Patti Lupone is great broadway singer/actress and a every gay man's idol but I did not like her in this. She was a bitch as Marc's mom. She still did a good job playing the role.
oooh marc ;( even though he's so confident, melodramatic and outwardly mean to betty, he's still a real guy with feelings. he looked so hurt, i wanted to hug him so bad :( what is this episode called so i can watch the whole thing please? i dont think i knew about ugly betty when this one was shown....
I know it's that she's in denial about it, but how can his mom not know he's gay? Has she MET him? But this scene was so well acted on both their parts. I just wanted to hug Marc so bad, he looked so hurt!
Damn right, Marc! I love him even more for defending the Saurez family, and I love the friendship that developed between Marc and Justin in the 4th season. I wish it would come back for a at least a 5th season :(
this scene does totally break my heart. I'm so glad someone like Patti got to do the role, not just because I love her to death but I think having someone who so adores the gay community makes the character more interesting.
and I love that every time Michael introduced Patti somewhere he calls her his "TV mommy"
I cried so much when I first saw this scene on the TV! Don't know what made me think of it today. Except...god, I love Marc. And hate his mother with a passion :'(
Poor Marc! I am sooooo sad ev'ry time I watch this scene! And Patti is amazing (even if I hated her character from the first time I saw this episode)! She is one of the greatest actress of all times!
marc is soo sweet...i loved him in this scene cuz he was really nice to betty and her family and he really has a heart!!!....it makes me soo sad watching this:(
Daww, this might just be my favorite scene in the entire season. I nearly cried when I saw Marcs face at the end- he's such a sweetie, and his mom is a complete bitch. Marc definitely didn't deserve that reaction from her.
LOL! Patti LuPone is a MEGA fag hag in real life. Her career was definitely given an extra boost (even though it wasn't really needed because she is awesome) by the gay community, and she totally spoon fed us what we wanted! LOL!
You see how Marc doesn't fully snap until she rags on Justin. As snotty as Marc can be sometimes, he genuinely likes that kid, and he will not tolerate anybody doing harm to that little boy.
I love Marc in this scene so much. I can't imagine the courage it takes to come out to your family when you know that they won't accept you; coming out to people, even if you know they'll love you no mater what, is hard enough. I really believe there's no one braver than the out queer teen who gets teased every day at his high school because of who he is ... but refuses to hide.
Wow, so sad. Impeccable acting, though, that's for sure. Patti is amazing, especially since her feelings on that are, clearing, the complete opposite. Marc does an amazing job, too.
I love Justin/ Marc interaction. This clip is so sad. On the DvD audio commentary for this episode Urie tells about how he got fan mail saying that this episode inspired a sixteen year old kid to come out to his mom while they were watching this together.
1:40 is so sad, though. We rarely see Mark in such a weak position when he says, "Mom, I love you..." I mean, listen to the desperation. He really does sound like us when some of us came out to our parents.
You know what is so funny? Seeing Patti LuPone portraying a character who has a issues with her son being gay. Patti LuPone in real life wouldn't have cared. Hell, she's iconic in the gay community! She's very gay friendly in terms of shows she has worked in (Ugly Betty, Will and Grace).
Michael Urie is such an amazing actor... he should get recognized more at award shows and such, he's most of why I watch Ugly Betty, and this scene is fantastique!
omg.. he was a man while saying he was gay.. how weird is that lol. He was actually serious and like deep voiced it was so sweet and heart breaking. His mom is a BIATCH!
Michael Urie is such a great actor. This episode put a knott in my throat and filled my eyes with tears. Specially when he says to look at his own swishy
Cool fact: Mark Indelicato (Justin) and Michael Urie (Marc) submitted this episode for Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Comedy Series and so did V. Williams for Outstanding Actress and P. Lupone for Outstanding Guest Actress in a Comedy Series.
is the first time I see this scene and Im swiming in my won tears how dEAR SHE DUSSING DUSTIN!!! this show is the best it made me forget about friends!!
I almost cried when I saw this. It's a whole new side of Marc that we don't get to see. It's heartbreaking, really. Many people are like the mother in real life.
This is such a beautiful and heartbreaking scene. I always liked Mark before this, but this episode let him really shine and gave him such vulnerability and depth. Truly wonderful acting by Michael, I cheered when he said "Shut your mouth mom" and "No. No!". This remains one of my favourite scenes of the entire series so far. Ah god, I love it!
...Having Patti Lupone play this is just a stroke of genius. xD You'd never expect it!
Adoranger 3 months ago 2
The first time i watched this, i cried.
rebGARR 5 months ago
Id so be Marc BF lol!
Musicbox4Dan 10 months ago
Patti Lupone is great broadway singer/actress and a every gay man's idol but I did not like her in this. She was a bitch as Marc's mom. She still did a good job playing the role.
MrMbell2 1 year ago 2
oooh marc ;( even though he's so confident, melodramatic and outwardly mean to betty, he's still a real guy with feelings. he looked so hurt, i wanted to hug him so bad :( what is this episode called so i can watch the whole thing please? i dont think i knew about ugly betty when this one was shown....
lemmonyish 1 year ago 2
"the goooolden girls marathon is oOoOoOoOoOn" LMAO! I love him.
Beautiful little scene. <3 Marc
inasexymood 1 year ago 7
I know it's that she's in denial about it, but how can his mom not know he's gay? Has she MET him? But this scene was so well acted on both their parts. I just wanted to hug Marc so bad, he looked so hurt!
PoemJunkie 1 year ago 8
Aw, Marc's so sweet. :(
TwilitSun 1 year ago 6
Damn right, Marc! I love him even more for defending the Saurez family, and I love the friendship that developed between Marc and Justin in the 4th season. I wish it would come back for a at least a 5th season :(
kht777 1 year ago 16
mark should have won an emmy for this scene.
baiboo 1 year ago 12
wheres the next part.!?!?!
xoxothegaymanshow 1 year ago
what a great moment for marc, but its really quit sad.
NYCgirl9793 1 year ago 10
this is marc's best moment. it showed he wasnt a shallow queen. he is a real person with feelings.
TomCollinsgirl 2 years ago 17
this is one of my favourite (solo) Marc parts! I LOVE him and I love his friendship with Amanda.
xfreck1esx 2 years ago 13
Poor Marc!! DX
Kyoraline 2 years ago 11
This breaks my heart.
4alloulou 2 years ago 13
Marc rocks! & Justin! & Wil xD
Apparently, loads of people opened up to their Parents after watching this episode!
xTiggzox 2 years ago 10
awh, i love marc (:
he's nice really.
hannaaarrh 2 years ago 7
his mum is a total skank whore
MikeTheMaster01 2 years ago 14
yeah she is
wagp90 2 years ago 2
come on ppl, his mum is not a b""""
this is what usually happens....
this is the reality.. sad.. but it is
dantak 2 years ago
to: dantak
just because this is what usually happens doesn't mean it's what should happen. and his mom is being a bitch.
MadHatter13MarchHare 2 years ago 8
how come this episode is called swishy?
ladyxluckxrulesxok 2 years ago
It's not, it's called "Don't ask, don't tell." This video was just titled swishy because that's what the scene is about.
baixiaolang 2 years ago 4
lol i like how as the show went on Marc and amanda developt there personailities and the veiwer saw what layed under there fake-fake exterior.
dannyboy666999 2 years ago 5
No Marc ;__ ; His mother's a b****!
MeenaOh29 2 years ago 3
Marc is the reason i watch this show
benegeseritwhore 3 years ago 15
same
mileythegreengirl 2 years ago 6
MARC!!! aww! no! his mother is a bitch! how could she?!?!
but GO MARC FOR STICKING UP FOR BETTY and family!
DancersAreCool 3 years ago 10
brilliant writing
anactornamedseth93 3 years ago 5
this scene does totally break my heart. I'm so glad someone like Patti got to do the role, not just because I love her to death but I think having someone who so adores the gay community makes the character more interesting.
and I love that every time Michael introduced Patti somewhere he calls her his "TV mommy"
hollywoodbebe 3 years ago 8
I cried so much when I first saw this scene on the TV! Don't know what made me think of it today. Except...god, I love Marc. And hate his mother with a passion :'(
applegrassdude 3 years ago 6
i hate marc with a passion but this is the only time i ever liked him ever.
chubkuriboh 3 years ago
Could someone PLEASE upload this entire episode!!!
resuai 3 years ago
you can prob borrow the full season from ur library!
DancersAreCool 3 years ago
That's why is so difficult for some people to come out. Mothers can be so mean sometimes!
Fenicksss 3 years ago 2
is he a gay in real life coz i really like him..
bday91090 3 years ago
yep
holynvince 3 years ago 3
really? his butt is sorta funny looking and really high in this episode.. either that or the pants just don't work.
he'd be so high maintenance IRL
justspenny 3 years ago
I heard that he's actually not in real life. I was so happy cuz now I don't feel so wierd about being in lvoe with him! :) :D
ProjectRunwayFan321 3 years ago
um, duh- he is.
if you have ever seen an interview with him you would know
he is on our time- back off bitch
benegeseritwhore 3 years ago
Poor Marc! I am sooooo sad ev'ry time I watch this scene! And Patti is amazing (even if I hated her character from the first time I saw this episode)! She is one of the greatest actress of all times!
SweetAngelOfMusic94 3 years ago
Poor Marc! This scene is so sad :(. His mum is such a jerk.
bellatrixareforkids 3 years ago 2
stupid bitch!poor mark...
babyDolluRocknRoll 3 years ago 3
omg BITCH
NICXNTA 3 years ago 3
I love marc and justin! even if they are "swishy"
OMG marc's mom is such a bitch!
XxHarukaxX94 3 years ago 8
I've never seen this episode, so I've never heard Marc say anything nice about Betty! I love "No, NO" part where he makes that face. Poor Marc...
bluexmoonxmusic 3 years ago
soooooo sad :( poor marc
KikoTiger247 3 years ago 3
i love the way he defends justin :')
HAZx0 3 years ago 8
ugh, i just want to give marc a hug so bad in this scene. poor thing...
freshPrincess626 3 years ago 44
this scene is amazing
patti is such an amazing actress if u look at her face when marc is at the door she just looks so sad it looks so real gosh i love her
even though her character was a bitch lol
tatyrules12 3 years ago 8
his mom is a royal bitch! I love Marc and Justin no matter how "swishy" they are =P
Koishii57 3 years ago 22
marc is soo sweet...i loved him in this scene cuz he was really nice to betty and her family and he really has a heart!!!....it makes me soo sad watching this:(
soccerkick37 3 years ago 16
Daww, this might just be my favorite scene in the entire season. I nearly cried when I saw Marcs face at the end- he's such a sweetie, and his mom is a complete bitch. Marc definitely didn't deserve that reaction from her.
fanofthecabbageman 3 years ago 13
what means sweeshe?
Olebruc 3 years ago
"swishy" basically is a kind of mean way to say homosexual. I hate that she called Justin that, he's my favorite character :)
fanofthecabbageman 3 years ago 4
mine too!!
Olebruc 3 years ago
swishy means camp. As in a stereotypical gay man.
motion2005 3 years ago 4
You hate the fact that Justin is gay? What the **** is wrong with you. And for the record... 'swishy' = 'camp and effeminate' NOT homosexual.
motion2005 3 years ago 2
fanofthecabageman said they liked Justin and hated that the woman used the word "swishy," which was used as a slur in this scene, to describe him.
Ashoka 3 years ago 4
goosebumps
mouaii 3 years ago
omg this makes me cry every time!
wata scene!
emilywicks 3 years ago 2
Everytime i watch tis it makes me cry!
XxUnknownSuperstarxX 3 years ago
LOL! Patti LuPone is a MEGA fag hag in real life. Her career was definitely given an extra boost (even though it wasn't really needed because she is awesome) by the gay community, and she totally spoon fed us what we wanted! LOL!
oneworldguy 3 years ago
This is such a good episode, funny overall =], but the mom is so mean, I almost cried the first time I saw that part =[
EliNickeleye 3 years ago 3
You see how Marc doesn't fully snap until she rags on Justin. As snotty as Marc can be sometimes, he genuinely likes that kid, and he will not tolerate anybody doing harm to that little boy.
hothotheat3000 3 years ago 12
Marc is such a hero in this scene.....
britneysbitch92 3 years ago 9
I love Marc in this scene so much. I can't imagine the courage it takes to come out to your family when you know that they won't accept you; coming out to people, even if you know they'll love you no mater what, is hard enough. I really believe there's no one braver than the out queer teen who gets teased every day at his high school because of who he is ... but refuses to hide.
soodle18 4 years ago 59
I wish I was a man so I could marry marc.
yanarocket 4 years ago 21
Wish you were a gay dude to get to Marc huh.. Sigh, don't we all. He's completely oh-so-adorable. (:
suryalinaten10 4 years ago 10
Patti LuPone in ugly betty.....
LOL
she is a good actor
:)
iiinicka 4 years ago 5
the irony! Patti Lupone, a icon to gay guys everywhere, plays a homophobe
tylerburch13 4 years ago 8
Isn't it crazy? I thought the same thing when I first saw this.
superheathurrr 3 years ago
Whata a b*cht!
HheartJandM 4 years ago 5
She is a PSYCHO fag hag in real life, though. Don't worry. Patti LuPone rocks!
oneworldguy 3 years ago
So sad . Poor Marc . :(
lemonixe 4 years ago 9
"The Golden Girls marathon is on!!" -lmao..
I lv that show too..
But it was really brave of mark to do what he did.. even if his mom acted like a total bitch anyways.
PerusFiiNezt08 4 years ago 10
i think hes a little hero in this scene
GabbyDee32 4 years ago 6
little bisket eater!!!
lefevbre 4 years ago
Wow, so sad. Impeccable acting, though, that's for sure. Patti is amazing, especially since her feelings on that are, clearing, the complete opposite. Marc does an amazing job, too.
nygypsy318 4 years ago 3
I love how her face changes at 1:30 when she sees her son is gay.
I just think Patti is a great actress and is good to know that she's not like that at all.
Dangay13 4 years ago 4
very good acting. I can imagine him in some really difficult serious deep role.I guess he is the best actor in UB
jessss10 4 years ago 3
This was soo sad :(
brendaqrg 4 years ago
I wanna slap her!
mikaporcuna 4 years ago 3
I LOVE MARC.
Everytime I see this I want to give him a big hug.
julesnoelle 4 years ago 10
Marc's so sweet the way he defends Betty and the gang
marinka678 4 years ago 6
I really hope Marc's mom makes a return appearance...just so that someone can slap her in the face.
Abhorsen4 4 years ago 6
aww.. i felt really sad for marc in this scene. glad he stood up for betty's family though.
suryalinaten10 4 years ago 9
that was some good acting. i love marc even more now.
artgurl101 4 years ago 7
i actually wanted to cry
poor marc :( xxx
"open your eyes mum and look at your own swishy son"
toptotoeworkout 4 years ago 9
golden girls marathon tha was hiliours
tonyseif47 4 years ago
I love marc so much, this scene just broke my heart.
missfashionvictim 4 years ago 5
omg that is so sad - so nearly cried! poor mark, bad patti lupone!! still love her love :)
colettegoodman 4 years ago 3
is he admitting that he's gay or that he likes his boss?
crankdamusik411 4 years ago
that's he's gay. he doesn't like daniel
hannahmontanaya 4 years ago
Actually, he says he does like Daniel in an episode, but his boss is Wilemina.
somethingaboutkittie 4 years ago
aww see this just proves marcs good. its just wilhimena thats a bad influence.
marc is the sweetest guy in the show when he wants to be. but hes also the bitchiest when he wants to be.
thats why i love him,
GO MARC! ♥
LovelyDarkness14 4 years ago 4
Yes this is really sad. I hate parents like that.
However, I must say, Justin's little part there made me laugh so loudly that my dog growled.
I need to watch this show more often.
CuriositysCat 4 years ago 4
OMG that was great
I love justins little entrance there lol
cosette46 4 years ago 2
i LOVE MARC SOOO FUXING MUCH
and i wanna kill his mother
I SAY SHE IS EVIL >:(
xshadowgothx 4 years ago
I can't believe a mother would do that.
sueanna2 4 years ago
believe it or not its pretty common :(
iluvcepeda 4 years ago
I LOVE MARK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ladyadidas101 4 years ago
I love Justin/ Marc interaction. This clip is so sad. On the DvD audio commentary for this episode Urie tells about how he got fan mail saying that this episode inspired a sixteen year old kid to come out to his mom while they were watching this together.
zippy3421 4 years ago 10
1:40 is so sad, though. We rarely see Mark in such a weak position when he says, "Mom, I love you..." I mean, listen to the desperation. He really does sound like us when some of us came out to our parents.
oneworldguy 4 years ago 4
You know what is so funny? Seeing Patti LuPone portraying a character who has a issues with her son being gay. Patti LuPone in real life wouldn't have cared. Hell, she's iconic in the gay community! She's very gay friendly in terms of shows she has worked in (Ugly Betty, Will and Grace).
oneworldguy 4 years ago 3
you tell that bitch marc!! ^_^
swishy's for justce!!
MuffinsTheMule 4 years ago 3
i would of slapped her!
crimsonxemo 4 years ago
the end made me cryyy!!!!!!!!!!!!
crazyandy55 4 years ago 2
Marc and Justin are my favourite characters ^_^ Next to Betty of course.
MissPanther 4 years ago
XD! Justin!
"The Golden girls marathon is ooon!"
chubssochubby 4 years ago 2
this is the cutest show ever. it's so nice to gay/trans people, too.
gorramdoll 4 years ago 2
marck and justin are the best of the best
alberthann 4 years ago
...Swishy?
Who comes up with these euphimisms?
But, anyway, awesome moment.
Gives Marc a whole new level of depth.
How could someone be so mean to Justin? He's so cute!
SimpleFaith 4 years ago
I wish I could say UB made that one up, but they didn't.
esprit15d 4 years ago
Aw! I want to hug him!!!!!!!! I love Marc!!! And Michael Urie is really talented!
BTW I wanted to slap Marc's mother!
Cindylock 4 years ago
this is one of the main reasons most fans love marc. yes he can be bitchy but he can also be sensitive and sweet not to mention he is adorable too
wchngliu81 4 years ago 3
Michael Urie is such an amazing actor... he should get recognized more at award shows and such, he's most of why I watch Ugly Betty, and this scene is fantastique!
Weirfan69 4 years ago 3
omg.. he was a man while saying he was gay.. how weird is that lol. He was actually serious and like deep voiced it was so sweet and heart breaking. His mom is a BIATCH!
aichalasfar 4 years ago
Oh Marc is just so adorable! He can be a bit...stuck up at times, but he really pulls through for what HE knows is right. Such a sweetie! *hugs him*
StapleTaper 4 years ago 2
This is so heartbreaking. Even my father, who is not a fan of the gay lifestyle, was moved by this. He really liked Marc
TomCollinsgirl 4 years ago 2
That was so sweet how Marc defended Betty's family. And Justin isn't swishy, he's adorable, same with Marc.
AngelicGothNeko 4 years ago 2
I know he is adorableso is marc
670rach 4 years ago 2
Michael Urie is such a great actor. This episode put a knott in my throat and filled my eyes with tears. Specially when he says to look at his own swishy
kawabungadude1 4 years ago
I love that point to. And him as an actor. I saw WTC view before this episode so I was not suprised he was so good. But for Marc, amazing
TomCollinsgirl 4 years ago 2
what a bitch..
phsycochick555 4 years ago
i cried the first time I saw this episode..
phsycochick555 4 years ago
ok thanks emlodik =) i cant wait!
bwaylover818 4 years ago
omg poor Marc.... this scene made me cry when i saw it. :(
helloworld3596 4 years ago
OMG that was so sad. Patti Lupone is wonderful but she can play such biznatchy characters
bwaylover818 4 years ago
Her character is due back in season two, this time fully excepting her son's sexuality, but still very possesive, condescending and bitchy.
emlodik 4 years ago
hmmmmm, i love ugly betty. and i think gay people are sweet not "swishy"
mochila22 4 years ago
I agree they are sweet not swishy
670rach 4 years ago 2
thers only one episode left for season 1 and thats tomorrow! ugly betty is on 7:30 sunday nights here in australia
boyfigureskater1996 4 years ago
Oh my God POOR MARC
Cucika07 4 years ago
poor marc....
TheSweetDevil93 4 years ago
Aint nuthin wrong with a good ole swhish!
dongbat777 4 years ago
Cool fact: Mark Indelicato (Justin) and Michael Urie (Marc) submitted this episode for Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Comedy Series and so did V. Williams for Outstanding Actress and P. Lupone for Outstanding Guest Actress in a Comedy Series.
ranger13 4 years ago
Was Patti nominated?
If she makes a return visit, I'm sure she'll cement herself in for the nomination this year.
The ability to portray anyone in fear of coming out's worst nightmare is a tough job, and she took it on beautifully
logan0215 4 years ago
ohhh..poor marc. its weird seeing him not being a jerk
zinnycat1597 4 years ago
And you get to see another side to Mark.
phillysteakwrap 4 years ago
omg! that was so cool! I love patti lupone =)
isaunder 4 years ago
I love them both :D (Marc and Justin)
PrettyAlicia 4 years ago
She is such a bitch.
Marc is amazing, and so's Justin, and the rest of the Suarez family.
He was so brave, and him and Justin are awesome, they wouldn't be as awesome if they weren't 'swishy'.
lol...swishy.
StarlightFuryBHAR 4 years ago
Oh my God, don't worry Marcy, I LOVE YOU, BOY!
cabinetfiles 4 years ago 2
Look at your own swishy son!
Lmao
It's sweet how Marc sticks up for Betty's family.
I feel so sorry for him when his mum disowns him.
LimeLollyPop 4 years ago
omg i LURVE MARK!!!! sooo sweet :)
crazyellz 4 years ago
Aww... I love Marc and this breaks my HEART!!!
hollywooddarling 4 years ago
omg this makes me cry. i just think its so sweet when marc actually defends betty and her family.
chemicalideas 4 years ago
rofl yay watery eyes, ;D
iMehh 4 years ago
is the first time I see this scene and Im swiming in my won tears how dEAR SHE DUSSING DUSTIN!!! this show is the best it made me forget about friends!!
alberthann 4 years ago
uh! i love mark and justins swishyness!
sugarcoatedtrashcan 4 years ago
WHAT A BITCH.
Marc wouldn't be Marc if he wasn't swishy!
And don't get me started on dissing JUSTIN.
BITCH BITCH BITCH.
Elzibubb 4 years ago
omg she best shut up about justin! Hes the best character!
iloveskins1000 4 years ago
Why Patti Lupone? Why?
TheOopsGirl 4 years ago
this made me cry when i first saw it! :/
herospud 4 years ago
The GOlden Girls marathon is on!" PArents should love their children for who they are and what they want to be.
Sjh1994 4 years ago
Marc's my fav character in UB
stormira 4 years ago
aw i LOVE this. Marc is actually a human being!
Plus way hot.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
TwigletLoveChild 4 years ago
your confused
no mom, for once i'm not!
lol this is so funny! i <3 mark!
so swishy
loveisallineedXx 4 years ago
gr8 vid, his mum is so mean
dazzlingenie 4 years ago
what a bitch mom ,,,for god sake u shouldlove ur children no matterrrrr whaatttt!!
IsabellaLamor 4 years ago
I almost cried when I saw this. It's a whole new side of Marc that we don't get to see. It's heartbreaking, really. Many people are like the mother in real life.
Renthead1001 4 years ago
completely agree!! Swishy rules
superbob08 4 years ago
'And i dont even kno wot that is' wot a bitch lol
does any1 else fancy mark lol?
2tats 4 years ago
OMFG!!! IT'S PATTI LUPONE!!! I effing love her....even if her character here is completely horrible.....
drewkingsbury 4 years ago
This is such a beautiful and heartbreaking scene. I always liked Mark before this, but this episode let him really shine and gave him such vulnerability and depth. Truly wonderful acting by Michael, I cheered when he said "Shut your mouth mom" and "No. No!". This remains one of my favourite scenes of the entire series so far. Ah god, I love it!
deeplyconfused13 4 years ago 2
omfg
i <3 him
SWISHY! SWISHY!
fuk u whore hes frikkin fabolous
FrostFrostBaby 4 years ago
what a mean mom!!jeez i would love him even if he's gay
dancerfeind 4 years ago
i don't really like Mark (hes rude) but this scene converted me
92GH 4 years ago
oh na... poor marc... (sniffle) i c