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  • Wow! I wish I knew your name. I'm dealing with stuff after from separating myself from my toxic mother and brother and I found your video.Thank you for being inspirational.You are beautiful.

  • I love this video so much I'm posting it on my Facebook community page: Toxic Mom Toolkit.

    Check it out.

  • Nice inspiring video.

  • Thank you so much for this video, after so many years of not being able to understand my family I have recently decided to just let it all go and now I have peace

  • thanks so much for this video, its calmed me down. I feel like that is great advice but sometimes so hard to accomplish like probably leaving an abusive relationships

  • I think I love you.

  • You are an inspiration.

  • That sounds like my mom. exactly like it lol. I want to be an attorney too. you are so amazing :)

  • I uploaded your video on my Facebook page. You are awesome. I am very proud of you. Keep striving.

  • You're so beautiful (even in your natural state as well as your inside). This was a touching video. I'm happy to see your turned a negative into a positive! :)

  • I can see in your eyes how much you have been through. Yet, you are willing to love others. What a beautiful and strong spirit. You found your own way, and pave the way for others. Bless you.

  • Thankhs so much.

  • I really needed to hear this because I am strugglin with this as I speak. im 32 and been going thru it all my life and just realized its time for it to end...cause its effecting my kids.

  • TY 4 sharing this story.

  • This is so true what you are saying, about how toxic people function...And the ones that are relatives can be the most hurtful and damaging to a persons overall well being.

  • Thank you. I'm thinking about my girlfriend. Nothing I say or do is good enough for her. I'm not excited about being totally alone..and I'm in a foreign country too. But you gave me some things to thunk about. Maybe it isn't the end of the world.

  • Your video is right on point. Thank you

  • OMG!!! you are discribing my mother 100%. I am the oldest of 7 girls, ever since I stud up to her to let her know that she was very abusive to me, no to mention she slept with my ex-fiance, abandon me wen i need her the most talk lies about my dad to keep us in the shadows . its been hell, I pray to GOD to heal her heart, she doesn't have a relationship with no one that think differnt of her views , I now enjoy a good relationship with my dad and her sisters -my aunts- and they are my moms now..

  • Thanks for sharing sister. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

  • Thank you so much I've been forgiving getting burned over and over again. I been through way too much hell with my mom. My dad was not around extreme addiction problems. I had to realize I needed to focus on my spirituality. I was at some point afraid that I was doing the wrong thing by cutting myself off from her...but I'm so glad you have inspired me to follow my own gut. I need a break from the abuse, and I'm now going to allow myself to have one =) THANKS!!

  • that scripture is the story of my life! or shall say.....she'll be here for me if i do what she wants

  • she thinks she's the only one who has been through pain and she on her fourth marriage because she thinks you should marry people like tic tacs and divorce them when they are no long fresh and expects me to do the same and i won't so she aint talking to me. i asked her lets just communicate but, she wants to send me facebook letters and not talk like adults. she's always all offended about everything and it is really draining.......so i'm happy i stumbled upon this again because

  • i've kept this vid in my favorites for almost a year now and when i first saw it i pondered on whether my mom might be toxic.....she didn't beat me, she didnt' abuse me but, she never held me,she never told me she loved me and i brought that into my marriage and recently my husband got in trouble wit the law and she's trying to turn me against him and she's suppose to be saved and i told how i felt about everything and she wants to play the victim and not talk to me

  • I love your video. I am cutting off my whole family. I am 34 years old and I am tired of being judged and rejected. I just got married and I didnt let my mother make my life a mess like she wanted to. Toxic parents are no fun. Toxic family's are no fun. Thanks for the enpowerment. You have helped me and thanks for praying for me. and all others in need.

  • Thanks for being so brave and sharing your story. I'm glad you made it through to be the woman you are today.

  • Sorry to send so many comments in one day..Im trying to watch your vids...The good Lord led me to this..I needed this so bad...I recently had to cut a way from family..thanks

  • You are surely greater  than your past. GBU

  • My father was an abusive animal, both verbally and physically, and my mother just buried her head in the sand and chose to ignore the war zone that was the environment I grew up in. I can relate, and I sympathize with you. May the good Lord give you the strength to carry on.

  • Bless you for sharing and making this video.......I think in many families we tolerate "toxic" relationships because we are afraid to confront relatives about this behavior out of disrespect......I have experienced and understand what you have been through.........thanks for helping us heal...........

  • Horrific!! Im glad you made it out!!

  • Amen, this is so true! you & Alexys are on point, I lived it too! Thank you for sharing this story with me. Continue to be successful, its the greatest revenge!

  • This is very inspirational and encouraging. It was wonderful that she was able to turn to the Lord for comfort and strength. I have been struggling with toxic people almost all of my life. In recent years, the Lord has helped me to learn to let go of negative situations and people, including family.

  • You are a strong beautiful woman.I am so grateful 2 have come by this vid.I needed that at this very moment.Thank You so much.I'm so happy you overcame the past and I hope 2 also do the same.Thanks again~

  • Thanks!

  • Thanks for your kind words. It's very inspiring. I know that it will help someone who sees this video.

  • Thanks for watching!

  • Its true I feel you on all this my family is dysfunctional and I can truly relate to this all the way.Love the message because I am doing well inspite of it all and I have been praying also and I also released it to God.When it comes down to it these things seem to bother us mainly because we don't understand why.Moving forward is necissary or else yo will be stuck going no where.God always shows us that people curse themselves when they try to curse you.And hey they are missing out on you.

  • This is so true!!! I feel so much better now that I release all toxic relationships in my life!!!

    Great video!

    Love is....

    TL

  • Beautiful testimony!

  • I would have guessed you came from a strong family background! You really got it going on. God is just soooooooooooooo hm hm campbell soup good!

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