Hey are a few lesbian chicks out here that are the whole package. In savannah ga. lol. I agree with you and share your views. Alot of people are caught up in the eye candy epidemic. Do you think accomplished women are looked over because they may seem intimidating?
ii <3 this topic that you did cause you open Mii eyes to a whole side of the view because yes iiMa avergae female...ii was engaged and Mii fiancee left Mii two days before our wedding for a female stripper that ii guess you can call her eye candy and yes ii admit ii was insecure about Myself asking everyday am iiM not beautiful...or am iiM ugly etc. But watching this you open Mii eyes and ii wanna say thank you from the bottom of Mii <3 thnx...
I appreciate your videos and how you and Miami can speak on both the heterosexual and lesbian community. I've had doubts about my relationship before I saw this but you really put things in perspective for me. I 'm glad that I have someone to break these feelings and doubts down for me . keep the videos coming!!!!
I agree! but 2 a point. Im a woman w/all those traits, attractive,intelligent,funny,outgoing,honest woman, im not 2 far away. I live im baltimore,md. But it does seem like if u wnt a gd woman they neva seem 2 b in ur vicinity. Wth
So ii have a quick question . when iits all saiid and done do you go for the eye candy or fruits and vegetables. You told everybody what should be done . But you are an attractive ag so do you follow your own logic ?
because i know i ant just wake up one morning with all i need to be with somebody. so ur right people should really look pass this dream or ideal idea of who they want in there heads. at the end of the day it hurts to half to deal with someone who has what u want on the outside but they can care less about u because they dont in reality care about themselves. great vid and top and well spoken thanks i appreciate what u said :)
my looks and health. the funny thing is ive been in relationships where i made a change to meet there expectations and they couldn't handle it because i went from semi of what they want to the full package. as far as mentality,attitude,humory, personality, sex , emotional support, money all of those things combined. once i accomplished what they wanted then they became scared they would lose me. but still i know myself and where i come from so i would be there 4 them as a humble person who cares
yo for real a lot of people ant ready for this. ive seen ur vids before but this is the deepest 1 ive come across. i can relate to this so much. i always come across eye candy and they never like me for who iam. but i be letting them know at the end of the day i half to hold myself down. so if u ant feeling me it dont matter iam what they consider non attractive because iam big. but what they dont know is what i can do what qualifications i have. what changes i have made and can make based on
love the topic...it was well explained..and makes a lot of sense..ive had my share of chasin eye candy and in the end, it wasnt a good look...we shouldnt settle for less or lower our standards but we should search for qualities in a person other than looks..beauty is skin deep..once again, love the topic and u made great points..much love!!
Fruit or Vegetable here...lol...I'mglad about the topic...pt 1 also. So mny women are so caught up on looks then get disappointed and depressed because the "5 star" cheated,did them wrong,dissed them for another "5 star"...etc. How bout you get to know some1 first...be the friend first and they will definitely show you who they are(Read the back of the wrapper for the ingredients before you eat it..lol)
Then you meet me the girl next to the 5*..."Why didnt I talk to you ma?" smh
I know some1 who's an attention seeker...i think it's sad in a way...b/c their lives are based on that...that's their motivation if that's what you want 2 call it...but u had some good points...when i look for some1 personality is the first thing i look for...fuck the looks...some1 who looks alright with a beautiful personality....is better than some1 who is badd az shxt, with a fckd up personality....anyday idgaf who they are...
i have a question cuz i always like to look good most places i go i turn heads but im not insecure at all i just like to dress like that so im i "eyecandy" in a bad way or wat
Hmmm i truely understand exactly where you are comeing from in this vid. Well like you said many people look past what they want. Im from Brazil but i live in KY so i was raised with Southern hospitality. As in Cooking, cleaning and just makeing my lover feel royal. The ones who would appriecate it are far. The ones who are near dont appriecate it.
Yeh, i most def get what you mean wit dat eye candy...Mayn I got a banggin ass wyfe, But she found me. When I say all tha way ride or die, I mean.. that shyt is rare..they out there, but where?? Good ass question, mi lady from Alabama..Lol so I guess they in the country... But luk Kellz, dont you consider yourself eye candy??? I consider myself to be...some eye candy is good all the way around....lol....
This is absolutely by far my favorite video. I am so glad someone is speaking some truth. At the end of the day the quiet girl thats mad chill is gonna hold you down ALWAYS. I am such a "fruit/ vegetable" and I would do anything for my girl. People need to look past the tight dress, the long hair and the MAC lipgloss and see the little insecure girl that underneath it all... Soo much luv for trying to educate the masses
i agree wif diz video kellz everybody do it....i would b called "EYE CANDY" everybody want me....but ppl dont kno wat im bout til dey met me....i can hold myself down n i stay down fa my bay i do wateva i can tah betta myself n help ha betta ha self az well....more ppl need tah look more inside otha den wat's on da outside.....n im very much engaged tah sumbody who repz me az well...keep doin ya thang boo
damn, i didn't realize gays and lesbian have to talk abou this kind of stuff and clear up what is common sense. They must really struggle a lot wit they're identity. All these labels they give each other based on who's more masculine and fem kind of make the gay/lesbian community look superficial and confused
I do feel beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you are right...Most eye candy does have insecurities and its a shame that all they depend on is their looks
sigh. just makes me wonder why we all have to be so cruel to each other. It's like, if someone isn't hurting, the other person doesn't feel like they're doing it right.
I love this topic. I think this was best video yet. I totally agree!! I'm glad someone is intelligent enough to realize it and speak on it. I definitely made me feel good to hear someone actually verbalize this. Thanks so much.
i feel you on this one. b/c for one sometimes the looks dnt matta all the time b/c i mean they may have more to offer you...and same thing here.... everybody has there own way of dressing themselves.. and i feel you when you when you speak on ppl thinking there all that and being cocky and shit.. cause in the same token they havein some ups and downs....and when the day is over they really dnt have nothing to offer.. so hit me up Kellz cause i feel that we can talk on some real shit..
"beauty's in the eye of the beholder" i can accept a compliment but im also humble enuff to reflect back that phrase to the compliment giver...one of my fav vidz of yours so far..thanks
I really wished more agz/studs or females period were like you. You real and you put thought into things. I get over looked a lot because I'm not da hottest girl in da room. But I'm confident iin myself. I have ah heart that's big. I'm very lovin and Karin. Its like mii 1st instinct. Maybe kause iim ah ARiiEz. Idk. But thank you fa makin this video. It needed to be said. Maybe more ppl will have and open mind and ah open heart
lol not if the bitch thats fine with the good body is a complete dumbass and cannot carry a conversation in english worth a damn. Ugh@that. i think its settling when you get with a dumb bitch lol
Damn girl u r so profound in your views on things....u really should take this on the road....and u r speaking the truth....I consider u to be eye candy, but with the twist of not coming across like u r...and thats what i think attracts so many of us to you...I have to watch one of ur vids everyday...ur just that unique to me
I never use the word UGLY when referencing another person....rather I will say something like UNATTRACTIVE...because it doesnt sound as harsh and no person is really ugly like u said...its just they may not appeal to you...but someone somewhere may drool over them...
the woman dat u were talkin about that eyecandy that looks gud and got her shit 2gether house stay clean son stay clean i stay clean house is alwayz clean home cook meal alwayz and bills are alwayz paid on time
u had an excellent point on everything u was talkin about....i know alot of people in the shoes on the the eyecandy topic and they cant go anywhere because they have soemone holding them back...i guess some will understand one day and wake up...the tipic u jus talkwd about could be a life long lesson for others ....
im a fruit but i think i taste just as good if not better! lol but i feel what youre saying ... the eye candy looks great but they dont have what you need to ... build a meal? lol but fruits like me stay single which is so wack! and trust i refuse to settle! lol but i love this video!
Hi Kellz, I'm a new subbie and you were speakin sum real shit on this topic...This femme happens 2 be 1 of those diamonds in da rough u spoke about. However, I have genital herpes&I'm never ashamed to be open about it. I have settled in da past in a relationship due 2 my "situation" cause its hard encountering a woman mature enough 2 respect my honesty & maturity! Most ladies see me as "eyecandy" until I keep it real with them. Any advice on this topic?
I Really Like This Honey....It's So True In This World Today,It's Not Just Relationships Though,It's Just Life In General. People Really Get By Only Because Of How They Look. That's Truely Terrible.
Hi!! You are right!!! But like you say there are only a few of us out there. The girls you are talkin bout messed it up for us pretty girls. I speak for myself I'm independent, cook and clean for my woman,athletic, and put god first!! I guess that's why stud are afraid to approach femz that are real pretty!! But anyways good lookin out for ya peoples!! You very smart.. God bless you!! Bye!
You sound like you definitely coming to a point in your life where you know what you looking for in a women and not confused with the definition of true love. You know Kellz, what you doing is great. The way in which you educate the younger crowd. I'm with you 100%. Keep doing what you do.
Yeah...I definitely Have a sense of clarity now...My thoughts were fogged b4 by fat asses lmao...Im good now...Im lookin 4 somebody with a little bit of everything...Im not settling
i kno im not eye candy but i kno im da sweetest fruit u can taste personally i get the oh shes cute oh she has a body but i dnt live off that i dnt need that due to the fact when u are a FRUIT or VEGTABLEu learn 2 adapt 2 certain things and use other ways 2 gt attention by havin a deep convo or jus being you . cUz at the end of the day when u go2 bed ur no goin 2 have those compliments ppl give u,so eyecandies are the IN as of now but ITS GTTN HOT & YA STARTIN 2 MELT AND GET STALE!
It's great to see a female who knows what she's talkin'about these days. I run into so many females who just be talking to talk. I truely respect you and what you do, and just wanna say as long as you keep doin'it I'm keep watchin' it?!? :)
i happy that you mabe this video because u open my eye...n basiclly you saying is that look really dnt matter and materal dont matter ever it's wats inside.i mean your gurl can look hella fine but she have to have brain
i think in regards to this topic you really should judge a person on their charecter rather than there looks if thats what initialy attracts you to them than dont be surprised when you get burnt not all girls do this but you tend to go through more of the bad than the good theres always someone better out there just weither or not your willing to wait and be patient but thats just my oppinion i hope someday you do find that person that makes you see the difference between a women and a girl
what about the ugly girl that think she eye candy...not a veggie at all...dont taste good, dont look good and no good for you..stay away from those too!
I might be one of the few who will actually say this, but I'm glad I'm not a piece of eye candy. I have a vast multitude of reasons why. Looks can be taken away from you in the blink of an eye. Getting into a car accident, or God forbid anything else, can disfigure you for life, and then what are you going to fall back on? It amazes me how vain and shallow people actually are. I don't think that being a piece of eye candy would have helped me secure my job as a Financial Analyst. Loved the vid.
this shyt is soo true..i could relate to this so much cuz i've had my share of eye candy and none of them worked out yea they were sweet on the outside 6ut once you qet to know them they all rotten on the inside..dats why the qurl im with now she miqht not 6e the prettiest thinq to some ppl 6ut she is to me 6ecause she makes sure that everythinq this qood with me and im happy
ALASKA oooo i live in alaska...damn i think dis is my fav 1 2 cuz ur right da whole sweets n healthy food thing right on point...i had an eye candy n now ill neva b da same cuz of her
i completley agree with this...these bomb shells and beautifull girls are good looking and everyone wants them..but thats cause they dont have em..cause once u do attain that so called "dream" u realize its a nightmare..cause at the end of the day while ur breaking ur back for them...they're sittin there not doin shit but lookin good and looks fade..so basically in the end u endin up with nothing..but ey i loved this topic...keep doin u..
Right right right... I just think that if he/she is yours let he/she be your eyecandy and your vegetable sometimes..... THe Society standard of beauty is the blinding factor here I think... Like Kellz said... its really not about the looks... search the heart first..... then you can start " judging"....... My church always talking about the 80/20 rule... for the ones that dont know... it that you leave the best thing for you( your 80) and go for the eye cand which in reality is ( your 20)
this is pretty much the best topic to talk about.cause no matter who it is;;or what they bout. they always tryna get someone who;s like wayy too perfect.but like yu said they aint rele that confident. everyone;s got high standards..will my friends be kewl with me dating her,am i okaii wit dating someone who maybe aint at the top of the list.. like;; looks aint everything ina relationship yu needa be able to sit down and talk to someone and have a REAL conversation with em. im diggin whatchu said
Dang my nigg dat is so effin true I feel you on this one mayne I had a eye candy a year ago...who wasnt bought shyt but fee loading...But now my new chic is hella real big upz I fave this one thanks for putting Atlanta all thur shawtii ATL ......
I feel you on this but alotta guys/ girls make those people like that. Like wit me people would always compliment me (and it would irk me cause i'm really shy) or stop and stare...and the people that do like you are too damn intimidated to approach you. So alotta times your labled as conceited and its something "they" created in their heads.
I totally agree. I say this all the time. She looks good, but what can she offer you? Will she have your back when it gets thick?......They may look good to you but doesnt mean they are good for you. Loved your point of view on this. you had alot to say on this topic really enjoyed this vid. keep em comin honey!
Also, I'm still tryna figure out what makes us want to go after things that we already know are bad for us?! Really all I can come up with Is curiosity, or the simple fact that we think we can turn bad Into good... Maybe It's the challenge? What about yourself Kellz... You sexy beast! lol you consider yourself eye-candy with fruits & veggies included? : ) haha good points girl. xoxo
This video Is really good, and a really good discussion, but I feel that It Is very hard on stereotypes. Like you said diamonds In the ruff... Not every eye-candy Is not tasty & sweet on this inside as well. Ever heard of don't judge a book by It's cover, I think that should apply here... Really It seems like maybe you have experienced something negative with a "eye-candy" that was strictly eye-candy... Jus' cuz there's one sour candy In the assortment don't make em' all sour!!! LOL.
OKay Y is you so serious today kellz! Im feelin what you saying! This issomething that comes with maturity.its good that you addressed it! Hmm inquiring minds wanna know! It this just food for thought? Or we talkin thru experiece? Anywhooo...SMile Love
Mann n again u r so f*cking right I've been there done that. Mann i had a stud who was so goodlooking n sexy mann she was goodlooking. But guess what kellz she had nothing to offer nothing at all oh besides she did look good...Lol
why can't people be beautiful untill they show their uglyness from the inside if they have any ie:some of the prettiest people do the uglyiest things im just sayin why im not saying. everybody is not beautiful to me but the one that is could be a grade A asswhole im just sayin but yeah what looks good on your arm may not be good for your heart but thanks for doin this vid much love :) p.s. everbody has flaws :)
damn kellz! you were so right on both of your vids... Yea beauty is whats poppin at tha moment, but after a while you gon want more then just a gorgeous face. beauty is skin deep. believe it or not. after a while all that is gon fade, && then what u gon have?? i hope u posted this on dl cuz alot of ppl should hear this.... you made an excellent point.
i feel u on this one fareal cuz imma big girl but im very curvy fa a big girl so i got confidence that most ppl think i dnt simply cuz i dnt get tol often enough that im pretty although i do get complimented its not as much as ya typical "eye candy".. but thanks kellz fa showin the ones who only go fa "eye candy" that theres more to the "ugly" ones then what they think!! =)
I feel you i gotta be wit someone i can atleast look @ in order to be with someone N i et complemnted alot + being fat i get alot of negative comments to but shyt at da end of the day i dont really care wat anyone has to say b/c i'm feel sexy. Lmao @ Brazil,Africa lmao nah boo she in phily n got facebook but she got a wifey dammit we found her too late lmao
yeaq i feel everything u sayin kellz it dnt make no sense i be wonderin about these things sometimes but its wateva these woman gone learn ya looks cant get u everything thats y i dnt wear makeup or shyt like that i'm me u take me as i am or nuttin at all its as simple as that
eye candy because some of them may not feel to good about their own person r whatever and think the eye candy is like gold r something to get them attention.but eye candy is so use to being taken care of she cannot survive w/o someone but the"ugly" chiks lol no what they want, no what going around them and have other ways of getting what they want themselves.the insecure AGs and fems thats looking over them r just to insecure to look their way to see it.
i really enjoyed this video alot i wish more ags had ur way of thinking....i guess i fall in the category da girl wid da pretty face but not enuff to be eye candy cuz its not da model type body.but i am very confident for the simple fact i have alot to offer spritually,intellctually,and sexually. i also notice it be the ag's or even femmes wid theses high ass standards when they dont even fall in the catergory of a 1+9=dimepiece...but anyway great job in the vid u def got ur point across
I feel you when you said, the most "beautiful" are the most insecure. It's getting harder and harder to find someone who is secure with themselves. And usually "eye candy" is JUST "eye candy". Like there is no substance of character. I'm really feeling this topic. Keep it up!
I feel u on this shit....lol but its crazy tho cause im fuckin with this stud and u know we b goin out and shit and i b meetin her peoples and they b like oh shes pretty but the next day shell call me and b like o my nigga or my friend was like u pretty but u gotta watch out for the pretty girlz....so im like what the fuck do that mean if i was ugly i would b better for her... if i was ugly they probably b like damn! she ugly as hell why da fuck u wit her... idk i jus dont get it
i soooo feel ya on this vid.. omg.. ESP the jealous stud part. That shit is sooo whack. i hate being under the spotlight...gosh. and oh yeah... i heard u say its not any in MISSISSPPI...lol ima get u for that one..
lol dont start lol...i didnt say mississippi doesnt have any...I said if ur in any certain state and still havent found someone then most likely their in another state or country...lol
like i said most eye candy is just a good look on ya arm & someone u enjoy sexing...but after all is said and done, they cant cook, clean, do laundry, or be reliable in any way other then sexually...
Love yhurr hair!
kiikiicms 6 months ago
Hey are a few lesbian chicks out here that are the whole package. In savannah ga. lol. I agree with you and share your views. Alot of people are caught up in the eye candy epidemic. Do you think accomplished women are looked over because they may seem intimidating?
mahoganykisses912 7 months ago
ii <3 this topic that you did cause you open Mii eyes to a whole side of the view because yes iiMa avergae female...ii was engaged and Mii fiancee left Mii two days before our wedding for a female stripper that ii guess you can call her eye candy and yes ii admit ii was insecure about Myself asking everyday am iiM not beautiful...or am iiM ugly etc. But watching this you open Mii eyes and ii wanna say thank you from the bottom of Mii <3 thnx...
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MiiMiiNTy 8 months ago
wuz up hi people call me K but i always see that guitar on your wall can u play if so can u make a video of u playin somethin.....thanks
epiphany200926 11 months ago
I appreciate your videos and how you and Miami can speak on both the heterosexual and lesbian community. I've had doubts about my relationship before I saw this but you really put things in perspective for me. I 'm glad that I have someone to break these feelings and doubts down for me . keep the videos coming!!!!
coocoopuff29 11 months ago
N n yea its real...im on DL, I go by A Poet's Love)
neosoulistic 1 year ago
I agree! but 2 a point. Im a woman w/all those traits, attractive,intelligent,funny,outgoing,honest woman, im not 2 far away. I live im baltimore,md. But it does seem like if u wnt a gd woman they neva seem 2 b in ur vicinity. Wth
neosoulistic 1 year ago
So ii have a quick question . when iits all saiid and done do you go for the eye candy or fruits and vegetables. You told everybody what should be done . But you are an attractive ag so do you follow your own logic ?
RaynbowBrite06 1 year ago
@RaynbowBrite06 Y wouldnt i? no point in preaching if u dont follow ya own words miss...Thanks 4 watching
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
Damn I really wish I watched this before I dated one of my exes, but hey it was a lesson. You live and you learn.
Geektargabz 1 year ago
because i know i ant just wake up one morning with all i need to be with somebody. so ur right people should really look pass this dream or ideal idea of who they want in there heads. at the end of the day it hurts to half to deal with someone who has what u want on the outside but they can care less about u because they dont in reality care about themselves. great vid and top and well spoken thanks i appreciate what u said :)
Provexcevy 1 year ago
@Provexcevy No problem...thanks for watching...glad this vid touched you...continue being who you are...somebody will eventually appreciate it....
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
my looks and health. the funny thing is ive been in relationships where i made a change to meet there expectations and they couldn't handle it because i went from semi of what they want to the full package. as far as mentality,attitude,humory, personality, sex , emotional support, money all of those things combined. once i accomplished what they wanted then they became scared they would lose me. but still i know myself and where i come from so i would be there 4 them as a humble person who cares
Provexcevy 1 year ago
yo for real a lot of people ant ready for this. ive seen ur vids before but this is the deepest 1 ive come across. i can relate to this so much. i always come across eye candy and they never like me for who iam. but i be letting them know at the end of the day i half to hold myself down. so if u ant feeling me it dont matter iam what they consider non attractive because iam big. but what they dont know is what i can do what qualifications i have. what changes i have made and can make based on
Provexcevy 1 year ago
you know what i wish?..i wish that everyone out there would see this video..some people just dont get it...
1984bajan4life 1 year ago
love the topic...it was well explained..and makes a lot of sense..ive had my share of chasin eye candy and in the end, it wasnt a good look...we shouldnt settle for less or lower our standards but we should search for qualities in a person other than looks..beauty is skin deep..once again, love the topic and u made great points..much love!!
shayladominique 1 year ago
Fruit or Vegetable here...lol...I'mglad about the topic...pt 1 also. So mny women are so caught up on looks then get disappointed and depressed because the "5 star" cheated,did them wrong,dissed them for another "5 star"...etc. How bout you get to know some1 first...be the friend first and they will definitely show you who they are(Read the back of the wrapper for the ingredients before you eat it..lol)
Then you meet me the girl next to the 5*..."Why didnt I talk to you ma?" smh
BLOVEISME 1 year ago
sad but true looks are always decieving
redgypsyreaper 1 year ago
I know some1 who's an attention seeker...i think it's sad in a way...b/c their lives are based on that...that's their motivation if that's what you want 2 call it...but u had some good points...when i look for some1 personality is the first thing i look for...fuck the looks...some1 who looks alright with a beautiful personality....is better than some1 who is badd az shxt, with a fckd up personality....anyday idgaf who they are...
kaitsundai 1 year ago 6
@kaitsundai I definitely feel u on that! much luv
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
i have a question cuz i always like to look good most places i go i turn heads but im not insecure at all i just like to dress like that so im i "eyecandy" in a bad way or wat
baddestbytch19 1 year ago
Hmmm i truely understand exactly where you are comeing from in this vid. Well like you said many people look past what they want. Im from Brazil but i live in KY so i was raised with Southern hospitality. As in Cooking, cleaning and just makeing my lover feel royal. The ones who would appriecate it are far. The ones who are near dont appriecate it.
lottiv 1 year ago
Yeh, i most def get what you mean wit dat eye candy...Mayn I got a banggin ass wyfe, But she found me. When I say all tha way ride or die, I mean.. that shyt is rare..they out there, but where?? Good ass question, mi lady from Alabama..Lol so I guess they in the country... But luk Kellz, dont you consider yourself eye candy??? I consider myself to be...some eye candy is good all the way around....lol....
TheBlacsun 1 year ago
awhh urr soo rytee andd sexy
DOlli151 1 year ago
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babiiface17 1 year ago
lol tell em kellz u wild but so tru
lilsexy8586 1 year ago
Where did u get ur wisdom from.... This is so true..
musiqladee 1 year ago
that vid was deep I loved it keep it up bro
ladyred1129 2 years ago
This is absolutely by far my favorite video. I am so glad someone is speaking some truth. At the end of the day the quiet girl thats mad chill is gonna hold you down ALWAYS. I am such a "fruit/ vegetable" and I would do anything for my girl. People need to look past the tight dress, the long hair and the MAC lipgloss and see the little insecure girl that underneath it all... Soo much luv for trying to educate the masses
roysteal12 2 years ago
i agree wif diz video kellz everybody do it....i would b called "EYE CANDY" everybody want me....but ppl dont kno wat im bout til dey met me....i can hold myself down n i stay down fa my bay i do wateva i can tah betta myself n help ha betta ha self az well....more ppl need tah look more inside otha den wat's on da outside.....n im very much engaged tah sumbody who repz me az well...keep doin ya thang boo
MrzBlaque 2 years ago
damn, i didn't realize gays and lesbian have to talk abou this kind of stuff and clear up what is common sense. They must really struggle a lot wit they're identity. All these labels they give each other based on who's more masculine and fem kind of make the gay/lesbian community look superficial and confused
funk7000 2 years ago
I do feel beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you are right...Most eye candy does have insecurities and its a shame that all they depend on is their looks
damara97 2 years ago
sigh. just makes me wonder why we all have to be so cruel to each other. It's like, if someone isn't hurting, the other person doesn't feel like they're doing it right.
HotButterOnToast 2 years ago
I love this topic. I think this was best video yet. I totally agree!! I'm glad someone is intelligent enough to realize it and speak on it. I definitely made me feel good to hear someone actually verbalize this. Thanks so much.
babsyboo 2 years ago
i be saying that all the time.. eye candy be insecure..
infectiouz 2 years ago
thats dumb tru, fems can get away with a stud that is not "her standards", but studs can't do that like that..
infectiouz 2 years ago
i agree. i say no one is ugly also...my peeps be like...BULLSHIT! lol...but ya know what i mean
datgurlky1 2 years ago
this is sum real talk..loved it
NejiHyuga2010 2 years ago
i feel you on this one. b/c for one sometimes the looks dnt matta all the time b/c i mean they may have more to offer you...and same thing here.... everybody has there own way of dressing themselves.. and i feel you when you when you speak on ppl thinking there all that and being cocky and shit.. cause in the same token they havein some ups and downs....and when the day is over they really dnt have nothing to offer.. so hit me up Kellz cause i feel that we can talk on some real shit..
iNdiANBArbi 2 years ago
"beauty's in the eye of the beholder" i can accept a compliment but im also humble enuff to reflect back that phrase to the compliment giver...one of my fav vidz of yours so far..thanks
msmarley008 2 years ago
preach !!!!!!
Lizz350z 2 years ago
I really wished more agz/studs or females period were like you. You real and you put thought into things. I get over looked a lot because I'm not da hottest girl in da room. But I'm confident iin myself. I have ah heart that's big. I'm very lovin and Karin. Its like mii 1st instinct. Maybe kause iim ah ARiiEz. Idk. But thank you fa makin this video. It needed to be said. Maybe more ppl will have and open mind and ah open heart
jeenkzunique 2 years ago 2
do you think that its setting if you go for the one that's cute with and ok body?
all4you2day 2 years ago
lol not if the bitch thats fine with the good body is a complete dumbass and cannot carry a conversation in english worth a damn. Ugh@that. i think its settling when you get with a dumb bitch lol
kufresh06 2 years ago
damn girl that is so true my aunt always said ppl r not ugly the are unique and u always got the good music in the background
sexitiara 2 years ago
Damn girl u r so profound in your views on things....u really should take this on the road....and u r speaking the truth....I consider u to be eye candy, but with the twist of not coming across like u r...and thats what i think attracts so many of us to you...I have to watch one of ur vids everyday...ur just that unique to me
lushisliz 2 years ago
I never use the word UGLY when referencing another person....rather I will say something like UNATTRACTIVE...because it doesnt sound as harsh and no person is really ugly like u said...its just they may not appeal to you...but someone somewhere may drool over them...
lushisliz 2 years ago
this is such a great video!!! i wish more men thought like this and actually applied it! thanx
Plumaniita 2 years ago
wow you speak the truth, I love your videos.
bossy0912 2 years ago
I wish more men were like you kellz.
lulicious25 2 years ago
Wow...than u...that means alot...but unfortunately most dudes think with the head in their pants instead of the head on their shoulders :-/
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
i love your point of view....
blackisme2008 2 years ago
Dats cuz shhe n Jerz..............LMAO
superkids01 2 years ago
??? jerz??? who in jerz
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
the woman dat u were talkin about that eyecandy that looks gud and got her shit 2gether house stay clean son stay clean i stay clean house is alwayz clean home cook meal alwayz and bills are alwayz paid on time
superkids01 2 years ago
so true so true
Lilsvil 2 years ago
u had an excellent point on everything u was talkin about....i know alot of people in the shoes on the the eyecandy topic and they cant go anywhere because they have soemone holding them back...i guess some will understand one day and wake up...the tipic u jus talkwd about could be a life long lesson for others ....
arleta17 2 years ago
Wat guitar is that on the wall?
Fretanation 2 years ago
im a fruit but i think i taste just as good if not better! lol but i feel what youre saying ... the eye candy looks great but they dont have what you need to ... build a meal? lol but fruits like me stay single which is so wack! and trust i refuse to settle! lol but i love this video!
FashionDotFreak 2 years ago
We should call that "minute motivation."
Great vid(s). =)
Dittomopolis 2 years ago
Hi Kellz, I'm a new subbie and you were speakin sum real shit on this topic...This femme happens 2 be 1 of those diamonds in da rough u spoke about. However, I have genital herpes&I'm never ashamed to be open about it. I have settled in da past in a relationship due 2 my "situation" cause its hard encountering a woman mature enough 2 respect my honesty & maturity! Most ladies see me as "eyecandy" until I keep it real with them. Any advice on this topic?
Mzesh8419 2 years ago
i hear u on dis i love b'n independent
but ma gurl lovez ta buy me da world n wen i tell ha no she get soooo mad at me,n wont talk ta me
What should i do???
kitaluv94 2 years ago
I Really Like This Honey....It's So True In This World Today,It's Not Just Relationships Though,It's Just Life In General. People Really Get By Only Because Of How They Look. That's Truely Terrible.
PuttingOnMyMakeup88 2 years ago
Wow! I'm a new subbie & you're so intelligent. I love how you keep it 100.
LaDyDaLeSbN 2 years ago
i really loved this vid - a.diva
SecretSocietyGirls 2 years ago
did something happen or experience something that put you in this state of mind?
rosaliedeniseoster 2 years ago 3
Hi!! You are right!!! But like you say there are only a few of us out there. The girls you are talkin bout messed it up for us pretty girls. I speak for myself I'm independent, cook and clean for my woman,athletic, and put god first!! I guess that's why stud are afraid to approach femz that are real pretty!! But anyways good lookin out for ya peoples!! You very smart.. God bless you!! Bye!
Godsblessing32 2 years ago
1 word: AMEN!!!
Treenbian89 2 years ago 2
lol, riiiight, they really DO get clowned more. lol. amen, 1 stud's "popped" is anotha stud's "HALLE BERRIES, Halle Berries!" good vid, Kellz!
Lojik419 2 years ago
Kellz you spoke nothing but the truth in this video! And Im soo glad you posted this!!!! LOVE IT!
CapricornQt08 2 years ago
WOW i REALLY enjoyed this topic Kellz. Its SOOOO tru. Good Job gurl... Love u
angelthetrini 2 years ago
Kellz i enjoyed dis vid..u on some real stuff, because in the end we all are looking fa da same thing..no mattah wat ur personal orientation is!
keep doing ya thang sweetie..
rainbowbliss3 2 years ago
IM FEELIN THIS TOPIC ITS MAD TRUE
DEEJAE2009FLY 2 years ago
Damn Kellz you really hit home wit dis topic...everything you said i already knew, but hearin somebody else say made me realize a lot...thanks
SexyCaramel423 2 years ago
You sound like you definitely coming to a point in your life where you know what you looking for in a women and not confused with the definition of true love. You know Kellz, what you doing is great. The way in which you educate the younger crowd. I'm with you 100%. Keep doing what you do.
sexyej81 2 years ago
Yeah...I definitely Have a sense of clarity now...My thoughts were fogged b4 by fat asses lmao...Im good now...Im lookin 4 somebody with a little bit of everything...Im not settling
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
Dont settle, everything you want you will attract. Also be sure not to miss her when you cross paths.
Lifepath18 2 years ago
im that fruit that niggas dont want but they need lol but on some real shit yo i dig this 100%
leneascott 2 years ago
love the vid.. keep it up homie
KDBoi88 2 years ago
i kno im not eye candy but i kno im da sweetest fruit u can taste personally i get the oh shes cute oh she has a body but i dnt live off that i dnt need that due to the fact when u are a FRUIT or VEGTABLEu learn 2 adapt 2 certain things and use other ways 2 gt attention by havin a deep convo or jus being you . cUz at the end of the day when u go2 bed ur no goin 2 have those compliments ppl give u,so eyecandies are the IN as of now but ITS GTTN HOT & YA STARTIN 2 MELT AND GET STALE!
XtInA
miamor6782 2 years ago
lmao I feel U....
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
It's great to see a female who knows what she's talkin'about these days. I run into so many females who just be talking to talk. I truely respect you and what you do, and just wanna say as long as you keep doin'it I'm keep watchin' it?!? :)
Dat24Nigga 2 years ago
Thank You...I Appreciate ya support...
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
i happy that you mabe this video because u open my eye...n basiclly you saying is that look really dnt matter and materal dont matter ever it's wats inside.i mean your gurl can look hella fine but she have to have brain
dancegurl025 2 years ago
Def feel what you saying this is a very good video very educational!!!
MSo0Suductive 2 years ago
Wats' a AG???
wallstreetyoung 2 years ago
I completely agree wit what you are saying i need to let A LOT of people see this video
RaynebowCapri 2 years ago
definitely do that cuz alot of ppl are confused when it comes to this...trust me...I was 4 a while but i woke the fuck up lol
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
i think in regards to this topic you really should judge a person on their charecter rather than there looks if thats what initialy attracts you to them than dont be surprised when you get burnt not all girls do this but you tend to go through more of the bad than the good theres always someone better out there just weither or not your willing to wait and be patient but thats just my oppinion i hope someday you do find that person that makes you see the difference between a women and a girl
surferchixx08 2 years ago
I so AGREE with you!!!!
3Strykes04 2 years ago
what about the ugly girl that think she eye candy...not a veggie at all...dont taste good, dont look good and no good for you..stay away from those too!
adarlover123 2 years ago
yeah those are just rotten apples lmao
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
I say never settle!!! You like what you like.. But as we get older what we like and what we look for in a partner usually changes and matures!!
tiffaninghs 2 years ago 2
I might be one of the few who will actually say this, but I'm glad I'm not a piece of eye candy. I have a vast multitude of reasons why. Looks can be taken away from you in the blink of an eye. Getting into a car accident, or God forbid anything else, can disfigure you for life, and then what are you going to fall back on? It amazes me how vain and shallow people actually are. I don't think that being a piece of eye candy would have helped me secure my job as a Financial Analyst. Loved the vid.
backbackdasexwuzwack 2 years ago
this shyt is soo true..i could relate to this so much cuz i've had my share of eye candy and none of them worked out yea they were sweet on the outside 6ut once you qet to know them they all rotten on the inside..dats why the qurl im with now she miqht not 6e the prettiest thinq to some ppl 6ut she is to me 6ecause she makes sure that everythinq this qood with me and im happy
qud video kellz 5stars
Pretti6oiYung 2 years ago
everything is so true
tania420 2 years ago
I love yu kellz omg i relate to everything you say but i can relate with you 100 percent on this..cnt wait for the next one...
tonynessatony 2 years ago
Good topic, I agree.
bsl123086 2 years ago
everything you said is sooo true! good head on your shoulders
keke2200 2 years ago
ALASKA oooo i live in alaska...damn i think dis is my fav 1 2 cuz ur right da whole sweets n healthy food thing right on point...i had an eye candy n now ill neva b da same cuz of her
onligot1life 2 years ago
i completley agree with this...these bomb shells and beautifull girls are good looking and everyone wants them..but thats cause they dont have em..cause once u do attain that so called "dream" u realize its a nightmare..cause at the end of the day while ur breaking ur back for them...they're sittin there not doin shit but lookin good and looks fade..so basically in the end u endin up with nothing..but ey i loved this topic...keep doin u..
much love
MrsFuzzi1922 2 years ago
Right right right... I just think that if he/she is yours let he/she be your eyecandy and your vegetable sometimes..... THe Society standard of beauty is the blinding factor here I think... Like Kellz said... its really not about the looks... search the heart first..... then you can start " judging"....... My church always talking about the 80/20 rule... for the ones that dont know... it that you leave the best thing for you( your 80) and go for the eye cand which in reality is ( your 20)
victorinange 2 years ago
soooo true....that 20 is definitely the eye candy part...my point exactly
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
That was a good message..I totally agree and I think everyone has been through this before
Bayside34 2 years ago
this is pretty much the best topic to talk about.cause no matter who it is;;or what they bout. they always tryna get someone who;s like wayy too perfect.but like yu said they aint rele that confident. everyone;s got high standards..will my friends be kewl with me dating her,am i okaii wit dating someone who maybe aint at the top of the list.. like;; looks aint everything ina relationship yu needa be able to sit down and talk to someone and have a REAL conversation with em. im diggin whatchu said
kay50cent 2 years ago
Dang my nigg dat is so effin true I feel you on this one mayne I had a eye candy a year ago...who wasnt bought shyt but fee loading...But now my new chic is hella real big upz I fave this one thanks for putting Atlanta all thur shawtii ATL ......
ATLDom83 2 years ago
omg.. i like love you right now! like dead ass, i love the way you think. i agree 1000000% with everything you said! enough said
Napierbaby1 2 years ago
I feel you on this but alotta guys/ girls make those people like that. Like wit me people would always compliment me (and it would irk me cause i'm really shy) or stop and stare...and the people that do like you are too damn intimidated to approach you. So alotta times your labled as conceited and its something "they" created in their heads.
animechic25 2 years ago
omg u opened my eyes about shit..dat i do w.e realzin..but ur right the eye candy is the one mostly wins n shiet..u gave me good advice bruh
anyotale 2 years ago
that shit is crazy right
datagbeballin 2 years ago
I totally agree. I say this all the time. She looks good, but what can she offer you? Will she have your back when it gets thick?......They may look good to you but doesnt mean they are good for you. Loved your point of view on this. you had alot to say on this topic really enjoyed this vid. keep em comin honey!
SweetpeaL 2 years ago
yea i feel like im the eye candy but thats fucked up cuz she be taking my money
datagbeballin 2 years ago
lol damn
prajetchik 2 years ago
This is da realest and repsectable video I;ve seen from u I like this and I am glad u shared this with us. Keep it up hun
tracey1690 2 years ago
i agree wit u all the way u did great with this topic u look good 2
~muahz~
lovely785 2 years ago
love the videos, keeping it 100 all the time i see.
ProsanddCons 2 years ago
Also, I'm still tryna figure out what makes us want to go after things that we already know are bad for us?! Really all I can come up with Is curiosity, or the simple fact that we think we can turn bad Into good... Maybe It's the challenge? What about yourself Kellz... You sexy beast! lol you consider yourself eye-candy with fruits & veggies included? : ) haha good points girl. xoxo
xxxrhondaxxx 2 years ago
This video Is really good, and a really good discussion, but I feel that It Is very hard on stereotypes. Like you said diamonds In the ruff... Not every eye-candy Is not tasty & sweet on this inside as well. Ever heard of don't judge a book by It's cover, I think that should apply here... Really It seems like maybe you have experienced something negative with a "eye-candy" that was strictly eye-candy... Jus' cuz there's one sour candy In the assortment don't make em' all sour!!! LOL.
xxxrhondaxxx 2 years ago
OKay Y is you so serious today kellz! Im feelin what you saying! This issomething that comes with maturity.its good that you addressed it! Hmm inquiring minds wanna know! It this just food for thought? Or we talkin thru experiece? Anywhooo...SMile Love
summerlove20046 2 years ago
Im sure we've all had our share of eye candy and suffered the consequences of it...I mean....Look @ the comments lol obviously we can all relate...
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
Kellz this is the most real ish i have ever came across on youtube...please dont ever stop what you do...and i thank u for ya realness
hotish18 2 years ago 2
THANK YOU>>>>I APPRECIATE THAT =D
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
real talk
darlindee07 2 years ago
Mann n again u r so f*cking right I've been there done that. Mann i had a stud who was so goodlooking n sexy mann she was goodlooking. But guess what kellz she had nothing to offer nothing at all oh besides she did look good...Lol
kimoraleebaby 2 years ago
why can't people be beautiful untill they show their uglyness from the inside if they have any ie:some of the prettiest people do the uglyiest things im just sayin why im not saying. everybody is not beautiful to me but the one that is could be a grade A asswhole im just sayin but yeah what looks good on your arm may not be good for your heart but thanks for doin this vid much love :) p.s. everbody has flaws :)
lonelprincess18 2 years ago
damn kellz! you were so right on both of your vids... Yea beauty is whats poppin at tha moment, but after a while you gon want more then just a gorgeous face. beauty is skin deep. believe it or not. after a while all that is gon fade, && then what u gon have?? i hope u posted this on dl cuz alot of ppl should hear this.... you made an excellent point.
0BluestarPrincess0 2 years ago
THIS VID IS SO REAL KELLZ! =]
but i think im like, a candied apple or something.
for the ppl who like a lil 'candy' with their 'fruit'
lol. idk.
SiSi<3
NerdBunni3SiSi 2 years ago 2
OMG U Need A Talk Sho. Madd Luv. Keep doin ur thing. Muahzzzz. xoxoxo.
dayz362003 2 years ago
i feel u on this one fareal cuz imma big girl but im very curvy fa a big girl so i got confidence that most ppl think i dnt simply cuz i dnt get tol often enough that im pretty although i do get complimented its not as much as ya typical "eye candy".. but thanks kellz fa showin the ones who only go fa "eye candy" that theres more to the "ugly" ones then what they think!! =)
datkoogurl 2 years ago
Well said...LOVE ya vids. N i really related to what u was sayin n dis vid, 904 FL...
flawda22 2 years ago
oh i see, u need 2 videos for this topic.... whens your next service reverand kellz... preach!!!
ladiesloveladies 2 years ago
U really know what you are talkin about....I'm diggin' =)
sexyguh706 2 years ago 2
I feel you i gotta be wit someone i can atleast look @ in order to be with someone N i et complemnted alot + being fat i get alot of negative comments to but shyt at da end of the day i dont really care wat anyone has to say b/c i'm feel sexy. Lmao @ Brazil,Africa lmao nah boo she in phily n got facebook but she got a wifey dammit we found her too late lmao
SxchaFxkknFemm 2 years ago
lol...u a fool 4 that
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
yeaq i feel everything u sayin kellz it dnt make no sense i be wonderin about these things sometimes but its wateva these woman gone learn ya looks cant get u everything thats y i dnt wear makeup or shyt like that i'm me u take me as i am or nuttin at all its as simple as that
RaWkStArFeMm13 2 years ago
I think some people r so caught up on
eye candy because some of them may not feel to good about their own person r whatever and think the eye candy is like gold r something to get them attention.but eye candy is so use to being taken care of she cannot survive w/o someone but the"ugly" chiks lol no what they want, no what going around them and have other ways of getting what they want themselves.the insecure AGs and fems thats looking over them r just to insecure to look their way to see it.
dafallenangel0991 2 years ago
exactly...good point
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
i really enjoyed this video alot i wish more ags had ur way of thinking....i guess i fall in the category da girl wid da pretty face but not enuff to be eye candy cuz its not da model type body.but i am very confident for the simple fact i have alot to offer spritually,intellctually,and sexually. i also notice it be the ag's or even femmes wid theses high ass standards when they dont even fall in the catergory of a 1+9=dimepiece...but anyway great job in the vid u def got ur point across
dw11422 2 years ago
I feel you when you said, the most "beautiful" are the most insecure. It's getting harder and harder to find someone who is secure with themselves. And usually "eye candy" is JUST "eye candy". Like there is no substance of character. I'm really feeling this topic. Keep it up!
Eproof 2 years ago
iz dat ur hair ... if so sexy
... if not itz still sexy
lilmizzbootymeat 2 years ago
I feel u on this shit....lol but its crazy tho cause im fuckin with this stud and u know we b goin out and shit and i b meetin her peoples and they b like oh shes pretty but the next day shell call me and b like o my nigga or my friend was like u pretty but u gotta watch out for the pretty girlz....so im like what the fuck do that mean if i was ugly i would b better for her... if i was ugly they probably b like damn! she ugly as hell why da fuck u wit her... idk i jus dont get it
kyronnikki 2 years ago
i soooo feel ya on this vid.. omg.. ESP the jealous stud part. That shit is sooo whack. i hate being under the spotlight...gosh. and oh yeah... i heard u say its not any in MISSISSPPI...lol ima get u for that one..
KoDieStar
KodieStaR 2 years ago
lol dont start lol...i didnt say mississippi doesnt have any...I said if ur in any certain state and still havent found someone then most likely their in another state or country...lol
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
What is a AG? I love watching your videos cause regardless of what you preference is you speak the truth!!
TriciaM87 2 years ago
like i said most eye candy is just a good look on ya arm & someone u enjoy sexing...but after all is said and done, they cant cook, clean, do laundry, or be reliable in any way other then sexually...
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
I can look good on ya arm, cook, clean, do laundry and be reliable... and sexual too!!! What do u call that type of woman Kellz??
almondbrown09 2 years ago
a diamond in the rough...one in a million...
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago
i feel u on dis
JaaJaa18 2 years ago
i REaLLY Do FeEL YoU oN EVeRYTHiNG YoU SAiD && iTS VeRY TRuE...LuV YA ViDEoZ
sexyyelladyme 2 years ago
sugar high...then you crash!
rebyd 2 years ago
OMG I am so happy that you did this topic alot of people need to hear this true story!!!!!!!.
patrice975 2 years ago
1st comment :]
s0o0o true. love you kellz.
SAMhasSWAG 2 years ago
Thanks 4 poppin my vid cherry lol...much luv sam...
wait2ucmystrap 2 years ago