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  • I never knew the exact meaning of this song until I went to twloha.com (to write love on her arms) if you go to the vision tab and read the story you will understand the song. It made me cry so hard and realize that we're not alone. You should read it. -3

  • is it sad...that i still wanna do it....1st step in stop cutting you have to want not to cut again...i didnt till now..

  • My best friend has been 6 months without cutting. I'm so proud of her. She goes through alot, and she still is, but that's why I'm here, so I can help her.I remember when I walked into her bedroom and she was asleep. She wasn't bleeding, but I looked at her scars and promised myself I would always have hope for her. For everyone who has cut. If you're ever feeling down in this world, please remember that you do have people that care about you. I care about you. You're beautiful, no matter what.

  • Beautiful Song...if only everyone could see self harmers this way...as people who take out their feelings on themselves...instead of yelling and getting angry. :-( From experience, people get angry at you and take their feelings out on you, expecting you to listen, and don't seem to understand that really you're taking out your own feelings on yourself...

  • Im a broken heart that i wish he would save</3

  • when will you guys realize......you have to want to stop for YOU. not for your signifcant other, your family, your friends, God w/e. Its not up to anybody else to save you...though support helps in the end its all on you.

  • I love this song so much. I wish I could stop cutting.. I wish someone would care enough to even stop me..

  • 6 months clean. <3 I only wish that the scars would fade faster. :/ I feel disgusted with my body because of them....

  • @ohmayamia94 wear your scars as a badge of honor...you made it through it.. alot of ppl cant..

  • I used to cut when I got extremely upset... I do'nt do it anymore thanks to Wesley, Jake, Anthony, Brodie, Kayden, Cameron, Mason, etc. They were there for me when I needed them the most... They never gave up on me... I love them for that.... Guys... I love you...

  • I helped my friend stop cutting. She hasn't cut in like 10 months now. :) Im so proud of her. <3

  • Clean since april -3 if I can do it so can anyone else, it gets better don't give up -3

  • I don't cut a lot and I don't cut deep, but when I feel the need to do it.. it gets awful.

    My heart starts to beat fast and I start crying and I feel like I'm dying. I start to feel nervous and I want to scream, but I can't. I start to scratch my arms and face and legs with my nails, and then I take something sharp and I cut. Once. Twice. Three times. Four times... I never stop until I feel my heart bursting or my hands are shaking.

    It's more than destructive to me.

  • @littl3danc3r :-( Hope you can find a way to stop. I know everyone says this, but try something to distract you, and try and keep around others if you have the urge.

  • I cut myself and burn myself. It helps sooo much. Ftw. And my life

  • I feel trapped. I hate everything I rarley ever leave my room. I am addicted to things. My parents have ran me into drinking and drugs. I HATE them!!!

  • im in love with this song. anybody know if its on itunes??

  • I haven't cut myself for 6 months. With the help of my wonderful friends, loving family, and supportive boyfriend, I know I can stop for ever, I leave myself no other option.

  • I helped my friend tell her parents that she was cutting, and she has been clean for awhile now:)

  • Wish i was clean.. need help but dont know were to look..

  • @maddiemassacre2014 you could go to a doctor, he'll help you! if you want to you can talk to me, i've had experience!

  • clean since june :)

  • I wish someone would save me....

    But I'm trapped.

    Eather way I loose

    And no one is here more

    That's normal to me.

  • 7 months clean, you guys.

    Hope is possible.

    TWLOHA forever. <3

  • @Sydkneewriteslove Congrats! I'm at 8 myself! It is possible with support and hope <3

  • Its hard to stop cutting.

  • this song helped me alot istopped.....but now i am hvng rough times n my life 2much for me to handle......

  • i got sick of waiting for ppl to help me, my sister took her life 8 years ago. my little brother june of this year. i decided to live for me. i made the choice to be healthy for me cause i wanted more for myself. it wasnt easy of course not. but it so worth it. i found an amazing guy who loves me for me and lifts me up. it would have never happened if i hadnt made the choice to help others to help me. i look back at the mess i was in and how far ive come. i couldnt ask for more

  • i got sick of waiting for ppl to help me, got tired of depending on ppl. my sister took her life 8 years ago. my little brother june of this year. i decided to live for me. i made the choice to be healthy for me cause i wanted more for myself. it wasnt easy of course not. but it so worth it. i found an amazing guy who loves me for me and lifts me up. it would have never happened if i hadnt made the choice to help others to help me. i look back at the mess i was in and how far ive come.

  • I cut for 5 years about 3 times a day and multiple cuts each times my arm is so badly scarred. Then I got out of the abusive relationships and I stopped cutting about a month later I got into my first good healthy relationship now two months and three days.

  • I love this song. So much.

  • i realized that wht starts my cutting is relationships...the guys wnt things i'm not willing to give, thats y i've stayed single for 7 months by choice...thx thloha nd my friends who support me evry step of the way to recovery<3

  • I used to cut. it was like atleast 3 times a week. then me and her broke up. its better. i realized. i shouldnt cut. it makes you forget about whats happening for the moment. but then the scars are always there.now i look back at it. i dont regret it because it made me who i am today a more confident person. so Marie Witzke? Thankyou<3 for breaking up with me and everything. and if you guys would like to thank her her numbers 920 6360919 <33

  • i have not cut myself for three weeks now i hope i can go longer then the two months i can usually last without cutting, but somehow i slip up i put the blame on me, i make it seem like its all my fault why my dad yells at me. etc. but i try to remember that i am loved and that there are people who care its just hard especially when you know its hurting the one person you want to spend forever with but hey i made the choice to start cutting and i have to live with the scars..

  • @fireofthehearts  Same =/

  • @fireofthehearts God is always with you <3

  • It's been hard everyone. :/

    It's difficult to not hurt yourself, yet I'm trying not to.

    My parents are fighting and so much drama is happening in my life right now. D':

  • It's hard to stop. It's hard to see everyone with no scars, and yet still have long sleeves throughout the summer. It's hard to lie to those you care about, and it's hard when someone sees through it all, and knows what you're doing. It's so hard you want to stop and give up, so hard you want to hide and just hurt yourself endlessly. You want to give up hope, give up the fight. But if you can make it through, you'll come out as the most beautiful person in the world, I promise you.

  • @TheGrinningHippo that's exactly how i feel..... =/

  • And tell yourself " I am beautiful confident and strong I deserve the best"

  • Have hope the cutting will eventually stop! There is beauty in every living soul.. I used to think I was worthless, that this life wasn't meant for me and if I was gone nobody would come looking for me but over the lasts few months I figured out I am wanted I am needed I would have people looking for meh:) if I knew any of you I'd come looking for you too because I know how much it hurts so be brave the hurt will stop the scars will heal!!! Never forget to look in the mirror every morning and t

  • This song gave me hope and reason to not give up when no one else could

    I thank you for uploading it so i could find it. i thank the artist for creating it. <3

  • To be honest. I still cut. I have four hidden under some bandages. I tell my family, that I just got a couple of scratches. I've been driven to making a carving of a broken heart on the inside of my wrist and on my right hip. I'm trying to stop, but the tears are acidic and cause me to do everything over. They dissolve my strength and make me weak. I want to stop, and get better, but I don't see the hope anymore.

  • @katiey646 Even if you do stop, the temptation will still be there. You need to find the strength and will deep inside to stop, I'm in the process of quitting and it's a lot harder than I thought. If you need anyone to talk to I'm here. Don't feel ashamed, we all cope with life in our on ways and one day (hopfully soon) The story of not cutting anymore will soon be yours too.

  • He wrote love on my arms <3

  • @katiey646 This is Brian of the Brian and Bambi Show. I saw your post and could not help feeling like I should say something. I used to cut. No matter what anyone tells you though you are beautiful and your life has meaning. There is hope. I don't know what your relationship with God is but if you give him your life He will fix it. He loves you even if you dont' love yourself. Trust me I've been free for a while now and it is hard at first but it does get easier.A special prayer is going out 4u

  • i stopped cutting because of him his life gives me hope in mine

  • @katiey646 you can talk to me if you need to..i used to cut :/

  • :D I've been cut free for almost 9 months and I am so glad I have not gave into temptation

  • 7 months and i havent done it.because of him <3

  • @KaylaaLahhsBlair same here...but not 7 months...

  • you guys are worth it! please don't cut. i know, Sometimes i have the feeling like i need to, but it isn't worth it. Everyone is beautiful in there little way!

  • HAVE HOPE! I know its soo hard sometimes to have hope and faith that you can stop cutting, I've been there, I've struggled with cutting for about a year and a half and some days I just want to give up on life and say screw it, why am i even trying, but then I realize that I dont want anymore scars, I dont want people to keep judging me and calling me emo and a cutter. Have hope, people do love you and who you are as a person<3

  • its been six months since i late cut myself im glad iv come this far 

  • @liviehorselover i dont want to cut anymore but i just cant stop.

  • Wow. Idk how but this song has helped I started cutting again A few weeks ago and now there healing because im trying to stop. I reopened them from time to time and I tried commiting suicide several times. It's hard it truly is. If anyone ever needs to talk I'm here. PM me if you need anything. Peace out

  • Im 13 idk how long its been bt mah parents no mah frends are supportive n i get therapy once every two weeks i havent cut in like a month bt i didnt help i cry more im more sensetive to things ppl say n idk how much longer i can take i keep havin suicide thoughts since i stopped idk wat tu du ne more i jux need sum one tu talk tu whos been thru dat

  • @BlindL0vE93 hey, im 13 too and iv been through some serious shit and my friends dont support me at all and when my parents found out they scratched at my arms untill i screamed then they told me i deserved it. I cry all the time and im really sensitive. If you ever need to talk message me, i wont mind, id like to talk, iv been through some of the same stuff as you so im happy to talk, or just be there of you need to vent :)

  • if anyone needs 2 tlk im all ears cuz no one deserves to hurt themselves or to be hurt but everyone deserves chances and to b cared about

  • just now i almost cut myself and very almost commited suicide dis song helped me stop tho cuz my friend sent it 2 me and now i feel so much better still a lil broken but not as much i will pass dis battle of heartbroken wit no scars

    like dis if this song hellped u stop cutting urself

  • Wow...

    I was looking through the comments, and I commented 6 months ago saying how this song hadn't helped me.

    I've tried to stop self harming for the last few months and it's been difficult, but I've stopped, and this song has definitely been a big part of it. Without TWLOHA I would have committed suicide by now, guaranteed. This song is still so beautiful...-3

  • I need to get help...I'm scared to...so I just keep saying, "I'll get help tomorrow." Tomorrow...

    Tomorrow...

    I just need to get help...I don't know how to tell my parents...I'm afraid they will think I'm stupid and be disappointed in me..:(

  • @YurinaSensei no im sure they wont think dat and u know wat i bet u if i was there i would help u but i cant but wat im going to do is say p.m. me and ill give u my email kay so u can tlk 2 me anytime

  • @YurinaSensei im 13 and i started cutting when i was nine i know sounds pathetic but it happened. and i think you should tell ur parents if you havent alreay. i had recently told my mom that i did it and know im getting help and anti depressant meds. i doubt your parents will think ur stupid. they will probably be asking u alot of questions like what caused this and when did you start? message me or something if u want ill always be here to talk.

  • If I get 5 likes, I'll stop myself from ever hurting myself again. I'll never take a knife to my wrist or anywhere on my body. I'll get help, but I want to know that it's worth it. I will get people to talk to me, and I'll make it better for myself. I just want to know people DO care for me.

  • @ForeverCatie dont cut yourself cuz their are people dat care about you and even if i dont know you i care bout u cuz everyone is worth caring for

  • @ForeverCatie I dont know you but i do care for you. i used to cut and if you ever need any help just message me

  • @ForeverCatie everyone is worth living, i used to be the same way, and i am actually pist at myself for actually cutting myself. im currently 19, and its been 8 years since i have ever cutted myself... and i feel amazing :)

    i hope this helps u :)

    and if u have a facebook u can add me if u ever need to talk. michelle dawn harris from west virginia, united states. my picture is of a baby:) the most beautiful gift that god has given me :) she may only be my neice but if she ever gets this way i

  • @ForeverCatie i want her to know that she can always talk to me and i will still love her no matter what

  • @ForeverCatie I know the exact feeling.

  • @ForeverCatie you can talk to me anytime you need. i used to cut too :/

  • @ForeverCatie Hon, I know exactly what you are going through...other people have their own reasons, but none of them are right...you are a wonderful, meaningful, beautiful, LOVED, and NEEDED and WANTED girl! You are special in God's sight, and He created you to live, and fufill a purpose! You are loved and needed by more people than you know, I hope you realize that! I hope you have a good day!

  • @ForeverCatie Many people care for you. Some people just have a hard time showing it. I have a history of cutting and I did it for 5 years because I wanted to know people cared beofre I even tried. I finally realized it didnt matter if they cared as long as one person did and that one person was me. You have to stop for yourself and only yourself you have to want it and you have to need it for you nobody else matters in this situation. I have been clean for 3 months now.

  • @ForeverCatie at least you have ppl to turn to...

  • This song stopped me from hurting myself last night</3

  • this song alwats gets to me.

    the ugly in this world is peoples words and neglect but the beauty in in yourself it shows in the eyes that avoid your scars

  • this song rocks!

  • One of the songs I listen to, to prevent me from breaking down. TWLOHA<3

    Everyday I look at my scars...people say I should be ashamed of them.. but I am not. Why? Because there my battle wounds, from the battle of depression. Still in that battleD':

    STOP THE BLEEDING.

    RESCUE IS POSSIBLE.

    LOVE IS THE MOVEMENT<3

    If anyone ever needs someone to talk to, you can message me, I'll be here for you.

    I know what its like to feel so alone, I have been and still going threw self harm<3

    I won't judge<3

  • I'm trying to stop cutting. It will be so hard though. But I believe that I can eventually stop. (:

  • I started cutting beacause of a guy when i was 13 and he helped me stop but then he was such an ass i just couldn't take it anymore then he wouldn't talk to me and that didn't make things any better. now that i'm 15 i've stoped and started more times than i can coumt but right now the only thing getting me though each day is my best freind and i don't know where i would be with out here

  • I haven't stopped yet but I'm on my way.. This music helps me through everyday <3

  • TWLOHA helped me stop cutting. there really is hope out there <3

  • She's a broken heart that anyone can save. ♥

  • i wish someone would save me........

  • I love TWLOHA. Whoever created it is amazing. I love them..

  • I wish TWLOHA could save me likes its saved most of these people..

  • This song is truly beautiful.. It's helped me so much. TWLOHA is such a creative movement. :)

  • I wish TWLOHA would same me..

  • @iDanceClaudia TWLOHA is in you. it isnt a destination, except within your self. its reaching out and being touched back. Love is the movement.

  • toxwritexL O V Exonxherxarms<3

  • Not even TWLOHA could save him.

  • i dont desserve to be saved they all tell me to kill myself so for once im listening to them i cant do it anymore...

  • @themychemicalgirl6 Yes you do!!!! don't say that. i know that we don't know each other, but you are beautiful. God is greater than all this. you can keep holding on. i know you can! xx i love you don't let go

  • @themychemicalgirl6 dont kill yourself

  • to write love on her arms got me out of depression and it took my suicide thoughts away

  • I needed help.. TWLOHA brought me that<3

  • This describes me so fucking much</3

  • God I wish this song was on iTunes :(

  • @XxFebuaryDarknesXxX It really should be

  • towriteloveonherarms Saved me. and opened my eyes to the world. I helped so many others by just introducing them to it. <3

  • @maryquency There was a time when I attended church only twice I went but I considered believing, but then I came online and I see all these protests about saying being gay is a sin or cutting is a sin and I don't believe that's right, not all religeous people are like this, I know that. I was gifted a Bible and yes I will read at some point, but at the moment the way religeon looks is wrong to me. Thank you for trying to help and I do understand but right now Jesus is not within me.

  • <3

  • love twlohr! amazing song and i totally support the cause :)

    oh and ps the font at the beginning is the same font that they use in the theme song for "the replacements"!! anyone remember that show? when disney was actually somewhat decent? x)

  • @Deadbyapril26 Your story ius vewry simular to mine I started at around 11 years old and now I'm 16 and a few weeks ago was my second attemt at suicide and now I see a phyciatrist and I know I'm not alone but I feel so alone and it's because I don't have the courage to commit suicide that I haven't and I'm thankful for that.

  • @mrsmoogoogle If I knew you, I'd do it for you :)

  • i believe there is hope!

    i found it you can find it(:

    if ANYONE needs help.

    please do inbox me!

    &ill GLADLY help(:

  • Every time i look at my cuts, i start crying. It's a very bad feeling too look at them and too see the blood... but i still cut... And it hurts me, emotionally and physically...

  • @blackstar1871  I understand...

    22. </3

  • @bellybuttonhairr Thank Yew

  • my inspiration<3

  • you need jesus.

  • @AerynLizzette113 what if i don't beleive in jesus ._____.

  • @AerynLizzette113 Not everybody believe in Jesus as those who do are too judgemental, I am not bashing you but not everybody needs Jesus everybody needs love.

  • @AerynLizzette113 and if i don't believe in jesus? have u seen him? have u heard him? have u felt him? i dont think so. -_-

  • @ahatz506 NOt to be mean and I understand poeple s religon but Yes I have felt, heard, and seen Jesus. He speaks to me when you listen very closley, Ive felt him he was there walknig through darknes in my life, and I have seen him, hes always with me.....

  • somebody told me this song reminded them of me..they asked me to listen to it and i cried..

  • TWLOHA and my boyfriend saved me this song makes me cry because its true im glad ive found hope everyone should there is no hope and cuts remeber i care for you even though i may not know you there is hope we all the TWLOHA love you no matter how bad things seem things will get better i beleive in you

  • I love this song.

  • thinking about it that way, but i really do believe that it's true. Everyone needs something to hope for. Right now i'm just hoping that i will be able to live in this house for another 5 years, and get out as soon as possible. I have hope in imagining the life ahead of me once i leave. I can do anything i want, the way i want, and not have a mother and stepfather there to tell me that no matter how i do something it's wrong and that i need to change myself. Sorry, got carried away a bit....

  • @randomperson3331

    i'm not the only one who believes that. now i feel great. (: I've always thought (just as with randomperson3331, don't mean to offend anyone here) that god cannot exist, and that it is just there to help people get throught their troubles because then they have something to say, something to actually hope for. they say, "god will get me through it" because they are hopeful and don't want to admit that they have no idea how to get out of a terrible situation. It makes me sad,..

  • B-E-A-U-T-iful song. just wish it was THAT easiy to stop

  • Eat it people, song with real meaning.<3

  • i heard the first 30 seconds and started to cry

  • @purple0r30

    I've tried to get help, but you need an adult with you, becuz of my age. and my mum is possibly the most unsupportive, misunderstanding parent ever. so I can't stop.

  • @CrazyyyMoo1996 you are special and amazing in an awesome way,and if you stop,you will find life more enjoyable.put the sharp thing down,and look around.alot of people care about you.you can stop if you put ur mind to it <3

  • This song means so much to me .

    TWLOHA Saves my soul . <3

  • I struggle so much with self harm. This song helps me put down the razor even for just a moment. TWLOHA has helped me so much. <3

  • honestly i dont know wy cutters believe in god because self-mutilation is a sin

  • @randomperson3331 because they want someone to help them in their struggle, their just begging for him to do something. But he must want us to be strong.

  • @calico252 yes i agree ... the only real reason (i dont mean to offend people) but the only real reason i believe people believe in God is because they're scared and need to believe in something that doesnt exist because they cant explain the things around them... im sorry if im offending anyone but its the sad truth... and if you cut and you believe in God... good for you, but it IS in fact a sin.

  • an awful lot of beauty in this world?

    BIGGEST. LIE. EVER.

  • @calico252 then again, there re so many things that are beautiful in this world that most people cannot see.

  • @Flirpy2198 well some people are in darkness, so they cant see it.

  • @calico252 It's not a lie it's just hard to notice when you sit in the dark for so long, go outside on a summers day look at the trees feel the breeze, when there is a clear night sky look at the stars you'll soon find the beauty of it all and you'll start to notice the little things :)

  • i love the song but the music overpowers the singing

  • @randomperson3331 i noticed that too.

  • this is such a beautiful song, it can realate to just about anyone. <3

  • I just want to say that all of the comments you all are posting are absolutely beautiful. Thank you all so much for your honesty and optimism, this is truly an example of love in action in this world. No matter what your demon is stay strong, for even in your darkest moments you are beautiful. Keep the love going <3

  • <3 thank you.. so much(:

  • im blessed to hav te insanity tht is my life and this song i can realate to and this song makes me cry cuz there is so much i and evryone has 2 live for..and tht little voice inside ur head tht tells you 2 cause intentional pain is satan (weather u believe in God or not) speaking and thanks to my amazing friends and TWLOHA hav really saved me from making my life non existing anymore..im blessed and think we should all make an effort to quit this habbit of puttin ourself in pain.

  • @crazyyyMoo1996

    if this video/song has made you cut yourself even more, thats horrible.

    TWLONA is supposed to help you not cut?

    maybe you need to go visit a therapist and get help,

    cause even though you cut love into your arm, and it said love

    you still cut. and cutting the word LOVE into your arm, is going to make TWLONA less famous for making people cut more. so yeah.

  • I watch this video countless amounts of times every day...

  • this song is awesome.

    but after I listened, I felt the need to do more, as I self harm.

    and so I cut LOVE into my arm.

    talk about idiotic.

    I just want to die tbhhh....

  • have faith,believe in urself,forgive,listen,listen to ur loved ones

    it feels like no1 cares but really youll find alot of people care including me, every thing WILL be alright in the end.self harm, cutting, self injure ect, it all means the same ting, to hurt urself, its not the answer, it only makes tings worse, ur not alone, ur never alone, talk to some1 bout it, i promise every thing will turn out ok in the end i felt like all that was a lie but it isnt im gettin better + TWLOHA helpt tanx<3

  • @Deadbyapril26 thank you :)

  • wow...this is heartbreaking. I can't help but notice that the 2 people who disliked doesn't get the message of this song :( I wish the best to the people who have suffered and endured real pain ♥

  • i never take off my TWLOHA bracelet. <3 no matter what. last twloha day i couldnt write love on my arms cause of the cuts. this year. i can <3

  • Theres an awful lot of beauty in this world <3

  • @chocolatecrazy73

    Same here

  • Were can you get this song!!??

  • This is a perfect description of me...

  • This song means more than anything to me. ive been through it all: cutting, anxiety disorder, depression, abuse, heartbreak, drug and alcohol addiction, and bad self image issues. Im still strugling with anorexia. im back at a healthy weight, im still struggling to keep my depression at bay and try not to cut. ive had a few slipups here and there but ive been mostly clean since my emergency room trip back in febuary. i know what its like. if anyone wants to talk email me: monicacasperino@aol.com

  • Allofyou saying god is there for you, that this song does so much, that knowing others are out there, saying it helps. Saying pray even if you dontbelieve. Well really, its not that god has turned, its that life hurts to much to go on anymore. So most of you probably try to distract yourself.. Well i volunteer all the time, read, etc. And i still want to die. Some people blame mynottogreat childhood. Other say its school. But to me, it's just being me. and it seems that no one can help.

  • @XxxBrookieCookiexxXX In that case, you might have a clinical depression and should seek help.Lots of people are mentally broken-the chemicals in my head won't let me focus and keep my moods down,but medication has helped.I suggest you try some-you don't have to be sad all the time.It's not how we're meant to live.

  • this has made me look at my life at a different persective ^^ I love TWLOHA thanks for helping me <3<3

  • TWLOHA Helped me out so much....it really spoke to me even if I still have my times... I know that I can help myself, others can help, and I have the control of myself. People who hurt themselves I'm here and I'm all years :) I Want to help...because you may think people don't care, But I am one who massive does.

  • I listened to this again today and something just clicked. I got rid of the blade and I know I'm never going back to that. I've never been more proud of myself :)

  • Towriteloveonherarms saved me from killing myself <3

  • @MissRachelleMusic me to<3

  • @soon2besk8ter Im glad someone out there understands...

  • i'm. in. love. with. this. song.

    <3

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  • This song Is the only thing that Keeps me Alive.<'3

  • If this doesn't change the way you look at your life and other people's lives then you would have to be heartless. This song speaks out to anyone dealing with this.<3

  • <3 TWLOHA has saved me.