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  • You can guarantee that she's never heard that before...until now, because over 162,000 guys have seen this video and have probably tried it by now.

  • with all do respect um it might work better if you just compliment by stating that she/he is much more friendlier and happier then everyone else

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  • Cool. Me and my somewhat gf always just smile at each other.

  • WHY does shit have to be so damn difficult????

  • saying thank you at the end of a youtube video LIKE A BAUS

  • Me: who do you work for?

    Girl: the fuck?

    Me: Who the fuck do you work for?!!

    kept eye contact though

  • bullshit

  • meh

  • I usually like this guys vids but this one is total bull. The reason is that the question is too assuming and can come off as sarcasm--especially because girls are naturally really critical of themselves. Its too inward and heady of a question to ask off the bat. If you're going to open, keep it light-hearted, time constraint yourself (say you have to go) and then get that number and leave it alone.

  • "she never heard that before."

    I suppose I'll try it, but when 159,527 people know about it, it becomes a pick up line in a way.

    Yet again 742 people like this video, 22 dislike it, possibly showing a 33.7 to 1 success rate.

    My math would explain my nerdiness and failure to attract women.

  • @Da1RiSiN1sMoKe LOL, that's pretty funny, nerds are win, if you have a sense of humor, which I can assume you do, and you can make a joke about yourself, you've no need to worry about attracting women! Sense of humour is by far the best thing to have :)!

  • @TheWhopperTinger

    Sense of (good) humor + confidence (sans cockiness) = success guaranteed.

    I agree with you!

  • @Da1RiSiN1sMoKe :) Totally is, I'll tell you a little story, I'm fairly nerdy, reading glasses and all, will probably give you an answer to any question, could be a wrong answer, but I'll give you one, and some girl I met through my friend at school was REALLLLLLLY attractive and they all wanted to have sex with her, and in the end, she admitted she was more attracted to me and she only just met me! So if you are a nerd, endure and enjoy it as it will be with you forever as it will me.:)

  • @TheWhopperTinger did you close the deal?

  • @Pygmonicus Did I close the deal, how do you mean? My English isn't all good.

  • @TheWhopperTinger it means did you have sex with her.

  • @Pygmonicus Nop, I had my eye on somebody else at that time. Also, she's had so much sex (unprotected) she MUST have HIV.

  • He can say this cus he handsome

  • @Da1RiSiN1sMoKe what do u mean by "good" humor?

  • You don't have to repeat exactly the same line as he said, just make sure to tell her that she seems extra happy and that you wonder why. Example: You seem to be the only happy and relaxed girl in this room, how comes? And then you can go on talking about how people are so stressed and ask what makes her happy like interests just come up with something similar and it works great. It's not the smooth line that makes it work it's the meaning behind it and what it leads to.

  • @THERAMBACLANCY But you're leaving out CONTEXT, a very important variable to approaching. If a chick isn't OUTWARDLY smiling, you cant honestly ask her why she seems happy. Her dad could have died a week ago or she couldve gotten raped 3 hours prior. That's why we have body language, surroundings and non-verbal cues...use that as your guide to chat up a chick instead of some canned line. You'll always look like a natural.

  • TOOL FAG!!  FAG BAG!! PIECE OF SHIT LOLOLOL UR A HOMO!!

  • @skatei Does that make you feel better? Your terrible spelling, and obviously crude statement, won't be attractive to women.

  • thnx

  • sometimes I wonder how many times this guy must have failed with women to come up with all these videos LOL. I'm not complaining, his pain is for our benefit. Thanks arkandy39, your a wise one.

  • @Sirtruth3 don't you mean 'i wonder how many times this guy sees other guys fail miserably for being so utterly clueless with women' to come up with all these videos? yeah 'cause he's doing this to help many clueless men who just really REALLY need to get a clue. or else he wouldn't have come up with suggestions that generate so many views.

  • These comments are hilarious.

  • What about if you look like Mr.Bean?

  • i told this to my friend and i swear to GOD he got a girlfriend i 100 percent honest this guy is good

  • Sounds a bit too gimmick’y. When she smiles just move in and say: “Hi!” and start a conversation. I’m sure girls will recognize it as a line if you do it his way.

  • @lawshorizon yes but after saying "Hi!" how often do guys come up with something more ingenious that will make them attractive to the girl? 'cause oftentimes, they're just stuck with Hi, how are you? that's good. then comes the long awkward pause, looks around, and doesn't know what else to say. If he's interested, he'll ask about her. If he's confident in himself, he'll try to come up with something that'll make the girl feel comfortable.

  • @lawshorizon yes but after saying "Hi!" how often do guys come up with something more ingenious that will make them attractive to the girl? 'cause oftentimes, they're just stuck with Hi, how are you? that's good. then comes the long awkward pause, looks around, and doesn't know what else to say. If he's interested, he'll ask about her. If he's confident in himself, he'll try to come up with something that'll make the girl feel comfortable.

  • Yeah, no one has heard it before.That is until he posted it on here. Now almost every one has heard it. Lol.

  • This guy is really helpful.

  • That sounds kind of weird. I wouldn't do it.

  • if a guy ever came up to me and said that im pretty sure i would just walk away....laughing.....no offense...but nice try!

  • @irelandriley00 and then he'll be looking back at you thinking "what a *beep*" sheesh...... you'd wonder why they don't even try anymore 'cause they just KNOW they're gonna get ridiculed. I hate it when girls make a pass for guys who try so hard and laugh at their expense. Oh the stupidity of some people.

  • @maidelayne25 this is "irelandriley00's sister on her account, and i agree with you

  • its not that genuine anymore since everybody who has watched this video may have already tried it, great advice though if i watched it 2 years ago

  • I just say, how's it going, works every time. Then talk about the surroundings and blah blah

  • THAT IS SO WROOOOOOONG. DON'T LISTEN TO HIM. really, guys.. I am a girl and if a boy says like that it scares me off and it's quite disgusting! NEVER EVER DO THAT.

  • @Annaaaa1 hey guys, don't even attempt to approach girls who act like this! approach only the ones who look at you because you'll know that they're actually interested and want you to talk to them-- not idiots who'll only make you look stupid! 

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  • @Annaaaa1 lol maybe its meant to say it on a properiate moment or in a special way? think about it

  • Eye contact + Smile WORKS SO WELLLL OMFGGG :D

    Just never look away :P

  • a complete failure ....asked three of them the same question ...first was like nothing nothing the whole day ...second and third simply ignored ...try it if u want her to run away and neva luk back at u

  • no the very first question should be "have you seen any "arkady39" videos on youtube?" if she says no, proceed as video suggests :D

  • @killerbiller35 lol xDD yes, u should .. lol

  • Guy looks across the room at a girl.

    The girl smiles.

    Guy goes and asks what's the secret.

    Then the awkward moment when she tells you that she didn't smiled at you begins...

  • I will tell him "the secret is victorias secret", then I will flash him... Hhahahahahhahahah

  • im 13 but still will try

  • @crazy99ization 13? i was into legos and comics at your age son, no need to date yet, enjoy your kid life.

  • @MastaGT ok

  • @crazy99ization 13 year old girls require no smooth lines. They are so easy to get its ridiculous. They're willing to go out with anyone as long as your not ugly as fuck. But seriously you should just go play Black Ops.

  • @fatskunkripz420 all right black ops cant play shit online

  • @fatskunkripz420 you sound like you know from experience

  • @crazy99ization Go for it mate :) but I don't think you should be looking for relationship advice at this age

  • @crazy99ization bullshit kid, dont listen to them you are on the right way, is true you dont need to know all this shit, you just need to hang out with them as much as possible and have fun, even more than you hang out with your buddys, just dont be afraid to slap them in the ass from time to time or to talk dirty and sexual stuff, this way you show them you are the men, by the time you are 15 or 16 you will have great confidence and natural skills with girls....

  • @crazy99ization ;D dont listen to these guys in comments.. girls dont like guys like the ones who sent u that stupid messages.. ^^ .. the guy in the vid is the best =P

  • This is terrible advice! shes gonna think your a fucking werido!

  • 19 people have never been smiled at

  • i cant tell too here this cause we are in class^.^ and this is kinda weird

  • Made eye contact

    Man: so what's the secret?

    Woman: go fuck urself, i have heard that one before

    Man: bitch..

  • @JoeCaliforniah so true... the bitch part even most.. when u say no to a guy they always do that =D .. idiots

  • @666bruxinha Yep it's true. that was the part 1 of the story, if the woman says "yes" then here comes the part 2.

    Man: I've done injecting my liquid into you. I feel bored now... you bored me.. please entertain me.. go dance or smtng.

    Woman: I'll do anything for you. just marry me.

  • @JoeCaliforniah Probably she wasn't smiling at you in the first place

  • you cant always trust the comments above and thats the truth :D

  • If she smile at me first... *a flooding smile*

    what does it mean?

  • the war of love is where the bloods of many good men is shed................... sad sad sad reality

  • @cornholio777

    ya allah, keadaan tidak mengizinkan apa hikmah di sebalik nya

  • BAD ADVISE...she might be just nice so she smiles..she doesnt wna come off rude.

  • it probably wont work on 140279 people :D

  • very well said , i m gonna try it :)

  • Hey, this is a better one, "you remind me of the joker"

  • @syauqisetan3 lol epic legend

  • what do u do if u can do tht but cant start conversations

  • i'd laugh if two people who watched this video approached the same girl and said that.

    hahahahahahahah

  • I tried it and she said "fuck off loser" as she walked by and then got into some guy's mercedes :(

  • @lokeradekadente81 Well that surely does suck but, if she responds like that she probably wouldn't have made good company anyway I think.

  • @lokeradekadente81 that sucks .wrong chick dude

  • @lokeradekadente81 then she cant see how good a man you are.its better you find this now than way down the line.Her loss.

  • Ok, how can you distinguish between a friendly smile from a I like you smile?

    Because I really get confused with this girl who was in my class las year, I'm not sure if she smiles at me because she's educated or because she likes me?

    Her smile is very beautifull.

  • @XandeR93TV Your too much in your head, she is making it known she wants to talk to you so go talk to her and stop trying to figure out what kind of smile it is!

  • That was actually pretty good! I was expecting some kind of cliche response, but it was very nice! Your other videos are nice too! Keep up the good work!

  • what if that woman has seen this video... and knows that the guy is using it to flirt!

  • I can't believe how many "pick up" videos are online for how to talk to women. Wow, there must be so many saddos out there, it's ridiculous! I can't believe how society has come to men being afraid of talking to women.

  • 15 people have never had a girlfriend and never will

  • Your great. Thanks for your advices! I'l be watching your other videos ;)

  • i tried it and she was just like... you watch arkady39 too! still worked though :)

  • @gogeta7979 LOL

  • lol fuck off kid

  • I'm going to try this wednesday with this girl i like in my english college class.. you better not fuck me up arkady. XD

  • @cdoggyfizzle lollllllllllllllllllllllllllll­llllllllllllllllllllllllllllll­l

  • is this for he or she

  • what happen if she doesn't smiles

  • @selenafanlover then you know she's not interested.

  • @selenafanlover You ask her: "So, what's the secret of you being such a stupid selfish bitch?"

  • How many girls did you dated with i wonder?

  • Wow that was some really good advice

  • I can bet she's never heard that before as long as she doesnt watch this video!!

  • @abirz11 That my friend is the advantage that we, people from other countries where English is not the national languages have the the opportunity to use this.

  • and after all this than what? walk away and come back?

  • @Dominikanlyricist

    what? you carry on with the conversation!

  • well i'm going to guess that atleast 100'000 women have heard this now so i'll refrain from trying this out :P but it's a good video and i assume that the point is still valid ^^

  • Strippers find me so attractive.

  • Sounds good!  I'll try it !!

  • YOU ARE SO GODLIKE!

  • guys a pimp

  • Try and you will see how freaky that night could get...

  • as soon as i got my paycheck i went to the bank and got 600 dollars in one's 20' and 50's

    And i put all the one's in the middle and all the 20's,50's at the end.

    After all that sorted out i go to th club and walk up to the bar tender and say "i would like a (insert drink here) And pull out the roll of money right in front of the girls but ignore them.then id sit down and drink my drink ignoring everyone thats looking at me. you'd be surprised on how much chick run up to you trying to say hello.

  • @shirye

    yea, chicks with tramp stamps and wrist scars

  • This dude is a PIMP

  • I thought you were going to say: "So what's the secret to you smiling"? because then she would have to acknowledge that she smiled at you.

  • when she smiles back pull out your cock

  • @jigglymig rofl

  • @jigglymig lmao

  • @jigglymig LMAO

  • @jigglymig LOL

  • @jigglymig especially in an elevator

  • @jigglymig lol

  • @jigglymig hahahahaha YEEESSSS!!! THAT IS THE ULTIMATE RESPONSE \m/

  • @jigglymig lmao sorry that I cant give more than 1 thumbs up

  • @jigglymig What do yuo ssay after u say the happy tbhinggGG?

  • @jigglymig Thanks man. I now have diet mountain dew sprayed all over my computer. And no that's not code.

  • @jigglymig LMFAO

  • @jigglymig And smile back.....

  • i fuckin wish i was this guy...

  • This'll work if girls say it to guys too or no?

  • @Natch2013 As a guy, I can say pretty much anything that is socially correct is good for a guy.

  • @Natch2013 i wolud be like "isnt suppossed to be the other way around?" XD

  • If she smile`s, i`d wink and wiggle my tongue around.. Next thing she`l be in my bed...

    LOOOOOOOOOOOL Im joking...

  • i've showed her my cock, she grabbed it up smiling .. does this counts???

  • great idea, but what do u do the next time ? :)

  • I probably wouldn't say "what's the secret" as that seems rather cheesy (almost like a lead in to a pick up line or something) but he does dole out very useful knowledge so I would find my own words in which to compliment her for being friendly.

  • @jlwelch You're going about it the right way mate. :)

  • dude in the video i know everything i heard you say in many of yur videos work , where did you learn this stuff mystery,style,daivd deangelo, or an other big pickupartists? just wondering

  • Alpha male right here, confidence to execute is everything. Bravo sir

  • Keanu Reeves's brother giving date/pick-up advice?. I think i love this person.

    Keep up the work man i love these videos.

  • yep i tried this today on a girl i was shy of and i ended up talking to her amazing yeaaahhh!~

  • I'd try it if this video didn't get 114k views...

  • uh no

  • man. you realy got me through alot. i was in a four year relationship and i got dumped. iv been watching your vids for months and im now dating someone i realy enjoy:) life is good now. thank you!

  • haha I tried that on a girl in a library and we talked like for 10mins, but i forgot to ask her number, now i cant find her hhehe

  • theres this one girl i like,beautiful blonde hair,blue eyes,i sit by her in science class,i saw that vid u made on staring and tried it and it worked,but now what do i do?????

  • @brokicks115 what was the video on staring? u probably dont remember. hahahaha.

  • i wish i had seen this video sooner haha

  • And what she will answer on this, what could be the secret.... lol

  • I THOUGHT THIS GUY WAS FULL OF SHIT AT FIRST.BUT HE IS VERY SMART.LUV THIS DUDE.

  • no he doesnt need to be on television... otherwise there will be no more single girls around!!! haha

  • i gave $100 to a woman and she found me attractive :))

  • @cazanova200863 Lmao! Nice one bro.

  • @cazanova200863 LOLLLL

  • @cazanova200863 lmaoo word man.

  • Worked. nbd.

  • i swear u need to be on television

  • i'm gonna try this technique for the weekend. wish me luck guys.

  • @mohsenuk1 what was the result?

  • what happens if she dont smiles back??? :D please answer me!!!!! arkady39: that happpen to me.... :)

  • @hector7490 well it means she is either ignoring you/ isnt interested, or it means you need to get her attention in some way she can notice you, try just rubbing against her when you ever walk by her and smile at her. Then she will notice you anywhere