She broke up with me, she said she didn't love me as I loved her, I was shattered all that b/s, tried my hardest, gave up and left her more or less alone, asked me to come round her house because her parents went away, I missed the txt, she said I was ignoring her, we argued, today I asked if she wanted to come round, she said I would have but I'm sunbathing now, saw her sister in town, said hi, told her about it, then I disabled my fb accounts, now not speaking to her at all. see how it goes
It's almost been three years. It's hard, but this advice helps. I love him so much. I might get over this, but I won't stop loving him. It was unconditional love. That won't dissipate. Maybe getting rid of the things we had together would help get over it. But I don't want want to throw away how I spent my life. I want to cherish the moments and people I have loved.
I don't want to get over the depression and sadness because then it will become real And I guess I'll feel like he's never going to come back to me...
What if all those things that you planned to do were with him/her? And you cannot find anyone who wants the same things or the same interests to do things with?
im 13 and i just found out that the girl ive secretly been in love with since the day i layed eyes on says that im her best guy FRIEND and i think i might actually kill myself........last time i didnt succeed
@rileytwist88 If your 13...then forget about trying to love people. Concentrate on your childhood. Have as much fun as possible. Relationships that involve love and hurt like this are for the future. Your far too young to be worrying about this yet. Enjoy school, your friends, family, hobbies and freedom. I wish I had done.
Hah easy for you to say you probably never loved someone i hate getting dumped by my girlfriends but i found someone now and i think were perfect or something like that :) but i cant forget them...
how can i get over her if she was the only one who acctualy cared about me...i miss her alot and i still want to be with her.......................I HATE MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The key is to allow yourself to feel the pain. After a while, that will tranform into a new appreciation for a new way of life. If it doesnt, go back and make things right. Follow your heart and you will find happyness.
i went out with a girl for a year, and someone wanted to figth me over her, he never fougth me even thougth i wanted to... than she leaves me for him, and all my friends become his friends, im so lonely, what should i do?
3 years with her. spent every waking moment together. i love her so much that she became apart of me and first time in my life i felt whole. no voids, nothing. now that shes gone, everytime i look at myself in the mirror i see her. i love you.
by the way...this Therapist has a superficial feel about her...not really in touch with herself, just telling you how she thinks things should be like without much empathy for the sufferer
WELL. thats a lot easier to say then do, thank you very much. i just got out of a year and 6 months relationship.. idc if that sounds short to you. either way i loved him and still love him, yet he seems over me enough to be hanging out with other girls all the time. oh on top of it he cheated on me for probably the whole time.
I think this is very true!!! I just broke up with my bf like about 2 days ago.... I mean i love but it's complicated... so anyways I was all depressed and sad and misses all the stuff we used to do together but than i told myself it's okay and don't think about him anymore and just all the positive things... and I think I'm getting better and I don't really feel sad or depressed anymore. Just think about positives things and I know we all can get through it!!!
you sound immature....if you were really and truly in love you would have a completely different feeling. Like your heart being ripped out of your body..some people are incapable of experiencing these kind of feelings about others, I am.
how the hell your meant to decide to be happy when everything you had is gone is beyond me. sometimes the loneliness hurts so much you cant just decide to move on.
WTH! i can't create my emotions or decide how i feel, i cant help but miss the guy i love! :'( i havent been this much in love before
i cant stop thinking bout him
Designer101Ash 3 months ago
It's easy to get stuck in a rut.
OpenforSexerotica 6 months ago
I hate love.
bonitafrancesca 6 months ago 3
She broke up with me, she said she didn't love me as I loved her, I was shattered all that b/s, tried my hardest, gave up and left her more or less alone, asked me to come round her house because her parents went away, I missed the txt, she said I was ignoring her, we argued, today I asked if she wanted to come round, she said I would have but I'm sunbathing now, saw her sister in town, said hi, told her about it, then I disabled my fb accounts, now not speaking to her at all. see how it goes
hpana123 10 months ago
omg great vid!
I made one similar, check it out!
watch?v=LCmm8hzVgAs
LightWillTriumph 10 months ago
It's almost been three years. It's hard, but this advice helps. I love him so much. I might get over this, but I won't stop loving him. It was unconditional love. That won't dissipate. Maybe getting rid of the things we had together would help get over it. But I don't want want to throw away how I spent my life. I want to cherish the moments and people I have loved.
VioletMoonFire 1 year ago 2
im 18, too young to love?
milomaliciouz 1 year ago
I don't want to get over the depression and sadness because then it will become real And I guess I'll feel like he's never going to come back to me...
hElLoKiTtY26854 1 year ago
What if all those things that you planned to do were with him/her? And you cannot find anyone who wants the same things or the same interests to do things with?
smdarkknight 1 year ago
im 13 and i just found out that the girl ive secretly been in love with since the day i layed eyes on says that im her best guy FRIEND and i think i might actually kill myself........last time i didnt succeed
rileytwist88 1 year ago
@rileytwist88 If your 13...then forget about trying to love people. Concentrate on your childhood. Have as much fun as possible. Relationships that involve love and hurt like this are for the future. Your far too young to be worrying about this yet. Enjoy school, your friends, family, hobbies and freedom. I wish I had done.
costateguise 1 year ago 3
Hah easy for you to say you probably never loved someone i hate getting dumped by my girlfriends but i found someone now and i think were perfect or something like that :) but i cant forget them...
halomanic21 1 year ago
how can i get over her if she was the only one who acctualy cared about me...i miss her alot and i still want to be with her.......................I HATE MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dog0348 1 year ago
he promised me so much....and it all ended in less than two weeks.
omgiluvyew 1 year ago
Thats hard to do when you were together for 3 years, and everything you own you got together and built this life together...
new2google 1 year ago
The key is to allow yourself to feel the pain. After a while, that will tranform into a new appreciation for a new way of life. If it doesnt, go back and make things right. Follow your heart and you will find happyness.
SOCRATES012 1 year ago 3
all i can think about is putting a gun to my head
gothicspiderman 1 year ago
@gothicspiderman ...same
PasaguiSwartz 1 year ago
@gothicspiderman i hope you didn't
iloveyourhamster 10 months ago
she tore my heart out and continues to trample it. it is very hard especially if you still care about her a lot
theInvigorate 1 year ago
@theInvigorate Im always feeling that... I wanted to be her first kiss.. She beaks up with me probably going to be the schools new slut
halomanic21 1 year ago
i went out with a girl for a year, and someone wanted to figth me over her, he never fougth me even thougth i wanted to... than she leaves me for him, and all my friends become his friends, im so lonely, what should i do?
epicZoroark 1 year ago
3 years with her. spent every waking moment together. i love her so much that she became apart of me and first time in my life i felt whole. no voids, nothing. now that shes gone, everytime i look at myself in the mirror i see her. i love you.
fiyaman 1 year ago 2
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fiyaman 1 year ago
That was stupid... If people could just decide to be happy they would feel depressed it's not that easy...
musicalatheart 1 year ago
Well booze works...Or play GTA and think about that person...:)
ninjadude648 1 year ago
by the way...this Therapist has a superficial feel about her...not really in touch with herself, just telling you how she thinks things should be like without much empathy for the sufferer
stillinloveff 1 year ago
WELL. thats a lot easier to say then do, thank you very much. i just got out of a year and 6 months relationship.. idc if that sounds short to you. either way i loved him and still love him, yet he seems over me enough to be hanging out with other girls all the time. oh on top of it he cheated on me for probably the whole time.
fuck my life.
ariannalovesyouu 2 years ago 13
@ariannalovesyouu Thats not short at all i hope everything is fine :) <3
warlockmasta 1 year ago
@ariannalovesyouu that's what u get when u date jerks
Casarzino 1 year ago
@ariannalovesyouu im like you we choose wrong then suffer
MrNightshade69 1 year ago
I think this is very true!!! I just broke up with my bf like about 2 days ago.... I mean i love but it's complicated... so anyways I was all depressed and sad and misses all the stuff we used to do together but than i told myself it's okay and don't think about him anymore and just all the positive things... and I think I'm getting better and I don't really feel sad or depressed anymore. Just think about positives things and I know we all can get through it!!!
asianbabe212 2 years ago
you sound immature....if you were really and truly in love you would have a completely different feeling. Like your heart being ripped out of your body..some people are incapable of experiencing these kind of feelings about others, I am.
stillinloveff 1 year ago
It's hard.... She tore my heart out. I'm done dating
greenx33 2 years ago 32
lmao
Hu3v0xSpLaSH 2 years ago
easier said than done but im working on it
3augusta 2 years ago 2
and don't anyone say you can't see her chest, it's friggin' bustin' out of that sweater.
flamertamer15 2 years ago
Your...chest is gorgeous!
flamertamer15 2 years ago
gotta admit i think this is poor.
how the hell your meant to decide to be happy when everything you had is gone is beyond me. sometimes the loneliness hurts so much you cant just decide to move on.
SHELFSIDEYID1882 2 years ago 2
i know how you feel..there is no on switch off switch..like im going to turn on my happy mode..its not that simple
marissasai 2 years ago 3
this is the worst advice ive ever gotten
gamer5420 2 years ago