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  • I thank videos are cool

  • I was spanked and if I ever get out of line I'm always remembering thoose times and i behave. SPANKING IS NOT BAD IT'S ONLY HOW HARD YOU SPANK THAT'S WRONG!!!!!!!

  • first of all you two are beautiful together!And second I think spanking is wrong! I know this is not easy to NOT DO but it's better not to do it.I have a douther myself and I admit i did spank her a few times but I realise that this is not right!U just have to controle your self and always think: what if your man spank you (just a little) from time to time,would that be allright for U?I just think this is the same thing when a grown-up spanks a child.I know this is hard but just think about it!

  • You guys are funny. And a really nice couple. There's definitely a lot of chemistry between you two.

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  • My man whoops my ass if I get out of line, and I'm 22 years-old!

    Thank you, Stacey and Asa, for having the courage to share your thoughts on this topic.

    "Peace and Chicken Grease"

  • I'm so fed up with the whole "Oh my God, Kate spanked Leah." Ok, and many parents spank their children every day., I'm one of them. My dad was another one. I was spanked many times, and not like Kate spanked Leah. Mine were bare bottomed, bent over, with a paddle. If a camera had followed my parents around everyone would have had something to really talk about.  30 years later I'm grateful to my parents for every spanking that I got.

  • @jimmeriee there are enough cheesy commentds on youtube, thanks and have a nic e day, lolol

  • There is a big difference between a spanking and a beating, and people need to realize that. A spanking is just supposed to leave a red stinging bottom, that's it. That's not abuse. Notice how back in the old days kids were much more respectful than they are now.

  • @Uni92243 You are completely right.

  • parents right to spank kids that thier busness not  other people

  • Sometimes, kids need to be spanked. Now I'm not saying that you should beat them down with a 2x4, but a little belt to the ass will only do the child some good. When I was growing up, I knew my role as a child because my folks didn't play any games when it came to respect. Now that i'm about ready to go to college, I look back at my childhood and not regret one whipping because that REAL discipline contributed to the person I am today.

    Don't spare the rod and you'll spare the child.

  • If people had enough intelligence to know how to handle there children without hitting them the government would not need to intervein. I dont hit my kid in any way and have had nothing but success in doing so.I think we need less government in our lives but idiot spankers are forcing such government intervention into our lives. Kids are dieing they have to do something.

  • In 26 countries, child corporal punishment is prohibited by law (with more in process). In fact, the US was the only UN member that did not ratify the Convention on the Rights of the Child.

  • Most compelling of all reasons to abandon this worst of all bad habits is the fact that buttock-battering can be unintentional sexual abuse for some children. There is an abundance of educational resources, testimony, documentation, etc available on the subject that can easily be found by doing a little research with the recommended reads-visit the website of Parents and Teachers Against Violence In Education.

  • puh -lease shut up i've been sexually abused by a male in the church and i also got spanked as a child and guess what I still know the difference :) Believe me sexual abuse feels nothing like a slap on the butt you idiot . Don't talk about things u don't understand

  • Child bottom-battering vs. DISCIPLINE:

    Child buttock-battering for the purpose of gaining compliance is nothing more than an inherited bad habit.

    Its a good idea for people to take a look at what they are doing, and learn how to DISCIPLINE instead of hit.

    Here are some good, quick reads recommended by professionals:

    Plain Talk About Spanking

    by Jordan Riak,

    The Sexual Dangers of Spanking Children

    by Tom Johnson,

    NO VITAL ORGANS THERE, So They Say

    by Lesli Taylor M.D. and Adah Maurer Ph.D.

  • People used to think it was necessary to "spank" adult members of the community, military trainees, and prisoners. In some countries they still do. In our country, it is considered sexual assault if a person over the age of 18 is "spanked", but only if over the age of 18.

  • i totally agree with you pamlovsy2j.....ur right...and it applies to me as well...

  • ya i agree spanking is ok as long as parents don't go over board with it

  • I agree with them ,Because parents these days are so pussified ,Trying to be their kids best friends ,When i was coming up you knew your roll, if you're a child u stayed in a child's place, there was none of that buddy,buddy shit . My momma told me we can become friends when you can pay a damn bill ... REAL TALK!!!

  • 50 years abo the same point of view was aimed at women. husbands hit there wives and people looked the other way saying it was none of there buisiness.

  • @MrChicity4life you aint lyin!!!! LOL true.

  • i like this video , i agree what they said ,,,, keep doing them videos . c ya

  • fuckit

  • my mom spanked me all the time when I was a kid and I didn't and still don't see it as abuse. As long as your not trying to beat them to a bloody pulp or because your stressed there's no problem. problem today is too many people scream abuse over little things. time outs do not work. maybe for some but not everyone.

  • wtf, i didnt know that asa's wife was white.

    (there's nothing wrong with that though, white women are AWESOME and im black)

  • And to the person who said maybe I wasn't spanked enough as a kid,I respect anyone who doesn't believe in hurting their chid ever physically and spanking me more woud have been ABUSE!! My mom agrees now spanking me did NO GOOD!!!! She wishes she had followed the way my dad handled discipline. More parens should realize their mistake but they won't. Maybe when your kid knockes the hell out of you when they can defend themsevlves. I just feel sorry for kids of spanking parents.

  • EXACTLY...you were one who was obviously stubborn, had issues because your dad dies when you were 16, and based on your language here, even probably foul mouthed. Your mom didn't know how to deal with a hurting child ( stubbornness isn't the issue here) , HOWEVER, that doesn't mean that spanking doesn't work or is abuse for the NORMAL child...it just means you were the child most of us are glad we didn't have...no offense. An older couple I know just had to shell out $80K because of their brat.

  • In your comment here you just gave away the ACTUAL seriousness of your situation...you said..."Maybe when your kid knockes the **** out of you when they can defend themsevlves."....well, that won't happen to most spanking parents because we don't knock the *bleep* out of our kids, there is no reason for our children to feel that have to DEFEND themselves, BIG DIFFERENCE HUN...that's what your mom did and you are obviously still severely hurt by it

  • If you let your kid get away with everything and don't do anything about it, than yes that is not discipling. there are ways to get your child to listen other than hitting them. But yes it takes time and patiance and consistancy! Which is what most parents don't have today. We won't even spank our son for running towards a road or touching a hot stove but we will teach him not to in our own way. And I did inform my own mother she is NOT to hit my son NO MATTER what he does.

  • And he did punish me, he just used non-physical punishmentsand they worked! My mom taught me basically that once I was big enough to defend myself, if someone hit me, yes damn right I had a right to defend myself.

    I now have a 1 year old son, and my husband and I both refuse to spank him at all. We use other forms of disciplne. I've heard people say that if you don't spank your kid than you're not disciplining them. That's wrong.

  • I would turn around and do something even worse to spite her even as a young kid. I rebelled against my mom when my dad died and I even smart mouther her when I was 16 years old. She slapped me, and I slapped her back. I told her to never hit me again or I would hit back. And had every right to. No me smart mouthing her was wrong, I admit, but there were other ways she could have handled it. I hated disappointing my father.

  • But not all kids are the same. Some kids spanking may get through to once or twice. But what about the really strong willed ones? Ones who turn around and do something more that their parents dont like? If the answer is spank more or harder or longer,than that turns into abuse and that is ILLEGAL!

    I was spanked by my mother when I was younger A LOT, but not by my dad. Guess who I grew up with more respect for? My dad.

  • Well, ok I was spanked by one parent and the other no. I have a friend who was never spanked and is a really good person, and has never as much as had a speeding ticket in her life. But yeah, she was a pretty mischeivous kid, I know cause we grew up together. I think if you don't discipline your child at all, just say "don't do that it's not good." then yeah you may have problems later in the kids life. And they may get into a lot of trouble when thy are grown.

  • Hahaha!!! U guys rock! Plus mixed couples are da best couples lol

  • um yeah i have four children who all have adhd im the one diagnosing by the way but anyway i'd be lying if i said time outs worked because they dont but i did stop spanking my children not because im scared to but because they get off on it and they started looking forward to them they figured hey she spank us we cry but thats the end of it now its like i stole michael kyle signature moments from my wife and kids and that works they hate my signature moments "evil laugh" hahahahahahahahahahaha

  • spanking is acceptable. You aren't beating them unconcous. smack them when they're bad. I hit my neices and nephew when they act out. But seioursly people stop acting like spanking is some eveil thing to do to your child! It's a discipline! A punishment, it's suppose to hurt them. you don't ground your child because you think it won't hurt them. It hurts their social life, takes away from fun, that hurts! All spanking does is make the pain physical. Theres a difference betweent that and abuse!

  • Actually, no grounding me never hurt me or my social life. It just bored me. And it taught me that I didn't want to be grounded so I would do what my dad would like. And spanking is over sooner than a grounding is, how does that teach anything? A quick pain an they can do what they were again basically. In adult life, we don't get hit by our bosses if we don't follow rules, we get fired! No one is allowed to hit us, it should be the same for children.

  • to one his own, i believe that spanking is perfectly acceptable. If you ground your kids or get grounded that fine for you

  • Am I supposed to know who the hell they are?

  • We don't have John & Kate in England so don't really know what this is about but.. I thought you two were really funny - made me laugh. And, you're right about the kids thing; I've only ever smacked my daughter once (she bit me) but, if she needed it, I would do it again. The govt. don't raise our kids, we do, and as long as it's guidance/correction given out of love what is wrong with that? Peace :-)

  • loved your video. i agree with you both 100% j&k need to get their kids under control. if i had tried to do some of the rude stuff their kids do when was little i would of gotten a little more than a tap on the bottom. and many times i did!

  • my bro fell sorry for jon and kate's kids i mean he says jon is a loser and kate is something out a horror film. kids run away. runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

  • lol "too many kids"

    umm can you tell your husband to

    UNBLOCK me? plzzz :))

  • dude good one i never thought of wank like you said 5/5 for that dude

  • Great video! You seem like you have a great chemisty between you two and a really good sense of humor. I never really watched Jon and Kate, but anytime you are on a reality show, you run the risk of things being thrown into a frenzy with tabloids and media hype. Question for you: If you all had a reality show and cameras followed you around, what do you think views would see on a "typical" day in the life of Stacey and Asa?

  • HA! I love you guys.. ANYWAY, I get what you mean about get on your kids. Sometimes you gotta smack that ass. As far as J&K+8 goes, I dont even know about these 2 here. I've seen this show a few times and each time this woman finds a way to cut Jons balls off in front of America. Ladies, DONT DO THAT TO YOUR MAN! Show a little respect, come on. Tell you though, Kate's the one that needs a ass whippin. Tell Jon to turn her rude ass over and maybe they wouldn't be in this situation! LMAO!

  • There is a big difference between beating and spanking! If you look at the kids these days, many of them tell their parents to fuck off, go to hell and they even threaten to call CAS or police if you try to do anything about it! No wonder we have so many little convicts runnin around, you aint allowed to give their ass a little spank! The gov wants our children to be on the same level as us parents and I find that CRAZY! I agree with you guys 100%.

  • My mom pulled some Madea on me when I was 5 and said the police wouldn't let her do it...she started calling them herself explaining she was going to spank me in front of them and explain to them why THEN they would take me away and stick me with strangers who would do God only knows what to me and wouldn't love me the way she did. Took my butt-whoopin, went to bed mad, and thanked God the next day I have a mom like her! I was only spanked a couple times as a kid though. I was a good girl.

  • i like what you guy said.. i toadlly agree with you guys your awome

  • U Guys are A-fuck-ing dorable. U both look really happy and not just for the camera. While i have never dated outside my race (or that much at all lol) I think Love is Love!!

  • i love watching jon and kate, but many times am i thinking that maddy needs an asswhoopin... anyway, im not in favor of everyone jumping when parents physically discipline theyr rotten ass spoiled brat kids, i hope kate lit her ass up...in my opinion jon and kate let theyr crying ass, rude little cute twerps get away with alot more than they should....ESPECIALLY MADDY!

  • Mannn, when I'm a parent, offcourse I'm gonna whopp my kids if they get out of line, but in a loving parent-kind-of-wayyy..LOL some parents get carried away and relieve their stress on their kids. That's wrong, when you're mad at your kids, take some time and cool off, then explain to the kid why you're upset with them, and punish them accordingly. You dont always have to whopp them, but according to the severity of the situation,as a parent you should be able to decide an appropriate punishment

  • peace n chicken grease

  • Stay up Stacy! My wife is white to and who ever don't like it in the words of a great man, they can SUCK a pickle!!

  • you guys are a really awesome and beautiful couple!

  • if anybody should be be taking the negativity from the press it's jon cause he deserves it!! he is a jerk and i knew it from the first episode i saw of the show! he would always disagree with kate and put her down and it seriously bothered me so i am glad they are getting a divorce

  • luv this show and u guys!

  • Wah? Asa knows about more than just Disney! Shocking.

  • really think asathe comic is funny Think it's cool your with Your wife ilke see more Of you guys fiy ru wife is gorgoeus

  • really think asathe comic is funny Think it's cool your with Your wife ilke see more Of you guys fiy ru wife is gorgoeus

  • there's a difference in spanking to get a point across, and spanking because you're aggitated or annoyed. often one or two taps will be more than enough to let a child know what they did was wrong, but it should never leave a mark. people get annoyed and go overboard. kate is a bitch, but she is left alone with 8 kids to take care of. kids shouldn't fear their parents, just respect them.

  • I don't even have kids, but I have nieces and nephews and you bet if they are acting a fool, not listening, i will spank the hell out of them!

    and i will do it in public. Its discipline. I'm sad that Kate is getting bad publicity from this because most american households spank their children. Those who don't, are the parents getting BEATEN by their children. I hope Kate doesn't feel like she has to change her ways for stupid poparazzi and parents that don't know how to parent a child.

  • I personally dnt see anything wrong with spanking your children. In fact, I think there will be a time well you kinda have to. N well they are YOUR children.

  • "N well they are YOUR children."

    True, but you gotta be more specific on that, cuz thats what that dude said when he sold his video camera with a video of forcing his 5 yr old smoking pot.

  • what a gorgoeus woman:)

  • i have a problem wording things P.C. sometimes. *sigh* my mother is "old school" and that is the way she raised my bro and i. If the gov would take they're hand out of parenting and put a stronger grip on social work, it might allow parents to parent w/o worring about "concerned" people calling the police on them b/c they gave their child anything more than a dirty look.

    its disgusting.

  • spanking is ok, as long as your not killig the kid. sometimes they bring it out of you though. i watch the show as does my daughter (who is the smae age as jon and kate's twin girls) and those kids are wild. i think they need to be taught they're place...that sounds harsh.

  • Good video. Spanking is fine so long as it's not overboard. Plus these self-righteous people who say it's wrong are the ones who have their kids grow up and kill the good ones. lol !

  • Ahaha. You guys are awesome. Can't wait for more video's MrsAsaTheComic. =)

  • wow sum things where funni lol'z

  • theres a fine line between being spanked and getting beat.. as long as the parents dont cross it their children will grow into physically and socially healthy, happy, productive members of society. (this is excluding all other potentially detrimental factors of course)

    I got one good one and the respect levels are still high.

  • parents should be allowed to spank their children becuz thats their children.

    if you dont spank them they aint gonna respect you

  • Preach motherfucker preach

  • lol

  • guess what fucker, my mom spanked me i never respected her and when i turned a teen i even hit her back and told her whenever she hit me i'd knock the hell right back out of her. spanking doesnt work!!! what do u do when the kids turn on you and get bigger and hit back?? u dumb as mother fucking spanking parents are full of shit!! and yes i have a 2 year old son who is hyper active but i DO NOT spank him no matter what he does and guess what?? he listens to me!

  • Wow. Why I got to be all that? Need therapy much? Cause I truly don't care about your child hood. ROFLMAO

  • You are a punk

  • WOW! You sound like you were beat, not spanked. As much venom is spitting out your mouth IMO. I have plenty of friends who were spanked and are fine...as a matter of fact, NONE of them turned rebellious and NONE of them speak to people the way you do. Mine? Yes, they have had a couple spankings and they are fine and are more behaved than the ones who have never been.

  • Asa was a great king in the Bible

  • Your hazel green eyes

    Are like woods on a warm spring day

    When leaves have just unfolded

    And slender branches thick with sap

    Bend under the weight of songful birds.

    I look into your eyes and see

    A timeless world of sun and breezes,

    Of shade and dappled love,

    As I gaze from my sunlit doorway.

    To: Stacy

  • she is married!

  • are you trying to flirt with her ? cuz it gonna work since she's married DUH!

  • she wont be after i'm done

  • how come ? are you gonna kill her husband or something ??

  • I had a wooden spoon that I brandished at my 3 kids to wake 'em up a bit at home. They are good adults today. My son & his wife put my grandson in "time out" twice before "number 3" comes up--a swat on the heinie. Far cry from beating or hitting.

  • Damn! jealousss-- Asa is HOT --damn.

  • yall are so cute together God Bless

  • I have no problem with spanking your kids... that is what's wrong with the world today, too many people scared to teach your kids disipline then they run wild and raise hell and noone understands why the kids are out of control... and they are getting worse. they didn't have metal detectors and clear backpacks when I was in school and that was only 10 years ago.

    and kate was the idiot that put their family on front street and gonna warp those kids because of it...

    and asa: your girl is cute.

  • no dis respect u kinda look like kate...

  • mrs asa is hot. u 2 make a cute couple but if i get a chance to hola, i will!!

  • stacy is so pretty =] lol

  • great couple

  • good vide

  • kate is very abusive 2 jon but she loves her kids. i dont think the spanking was rong bcuz it was just discipline

  • some kids just need to get spanked

  • I know!!

    Them Gossip magazines need to stop they don't have to deal with 8 children on their own...they need to stop 4realz

  • Jon is a sorry exuse for a man.... I think she needs to leave him with all 8 kids and see how he likes it

  • no, he messed up by marrying kate.

  • you guys are really funny!! :) i love watching you two make videos!! :) <3

  • I love the chemistry between the two of you and I would love to see more of it :D.....Mrs. Asa, Stacey, your awesome on your own right! Keep it real!!!

  • your wife is pretty.

  • Kate looks like a mean women.

  • kate is a little abusive to Jon. watch the older episodes especially when she yelled at him in toy r us

  • I love the two of you. You two make a beautiful couple. It's good to see the both of you making some videos together and I'm glad that MrsAsa has her own yt channel.

  • You two crack me up. Keep on keeping on.

  • wait shes white did you marry her i swear im not raceist but ust wondering and

    for the recored im brown

  • Obviously he married her idiot

  • oh thanks

    =D

  • you two are so cute. really a great couple

  • It's great to see people that genuinely love each other.

  • My point of view on it is I was punished as a child when I was wrong and it taught me and it didnt do me any harm in fact I love my parents even more for it.

  • Omg, I love this clip funny funny funny, what a good looking couple! 1. I believe that talking to children is important. 2. When your kids act up you gotta spank them. 3. I was spanked and am perfectly normal not traumatiezed I am not angry at my parent's honestly deserved every whooping. The goverment has tied the hand's of parent's and that = growing number of delinquents that have no respect for authority.

  • lol fun vlog. but tht reality show can b extinct, they jus cant do it no mo.

  • ROFLMAO!

    love it :)

  • damnn

    asa been workin out

  • kate sucks

  • hahaha! cute! :)

  • All I can say is...

    I'd much rather watch the two of you, raising your munchkins, than impotent Jon and crazy-azz-Kate prepping their brood for years of future therapy.

  • his wife looks good, and they are a good couple. keep yo family together

  • "close the schoolss" lmao

  • Good video, I agree with everything you said. Oh, and I think its great to see you & asa Vloging together- you 2 finish each other sentences. lol you guys look like a happy couple.

  • I think you guys are too cute! girl don't let him have the last word lol!

  • I've honestly never watched a single episode of John and Kate plus 8.

  • sup dude, suck a pickle

  • just how many accounts do you have Sorrel555?

    Guuuguu gaga?

    Grow up troll.

  • ^ ur the troll...

  • ROFLMAO

  • u guys are such a cute family :D

  • tired of hearing about jon and kate + 8.

    idc whats happening w/them. i don't want to watch a "bitch" as you say and a "man" parenting 8 children. they shouldn't have had 8 children. what are they? bunnies?

    i mean c'mon. i draw the line at 3 kids to be honest. like, c'mon news people knock it off and report things that matter.

  • I saw the preview for their vow renewal & John looked dead inside.

  • lmao! wow

  • Should I Go Get A Dictionary??...Lol

  • is it just me thinking this..... at 1:40-2:04

    with Asa licking his lips and the way his staring at his wife while shes talking... I dont think his think about Jon and Kate's kids anymore... i think ihs thinking about sometihng else.... idk maybe its just me, but while i was watching i noticed that.

    go on Asa do your thang :P

  • They WERE real everyday people until camera's entered the picture. What's real about that? The money doesn't mean that much. Popularity took over and that will change anyone.

  • I was never hit a child and grew up very well. When I have kids, I don't think I will hit them but I will discipline them somehow.

    You're a beautiful couple by the way.

  • Oh she has a channel !! Interesting

  • omg this is scary you guys lok just like my parents and u act like them to lol

  • I think there is something you need to know....

    lol

  • You guys look good together! I'm glad yall talked about this...Im far away from having kids but I know im gonna spank my kids...I hope it won't come to that but I will if i need to...I got whuppings and so my kids gonna get whuppings...they work lol

  • Asa ma dude, a domicile is a home.lol

    Docile is calm.

    Ain't tryna call u out brother jus tryna help ya out.

  • they should close the schools anyway

  • Asa i want that hat man!!

  • there is a difference between beating a child and smacking them on the butt. i spank my kids on occasion, not often, but when everything else has not worked. people need to get a grip, she didn't beat the kid, she cracked her on the butt.

  • I am 18 and I start colleg in the fall and my mom is still threatening me. She says that I need one more "good" whipping before I leave in August.

  • i said "i'man adult, thats consider assult" lol

  • Interesting its viewed by many as assault when its an adult who is whipped, smacked, hit, beat etcetera, but not when its a kid.

  • i saw this video so long ago i don't remember what it is about haha

  • you two make cute babiess :)

  • It's nice to see you two together! I'm a new subscriber to Stacey, been a long time Asa subscriber, and it's cool to finally meet "the wife." I think you're pretty cool too, hon!

    The whole Kate plus 8 thing is over my head. We don't have kids, we're sticking with cats... LOL

    Little Asa is adorable, btw!

  • omg you and Asa are so adorable together.... forget the haters xD

  • hahaha @ the Chilli's story

  • My parents need not spank me,

    I think my mom's voice berating me on my wrongs is a spanking enough.

  • ill spank you grrSjijb..

  • u guys r such a perfect couple

  • Oh my god I cant believe Asa's wife is white. haha, are people seriously so stupid to say that kind of crap. WOW!

    anyhow on the topic of spanking kids. I will be damned if the government is going to tell me I cant spank my kid. I wont abuse, but I sure will discipline and nobody will make me think otherwise.

    oh and by the way, your family is beautiful!~Krystal

  • It can't be easy to be in such a fishbowl having the paps camped outside their home watching EVERY move that they make. The nasty comments photogs yell at people when trying to get photos and to see their reactions and hoping they will incite someone to say something is just ridiculous. There needs to be stalking laws or some kind to get a better control of this kind of stuff. It's hard cause once you invite the world into your life they don't want to leave.

  • hey you 2 please let us know when your both going to be in miami cause we would love to have you both over for dinner take care and be sweet

  • Kate needs anger management--look at how she treats Jon and also now, being violent with her daughter.

  • u guys are awesome chemistry written all over this vid!

  • awe you two are so cute together. Great video.

    About the Kate spanking her kid: i dont think thats wrong. I think spanking becomes wrong when it gets out of hand and turns into abuse.

  • I don't condone cheating on your wife, but I can understand why he might. I don't watch Jon and Kate all the time but I have seen the show before. She doesn't treat him like he is her husband. She treats him like one of the kids and talks down to him all the time. I don't know her but she seems like a bitch. After all these years of taking care of his kids, never being able to go out, and being treated like shit by your wife finally got to him. I say again I don't condone cheating!!! LOL.

  • not tryin to be a women-hater, but kate was a bit of a bitch to jon in the show. it was bound to happen.

  • asa with lots of respect to you but she is cute and pretty for a guy ugly as you... just kidding you look good together best wishes to you both peace and love :)

  • Love yall

  • I have never watched Jon and Kate plus 8 so I really can't comment on that. On hitting your kid. Well I clearly remember my father hitting me once. To which he felt guilty for right after doing. He was abused as a child and never wanted to do that to his own. I personally don't see a problem with spanking them as long as not over done and with reason. One smack to the butt isn't abuse, but numerous ones are crossing that line. To me anyway.

  • Okay, onto more important things...

    First, I'd like to say that I am about to turn 16 years old this month, and I have an older sister that is about to turn 19, and a brother about to turn 22 (who's never gotten drunk, weirdo j/k). Ever since I was a child, I'd hear people complimenting my mom and dad on their well-behaved kids and how smart her kids were for our age, and we have never been spanked. We rarely did things "bad kids" do, and we learned to love & respect ourselves early on.

  • And this isn't telling anyone to not spank their kids, because with some kids, it's necessary. I'm just saying that there is a way to teach other kids to respect themselves and others enough to be well-behaved. I don't know how my parents did it, but it is possible.

  • was there a point in there? We all know everyone's different and everyone comes from a different situation. You were a well behaved kid and didn't have to be disciplined. So what does that have to do with kids that needed to be disciplined? You've gotta offer an opinion one way or another

  • Sorry if what i did confused you or pissed you off, but i was just explaining my personal situation. I was going off of someones similar comment saying that they were spanked and that's how they were taught respect. I was just saying that that's not the only way for someone to learn to respect others... you should also notice that I said "I don't know how.." So if you want my opinion, it's simply that I don't know...

  • I honestly don't know how my parents were able to teach all of their kids discipline without spanking us or whatever, so I really can't say "you shouldn't" or "you should" because I only have my experience to go by, which is really little.

    But, I guess if I had to say, i probably would say no... Sorry for tap dancing around the question...

  • what your parents did is they raised you. some parents don't believe in spanking & think that is the key to a healthy kid & do nothing about raising their kid that's why there's so many disrespectful misbehaving kids & then there are parents who think all they have to do is spank a kid & do nothing more which is also why we have so many disrespectful misbehaving kids. teaching morals setting boundaries consistency & knowing what the kid is doing & with whom, spanking is a tool not the only thing

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  • why what does it mean