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  • A beautiful song

  • PEOPLE, He commits suicide. He tells his mom not to love him, but hate him. He doesnt want her to feel guilty and he wants to be alone. He doesnt want her to be upset and that she is better off without it. He is dead in the video..The end is just him in a glaze with his mom.

  • he's soooo bloody sexy....he's so into it....i love the head jerks and the heyyyy at 3:43 and the glimpse of something good at 3:46 hehe....oh ya we look and we notice

  • this is what i think it is.

    his mom was always there for him through everything.

    he's saying she would have been better off without him.

    his mom is dead now.

    the answering machine is the only thing he has left of her.

    the last scene i think is a memory because the recorder is still there.

  • He may have written it for his mother, but I'll be damned if it isn't exactly how I feel after my last break up. God I love that girl, fucked shit up so bad... doubt I'll hear from her again.

    FML. Time to move on I guess... or try...

  • good look brother!!!!

  • i meant good luck!!!

  • This is a deeply moving song about a mother's love for her son and the son's rude awakening about that love, after his mother passes away. Anyone who begs to differ, respond.

  • not sure if it's necessarily a rude awakening but something he's felt for a while

  • lol at the beggining of the video i thought that he was carrying a snes

  • You mean the original NES

  • this makes me miss my mom (WOW that sounded wimpy)

  • Yes, yes it does. - I kid

  • lol OH YEAH WELL jk

  • I <3 the way he says tomorrow. xD

  • Blue October, they say what we all want to say but don't know how, which is what makes them so magic to us who know what good music is, i went through hell and this song, just speaks to me like something i have never encountered, the battle with myself, causing hell on everyone else, and deserving to be hated, yeah thats my life i screw up and still am loved, which i wished they would quit doing, i didn't deserve it, but it was unconditional.....

  • i agree!!!!!!!!

  • If i could,

    i would give you more than one thumbs up.

    =]

  • thats exactlay whats going on in my life right now..... i just bring hell to all my friends and family... after i heard this song and dear god by avenged sevenfold ive tried my hardest to just be happy and not depressed all the time.... but im with you right now.....

  • Suicide hotline suggests using both barrels.

  • katarina, i love you. i really hope you get better...

  • Great song, just found in my CD collection I have a promo copy of this single. Really good.

  • I have followed these guys since 98. Its a shame that the tour was cancelled. I'm sure Justin will get better and continue the tour soon and make it back to Texas its been a while.

  • i love this song! and if you look at 3:37 you will see that he is bleeding on he's middle finger.

  • Captain Obvious.

  • Man, why did i have to sell my SNES. Damn it, i am such a fucking a-hole. Yep, i am just one big fat piece of shit! oh well, time to go stroke my penis.

  • haha that made me luagh, you sure your not the guy who wrote this song?

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  • yeah the song is about how he had to be checked into a mental hospital and how he got through it. took me so long to realize that justin is singing....to justin!

  • it looks like he's holding a super nintendo lol, even though its an answering machine, still makes me luagh

  • Yep. That's what the song is all about. His SNES broke, so now he feels regret because he spent so many nights out partying and getting hammered instead of playing Super Mario Kart at home. Now he wishes he could just play his SNES one more time... very touching

  • This vidoe is only ment to be an inspiration people..

  • love this <3 except when i feel depressed lol

  • LITTLEMUSTANGFILLY, at the Breaking down concert Stephenie asked Justin to change, "that make a porno feel like home," to "that do not feel like home" she also asked for no swearing in the songs, so he changed "so I'll drive so fucking far away" to "I'll drive so far away" she also asked him not to drink. An ounce of peace is all I want for you, is on both versions.

  • wow i was trying to think of this band and ironically searching for another song led to this..

  • As a parent, i find this video very powerful as it has alot of meaning. There is a very clear message that tells us as parents , the impact we have on our children, especially during their teen years. We have this crazy notion that the older our children get the less time we need to spend with them when really that is when we should be more focused on them. One of my greatest regrets in life is not spending enough time with my children and now i realize how much pain i caused them . tknight-TY

  • the porno part is suposed to be an ounce of peace is all iwant for you.Because that is what blue october guy says on the cocert series of breaking dawn. Imigt be wrong though.thats .just what i heard.nice song though.

  • anyone who has someone in their life dealing with addiction can relate to this song. I wish I could hate him, I really do. The way he treats me, the way he treats our mother.... but best I can do is to distance myself until he decides he needs help :-(

  • I dont think the guys mom is dead cause I think she appeared in the music video

  • Right. Shes not dead. That is his real mother

  • Uh, I don't think this is about suicide. Misses his mom<3

  • This song is about his mom, the last time he heard from her was that answering machine message before she was killed in a car wreck. he hates himself for not being on good terms with his mom after all she did for him.

  • His mom isnt dead. She appears in the video. The song is about his struggle with depression and bi polar disorder

  • Now i understand what it means.

  • Can kind of identify...It resonates if you've ever loved someone so much that, when you break up, you're partly glad that they hate you. You want to do something that makes them hate you completely, just so that it's easier on them.

  • sadly true...

  • Kinda messed up song, but good nonetheless. Now I'm gonna listen to the Fray - How to Save a Life.

  • Suicide is a release, a final fix.. a way to not cause pain or intended for those outside ones feeling and thoughts..but to feel at peace with one self.. You know the outcome and care not for others around you because you've already let go.. I've thought of suicide many times, but listen to music or call a friend and brings a smile to my mind that I can still bring happiness in ones life..keeps me going..keeps me strong..Listen to your heart, not your head in times like these :)

  • Fabulous song. : )

  • i love this song XD

  • Suicide should never be anyone's exit. I still feel sick that my brother comitted such a horrible act that affected my entire family. The pain I feel on a daily basis is just down right horrible.

  • its not an exit for you but maybe its his. let go, in you way. like he did, in his way.

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  • I love this song even though it kind of saddens me, but I can relate to the whole song. This is to my boyfriend who was my rock when I was getting off opiates. Without him I would honestly still be the pill popper I used to be. Great song!

  • I had a brother that committed suicide on new years days of 20005 and to this day I wish he hadn't done that. Please don't give up!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My name is Rey and my number is 210-863-1785. Call me day or night.

  • FIGHT BACK TAKE YOURE LIFE BACK... X_X

  • -- An anthem about the pain that alcholic/ drug addicts cause their loved ones (in this case his mom).  He's saying hate me, its easier then being vulnerable and looking back in to the past and being embarrassed by bad behavoir and continuing battle with self-loathing. But I think he is really saying love me.

  • looks like london from daily of love...

  • homeboy she wasnt the one plus your grammar st that great so you can be over 16 so cheer up buddy lol

  • god this song is so sad :'( why do i keep watching it

  • i love this song (8)(L)

  • yea i no how yea feel..

  • this song is so true. i loved my boyfriend and we dated for 3 years and we fell apart and fought constantly this is so how i feel.

  • for me i lost i girl i loved i asked her out and i loved but then when i got home my told i am not goin bac to my school anymore bc i am changin right away. the day i got a gf i had to change schools i feel so bad that i dont know wat i should i feel so bad that this song reminds me of her i am so srry brittney plz for give and forgive for all the thing i didnt do for u

  • reminds me of my norco addiction......

  • awsome song...speaks to those who truely love you when all you want to do is crawl in a hole and die

  • I LOVE this song. Beautiful violin. Sexy vocalist.  :)

  • Best Blue October track by far!!! LOVE IT

  • there are VERY few songs nowadays that can actually reach out to people without them even trying.

    this is one of them. i'll never ever get sick of this song.

  • love the song and his eyeshadow his isbetter than mine

  • this exactly how someone would feel when you really really let someone you love down a lot. its kinda sad how people can appreciate poetries about sorrow but never songs.

  • you are completely correct.

  • teens adults my dad ... addiction Loss of hope fear of reality and never relizing that there are ones that are left behind, this song i re;late to my mom...

    our life and relationship that is so sad i was that son and now he is my dad in icu fucking makes me sad yet I understanmd every asspect and how it relates....F@#ing crule great song.... to reach into the soul like that.

  • I can relate to this song...

    I am sorry Alex I really am...

  • alot of teens can relate to this song.......

  • love thissssssssss songggggggggggg

    =D

  • it makes me cry too the lead singers eyes are just wow they make you fall into them

  • THIS MOVIE MAKES ME CRY.

    :(

    Its sooo sad.

  • I love the emotion he shows in this song and I can understand what he's saying on so many levels.

  • good song. i like it. its aweosme. depressing but is true

  • true true song. especially if you have ever known an alcoholic or someone with a drug problem.

  • love him, he has the greatest of voices

  • dude, that guy is scary! but good vid!

  • this dude has got some issues.good song. awesome vid.but this is rather depressing.

  • The chorus is so good!

  • agreed

  • why are you being hateful this is a great song it is not very often that you hear a band that sings good things about their mom this song made me cry more then once and i am far from rich i am dirt poor but it reminds us some of the things we have done to are parents and the love i think this is one of the best songs i have heard in a long time and didnt your mom teach you if you dont have something nice to say dont say anything so if you dont like it plz keep it to yourself

  • this video is awesome. it reminds me of my mom and how no matter what i did she loved me unconditionally. i just want to tell her over the phone to hate me

  • this vid is the best. everytime i listen to it it gives me goosebumps. it reminds me of me but my mom isnt gone yet.

  • I'm still trying to figure out the end Part Which in your answer could apply

  • GuitarSpwnu I'm Sure there are many Explainations But If you listen to the lyrics it's of his battle of his bipolar Disorder he became Violent twords his mother He wants her to hate him because she did so much for him but he feels like he repaid her by drinking and having addiction you can also look at interviews on the video this also explains part

  • ...they are relly good!!

  • This song is just simply amazing. I've always loved this song.Even when I was younger I thought it was awesome.Blue October rocks! (:

  • LOL when you were younger? This song is only like 2 years old!! hahaha

    BTW 3 days grace rocks

  • Lol. The frontman looks like Duff Goldman. x]

    Ace of Cakes, ftw.

    XD

  • i don't get the video. what is it about?

  • oh my.. i was going out, but now.. i dont want to. this is awsome!!!!!!!!

  • its on the new moon soundtrack? D=

    what? why is twilight diseasing everything? its needs to be hunted down and stabbed. or atleast stick to the right fucking music, like shitty paramore.

  • Paramore is good. but shitty disney movies should stick with shitty disney and nikelodean music. like Jonas bros, Miley, and Naked brothers... the 3 worst bands out there..

  • thats right

  • Why is Twilight ruining everything nowadays?

  • great fucking song

  • Definitely a sleeper hit song. This is awesome. 5 stars.

  • very good song

    =]

  • when you lose everything, it's the song that fits the mood. :( When everything has fallen apart and you realize that you are the monster that you've been trying to escape, well, it's the song that plays in your head. And I'm annoyed this is on the New Moon soundtrack.

  • WoahwoahwoahNONONO. Source? ;_;

  • Saw them live last month premiering for Kiss. They put on a great show but it must have been rough for them because most people were there for Kiss.

  • Hate me today...

    Hate me tomorrow...

    Hate me for all the things i didn't do for you.

  • some times its hard to live

  • HOLY-SHIT!! I just lost my girlfriend and this song fucking feel so god damn real. In fact I just sent this link to her....nothing like being drunk on the pc and a myspace account. peace out you crazy mofo's!!

  • i love this song it almost makes me cry. i feel like this is my song to my mom. the words mean so much :(

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  • It's the relationship of a self-destructive son & his mother...

  • The words to this are amazing

  • That song is so sad. They are using it as a song for the New Moon soundtrack. Its whats playing in Edwards mind when he leaves Bella.

  • Oh yeah, since the guy in this song is apologizing to his mother for doing drugs and alcohol, PERFECT song for Twishit. -Rolls eyes-

  • And then the song dies for me when twilight comes in for it -_-

  • Is it confirmed that it's on the soundtrack? Or just a rumor?

  • Yep its confirmed :)

  • Before i saw this video I always thought it was about his ex girlfriend and breaking up and how he still loves her but wants her to hate him for everything he did. Mmmm its more fitting that way :)

  • this song brings back ALOT of painful memories

  • When my grandfather died 6 years ago i kept the last message he sent to my answering machine the same way in this video. I still have it. The message is him asking why i wouldn't return his calls/emails. it makes me tear up thinking about it.

  • dude thats sad same here

  • no shit its an answering machine asshole, i was commenting on how it looks like a nintendo, just my thought, take it easy nWo4whateverthefuckurname is!!!!!!!!

  • i love this song,

    like its been my favorite for a very long time.

    i really feel bad for Justin Furstenfeld,

    and this is making me tear up.

    this song, is unlike any other

    because it's so close to him,y'know ?

    it's really about him,

    and it must've been a hella lot of work, trying to be stable and whatnot.

    iloveit<33

  • NES???!!!!!!!!! thats fuckin awesome

  • uh no thats an answering machine

  • This song always makes me cry...It makes me feel bad for when I'm mean to my family and treat them poorly. And they still love me. Because I'm crap..

  • Then you should treat them as nice as you can.. Love them as much as they love you and show it.. Let them know it any chance you can.. You never know what could happen.. They could be all gone the next day.. So show them how much you love them... And no.. Your not crap.

  • This song makes me incredibly sad. Its still a very good song.

  • .....5/5 =song

    perhaps lowering the volume at the beginning would be nice... blow my ear off whydoncha.

  • beautiful

    so meaningful

    i dedicate to my mother .

    every fucking word is dead on with my own life situations .

  • one of the best songs ever

  • i like this song :)

  • r.ip. I hope u found peace..i love u scott

  • nice

  • hey idiot, i wish I could give your comment the response it deserves but I don't speak retard. learn how to spell, leaving random letters out of words doesn't make you cool.

  • WTF are you guys crying about? His mom is still alive and she was even on the set where they were filming the video. Do some research before you start bawling. it's called google, ever heard of it?

  • dude dnt be such a bitch shut the fuk up people hav their problems

  • this song makes me want to cry....

  • hate...its a feeling that feeds off of fear, saddness, jealousy, power... I need that feeling...hate....its powerful

  • You're a real loser. >>

  • fuck yuu! stop bein a bitch

  • Yeah, whatever. You're the one spewing some bullshit like he's watched too much Naruto or some shit like that. And then you get mad when people pick on you, YOU put the target out there, dumbass.

  • This song reminds me of my friend..if he just hated me he could be happier....

  • Communication started with gestures, I am guessing the person your attacking, for no apparent reason, has a good one for you.

  • This song brings tears into my eyes almost everytime I listen, but @ the same time when it's over and i'm done crying I feel relieved and better ...Like I released the sadness and overcame X feelings of the past. "Love This Song"!!!!!!

  • Beautiful ain't it

  • G00d SONGG..

    bUt WiLL SUM1 PlEASE XPLAiN WhAt iT REAllY MEANZ ThO...i KiNdA kNOW bUt iM NOt 4SUrE..SO PlEAzE XPLAiN SUM1..ThANkZ =)

  • His mom is dead and he's feeling remorse for all the years he caused her pain. It's difficult to accept unconditional love, especially when you hate yourself and everything you've done. Now that she's gone he'll never have the chance to make things right. He's saying HATE ME so that he won't have to feel so bad...

  • Ohhh

    ThANkZ NOW i fUllY UNdERStANd iT

    POWERfUl SONG

  • No its not all of their songs are about drugs so dont say theyre bad at listening when your the bad listener too.

  • HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

  • Dead on bro.

    My man here knows how it is. Wu Tang!

  • I think you need more help on typing and english lessons than figuring out what the song means.

  • Oh, chill. Stop typing like an idiot. It's not cool.

  • this song is dang amazing !

  • i love this son its so sad and it makes a lot of sense i always listen to it when im mad or sad but the guy needs to ease up on the boy make up lol

  • i love it :)

  • I love this song, but the into where the mother is talking on the answer machine is annoying as hell. Awesome song tho

  • His mother died and that was the last message she left on his answering machine

  • i luv this song but it reminds me of my dad.. he hates me just cuz im alive )=

    he dsnt care about me at all... )'=

  • yea but you are alive so, yea gotta live fr yourself n that's all that matters.....