I uh take it very hard cause my grandpa passes away when I was 8 I cried and cried but I'm still having a ruff time even though I'm 12 now so these kinda videos help so thx shane
Listen to music, I turn really quiet, my temper drops to 0. I silently cry in my bed hugging my sheets and pillows. I just listen to music and let time heal it.
a girl in my school died a ffew months ago, and even though i wasnt best friends with her i was still upset. it was right before her birthday she was only a month in her sophomore year. Even though i wasnt her friend it hit me hard, and i just listened to music the rest of the day. Thats how i deal with pain listen to music!
@ShaneDawsonTV2 my baby sister died when she was 8 and I was 10... It really hit me hard cuz she was kinda like my best friend and I was really lost without her... For awhile I just didn't talk much and cried myself to sleep every night... But eventually I realized she wouldn't want me to be doing this she would want me to be happy so I just really focused on dance, which is my passion and it helped me start thinking of all the good times we had ad now I'm not sad when I think of her just happy
When i was 7 my cat got hit by a car. My sis said to me its all your falt because i lit her out.i cryed so hard because she was only 4 and it WAS my falt. It hurts to know i killed a cat and i love peta and ima vegatarin to so that made it hurt more. How i dealed woth it was i talked with my mom,peta.my teachers,people on youtube,and really anyone that wantee to help me in a bad time. Oh and like a month befor she dided i lost my grama and grandpa. I made a youtube that is no longer up named am
I've only had a couple people die in my life, and one I didn't even really react to, and the other I just bawled. It was my great grandma on my Dad's side, and I honestly don't know why it effected me so bad. I think it was because I barely knew her, and then I knew I never could.
My moms sister died when she was 18 in a car crash and I never met her because I wasn't born yet (obviously) and I really wish I had. I feel like a lot of my family forgets about her but I think about her all of the time because we would have had a lot in common. Like she liked drawing, she wanted to be an author, and we both have self confidence problems. My cousin and I talk about her a lot, we always wonder if we'd have more cousins if she was still around.
For all of you who lost loved ones go watch Brittani Taylor's "spoof" as she calls it of Katy Perry's Teenage Dream i promise you it'll make you feel better i honestly think her "spoof" should be the original version. It's okay to cry and be sad but that's not what the one's you lost wanted for you be happy and carry on try to think positive. It'll get better cuz one day you'll be up there with them listen carefully to Brittani Taylor's "spoof" it WILL make you feel better i promise you!! <3 :)
When my grandad died i never wanted to go to school and when i came home i would lock myself in my room and go through all the pictures of me and him, which would only be a few as i only saw him like once every 2 years because my dad never took me and my brother to go see him and i would never let any1 in my room, but then i realised that he would want me to be happy and not sad so i started opening up and talking to my friends about it and they were a great support and im so glad i did it now
i feeled like i was a ghost but the only reason y i did is because i was lounly but not any more now im dating and i dount feel like a ghost and i have not dated for a whole year but onec i meet this girl a.k.a my gf i feeled like i was alive and not dead
What makes dealing with death easier is having sensitive people around who will understand and allow your grieving but also will listen without interrupting when ready to talk about the person or your feelings, bad or good. Never feeling pressured to keep up a happy face is a big help too. But realize it's ok and good to have fun sometimes even though you're still grieving.
I don't think you can err forget someone... I think you should keep them in your thoughts and pray every night to them. The pain will always leave a scar but sometimes you just have to take a deep breath and keep in your mind that your gonna see them again someday. In heaven, where my grandpa is :)
My mom and Stepdad's best friend died two days ago. From a spider bite. He was like an uncle to me. I saw him all the time. He wasn't even 30 years old. Everyone in the house is too depressed to even talk. I have no idea how to feel. It's so surreal.
My great grandma passed away in July, and it was very rough on me because in her last few months we became very close. After her death, I just kinda got quiet. I separated myself a lot, didnt talk much, and listened to music. I always use music to escape from troubles, bit at this time I found myself sobbing with my headphones cranked on max. It's rough, and I found myself regretting so much, and after some coping and healing I realized that she's in a better place. I still miss her, and will a
when someone that im close to dies i normally isolate myself especially in like the shock period after the person dies....but i dont isolate myself cuz i want or cuz im being selfish in some way i do cuz i dont want other ppl hurting from it see me cry and start crying and i hate seeing ppl i love cry its not a good feeling at all....
I just cry by myself cuz i dont want ppl to feel sorry or sad bcuz of me :c but sometimes it really affects me like so bad to keep it all inside so i write like a diary or sumthing :/
I am actually still scared from when I was 4 and I lost my cat Harry and now I am 11 so I take it very hard and I lost my turtle this year and several months later my mom told me so that effected me very much and my grandma is an efecma survivor so I am grateful for that and she is having troubles but I hang out with her every day now so I am not wasting my life and letting it pass by!!
Ya know what? Alot of people take you for granted. Alot of people see you for your sex jokes and stuff but I see you as a very brave guy who keeps on going when he's been through alot.
I think about all the memories I've had with that person, or about that person..then feel better because I know they're in a better place than this hell of a planet..and i'm happy for them..every once in awhile..I still reminisce about them..and it just always makes me feel better..
to be honest i dont know how to deal with it. sunday evening my brother who lived in arizona who i was very close to talk to everyday on the phone went missing and was found later that night by yuma arizona police. he succesfuly commited suicide. i cried at first from pure shock. now..i dont know. im sort of frozen, i stay alone and almost like im waight for him to call everynight. its only been2 days. and im just sort of..frozen. lost in my own deminson like nothings real.
my grandpa and both my great grandma's died consecutavley. you made me realize that i cant mope around all the time. i hae to be happy for what i have now, not wish for what i had then.
My friend who's name u's Morgan rolling died a short while ago.he was dared to swim across a strong current river called the peace river and he drowned. I had gone to school, rode the bus and even had a crush on him in grade 6. I've been having a hard time with his death but every time I pass the peace river I finger it which helps me a little :) I love you Morgan.
Me and best friend are the two that are always together so if someone died I go to her and we spend time together. And when we do that we will have the same talk that goes like this...
Friend: what would you do if I died
Me: die with you
Friend: bulshit
Me: well I wouldn't go to school for like 3 or 10 days
Friend: lol if you died I would cry
Me: ya I would cry too!
Friend: I think I would find a way to finish your life by liveing my own
When my best friend died I just spent more time with her family then mine,but when my aunt died I just didn't talk to anyone. For a week or two I just sat in my room and draw or cry sometimes both.
Shane I deal with these problems by watching your videos. Yesterday I had a horrible stomach ache and I started watching your vlogs and I totally forgot about it. When I stopped watching them it started again. Shane, you mean a lot to me. Don't feel that way. It's okay to feel sad about other people's death but please don't think about that ever again. Please. You are etremely important to me and to other people too.
yeah im still trying to figure out how to deal with death. two of my family members passed away just in the last 2 months, one is my aunt who was really young and the regret is killing me that i didnt spend enough time with her, and the other was older, but not old enough to die, and it still hasnt really hit me yet, i just remember one of the last times i visited her in the hospital, before she went into a coma, she was joking and that was a good last conversation we had<3
My cat died about a week ago and I had her for half my life and I still love and miss her a week later. I cry every night while I go to sleep. I usually sing to myself when something happens. I really appreciate this video. Thanks -333
I don't really know how to actively deal with death, but here's how I dealt passively: When my grandma died it was just this weird feeling of...kind of like the whole world stopped all of a sudden and life went on in a blurr, as if outside of my isolated mourning bubble. And looking at the world and people around me felt like watching TV, like something I wasn't part of. And I needed that emotional distance because I couldn't take the world going on when my grandma didn't. Does that make sense?
ink. I never got to say goodbye to her. Its all my fault because I didn't want to see her suffer. I have the softest heart. I can't stand to see people or animals suffer. At least she died in peace. R.I.P. Grandma Kruger. I'll always love you... -3
My great grandma was really close to me. She taught me how to sew and cook. I was even named after her. We had the same first and middle name. Anyway, I really loved her. She was getting really old, and we never knew when the time would come. She passed away 6 months ago. She was 98. I prayed for her every day, but it was her time. She passed in her sleep at the hospital. I locked myself in my room for 3 days without food or water, because that's how she died. They couldn't get her to eat or dr
my grandma died when i was 5 and her last years she was too sick to do anything i mean like she had to learn how to walk again. well when that happened i dont remember much but i remember not wanting to cry in front of everyone cuz everyone would start to cry. so i useually just go in my room and sob on my own were no one can see. but my parents dont get it bc they think i cry for the stupidest things. they dont know i cry for death and it pisses me off but idk how to tell them i cry without me
well my grandma died and i recently had two pets die i usally just sit down and space out i know its weird but i space out for around 3-4 hours and i feel better (R.I.P grandma pearl,tiny,olive love ya always)
I recently lost someone very close to me. Some mornings I didnt even get out of bed in the morning. I completely shut myself off from everything and everyone. Some of my friends reached out to me, but i was so depressed i pushed them away. When finally allowed myself to open up to them, let them into my heart I began to heal and feel happier. If your dealing with something similar let the people who love you in. Don't push them away. Cherish them and let them know just how special they are to y
when my cousin commited suicide at 18 i tried to remember all of the good times and each time i saw her smile... doing that, to me atleast makes me feel happy
My cousins friend died when she was just 12 she got hit by a car and I was shocked cuz I knew her and I couldn't believe that she was gone is was just omg
I just lost a good friend at age 12 in a boating accident and it was depressing. It was one of those scenarios where one phone call could change a life. Luckily she died by impact to the head on the boat so she was taken to heaven immediately. It was a great relief to hear that she didn't suffer.
When something bad happens I go and do volunteer work, because there is always somebody worse off then me and it keeps me grounded and I remember that others have been through much worse than me.
music has always been there for me when I need cheering up or I am just happy or angry and If I have my alone time with my mp3 or ipod or whatever I will eventually come around and talk to everyone again. its just the way I have always been ....so yeah
I sit on a window sill in my front room or I draw till I cant I draw rlly good when im sad which is pretty much all skool yr cuz notin like ever goes right its been rlly hard this yr
I draw till my hand cramps up .......... and i usally cut up stuff and make some kind of art like when my grandfather deid i took my phone box shut it and then cut up and glued down van paper now all my freinds want it ........... any ways for some reason i aways draw better when im deprested
when i found out my grandpa died 2 weeks ago i painted about 12 pictures and just let me tears run threw the brush so tht's my advice and i just watch home video's with him in it :) so tht's my advice hope it helped:) ily grandpa R.I.P Nick Arata :'(
I'm the kind of person who locks themselves in their room for days when they're a sad. I no it's not the best way to deal with a loss but its Wat I do and it works 4 me
My Dad died 3 years ago. I remember finding out and breaking down, but I went to school the next day because I wanted to feel normal. It's not that I wasn't upset, I just couldn't be the one person who couldn't get it together.
I believe we should try and live life for the people who aren't with us anymore. I know how you feel Shane, and I'm sorry for your losses. Love <3 xx
I tend to do drawings when I am upset in general ~ best way to cope with death in a family etc, is to have a semi positive outlook on death, don't see it as a loss of a person, but celebrate the life they had....the memories you shared. When I pass away last thing I want are people crying and forgetting who I was and just focusing on me being gone.....so focus on memories and your connection, it builds you up from the inside out to cope.
i just tlak about it. i do nothing but that and it helps alot. when my dog died i had conversations with my froends about my dog. my friends were great about it too.
i had no idea for lik a few months and then i was on my computer and i was lkike omg and my cousin was over and i was like freaking out say this is unreal i guess it really efttected me to
When loved ones die... I'm o course devastated but I only express it a little. The rest is bottled up an makes me darker on the inside which I let out through writing. Mostly poetry. I can't write anything else. My grandma complains when reading my poetry. There aren't any sunshine rainbows. It's death and mystical darkness...
19/06/2010. The day one of my best friends died. I can't believe it's been a year already. How old was she when she left us? 15. I still haven't gotten over it. Rest in peace, love. We all miss you. :'(
i have never experienced someone I love dying. I mean... I've had some distant family members die and stuff.... but.... I didn't really.... um..... be that sad about it because I don't know them that well. I'm not close to my family at all so.... can't really say I relate.
When my mom-mom died, I scrap-booked. I didnt cry. I didnt want anyone to hug me or say "I'm sorry for you loss". I just pretended nothing happened. Pretending becomes more difficult to do when youre 16, but it makes life easier regardless. Personally, I think its healthy to cry and let people know youre hurt and you miss someone, but I had to be the strong one in my family.
A friend from my class died a couple of years ago. She died of some kind of cancer. I believe it was blood cancer, but me and all my friends and our teacher helped eachother trough it in school and at home my family would talk with me about it. And then someone in my family died for a couple of months ago snd we just talked alot. It really helpes when you have all the people you love to help you get trough it (:
I have had a lot of ppl die in my life and im only 13 ummm I don't really know what to do when someone dies I guess I just listen to music go through old photo albums think of all the fun times we had and I know this sounds weird but I question death and think about what really happens when someone says that someone else died
Every time someone dies in our family my dad takes us fishing. It really helps get your mind off of things (as pathetic as that sounds it's really relaxing).
when my dad died I didn't talk for about a year. but in my room when no one was home I would get my guitar and sing songs I had written for and with him. I'm acryer AND a hugger so I hug people and cry alot when something like that happens.
My grate grandma is on her death bed and is getting worce and worce day by day. I lost my grate grandpa when I was 5 (I'm now 15) so 10 years ago but I still miss him like crazy. When someone close to me dies I just put my head phones in and lissen my music the loudest it will go and zone out everything but the beat of the song....
Well i had one of my best friends from youtube thats where i met her and she made youtube vlogs a lot and the one time last May i found out she commited suicide and i was so in shock belive it or not i wanted to commit suicide to be with her but i thought how it would break my familys heart so i stayed strong and ya thats pretty much it. To everyone who wants to commit suicide dont do it your just wasting your life enjoy life and if its tuff it will get better trust me
My dad died wen I was 11 (lik not even a year ago) and my mom already got remarried 2 tis guy i don't lik and his daughter is a f'n b*tch no joke and I deal wit it by isolation and drawing
You tell me my grandfather/grandmother/anyone died and I'll tell you that they didn't die, they left somewhere, I don't know where, they won't come back and I'll never talk to them or see them again. But to me, they aren't dead because I don't even really know what death is. I don't get it and I don't really accept it. I'll cry because they're gone, but dead? idk... I guess to me no one dies. Death is but an absolute departure from life and earth. If you didn't follow this, yeah neither did I...
heey, im 13 now my grandma died before i was 1 so i don't remember anything and i have like only one pic of just me and her i dont know if theres others but erm people always said oh i knew my grandma unlike you and my grandma loves me yours didnt thats why she died, so i got really upset and thinking about ending everything but i couldn't do that to my mam, grandad and brother, and when i know someone died i just block everyone out and go to my room and just like ignore everything. <3 bybyeeee
I've been loosing everyone latley. I lost my cat I've had scince I was 5 and she was only 7 years old. And I also just lost my 19 year old cousin. Now I'm loosing my grandma
I know this is pathetic but my dog died I had her since I was 1 years old,When she died I cried for a week or 2 weeks,everyday,I got through it by crying,and saying to myself,well now she cant get hurt,and she wouldnt want me crying,she would want me to be happy,,,,Life is to short to be anything but happy
there is this man called dave hes in hospital i am praying for his life my mum is crying for him ive never seen her so upset in my life just looking at her or listening to her makes me burst into tears this is absolute torture
When ever something makes me very sad, like someone dieing or whatever. I draw its always been the only thing i'm good at, I got picked on alot when I was young at primary school but drawing made me happy, and I hope to be a sucsessful artist one day. and this is gonna sound weird but I feel that if you were to die the next day there will still be a part of me left. mY drawing will still be seen even if its only my freinds or family that will see them.
my great nan died a year ago and she was 97 and she has had lots of illneses but she died but we knew she was going to but the part that was the worst was i didnt see her much cause we live in england they live in wales but she was blind and couldnt communicate very well so its a shame but she was really nice before she had a stroke x :( but she had a good life but 97 is a amazing age to live to x love you nan you are in my heart forever god will take care of you x <3
when my grandma passed away last year in may i let all my feelings out, i started to get closer to my dad because it was his mom. i didnt want to cry anymore so i decide to draw and make videos on the computer and it kept me entertained so that i wouldnt cry. but there are still days when i really miss her and i do cry a little bit.
ok this may sound pathetic to some of you but when MJ died i cried my self everyday for 2 weeks and it was still a shock to me that he died for a year...cuz it happen so sudden and fast..and i knew him since i was 5 and loved everything about him he was my idol..then he was gone just like that.i do't think i deal with death in a healthy way :/.cuz i did't talk about till know.
I lost my grandma 15 days after my birth day the that same year right befor thanksgiving I lost my grandpa. I did like it when I got cards like I am so sorry but it made me even more sad I just like to move on with that stuff now I am over it beacuse it was in 2007 :/
I've been blessed that thus far I haven't really had to deal with death, but when Heath Ledger died it really stuck with me, especially after I had issues with myself regarding suicide not that long before he died, but I found that the best way to let go of that was to draw a picture of him and I felt so much better like a weight had been lifted off of my shoulders :)
i go in my room and i get my cat. i pet her and i start to feel better. or i just try and stay alone. my dog is dying from the worst kind of cancer. and im going through so much including that and ive had this dog since i was 3. I got news today that the cancer has reached his lungs and his bone in his leg. and idk how to react. i dont know what to do. And also my grandpa who im very close to is very sick. so life sucks for me at the moment. And the only way i get to laugh is by being with my f
I always look me in my room alone, because I always fight with my family, and it always ends with me losing the fight. I feel like no one loves me... I don't got that many friends either. I'm pretty much always alone. my teatchers hate me too, because I cry in class. I wish I just could be someone else, than my self. I want to be someone that have a nice family who cares about you, and don't scream at you if you do something wrong. I want to have friends... and nice people around me... FML.
my parents and my big brother died in car crash 3 years ago i was 15 i was all alone i wanted to kill my self then ive become a satanist i was doin drugs.but then i realise that ive got to ceep on movin..soo i started a new life im working to get money and then go to college.. and now im kinda happy because im a better person and i have friends that will always understand me no matter what..just remember ceep on movin on no matter what..never do stupid things when your deppresed.trust me.
I almost killed my self by choking my self with a belt because I felt unpopular and no one liked me and i was the outsider so I almost culotted suicide and I went to a pyhitrst for it but it got to the point were my own mother couldnt trust me home alone cause she thought she would find me dead on the floor
Last year 3 of my best friends tried to commit suicide...
I still dont know how to handel it well, and its still kinda haunts me. To deal with stuff like that i usually lock myself in my rooms for days/weeks on end and I only come out for school and when my friends visit....
ok well when my nan died i went into shut down mode i wouldnt eat sleep nothing i was suicidal as well id cry and cry and cry but it never did me any good and so my mum got my best friend involved (cuz i wouldnt talk to my mum) (i blamed myself for my nans death) and when i talked t her it realy helped and i just wanna say to elisia (u no who u r ) THANK YOU soo much your amazing :)
I'm kind of a tough person when it comes to crying. See, my family is kind of a harsh one (Mostly my mom, she won't tolerate the site of me crying) So over the years I kind of developed a tough shell. I do get sad over things, but I don't cry over it. I think it just builds up inside of me slowly over time, cause every once in a while I start sobbing over something extremely stupid. For example, a girl in my class died in a car accident (Rest in peace, Sarah Erdan) And I did cry but very little
I'm kind of a tough person when it comes to crying. See, my family is kind of a harsh one (Mostly my mom, she won't tolerate the site of me crying) So over the years I kind of developed a tough shell. I do get sad over things, but I don't cry over it. I think it just builds up inside of me slowly over time, cause every once in a while I start sobbing over something extremely stupid. For example, a girl in my class died in a car accident (Rest in peace, Sarah Erdan) And I did cry but very little
I have had people in my life die, only one who was close but still. I go into my room and listen to music, write out my feelings, and just cry. it helps to pain go away
I find myself coming back and watching this video a lot, I've lost a lot of people in my life of all ages from my great granny at 94, my dad at 47, all the way to my friend michael who was only 16. i really don't know how to deal with death. i find that at first it doesn't hit me and everyones like "why arn't you upset" and im like i am it just hasn't really hit me yet.. and a few days (sometime weeks or even months) later im hurt deeply and crying like a baby on my floor. so i dont know :/
I haven't lost family members, or friends(wich I'm really happy about), but I've lost ALOT of pets. Fx like 1-2 years ago, I lost the dog I've had through my enitre life, and I got a day off school, only because of that. When I lose pets, I usually cry. Sometimes when I think about it, I start crying again. And I can cry for hours, just to get it out. And then I'm a wierd mix og emo and scene kid, wich makes everybody think it's okay that I cry xD
As much as most people want to avoid it.. Crying is actually a good way to release ur feelings.. Not punching a wall.. Not committing suicide.. I get all embarrassed about crying publicly so I hold it in until I'm alone.. I mean only yesterday I attended a funeral for my friends grandfather.. He was a lovely man but I didn't cry.. I needed to so badly but held it in.. Perhaps people thought I was heartless.. But when I was home I she so many tears for him.. and put on a movie and watched It wit
I hold in all the tears. Then i will randomlu be alone and when i think about it suddenly the tears just burst.
Ive never been close to any of my family to express my thoughts about death and stuff. And even when i talk to my friends about whats bugging me and making me depressed they just dont really act like they care. But if you know someone who died or something similar, dont do what i do. Talk to your friends talk to your family.
@megzknowsherluv It's hard to talk to your friends. Because sometimes, they don't care. They act like it's all normal and just doesn't give a shit about my grandfather being dead. And maybe that's a way of handle it. Act like normal. I really don't know. When someones die your life changes and I think that you need someone who is there for you. Who cares. The worst thing is that the only way to make people care about you is to cry. And I can't just cry like that. I do like you - cry on my own.
my best friend died in october from a heart atack and i still havent dealt with it, i just keep forgetting that he died then itll just pop up in my mind, especialy when im in school and i end up crying in the bathroom
My friend recently hung himself and it was so shocking and I had no clue what to think or do I cried a little and the rest of the time I was curled up in my bed just laying there he was one of my few friends I could be myself around it was a terrible feeling and he didn't leave a note so we will never know his reason for doing it.
Not trying to bash you or anything, but Michael Jackson wasn't old enough to die. I didn't expect him to die, and it was an absolute bitch slap for him to die to his fans who loved him. He was only 50 years old, and nowadays that's young. Maybe not late teens or early twenties, but it's still younger than you should be when you die.
my grandfather died in 2006, and i was sad, because we were watchin' the news and we were alone in the house, because my grandmother went to the supermarket, and i went to the bathroom, and i when i returned to the room, i find out that he was dead. And we were alone @ the house. he was my only grandfather alive, because my other grandfather died 5 years ago, and my two grandmothers are now both dead. And i miss him so much (me cryin')... :(
@geroairfil2 You don't need pictures as long as you have your memories and the feelings that come with those memories she will never be lost :) put a smile on and be happy she taught you what she knew... She would want you to live a good life... so live!! Just go and live life!! (with out causing too much trouble)
i lost my grandfather two years ago. the year he died, i was going through some messed up stuff and i was losing control. then he died, and he was the center of my family universe, and my whole family just fell apart. we still havent recovered. i was clinically depressed for about half a year and didnt tell anyone else, because i think they were going through the same. then i met my first bf and he just saved me. i wish i could say we are still together, but we're not, but we are still friends
Over this past summer, my granpa died. I was really close to him too. When I found out that he died, my boyfriend was over at my house. When I heard the news I stood frozen completly shocked, then i burst out crying and my bf came over and hugged me. Letting my mascara run all over his shirt. That night i went into my room and painted a picture of one of my most fondest memorie of him. At his funeral I had a breakdown and wished that i couldve spent more time with him.
I curled up on a blanket on the floor of my room, blasted music, and I cried for the daughter of my aunt who now has no father or mother due to her mother dying. I think what helped me get to grips with the death of my aunt most was that, even though she had passed on, you could still feel how much love she had for everyone in her heart when she had been alive. You can still feel that now. It made me appreciate life more. I thank her for that.
I pray for you guys to get through with our struggles, and know this: you are not alone, and we must be happy no matter what. I know its hard, but we cn get through the pain. it takes some time, but you'll be just fine :) God bless every one of you and God bless you Shane. You're a good role model and have a big heart <3
I wanted to leave, cuz I couldn't take the pain and fear anymore. My family and I are fine now, but his face comes in our minds sometimes, which is natural. And reading all of you guy's comments are making me realize that I shouldn't be sad anymore, that I should be happy with my family that I still have. Life is too short. enjoy the years that come, be happy and have fun. We need to realize not to let saddness destroy us, because its not healthy, and our families don't want to be in any pain.
my uncle dies lat year of a heart attack. i was walking home from being dropped off by the school bus, and my older brother tells me that my uncle died. I thought he was joking, but he wasn't. I was in serious shock. So I called my mom to check up on her, and I bursted down crying, and so was she. My grandmother was in complete shock, really everyone was. Then when i went to his wake, I got scared because I never seen a dead body before. My legs were jiggling in fear, I was nervous... :(
My mom died and I am only 14 years old, but the way i dealt with it is i kinda of bottled all of my feelings inside and I know that isn't healthy but oh well. That is the only way I feel better about it, and I have a lot of people to talk to, but i choose not to because it doesn't seem to help.
I think our purpose is to make our own purpose. If someone dies in your life and let's say your purpose was to take care of them and always love them, don't think of committing suicide or anything. Just make a new purpose for yourself.
I uh take it very hard cause my grandpa passes away when I was 8 I cried and cried but I'm still having a ruff time even though I'm 12 now so these kinda videos help so thx shane
TheAlyssamania 1 week ago
Listen to music, I turn really quiet, my temper drops to 0. I silently cry in my bed hugging my sheets and pillows. I just listen to music and let time heal it.
90jadek 2 weeks ago
a girl in my school died a ffew months ago, and even though i wasnt best friends with her i was still upset. it was right before her birthday she was only a month in her sophomore year. Even though i wasnt her friend it hit me hard, and i just listened to music the rest of the day. Thats how i deal with pain listen to music!
Liljojo1996 2 weeks ago in playlist More videos from ShaneDawsonTV2
DANG MUFFINS! YOU WERE SKINNY!
What happened?
goaleygirl 2 weeks ago
@ShaneDawsonTV2 my baby sister died when she was 8 and I was 10... It really hit me hard cuz she was kinda like my best friend and I was really lost without her... For awhile I just didn't talk much and cried myself to sleep every night... But eventually I realized she wouldn't want me to be doing this she would want me to be happy so I just really focused on dance, which is my passion and it helped me start thinking of all the good times we had ad now I'm not sad when I think of her just happy
damonsgirl13 1 month ago
When i was 7 my cat got hit by a car. My sis said to me its all your falt because i lit her out.i cryed so hard because she was only 4 and it WAS my falt. It hurts to know i killed a cat and i love peta and ima vegatarin to so that made it hurt more. How i dealed woth it was i talked with my mom,peta.my teachers,people on youtube,and really anyone that wantee to help me in a bad time. Oh and like a month befor she dided i lost my grama and grandpa. I made a youtube that is no longer up named am
warriorcat3679 1 month ago
I've only had a couple people die in my life, and one I didn't even really react to, and the other I just bawled. It was my great grandma on my Dad's side, and I honestly don't know why it effected me so bad. I think it was because I barely knew her, and then I knew I never could.
musicVamp527 1 month ago
My moms sister died when she was 18 in a car crash and I never met her because I wasn't born yet (obviously) and I really wish I had. I feel like a lot of my family forgets about her but I think about her all of the time because we would have had a lot in common. Like she liked drawing, she wanted to be an author, and we both have self confidence problems. My cousin and I talk about her a lot, we always wonder if we'd have more cousins if she was still around.
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...who is britney murphy?
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musicxluver98 2 months ago in playlist More videos from ShaneDawsonTV2
For all of you who lost loved ones go watch Brittani Taylor's "spoof" as she calls it of Katy Perry's Teenage Dream i promise you it'll make you feel better i honestly think her "spoof" should be the original version. It's okay to cry and be sad but that's not what the one's you lost wanted for you be happy and carry on try to think positive. It'll get better cuz one day you'll be up there with them listen carefully to Brittani Taylor's "spoof" it WILL make you feel better i promise you!! <3 :)
IHELLOKITTYCRAZY 3 months ago
When my grandad died i never wanted to go to school and when i came home i would lock myself in my room and go through all the pictures of me and him, which would only be a few as i only saw him like once every 2 years because my dad never took me and my brother to go see him and i would never let any1 in my room, but then i realised that he would want me to be happy and not sad so i started opening up and talking to my friends about it and they were a great support and im so glad i did it now
tonetto03 3 months ago in playlist More videos from ShaneDawsonTV2
i feeled like i was a ghost but the only reason y i did is because i was lounly but not any more now im dating and i dount feel like a ghost and i have not dated for a whole year but onec i meet this girl a.k.a my gf i feeled like i was alive and not dead
lostvagas6 3 months ago in playlist WANT MORE SHANE DAWSON?
What makes dealing with death easier is having sensitive people around who will understand and allow your grieving but also will listen without interrupting when ready to talk about the person or your feelings, bad or good. Never feeling pressured to keep up a happy face is a big help too. But realize it's ok and good to have fun sometimes even though you're still grieving.
mercerdamon 3 months ago
I don't think you can err forget someone... I think you should keep them in your thoughts and pray every night to them. The pain will always leave a scar but sometimes you just have to take a deep breath and keep in your mind that your gonna see them again someday. In heaven, where my grandpa is :)
gleek1a1 3 months ago
And I lost my most favorite dog ever her name was Sandy
marquardtle 4 months ago
I lost my grandpa, my 2 uncles that I loved (both in different years) my grandpa was an artist like me and I never even met him
marquardtle 4 months ago
My mom died on july 31! And shane helps me get through crap;)
Makeupbykennedy11 4 months ago 15
My mom and Stepdad's best friend died two days ago. From a spider bite. He was like an uncle to me. I saw him all the time. He wasn't even 30 years old. Everyone in the house is too depressed to even talk. I have no idea how to feel. It's so surreal.
Kaybeezie92 4 months ago
My great grandma passed away in July, and it was very rough on me because in her last few months we became very close. After her death, I just kinda got quiet. I separated myself a lot, didnt talk much, and listened to music. I always use music to escape from troubles, bit at this time I found myself sobbing with my headphones cranked on max. It's rough, and I found myself regretting so much, and after some coping and healing I realized that she's in a better place. I still miss her, and will a
DidJewKnowImBlack 4 months ago
when someone that im close to dies i normally isolate myself especially in like the shock period after the person dies....but i dont isolate myself cuz i want or cuz im being selfish in some way i do cuz i dont want other ppl hurting from it see me cry and start crying and i hate seeing ppl i love cry its not a good feeling at all....
yakcmd8888 4 months ago
I just cry by myself cuz i dont want ppl to feel sorry or sad bcuz of me :c but sometimes it really affects me like so bad to keep it all inside so i write like a diary or sumthing :/
eqiz55 5 months ago
This really helped me. Just last week I seriously wanted to kill myself. Now I know I should never do that <3
MrArmadillo85 5 months ago
Shane... How do you always know what to say?
NearSupporter11226 5 months ago
I am actually still scared from when I was 4 and I lost my cat Harry and now I am 11 so I take it very hard and I lost my turtle this year and several months later my mom told me so that effected me very much and my grandma is an efecma survivor so I am grateful for that and she is having troubles but I hang out with her every day now so I am not wasting my life and letting it pass by!!
puppybigglesworth 5 months ago
Ya know what? Alot of people take you for granted. Alot of people see you for your sex jokes and stuff but I see you as a very brave guy who keeps on going when he's been through alot.
unicornsaresick 5 months ago
when my family dies can i come over to ur house itll make me feel better :)
ishanedawsonrocks 5 months ago
I think about all the memories I've had with that person, or about that person..then feel better because I know they're in a better place than this hell of a planet..and i'm happy for them..every once in awhile..I still reminisce about them..and it just always makes me feel better..
ThusShawkiddwasborn 5 months ago
i just cry i want to let my feelings out alone
Librulz1 5 months ago
to be honest i dont know how to deal with it. sunday evening my brother who lived in arizona who i was very close to talk to everyday on the phone went missing and was found later that night by yuma arizona police. he succesfuly commited suicide. i cried at first from pure shock. now..i dont know. im sort of frozen, i stay alone and almost like im waight for him to call everynight. its only been2 days. and im just sort of..frozen. lost in my own deminson like nothings real.
countrysideprincess 5 months ago
my grandpa and both my great grandma's died consecutavley. you made me realize that i cant mope around all the time. i hae to be happy for what i have now, not wish for what i had then.
AnimalGal4 5 months ago
My friend who's name u's Morgan rolling died a short while ago.he was dared to swim across a strong current river called the peace river and he drowned. I had gone to school, rode the bus and even had a crush on him in grade 6. I've been having a hard time with his death but every time I pass the peace river I finger it which helps me a little :) I love you Morgan.
scoobydoodogsblue 5 months ago
Me and best friend are the two that are always together so if someone died I go to her and we spend time together. And when we do that we will have the same talk that goes like this...
Friend: what would you do if I died
Me: die with you
Friend: bulshit
Me: well I wouldn't go to school for like 3 or 10 days
Friend: lol if you died I would cry
Me: ya I would cry too!
Friend: I think I would find a way to finish your life by liveing my own
And I say live by those words that I just wrote.
allthatsparkle13 5 months ago
When my best friend died I just spent more time with her family then mine,but when my aunt died I just didn't talk to anyone. For a week or two I just sat in my room and draw or cry sometimes both.
AMT72398 5 months ago
Shane I deal with these problems by watching your videos. Yesterday I had a horrible stomach ache and I started watching your vlogs and I totally forgot about it. When I stopped watching them it started again. Shane, you mean a lot to me. Don't feel that way. It's okay to feel sad about other people's death but please don't think about that ever again. Please. You are etremely important to me and to other people too.
You are loved Shane.
Isabelita99 5 months ago
3 of my dogs died from a horrible virus. this week
ThristyOrangeSophy 5 months ago
yeah im still trying to figure out how to deal with death. two of my family members passed away just in the last 2 months, one is my aunt who was really young and the regret is killing me that i didnt spend enough time with her, and the other was older, but not old enough to die, and it still hasnt really hit me yet, i just remember one of the last times i visited her in the hospital, before she went into a coma, she was joking and that was a good last conversation we had<3
ilovenickjonas0404 5 months ago
1,042 people cant aim towards the thumbs up button :(
ilovenickjonas0404 5 months ago
My cat died about a week ago and I had her for half my life and I still love and miss her a week later. I cry every night while I go to sleep. I usually sing to myself when something happens. I really appreciate this video. Thanks -333
AutumnandKatt 5 months ago
My dad died today...
paulma222 5 months ago
@paulma222 aww :( I'm sorry sweetie.
MyPrincessCi 5 months ago
I don't really know how to actively deal with death, but here's how I dealt passively: When my grandma died it was just this weird feeling of...kind of like the whole world stopped all of a sudden and life went on in a blurr, as if outside of my isolated mourning bubble. And looking at the world and people around me felt like watching TV, like something I wasn't part of. And I needed that emotional distance because I couldn't take the world going on when my grandma didn't. Does that make sense?
namelussnicky 5 months ago
ink. I never got to say goodbye to her. Its all my fault because I didn't want to see her suffer. I have the softest heart. I can't stand to see people or animals suffer. At least she died in peace. R.I.P. Grandma Kruger. I'll always love you... -3
ClydeHorse48 6 months ago
My great grandma was really close to me. She taught me how to sew and cook. I was even named after her. We had the same first and middle name. Anyway, I really loved her. She was getting really old, and we never knew when the time would come. She passed away 6 months ago. She was 98. I prayed for her every day, but it was her time. She passed in her sleep at the hospital. I locked myself in my room for 3 days without food or water, because that's how she died. They couldn't get her to eat or dr
ClydeHorse48 6 months ago
freaking out and cursin and crying so i just keep on keepin on
tobi9ify 6 months ago
my grandma died when i was 5 and her last years she was too sick to do anything i mean like she had to learn how to walk again. well when that happened i dont remember much but i remember not wanting to cry in front of everyone cuz everyone would start to cry. so i useually just go in my room and sob on my own were no one can see. but my parents dont get it bc they think i cry for the stupidest things. they dont know i cry for death and it pisses me off but idk how to tell them i cry without me
tobi9ify 6 months ago
well my grandma died and i recently had two pets die i usally just sit down and space out i know its weird but i space out for around 3-4 hours and i feel better (R.I.P grandma pearl,tiny,olive love ya always)
crimses 6 months ago
I recently lost someone very close to me. Some mornings I didnt even get out of bed in the morning. I completely shut myself off from everything and everyone. Some of my friends reached out to me, but i was so depressed i pushed them away. When finally allowed myself to open up to them, let them into my heart I began to heal and feel happier. If your dealing with something similar let the people who love you in. Don't push them away. Cherish them and let them know just how special they are to y
stolenhalo93 6 months ago
when my cousin commited suicide at 18 i tried to remember all of the good times and each time i saw her smile... doing that, to me atleast makes me feel happy
Foreverhyper1 6 months ago
After my grandma died I kinda shut myself in my room and didn't come out I drew listened to my iPod read and wrote but I didn't cry not once.
Gothicvampireanime1 6 months ago
My cousins friend died when she was just 12 she got hit by a car and I was shocked cuz I knew her and I couldn't believe that she was gone is was just omg
darkangel21991 6 months ago
I just lost a good friend at age 12 in a boating accident and it was depressing. It was one of those scenarios where one phone call could change a life. Luckily she died by impact to the head on the boat so she was taken to heaven immediately. It was a great relief to hear that she didn't suffer.
Italy9900 6 months ago
See this is so sad. The people who deserve to die never do. But the innocent people actually do die
laviniawantspeace 6 months ago
Shane this is why we love you, you make us laugh all the time and videos like this make us know you care about everyone of us, keep it up :]
TheKingZexion 6 months ago 36
Lock myself in a room and don't eat for 3 days
Soulreepersrock12 6 months ago
this is weird because this vid came out 2 days after my gmom died
but i delt with it by writing stories, being depressed for a couple of days, and moving on
thecommenter18 6 months ago
When something bad happens I go and do volunteer work, because there is always somebody worse off then me and it keeps me grounded and I remember that others have been through much worse than me.
cheekyhodgie99 6 months ago
music has always been there for me when I need cheering up or I am just happy or angry and If I have my alone time with my mp3 or ipod or whatever I will eventually come around and talk to everyone again. its just the way I have always been ....so yeah
kittysano1 6 months ago
I sit on a window sill in my front room or I draw till I cant I draw rlly good when im sad which is pretty much all skool yr cuz notin like ever goes right its been rlly hard this yr
luvlycara12 6 months ago
I draw till my hand cramps up .......... and i usally cut up stuff and make some kind of art like when my grandfather deid i took my phone box shut it and then cut up and glued down van paper now all my freinds want it ........... any ways for some reason i aways draw better when im deprested
danadburns 6 months ago
when i found out my grandpa died 2 weeks ago i painted about 12 pictures and just let me tears run threw the brush so tht's my advice and i just watch home video's with him in it :) so tht's my advice hope it helped:) ily grandpa R.I.P Nick Arata :'(
justinbieberfan6001 6 months ago
I'm the kind of person who locks themselves in their room for days when they're a sad. I no it's not the best way to deal with a loss but its Wat I do and it works 4 me
benito78910 6 months ago
was this video made before micheal jackson died?
and elizabeth taylor died a couple of months ago
thats kinda wierd
blackandpurpleluver 6 months ago
@blackandpurpleluver i was thinking the same thing. this was made 6 months after michael jackson died though.
Azuzephresh 6 months ago
Life is too short, so take that time and appreciate
angelpie3749 6 months ago
she's dead :0 :'(
ShortNelleStack 7 months ago
R.I.P. Ryan Dunn <3 :'(
EmilyDenmark 7 months ago
My Dad died 3 years ago. I remember finding out and breaking down, but I went to school the next day because I wanted to feel normal. It's not that I wasn't upset, I just couldn't be the one person who couldn't get it together.
I believe we should try and live life for the people who aren't with us anymore. I know how you feel Shane, and I'm sorry for your losses. Love <3 xx
mickjaggerbabe 7 months ago
wow. this is so weird. im just randomly watching shanes videos and i found this one. and yesterday my boyfriend told me he has cancer...
1234iloveyouxx 7 months ago
@1234iloveyouxx Oh, i'm sorry to hear that. I hope he and you will be okay and make it.
Gerardwayinmypants 6 months ago in playlist WANT MORE SHANE DAWSON?
Liz Taylor DID die now... the irony.
rach64xoxo 7 months ago
I tend to do drawings when I am upset in general ~ best way to cope with death in a family etc, is to have a semi positive outlook on death, don't see it as a loss of a person, but celebrate the life they had....the memories you shared. When I pass away last thing I want are people crying and forgetting who I was and just focusing on me being gone.....so focus on memories and your connection, it builds you up from the inside out to cope.
BlackFrak 7 months ago
i draw my emotions. is that weird?
wolfeclipse24 7 months ago
i just tlak about it. i do nothing but that and it helps alot. when my dog died i had conversations with my froends about my dog. my friends were great about it too.
powmow123 7 months ago
when some1 dies i wtach Kenny die over and over.........
bcbgvbhi 7 months ago
I have gone thorugh so many deaths in my life..
TrentoSan 7 months ago
i had no idea for lik a few months and then i was on my computer and i was lkike omg and my cousin was over and i was like freaking out say this is unreal i guess it really efttected me to
MrSillyDinosaur 7 months ago
When loved ones die... I'm o course devastated but I only express it a little. The rest is bottled up an makes me darker on the inside which I let out through writing. Mostly poetry. I can't write anything else. My grandma complains when reading my poetry. There aren't any sunshine rainbows. It's death and mystical darkness...
ItzJoJoTV 7 months ago
iv lost alot of close people even my dog who was there before me and we had to put her down its really hard love ya shane
TheMissle5027 7 months ago
I love you Shane, and all your fans are here for you(:
hailee628 7 months ago
19/06/2010. The day one of my best friends died. I can't believe it's been a year already. How old was she when she left us? 15. I still haven't gotten over it. Rest in peace, love. We all miss you. :'(
RebeccaDawnAdams735 7 months ago
whats wierd the first time i watched this video was the day liz taylor died
xxdaterapexx 7 months ago
i have never experienced someone I love dying. I mean... I've had some distant family members die and stuff.... but.... I didn't really.... um..... be that sad about it because I don't know them that well. I'm not close to my family at all so.... can't really say I relate.
softball35089 7 months ago
No one that I really knew well has died yet and I'm really thankful. I don't know how I would handle it.
ThaiPrincess14 7 months ago
my mom or dad haven't died but i think they will soon, as sad as that seems,They Smoke, what do i do? i don't know, i am crying now.
ZZKatieZZ1 7 months ago
When my mom-mom died, I scrap-booked. I didnt cry. I didnt want anyone to hug me or say "I'm sorry for you loss". I just pretended nothing happened. Pretending becomes more difficult to do when youre 16, but it makes life easier regardless. Personally, I think its healthy to cry and let people know youre hurt and you miss someone, but I had to be the strong one in my family.
blahilikeboys 7 months ago
A friend from my class died a couple of years ago. She died of some kind of cancer. I believe it was blood cancer, but me and all my friends and our teacher helped eachother trough it in school and at home my family would talk with me about it. And then someone in my family died for a couple of months ago snd we just talked alot. It really helpes when you have all the people you love to help you get trough it (:
CupcakeMajaxD 7 months ago
I watch "Toy Story 3"...takes me back to a simpler time.
DeliversOnTuesday 7 months ago
I have had a lot of ppl die in my life and im only 13 ummm I don't really know what to do when someone dies I guess I just listen to music go through old photo albums think of all the fun times we had and I know this sounds weird but I question death and think about what really happens when someone says that someone else died
MrsImmakitty 7 months ago
Every time someone dies in our family my dad takes us fishing. It really helps get your mind off of things (as pathetic as that sounds it's really relaxing).
checkyesromeoo 7 months ago
when my dad died I didn't talk for about a year. but in my room when no one was home I would get my guitar and sing songs I had written for and with him. I'm acryer AND a hugger so I hug people and cry alot when something like that happens.
HollieJandherlife 7 months ago
I deal with death by crying until i throw up. Too much?
GazYounevermindthat 7 months ago
Death Is beautiful in a sad way!
JamaicanBoxTV 7 months ago 34
I watch your videos
multiplefan 7 months ago
My grate grandma is on her death bed and is getting worce and worce day by day. I lost my grate grandpa when I was 5 (I'm now 15) so 10 years ago but I still miss him like crazy. When someone close to me dies I just put my head phones in and lissen my music the loudest it will go and zone out everything but the beat of the song....
skittleflovorcandy 7 months ago
Well i had one of my best friends from youtube thats where i met her and she made youtube vlogs a lot and the one time last May i found out she commited suicide and i was so in shock belive it or not i wanted to commit suicide to be with her but i thought how it would break my familys heart so i stayed strong and ya thats pretty much it. To everyone who wants to commit suicide dont do it your just wasting your life enjoy life and if its tuff it will get better trust me
R.I.P Chloe Shaw :)
GameEntertainmentGuy 8 months ago
My dad died wen I was 11 (lik not even a year ago) and my mom already got remarried 2 tis guy i don't lik and his daughter is a f'n b*tch no joke and I deal wit it by isolation and drawing
XDfunsize 8 months ago
well, now elizabeth, the amazing, beautiful, elizabeth, has passed, and she will well be remembered<3
go4green1331 8 months ago
What if it was the most important thing that was lost?
doiamazeyou24 8 months ago
he spelt the title with small letters 0.o
missymiley24 8 months ago
when i deal with death i draw my grandma just died last monday and i drew an entire sketch book \
JuliBabe19 8 months ago
who is brittany murphy ????????
irelandroxs 9 months ago
I have a long cry and just let it all out
sidramunene 9 months ago
I sing sad songs when i sad to let the pain out. lame i know but it works
jesseheart17 9 months ago
You tell me my grandfather/grandmother/anyone died and I'll tell you that they didn't die, they left somewhere, I don't know where, they won't come back and I'll never talk to them or see them again. But to me, they aren't dead because I don't even really know what death is. I don't get it and I don't really accept it. I'll cry because they're gone, but dead? idk... I guess to me no one dies. Death is but an absolute departure from life and earth. If you didn't follow this, yeah neither did I...
JessieBradleyMusic 9 months ago
heey, im 13 now my grandma died before i was 1 so i don't remember anything and i have like only one pic of just me and her i dont know if theres others but erm people always said oh i knew my grandma unlike you and my grandma loves me yours didnt thats why she died, so i got really upset and thinking about ending everything but i couldn't do that to my mam, grandad and brother, and when i know someone died i just block everyone out and go to my room and just like ignore everything. <3 bybyeeee
LaRstockholmsara 9 months ago
I lost mt bro,sis,aunt,grandma,grandad,other grandad,ect. I draw,I have gotton so used to death tho
Knooprachel1998 9 months ago
I've been loosing everyone latley. I lost my cat I've had scince I was 5 and she was only 7 years old. And I also just lost my 19 year old cousin. Now I'm loosing my grandma
hollaatyogurlbay 9 months ago
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BabiyyShebaaj836 9 months ago
I write sheet music to play on my piano when people die... is that wierd?
123abcdoreme1000 9 months ago
I've never really lost anyone I love... I guess I'm lucky? I don't take anything for granted though, I know how hard it must be for that to happen :/
PaintingFlowers260 10 months ago
I know this is pathetic but my dog died I had her since I was 1 years old,When she died I cried for a week or 2 weeks,everyday,I got through it by crying,and saying to myself,well now she cant get hurt,and she wouldnt want me crying,she would want me to be happy,,,,Life is to short to be anything but happy
cinhere 10 months ago
there is this man called dave hes in hospital i am praying for his life my mum is crying for him ive never seen her so upset in my life just looking at her or listening to her makes me burst into tears this is absolute torture
TheEnglishWonder 10 months ago
When ever something makes me very sad, like someone dieing or whatever. I draw its always been the only thing i'm good at, I got picked on alot when I was young at primary school but drawing made me happy, and I hope to be a sucsessful artist one day. and this is gonna sound weird but I feel that if you were to die the next day there will still be a part of me left. mY drawing will still be seen even if its only my freinds or family that will see them.
101BANNANAmonkey 10 months ago
my great nan died a year ago and she was 97 and she has had lots of illneses but she died but we knew she was going to but the part that was the worst was i didnt see her much cause we live in england they live in wales but she was blind and couldnt communicate very well so its a shame but she was really nice before she had a stroke x :( but she had a good life but 97 is a amazing age to live to x love you nan you are in my heart forever god will take care of you x <3
PoppyRendall 10 months ago
when my grandma passed away last year in may i let all my feelings out, i started to get closer to my dad because it was his mom. i didnt want to cry anymore so i decide to draw and make videos on the computer and it kept me entertained so that i wouldnt cry. but there are still days when i really miss her and i do cry a little bit.
Starlisle93 10 months ago
ok this may sound pathetic to some of you but when MJ died i cried my self everyday for 2 weeks and it was still a shock to me that he died for a year...cuz it happen so sudden and fast..and i knew him since i was 5 and loved everything about him he was my idol..then he was gone just like that.i do't think i deal with death in a healthy way :/.cuz i did't talk about till know.
mjac4ever 10 months ago
whenever im sad,angry or depressed i ALWAYS listen to music or play my guitar.I dont now why but it makes me feel better no matter what.
nevesis1356 10 months ago
I dont know my mom died when i was 2 i never saw her!! i never think about it cause it makes me feel sad :(
sarahpretty1234 10 months ago
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Kayla77711 10 months ago
Mitchell Davis is better.
xKaoticKarmax 10 months ago
Thank you Shane.
ZachJBLG 11 months ago
The way I deal with death~ daw, write, scream, cry, be alone, take walks, call a friend, and some oter little things like read a good book.
ScarletSchiffer 11 months ago
I thankfully havent experienced any close deaths, but I am super scared about it.
Jessiferr34 11 months ago 34
@Jessiferr34 ts not as bad as you think its hard but only for like a day but in a week you will be better
EmoNightmareX4 6 months ago
I lost my grandma 15 days after my birth day the that same year right befor thanksgiving I lost my grandpa. I did like it when I got cards like I am so sorry but it made me even more sad I just like to move on with that stuff now I am over it beacuse it was in 2007 :/
Saraisaspazz 11 months ago
In my life, I've had 2 boyfriends.
But how I get over death is writing a song.
The reason why i said I've had boyfriends. (1 in past)
Is because one was abused so much and was bullied and he just couldn't take it anymore, so he commit suicide, and when he did, I was so shocked.
Then I found out he was cheating on me, and he had sex with her.
The girl was my BEST FRIEND, but we made up.
Why? He forced her to have sex with him.
He said he would murder her.
I believed her because she never lies.
xxselenaluvorxx 11 months ago
I've been blessed that thus far I haven't really had to deal with death, but when Heath Ledger died it really stuck with me, especially after I had issues with myself regarding suicide not that long before he died, but I found that the best way to let go of that was to draw a picture of him and I felt so much better like a weight had been lifted off of my shoulders :)
puppetpals3 11 months ago
riends and watching ur vids. ive lost so many loved ones. i dont want to lose anymore uk know?
fearlessgirl100 11 months ago
i go in my room and i get my cat. i pet her and i start to feel better. or i just try and stay alone. my dog is dying from the worst kind of cancer. and im going through so much including that and ive had this dog since i was 3. I got news today that the cancer has reached his lungs and his bone in his leg. and idk how to react. i dont know what to do. And also my grandpa who im very close to is very sick. so life sucks for me at the moment. And the only way i get to laugh is by being with my f
fearlessgirl100 11 months ago
I always look me in my room alone, because I always fight with my family, and it always ends with me losing the fight. I feel like no one loves me... I don't got that many friends either. I'm pretty much always alone. my teatchers hate me too, because I cry in class. I wish I just could be someone else, than my self. I want to be someone that have a nice family who cares about you, and don't scream at you if you do something wrong. I want to have friends... and nice people around me... FML.
teddybearleader 11 months ago
shane if you died i would probably have suicidle thoughts. youtube wouldnt be the same without you. i love you so much (: <3
hotstuff11214 11 months ago
my parents and my big brother died in car crash 3 years ago i was 15 i was all alone i wanted to kill my self then ive become a satanist i was doin drugs.but then i realise that ive got to ceep on movin..soo i started a new life im working to get money and then go to college.. and now im kinda happy because im a better person and i have friends that will always understand me no matter what..just remember ceep on movin on no matter what..never do stupid things when your deppresed.trust me.
DylanTroy898 1 year ago
I almost killed my self by choking my self with a belt because I felt unpopular and no one liked me and i was the outsider so I almost culotted suicide and I went to a pyhitrst for it but it got to the point were my own mother couldnt trust me home alone cause she thought she would find me dead on the floor
hljbubbles 1 year ago
Last year 3 of my best friends tried to commit suicide...
I still dont know how to handel it well, and its still kinda haunts me. To deal with stuff like that i usually lock myself in my rooms for days/weeks on end and I only come out for school and when my friends visit....
ItssssGabby 1 year ago
I have tried to kill myself many times, took me 16 year to realize that i was trying to kill the sin, not me. Now I have Jesus, he keeps me together.
Jennitys 1 year ago
ok well when my nan died i went into shut down mode i wouldnt eat sleep nothing i was suicidal as well id cry and cry and cry but it never did me any good and so my mum got my best friend involved (cuz i wouldnt talk to my mum) (i blamed myself for my nans death) and when i talked t her it realy helped and i just wanna say to elisia (u no who u r ) THANK YOU soo much your amazing :)
morrigancrow1997 1 year ago
I'm kind of a tough person when it comes to crying. See, my family is kind of a harsh one (Mostly my mom, she won't tolerate the site of me crying) So over the years I kind of developed a tough shell. I do get sad over things, but I don't cry over it. I think it just builds up inside of me slowly over time, cause every once in a while I start sobbing over something extremely stupid. For example, a girl in my class died in a car accident (Rest in peace, Sarah Erdan) And I did cry but very little
theechocolatepecan 1 year ago
I'm kind of a tough person when it comes to crying. See, my family is kind of a harsh one (Mostly my mom, she won't tolerate the site of me crying) So over the years I kind of developed a tough shell. I do get sad over things, but I don't cry over it. I think it just builds up inside of me slowly over time, cause every once in a while I start sobbing over something extremely stupid. For example, a girl in my class died in a car accident (Rest in peace, Sarah Erdan) And I did cry but very little
theechocolatepecan 1 year ago
I have had people in my life die, only one who was close but still. I go into my room and listen to music, write out my feelings, and just cry. it helps to pain go away
malletmusic16 1 year ago
way to capitalize off someone else's death you fucking sack of shit...
hope the ad revenue is worth selling out someone who died young
you are such an attention whoring piece of shit
MoRgUe27 1 year ago
I find myself coming back and watching this video a lot, I've lost a lot of people in my life of all ages from my great granny at 94, my dad at 47, all the way to my friend michael who was only 16. i really don't know how to deal with death. i find that at first it doesn't hit me and everyones like "why arn't you upset" and im like i am it just hasn't really hit me yet.. and a few days (sometime weeks or even months) later im hurt deeply and crying like a baby on my floor. so i dont know :/
JessieHopeification 1 year ago
Thx shane i just found out my favorite teacher died in a car accident today and i rewatched this vid and i feel a little better :(
Livelaughlove3439 1 year ago
You make me cry :(
Ziziblk 1 year ago
I haven't lost family members, or friends(wich I'm really happy about), but I've lost ALOT of pets. Fx like 1-2 years ago, I lost the dog I've had through my enitre life, and I got a day off school, only because of that. When I lose pets, I usually cry. Sometimes when I think about it, I start crying again. And I can cry for hours, just to get it out. And then I'm a wierd mix og emo and scene kid, wich makes everybody think it's okay that I cry xD
SuicideCroft 1 year ago
As much as most people want to avoid it.. Crying is actually a good way to release ur feelings.. Not punching a wall.. Not committing suicide.. I get all embarrassed about crying publicly so I hold it in until I'm alone.. I mean only yesterday I attended a funeral for my friends grandfather.. He was a lovely man but I didn't cry.. I needed to so badly but held it in.. Perhaps people thought I was heartless.. But when I was home I she so many tears for him.. and put on a movie and watched It wit
TheJeh41 1 year ago
LOL IT LOOK LIKE THE CAT FLEW TO THE CHAIR
coach9087 1 year ago
I cry at all the small things so I can stay strong at all the big things. No one knows me.
livibug98 1 year ago
I draw.
I hold in all the tears. Then i will randomlu be alone and when i think about it suddenly the tears just burst.
Ive never been close to any of my family to express my thoughts about death and stuff. And even when i talk to my friends about whats bugging me and making me depressed they just dont really act like they care. But if you know someone who died or something similar, dont do what i do. Talk to your friends talk to your family.
megzknowsherluv 1 year ago
@megzknowsherluv It's hard to talk to your friends. Because sometimes, they don't care. They act like it's all normal and just doesn't give a shit about my grandfather being dead. And maybe that's a way of handle it. Act like normal. I really don't know. When someones die your life changes and I think that you need someone who is there for you. Who cares. The worst thing is that the only way to make people care about you is to cry. And I can't just cry like that. I do like you - cry on my own.
MagicTwilightSaga 1 year ago
My favorite Brittany Murphy is the one where she died.
FUNAKAI7 1 year ago
my best friend died in october from a heart atack and i still havent dealt with it, i just keep forgetting that he died then itll just pop up in my mind, especialy when im in school and i end up crying in the bathroom
xXOXONinaXOXOXx 1 year ago
@xXOXONinaXOXOXx so sad:( i feel for you<3
peachesminder 1 year ago
My friend recently hung himself and it was so shocking and I had no clue what to think or do I cried a little and the rest of the time I was curled up in my bed just laying there he was one of my few friends I could be myself around it was a terrible feeling and he didn't leave a note so we will never know his reason for doing it.
Whiteskater09 1 year ago
Not trying to bash you or anything, but Michael Jackson wasn't old enough to die. I didn't expect him to die, and it was an absolute bitch slap for him to die to his fans who loved him. He was only 50 years old, and nowadays that's young. Maybe not late teens or early twenties, but it's still younger than you should be when you die.
Wasn't trying to be rude, just commenting.
BassistOf92 1 year ago
@BassistOf92 at least he lived half a century other celebs that died werent as lucky to grow that old
Chan3lprincess16 1 year ago
i loved her )':
selena199619 1 year ago
Brittany Murphy..? really?
I cried like a little bitch when Michael Jackson..lol <3
I love you Shane♥
MichaelJacksonL1 1 year ago
@MichaelJacksonL1 over that freak
AntiGDYB 6 months ago
She was in 8 Mile, her and Eminem got it on. :D
Ckman873 1 year ago 27
my grandfather died in 2006, and i was sad, because we were watchin' the news and we were alone in the house, because my grandmother went to the supermarket, and i went to the bathroom, and i when i returned to the room, i find out that he was dead. And we were alone @ the house. he was my only grandfather alive, because my other grandfather died 5 years ago, and my two grandmothers are now both dead. And i miss him so much (me cryin')... :(
nathybe123 1 year ago
Who the HECK is Brittany Murphy?
horsegirl0003 1 year ago
my aunt died when i was born and my UNT LOVED ME SO MUCH and we dont have any pictures of her holding me when i waas five months old i love my aunt
geroairfil2 1 year ago
@geroairfil2 You don't need pictures as long as you have your memories and the feelings that come with those memories she will never be lost :) put a smile on and be happy she taught you what she knew... She would want you to live a good life... so live!! Just go and live life!! (with out causing too much trouble)
sllabnori 11 months ago
@sllabnori thanks that was really nice of you to say i guess there are some good people on youtube
geroairfil2 9 months ago
i lost my grandfather two years ago. the year he died, i was going through some messed up stuff and i was losing control. then he died, and he was the center of my family universe, and my whole family just fell apart. we still havent recovered. i was clinically depressed for about half a year and didnt tell anyone else, because i think they were going through the same. then i met my first bf and he just saved me. i wish i could say we are still together, but we're not, but we are still friends
DaRkWoLfOfDeSpAiR 1 year ago
Over this past summer, my granpa died. I was really close to him too. When I found out that he died, my boyfriend was over at my house. When I heard the news I stood frozen completly shocked, then i burst out crying and my bf came over and hugged me. Letting my mascara run all over his shirt. That night i went into my room and painted a picture of one of my most fondest memorie of him. At his funeral I had a breakdown and wished that i couldve spent more time with him.
711isadore 1 year ago
I curled up on a blanket on the floor of my room, blasted music, and I cried for the daughter of my aunt who now has no father or mother due to her mother dying. I think what helped me get to grips with the death of my aunt most was that, even though she had passed on, you could still feel how much love she had for everyone in her heart when she had been alive. You can still feel that now. It made me appreciate life more. I thank her for that.
mcrmyfirestarlight 1 year ago
I pray for you guys to get through with our struggles, and know this: you are not alone, and we must be happy no matter what. I know its hard, but we cn get through the pain. it takes some time, but you'll be just fine :) God bless every one of you and God bless you Shane. You're a good role model and have a big heart <3
DarkVioletAngel99 1 year ago 2
I wanted to leave, cuz I couldn't take the pain and fear anymore. My family and I are fine now, but his face comes in our minds sometimes, which is natural. And reading all of you guy's comments are making me realize that I shouldn't be sad anymore, that I should be happy with my family that I still have. Life is too short. enjoy the years that come, be happy and have fun. We need to realize not to let saddness destroy us, because its not healthy, and our families don't want to be in any pain.
DarkVioletAngel99 1 year ago
my uncle dies lat year of a heart attack. i was walking home from being dropped off by the school bus, and my older brother tells me that my uncle died. I thought he was joking, but he wasn't. I was in serious shock. So I called my mom to check up on her, and I bursted down crying, and so was she. My grandmother was in complete shock, really everyone was. Then when i went to his wake, I got scared because I never seen a dead body before. My legs were jiggling in fear, I was nervous... :(
DarkVioletAngel99 1 year ago
My mom died and I am only 14 years old, but the way i dealt with it is i kinda of bottled all of my feelings inside and I know that isn't healthy but oh well. That is the only way I feel better about it, and I have a lot of people to talk to, but i choose not to because it doesn't seem to help.
350Ajax 1 year ago
I think our purpose is to make our own purpose. If someone dies in your life and let's say your purpose was to take care of them and always love them, don't think of committing suicide or anything. Just make a new purpose for yourself.
ClubRandom98 1 year ago
Who's that i don't know I watch tv and sib into my brain
Pumpkinpie473 1 year ago
Ok this is prob not the best place to ask this but who the hell is