamed either...
maragrasa 1 year ago
You can't asume these things about ppl who do cut I cut because something hapend to me and I couldn't stom it from hapining and yess you're right when you start you can't stop but unless you feel the pain each one of us is going through you can't say things like that and not everyone cuts on there arms I still swim I'm swming today so yeah.
72taylorl 1 year ago
at like 1:45 umm, you kind of left out the people who dont cut their wrists, the ones that cut other parts of their bodies because they actually dont want attention for it, unlike the ones who slice their wrists for the world to see, so people like you make videos about them with genuine concern.
MissHellsHarlot 1 year ago