'women are complicated creatures' Nouman Ali Khan

[Hatkhora]

Didn't he say 'and', not 'or'?

[famous1779]

MASHALLAH:)

[aaaaaamad1]

Its a good advice.. Most of them are really true.. But for me the silence isn't working much.. I only have one option which is mercy.

[MrHtjet]

@aaaaaamad1 what you mean i dont understand?

[aaaaaamad1]

@MrHtjet Nouman said that Rasulullah told us (men) when reacting upon women or our wife during a quarrel/fight, there are 2 options which are silence and mercy. What I meant was for me, the silence way doesnt work well, so usually I just let my wife win or apologizing to her even if I feel I was right.

[monjiaitaly]

@flatl1n3 yea right, because we dont have 1 out of 3 divorce rates. Lol, if you cant see the value in this man's advice, I suggest you stay single :) He speaks the truth.

[flatl1n3]

@monjiaitaly Yeah, what you have are honor killings. Simple fact is that this culture surrounding islam is primitive and barbaric. You feel the need to dominate your women simply because you are so ineffectual in reality. Your woman is only place you can dominate.

[monjiaitaly]

@flatl1n3 your opinions are not welcome here.

[flatl1n3]

@monjiaitaly You can't handle the reality of your existence so you attempt to silence me.

[rifway22]

this guy is a genius

[ummkoko]

hahahaha, very funny...where are the silent men?? lol



[ormaryan2]

u have no idea how true that is. ama try to accidently click on this video when my brother is around :)

[IslamMyMed]

So true... : )

[rs9011]

I 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗islam

[ac4barca0]

make a sad puppy face :)

[RonDoggyStyle75]

very good.

[Zar4h]

I  Islam

[nidaAfsar]

the silence thing works but it shouldn't be a silent torture ! silent but not grumpy :)

[nidaAfsar]

leave me alone , i dont know why im crying or im cranky... lol so SO true !! :)

[OneUnitedUmmah]

men get quiet and moody for no reason,a smile and a cup of tea usually does the trick.

[AsfahDihaz]

100% agreed! :)



[rfxrlf]

As salam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. Can you please give a link to the whole lecture?

[anwar2u20]

@rfxrlf

walaikumassalam wa rahmatullahi wabarakatuh. Search 'healthy marriage - nouman ali khan' InshaAllah you will find it

[rfxrlf]

@anwar2u20 Jazak Allaahu Khayran

[hamzamd77]

yes agreed you are right... they are very complicated to understand.... takes forever to really know them. but i guess this is the system which Allah has made.

[vakia1453]

I agree :)

[aamantubillah]

probably the worst title for a video...

[safiya221]

MarshaAllah I love this video my husband has worked the silence thing out! I laughed out loud because I do exactly that :-)

[BismahLuvzCookiez]

lol this is soo true.. :|

[Pretentious1]

@SultanOfSwords

Sometimes they do... Especially when they expect the guy to know/understand what upset them in the first place. They simply don't want to have to explain it all the time, they want the Guy to have that understanding already.. but as it's obvious Men don't understand so easily because us women are rather beautifully complicated :)

[SultanOfSwords]

@Armaniarwa do women really cry without reason?? Can I ask you a question, when women get angry and they say something simple, do they mean something else than what they said? :-)

[armaniarwa]

loool no wonder why i cry sometimes without any reason :P 

[monjiaitaly]

@armaniarwa its hormones :) but as you get older and dig deeper you will understand why you are crying.

[786anisah786]

hahah that title....just got me to click on this video! but yes Mashallah....Awesome video!

[786hashbrown]

@786anisah786 haha same here!