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  • PUA is being the best version of yourself, it's like master and explore yourself to the limits, and make people notice that so you grab their attention, with this comes social skills, confidence which draw girls... PUA is all about life, it's a way of life, it's a philosophy...

  • @JiggaNiggaFigga its knowledge and knowledge is power.

  • you may be the worlds best pua... but you sir... have only one leg.

  • woman do the choosing, not men.

    if she gives you eye contact, approach her. if shes not looking at you, shes not into you. believe me, women noticed you the moment you've walked through the door.

    the PUA is for nerds.

  • @bluepumpkin999 the idea of PUAs is that even when a girl isn't initially into you, by talking to her, you can make her interested. And improving your confidence level so high that women can't help but notice you.

    I have a roommate who's so good with women, he'd give some pickup artists trouble, and the subtle things he does makes a HUGE difference.

    And yes PUAs are nerds who studied socializing down to the nuts and bolts of it. Regardless of your skill level, the PUA stuff can help anyone

  • @bluepumpkin999 yeah, but whats nerdy bout is not knowing wat to say and do after she gives you the look. Retard!

  • just look where he is sitting , u can tell who s the boos , he even games friends

  • next time I'm in the club I'm gonna wave to all my imaginary friends

  • Once you get good enough at this stuff it's hard to keep doing it cuz you'll meet enough hot girls that will become interested on you that it's easy to end up with a girlfriend. Which is ironic b/c now you can't utilize your new skills anymore.

    It's very ironic. But this stuff works, tried and true. Don't be afraid to talk about it either, girls find it fascinating.

  • How to be awesome:

    Be desireless.

    Be excellent.

    Be gone.

  • @jaguarclaw I wrote part of the PUA speak. I do not need any part of the lingo, Thank you :)

  • @jaguarclaw All you have to do is present well, and there you go :) 

  • @jaguarclaw By the way, I loved you in Apocalypto, haaaaaa! :D

  • @TimeGents Actually, I have not seen that movie. Is it worth it? They kept delaying its release.

    All the best, man :)

  • @jaguarclaw I understand what you are saying. The situation you are describing is rather rare though, in my club experiences. If walk in with a good haircut, cool clothes and accessories, I do get approached more often. BTW, I know Erik, a.k.a. Mystery. I took his workshop while it was in its infancy, while the instructors were he and Style. Erik dresses outlandishly, in order to get the immediate attention of the whole club. His method increases your numerical success by a factor ca. 3 :D

  • @jaguarclaThey come to you? You are on of those rare guys, then. You must vibe off exceptional alpha qualities.

  • @jaguarclaw It is superficial for those girls to think this. Girls rarely go out clubbing alone. The Mystery Method is geared towards meeting girls in clubs. Since these will be found in groups, the "hunter" must learn to address and befriend the entire group before he can transition to isolating the girl he is interested in from her group, otherwise he risks facing a hostile reception. xD

  • Notice how Erik is taking up more space on the couch than he is entitled to. He is occupying 2/3's of the couch, instead of 1/2. An alpha, if childish thing to do.

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  • NERDS! NERDS! NERDS! Common get a life seriously, this is a load of bull... if a girl finds you attractive then she won't reject you

  • skip to 3:50... once he says "i don't have" imagine him saying "any money... I can't afford a drink" ive been laughing on my own for about 2 minutes. is this sad?

  • Here is how to pick up chicks in a nutshell without all this complication:

    1) Be handsome.

    2) Don't be a creep.

  • @sammy5112 To a woman, a creep is any guy who she doesn't think is handsome who approaches her.

  • @sammy5112 Present well, ie. be well dressed and well groomed. I know guys who are only average in looks, but they make an effort to be their best selves and end up succeeding with women, despite their lack of conventional handsomeness.

  • these guys are dorks!! These puas are complete dorks who have to analyze and overthink human interactions and make them into a science. I know because I was once like this. However i'm not saying that they are wrong...it's just that once you tap into your natural drives and sexual urges it looks ridiculous. We are mammals people...we are created to f**k that's how we were made. Just be in the moment and show a girl your natural attraction to her through body language and you are good.

  • lol invasion of space. he's got his knee touching the other guys thigh lol. this dude is like back the fuck off...he keeps looking down at his knee touching his thigh!! he is gaming the guy.

  • Oh, and guys, for christ sake. If you happen to score with a chick you picked up from a club WEAR A CONDOM. Not only because she could have herpes, but you don't want to be paying her 218 consecutive monthly payments because you knocked her up. I know if "feels better" without a condom, but how's it gonna feel when you're making those payments for 18 YEARS. Or when you get herpes or something.

  • Guys, I know this really doesn't have to do with the video so much, but if your girlfriend goes out to clubs without you. DUMP HER. People go to clubs to hook up. If your girlfriend is going to clubs, she's probably having guys grind up on her an making out with her and shit. If she wants to go out with the girls, she can go to Starbucks or something. And if she really has to dance, she can put on some music in her living room and dance with her girlfriends there.

  • @psx2514 SOME ONE HAS SEVERE TRUST ISSUES

  • @theProdigy02 Why do you go to clubs?

  • @psx2514 first im not single so i dont always go to meet women. its more to relax and cut loose and have fun

  • Damnit he just described my typical night at the clubs!

  • When you don't speak with ums and ahs but you're kind of slow, it makes you seem slower upstairs.

  • Has anyone ever tried what Tom Leykis suggests? Just go to a bar by yourself, and act like your waiting for a friend. Just sit at the bar (talk to the bartender if it's not too loud or busy) or a a private table, and just look like you're too cool for the room. Eventually, women should start approaching you because they are such attention whores who are so used to every guy bending over backwards for them that they won't believe that you're not paying any attention to them.

  • @psx2514 i've try it. It's works, but sometimes, it just takes too long for women to approach you

  • Dude, in our clubs you can't hear the girl even if she's SHOUTING IN YOUR EAR!!! So ... work that if you can!

  • @t0y2610 here in new york city i have big time problems hearing girls in the clubs.

  • dont wave at imaginary people that is incredebly lame!!!!!!

  • The only game that matters...

    My cock says thanks, Mystery!

    xD

  • too complicated, here is hot to do it put on shiny shirt walk in order a shot, drink it order a shot, drink it order a shot, drink it order a shot, drink it order a shot, drink it step 2 go to nearest cute girl, take her hand, start dancing with her. 3 is she staying with you? no? step 2 4 after 2 songs, turn her around, grind your leg on her pussy 5. smile at her, she smile back? kiss her. 6. say "its too loud lets get some air" lead outside 7. find alley have sex paypal me $20
  • @ReadThisBelow LOOOOLS!! Nice xD

  • @ReadThisBelow you are a champoin!

  • @ReadThisBelow Thats fuckin hilarious

  • @ReadThisBelow lol nice one.

  • I think Mystery is high in this video! lol

  • so he's saying we shouldn't go out on fridays and saturdays to clubs for in-field? then when? wth mondays?

  • if youre as tall as he is, you can check the hole room from one position... buts whats with thoses guys as small as me!? wtf!?

  • @itsuxx Lol Neil Strauss 5ft 6in is the best pickup artist, mystery said so and him and mystery as were untouchable. Lol you have nothing to worry about dude.

  • yeah, like a video game....

  • But in conclusion, bottom line is just do what works for you. Everyone has their ways and interpretations, and the key here is to take all the best ideas that would work for yourself, leave out the others, and go from there. There is no one right answer, so all of you viewing this, take from it what is good for you and your personality. The Wing Girls and my sisters only represent a certain percentage of girls, and they are all themselves different from each other. Just do whatever works.

  • Listen to what the Wing girls had to say (the two girls that do professional dating coaching for men). Listen to their club story about how as they were dancing at the club, they were trying their best to do everything necessary to get the guys away, but everything kept backfiring because everything they did only made even more guys see it as a signal to crowd them more - and these were girls that were actually on a dancefloor, where it's supposed to happen!

  • But in reality, all that matters is that you do what works for you. However, I want to avoid people coming here, finding one comment and saying "alright! that guy says it's not true, therefore that's my excuse to say it's all a scam..." etc. But just ask my sisters.. or many girls in general. They are there to get attn. However, wanting to be noticed and wanting physical contact from any type of guy are two different things. Yes, anyone can look, but most defenses are up to keep attn to a limit.

  • @ MisterCool: That's exactly it - IF the girl finds you attractive! Most likely, most of the people learning this material are not going to spark that attraction from the get go, so they will run into the defensiveness, or the "bitchshield" and end up becoming "just another guy trying..." So when the girl detects this coming towards her, the "ask for money mentallity" kicks in. Many girls at clubs are there for fun, a break from life, and self esteem. Many would not mind turning down guy or two.

  • Honestly, I don't think he's advocating waiting in this video at all. He's simply just presenting the type of group sets that you should notice upon entering the club and have a game plan ready to immediately approach each set, while also being aware of extra's that might also be a part of the set who may unexpectedly pop in later and be ready to deal with whatever they bring to possibility mess you up. He's saying "don't be the fool that gets caught roaming entire club alone before approaching"

  • @DjKDM7000

    His name is Mystery. To me, his game seems to be based on indirect tactics to increase your value to girl. Like I said, I don't really do the talking game as much as dance floor game, so what he is saying could be completely irrelevant to the points I'm making. "Roaming" is a strong word because it implies a lack of finesse when making your move. You need to be smooth but there is nothing wrong with moving around casually to look for targets. That is what you are there for.

  • I really don't care for bars and clubs (unless I'm dj'ing of course), but I do love learning the bars and club material since I know that just because it's titled or directed towards "bars and clubs", that doesn't mean it doesn't apply to other areas of life as well. People need to smarten up and open their minds a bit. Not only in dating either. I use dish soap to clean just about ALL things, EVEN THOUGH the container says "DISH soap". needless to say I'm good at saving money. Expand your mind.

  • "Don't look like you are on the prowl"

    As if it matters. Girls know that the guys are looking for girls at the clubs.

  • @ MisterCool - and what you said ("Girls know that....etc.") explains precisely why you should not look like you're on the prowl! Whether or not people understand why, now that's a different story.. but don't feel like explaining it now.

    ____________________

    What I like about these PUA's are their ability to not only be "cool" with what they do, but also insert science and psychology into it and make it something interesting. Not just being a typical player full of superficial thoughts & beliefs

  • I'm probably on a different page with this guy because I've always done dance floor game. My rules are simple and direct: Make your move before another guy does.

  • @ MisterCool: What ur saying implies somewhat that ur probably already above the level of many others who are watching this. Why? Because ur implying that ur mostly out to have fun, not really to try to prove anything to yourself. His "techniques" are for people who are in the practicing/learning stages, where they want to learn every precise detail and step. "Make your move before another guy does" implies ur not too worried about the outcome, but just enjoy the moment on the spot & let it be..

  • ...actually, there it is! "I've always done dance floor game" So it's already obvious you already know the game! The thing with guys who already naturally know the game is that it's their reality, so, they don't know that they know it, so when they hear it explained out logically, it's like "what the heck is this BS? - it's not that difficult!" They don't know that there's actually something to know, because it's just normal, so you don't worry about the steps - you just do it plain and simple

  • @DjKDM7000

    The best way to practice is to actually get out there and approach girls. Try different approaches and see what works and what doesn't. If you wait around like this guy says, trying to look like you aren't on the prowl, you are just going to be wasting your time, while the guy on the prowl ends up grinding, making out, and leaving with the girl you wanted. Going out is fun, but it's more fun when you land a babe. That only happens when you put yourself out there.

  • @MisterCool: But the reason he says wait for specific times in certain situations is so you'll know what ur getting into before u get into it. As a practicer, u don't want to be taught "just do it" in all situations- if it's only going to lead to unnecessary situations that could've been avoided by scanning first. "Looking like you aren't on the prowl" simply means just having fun. Most guys are making it overly obvious that they want something. That's why u don't want to do the same.

  • @DjKDM7000

    Of course you have to use common sense before you "just do it." If a guy is near your target, you don't want to go in because of the chance that the guy may interfere with your approach. But other times, you should just go in. If it's a two-set, you could wait for another guy to approach the other girl, but that's not always a good idea but he could try dancing with both girls or the girl you want. Just go for what you want. Girls already know you are on the prowl.

  • Also, ur not waiting around to make it look like ur not on the prowl, ur only waiting around in specific situations where u see that it's probably not wise to make a move because someone may come in to mess up ur game. Not being on the prowl simply means showing up hanging with buddies and having an obvious good time. Prowling/acting like u want something, to a woman, it's like when ur walking down the street, see someone, and u know they are going to ask for money or something- defenses rise.

  • @DjKDM7000

    You're analogy at the end of your post is not a good one because women go to bars and clubs with the hope that an attractive guy will come up and approach them. They don't walk down the street hoping that some random stranger will ask them for money. If the girl finds you attractive, she won't care if you are on the prowl as long as she is the one you are after. You are a DJ, so you should know this better than I do, as you get to see everything.

  • As you can see, Mystery was clearly trying to seduce that man. There was no need for him to sit so close to that guy. Also, look at the way he keeps staring at him while he's speaking. As soon as that man says one word, mystery starts giving him ioi'S. Notice his body language, his hands moving crazy. That was clearly a sign of him being turned on. Once again ladies and gentlemen, mystery has proven to be a master of seduction. I bet he F-closed on this one.

  • lol good one

  • that is funny, cause he is sitting right up on the guy. the other guy has his arm up to prevent this mystery guy from getting any closer!

  • i lol'd

  • @preludeguy22

    LOL

  • @preludeguy22

    LOL! This guy knows his stuff!

  • the best possible game in a loud club is still dancing imho.. I mean there are completely different rules on a dancefloor compared to day game.... u can kiss a girl even if u haven't spoken a word before, and that's absolutely OK.

    Or u can grab a girl's ass while dancing, and that's OK too, in most cases..

    But Mystery forgets about this option, he's great at speaking, but i think he doesn't really like dancing :)

  • i admire what he does and teaches and has made a huge impact on men that find game diffcult - however somretimes i think im my view he can make it too complex than neccassary like its a rocket surgery with some algebra thrown in.

    bravo though mystery ive read and practiced much of your work.

  • Keep in mind that the techniques that he demonstrates are nothing more than examples. Once you realize that it all is just a silly little game, your natural confidence will come out. When this happens, you'll have no problem knowing what to do when the time comes to act. You'll be improvising on your own, and soon you'll come up with your own strategies for the game. That is what makes it an art! :)

  • Well I guess this is the work required for 90+% of girls to find you attractive

  • The Mind Set.

  • Mystery makes sense but sometimes i think this guy takes himself a little too seriously I mean have you ever Heard Cajun talking about a "white circling light around them" i mean come on!? seriously?

  • its because mystery is not human...he's a machine haha

  • @webweweave11 he was referring to being in the matrix trust me i been there and its exactly what it is like....also when you are in the "zone" the game is much much more slower versus when you furst start

  • Oh yeah the "Matrix" I once achieved that...I was at the Bar talking to a "3 set" Or as I like to call them "Trinity" when it happened to me suddenly all the the groups of girls just disappeared and All I would see was "Code" just numbers, it was amazing!!

    When the "Mother Hens" or "Agents" as I call them came I no longer had to run! I was dodging their cock blocking in slow motion!! Whoa!

  • yea...it feels just like the part when he is dodging bullets..everything is so slow and you have so much time to think

  • hahah that was funny

  • @webweweave11 LOL hilarious....but very true. It's all an experience people. Get out there and practice. I play basketball. The first time I learned to dribble @ 14 I lifted my leg to bounce the ball between my legs. Through practice and the will to get better I can now dominate on the court. It's the same with everything in life. Just get out there and do it and you will be dodging bullets in time. Just remember that you will get embarrassed and you will look like a fool but it's life.

  • @free2flow10784 You've pretty much nailed it. Unless you are exceptionally gifted, most of success in life comes from hard work.

  • The reason why mystery is so good is that he has the combination of a brilliant understanding female psychology, confidence,uniqueness and a chessmaster approach to pick up.

  • Mystery is like sitting too close from the guy, he's like pushing him.

  • the confidence to hold an intreaging and none boring social talk is vital to getting to know strangers at a club or in the street or mall. be yourself but you dont have to tell everything about yourself unless ur confident about who u r and u dont mind anyone knowing. being a social bug of yourself is good to avoid awkward silences. which can maim any relationship, i suppose that explains wy we all talk alota sh***t not lies but small talks. no awkwards silences everyone can be pals & maybe more

  • its ok to be comfortable with the company ur with, they maybe bros or plantonic friends,girl n girl, guy n girl, guy n guy, guy and pet, or girl n pet....its a whole new age with being confident..and being the alpha without havin to explain how the world works to those who pick at every little thing. ie you dont ask when someone barfs or falls, you iether help them out or listen...play nice people cos the world could use less rivalries...datings already hard for some...so play nice or be nice...

  • Is it true that even if a good is very attractive, but not much social skills and confidence, he still can't pick up?

  • Whats with sitting so close to the other guy Mystery.. you looking to pull him as well?

  • Wow!!! all that analysis just for going into a club. Dont move around. Dont go to the dance floor wave to imaginary friends, stay near the entrance. Its like being a programmed robot where the fuck is the fun in this?

  • Man this is perfect cause 60% of time when i go to a bar or club, me and my boys do exactly that, we scan the room and walk around looking like we're on the prowl, but the other time we go directly to one place and set up shop there and go for the kill from there, and I must say we get more looks and smiles that way! Tomorrow I'ma have to keep that in mind when i go out to a club.

  • What an erotic end, lol. ;D

    btw, why the hell should you fake a wave ? i mean if the girl comes to you "hey, so who's your friends ?" you'll probably freeze OR tell her something stupid.

  • "My friends are over there in the back. Oh wait, they must have moved. I'll introduce you later, if you are polite enough to tell me your name..."

    Continue from there.

  • It's to demonstrate a higher value.. how many girls goes to a complete stranger and ask such a dumb question, that would be a lower demonstration of value for her. Honestly, i don't think that lying is the best opportunity for hook up with a girl, i prefer to be myself, and it works. I think lies is for guys who don't know AT ALL how to pick up nice looking ladies, or anyone at all.

    Peace

  • I understand how you can perceive the interpretation of this segment. But you would be miss calibrated in your thinking of Social Dynamics.

  • Im sorry? what segment? and what do you mean by social dynamics?

  • What you just said makes absolutely no sense. Just thought I would let you know.

  • Some guy last week was pulling that on me and I was falling for it everytime until he explained it to me. Trust, it works. I lol'ed.

  • @Purenicotine it works because it's natural but we humans have become so smart that we need our instincts explained.  sad huh?

  • why are they sitting so close?? lol

  • @ididyourmom38 lmao what's your point

  • @ididyourmom38 he was sitting on mysterys lap just before filming,

  • @ididyourmom38 tactic, by sitting close, but facing the same direction as the person your sitting with.. it gives a sense of comfort through almost any conversation. Think of it as symbolism, you both face in the same direction, there's no confrontation of eachother's thoughts, no face to face subconscious wall between you, it represents an untrheatening and allied presence. Girls don't fall for this, thy realise what it.. but they also respect it, it's a feeling of connection. Try it:)

  • @ididyourmom38 may be because they don't care about stereo-fucking-types

  • @ididyourmom38

    mystery is seducing him to sell his new DVD

    PUA at the gaybar

  • this guy is the real man.... he's is a chick magnet and can turn an asshole into fuckin sex machine!!!!! Lol!!!

  • this guy is so fucking dogmatic with his retarded bullshit of disqualifying and negs and his bs you dont need to be so fucking dogmatic when it comes to this shit i go direct all the fucking time without even paying attention to her friends and i still get numbers and makeouts .

  • sure you do bro

  • There's no one way to pickup....

    there's direct...and then there's indirect. They both have their strengths and weaknesses.

  • @theonthepsi I agree. Just be prepared to face your fears and try a bunch of different things, and eventually (with practice) you will find what works best for you.

  • @larrygt1 Yeah we humans have become so smart that we need are instincts explained and learned. Sad huh? but it is survival of the fittest....not everyone will make it. It's just life.

  • @free2flow10784 You are correct. In the animal world, those who are not among the fittest tend to perish. In the human world, the weaker ones remain alive, but unfortunatley lead poor quality lives.

  • I just love his body language.

  • I am reading "The Game" by Neill Strauss!!!! I feel like i have a gold mine with me!!!! LOL!!!!

  • Does this book help u a lot to understand women and pick up chicks?

  • LoL.... yes man.

  • if that's the case I am borrowing it right now at the library..

  • i just orderd the game : undercover in the secret society of pickup artist. Have you read this? im worried i just bought a pick that has nothing to do with picking up girls lol

  • @eveza12345

    The game by Neil straus is about picking up girls. but its more like a novel, than an actual guide. it descripes the PUA universe

    but theres no reason to make things so complicated. u learn more by sarging in the field, than reading 100 books

  • Hail to the king Mystery.

  • I'm 5'5''. Try beating that.

  • It's easier to see like this when you are 6'10.

    I'm 5'8". I guess I could stand on a stool

  • daxx is stuuupppiddd

  • dex is a stupid fuck. gtfo. u dont know anything. how much money did u pay mystery to be wher you are. you are not worthy

  • Dex needs to smile more, and shave his 80's beard. Guy looks like a dirt-bag.

  • Stupid take this guy has the tightest game ever.

  • was referring to mystery's side kick not mystery.

  • Need some help with nite gaming (club game). The dynamics, i realize, is very different from day game. If anyone has any material i can read up on specializing in NIGHT GAME ONLY, do reply. Thanks

  • well what exactly do u find difficult about night game?

  • MM specilaizes in night game. Social proof, group theory, disqualifcaation all night game.

  • posted the last comment before I saw the end of the video and had to post again... Watch how he took the guys value away at the end when he tries to contribute: "oh yeah that thing that other guy came up with, so you're copying that? cool!"

  • haha mystery can be such an ass. look how hes sitting in the middle of a 2 person love seat and making the other guy squeeze into whatever space is left. haha so typical. gotta love him tho

  • mystery is demonstrating higher alpha value by doing that...haha

  • The other dude though is just accepting it. Sure its Mystery he's with but they're more than likely mates too... 'move the hell up, you're not an HB10, move your man germs over dude...'

  • Haha damn this guy is technical with it. I love it.

  • I used to be terrible with women, after paying attention to some of this for just a few days it completely changed the way I approach women. Last night I got 2 kiss closes, great social philosopher right here. This stuff works! Try it, what have you got to lose besides another night at home surfing the net?

  • Did you buy the ebook or something? What is your best advice to get the kiss close?

  • i agree,,women put up their personas when they go out to bars and clubs. so, those places are actually better for practising your game so when you do see a girl in a supermarket or a bookstore or a gym, you know you will have the skill to connect with her

  • man mystery really knows what hes talking about he treats it all like a game cant wait till im older and out of school to try this out more its so much harder in school

  • school is the perfect place to game man. girls in class... on the bus ... watever.

  • thumbs up

  • its the best place to train

  • the best thing to do when your in school is to dumb down your neg. be more obvious. younger girls dont need clever negs.

  • yah dude is damn hard in school

  • hey fireinyoursoul:

    Just because you are in school DOES NOT make it harder to be a pua. I am in school. I am doing. That type of thinking you have is the kind that top puas do not have. Change your thinking, change your attitude.

    On a weekly basis i get around 10-15 numbers a week. I lay about 10 of them. Soon it will be a 100%. Learn, listen.

  • Oh my god man, I regret not sarging in school more... I had your EXACT way of thinking. Cafeterias, halls, libraries, all that shit is perfect for gaming... and why not, you're already there at school anyways!

    Really man, you have to realize the location is never a problem. Problems only really arise when you've got moving sets with time constraints, like street game for example.

    ...Lucky for me I'm going back to school: college pickup is going to be so so fun, I can't wait :D

  • good video.

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