Handling Abuse 1of 2

[ARDUNNO]

what if we never actually feel loved, and this leads us to feeling so frustrated we become abusive,, to others and often to ourselves.... and to deal with this we need more drugs for pain and frustration..a generation of alchoholics.... what if i saw someone like you and thought you attractive, but knew that you could never love me... and this mate me hateful and i called you a b***h! and i myself were stuck in a self abusive cycle?

[frankiedetergent]

I think u're really starting to improve my vision of life. Thank u so much.

[NeskaBean]

This was REALLY helpful to me - thank you!!!

[Mithras5758]

Βέβαια ακόμη και η "καταστροφική" κριτική μπορεί -υπό προϋποθέσεις και αφού φιλτραριστεί κατάλληλα- να γίνει εποικοδομητική. Είναι δυνατόν από τους εχθρούς μας να λάβουμε μια απροσδόκητη βοήθεια. Να επισημάνουν άθελά τους ένα αδύνατο σημείο μας.

[zthemeow]

So true. Good message

[oscarwildeee]

I have a question. If I understand you right, you say that truly unhappy people who have a negative view on others also have a negative view on themselves.

What then about arrogant people? They sort of look down on others, but they have very high thoughts about themselves.

I would be VERY thankful if you could answer this question :)

[alkistisTV]

Arrogant people who put down others are precisely the insecure people that this video is speaking about.

[quietman18]

Some people are abusive only to close family members, but act differently towards their circle of friends outside the family.

[jchallan]

That is so insightful.... it really is. I found that this is absolutely true in my experience. It is important to remember that you must deal with your own issues so that you don't take them out on your partner.

[boybamame]

A terrific new format,Alkistis.And ,daling you look mavolus!

[FOSEEBOY]

It really seems like the boyfriend needs a good comeuppence! And I agree his abusive verbal ''slapping'' & ''kicking'' needs to be corrected. ( Maybey some type of therapy or ''treatment'' is needed) And whats worse is abusive treatment can become addictive. It sounds like he needs his abusive ''song & dance' to be corrected....

[EricaJones86]

great video.. I like your hair like that..kudos!!

[sugarpuddin88]

Why would anyone allow abuse?

The idea that, man must sacrifice himself for others, (todays populist morality) Is Evil: is the idea that man must sacrifice himself for others in order to justify his existence; (an altruism which is an unstable attempt to support a weaklings sagging self image). What hypocritical irony in the weakling who lives as a sacrificial animal for others; and yet always demands to be coddled like an infant by the same society to which he selfishly sacrifices

[yowee1234]

Alkistis, I just wanted to say thank-you for your wonderful videos. I enjoy learning about all of highly relevant topics you present, and the issue discussed in this video is no different. Thank-you so much! Your advice is a great help and inspiration to me!

[AwakenToYourTruth]

Hi Alkistis,

I enjoy your videos very much. Thanks. The only thing is that the volume is very low. Is there anything that you can do about this?

[iurak6868]

i completely agree :)