@PUSSY100ish Because her "gorgeous beauty" isn't some cheap piece of art for everyone to enjoy :) Only her good (female) friends and family get that privilege~ Plus, I'm sure she doesn't want to be appreciated for whether ppl find her ugly or pretty; she wants to be appreciated for her choices (such as belief in Islam and covering of the body) and actions, and the headscarf successfully does that whether other ppl realize it or not. At least that's why I wear it; it may be y Sabrina wears it too
You know you are with the right person when you don't feel you have to ask questions like that. I thought Marriage was about love not some kind of business contract
@markymarkali Love doesn't last unless you are willing to work at it the way you would a business. This idea that love is enough to make a marriage work is the reason why we have such a high divorce rate. Love is only a small part of the overall picture of a successful marriage. Any marriage counselor religious or secular will tell you that. As well as married couples.
@markymarkali Lol!! Someone's been reading too many romance novels or believing tv shows and movies a little too much! That's a very unrealistic expectation. Love is soo overrated in the media. If love was what made a marriage, there wouldn't be divorce. Personality compatibility and shared values and respect make a successful marriage. If you read up on the science of attraction (what is portrayed as "love" in movies etc.) then you would know that it's a fleeting feeling that lasts for 2-4 yrs
@Dengkaidou "spouse" is second after parent (especially mother!). I'm assuming you also meant "husband is 2nd after the parent" but I said "spouse" just to clarify :) You're so right tho! I mean, our mothers went through so much pain and time and effort to raise us!
@TangySweet14 xD...husband come first before the parent...it is bcoz after marriage women r 100% under husband responsibilty...all expenses must be cover by the husband....
but the husband must respect the wife's parent..that y i said marry the man who put his parent first before anything else....bcoz that man will understand the relationship between em..xD
@Dengkaidou yea, under the husbands CARE and r supposed to listen to his decisions (I don't like the word 'obey' it sounds oppressive to me, idk y) but if my mom told me something, I'd listen to her first. A husband is someone you get together with. You're parents are the ones who bore and raised you, your mom went through pain to have you (for which we'll never even be able to pay her back for ONE contraction pain, even if we carried her around on our backs for the rest of our lives!)...
Why doesn't she take that silly costume off and show more of her gorgeous beauty
PUSSY100ish 1 week ago
@PUSSY100ish who's wearing a silly costume?
sliceofl 1 week ago
@PUSSY100ish I didn't know that was you, sorry.
PUSSY100ish 1 week ago
@PUSSY100ish Because her "gorgeous beauty" isn't some cheap piece of art for everyone to enjoy :) Only her good (female) friends and family get that privilege~ Plus, I'm sure she doesn't want to be appreciated for whether ppl find her ugly or pretty; she wants to be appreciated for her choices (such as belief in Islam and covering of the body) and actions, and the headscarf successfully does that whether other ppl realize it or not. At least that's why I wear it; it may be y Sabrina wears it too
TangySweet14 4 days ago
You know you are with the right person when you don't feel you have to ask questions like that. I thought Marriage was about love not some kind of business contract
markymarkali 1 month ago
@markymarkali Love doesn't last unless you are willing to work at it the way you would a business. This idea that love is enough to make a marriage work is the reason why we have such a high divorce rate. Love is only a small part of the overall picture of a successful marriage. Any marriage counselor religious or secular will tell you that. As well as married couples.
ayanamone 1 month ago
@markymarkali Lol!! Someone's been reading too many romance novels or believing tv shows and movies a little too much! That's a very unrealistic expectation. Love is soo overrated in the media. If love was what made a marriage, there wouldn't be divorce. Personality compatibility and shared values and respect make a successful marriage. If you read up on the science of attraction (what is portrayed as "love" in movies etc.) then you would know that it's a fleeting feeling that lasts for 2-4 yrs
TangySweet14 4 days ago
@TangySweet14 well u can say that in the west...but in the east the divorce percentage r low..almost unheard of..am not boasting but it is a fact..xD
Dengkaidou 3 days ago
IF me and your mom were hanging off a cliff who would u save
haha i didnt really ask that q
yes i did
you r sooooo funny!!
jennyrodijo 2 months ago
u are beautiful, is make up is allow to show someone in the media, i just don't know
HeroAnu 4 months ago
Yeah Mother will always come first
Harry24766 7 months ago
their mother always comes first...And if they say otherwise, they are lying!
SyrianMuslima 7 months ago
@SyrianMuslima if they answer otherwise dun marry them....xD...wife is 2nd after the parent...true muslim know that...if otherwise,,,,,^^
Dengkaidou 1 week ago
@Dengkaidou "spouse" is second after parent (especially mother!). I'm assuming you also meant "husband is 2nd after the parent" but I said "spouse" just to clarify :) You're so right tho! I mean, our mothers went through so much pain and time and effort to raise us!
TangySweet14 4 days ago
@TangySweet14 xD...husband come first before the parent...it is bcoz after marriage women r 100% under husband responsibilty...all expenses must be cover by the husband....
but the husband must respect the wife's parent..that y i said marry the man who put his parent first before anything else....bcoz that man will understand the relationship between em..xD
Dengkaidou 3 days ago
@Dengkaidou yea, under the husbands CARE and r supposed to listen to his decisions (I don't like the word 'obey' it sounds oppressive to me, idk y) but if my mom told me something, I'd listen to her first. A husband is someone you get together with. You're parents are the ones who bore and raised you, your mom went through pain to have you (for which we'll never even be able to pay her back for ONE contraction pain, even if we carried her around on our backs for the rest of our lives!)...
TangySweet14 3 days ago
I Just wrote a List like this... I like yours Im going to go add some more to my list :)
365Beautification 8 months ago
Lol love the mom question :-)
Akashia02 11 months ago
i dont like your earrings
mkoujan 1 year ago
I would ask: in heaven, if you're given Hoors, additional to having me as your wife, what would you do? *in my mind: please say u wont take them!!!*
SweetAngel720 1 year ago
lol absolutely LOVED this video Ma'shallah!
DaMeekz 1 year ago
How old are you??
MrHk000 1 year ago
I bet every Muslima has a list like that lol. You should've asked the last question.
azaadi8 1 year ago
I want the full list :D I need to ask all the right questions when the time comes insha'Allah!!! :)
ShashaDaoud 1 year ago
MOTHER COMES FIRST!!!!! LOL :P
SIKM4N 1 year ago
hahahaha tht was funny.. man I wish I had the checklist done before I got married :-/
Redsparklez 2 years ago
why do you call your husband the boss?
ranaglow 2 years ago