How to get rid of nervousness with women

[blizakec54]

k well i guess this sucks for me cus my nipples go in! :(

[heirihunziker]

so you say you don't wanna come across as a salesman? --> 01:53 hmmm?

[SSPX3]

are you crazy? this can get you arrested

[kazamman33]

i did this 5 times and 3 of them touched it and i got 1 girls number.This stuff works... or maybe I'm just devilishly handsome;)

[BEWAFFA1]

FINALLLLY IM GETTING RIGHT ADVICE

[mongolenpup]

This pua shit landed me a trip in the hospital -_-...go talk to people, go talk to people, be dominant and cool, blablabla. Well...it did work, I got the girls interested in the club, but her male friends waited for me outside and bashed my face in with a beerbottle, so I had to go and get facial reconstruction. Im not bullshitting. Fuck this shit.

[ShowKase]

maybe is different in the UK but over in North America asking random women in public to pinch your nipple would definitely be followed by being tasered by the police, put in handcuffs and then hit with a sexual harassment suit lol ...

[amneziac]

I tried this one 3 groups of girls and after that had no problem talking to more. I think the biggest help is when you bring a friend along to motivate you to make that first approach and once that is done, it gets a lot easier.

[amneziac]

I actually tried this on 3 groups of girls. I brought a friend with me to keep me motivated because I had trouble approaching girls when alone. The first group shook their heads in a shy kind of way and kept walking, second group laughed and said no and when i asked the third group, one of the girls was like "what?" so i asked the question again and shes like "....no!..." hhaha

After that, I started approaching them easily and was able to talk to them confidently.

This helped so much, thanks!

[tubewoodycool]

if your nervous with girls this cant be easy? lol

[relyanddefy]

no offence but thats like saying so youre scared of heights but need to do a bungee jump? go jump off a skyscraper and the bungee jump will seem a piece of piss

[Morvan90]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA LOLL This is so fucking great!!! Oh T's man I love your style, Ive been in the pua world for about 6 month now and even though i almost dont have AA anymore, I think I'm gonna try that with one of my wing that still have a huge AA!

[higyhagd]

im definitely trying this when i go to high school in 2 months haha

[CharlesKing104]

This is a good tip. If you can get girls to touch your nipples, you would be able to approach any women.

[SuperBartles]

I love the idea that there are 121,000 guys around the world going around asking women to touch their nipples for them....Hope noone else in my hometown is watching this because I'm off to try this out, lol

[bnguyen25]

T is a good PUA

[lloydylloydy]

As a pick up artisit you must know John Alexander? What do you think of his techniques because he is more about making yourself the Alpha Male which girls like instead of trying to make girls like you.. (if that makes sense)

[screamosk8rkid]

what i really don't understand is gambits and the push/pull thing. i always end up seeming like a freak. help?

[thecharm57]

but since that day she's been acting pretty weird it kinda seems like she's avoiding me.. so my question is do you have any idea what i may have done wrong? and how do i fix this? i would greatly appreciate if u can help..in other words it would mean the world to me.lol thanxx -abraham

[nehmanator333]

@sriggitano

It's funny you say this because some of the best pick up artists are short ugly guys. You can WORK on your looks. Girls do it all the time. Haven't you ever seen an ugly girl do her hair, put on makeup, put on a nice dress, work out at the gym, pluck her eyebows, use facial creams for smooth look...etc. Even a skinny ugly guy with acne could in 3-6 months be turned into a ripped stud.

[retroguy02]

I'm wondering how would this guy's techniques work if he was black, or asian or mexican for that matter. I just noticed that you pick up white girls - I think that this puts you at an advantage because people of other ethnicities often have a cultural barrier (conservative values to overcome). I'd like to see you pick up girls that are not just white.

[onxiaftw]

what is kino

[jad2457]

ok socialengineer, quick question. If you and a girl have talked around 5 times in 3 months but you know that she likes you(all her body language and attitude make it obvious) and you guys lose contact for around a month, would you strike up a conversation to get her mind flowing on you again or would you wait for her to do so?

[neomichael32461]

@jad2457 god shes probably waitin for u to ask her out!

[yevgeniy8888]

this is funny

[JackieandMandy411]

some good stuff :-) i don't know why but im kind of addicted to these videos ha

-jackie-

[DjKDM7000]

I know many of you watch this and think "huh.... that's a great idea - I've just GOT to try this!" Then as with many things in life, you get out into the real world and it's a WHOLE DIFFERENT STORY! In your mind, you're thinking "Yeah... the next girl.. I will.. I should.. I could" but then you JUST can't bring yourself to do it! The trick here is just doing it - find a way to merge your "fantasy thought" with reality, by making it become a reality, without worrying about "but what if..." ...!!!

[Crigar09]

jeez men! this looks kinda fun, but tell me something, what's with the hitch thing you've got going on out there?.

Haha LOL, don't get this the wrong way I found these videos quite amusing!

Anyway just stopped by to say hi and hope you upload more videos anytime soon

[godlessCommie7]

This is a great idea, and it makes perfect sense, but asking people on the street to touch your nipple seems like it could be illegal in some way. Maybe people just don't peruse you with legal matters when its about something as crazy as your nipple.

[codeman336]

the thing i like about you is you respond. dude this is really buggin me about my social anxiety towards women im attracted to. sigh

[thesocialengineer]

@codeman336 dude give me something to RESPOND to. There's no Q there

[codeman336]

Lol. that might help huh? Well my question is are there other ways? im pretty sure if i did this, they would just look at me like "uhhh", btw i look young for my age, which in this day and time doesnt help at all, and im 20.

[thesocialengineer]

Dude...listen to me. This is all about perfecting you delivery through making you complacent with rejection and consequently you will be less nervous.

There are other ways but they're in my course and are in video format.

[thelastshadeofgrey]

Haha i gotta try this nipple technique sometime....lol hilarious

[thesocialengineer]

@thelastshadeofgrey how bout u try it tomorrow and stop contemplating

[bossoholic]

@thesocialengineer I think I am just 'crazy' enough to try this. Very good and UNIQUE method. Just my style (HA).

[asaw1994]

@thesocialengineer i am going to ahaha

[Mattobby]

yea imagin a world where every man is walking around asking women if they want to touch nipples

[thesocialengineer]

@Mattobby make the world your strip club

[michal1902]

@thesocialengineer

those videos are so so helpful thank you man so much plz use more hidden cams in the real world

best whishes

[imFreshZ]

@Mattobby that would be nice except the other way around

[covers1989]

"Excuse me funky handbag chick would you touch my nipple" haha thats the funniest thing ive heard

[fatmanontherun]

the nipple is a secret weapon used by the CIA agents..ok no lol.

But i'd nipple twist that shit if I was a girl.

[thesocialengineer]

of course you would, it's pink, it's supple...forget all the pickup stuff. There's something about 6 inch long nipple hair that swings it

[Mu5clehead]

@fatmanontherun lmao faggit

[dudesguy77]

Interesting video....alex maas is the best pick up artist, his book changed my life with women. definitely take a look if you want to up your game. if your interested- revampyourgame(dot)com

[thesocialengineer]

He's so good he even needs to pay dodgy accounts to spam successful videos ;)

[AnAngrySpoon]

The funny thing is, this could backfire and could be seen as a sexual harassment case. If this happens, and you are arrested, your confidence will shoooot down.

[thesocialengineer]

Take it from me (and I don't know much I'm only a lawyer) but merely asking is not sexual harassment. Do it at work and you may have an issue though but through your hating you can't see this is done on the street.

[Lark919]

What if you have a third nipple?

[thesocialengineer]

Well then three people can can one each

[Lark919]

Haha. You're pretty much the best. Thank you.

[jjtop3650]

wtf is the blak circle on the door?

[thesocialengineer]

That's a secret pickup technique I'm yet to release and is used only by the best. And if you buy now I'll give you 4 extra bonuses.

.....ok

.....dude, it's just a hat

[Fastdogg562]

DUDE! Thats freekin awsome! Desensitization

I like these masters of psychology

[OMGitsONEGUN]

anyone wanna touch my NIPPLE?

[oc1405]

would you see it the same if i asked them to touch my penis...

[steveaperry]

Thats undoubtedly the funniest thing i have ever read...I perform stand up will be using this in a set!

[davidsonghello]

what the fuck hahaha

[KANETREADWELL]

Do talk louder, don't shout but talk louder.. do not talk at the same volume. You want them to hear you.

[KillarBigT]

Hahahaha lol

[nnamdi247]

This dude is legit.

[philochristos]

I saw this video a week or two ago and thought it was a great idea. I mentioned it to a few people I knew, and they all thought I was a weirdo for even considering it. Now I feel even MORE socially awkward. Life is hard.

[2424john]

I can't see how this would defeat aa

[djviciousvinny]

If you can ask people to touch your nipple, you can ask them out duh!

[philochristos]

Wow! I need to start smaller than that.

[LGenesis90]

just tried this today...got turned down, but i felt GREAT. confidence is not gained from approval!

[yakata79]

@LGenesis90 wow that's an interesting thought!

(and you actually tried it, I doubted anyone would)

[AnthonyBlunt]

This is smart, T. The inner game benefit doesn't depend on whether the person accepts or rejects your request. She is likely to reject the request but you are expecting her rejection so it doesn't crush you. Nice.

[ballin1232]

could u use somethin else bsides the nipple?

my chest is kinda hairy lmao

[WaaahWah]

Grab my ass?

[scancool]

would work the same way if I ask them to touch my balls?

[moviephoneguy]

hmmm wonder if this technique could be substituted for a penis.

"excuse me, excuse me miss, can you touch my penis?"

[moderjoker]

cool thing he dresses like a normal worker walking by.

[bludgeonbridge]

Cool tie man

[dmix09]

YYEEEAAA!!! 17 chicks touched my nipple in Time Square! lol

and yes, im a dude lol very fun time~

[sajicle]

asking them to touch your nipple is just an exercice to make you less shy, not actually picking up women rofl

[xxxsmd]

Great Job Man!!!

Smart Pick UP!!

but

if she say yas

What Next

[kaykev89]

also it helps u get used to rejection. probaly the best and most legal opener to get over that fear too

[canceriancharisma]

fuck yeah dude...u hit da bullseye !!

ready to take NO for an answer is da name of da game !!

[MAF0X]

hahah at that lean back. lololol

[LauraAnneHemingway]

does anhyone have msn!!! msg me. my msn live id is jane22fall N

[chokis92]

lol this video kind of made me horny H

[flatf00t3dn1nja]

my profile isnt working

[STSWSuarga]

The first person I asked freaked out and had someone coming after me when I drove away. Definitely gonna try it again though, that was hilarious.

[AlexandrianDoctorate]

haa, u da man Suarga. but anyway, makin a FREE HUGS video is ripper too. especially during vacation to a foreign country! i'd love to do it in Tokyo! Japanese culture abhors PDA! anyway,i think its the easiest way to start for any pua. i'm doin it on the wildwood boardwalk this summa

[wazzy3007]

lol...this actually makes sense

[SubliminalPeni]

also, do you have other cool, unconventional ways of doing pretty much the same thing? i.e., disassociating the approach anxiety? the touchy stuff might be a little harder to pull off in the US, as we tend to be more prude, for some reason. and could you supply some techniques like this that could strike up conversations, in say, a bookstore or a coffee shop? thank you, T.

[SubliminalPeni]

hey T, I tried this out today but modified it. I was wearing a sweater with a shirt tucked in under it and pulled up one of my sleeves and instead of asking about my nipple I asked about my...wenis. Yes, my wenis, the leathery skin around your elbow. I asked 2 ladies who seemed like they would know what it was and they just gave me a weird look and looked kind of offended too, and walked on without saying anything.

my anxiety is terrible, T. though I am totally willing.

[cfG21]

Touching is a no no in the USA. They are extremely self conscious society up to the point of extremes.

[Rad1ka1]

People keep blaming where they live. Avoid falling into that trap ;)

[JKT84]

Man I can see myself getting escorted off the premises in handcuffs for trying this one. And not the furry kind either.

[TypeRRevo]

omg im soooo trying it :P

[MrNum3r5]

thats a hilarious to do that

escuse me can i spare some of your time for you to touch my nipple

lol

[FutureLaugh]

do not come across as a sales person, come across as mentally ill

[BBOYDMP]

commentable shirt ;)

[matyuk54]

why do you have this black hole on the door behind your head ? heh

[mihaidragos86]

It's a hat, a thing that you can put on the head to cover the black hole in your brain :P

[Fizzywizzy07]

wohoooooooooooooooooo

[watchyourstep2008]

haha i love it.

although, not as easy when you have breasts!

[mainmanmoose]

haha what a legend

[2424john]

so it is legal to approach someone and do the nipple test?

[guitarguy93]

mhmm....thats what she said

[qcampbell123]

lmao

[STSWSuarga]

You're simply asking them to do so, just remember it isn't important if they say yes or no, you're helping relieve your social awkwardness.

[pbrox]

haha look at the getup hes in. but yea i guess it's worth a shot

[haygoodfly]

excellent drill

[GwenDUff]

... i gotta challenge for you. What about a video that displays how you pick up a friend of a friend. Say.. someone you are just introduced to....in a group setting.. =) THANKS

[needalife69]

This works amazingly you would have noidea!

mall on day tried it out with some mates and works perfectly , i got numbers and dates they didnt.! it is soo worth it and you build a shitload of confidence.

TRY IT IT WORKS!

[needalife69]

hah this actually works like you wouldnt believe, mall one day tried it out , ended up with numbers

seriously TRY IT!

[POPHOPGOP]

the nipple test HAHAHAA

[solution777]

Thanks for posting this, intelligent approach, professionally presented but also made me laugh! Keep up the good work!:)

[Rohmu]

this is a good tip! have to try it next weekend..

[alaingoldman]

yo this dude is a "g"

[ShiniGorky187]

I don't think anyone would respond to it in a negative way as long as your body language is right and you don't seem like a creep.

[HBNinja]

LOL youd get beaten if you did that in the US.

[killlagger468]

not true Actually. ok well i havent gone so far as a nipple, but substituting it with my tummy, girls end up running away immediately, while even there boyfriends stand there in confusion that someone actually asked them that. funny how people are so scared to interact with strangers really. your best bet when a conflict does come around is to say it is some sociology expirement that you are doing for school/college.

[shiftloads]

what are you basing your method off of? juggler? mystery?

[heymanhaha]

great way to grow your balls

[evelsteev]

Fuck that, I'm going to ask girls if I can touch THEIR nipples! (and ass, while I'm at it)

[philochristos]

LOL Maybe you could make a trade.  Say, "Will you touch my nipple?" Then once they touch it, you can say, "Now can I touch yours? It's only fair."

[divinicus1001]

hey I have a gf for more than 6 months. looking to close her on a 3 way. any ideas, and how to pick up the third ?

[Tai02]

Human beings never stop to surprise me!!

[johncyz]

How is saying "Would you touch my nipple?" any different than say..."Would you give me attention?"

I thought the idea was to get them to believe that you aren't a potential suitor, than flip it on them...

Am I wrong?

[sourbourder]

He's not picking the chicks the up... he doesn't care. He's teaching you to get over social anxiety.

[andy9840]

Hey fella, NICE video, *Subscribe*!

[youngsterrr]

u r a funny man..thanks for the entertainment

[irrejhk]

blatant advertising lol!

you get that t-shirt from Threadless(blatant advertising)?

[u27ma2]

Thanks guys, i'm getting there. Body language seems to be good, she plays with her hair and there is some Kino, the problem is the signs are not obvious, i'm not sure if she is comfatable or flirting? But i will persist and find out. I'll let you guys now in a couple of days time. Thanks for the advice:)

[u27ma2]

Dude, what can i say. A little problem at the moment, just meet a hot girl, however, the problem might just be that we will become friends and nothing more, any advice?

[thesocialengineer]

tease and reward her as much as possible. above all else, use direct game. tell her she's cute then continue talking and dont let her respond.continue talking as if it never happened

[goldeagle419]

if they now that they r a ten you don't tell em that their cute right? because u put urself at the position of the 100 guys that was rejected by her, it's all about being different.

[vincentv1988]

you got to build tension...you have to push and pull her believe me its gonna be hard for her to just see you as a friend...and note push and pull with body launguage as well...if she is confstrable with you touching her hair she is confstrable she is likely ready to be kissed...

[Rtv03]

This reminds me of Mission 1 in Stylife Challenge, cept this is ALOT bolder. lol

You cracked me up with that second set.

"i specially shaved it today, it's really nice."

good stuff.

[Drav]

Are the first initial approaches the hardest?

You said you waited 2 years reading PUA stuff, I've been doing it for 4-5 months and I can't take it anymore.

[thesocialengineer]

The first 5 are the most difficult. And when I saw most difficult I mean personally difficult. Not literally difficult.

My 2 years of not approaching were due to three things:

1) I learnt the most prominent and "respected" method which lead me to believe it was the best...when it in reality it only worked 60% of the time (when done right) in my opinion

2) I then read too many different schools of thought which did my head in

3)I had huge personal anxiety regarding women

[00melo00]

Lol I did this kind of stuff a year ago. I did what someone said in a David D program.

"Hey I'm the kissing bandit, you gotta kiss me to pass trough."

Combined with Badboys STOP-opener. Lol we had a laugh and I actually learned a bit on how to spin it around and still have a normal conversation after it. "That was creepy wasn't it?"

Her:"Yea"

Me:"Haha yea I had a bet."

Her:"Oh and you lost it?"

Me*biggest smile ever*"Nah, I won it"

And then just a normal question

Good stuff mate I like this :-)

[dpphil]

I really like your spirit and idea to help guys get over their approach anxiety etc, but there must be better ways surely, doing this you would risk getting arrested in many countries/states for disorderly behaviour or possibly even indecent exposure. Not all places are tolerant unfortunately. It would only take one complaint from someone who took offense to get into serious trouble. Unless you did this for a few minutes then quickly left!

[thesocialengineer]

Having studied law myself I can assure you this breaks no laws unless you're living under Sharia law in extremist Islamic regimes.

[ivanco84]

it would be a bit creepy if you dont have the personality to back it up

[leakeg]

whatdafuck?