Secrets Behind Why Men Are Attracted To Women

[classysassy3]

This makes no sense. I sat like that with and "S" shape and I still got no attention from men so that is not why men are attracted to women. They are attracted to women more for the reason that it's nature and it's just the way they are wired.

[SensualitySecrets]

@classysassy3...I completely agree with you. They're not JUST attracted to you because of how you sit. All I'm saying is when you do sit in a manner that is less ridged, you'll feel more relaxed and ultimately look more attractive. If you sit in a chair the way I show you & your air is uptight then even the sensual sit won't make a difference. Men can sense your intention, the idea behind my tips is to help a woman feel more flirtatious because non-verbal says more than verbal about how you feel

[TheNeckochan]

ahm you stand like that all the time you willget lower back painfrom not balancing your weight properly

[SensualitySecrets]

@TheNeckochan...I do realize the importance of proper posture and I'm not suggesting that this is the only way a woman should stand What I am saying is by standing in a way that enhances a more feminine silhouette...a woman will get more male attention. This does not mean she should forget her health...but I think there are more problems with people that have desk jobs and sit all day than a woman standing/settling into her hip for a few moments while waiting in line at Starbucks.

[xxL00nii3xx]

thank you :] that was a wonderful informative video. i feel strangely empowered as a woman- more sensitive and more aware of how my body works.

[1aml1n]

I am a Man and I find this video extremely ridiculous. It is disgusting to understand this woman is trying to "teach" women how to be appealing around men. You can not teach swagger, this woman is destroying individuality which men crave. Don't listen to this rubbish, she is making money off of destroying feminism. Please, to the women who read this, be yourselves because there is nothing more attractive than originality in this fake world.

[SensualitySecrets]

@1aml1n I agree with most of your thoughts. Women should embrace their uniqueness because a woman that is comfortable with who she is IS attractive. However most men are more attracted to the feminine women (not all...but I can say most). My techniques are not about changing a woman but about creating an inviting environment that makes it more welcoming for a man to approach her.

[JerodimusPrime]

@1aml1n I'm a man and I can basically say that what she's teaching is true. Every guy I know- including me- find women who are more flirtatious and feminine much more attractive than those that aren't. She's basically teaching women to flirt and look feminine. Plus I must confess she's hot :-)

[SensualitySecrets]

@JerodimusPrime ... flattery will get you everywhere ;)

[Arimatt1]

she says things i've never heard of....thought i heard it all.......guess not. She's good

[SupremeKingSovereign]

I thought they were going to talk about why men were attracted to woman in a scientific way. Blubberish

[therealdefjamz]

Dont listen to other peoples garbage, u know what youre talking about

[Hellokittygirl68]

lol this is funny n bullshit..people with no self confidense XD

[SensualitySecrets]

@Hellokittygirl68 Actually this is quite real...many women lack confidence at many moments throughout their lives and having a tool to get through those difficult times makes those negative inner voices quiet down...make sense?

[Lolwoo1]

@Markee871 You are so right! Thanks for speaking out. I have found the more immature and shallow a man is the less they like curves and are more likely to like the bean pole/little boy look...your right bones are for dogs, perhaps they aren't man enough to cope with a real womans curves!

[SensualitySecrets]

@Lolwoo1 I believe their are different strokes for different folks and the moment we (women) can embrace who we are...curves and all...we attract men that love this aspect about us!

[nicko500s]

this is all very well but a little over the top perhaps, for me, honestly a well presented chest gets me every time, im realy turned on by breasts. she must be aware of this dressed as she is :)

[SensualitySecrets]

@nicko500s I am proud of my assets...but whether or not I expose them, I still use my body language techniques to enhance my feminine essence (breasts are curves which are part of that). I feel my outfit is tastefully put together where I feel sexy and expose a part of my body I love. Women shouldn't fear or hide their bodies.

[nicko500s]

@SensualitySecrets you are sexy and attractive no doubt, i just felt your movements where a but exagerated but then i guess you where over emfersizing (excuse spelling) for demonstration purposes? i thought if i saw a woman acting that way to that extream i would find it over the top i agree women should not fear or hide their bodies but also they should not be offended when they dress sexy and then get attention from men as some women do. something i dont realy understand :)

[leesway]

i like the way he said he stole it

[123tindris]

I prefer intellects. ^.^

[ChrissyLuffsYooh]

Thank you so much-the tip of the neck really helps me so much. I'm not really that old, and probably don't need to be watching this. But I'm a shy girl and always seem to look cold, and I can never say things how I want them to turn out, just to people in general. I noticed that I am, most of the time, looking down slightly and that really does make it so I look unapproachable. All I need to work on now is seeming more friendly with my actions and sometimes voice.

[Kasmir145]

1:14 I'm glad not all women raised their hands to this question. This kind of gender role restriction crap is what holds society back. (notice it was mostly the women that looked like they came from backward cultures that raised their hands?)

[SensualitySecrets]

@Kasmir145 Let me explain what I mean by this, most women enjoy a masculine man that has purpose, takes charge, knows what he wants. Most men enjoy women who are feminine, sensual, let go, elevate the senses, show their vulnerability. To create attraction, there needs to be polarity...this does not mean a woman shouldn't have an opinion but when she is able to dance within those 2 energies...she is more attractive.

[Kasmir145]

@SensualitySecrets That's old throwback stuff leftover from the stone age. Personally, I can't stand women who aren't brave enough to initiate conversation with a man if she likes him. We live in the age of equality now (supposedly), so its time for women to pull their own weight. A quality man wants a partner, not a pet. But I guess you're a traditionalist. Your videos are very good for other women who want to be traditionalists.

[MoosicallygGifted]

@Kasmir145 just so you know, even though its acceptable to be androgynous with it being 2012 and whatnot, most masculine men still like a feminine woman, and most feminine woman like a masculine man. Just cause its fine for a man to be a ballerina and for a woman to be a firefighter doesn't mean it should be the same when we come home to our lovers....just some food for thought

[michlkidd]

Even if u have a man it never hurts to keep him interested

[KaptaanPakistan]

Any size women - phudi is phudi thats why men attracted to Phudi

[theamazingtoot]

4:16 I luahged soo hard cuz im a guy and i was sitting exactly like that! XD

[4242564deathsdoor]

Aww, I can't do that. I am just kind of like a quiet guy friend who will drink and play video games with you and play stupid pranks :/ hell to the no, I am NOT a proper lady :( but your advice seems useful :) I will try

[1REVINT]

Lmfao!!!!! This is so funny. I can't believe it. "Ohh we've just created another curve". ROGLMFAO!!!! Women need to learn how to accept when they're simply not gifted with a hot body. Sooner or later you'll have to change your body position. And if you don't have any curves it'll be obvious. This video is BS , sorry.

[SensualitySecrets]

@1REVINT I'm sorry you feel this way...I think women can use these tips to help change their energy to be more feminine. I use this when I'm feeling stressed or uptight. I lean back, embrace my curves and my energy changes instantly.

[SHAUL99]

This is great, you truly came up with a way of teaching people body language.

We communicate with our body almost all the time, a very small percentage is done through dialog.

Though, this is not just for women, men communicate (perhaps a bit less) through body language as well, you should make a tutorial for men, teaching us how to understand a women's body language. We’ll truly appreciate it if you do.

[OOOLoveIncarnateOOO]

There has to be somebody in those curves - not a vacuous dumbness. You are not just your body.... (just a thought)

[TheWatup72]

I think the character of "Legally Blonde" learn some tricks here. For example, the snap and bend movement.

[markee871]

Men love curves/meat...only dogs like bones! nobody wants a 6ft tall telephone pole with a prepubescent boy's body! small waist and hips/butt..marilyn monroe/shakira/beyoncemulher melancia/mulher melao/arab/latina/etc, no beverly hills skeletons with their bones jutting out..ewww

[onlyjoetee]

@markee871 to each his own....

[GANGSTADAM71392]

So Its The Curves that attract us

[SensualitySecrets]

@GANGSTADAM71392 ...I think any man that appreciates a woman by looking at her is a good thing. Now if he scares you because he's glaring with his eyes...then I can understand your discomfort. There are perhaps many reasons why someone would glare...but more importantly, if you feel unease then listen to that feeling, if you feel shy then it's normal, just need to get used to the attention. Eye contact is very intimate therefore when giving it,you have to have the right intention behind the look

[paulababe1985]

what does it mean... when men stare so much at a womens lips... !! and eyes to the point where i feel uncomfortable... it feels as uncomfortable as having him look down at my breasts lol...!!! sometimes... hes nice and other times its like his mad...!!! can't understand his signals..!!!

[SensualitySecrets]

@paulababe1985 Humm...I truly believe when you feel uncomfortable in any situation, you need to respect that. Sometimes men/people don't realize the message they are sending, so he might not even be aware of it. Yet, your safety & respect always comes first. You can just turn your body away from him to let him know non-verbally that you don't like what he's doing. It's a subtle message but it will help you gauge.

[twin2country]

@SensualitySecrets

do u have any advice for a girl in middle school that is trying to get a really cute boy to notice/like her?

(by the way, i am an athlete, not really all that curvy)

[SensualitySecrets]

@twin2country...First of all, let me remind you that you are perfect the way you are...even if you're not curvaceous. The beauty of my tips that they help create curves. If you take my standing tip and actually bend one knee, you WILL make your hip stick out...and voila!...you've got a curve. It's the action of bending one knee while keeping the other one straight enhances our sensual movement...make sense? (read next section of next question).

[SensualitySecrets]

@twin2country ...As for the guy you want to attract, if you practice the techniques, a certain confidence will become part of your being. You'll notice men & women that will approach you more. They'll smile at you, start conversations with, men may even begin to open doors for you because you'll have a certain openness about you. This kind of feminine energy is magnetic!

[nononsensealive]

@SensualitySecrets

do u have any advice for a girl in middle school that is trying to get a really cute boy to notice/like her?

(im not really all that curvy)

[SensualitySecrets]

@nononsensealive ...I just responded to @twin2country the exact same question. Please take the time to read it. You need to know that curves are created by the way you position your body...even if you at thin.

[Mystrie20]

This is true because, in my life before seeing this its worked for me. I'm very curvy.

[SensualitySecrets]

@Mystrie20 ....amen to our curves!

[ezraellayky]

I hope that man comes back to her on his knees.. such a lovely woman. Thank you so much ma'am. You've helped a great deal of woman out there regain back their confidence. It is through one's ordeal that the rest may be assist. Thank you :')

[SensualitySecrets]

@ezraellayky...I'm thrilled you feel this way. At times people think what I'm teaching is shallow but it's really beyond the physical. Once you can use your body to enhance your beauty by simply accentuating your curves, your inner beauty can shine more. That's what happened to me. As I got noticed and approached more, I began to feel that I DO have options with men...and then I became more selective to date quality men instead of the first one that came along. My confidence soared! Cheers!

[mathewanumate]

i'm with you :))))

[ilovepalestineee]

i always do this ...omg i didnt even realise it LOOOOOL i am shocked !

[keisha4eva]

I am so interested into buying you dvd. Where would I be able to buy it from?

[jojostar88]

Wow! I do a lot of this naturally . Thanks for the video:-)

[SensualitySecrets]

@jojostar88 Glad you enjoyed it! I think all women have feminine body language within them...they just need to awaken a part of themselves that stopped nurturing.

[Banaany]

I like how this makes women look elegant instead of trashy!

[TearfulShadows]

I love all these little teaser tips of hers I've found on YouTube. Wish I wasn't quite so broke and could splurge on the whole dvd set. Or even the ebook. The tiny tips I've gotten off the net from Patty have been awesome, I bet the full thing rocks, I could use it.

[Raspout1981]

Thanks, im a man and now i can read wemen's signs a little better !!!

[SensualitySecrets]

Great! I think the more that are aware of this...the more attentive they will become and learn to appreciate a woman for her energy and the comfort level she has with her body.

[Raspout1981]

Im a man, and i am as any guy attracted to hot wemens, but indeed, what she says is right even though i never thought about it when looking at a women, but now that she makes it obvious...i do see that her techniques work...the poses the wemens in the video took made me think they are hot....feels wierd to know we can be manipulated like this though...

[SensualitySecrets]

I see this techniques as a way to be flirtatious and playful. Actually, I believe when I woman does this, she's giving a man a compliment. She wants you to know she thinks you're attractive!

[marissawho]

wpw this is amazing  wish i could go to a workshop