My Wife Left Me, Commited Adultery With Some Guy Who Was Throwing It Up In My Face Online, Lied In The Divorce Papers, Became A Witch and Now She Stalks Me Online Now. Shes The WORST Person I Ever Met... And The Biggest Liar I Knew. I Wish Her Well... Sort of. I dont know what her deal Is But I have GREAT Sympathy For Anyone Who Has Suffered Thru A Divorce. Whoa Your PAthetiC.
The way to save a marriage: if one partner is free enough to introduce freedom into the marriage, this can help to free the other partner from his/her fears, the fears that cause negative behaviors in marriage.
Unfortunately, in some marriages, one spouse, in order to control the other, looks for his partner's vulnerable places and exploits them like Nurse Ratched in the movie, "One Flew over the Cuckoo's Nest." He tries to make his partner dependent on him through trying to weaken her.
This is common among spouses with an intense fear of abandonment. Unfortunately, this behavior actually materializes his fears as he drives his partner away through his cruel behavior.
1. Some men and some women cannot be 'changed' by anything a spouse can do or say regardless. Its not a good idea to make a woman feel like she CAN always do or say things and that it WILL always work. That sort of reasoning can lead a woman to suicide if she's made to feel its her fault that its not working.
2. Husbands/men need to take RESPONSIBILITY for their own actions and behavior.
I married a sociopath. He lies evertime he speaks. I think that you might want to specify that their are some men that will use you for years and minipulate you and then run off and leave you in the poor house.
@DezzyRayz my husband also lies wid me all the time n represent me v bad infront of his family, now i hate him so much bt cant get rid of him cz i never want to hurt my mother. living wid my husband is like a hell for me.
As with an automobile, there can only be one driver, so someone has to let go of the wheel and be a passenger. Does that mean that they have no say in what direction they go? No, but forcefully taking the wheel can be detrimental to all. The truly wise woman has built up her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands. (Proverbs 14:1) A wise woman respects Gods arrangement of headship. (1 Corinthians 11:3) Try the book , The Secret To Family Happiness.
LOL you can't force to opposing forces to join or the marriage will be doomed to fail. And besides anyone should not have to change for anyone. That is how a relationship works.
I read her book "Sexless Marriage". It's amazing how well she understands men. She seems to know me better than I know myself. And I bet she has a very satisfied husband. I highly recommend her books.
This husband read one of her books and recommends that all wives and husbands do the same. Michelle teaches us how to modify behaviors of others in kinder gentler ways. She is also honest about not being a cure-all and discusses how to better live with behaviors in others that are too ingrained to change.
real talk
prince6677news 3 months ago
Hmmmm....
My Wife Left Me, Commited Adultery With Some Guy Who Was Throwing It Up In My Face Online, Lied In The Divorce Papers, Became A Witch and Now She Stalks Me Online Now. Shes The WORST Person I Ever Met... And The Biggest Liar I Knew. I Wish Her Well... Sort of. I dont know what her deal Is But I have GREAT Sympathy For Anyone Who Has Suffered Thru A Divorce. Whoa Your PAthetiC.
KyngMegz 4 months ago
very good! I totally agree
howtosavemarriage 4 months ago
The way to save a marriage: if one partner is free enough to introduce freedom into the marriage, this can help to free the other partner from his/her fears, the fears that cause negative behaviors in marriage.
eastariel 4 months ago
Unfortunately, in some marriages, one spouse, in order to control the other, looks for his partner's vulnerable places and exploits them like Nurse Ratched in the movie, "One Flew over the Cuckoo's Nest." He tries to make his partner dependent on him through trying to weaken her.
This is common among spouses with an intense fear of abandonment. Unfortunately, this behavior actually materializes his fears as he drives his partner away through his cruel behavior.
Marriages need freedom to thrive.
eastariel 4 months ago
Women - learn to cook, clean & sexual gratify - mission accomplished.
mba2ceo 6 months ago
Good advice.
I would, however, like to add a couple items.
1. Some men and some women cannot be 'changed' by anything a spouse can do or say regardless. Its not a good idea to make a woman feel like she CAN always do or say things and that it WILL always work. That sort of reasoning can lead a woman to suicide if she's made to feel its her fault that its not working.
2. Husbands/men need to take RESPONSIBILITY for their own actions and behavior.
Many men wont and that is why marriage fails.
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my lies wid me every time n represent me v bad infront of his family. now i hate him sooooooooooo much.
gsmdude 1 year ago
I married a sociopath. He lies evertime he speaks. I think that you might want to specify that their are some men that will use you for years and minipulate you and then run off and leave you in the poor house.
DezzyRayz 2 years ago 2
@DezzyRayz my husband also lies wid me all the time n represent me v bad infront of his family, now i hate him so much bt cant get rid of him cz i never want to hurt my mother. living wid my husband is like a hell for me.
gsmdude 1 year ago
As with an automobile, there can only be one driver, so someone has to let go of the wheel and be a passenger. Does that mean that they have no say in what direction they go? No, but forcefully taking the wheel can be detrimental to all. The truly wise woman has built up her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands. (Proverbs 14:1) A wise woman respects Gods arrangement of headship. (1 Corinthians 11:3) Try the book , The Secret To Family Happiness.
wonderful2u2 2 years ago
relationships are about NOT being selfish...oh and that does sometimes require changing yourself
axlent123 2 years ago
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axlent123 2 years ago
LOL you can't force to opposing forces to join or the marriage will be doomed to fail. And besides anyone should not have to change for anyone. That is how a relationship works.
011180russell 2 years ago
I read her book "Sexless Marriage". It's amazing how well she understands men. She seems to know me better than I know myself. And I bet she has a very satisfied husband. I highly recommend her books.
gaagaagoogoo 2 years ago
This husband read one of her books and recommends that all wives and husbands do the same. Michelle teaches us how to modify behaviors of others in kinder gentler ways. She is also honest about not being a cure-all and discusses how to better live with behaviors in others that are too ingrained to change.
Namaegaaru 3 years ago
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