I am in a crappy situation, but not quite as bad as yours. However the judgement is absurd and I am the mom who wasnt awarded custody. I keep my nose clean while dad has warrants in Indiana fleeing to alaska with my boy taking most of the year from me including his birthday. I do keep in mind that someday my son will know and that will be justice in the long run until then I am going to expose that judge as much as I can. I am sorry for what she did on behalf of the good women out there
i have had custody for 9 years now no problems except every time i file a paper in family court for a reason like my kids moms husband kicked the door down its dismissed.So now she files for custody and says both children are failing school.One has been for 7 years and they pass him.Judges here in batavia ny are not elected.They never have had an opponent since i was a child.Batavia ny genesee county courts reek of injustice here.
Our US Federal Government has been systematically breaking down the family unit in this country for 50 years. Those who are part of the system repeat the mantra "best interest of the child" but no one can tell you what that really means. We all know. It means "which parent can we get the most money out of for Title IV money from the Feds". One parent gets rewarded; one parent gets cast out; and all the children lose. Wake up society.
Very well done. I hope this video helps those that need it. The thing I found so profound in my husband's case, was the GAL stating, "You feel the child's mother is alienating him from you, so you wish to remove the child from her care and prevent her from seeing him? How is that fair?" But, to continue allowing the PA against my husband is fair? He did not want to prevent her from seeing her son, just wanted the child to know he was allowed to love both of his parents. We love him still.
forfatherlessfive: I can tell you're in pain, and you feel helpless at this time. I don't believe you'll find a "team of attorneys" that will help you. Oh, they'll take your money, of course. Attorneys stick together. They'll collude with the opposition to milk you for everything you have, and you'll be no better off.
SECOND: Even when the (US) Govt is wrong they will still contend that they are right! Where civil rights are concerned we are no better than Myanmar, North Korea, China or Iran... To say that men have been given the crap end of the stick is an understatement... It used to be just minorities--now it affects everyone!
Let me suggest that during the elections, this become a hot topic for everyman with clout--and many without--to ring-up! We need new legislation now!!!!
Thanks for your comments. Feel free to send this video to your legislators anytime. I made this just about the time I was going to federal authorities with my complaints about case fixing in family law and in the Title IV-D program.
The federal authorities seem to be corrupt too. For example, instead of reporting their knowledge of the cheating of the child support program by CO and MN, the OCSE assisted in perpetuating the crimes I reported to them. They are aiding and abetting the states.
The OCSE likes when states cheat the child support system so they can ask for larger and larger appropriations each year. They are just as much involved in the racketeering and the raping of our families, and may be even be encouraging Governors to use federal funding to balance their budgets or may be orchestrating it altogether. And, the corruption may go all the way to the top of DHHS.
Sad as it is, CO and MN are onlt two of the many corrupt states. My vote in for the state of MD whose child support system is not only slanted against fathers, but have a terrible record for trying to correct obvious wrongs bought out by any half-decent lawyer who would even try to take on the bureaucratic dragon!
FIRST: No question, the system is heavy lopsided against the fathers and the legislature needed should commence on a federal level. Does the federal gov't have something to gain from this criminally structured system? Of course they do! In many many ways--(I am thinking of at least a half dozen... there may be more).
Our representatives will not tackle it because the feds made it an organization that is too big and intimidating to deal with! Yes, the nations laws are UNFAIR!!!
CPS and the whoring courts love destroying families. They despise children, they despise heterosexual relationships, they despise marriage, unless it is GAY MARRIAGE. They want to fuel whatever fires there may be, and they can do a great job of it. Shame on all men and women who are in it for the money, and destroying children and perverting justice and society.
Actually, no! The govt doesn't want gay marriage either. The govt wants only those things that are profittable for its own. Federa and state laws carry with them pre-set mandates--among them, 1) To make sure the man have no say in the matter (men told women to shut-up much too long), and 2) To allow two measures of justice for women for every single measure for men! (This is why women don't have to come to court during child support procedures oftimes).
I'm pleased to see that someone has recognized the child support agency for what they are: "the dogs."
Everyone attacks this agency, but it's a red herring.
"Child Support" is the police officer who gives you a speeding ticket, due to a stupid speed LIMIT.
Those who MAKE the decisions are more important than those who enforce them...Which is why I don't understand all these videos attacking the child support agency.
They can't do a damned thing for you. They're an ENFORCEMENT agency.
Judges & their posses here are worse than the most corrupt in Mexico. Here they torture & hold children hostage to extort big money out of extended families on BOTH sides, promoting strife, promising "winner takes all." Both really lose, esp kids.
Historically, many judges and their hangers-on have figured out how to reign, rape & pillage a village in the name of "justice," looking good doing so. Our forefathers warned us that judges and their posses can become the worst of all criminals.
I agree, it is a govt. scam... as Alec Baldwin calls it, the "family law industry."
Before fathers/income earners even enter the process, they have no idea that they are simply about to be run through a sequence of pre-determined events. (It's ALL been planned).
Victims of alimony-fraud and custody hijacking need to organize and challenge the govt.
Victims also should STOP contributing to charities, community events etc... and make it clear to charities that the "state" has taken the money.
The only legal resolution I can see is a legislative change to a system of : The automatic legal recognition and enforcement of equality of parental custody and access after divorce without the need for courts or legal action. What I found is that the callous disregard for legal obligations for equality are a violation and disrespect for men in Family Courts and the constitution in your country and mine.
It would be great if, like you said, all divorces started as an administrative process that presumed equality in everything: custody, asset division, child support, etc. Then, if and only if one party had PROOF that the other party should have their rights limited or forfeited they could contest it in court. Unfortunately, there is such a huge financial incentive for the courts and custodial parent to use our kids as pawns, it will be difficult to get any commonsense system in place.
System is obviously broken. Google Glenn Sacks. Rally around his group. Fathers rights are too spread out to make an impact, and you have a few on "our side" who to are just looking for money.
I've been a member of his site for a while now - He'll be one of the most instrument advocates of family law reform in the U.S. It amazes me to see what some parents and government officials will do to get more than what they deserve - what a sickening display with absolutely no regard for the children being harmed. Thanks for your support.
I'm just tired of the system; she never let me see my son and one weekend I missed to try and see him....she sends me an email saying I'm a lier. I live 4 hours away from my son...and everytime I tried seeing my son;she'd refused to let me; and just that one time I didn't try...she says I lied and that i'm a queer. and the System....just collecting my money and nothing happens to her. God protect our children.
Keep your spirits up, jtz1072. More and more, I'm reading success stories about parents exposing parental alienation and getting more time with their kids. Recent cases in Canada show that judges are realizing that parental alienation is child abuse and are removing the abused children from the alienator's care. Hopefully, U.S. judges will start doing the same.
Be careful what you wish for though, because the judges are using this to put children with abusers. The courts want to do whatever people up most. People don't realize how evil and sadistic they are.
This video brought tears to my eyes. It reminds me my situation very much. You got it right, its about money. The mafia will go after women too if they are perceived to be in control of assets that can be extorted. The system needs to go down, it's corrupted beyond repair. Good luck with your fight, do not give up, if you're persistent enough there is a chance that will never materialize if you do.
Thanks for commenting. I've seen it countless times myself and every time I see my kids at the end, I just about have a melt-down. You're right - the corruption is so widespread in family law that the only solution in my mind is to make all divorces an administrative function to start where numbers and scenarios are examined followed by initial administrative orders. Then if either party contests the application of the guidelines, they can bring it to court. "Take the candy away from the babies"
You're right; some do intentionally, and it is this intention that makes their actions criminal. A cold calculated crime like this is worse than murder.
I am from colorado and have a on going battle with the same people in denver court. I have moved to maui to start my life over.howevever they use the tool of contempt to hold 6 months in jail here in maui from denver! yes they have the power. they say pay or else! You are great for doing this.god bless you.mauiadam
Colorado is one of the worst for running non-custodial parents into the ground and forcing them to move away. In my case, they did all sorts of things to prevent payment and modification and credit for payments I made. States are required to follow rules to ensure the 'best interests' standards and child support guidelines are met. When they fail to follow the rules, they lose jurisdiction, their orders are void/unenforceable, and they risk losing their share of Federal funds. God Bless you too.
Thanks for commenting. 1000s of parents and millions of children have been cheated out of family life by our self-serving government. We hope to be able to bring about change.
It's "child trafficking" when they knowingly remove children on falsified documents to receive funds from the Federal Government violating due process and constitutional rights. This happens in Kansas all the time - guess who is up for the head of Health and Human services?- Kansas Governor Kathleen Sebelius - That is bad for our kids and grandkids. More coverups.
Does Gov. Sebelius know how many Kansas families have been destroyed by the courts? She has to know - she's the CEO! It's amazing how some state leaders just look the other way while our families are slaughtered for money. Governors should be held responsible for what happens on their watch. The crime spree against our families could not be any more blatant.
Thanks for your post and prayers. I hope to have a memorial page soon on my website for victims of the 'Divorce Industry' and a petition page so we can work together to promote our cause. Suggestions are welcome.
Great Video! This is going on all across the USA including Kansas. Judges, Attorneys, GAL's., CSO's, CPS, DA's, Govt. and State employees continue to destroy the lives of families and children.
Thanks for your comment. Looks like Kansas is one of the bad states too. Hear a lot about east coast states, VA, MA, PA, OH...Case fixing is also bad in Midwest and west, KS, MN, CO, ??? Keep exposing the crooks.
youtube.com Suffolk County Court Corruption
corruptioncourts 1 month ago
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When these family extortionist con's who rob from our children are out of a job the world will be a better place for all American families
411American 4 months ago
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The Family law's says you can't occupy together
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These People Are Perverts & Criminals Who Enjoy
The Wages & Benefits of Legalized Child Trafficking
In The Courts Making Merchandise of Children.
ALL THESE CRIMINALS DO IS MODIFY THEIR CRIMES
LIKE THE WORD 'DEAD BEAT' A MODIFIED VERSION
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Family Law is synonymous for communism .
Wake up America your families are under siege taken from the inside out throughout the once U.S.A
411American 1 year ago
I am in a crappy situation, but not quite as bad as yours. However the judgement is absurd and I am the mom who wasnt awarded custody. I keep my nose clean while dad has warrants in Indiana fleeing to alaska with my boy taking most of the year from me including his birthday. I do keep in mind that someday my son will know and that will be justice in the long run until then I am going to expose that judge as much as I can. I am sorry for what she did on behalf of the good women out there
RAVENWILDCHILD 1 year ago
i have had custody for 9 years now no problems except every time i file a paper in family court for a reason like my kids moms husband kicked the door down its dismissed.So now she files for custody and says both children are failing school.One has been for 7 years and they pass him.Judges here in batavia ny are not elected.They never have had an opponent since i was a child.Batavia ny genesee county courts reek of injustice here.
LetArtsLive 1 year ago
Our US Federal Government has been systematically breaking down the family unit in this country for 50 years. Those who are part of the system repeat the mantra "best interest of the child" but no one can tell you what that really means. We all know. It means "which parent can we get the most money out of for Title IV money from the Feds". One parent gets rewarded; one parent gets cast out; and all the children lose. Wake up society.
agmdfl 2 years ago
Very well done. I hope this video helps those that need it. The thing I found so profound in my husband's case, was the GAL stating, "You feel the child's mother is alienating him from you, so you wish to remove the child from her care and prevent her from seeing him? How is that fair?" But, to continue allowing the PA against my husband is fair? He did not want to prevent her from seeing her son, just wanted the child to know he was allowed to love both of his parents. We love him still.
askmimi 2 years ago
forfatherlessfive: I can tell you're in pain, and you feel helpless at this time. I don't believe you'll find a "team of attorneys" that will help you. Oh, they'll take your money, of course. Attorneys stick together. They'll collude with the opposition to milk you for everything you have, and you'll be no better off.
joe80dman 2 years ago
SECOND: Even when the (US) Govt is wrong they will still contend that they are right! Where civil rights are concerned we are no better than Myanmar, North Korea, China or Iran... To say that men have been given the crap end of the stick is an understatement... It used to be just minorities--now it affects everyone!
Let me suggest that during the elections, this become a hot topic for everyman with clout--and many without--to ring-up! We need new legislation now!!!!
iamcora1 2 years ago
Thanks for your comments. Feel free to send this video to your legislators anytime. I made this just about the time I was going to federal authorities with my complaints about case fixing in family law and in the Title IV-D program.
The federal authorities seem to be corrupt too. For example, instead of reporting their knowledge of the cheating of the child support program by CO and MN, the OCSE assisted in perpetuating the crimes I reported to them. They are aiding and abetting the states.
forfatherlessfive 2 years ago
The OCSE likes when states cheat the child support system so they can ask for larger and larger appropriations each year. They are just as much involved in the racketeering and the raping of our families, and may be even be encouraging Governors to use federal funding to balance their budgets or may be orchestrating it altogether. And, the corruption may go all the way to the top of DHHS.
TELL ALL YOUR LEGISLATORS!
forfatherlessfive 2 years ago
Sad as it is, CO and MN are onlt two of the many corrupt states. My vote in for the state of MD whose child support system is not only slanted against fathers, but have a terrible record for trying to correct obvious wrongs bought out by any half-decent lawyer who would even try to take on the bureaucratic dragon!
iamcora1 2 years ago
FIRST: No question, the system is heavy lopsided against the fathers and the legislature needed should commence on a federal level. Does the federal gov't have something to gain from this criminally structured system? Of course they do! In many many ways--(I am thinking of at least a half dozen... there may be more).
Our representatives will not tackle it because the feds made it an organization that is too big and intimidating to deal with! Yes, the nations laws are UNFAIR!!!
iamcora1 2 years ago
You should send this to Will wagener, or Glen Beck.
006006006006 2 years ago
CPS and the whoring courts love destroying families. They despise children, they despise heterosexual relationships, they despise marriage, unless it is GAY MARRIAGE. They want to fuel whatever fires there may be, and they can do a great job of it. Shame on all men and women who are in it for the money, and destroying children and perverting justice and society.
CPSSucks 2 years ago
Actually, no! The govt doesn't want gay marriage either. The govt wants only those things that are profittable for its own. Federa and state laws carry with them pre-set mandates--among them, 1) To make sure the man have no say in the matter (men told women to shut-up much too long), and 2) To allow two measures of justice for women for every single measure for men! (This is why women don't have to come to court during child support procedures oftimes).
iamcora1 2 years ago
I'm pleased to see that someone has recognized the child support agency for what they are: "the dogs."
Everyone attacks this agency, but it's a red herring.
"Child Support" is the police officer who gives you a speeding ticket, due to a stupid speed LIMIT.
Those who MAKE the decisions are more important than those who enforce them...Which is why I don't understand all these videos attacking the child support agency.
They can't do a damned thing for you. They're an ENFORCEMENT agency.
caltrop69 2 years ago
Judges & their posses here are worse than the most corrupt in Mexico. Here they torture & hold children hostage to extort big money out of extended families on BOTH sides, promoting strife, promising "winner takes all." Both really lose, esp kids.
Historically, many judges and their hangers-on have figured out how to reign, rape & pillage a village in the name of "justice," looking good doing so. Our forefathers warned us that judges and their posses can become the worst of all criminals.
addvoc8 2 years ago
I agree, it is a govt. scam... as Alec Baldwin calls it, the "family law industry."
Before fathers/income earners even enter the process, they have no idea that they are simply about to be run through a sequence of pre-determined events. (It's ALL been planned).
Victims of alimony-fraud and custody hijacking need to organize and challenge the govt.
Victims also should STOP contributing to charities, community events etc... and make it clear to charities that the "state" has taken the money.
bloggerjoe 2 years ago
The only legal resolution I can see is a legislative change to a system of : The automatic legal recognition and enforcement of equality of parental custody and access after divorce without the need for courts or legal action. What I found is that the callous disregard for legal obligations for equality are a violation and disrespect for men in Family Courts and the constitution in your country and mine.
Disadentry 2 years ago
It would be great if, like you said, all divorces started as an administrative process that presumed equality in everything: custody, asset division, child support, etc. Then, if and only if one party had PROOF that the other party should have their rights limited or forfeited they could contest it in court. Unfortunately, there is such a huge financial incentive for the courts and custodial parent to use our kids as pawns, it will be difficult to get any commonsense system in place.
forfatherlessfive 2 years ago
System is obviously broken. Google Glenn Sacks. Rally around his group. Fathers rights are too spread out to make an impact, and you have a few on "our side" who to are just looking for money.
RoselandIndiana 2 years ago
I've been a member of his site for a while now - He'll be one of the most instrument advocates of family law reform in the U.S. It amazes me to see what some parents and government officials will do to get more than what they deserve - what a sickening display with absolutely no regard for the children being harmed. Thanks for your support.
forfatherlessfive 2 years ago
I'm just tired of the system; she never let me see my son and one weekend I missed to try and see him....she sends me an email saying I'm a lier. I live 4 hours away from my son...and everytime I tried seeing my son;she'd refused to let me; and just that one time I didn't try...she says I lied and that i'm a queer. and the System....just collecting my money and nothing happens to her. God protect our children.
jtz1072 2 years ago
Keep your spirits up, jtz1072. More and more, I'm reading success stories about parents exposing parental alienation and getting more time with their kids. Recent cases in Canada show that judges are realizing that parental alienation is child abuse and are removing the abused children from the alienator's care. Hopefully, U.S. judges will start doing the same.
forfatherlessfive 2 years ago
Be careful what you wish for though, because the judges are using this to put children with abusers. The courts want to do whatever people up most. People don't realize how evil and sadistic they are.
CPSSucks 2 years ago
This video brought tears to my eyes. It reminds me my situation very much. You got it right, its about money. The mafia will go after women too if they are perceived to be in control of assets that can be extorted. The system needs to go down, it's corrupted beyond repair. Good luck with your fight, do not give up, if you're persistent enough there is a chance that will never materialize if you do.
AugustusAlfa 2 years ago
Thanks for commenting. I've seen it countless times myself and every time I see my kids at the end, I just about have a melt-down. You're right - the corruption is so widespread in family law that the only solution in my mind is to make all divorces an administrative function to start where numbers and scenarios are examined followed by initial administrative orders. Then if either party contests the application of the guidelines, they can bring it to court. "Take the candy away from the babies"
forfatherlessfive 2 years ago
A MUST READ:
Taken into Custody: The War Against Fatherhood, Marriage, and the Family (Hardcover)
by Stephen Baskerville (Author)
BALANCE94015 2 years ago
This is sad. See Roger Weidner Videos for h elp...
williamwagener 2 years ago
Family court judges hurt children. The time is coming where they will be charged with crimes against humanity.
rpostma2 2 years ago
You're right; some do intentionally, and it is this intention that makes their actions criminal. A cold calculated crime like this is worse than murder.
forfatherlessfive 2 years ago
I am from colorado and have a on going battle with the same people in denver court. I have moved to maui to start my life over.howevever they use the tool of contempt to hold 6 months in jail here in maui from denver! yes they have the power. they say pay or else! You are great for doing this.god bless you.mauiadam
nordicthedog 2 years ago
Colorado is one of the worst for running non-custodial parents into the ground and forcing them to move away. In my case, they did all sorts of things to prevent payment and modification and credit for payments I made. States are required to follow rules to ensure the 'best interests' standards and child support guidelines are met. When they fail to follow the rules, they lose jurisdiction, their orders are void/unenforceable, and they risk losing their share of Federal funds. God Bless you too.
forfatherlessfive 2 years ago
Thank you for this video. I feel exactly the same way. I hope you can do something to change things.
lindseydwalsh 2 years ago
Thanks for commenting. 1000s of parents and millions of children have been cheated out of family life by our self-serving government. We hope to be able to bring about change.
forfatherlessfive 2 years ago
It's "child trafficking" when they knowingly remove children on falsified documents to receive funds from the Federal Government violating due process and constitutional rights. This happens in Kansas all the time - guess who is up for the head of Health and Human services?- Kansas Governor Kathleen Sebelius - That is bad for our kids and grandkids. More coverups.
AnneFA2005 2 years ago
Does Gov. Sebelius know how many Kansas families have been destroyed by the courts? She has to know - she's the CEO! It's amazing how some state leaders just look the other way while our families are slaughtered for money. Governors should be held responsible for what happens on their watch. The crime spree against our families could not be any more blatant.
forfatherlessfive 2 years ago
Moms and Dads all over this country share your pain. We must put our pain to work. For the chidren...
You are in our prayers...KANSAS
MelodyGerow 2 years ago
Thanks for your post and prayers. I hope to have a memorial page soon on my website for victims of the 'Divorce Industry' and a petition page so we can work together to promote our cause. Suggestions are welcome.
forfatherlessfive 2 years ago
Great Video! This is going on all across the USA including Kansas. Judges, Attorneys, GAL's., CSO's, CPS, DA's, Govt. and State employees continue to destroy the lives of families and children.
It is all about money.
CHANGINGKANSAS 2 years ago
Thanks for your comment. Looks like Kansas is one of the bad states too. Hear a lot about east coast states, VA, MA, PA, OH...Case fixing is also bad in Midwest and west, KS, MN, CO, ??? Keep exposing the crooks.
forfatherlessfive 2 years ago
thank you
rffjbanner 2 years ago