I agree with you, people can say what they want but they have no right to insult you. And besides, you're 21, you're an adult, I'm sure you'll be a fine mom. And it's not like you're a teen mother, you're capable of raising a child, and it sounds like you have your priorities in order, good luck! :)
I applaud you. You know what you believe and you're not going to be swayed just because some people who don't know you don't like your choice with what you want to do with your life. I'm only 19 and though I don't intend to have a baby in the next few years, I do intend to have a child much earlier than most people would be happy with. My fiance and I have agreed that we want all of our children before we turn 30 so that we can enjoy our life with them while we are still young and active.
I never actually thought there was a problem with it.....
A lot of people will have finished their education by 21.....
I know plenty of people buying their first home at19/20/21 and even a couple who own a home now....
I know people on wages between £14,000 - £50,000 at the ages of 19/20/21
Now tally that up, if your in a stable relationship with the above and your done with partying - honestly whats the problem?? There isn't, it's the same as having a child at any point in your adult life...
Young motherhood is actully suprisingly easy! I'm sixteen with a two year old, a one year old, and I'm pregnant with my third! And I'm still going to school!
My sister was finishing college when she got married and had a child at 21. She spent the first year at home with him/ our gomvt pays 1 year maternity leave. Then she found a good job in her field of study and now enjoys a great lifestyle. Don't listen to negative comments, everyone is different. You clearly can handle any pressure that comes with motherhood and being a working adult. Good luck to you and your family.
Ok, I know my comments be kinda outdated. Anyway, each to its own. having a pregnancy is abit young for our time. But since, Yr Husband N U decided to setttle down.
I think it's great! Ok, these are kinda superficial judements, but I think U have a GREAT personality, maybe alittle sensitive but still GREAT. Besides, U're a pretty good look woman. I think U're gonna be a great Mum, seeing yr latest vid.
Well said. And you're right, what people don't understand is that having children at a younger age like you are IS much healthier. Women aged 18-28 actually are in the prime age for pregnancy and childbirth. Unfortunately, I think the negative stigma comes from many women in that age group being undereducated and making poor choices. If you have the right mindset and intelligence there is absolutely nothing wrong with it!! You seem like a very intelligent and caring person, anyone who can't see
what a great video . I was 15 and 18 when I had my babies. Yet Im giving my kid's a better life then my mother ever gave us. Im now 25 and have a bought house two paid off suv a wonderful life. My mother on the other hand lives in apartment not that theres anything wrong with that. But she still party and drinks every weekend she is in her late 40's. My idea of a party is staying up pass 12 and a movie.lol.
I have a level 2 Diploma in Animal care, A level 1 Diploma in Horse Care and Management, A level 2 Diploma in Horse Care and Management and also a Level 3 Diploma in Equine Psychology.
I am still currently studying for more degrees in the Equine(horse) industry.
Do not let these ignorant people get to you they only wish they could be even close to something like you. I understand everything and agree with everything you say in this video. Always be you have a happy and healthy home ;-)
i love your video! i am 20 , just married and found out that my husband and i are having a baby! i am stressed but very excited. i am so happy for you and i love the way you word things. I completely agree with the fact that we don't need to go out drinking, thats a negative chapter t me that i feel very happy with leaving out of my life! good for you, i love your video.
i just remembered that i loved your style, and then remembered your youtube name, and ahhh that top and comforter are so cute. even your hair. you're a doll!
THANK YOU FOR for posting this!!! Seriously, It's amazing to find someone who could so articulately put exactly what I'm feeling into words. When my baby is born I'll 20 and six months. I learned to how to parent from my outstanding parents and I feel perfectly equipped to be a mother. And you're right about giving up the chance to kill braincells, I wouldn't trade the most profound human connection I'll ever know just to spend the best years of my youth trashed. Thanks again!
THANK YOU FOR for posting this!!! Seriously, It's amazing to find someone who could so articulately put exactly what I'm feeling into words. When my baby is born I'll 20 and six months. I learned to how to parent from my outstanding parents and I feel perfectly equipped to be a mother. And you're right about giving up the chance to kill braincells, I wouldn't trade the most profound human connection I'll ever know just to spend the best years of my youth trashed. Thanks again!
sound full of intelligents to me good luck hope you have a lovely life, with your new family...and you are right, People will always judge you and regardless as to what people say they don't know you and they don't concern your life as they won't be there for you and your family anyway! You've summed up EVERYTHING I feel about the subject! :-)
Personally, I see nothing wrong at all with being a younger Mom. I was married at 17, and had my first child at 19- and i don't regret it at all. As for partying- I know what you mean- I have NEVER drank, NEVER smoked, and have NEVER been to a party (unless you count a childrens birthday party), and I have never been to a club- SO that crap never interested me. I am more of a mother than most 35 year old mothers i know- it all depends on the person- age has hardly anything to do with it
This is obviously her first without her saying so. First babies are preceded by special classes and attention to the smallest detail. After a few thousand shitty diapers that attitude relaxes a lot. I hope everything went well for you.
@lukkbox You can't spell, you've resorted to swearing and using mindless insults...who's the "dumb" one here?
Incase you haven't noticed, humans and their society is tremendously different to that of "other animals on the planet". I can't live like a lion or an ape just because you want me to; sorry but our species MUST work and earn money to survive. Are you seriously implying that I'm a bad parent because I earn money for my family? Wow. What a nutcase.
@lukkbox Wow, you're really dense. I just told you not to make assumptions - we aren't at "work all the time". I WORK TWO DAYS A WEEK. ON THOSE DAYS, MY FIANCE STAYS AT HOME. When the hell did I say I want my kids to have designer things? You need money to buy basic essentials. A house, food, everything I just said in my other reply to you. Now - answer this - are you telling me that we shouldn't work? That we should be poor and live in the gutter to be "good parents"?
@lukkbox To me it seriously sounds like you're an unemployed bum who's trying to gloss it over and make yourself feel better by spouting things like "Oh I refuse to be a slave...", "I don't need to work, past civilizations didn't have to" to glorify your failures and make yourself feel better. You cannot raise a children with no money, you have to work to make money unless you're happy living off welfare or living on the streets starving to death.
Great video. This is an inspirational video. Having children can positively benefit life, giving you a deeper sense of connection with others, and giving you a purpose. Those without purpose may stumble around selfishly, seeking hedonistic pleasures, such as self-destructive drinking. I fully believe that the key to happiness is developing those interconnections with people and society. To me your critic misses the key to a happy life: building positive social bonds.
i agree with you 100% i am 21 about to be 22 in a few months and i had a child at 19 and another while 21 and it all depends on the parents and environment not age
you know what? Good for you. All those things you've listed are essential to childhood development. And you're completely right about how luxuries should be a product of investment and hard work. I'm sure your son will grow up to quite a lovely person.
I agree with you, 100%. One of my close friends had a baby at 16, and her little daughter is growing up wonderfully, and beautifully at that. Age has nothing to do with if you're a good parent, and I agree about how they should be grown up.
i applaud you for voicing your opinion and being diplomatic. i am 22 and pregnant and most people have been very very supportive. i think people should keep their judgemental opinions to themselves and no one has a right to tell another person they are too young to be a mother or anything, if you're ready, you're ready. ive seen plenty of 30 yr olds with children who are 'bad parents'. being a good mother has nothing to do with age. thankyou for standing up and saying something.
I had a baby at 21 and it is awsome! He is now 8 and all of our friends are just starting to have babies now that they are hitting 30 and are struggling with it because they are just too tired to keep up with the workload and also not used to having to put a baby first.
Great video. I found your channel thru bye bye belly's vids. First of all Cute top~! and a great messege. I am loosing the last 15 lbs of the 50 i have to loose. before we seek fertility treatment. Congrats on being a new mom.
i LOOOVE this video!! i became a mom at 19. my son has NEVER gone without. not everyone is the same. i rather be at home with my fiance and son than out at a frat party. keep doing what you are doing and screw everyone else! as long as you and your new little family is happy it really doesnt matter
i LOOOVE this video!! i became a mom at 19. my son has NEVER gone without. not everyone is the same. i rather be at home with my fiance and son than out at a frat party. keep doing what you are doing and screw everyone else! as long as you and your new little family is happy it really doesnt matter
My mom was 16 when she had my sister, 18 when she had my other sister, and 20 when she had me and idk... I like to think we turned out alright. I'm in my 3rd year of college, get good grades and such, and my mom is now 41 and she kicks ass. Good luck with the kid.. and with everything else for that matter, but I doubt you'll need it.
Because looking slightly down and to the right indicates that a person is using "internal dialog", or...talking to themselves. Which is what I'm doing when I'm talking to an inanimate object.
@lukkbox Are you for real? Unfortunately I can't raise my kid on shoots and leaves; we need money to survive - literally. Money pays for our shelter, clothes, food, warmth. I don't know where you think money comes from, but we work for it. We have no choice. I'm not working full-time, don't make assumptions. I work Thursdays and Fridays, my fiance has Fridays off to look after our son and my mother watches him on Thursdays.
@FaddleonLSD usually ween they look to their right its because their saying the truth. if they look at their left there making up somethning and lying
i adore this! i love it. you just said everything i have said my self. i am 21 and happily married. i do not have any children and i am not pregnant, but people say we were to young to get married, and that we better wait to have kids because we need to have or fun. thats the thing, there idea of fun is completely diffrent then mine. we do not drink we dont do drugs, our fun is spending time together, that i think having a child could only make our love stronger and our life better.
I believe you'll be an excellent mum. 21 isn't that young and you're using the best years of your life to enrich the lives of your children. :) That's something to be happy about. Very nice video, it's nice to see a responsible mum on Youtube.
ignore the crappy comments, from one young Aussie mummy to another! you will be fine! I love being young (I am 24 with a 3 yr old and 5 yr old). I still get the shitty comments and the dirty looks but I have learned to ingore them!
Go girl, enjoy it, have a blast, it is tough, but it would be at any age
I don't tell people what they should do. I don't know what they should do and I'm not sure what I should do. I don't take to heart anything someone says on youtube because mostly they are just talking shit anyway.
i think all u ppl r ridiculous...i am 21 and i am a mother of 3 wonderful babies...3 yrs, 20 months and 17 days...and it's really not as hard as everyone thinks it is...emma u need to believe in urself and coming from one mom to the next, keep ur head up...having kids is the greatest thing in the world u'll see...but if u don't want anymore kids, use condoms or birthcontrol...good luck with ur baby...and congrats!!!
You'd rather die? Lol. My sister had a baby at 16 n she says it's pretty hard at first. She is finishing high school and doing pretty well. 21 isn't that young. I am 18 and getting married pretty soon n want to start a family pretty soon.
It is better to be a few years older than Emma to have your first child. Younger parents usually need much more help from their own parents and have tougher times. People really don't need to be partying or being irresponsible in their younger ages or any age for that matter. But they can enjoy their younger years before becoming a parent like Emma. Pregnancies can have their own risks at any age.
im only 15 and i have a 2 year old babygirl and i totally agree wit u about it doesnt matter how old u r its really about money and support and how u take care of ur babygirl jus wanted to say u will love being a mother cause i do babies bring a smile to ur face no matter how sad or mad u r so congrats
Congrats Emma! Having a baby boy and being a mother is amazing, you'll love it. (my son is 9 months old) You're such a cute pregnant girl, good luck! <3
sorry about all the flack you got about videos. I am 48 years old and have ankylosing spondylitis. Im crippled and raised 2 kids. My first son i was 21 years old. My daughter i was 30. divorced my wife fought for custody and got custody. You love the child provide a safe and drug free home. Thats all you need to raise a mentaly healthy child. Patience and understanding and llots of love will get you and that child through the tuff times that are ahead.
You can rationalize it all you want but it is not the best thing for you or society. You probably should take the time to talk to your audience about contraception and its benefits.
I had twins at 21 and am now a single parent to them. Its a lot of work. But, if you are determined, which you seem to be, it will be amazing and you will certainly be able to enjoy your child and your grandchildren down the road so much better. I have friends who's parents waited into their late 40's to have kids, some of their parents didn't live long enough to enjoy watching their kids grow up.
Best of luck to you both and don't worry about what others say. I hope everything goes well for you
Emmalina, I am not much of a 'fan' to say the least of young pregnancies. I'm 22 and at least 20 people from my year in high school have babies now, however listening to what you had to say has made me realise that no two people will ever want the same things.
I can't see myself with a baby right now, but if it happened to me I would want to think about positive things about being a young Mum.
You're fantastic with words, you really should work in PR!
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...I remember when you were hot and skinny though, no offense or anything, but I'm not sure your body will ever be the same again, I've known many women who have had kids, and man did their bodies change afterwards....
omg, I dont log on for a while, and I come back and youre all prego???? well, congrats there Emma, If you wanted it to happen, if you didnt, then, I'm sorry.
What the hell?!? Last time I checked in to your videos you had just moved into your new home and were about to go to college (or were already going). Now you're about to be a mom. This is all messed up.
There's nothing wrong with being a mother at 20. I have several friends that are/have been pregnant at 20 and one that got pregnant at 15. They are amazing mothers. There is nothing with this. My boyfriends mother had her first child at 16 and him at 18. They turned out perfectly fine; they are both university students also. You are also clearly stable with regards to supporting your future (as you are a university student) there is nothing wrong with being pregnant at your age.
My mum had me at 19, and I turned out fine! And my parents are still together and our family is relatively ok. Back then, it was completely normal to have kids at a young age, and yet today it is frowned upon. I wish I had the financial stability to have children now (I'm 22). I think you're more than capable of raising a child. I totally respect and admire you, and more so after watching this vid. You are too damn articulate girl!
You tell them!! don't listen to those ignorant people and their judgments, my mother had me at 21 so i believe that your pregnancy is just fine, good luck !
You seem pretty level headed there, with the right attitude, good onya!
Not that long ago, motherhood at 21 would have been really common. At least then, teens didn't have parents that looked like their grandparents. My niece is pregnant at 15, now that is too young, hey..
Congratulations!! Children are super fun. You and Daniel are the only people who know if you are ready for this or not. I have enormous faith in you. Good luck in the coming months.
It really seems like you're prepared for this - and as a result, it's disappointing that others are bringing their own... personal experiences to the table.
Having a child is different for every parent.
I wish you the best of luck in the coming months :)
I am so happy for you! I can't wait to have a baby of my own and truthfully, I'd much rather be a younger mom. Congratulations! Good luck with the little one :]
once again you amaze me with your intelligence and eloquence. ive been watching your channel for several years and its evident just how much, even in that short time, youve grown and matured. i wish you, daniel, and the little one the best of luck in life.
Elegantly said. i'm 20 and due at any time. You've taken the words right out of my mouth. This is one of the most beautiful moments of our lives. Don't take anything people say personally or let it infringe on the glory of this your happiness. You seem very intelligent and though i don't know you, i'm willing to bet that you will be a wonderful parent.
Honey this is your life. You are an intelligent, sweet, well-spoken woman. You and your man both hold a job that requires a patient soul. You're gonna be great! You do not need to explain yourself to anyone, though I can understand why you'd want to make this video. Be strong. Love and Luck!
i meant that being pregnant at 21 where you are is like normal but yet some people wont agree but in thailand being pregnat at 21 is being shunned by society, it is horrible how young mothers in thailand are treated i wish that thai people can look past the age and look at what the young family is capable of
your lucky you live in a country where being a mother at 21 is like a subject at 21 is like being shunned by society i wish my country does not think like that and i wish that people in this country like respect people more when they decide start a family at a young age having a baby and starting a family to me is when both parents are ready and they can support one another or the man support both the mom and the child at any age and benefits for the young mothers
I love the way you express yourself. Your baby will be lucky to have a thoughtful, caring, intelligent mother like you :) Also, I love the colours and patterns in this video - it's like a beautiful old painting.
ordinarily, i'd be with the majority saying 21 is kinda too young to be starting a family. the majority of 21 year olds that i know and meet are carefree live for the moment party hard types. however, you seem switched on, an exception to your age group. you are dead right when you speak of flashy cars and name brand this and that. only douche bags strive for that. as long as you guys got love in your house and are true to yourselves and each other, nothing else matters. money means nothing.
I totally agree with you Emma. I had a planned pregnancy at 19, had my son at a few months past 20, 2 months after that another planned pregnancy and my daughter was born a few months after my 21st birthday. I like you was never into going out, I cop a lot of flak because i am told I look 16, honestly I don't see it myself. I just learnt to get over it, for every 1 person who critisises you there are 100 older ladies cooing over you baby bump or new born baby
I also wanted to say, that I like you also believe babies dont need all the designer stuff, as long as your house is tidy, they a clothed, feed and happy, who cares what your income is. We live off 1 wage have 2 young kids (now 3 and 4) have mortgage and are in a happy and devoted relationship, although we aren't married yet.
Also congratulations, I have been reading your blog, don't be scared about the birth the secnd your beautiful boy is born you forget the pain. Wish you the best of luck.
I havent been on you tube for almost a year, and not viewed your video blogs.
confratulations on the pregnancy and i agree with your comments in this video about a child needing to be brought up in a good family where luxourious things are a product of hard work :)
im sure youll be a great mother and i wish you all the best,
Good luck to you Emmalina. I wish you, your partner and your future baby boy the best! I know you'll be a fantastic mother, just because you are young doesn't mean your baby won't be showered with love and adoration.
I'm just catching up with YouTube and your account, and wow! You HAVE gone through many changes. I hold no judgments toward you and wish you many blessings. Thanks for sharing your stories with me/us :)
To tell you the truth you are absolutely correct in the matter of having a child. It doesn't matter the age because it is about the love and dedication you put into raising that child. My little brother has a baby and to tell you the truth I think he isn't prepared at all. Good luck to you and your baby i hope he comes out perfect in every way and you love him dearly.
You sound educated and ready to me. Who cares bout othet ppl seriously, its ur life and your decisions :)
Jenaya92 2 weeks ago
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xXxFutureExGFxXx 1 month ago
I love your shirt! It's totally adorable
SalemInsomniac 2 months ago
where are cats?
Bruno619 2 months ago
i agree 100%. a week after my 21 bday i found out i was prego. an my 21st was a little over a month ago! :)
sprinklesk 3 months ago
I agree with you, people can say what they want but they have no right to insult you. And besides, you're 21, you're an adult, I'm sure you'll be a fine mom. And it's not like you're a teen mother, you're capable of raising a child, and it sounds like you have your priorities in order, good luck! :)
PahoranGirl516 3 months ago
How did i get here from watching cat videos?
AdamC316 3 months ago 48
@AdamC316 i was jus thinkin that!?
0bong0bunny0 2 months ago
@AdamC316 ahhahahah I know right!!!! ahah
joeyapolinar 2 months ago
@AdamC316 your cat will have kittens soon lol
glab777 1 month ago
@AdamC316 exactly!!! i was watching cat videos aswell =P
lozadoza17 4 weeks ago
I applaud you. You know what you believe and you're not going to be swayed just because some people who don't know you don't like your choice with what you want to do with your life. I'm only 19 and though I don't intend to have a baby in the next few years, I do intend to have a child much earlier than most people would be happy with. My fiance and I have agreed that we want all of our children before we turn 30 so that we can enjoy our life with them while we are still young and active.
scarlettohhkb 3 months ago
I Agree with absolutloy everything you'ev said. You just said every singel thing i have been saying for years except neeter and to the point.
pumkinkiss 3 months ago
There is really nothing more uninteresting in the world than a woman talking about herself.
triczka 4 months ago 2
I never actually thought there was a problem with it.....
A lot of people will have finished their education by 21.....
I know plenty of people buying their first home at19/20/21 and even a couple who own a home now....
I know people on wages between £14,000 - £50,000 at the ages of 19/20/21
Now tally that up, if your in a stable relationship with the above and your done with partying - honestly whats the problem?? There isn't, it's the same as having a child at any point in your adult life...
Fellbra10 4 months ago
Loads of good luck to you guys! : ) babyhug! <3
RosyMill 6 months ago
Young motherhood is actully suprisingly easy! I'm sixteen with a two year old, a one year old, and I'm pregnant with my third! And I'm still going to school!
chloesmama1311 6 months ago
ur right being a teen ager is when u explore what good and bad i think by 21 u should get ur act together and be a grown up. dont listen to other ppl
memetiffany89 6 months ago
21 is old enough lol. im getting married soon (god willing) and im 17 and i cant wait lool
Tozzlez 6 months ago
You've grown up so much, clearly a responsible mother and like you said age doesn't determine whether your parenting skills :D
CartoonPropaganda 7 months ago
My sister was finishing college when she got married and had a child at 21. She spent the first year at home with him/ our gomvt pays 1 year maternity leave. Then she found a good job in her field of study and now enjoys a great lifestyle. Don't listen to negative comments, everyone is different. You clearly can handle any pressure that comes with motherhood and being a working adult. Good luck to you and your family.
Tihbialdunav 7 months ago
You know what? Good on you! I bet you're a fantastic mother :)
mkittyy 9 months ago
Ok, I know my comments be kinda outdated. Anyway, each to its own. having a pregnancy is abit young for our time. But since, Yr Husband N U decided to setttle down.
I think it's great! Ok, these are kinda superficial judements, but I think U have a GREAT personality, maybe alittle sensitive but still GREAT. Besides, U're a pretty good look woman. I think U're gonna be a great Mum, seeing yr latest vid.
macrick 9 months ago
You know what? I like you. You impressed me with this video. :)
maynardfangirl 9 months ago
idiot
kenjoje 10 months ago
At least u weren't knocked up at 14 like alot of people struggling and trying to go to school at the same time.
MsTAYSHAUN 10 months ago
SHUT UP and change your clothes... its freeky that flowers everywhere and your voice... I know the pregnancy changes things, but like that.... ?
Urbeee 10 months ago
Well said. And you're right, what people don't understand is that having children at a younger age like you are IS much healthier. Women aged 18-28 actually are in the prime age for pregnancy and childbirth. Unfortunately, I think the negative stigma comes from many women in that age group being undereducated and making poor choices. If you have the right mindset and intelligence there is absolutely nothing wrong with it!! You seem like a very intelligent and caring person, anyone who can't see
Kmfish1 11 months ago
You are so bright and your words come as a lovely fresh breath of air for me right now, so thank you =)
Dyani19 11 months ago
My mother help raise my half sister she since was 21 and had me at 23. I hate when people judge motherhood by age- it's ridiculous.
Kailalove 11 months ago
what a great video . I was 15 and 18 when I had my babies. Yet Im giving my kid's a better life then my mother ever gave us. Im now 25 and have a bought house two paid off suv a wonderful life. My mother on the other hand lives in apartment not that theres anything wrong with that. But she still party and drinks every weekend she is in her late 40's. My idea of a party is staying up pass 12 and a movie.lol.
erubio070707 1 year ago
Your going to be a great mother :) Who cares what other people think? Your an adult, its none of their business.
KaylaCandy15 1 year ago
You're Fool, kill your Kid & then yourself Bitch.
G0LD3NGAM3R1989 1 year ago
OK this it completely irrelevant but you’re wearing the Cardi I want so badly!
LauraStar127 1 year ago
Pregnant slut.
Cockintheface 1 year ago
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well said ^_-
RoverDeDog96 1 year ago
I am going to be a mother at 19.
I'm far from lazy or a 'bum'
I have a level 2 Diploma in Animal care, A level 1 Diploma in Horse Care and Management, A level 2 Diploma in Horse Care and Management and also a Level 3 Diploma in Equine Psychology.
I am still currently studying for more degrees in the Equine(horse) industry.
Oh and I am a single mother-to-be also.
My Son will be nothing but loved and cared for!
VickyVanity 1 year ago
I love you! And you're amazing. This video really conveys a lot... Unfortunately as you said, it is futile.
srrabon6890 1 year ago
Do not let these ignorant people get to you they only wish they could be even close to something like you. I understand everything and agree with everything you say in this video. Always be you have a happy and healthy home ;-)
MsBeautifulGreenEyes 1 year ago 8
YA SLUT we dont act like you in the haag or canada, or amsterdam. skank.
XtianWestendShamer 1 year ago
i love your video! i am 20 , just married and found out that my husband and i are having a baby! i am stressed but very excited. i am so happy for you and i love the way you word things. I completely agree with the fact that we don't need to go out drinking, thats a negative chapter t me that i feel very happy with leaving out of my life! good for you, i love your video.
kayla09112010 1 year ago
@kayla09112010 Congratulations!
:D
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VickyVanity 1 year ago
i just remembered that i loved your style, and then remembered your youtube name, and ahhh that top and comforter are so cute. even your hair. you're a doll!
14icedtambourines 1 year ago
THANK YOU FOR for posting this!!! Seriously, It's amazing to find someone who could so articulately put exactly what I'm feeling into words. When my baby is born I'll 20 and six months. I learned to how to parent from my outstanding parents and I feel perfectly equipped to be a mother. And you're right about giving up the chance to kill braincells, I wouldn't trade the most profound human connection I'll ever know just to spend the best years of my youth trashed. Thanks again!
NikkinikkiNikkiO 1 year ago
THANK YOU FOR for posting this!!! Seriously, It's amazing to find someone who could so articulately put exactly what I'm feeling into words. When my baby is born I'll 20 and six months. I learned to how to parent from my outstanding parents and I feel perfectly equipped to be a mother. And you're right about giving up the chance to kill braincells, I wouldn't trade the most profound human connection I'll ever know just to spend the best years of my youth trashed. Thanks again!
NikkinikkiNikkiO 1 year ago
Nothing wrong with being a young mom at all I'm 22 and I have 4 kids, they are 6,5,3,2 I love them and my life is perfect.
MultiEliz1 1 year ago
@MultiEliz1 LOL, 4 kids at 22? Honey, that's ghetto lmao!
Libra8410 1 year ago
sound full of intelligents to me good luck hope you have a lovely life, with your new family...and you are right, People will always judge you and regardless as to what people say they don't know you and they don't concern your life as they won't be there for you and your family anyway! You've summed up EVERYTHING I feel about the subject! :-)
beckymoly05 1 year ago
I like your shirt :D Cool video
YourFriendCarmen 1 year ago
Nothing wrong with being a young mom at all I'm 17 and I have my life put together and I always have the right mindset.
hoohoodilly0555 1 year ago
OMG!!!!!! WHERE DID YOU GET THAT CARDI FROM - LOVE IT - AGREE WITH YOUR COMMENTS IN THIS VIDEO - RIGHT ON SISTER!!!! XXX
dolly400 1 year ago
@dolly400 its a wheels and dollbaby cardigan, google wheels and dollbaby!
Torneh 1 year ago
ur not really that young at 21
kaitelol101 1 year ago
Very good video! You made lots of good points.
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I love your shirt! Very pretty! :)
Lyleamarie 1 year ago
Personally, I see nothing wrong at all with being a younger Mom. I was married at 17, and had my first child at 19- and i don't regret it at all. As for partying- I know what you mean- I have NEVER drank, NEVER smoked, and have NEVER been to a party (unless you count a childrens birthday party), and I have never been to a club- SO that crap never interested me. I am more of a mother than most 35 year old mothers i know- it all depends on the person- age has hardly anything to do with it
XOXOAceyOXOX 1 year ago
gingers have souls! stop being mean to britney! I am not a homo! XD
dalolman 1 year ago
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i agree with you
Your life is YOUR life :)
im 18 and i want to have a baby not right now but in my early 20's
i think i will have done everything i want to by then and will be excited about the prospect of changing my life for the better.
my parents totally agree ith me.
and your baby is so lovely :)
dancekid1992 1 year ago
I agree with you
Your life is YOUR life :)
im 18 and i want to have a baby not right now but in my early 20's
i think i will have done everything i want to by then and will be excited about the prospect of changing my life for the better.
my parents totally agree ith me.
and your baby is so lovely :)
dancekid1992 1 year ago
This is obviously her first without her saying so. First babies are preceded by special classes and attention to the smallest detail. After a few thousand shitty diapers that attitude relaxes a lot. I hope everything went well for you.
perryfan10 1 year ago
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lukkbox 1 year ago
@lukkbox You can't spell, you've resorted to swearing and using mindless insults...who's the "dumb" one here?
Incase you haven't noticed, humans and their society is tremendously different to that of "other animals on the planet". I can't live like a lion or an ape just because you want me to; sorry but our species MUST work and earn money to survive. Are you seriously implying that I'm a bad parent because I earn money for my family? Wow. What a nutcase.
Emmalina 1 year ago
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lukkbox 1 year ago
@lukkbox Wow, you're really dense. I just told you not to make assumptions - we aren't at "work all the time". I WORK TWO DAYS A WEEK. ON THOSE DAYS, MY FIANCE STAYS AT HOME. When the hell did I say I want my kids to have designer things? You need money to buy basic essentials. A house, food, everything I just said in my other reply to you. Now - answer this - are you telling me that we shouldn't work? That we should be poor and live in the gutter to be "good parents"?
Emmalina 1 year ago
@Emmalina
People won't understand until they are in your situation!
Just ignore them!
VickyVanity 1 year ago
@lukkbox To me it seriously sounds like you're an unemployed bum who's trying to gloss it over and make yourself feel better by spouting things like "Oh I refuse to be a slave...", "I don't need to work, past civilizations didn't have to" to glorify your failures and make yourself feel better. You cannot raise a children with no money, you have to work to make money unless you're happy living off welfare or living on the streets starving to death.
Emmalina 1 year ago
Great video. This is an inspirational video. Having children can positively benefit life, giving you a deeper sense of connection with others, and giving you a purpose. Those without purpose may stumble around selfishly, seeking hedonistic pleasures, such as self-destructive drinking. I fully believe that the key to happiness is developing those interconnections with people and society. To me your critic misses the key to a happy life: building positive social bonds.
PlevTV 1 year ago
I love your shirt
shipporinkagome 1 year ago
i agree with you 100% i am 21 about to be 22 in a few months and i had a child at 19 and another while 21 and it all depends on the parents and environment not age
captiancripple420 1 year ago
I noticed you said you were from tasmania, where in tas are you from?
xsophieameliax 1 year ago
i know this is off the topic but , that shirt is beautiful.
Also Im with you. From what i can see only stupid people are breeding these day and at any age can do harm to to there Lcd tv's *cough* i mean kids.
You seem well educated and have your head on straight. The best of luck with you baby. You would be a great mother.
spallex39 1 year ago
you know what? Good for you. All those things you've listed are essential to childhood development. And you're completely right about how luxuries should be a product of investment and hard work. I'm sure your son will grow up to quite a lovely person.
thespiderqueen 2 years ago
I agree with you, 100%. One of my close friends had a baby at 16, and her little daughter is growing up wonderfully, and beautifully at that. Age has nothing to do with if you're a good parent, and I agree about how they should be grown up.
Oh, you're an adorable pregnant woman. (:
catastrophexpro 2 years ago
ITS A 6MIN VIDEO BLOG FYI
utopin 2 years ago
i applaud you for voicing your opinion and being diplomatic. i am 22 and pregnant and most people have been very very supportive. i think people should keep their judgemental opinions to themselves and no one has a right to tell another person they are too young to be a mother or anything, if you're ready, you're ready. ive seen plenty of 30 yr olds with children who are 'bad parents'. being a good mother has nothing to do with age. thankyou for standing up and saying something.
ash12787 2 years ago
Very very well said. I agree with you 100%.
xkirbyofacex 2 years ago
youll do fine. you dont need to be the best parents for them to turn out just fine.
jawbone83 2 years ago
I had a baby at 21 and it is awsome! He is now 8 and all of our friends are just starting to have babies now that they are hitting 30 and are struggling with it because they are just too tired to keep up with the workload and also not used to having to put a baby first.
Arlee777 2 years ago
Good on you!!
Womens bodies were made to have babies between the ages of about 20 - 34 Not in middle age when lots of people are having babies now days.
I had a baby at 21
I had a baby at 21 as well
Arlee777 2 years ago
nice vid
MONIQUEIJ 2 years ago
Great video. I found your channel thru bye bye belly's vids. First of all Cute top~! and a great messege. I am loosing the last 15 lbs of the 50 i have to loose. before we seek fertility treatment. Congrats on being a new mom.
mollybcutie2000 2 years ago
i LOOOVE this video!! i became a mom at 19. my son has NEVER gone without. not everyone is the same. i rather be at home with my fiance and son than out at a frat party. keep doing what you are doing and screw everyone else! as long as you and your new little family is happy it really doesnt matter
Shelsea1988 2 years ago
i LOOOVE this video!! i became a mom at 19. my son has NEVER gone without. not everyone is the same. i rather be at home with my fiance and son than out at a frat party. keep doing what you are doing and screw everyone else! as long as you and your new little family is happy it really doesnt matter
Shelsea1988 2 years ago
Your parents must be so proud you. I'm proud of you and I don't even know you. :D
vmmc64 2 years ago
My mom was 16 when she had my sister, 18 when she had my other sister, and 20 when she had me and idk... I like to think we turned out alright. I'm in my 3rd year of college, get good grades and such, and my mom is now 41 and she kicks ass. Good luck with the kid.. and with everything else for that matter, but I doubt you'll need it.
timhuff 2 years ago
You go girl! Good luck with everything!
shakalaka09 2 years ago
How come you keep looking to your right? You'll be okay mother but to make it interesting say u got a kid to Luke as well ;-)
FaddleonLSD 2 years ago
shut up luke died u cunsh facken lizard fungas dobber azz leech
SwivelingBowl 2 years ago
Because looking slightly down and to the right indicates that a person is using "internal dialog", or...talking to themselves. Which is what I'm doing when I'm talking to an inanimate object.
Emmalina 2 years ago 7
Fair enough; i get criticised for doing something similar myself but i've given up bothering too much about it.
FaddleonLSD 2 years ago
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@Emmalina how can you be good parents if you both work?
being a good slave and being a good parent are NOT the same thing
not missing out on what he needs?
what about needing his fucking parents around instead of them being at work
stupid beyond beleif
lukkbox 1 year ago
@lukkbox Are you for real? Unfortunately I can't raise my kid on shoots and leaves; we need money to survive - literally. Money pays for our shelter, clothes, food, warmth. I don't know where you think money comes from, but we work for it. We have no choice. I'm not working full-time, don't make assumptions. I work Thursdays and Fridays, my fiance has Fridays off to look after our son and my mother watches him on Thursdays.
Emmalina 1 year ago 17
@lukkbox
everyone should just live on their trust funds, right?
14icedtambourines 1 year ago
@lukkbox LOL you're being mischievous. At least you got a reaction after 8 months. Normally takes me a year.
FaddleonLSD 1 year ago
@FaddleonLSD usually ween they look to their right its because their saying the truth. if they look at their left there making up somethning and lying
OnTheBrightSIDE2 1 year ago
@OnTheBrightSIDE2 I guess that politician that got shot to the left lobe in Arizona better look for another job then ;-)
FaddleonLSD 1 year ago
@FaddleonLSD hahahah c: i guess soo n,n
OnTheBrightSIDE2 1 year ago
i adore this! i love it. you just said everything i have said my self. i am 21 and happily married. i do not have any children and i am not pregnant, but people say we were to young to get married, and that we better wait to have kids because we need to have or fun. thats the thing, there idea of fun is completely diffrent then mine. we do not drink we dont do drugs, our fun is spending time together, that i think having a child could only make our love stronger and our life better.
Annacole20 2 years ago
I believe you'll be an excellent mum. 21 isn't that young and you're using the best years of your life to enrich the lives of your children. :) That's something to be happy about. Very nice video, it's nice to see a responsible mum on Youtube.
RotiferMania 2 years ago 2
ignore the crappy comments, from one young Aussie mummy to another! you will be fine! I love being young (I am 24 with a 3 yr old and 5 yr old). I still get the shitty comments and the dirty looks but I have learned to ingore them!
Go girl, enjoy it, have a blast, it is tough, but it would be at any age
xx Jade
edaj84 2 years ago 19
I don't tell people what they should do. I don't know what they should do and I'm not sure what I should do. I don't take to heart anything someone says on youtube because mostly they are just talking shit anyway.
yoyohooyo 2 years ago
i think all u ppl r ridiculous...i am 21 and i am a mother of 3 wonderful babies...3 yrs, 20 months and 17 days...and it's really not as hard as everyone thinks it is...emma u need to believe in urself and coming from one mom to the next, keep ur head up...having kids is the greatest thing in the world u'll see...but if u don't want anymore kids, use condoms or birthcontrol...good luck with ur baby...and congrats!!!
atomicsexkitten87 2 years ago
Lol n having a baby at her age won't ruin your life, you just have to deal with it.
CostaRicaGirl17 2 years ago
You'd rather die? Lol. My sister had a baby at 16 n she says it's pretty hard at first. She is finishing high school and doing pretty well. 21 isn't that young. I am 18 and getting married pretty soon n want to start a family pretty soon.
CostaRicaGirl17 2 years ago
Being a mother is amazing????
I think you`ll waste your whole live with some kid! I don`t care it is your own opinion.Why is everybody so excited about that???
Besides you are kinda young.
And you had se* in order to have kid.
I rather die!
:P
:D
RuigaAgiur 2 years ago
21? Thats not really that young
scrateismyword 2 years ago 22
@scrateismyword ha i know some girls who are 17 and they have toddlers
PINKluvr01 1 year ago
Partied so much that she's preggers.
jhualexc 2 years ago 4
you fucked up emmalina
IamJacksColon4 2 years ago
It is better to be a few years older than Emma to have your first child. Younger parents usually need much more help from their own parents and have tougher times. People really don't need to be partying or being irresponsible in their younger ages or any age for that matter. But they can enjoy their younger years before becoming a parent like Emma. Pregnancies can have their own risks at any age.
aDarkerRed 2 years ago
hi!!
im only 15 and i have a 2 year old babygirl and i totally agree wit u about it doesnt matter how old u r its really about money and support and how u take care of ur babygirl jus wanted to say u will love being a mother cause i do babies bring a smile to ur face no matter how sad or mad u r so congrats
usagold777 2 years ago
sure u do...if ur serious then wow...why the fuck did u have sex. your too young
legendarybloodfang 2 years ago
your cardigan is cuteee!!
notetoselfimissyouxx 2 years ago
Congrats Emma! Having a baby boy and being a mother is amazing, you'll love it. (my son is 9 months old) You're such a cute pregnant girl, good luck! <3
AJLovegood 2 years ago
sorry about all the flack you got about videos. I am 48 years old and have ankylosing spondylitis. Im crippled and raised 2 kids. My first son i was 21 years old. My daughter i was 30. divorced my wife fought for custody and got custody. You love the child provide a safe and drug free home. Thats all you need to raise a mentaly healthy child. Patience and understanding and llots of love will get you and that child through the tuff times that are ahead.
bharris291 2 years ago
☺ ♥ ☺
VampiroDeLaFrontera 2 years ago
you sound like the most informed, responsible, and caring young mother in the world. ever. =)
thalkettoth 2 years ago
boring!
rexbygraves 2 years ago
I CAN'T BELIEVE IT! Emmalina is back!
YouTube must be entering a Renaissance!
IWannabeJew 2 years ago
congratulations on your new son :)
shtoopid1 2 years ago
A friend who was pregnant used to call it "Preg-head".
That temporary Alzheimers induced by conception.
ROBwithaB 2 years ago
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You can rationalize it all you want but it is not the best thing for you or society. You probably should take the time to talk to your audience about contraception and its benefits.
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zparedes 2 years ago
I had twins at 21 and am now a single parent to them. Its a lot of work. But, if you are determined, which you seem to be, it will be amazing and you will certainly be able to enjoy your child and your grandchildren down the road so much better. I have friends who's parents waited into their late 40's to have kids, some of their parents didn't live long enough to enjoy watching their kids grow up.
Best of luck to you both and don't worry about what others say. I hope everything goes well for you
heinz57girl 2 years ago
your pregnaunt?
KuntreeRetardScandal 2 years ago
Emmalina, I am not much of a 'fan' to say the least of young pregnancies. I'm 22 and at least 20 people from my year in high school have babies now, however listening to what you had to say has made me realise that no two people will ever want the same things.
I can't see myself with a baby right now, but if it happened to me I would want to think about positive things about being a young Mum.
You're fantastic with words, you really should work in PR!
amesie1 2 years ago
Best of luck with the remainder of your pregnancy!
mummycharmzy 2 years ago
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...I remember when you were hot and skinny though, no offense or anything, but I'm not sure your body will ever be the same again, I've known many women who have had kids, and man did their bodies change afterwards....
damion00 2 years ago
uh wow, that was disgustingly rude and has made me wonder whose standards you think she's trying to live up to? definitely not yours, buddy. grow up.
ourchangingsky 2 years ago
omg, I dont log on for a while, and I come back and youre all prego???? well, congrats there Emma, If you wanted it to happen, if you didnt, then, I'm sorry.
damion00 2 years ago
you could be 21 and talking about "wogs" shooting each other outside nightclubs :P
ThoughtScientist 2 years ago
What the hell?!? Last time I checked in to your videos you had just moved into your new home and were about to go to college (or were already going). Now you're about to be a mom. This is all messed up.
Sloopydrew 2 years ago
There's nothing wrong with being a mother at 20. I have several friends that are/have been pregnant at 20 and one that got pregnant at 15. They are amazing mothers. There is nothing with this. My boyfriends mother had her first child at 16 and him at 18. They turned out perfectly fine; they are both university students also. You are also clearly stable with regards to supporting your future (as you are a university student) there is nothing wrong with being pregnant at your age.
deadfulness 2 years ago
girl i am 10 weeks and 26 years old and i love being a mom and i know u will love it too have a healthy baby and u stay sweet
happykitty24 2 years ago
Emma, I wish you continued joy with your Daniel and health and ease with your birth <3
hpyhpyjoyjoy 2 years ago
I wish you all the luck in the world! I'm sure you're gonna be a kick ass mama! We love you!
Helpzout 2 years ago
My mum had me at 19, and I turned out fine! And my parents are still together and our family is relatively ok. Back then, it was completely normal to have kids at a young age, and yet today it is frowned upon. I wish I had the financial stability to have children now (I'm 22). I think you're more than capable of raising a child. I totally respect and admire you, and more so after watching this vid. You are too damn articulate girl!
MentalResidue 2 years ago
Mum had me when she was 17... D=
snuckles108 2 years ago
You tell them!! don't listen to those ignorant people and their judgments, my mother had me at 21 so i believe that your pregnancy is just fine, good luck !
PomPomChica 2 years ago
well you seem to have the general intelligence part pretty well down. i mean you are very articulate so that is the impression i get anyway
idr why i subscribed, lol. i think it's b/c i remembered you liked pokemon and world of warcraft. but i like to listen to ppl talk so it's all good
hawkthewalk 2 years ago
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AussieGirlNSW 2 years ago
You go for it girl, you'll be a gr8 mum!
You seem pretty level headed there, with the right attitude, good onya!
Not that long ago, motherhood at 21 would have been really common. At least then, teens didn't have parents that looked like their grandparents. My niece is pregnant at 15, now that is too young, hey..
Good luck with everything.
AussieGirlNSW 2 years ago
i had my daughter 7 months after i turned 21!! your an amazing person, no doubt a amazing mother!!
minixgrimxgurl 2 years ago
my mom had me at 21..yay
Bambinax3Mack 2 years ago
You sound unusually mature for your age. And you have a lovely cardigan.
dglekjofg 2 years ago
Congratulations!! Children are super fun. You and Daniel are the only people who know if you are ready for this or not. I have enormous faith in you. Good luck in the coming months.
ashleylynnmorton 2 years ago
It really seems like you're prepared for this - and as a result, it's disappointing that others are bringing their own... personal experiences to the table.
Having a child is different for every parent.
I wish you the best of luck in the coming months :)
JaxxProductions 2 years ago
get our your atlas and look up Tasmania. Oh wait, do they still teach geography in school?
cloudsifter11 2 years ago
Congrats again. As I said on the other video, just got this news. I must be so out of the loop. Sorry. ;7) Mr.ey
entertainmentgiant 2 years ago
My sister's friend is 18 and has 2 kids. She relies on government aid to take care of them. It's pretty sickening.
I don't think having a baby at 21 is shocking at all, but it's going to be very hard going to school and work.
Mongolian04 2 years ago 2
It's better to have a child young than old.
rachelmx33 2 years ago
congrats, you seem likeyou have a great head on your shoulders! i wish you all the best!
laurenraterink 2 years ago
I am so happy for you! I can't wait to have a baby of my own and truthfully, I'd much rather be a younger mom. Congratulations! Good luck with the little one :]
emosareghey 2 years ago
once again you amaze me with your intelligence and eloquence. ive been watching your channel for several years and its evident just how much, even in that short time, youve grown and matured. i wish you, daniel, and the little one the best of luck in life.
noplacespecial 2 years ago 3
Elegantly said. i'm 20 and due at any time. You've taken the words right out of my mouth. This is one of the most beautiful moments of our lives. Don't take anything people say personally or let it infringe on the glory of this your happiness. You seem very intelligent and though i don't know you, i'm willing to bet that you will be a wonderful parent.
calisofresh89 2 years ago 2
Honey this is your life. You are an intelligent, sweet, well-spoken woman. You and your man both hold a job that requires a patient soul. You're gonna be great! You do not need to explain yourself to anyone, though I can understand why you'd want to make this video. Be strong. Love and Luck!
NicoletteFajardo 2 years ago
Another impressively mature and sensible video, all pointing to a conclusion that you have a great chance of being a successful parent.
PerthPete1 2 years ago
You make your own decisions and you don't need to explain yourself. You will make a great mother! Good luck with your new baby!
narleynina 2 years ago
i meant that being pregnant at 21 where you are is like normal but yet some people wont agree but in thailand being pregnat at 21 is being shunned by society, it is horrible how young mothers in thailand are treated i wish that thai people can look past the age and look at what the young family is capable of
chingalos13 2 years ago
your lucky you live in a country where being a mother at 21 is like a subject at 21 is like being shunned by society i wish my country does not think like that and i wish that people in this country like respect people more when they decide start a family at a young age having a baby and starting a family to me is when both parents are ready and they can support one another or the man support both the mom and the child at any age and benefits for the young mothers
chingalos13 2 years ago
I love the way you express yourself. Your baby will be lucky to have a thoughtful, caring, intelligent mother like you :) Also, I love the colours and patterns in this video - it's like a beautiful old painting.
thedailyenglishshow 2 years ago
ordinarily, i'd be with the majority saying 21 is kinda too young to be starting a family. the majority of 21 year olds that i know and meet are carefree live for the moment party hard types. however, you seem switched on, an exception to your age group. you are dead right when you speak of flashy cars and name brand this and that. only douche bags strive for that. as long as you guys got love in your house and are true to yourselves and each other, nothing else matters. money means nothing.
ozzycarnut 2 years ago
I totally agree with you Emma. I had a planned pregnancy at 19, had my son at a few months past 20, 2 months after that another planned pregnancy and my daughter was born a few months after my 21st birthday. I like you was never into going out, I cop a lot of flak because i am told I look 16, honestly I don't see it myself. I just learnt to get over it, for every 1 person who critisises you there are 100 older ladies cooing over you baby bump or new born baby
hello83728578 2 years ago
I also wanted to say, that I like you also believe babies dont need all the designer stuff, as long as your house is tidy, they a clothed, feed and happy, who cares what your income is. We live off 1 wage have 2 young kids (now 3 and 4) have mortgage and are in a happy and devoted relationship, although we aren't married yet.
Also congratulations, I have been reading your blog, don't be scared about the birth the secnd your beautiful boy is born you forget the pain. Wish you the best of luck.
hello83728578 2 years ago
I havent been on you tube for almost a year, and not viewed your video blogs.
confratulations on the pregnancy and i agree with your comments in this video about a child needing to be brought up in a good family where luxourious things are a product of hard work :)
im sure youll be a great mother and i wish you all the best,
xxxx
leannej06 2 years ago
Good for you. So glad to see you are taking a stand for yourself. I've seen some of the other comments and they were totally out of line.
cherryrose872003 2 years ago
You shouldn't have had to explain yourself. :]
FayeLikesButter 2 years ago
Good luck to you Emmalina. I wish you, your partner and your future baby boy the best! I know you'll be a fantastic mother, just because you are young doesn't mean your baby won't be showered with love and adoration.
tahliaaxo 2 years ago
your body is your body your baby is your baby your decisions are your decisions have fun with your baby
sugarqueen23 2 years ago
I'm just catching up with YouTube and your account, and wow! You HAVE gone through many changes. I hold no judgments toward you and wish you many blessings. Thanks for sharing your stories with me/us :)
dove95 2 years ago
I like the thingy you are wearing xD and you're right.. I think it all depends on the person etc etc
Justifymeans 2 years ago
if someone put a mustache on you....lolz!
777Aquino 2 years ago
its all fun and games now! wait in like 3yrs...fights,baby problems,economic problems....
but you are pretty emmalina-who wouldnt like to have a baby with you?
777Aquino 2 years ago
"out there killing brain cells and vomiting on the streets"
That made me 'lol' XD
Keep it up Emma, I'm with you on all of this :D
sageofwinds 2 years ago
To tell you the truth you are absolutely correct in the matter of having a child. It doesn't matter the age because it is about the love and dedication you put into raising that child. My little brother has a baby and to tell you the truth I think he isn't prepared at all. Good luck to you and your baby i hope he comes out perfect in every way and you love him dearly.
chrischris01 2 years ago
you guys are mean, isn't having a kid one of the greatest things of life
m0j0101 2 years ago