I love that line, "I came out to the surprise of no one." I've got a family member that I'm waiting for the day he comes out and I can stare deadpan at him and say, "I thought you had something important you wanted to tell me."
I'm straight, yes, I don't like guys, no, but I do have a TON of LGBT friends that are awesome so I see where you're getting at with this entire scenario because I see it A LOT. Just putting that out there, btw, best of luck to you and your girlfriend. I hope you'll wish me the best of luck with mine as well.
I really like Zinnia's videos but I am puzzled. Zinnia identified himself as a gay man in previous videos--although he dresses like a woman. But now he says he has a girlfriend & is a lesbian. But unless he's had surgery to become a woman he is still a man. So how can he be a lesbian? Frankly I think Zinnia is just bisexual since he likes sex with both men and women.
@dtdyvr cheers to this. The mind and soul are so much more complex then 2-dimensional labels can ever express. People are just people. ZJ is awesome people, need we label her further?
I've heard you say before you definitely don't consider yourself transsexual, so how can you be a lesbian? Seems more like you're a bi man with some typically feminine kinds of self-expression (or maybe an androgyne?)
What a perfect way to explain your relationship! I suppose I label myself as gay, although I too feel there is more to it, and I certainly don't feel as though I am bisexual. There are so many spectrums to sexuality, and it's great to see somone comfortable with what works for them, eventhough it might not be one of the mainstream labels. Btw I'm tired of being a stupid person, first book I should read to be more intelligent like you! :)
@RadiantMeteor there are people who are the wrong gender mentally. She must be what that is. She is "a woman trapped in a man's body" if you want to put it that way. what do u think zJ?
STOP USING :) I FEEL LIKE SITTING IN A ROOM WITH 50 YEAR OLDS LOOKING AT ME LIKE THAT ;_; OH GOD WHY IS THIS EVEN IN MY RECOMMENDED VIDEOS ITS NOT RELEVANT TO MY INTERESTS
Hey,Zinnia, have you covered sexual fluidity in general and even asexuality and why these things are actually completely valid? You have so many videos -_-. i do think it is a good topic for discussion.
While I wouldn't call you a lesbian because that's a clearly defined label, the label isn't really what's important. I don't really get why you would bother with defining your sexuality, but if that's what you want, it's a-okay with me. I hope the two of you are still together and happy.
Real love is falling in LOVE with the right PERSON. It's the person's heart and soul, and for those of you advanced enough to deal with it, that only. :-) Good for you!!!!!!! <3
Why do people never mention asexuals in their lists? "You realize you're gay or lesbian or bi....." Why do people never list asexual? I'm not getting at you but it's getting tiring that people don't seem to acknowledge asexuality. I have had to explain to SO many people and the people who had hear of the word 'asexual' thought I could reproduce by myself! :/
@K9affirmative That is debatable. Seeing as you kindly mentioned 'certain people', 'certain people' do. Not as much, not nearly as much, I'll admit that. However you are side-tract. I was merely asking why people don't mention it in any generic list of sexualities, I wasn't on a sympathy mission. I do not see how not being shunned(though in some cases we are) means we don't get acknowledged altogether.
@MaggieHaggis I would venture to guess that it's because the number of Asexuals is comparatively small, much the same reason you don't see Old Norse Mythology on a list of religions, it's not that there aren't people of that faith (surprisingly). it's that the number is too small to actually matter.
@K9affirmative Wouldn't that come under pagan nowadays? I don't know, I find mythology fascinating and am happy to hear that a form of the Old Norse is still going. Anyhow, I suppose pansexuals and autosexuals have the same deal so....... Yeah. Still annoying though, there isn't that much sexualities out there, whereas there are many,many, many religions.....
@TheOneThatYouLoathe I don't see why that wouldn't merit it being mentioned. Not all children grow up and discover they have a sexuality, some remain asexual so it would be appreciated if that could be considered.
I love your videos! You are very intelligent. I have watched a coupple and I am just a bit confused, in your gender FAQ and another one of your videos, you said that you were a guy, and in this one, you are saying you are a lesbian, and in another one you said you weren't transgender. Your facebook page says you are female...could you or anyone please clarify...what gender are you?
i love your channel despite the fact I'm a Catholic. You bring plenty of valid points. And I believe someone like you is what we'd call "homoflexible."
It's about love. Not the shape of someone's nether regions. Gender is a social construction, and at the end of the day it's just another label. If you have found someone who makes you happy go with it.
I think the face was cgi altered because sometimes it's thinner like a woman and othertimes wider like a guy. Guess he or she wants to confuse everyone who is watching.
This is a fascinating story. There will be a point when labels are pointless... but even now, as I'm trying to wrap my ahead around a circular definition that makes binary definitions irrelevant, I find myself confounded by the "gay" vs. "trans" vs. "lesbian" portions of your story. Gender and orientation are not the same thing, but here they intersect. If definitions are voided, then you're just a human in love with another human... and labels be damned it works for you. Thanks for sharing.
So much admiration for you dude. I'm a 42 year old hetero man and I would be proud to have you as a son.What you have I wish for my students (I am a teacher , elementary school teacher) and for my children. And this video made me cry. I am very happy for you. I'm glad you take your criticism with such grace and humor. I am also a Christian believe it or not, but not a Bible believing Christian, so most christians say I am not a real one. But Maybe I'll video respond to you one day and explain
I wouldnt call yourself a lesbian if you have a penis, although I'm sure you've thought of this. You're a transgendered bi-sexual as far as I can tell.
i'm fucking confused about this video. what the hell are you?!? i mean i'm glad your in love and what not but when i look at you you're a women and when i listen to you speak your a dude. and then you say that you love a girl but she look like you meaning your a woman. but you say you're still definitely gay and still attracted to guys so your a guy? as long as you love someone though it really doesn't matter.
This is utter nonsense. You will never ever convince me how you display your self is a normal 'true identity'. You are a sexually and morally repugnant, confused, a truth-murdering mess. Should the gay rights community have my ass.
@raydalmonster Phew, glad we could gather a quick conclusion that you're an idiot. And any little fuckin dweeb who gives me 2 word replies and tries to sound clever is even more than an idiot. Stop trying to impress me and go trick a chick into fucking your pencil geek ass you flaming homo.
@stepsinit It's funny because you still don't know what I originally said even means, and you're only further making yourself into hypocritical simpleton and you probably never will. You're just jealous of my whimsically hysterical yet ironically accurate two-worded rebuttals.
@raydalmonster Deal with what exactly? I don't know what cognitive dissidence even is, what's so 'whimsically (fuck leave the thesaurus engine alone) hysterical about any of my views? If you're trying to put people like us in a container to defend your sick immoral gender confusion, then you better learn some more tricky theories, cognitive theories/philosophies pal. Sure give me another diagnosis doctor dickinass.
@stepsinit Fine, let me define it for you: Cognitive dissidence is when you disregard a point with irrationality. I also find it funny that you think I am putting "people like you down". No, I am putting -you- down. No matter how fucked up your petty little beliefs are, your crude insults used only to infuriate a specific person or group of people is absolutely sickening. So I'll make a point to take out people who have such -cognitive dissidence- in regards to any one but themselves.
@raydalmonster I make good rational points in my personal honest way. What premises are you basing me on to say that I'm irrational? A man dressing as a WOMAN is not rational. The FACT that they are male and the FACT they are dressing female, and the FACT that they are denying their TRUE identity this way... THESE are the premises which i base my thoughts on, so therefore It was no irrational "fucked up belief waaaa*sob*".
Why don't you lecture yourself about your own down syndrome?
I don't care if you are male or female, gay or straight, you are intelligent and articulate. I agree with just about everything I have heard you talk about and hope to hear more of your views in the future.
You are wasting your intelligence. Someone always having to defend themselves is always unsure of themselves. You sound like a broken record. Spend your time with a real cause and not keep trying to prove who and what you are.
ZJ, I love this story! It makes me smile every time I hear it, so I come by and watch it any time I need a "pick-me-up." :) Everybody deserves love and happiness (even the idiots that harass you on here. If only they could see how wonderful your story is!) Your happiness is helping increase mine! Love is a good thing... and it's even more wonderful when it shows up saying "SURPRISE!!!"
If you're going to sit there and read a script, have some tone, or inflection to the rhetoric. The sound resembles that of a monotone android and over about a minutes time it becomes white noise.
so, this person is " in love and has never been so close with somone who revolutionized her life" yet not a single fucking facial expression or other form of non-spoken expression. what the fuck.
You are one of the most fantastic people I have ever experienced. It makes me incredibly happy that you exist and that you have chosen to discharge your mind and personality into these videos. Thank you.
(This comment marks the culmination of building pleasure over a few videos, although the discussion of pure love did contribute significantly.)
That is so great! I'm so happy for you; on finding that one person that fulfills you so much. It's so beautiful to hear. ♥♥♥ Love is a grand thing.
Also, I've been watching all of your vids and they're extremely lucid and truthful. It's so great to hear from a person that knows what they are talking about and speaks equality in ALL it's forms. I always look forward to new uploads whatever the subject. :)
Ha I can entirely understand; having first denied, then considered, then accepted gayness, to meet and fall for a girl felt rather confusing for me, but also very happy, so I went with it. Glad I did. Still gay, or bi, or whatever. But not exclusively. Or something. Anyway another cheering and refreshingly intelligent video, as usual.
Wow. That was a bit of a mind-bender. You do realize that with this information going public, it's only a matter of time before you receive a casting call from Dancing with the Stars, right?
Hope all goes well in this new relationship for you.
I think I understand what you're saying. I mean, as a lesbian, I can probably imagine myself dating/being attracted to someone similar to you... but only because all signs point to you being either gender neutral or trans gender, when you've called yourself a guy. What I'm saying is, when you called yourself male, were you just answering questions with the biological, straightforward answer people were expecting, or do you identify as male? You're crazy complex, I'm so curious...
Bravo to you, Zinnia! As 'marionware' said, "you are a normal, healthy human being who fell in love with another normal, healthy human being." Enjoy it!
What a fascinating story! This is a very good, eye-opening video with a few twists and surprises. Good luck both to your girlfriend and you, and may you continue to grow and be happy together.
I don't know you but I've been watching your videos and I'm glad you are happy. I'm sure your path has not been easy and you deserve that happiness. I'm also glad you are proud. Love may only come once so hold ur head up high and enjoy it :)
Being pedantic here for a moment... I don't know as "lesbian" would be the appropriate word... but to heck with it. It's a complex thing, multilleveled... and I'm very happy for you. Best wishes on the relationhip... may it be long, healthy, and gloriously happy....
When you put a label on something it denotes an understanding, however basic, of what's being labeled. I say to hell with a label; what you enjoy is what you enjoy.
How did I miss this vid?? Excellenté!! GO ZINNIA!! :¬) Love is love, nothing compares to it. If you find it, cherish it and nourish it. If you haven't found it or have lost it, life sucks big time.
That whole homosexual/heterosexual thing is a scam anyway. Yeah, I'm what they would call exclusively gay, but I've seen three women, in my life, that I was attracted to. And this is the case for everyone, whether they will admit it or not. Everybody is bisexual to some degree or another. Even the ones that are "exclusive" to one side.
However if you are in love with a woman, and really a woman, not a guy identifying as a woman, but fully biologically. And this is also a sexual relationship and not just a romantic one, then you are bi, not gay. No way around that either. Same with 'straight' guys who still have sex with one particular guy. They're bi.
F'course you can still be on the LGBT side of things (And honest bisexuals should be, I am one and I am on that side.)
It seems to me that our nomenclature is inadequate to describe the full spectrum of human sexual behavior. I'd be in favor of doing away with the notion sexual identity altogether and describing sexuality in purely behavioral terms.
@AbelianGroup There is a Japanese group that elieves in dressing in a way that prevents you from determining another persons sex. They pick their spouses by personality alone.
You have already inspired me so much. Congratulations to you and your gf. I admit I'm a lil jealous she found someone like you, but you are a huge source of hope for me. Yeah, I wouldn't let being a lesbian be a reason to date someone identifying as male if we were attracted to each other and cared about each other. You are a brilliant, profound person. I think you can make for great positive change with your mind. : )
did u know that.. this is the most epic vid watched today :O
i dun even care if ur straigt gay bisexual lesbian or what the fuck in that way,,
the only thing that counts here is the love.. not the gender.. still ehh if youre just a male and u still have ur cocky thing.. XD its also just nature XD
I may be wrong but IMO, this confusion seems to be born simply because of the unnecessary dictation from society on what constitutes which "gender". But in reality, people are simply who they are, and ideally should be allowed to be who they are.
Hey, ZJ, I'm very, very happy for you both, man!! Wow! So u now consider urself a lesbian---so u think u're (at least sorta/kinda) trans-gendered?! Or *de facto* bi- or pansexual?! Whatever the case, man, as I said, I'm thrilled for you both!
@XmetalblastX read my first comment. "i dont care if ur gay but u are going to hell. u being gay doesnt concern me but good luck in hell. thats what i say to the peoples of gay descent." so once agian i DONT CARE if u are gay... if ur a guy and wanna suck dick idc, or if ur a girl n u wanna eat pussy. idc. but u ARE going to hell.
@EnvelTheTrader If it didnt concern you, then you wouldnt talk about it. Which means you're probably gay, and in denial about being gay, having been raised in a group that doesnt accept homosexuality. Due to that, you lash out at homosexuals and transvestites because you don't know what else to do.
Also, most people who are gay aren't stupid, so they know that there is no such thing as hell. Saying "you're going to burn in hell" isn't a threat, It's a proclamation of your own stupidity.
@EnvelTheTrader You haven't read Luke have you? Jesus is fine with gay people. Jesus hates atheists, but he IS fine with gay people. Jesus doesnt exist, but if he did he'd disagree with you.
@tool404 lol youre not something because of what you were. She calls herself a lesbian, since she sees herself as a girl, which is fine. But technically, she is pansexual. She doesnt care about the gender, she just falls in love with someone who makes her feel good
This is why shows like Glee should be banned. Don't you realise that their portrayal of straight people is blatant product placement. You have fallen victim to it. Glee should not be shown at such an early hour.
Your argument would work under normal circumstances, that if Zinnia likes both men and women that he would be a bisexual, but you failed to realize the factor that makes it the way it is; Zinnia is so gay that even his heterosexual relations are homosexual.
Yes, Zinnia is has done the sexuality equivalent of alchemy and turned straight into gay.
I'll tell you what you are; you are a normal, healthy human being who fell in love with another normal, healthy human being. As humans, we are capable of more diversity, more joy, and more FUN than culture or religion allows. Go for it; enjoy it; and don't worry about locking yourself in a tiny box with some tired, worn-out label. If you're interested, there is a strong correlation between high IQ "pansexuality". Mostly, you are a normal, healthy, adult human being. Who's in love. YAY!
@marianware Sorry, typo here. Should say "... strong correlation between high IQ AND "pansexuality". Seems the more intelligent you are, the less likely you are to bind yourself with socially imposed rules. Oh gee. Who would have figured?
wait. so you're a man, who dresses like a woman (to add another side to the fact that women can dress like men) but you consider yourself a woman now? and now you're attracted to women?! but you're a male, doesn't that make you a straight male then, or is it the fact that you're considered by her to be a woman as well..... YOU are a mystery wrapped in an enigma boiled in a sauce of surprise. I thought i had you figured out, but apparently i don't.
good for you babe im glad your happy
pharoahjimhotep 1 day ago
Some people say that your always gay - in both genders - or no gender. Its nice to hear that you found someone that you were looking for.
monggy1 1 week ago
It sounds like you're pansexual.
TenWhoWereTaken 1 week ago
I love that line, "I came out to the surprise of no one." I've got a family member that I'm waiting for the day he comes out and I can stare deadpan at him and say, "I thought you had something important you wanted to tell me."
Cathmoytura 1 week ago
*SUPER-ULTRA-MEGA-LIKE*
jssherrard 1 week ago
I'm straight, yes, I don't like guys, no, but I do have a TON of LGBT friends that are awesome so I see where you're getting at with this entire scenario because I see it A LOT. Just putting that out there, btw, best of luck to you and your girlfriend. I hope you'll wish me the best of luck with mine as well.
THEGHOSTSLAVE 1 week ago
Atleast he can actually fuck his girlfriend :x unlike other lesbians
ayoshutduff 3 weeks ago 3
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I like how you keep a goddamn straight face!!!!
Cleric775 3 weeks ago
so you're a chick? oh my god......... im so confused.
AstroNinja3000 3 weeks ago
I am so happy for you Zinnia.
tangovelocity 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
I really like Zinnia's videos but I am puzzled. Zinnia identified himself as a gay man in previous videos--although he dresses like a woman. But now he says he has a girlfriend & is a lesbian. But unless he's had surgery to become a woman he is still a man. So how can he be a lesbian? Frankly I think Zinnia is just bisexual since he likes sex with both men and women.
Octoberfurst 1 month ago
I don't care what label you adopt ZJ - you're just an AWESOME person!!
dtdyvr 1 month ago 3
@dtdyvr cheers to this. The mind and soul are so much more complex then 2-dimensional labels can ever express. People are just people. ZJ is awesome people, need we label her further?
zippomage 3 weeks ago
I've heard you say before you definitely don't consider yourself transsexual, so how can you be a lesbian? Seems more like you're a bi man with some typically feminine kinds of self-expression (or maybe an androgyne?)
orlando098 1 month ago 3
Looking forward to a sensitive video on how a pedophile comes to learn who s/he is. LOL
kmsoileau 1 month ago
PLEASE GO BACK IN
WeeItsNookies 1 month ago
What a perfect way to explain your relationship! I suppose I label myself as gay, although I too feel there is more to it, and I certainly don't feel as though I am bisexual. There are so many spectrums to sexuality, and it's great to see somone comfortable with what works for them, eventhough it might not be one of the mainstream labels. Btw I'm tired of being a stupid person, first book I should read to be more intelligent like you! :)
brightstarlit 1 month ago
When a gay transvestite gets more pussy than you do, it's time to hang up your testicles and call it a day.
*hangs up testes*
ObeyTheHypnoCake 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos 19
@ObeyTheHypnoCake quite possibly the funniest fucking thing ive heard all day
blueyourmom123 1 month ago
I just can't believe it. I don't believe it. It's not cool for you to pretend you are something you're not.
RadiantMeteor 1 month ago
@RadiantMeteor there are people who are the wrong gender mentally. She must be what that is. She is "a woman trapped in a man's body" if you want to put it that way. what do u think zJ?
DemotheusWill 1 month ago
when i came out to my mom, she laughed and forgot about it... now she asks me which girl I'm dating -_- (I'm a boy)
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STOP USING :) I FEEL LIKE SITTING IN A ROOM WITH 50 YEAR OLDS LOOKING AT ME LIKE THAT ;_; OH GOD WHY IS THIS EVEN IN MY RECOMMENDED VIDEOS ITS NOT RELEVANT TO MY INTERESTS
I AM VERY SCARED AND CONFUSED
your beautiful : )
CelticRaE19 5 months ago
WHAT THE FUCK
Jonassssss6 2 months ago
r u 49!?
karolineus 2 months ago
WTFF
MrShootDat 2 months ago
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ThaProjec 2 months ago
why do you talk like a robot?
BscarfaceM 2 months ago
Hey,Zinnia, have you covered sexual fluidity in general and even asexuality and why these things are actually completely valid? You have so many videos -_-. i do think it is a good topic for discussion.
eartianwerewolf 2 months ago
While I wouldn't call you a lesbian because that's a clearly defined label, the label isn't really what's important. I don't really get why you would bother with defining your sexuality, but if that's what you want, it's a-okay with me. I hope the two of you are still together and happy.
Weendigo172 2 months ago
Merry christmas everybody!
mybluebelly 2 months ago
So does that make your girlfriend a lesbian?
ChesterMolested 2 months ago
I'm just sick of every label human beings have on everything.
rabbit4400 2 months ago
your voice really makes me want to shoot myself.
lizzyylooo1 2 months ago
I'm so happy for you! So glad you found each other! You're beautiful.
mistressofmyth 2 months ago
*rips fart*
UNIVERSEnema 2 months ago
Oh Okhay He's A Tranny Took me liek 5 Videos... But i Figured it Out(:
MinecraftInEpicMode 2 months ago
What?!?!?!?!
taylormek 2 months ago
Real love is falling in LOVE with the right PERSON. It's the person's heart and soul, and for those of you advanced enough to deal with it, that only. :-) Good for you!!!!!!! <3
Trala52 2 months ago
So.....just putting this out there...... maybe........just maybe........you're a straight guy who dresses like a woman. Not a lesbian.
Randomdot1 2 months ago 2
do you ever move your head?:|
NorthernDownpourXD 2 months ago
AHHHHHHHH ARE YOU BOY OR GIRL
gamerzx10 2 months ago
ORIENTATION-CEPTION
secular555 3 months ago
awesome
Snoot501 3 months ago
Why do people never mention asexuals in their lists? "You realize you're gay or lesbian or bi....." Why do people never list asexual? I'm not getting at you but it's getting tiring that people don't seem to acknowledge asexuality. I have had to explain to SO many people and the people who had hear of the word 'asexual' thought I could reproduce by myself! :/
MaggieHaggis 3 months ago 11
@MaggieHaggis because asexuality isn't shunned by society and doesn't make you evil in the eyes of certain people?
K9affirmative 1 month ago 2
@K9affirmative That is debatable. Seeing as you kindly mentioned 'certain people', 'certain people' do. Not as much, not nearly as much, I'll admit that. However you are side-tract. I was merely asking why people don't mention it in any generic list of sexualities, I wasn't on a sympathy mission. I do not see how not being shunned(though in some cases we are) means we don't get acknowledged altogether.
MaggieHaggis 1 month ago
@MaggieHaggis I would venture to guess that it's because the number of Asexuals is comparatively small, much the same reason you don't see Old Norse Mythology on a list of religions, it's not that there aren't people of that faith (surprisingly). it's that the number is too small to actually matter.
K9affirmative 1 month ago
@K9affirmative Wouldn't that come under pagan nowadays? I don't know, I find mythology fascinating and am happy to hear that a form of the Old Norse is still going. Anyhow, I suppose pansexuals and autosexuals have the same deal so....... Yeah. Still annoying though, there isn't that much sexualities out there, whereas there are many,many, many religions.....
MaggieHaggis 1 month ago
@MaggieHaggis
Maybe cause children are normally asexual and develop a sexual preference as they grow older? That would make asexual the default, wouldn't it?
TheOneThatYouLoathe 5 days ago
@TheOneThatYouLoathe I don't see why that wouldn't merit it being mentioned. Not all children grow up and discover they have a sexuality, some remain asexual so it would be appreciated if that could be considered.
MaggieHaggis 5 days ago
I love you on "The Big Bang Theory"...
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my penis fell of
MaxBassBoost 3 months ago
So happy for you, ZJ! <3
hearttopmodel05 3 months ago in playlist More videos from ZJemptv
good for you zinnia ^^
lexalina132 3 months ago
Oh, that's ok, if you're a lesbian, cool with me.
TECKsoniic 3 months ago
I love your videos! You are very intelligent. I have watched a coupple and I am just a bit confused, in your gender FAQ and another one of your videos, you said that you were a guy, and in this one, you are saying you are a lesbian, and in another one you said you weren't transgender. Your facebook page says you are female...could you or anyone please clarify...what gender are you?
refforendum 3 months ago
i love your channel despite the fact I'm a Catholic. You bring plenty of valid points. And I believe someone like you is what we'd call "homoflexible."
BlossomSunshine 3 months ago
It's about love. Not the shape of someone's nether regions. Gender is a social construction, and at the end of the day it's just another label. If you have found someone who makes you happy go with it.
quixoticskeptic 3 months ago 2
I think the face was cgi altered because sometimes it's thinner like a woman and othertimes wider like a guy. Guess he or she wants to confuse everyone who is watching.
hydrolito 3 months ago
This is a fascinating story. There will be a point when labels are pointless... but even now, as I'm trying to wrap my ahead around a circular definition that makes binary definitions irrelevant, I find myself confounded by the "gay" vs. "trans" vs. "lesbian" portions of your story. Gender and orientation are not the same thing, but here they intersect. If definitions are voided, then you're just a human in love with another human... and labels be damned it works for you. Thanks for sharing.
hankmorgan 3 months ago
So much admiration for you dude. I'm a 42 year old hetero man and I would be proud to have you as a son.What you have I wish for my students (I am a teacher , elementary school teacher) and for my children. And this video made me cry. I am very happy for you. I'm glad you take your criticism with such grace and humor. I am also a Christian believe it or not, but not a Bible believing Christian, so most christians say I am not a real one. But Maybe I'll video respond to you one day and explain
zengalileo 3 months ago
I wouldnt call yourself a lesbian if you have a penis, although I'm sure you've thought of this. You're a transgendered bi-sexual as far as I can tell.
Makszi 3 months ago
i'm fucking confused about this video. what the hell are you?!? i mean i'm glad your in love and what not but when i look at you you're a women and when i listen to you speak your a dude. and then you say that you love a girl but she look like you meaning your a woman. but you say you're still definitely gay and still attracted to guys so your a guy? as long as you love someone though it really doesn't matter.
MrSoleyn 3 months ago
So are you bisexual or just a straight man who likes dressing in drag?
MeanKno 3 months ago
Your Bisexual not gay!
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JoeRitrovato 3 months ago
I think you just broke my heart....
pratherat 3 months ago
I love Hitler.
Oh, wait, I thought we were lying.
nigahiiiga 3 months ago
aww this made me so happy!
raydalmonster 3 months ago
This is utter nonsense. You will never ever convince me how you display your self is a normal 'true identity'. You are a sexually and morally repugnant, confused, a truth-murdering mess. Should the gay rights community have my ass.
stepsinit 3 months ago
@stepsinit cognitive dissidence much?
raydalmonster 3 months ago
@raydalmonster lol... What the FUCK are you on about? Idiot oogada boogada.
stepsinit 3 months ago
@stepsinit Yes because I'm the idiot. I say things like "oogada boogada" and then turn around and call other people idiots.
raydalmonster 3 months ago
@raydalmonster Phew, glad we could gather a quick conclusion that you're an idiot. And any little fuckin dweeb who gives me 2 word replies and tries to sound clever is even more than an idiot. Stop trying to impress me and go trick a chick into fucking your pencil geek ass you flaming homo.
stepsinit 3 months ago
@stepsinit It's funny because you still don't know what I originally said even means, and you're only further making yourself into hypocritical simpleton and you probably never will. You're just jealous of my whimsically hysterical yet ironically accurate two-worded rebuttals.
Deal with it.
raydalmonster 3 months ago
@raydalmonster Deal with what exactly? I don't know what cognitive dissidence even is, what's so 'whimsically (fuck leave the thesaurus engine alone) hysterical about any of my views? If you're trying to put people like us in a container to defend your sick immoral gender confusion, then you better learn some more tricky theories, cognitive theories/philosophies pal. Sure give me another diagnosis doctor dickinass.
Jerk off.
stepsinit 3 months ago
@stepsinit Fine, let me define it for you: Cognitive dissidence is when you disregard a point with irrationality. I also find it funny that you think I am putting "people like you down". No, I am putting -you- down. No matter how fucked up your petty little beliefs are, your crude insults used only to infuriate a specific person or group of people is absolutely sickening. So I'll make a point to take out people who have such -cognitive dissidence- in regards to any one but themselves.
raydalmonster 3 months ago
@raydalmonster I make good rational points in my personal honest way. What premises are you basing me on to say that I'm irrational? A man dressing as a WOMAN is not rational. The FACT that they are male and the FACT they are dressing female, and the FACT that they are denying their TRUE identity this way... THESE are the premises which i base my thoughts on, so therefore It was no irrational "fucked up belief waaaa*sob*".
Why don't you lecture yourself about your own down syndrome?
stepsinit 3 months ago
I don't care if you are male or female, gay or straight, you are intelligent and articulate. I agree with just about everything I have heard you talk about and hope to hear more of your views in the future.
emma99hg 3 months ago 2
...and turns even more gay! Awesome.
HawesomePossum 3 months ago
u scare the majibbers out of me..... yes majibbers
boltlova91 3 months ago
lol to much gay for one closet
btnhnwa1996 3 months ago
he doesn't sound too excited
oXDesdinovaXo 3 months ago
if u are a guy and like a girl u are not gay dugggghhhh
rockstarofbikes127 3 months ago
I LOVE this video, your face is struggling between keeping a straight face and grinig from ear to ear. I love seeing someone in love ;)
puckman 4 months ago 27
Note to self: Wear a scarf in my next video to hide my Adam's Apple movement, clearly hiding my gender reality.
HunterMann 4 months ago
You are wasting your intelligence. Someone always having to defend themselves is always unsure of themselves. You sound like a broken record. Spend your time with a real cause and not keep trying to prove who and what you are.
platinumplus691 4 months ago
ZJ, I love this story! It makes me smile every time I hear it, so I come by and watch it any time I need a "pick-me-up." :) Everybody deserves love and happiness (even the idiots that harass you on here. If only they could see how wonderful your story is!) Your happiness is helping increase mine! Love is a good thing... and it's even more wonderful when it shows up saying "SURPRISE!!!"
SnakeladyGreta 4 months ago
I think you should coin the term "[s]he". ;)
rainbowoctopus420 4 months ago
If you're going to sit there and read a script, have some tone, or inflection to the rhetoric. The sound resembles that of a monotone android and over about a minutes time it becomes white noise.
aestheticpjs 4 months ago
so... your bi?
simple enough, welcome to the club
sobored671 5 months ago
@sobored671 It would be more accurate to say he's a five on the Kinsey Scale.
BreakOutTheLobsters 4 months ago
If Zinnia is her *girl*friend, but stated just six days before this video was posted that xe was not transgender, then....?
Woegjiub 5 months ago
Aww... that's great.
As an instant fan, i wonder if you could share your
thoughts / perspectives on monogamy.
AltairZielite 5 months ago
so, this person is " in love and has never been so close with somone who revolutionized her life" yet not a single fucking facial expression or other form of non-spoken expression. what the fuck.
kingmigget 5 months ago
hay whatever works! It was hardly an issue anyway.
way2jaded1 5 months ago
So does this mean that Zinnia's Bisexual or straight?
Slimpack4321 5 months ago
@Slimpack4321 No it just means he's a freak
hanksnow82 4 months ago
You are one of the most fantastic people I have ever experienced. It makes me incredibly happy that you exist and that you have chosen to discharge your mind and personality into these videos. Thank you.
(This comment marks the culmination of building pleasure over a few videos, although the discussion of pure love did contribute significantly.)
TheRatsintheWalls 5 months ago
That is so great! I'm so happy for you; on finding that one person that fulfills you so much. It's so beautiful to hear. ♥♥♥ Love is a grand thing.
Also, I've been watching all of your vids and they're extremely lucid and truthful. It's so great to hear from a person that knows what they are talking about and speaks equality in ALL it's forms. I always look forward to new uploads whatever the subject. :)
Dwightsgirl1979 5 months ago
So. Wait. You're a homosexual man. Going out with a homosexual girl? Or....?
themidnightgardener 5 months ago
That was so sweet. :) The whole thing, but especially the end. Awwww.
TheQueenOfMediocrity 5 months ago
I bet I know what's your favorite South Park episode.
CharlesOberonn 5 months ago
Ha I can entirely understand; having first denied, then considered, then accepted gayness, to meet and fall for a girl felt rather confusing for me, but also very happy, so I went with it. Glad I did. Still gay, or bi, or whatever. But not exclusively. Or something. Anyway another cheering and refreshingly intelligent video, as usual.
RandyLahey911 5 months ago 13
Wow. That was a bit of a mind-bender. You do realize that with this information going public, it's only a matter of time before you receive a casting call from Dancing with the Stars, right?
Hope all goes well in this new relationship for you.
ChipArgyle 5 months ago
Look whose PANSEXAUL! ^_^ BTW, we love you too Zinnia! I hope you make a video that let's us see this undoubtedly AMAZING love of your life! XD
Mikerice260 6 months ago
I think I understand what you're saying. I mean, as a lesbian, I can probably imagine myself dating/being attracted to someone similar to you... but only because all signs point to you being either gender neutral or trans gender, when you've called yourself a guy. What I'm saying is, when you called yourself male, were you just answering questions with the biological, straightforward answer people were expecting, or do you identify as male? You're crazy complex, I'm so curious...
KisaTigger 6 months ago
ok so first gay, then confused, then lesbian. then both? bi im still trying to understand wut you ment
catitgirl333 6 months ago
I'm so happy for you. <3
IkmUjmAl 6 months ago
Welcome to the Ex gay club!
"Greg Quilan PFOX Maryland." Search it up on youtube and you will see what I mean.
RecBookHero 6 months ago
Bravo to you, Zinnia! As 'marionware' said, "you are a normal, healthy human being who fell in love with another normal, healthy human being." Enjoy it!
mikefromwa 6 months ago
that sounds good for you.
a piece of my brain does not really understand.
i guess that is because i did not expierience the same things you did.
if one looks like you and is gay, doesnt that make you kinda straight?
but now gay/lesb again.
workescapist 6 months ago
well I'm a tom boy and I'm a guy
eyezerocool 6 months ago
I hope taht you are always surprised by her, and you never lose what you found. Pax.
Feverwood 6 months ago in playlist watch 1
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nonginger 6 months ago
What a fascinating story! This is a very good, eye-opening video with a few twists and surprises. Good luck both to your girlfriend and you, and may you continue to grow and be happy together.
RCSVirginia 6 months ago
I don't know you but I've been watching your videos and I'm glad you are happy. I'm sure your path has not been easy and you deserve that happiness. I'm also glad you are proud. Love may only come once so hold ur head up high and enjoy it :)
Clisare 6 months ago
Oh my god! She doesn't move!
Spocktacular96 6 months ago
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That's sort of like me.
Mira20Mira 6 months ago
Being pedantic here for a moment... I don't know as "lesbian" would be the appropriate word... but to heck with it. It's a complex thing, multilleveled... and I'm very happy for you. Best wishes on the relationhip... may it be long, healthy, and gloriously happy....
ishtarian 6 months ago
When you put a label on something it denotes an understanding, however basic, of what's being labeled. I say to hell with a label; what you enjoy is what you enjoy.
soundwaveblue 6 months ago
How did I miss this vid?? Excellenté!! GO ZINNIA!! :¬) Love is love, nothing compares to it. If you find it, cherish it and nourish it. If you haven't found it or have lost it, life sucks big time.
I guess I'm still waiting. ;¬)
wordreet 7 months ago
Awww that's adorable! I hope you two have an amazing life together!! :D
Inoryuki 7 months ago 2
If it's not confusing, it isn't real love. :)
HebaruSan 7 months ago 8
@HebaruSan And how would you know? I doubt you even know this person.
Mira20Mira 6 months ago
Zinnia is hot.
130hc 7 months ago 3
I'm so confused now ... are you a guy dressed as a girl, or lesbian ? or transgender ?
misschocolatexo 7 months ago
hmm? is this serious?
if so good luck :D
sailornaruto39 7 months ago
That whole homosexual/heterosexual thing is a scam anyway. Yeah, I'm what they would call exclusively gay, but I've seen three women, in my life, that I was attracted to. And this is the case for everyone, whether they will admit it or not. Everybody is bisexual to some degree or another. Even the ones that are "exclusive" to one side.
I hope this girl makes you happy.
TheCeejReturns 7 months ago
I wish I could like or favorite this video a thousand times!!! :) I'm so glad you found someone to love!
fireincarnation2 7 months ago
Well... whatever floats consenting adults boats, yes?
However if you are in love with a woman, and really a woman, not a guy identifying as a woman, but fully biologically. And this is also a sexual relationship and not just a romantic one, then you are bi, not gay. No way around that either. Same with 'straight' guys who still have sex with one particular guy. They're bi.
F'course you can still be on the LGBT side of things (And honest bisexuals should be, I am one and I am on that side.)
TheSkunkCat 7 months ago
Zinnia, you are one of my favorite people on youtube.
Smischmal 7 months ago
i'm so confused by the implications of this video, knowing that zinnia is a dude
taylorbortnerathing 7 months ago
It seems to me that our nomenclature is inadequate to describe the full spectrum of human sexual behavior. I'd be in favor of doing away with the notion sexual identity altogether and describing sexuality in purely behavioral terms.
AbelianGroup 7 months ago
@AbelianGroup There is a Japanese group that elieves in dressing in a way that prevents you from determining another persons sex. They pick their spouses by personality alone.
CatalystH2SO4 7 months ago
your beautiful : )
CelticRaE19 7 months ago
You have already inspired me so much. Congratulations to you and your gf. I admit I'm a lil jealous she found someone like you, but you are a huge source of hope for me. Yeah, I wouldn't let being a lesbian be a reason to date someone identifying as male if we were attracted to each other and cared about each other. You are a brilliant, profound person. I think you can make for great positive change with your mind. : )
aixelsydyslexia 7 months ago
did u know that.. this is the most epic vid watched today :O
i dun even care if ur straigt gay bisexual lesbian or what the fuck in that way,,
the only thing that counts here is the love.. not the gender.. still ehh if youre just a male and u still have ur cocky thing.. XD its also just nature XD
im proud on you
and keep the love my friend;)
XmetalblastX 7 months ago
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junaeondrift 7 months ago
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I may be wrong but IMO, this confusion seems to be born simply because of the unnecessary dictation from society on what constitutes which "gender". But in reality, people are simply who they are, and ideally should be allowed to be who they are.
junaeondrift 7 months ago
Hey, ZJ, I'm very, very happy for you both, man!! Wow! So u now consider urself a lesbian---so u think u're (at least sorta/kinda) trans-gendered?! Or *de facto* bi- or pansexual?! Whatever the case, man, as I said, I'm thrilled for you both!
MCP2012 7 months ago
Um ew I think I have a crush on zinnie:'(
pitachip75 7 months ago
That's exactly how I realized I was bi xD The only difference is, I thought I was straight before then.
GinnyStoleMyMan 8 months ago in playlist Queer issues
This is the most robotic profession of love I've ever seen...
duckface1991 8 months ago
._. awwwwww this video is so cute ;_;
I hope you find happiness ZJ <3
DreamMasquerade 8 months ago
i dont care if ur gay but u are going to hell. u being gay doesnt concern me but good luck in hell. thats what i say to the peoples of gay descent.
EnvelTheTrader 8 months ago
@EnvelTheTrader Of gay 'descent'? Look... you're a homophobe. That makes you as bad as a sexist and/or racist and/or anti-semite.
Another thing: if you didnty care, you wouldnt be trolling.
And ANOTHER thing: saying someone is going to Hell is a hollow threat when they aren't so FUCKING IGNORANT that they believe Hell is real.
And a thing to other people: Lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, watever. STOP ARGUEING SEMANTICS! Love transcends vocabularic boundaries.
CatalystH2SO4 7 months ago
@CatalystH2SO4 ur an idiot. gay people go to hell.
EnvelTheTrader 7 months ago
@EnvelTheTrader I hope you get well.. ignorance is a horrible disease.
megafluffin 7 months ago
@EnvelTheTrader
people like you who judgent to fast also go to hell so better get in 1 door with gays or they wil get revange:P..
XmetalblastX 7 months ago
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@XmetalblastX read my first comment. "i dont care if ur gay but u are going to hell. u being gay doesnt concern me but good luck in hell. thats what i say to the peoples of gay descent." so once agian i DONT CARE if u are gay... if ur a guy and wanna suck dick idc, or if ur a girl n u wanna eat pussy. idc. but u ARE going to hell.
EnvelTheTrader 7 months ago
@EnvelTheTrader If it didnt concern you, then you wouldnt talk about it. Which means you're probably gay, and in denial about being gay, having been raised in a group that doesnt accept homosexuality. Due to that, you lash out at homosexuals and transvestites because you don't know what else to do.
Also, most people who are gay aren't stupid, so they know that there is no such thing as hell. Saying "you're going to burn in hell" isn't a threat, It's a proclamation of your own stupidity.
CatalystH2SO4 7 months ago
@EnvelTheTrader You haven't read Luke have you? Jesus is fine with gay people. Jesus hates atheists, but he IS fine with gay people. Jesus doesnt exist, but if he did he'd disagree with you.
CatalystH2SO4 7 months ago
@CatalystH2SO4 jesus was just a man. idc whos jesus fine with. i believe in allah.
EnvelTheTrader 7 months ago
@EnvelTheTrader If you believe in Allah and not jesus, why do you believe in hell? I thought it was something else in the Quran?
CatalystH2SO4 7 months ago
@CatalystH2SO4 words get translated. english isnt the launguage of christianity. i believe in jesus as a prophet. not a god or son of god.
EnvelTheTrader 7 months ago
So you're bisexual, b/c you've been attracted to both genders. Lesbians are attracted to women exclusively.
tool404 8 months ago
@tool404 lol youre not something because of what you were. She calls herself a lesbian, since she sees herself as a girl, which is fine. But technically, she is pansexual. She doesnt care about the gender, she just falls in love with someone who makes her feel good
kolokostor 8 months ago
Zinnia,
This is why shows like Glee should be banned. Don't you realise that their portrayal of straight people is blatant product placement. You have fallen victim to it. Glee should not be shown at such an early hour.
Hyperplaterine 8 months ago
@ZJemptv
You are not a lesbian, if you like males and females that makes you bisexual, period.
DogsneedpIeasuretoo 8 months ago
@DogsneedpIeasuretoo
Your argument would work under normal circumstances, that if Zinnia likes both men and women that he would be a bisexual, but you failed to realize the factor that makes it the way it is; Zinnia is so gay that even his heterosexual relations are homosexual.
Yes, Zinnia is has done the sexuality equivalent of alchemy and turned straight into gay.
ClipOnSunglasses 8 months ago
I'll tell you what you are; you are a normal, healthy human being who fell in love with another normal, healthy human being. As humans, we are capable of more diversity, more joy, and more FUN than culture or religion allows. Go for it; enjoy it; and don't worry about locking yourself in a tiny box with some tired, worn-out label. If you're interested, there is a strong correlation between high IQ "pansexuality". Mostly, you are a normal, healthy, adult human being. Who's in love. YAY!
marianware 8 months ago 30
@marianware Sorry, typo here. Should say "... strong correlation between high IQ AND "pansexuality". Seems the more intelligent you are, the less likely you are to bind yourself with socially imposed rules. Oh gee. Who would have figured?
marianware 8 months ago
Your a mentally confused homosexual and you should seek help
hanksnow82 8 months ago
Trannys are cool :) I'm glad you came out :)
AnitaCruz94 8 months ago
wait. so you're a man, who dresses like a woman (to add another side to the fact that women can dress like men) but you consider yourself a woman now? and now you're attracted to women?! but you're a male, doesn't that make you a straight male then, or is it the fact that you're considered by her to be a woman as well..... YOU are a mystery wrapped in an enigma boiled in a sauce of surprise. I thought i had you figured out, but apparently i don't.
jqqbeck 8 months ago
Stop wearing your moms dress son.
AndyOshea 8 months ago
Dude that is completely cool, be whoever you want to be, love whoever the hell you want to love!
richardidntwantodie 8 months ago
if your a male lesbian.... that would make you strait... why are you dressing up like a girl? wtf and you talk like a robot
wesellcoffee 8 months ago
woot woot so glad your happy zj ^_^
ShellySummers 8 months ago