BPD 52: Childlike Characteristics of Borderline Personality

[4EPBEH]

"They don't believe they can maintain someone's affection for them". It's because they can not maintain their own affection for anyone and they believe that's how it works with other people too.

[composer63]

@4EPBEH nononono. they extremely attached to people around them. they lack social skills.they feel like everyone hates them. And so thats the heart of the disorder.

[gayproud1]

Hi do u like gay people? Just that u never excepted my friend invite.

[composer63]

@gayproud1 I did accept it.

[grymmspixie19]

Not all people have "empathy" one can only have empathy if they have experienced the same type of trauma, events,,,all people can have "sympathy" but not "empathy"..its very important to understand the destinction between the two,

[composer63]

@grymmspixie19 Sociopaths have virtually zero and completely no empathy. same with narcissists. But yes there is a difference, that I will admit.

[composer63]

@EthanAndBpd thank you.

[spookykaat]

is hard trying to remember i'm not a bad person..I try to remember it everyday, but i just forget...

[composer63]

@spookykaat are you a guy?

[spookykaat]

@composer63 I'm a girl

[composer63]

@spookykaat Okay, in what way do you see yourself as a bad person? deprived, impaired, or like as a pervy person or something?

[MsPingu112]

Dude, I think you might have Aspergers/ lol . dont be offended... but have you ever get checked for it?

[composer63]

@MsPingu112 how do you figure? I'm adhd, but I'm not aspergers.

[MsPingu112]

@composer63 Oh sorry! I was just guessing.. lol You do seem adhd. I have adhd as well...

[composer63]

@MsPingu112 That maybe why. : P

[ObeyYourBliss]

This video made me cry so much. I know I have this. I learn more about it everyday. It feels so good to know the symptoms and hear u talk about it because in a twisted way having a name and definition for it kind of validates how I've been feeling for 20-some years.

[composer63]

@ObeyYourBliss ; )

[holdmyturtle]

this sums me up so well! EVERYONE thinks im so self obsessed ha and im not!

[composer63]

@holdmyturtle : )

[MsScarredSoul]

I really like this series your doing, you explain things in plain English rather than all jargon. xx

[composer63]

@MsScarredSoul : )

[NikeshalovesCasey]

this is totally me but I have come quite a ways from my worste.

[composer63]

@NikeshalovesCasey Ur not BPD?

[NikeshalovesCasey]

I think diversity of the human mind is a beautiful thing and I think you can call your self normal however you are :)

[composer63]

@NikeshalovesCasey Well, of you met me you might think differently. *seriously*

[NikeshalovesCasey]

no but I found yor video on a girls page who does. I wanted to try to help her but she's too self absorbed. That's how I was too. I guess if she can get better it will be on her own schedule.

[composer63]

@NikeshalovesCasey Borderlines are foolers. They sometimes surprise us with a genuine act of kindness. This is because they, unlike the narcissist, are capable of feeling empathy. They're not self absorbed. They think you're self absorbed, and they use these childlike tendencies as a way of handling your imaginary abusiveness on them. See it as delusions of persecution.

[liizland7]

at what age u got ur diagnosis?

i know you got your books and u get your information but i dont agree with your video, oh well at least ur vdeos arent scary anymore

[RZEEJOKERRS1000]

@liizland7 hello :)

[liizland7]

@RZEEJOKERRS1000 hey i tought u hate me lol

[Chiiiiyo]

good video

[composer63]

@Chiiiiyo What did you like about the video especially?

[RZEEJOKERRS1000]

3:51 i just want you to know that i care about you and i hope things work out well for you in the future :).....

....LOL and i don't care if that sounded g*y

[composer63]

@RZEEJOKERRS1000 thanks man, but where is this coming from. To remember. Oh, well that gets better. I mean it was a lot worse then it is now, I must say. In fact, I really don't lose any sleep or cry about i any more

: )

[RZEEJOKERRS1000]

@composer63 well to answer your question : the words comes from my heart , my brain.... and more specifically this video.

[composer63]

@RZEEJOKERRS1000 gotcha ; )

[RZEEJOKERRS1000]

@composer63 :)