Get out of the friends zone, Lets just be friends, dating

[TheLawlbringer]

lol I just had this conversation before I watched this video...and flipped the script on her. So funny, she actually got angry. Me, I just kept my cool and was like you either be my gf or nothing. You would of thought I dumped her ass.lol

[uthetube09]

I've seen better acting in a porno.

[lawshorizon]

Ya … good point … your probably right about that (when girls offer friendship they feel they have more control of things). But, in real life, it appears to be more of an “a’due” rather than a “hello”. Also, the scenario doesn’t make sense. If the guy was buying the girl dinner, etc. every girl understands there’s a reason for it that’s more than friendship. It sounds more like she panicked with the friend-line, when he started making moves, but she eventually came around?

[lawshorizon]

This video appears to have been completely faked. This guy has a web site trying to promote a pick-up book and material. I thought things looked to good to be true.

[76reliant]

@lawshorizon They already said, it was a redo of what basically happened. On this video he's not selling anything at the end of the video or anything like that...The 'I can't just be friends' is a great line though. Girls think they are in control when they offer 'friendship only', yet when it's rejected by the guy, the girl is suddenly out of her 'comfort zone'.Out of the comfort zone is what seems to get the rise out of girls.How else can we explain Fonzie's success) on Happy Days?

[lawshorizon]

Excellent strategy - but it will only get the girl some of the time. I’ve been there and it usually means there’s an unknown boyfriend somewhere (or other courtships/courtiers) so she’s not that desperate and/or scared of getting too involved. This girl figured that her options were running out (she’s not exactly Miss America) – that’s my take on it. I can’t help thinking that “true love” would have created a stronger desire on her part.

[clutch33st]

bitchs aint shit but hoes n tricks!

[techfanatix]

@clutch33st Word!

[AQUAMARINETMI]

talon115 - you are immature! you wouldnt be here if it wasnt for a woman who gave birth to you and you know nothing about how women are - and youre far from perfect - i doubt it - grow up!!!! women choose men the same way men choose women because they will it

[ZombiesAreBetterDead]

I asked out a girl and she said "I don't want a boyfriend". Then she went out with a guy 5 days later.

[2555black]

Ywillburn is a racist douche...seriously its the 21st century..not all "american" women or americans in general are like that..I don't care who you worked with..it was them being horrible..but that doesn't give you the right to stereotype all americans like that? Would you like it if I just went around saying "oh asians have small eyes and they all speak broken english" no...grow up dude

[ywillburn]

be unpredictable!!!!! once the challenge is gone , you are gone !!!!! american women are simply selfish !!!!!! i finally married when i was 41 and it was to an asian women !!!!! never dated one before but they will always love you !!!!!! i am now a nurse and all these a,erican (white) nurse are horriable to work with !!!!!!!!!!!! you see how selfish an backstabbing american women really are when you work with them !!!!!!!!! a man from experience

[rowsdower12]

This is the story of my life. That's all I get. "I just don't want a BF or whatever." Which is BS cause they do just not you. I'm so sick of it. I'm fine with female friends and I love them but not when every girl I meet or try to get with is not interested, they just want to be friends, of course they say "you're really nice...but." Okay, end of rant.

[76reliant]

Think about it....This girl went from not wanting him, to wanting him badly, just because of a few 'powerful' words....

[ywillburn]

i tried to pull this on her and she killed herself!!!!!! YOU MURDERED MY GF !!!!!!!!!!

[ywillburn]

totally kiss her behind for a month !!!! i mean be the ultimate puppydog and then drop her cold for 1 week !!!! i guarantee she will be so confused that she will be eating out of your hand !!!!!! more tips at scoots the alpha man.com

[76reliant]

has anyone tried this speech much later in a friendship?In other words, over several years of liking you, then not liking you, then liking you ect...In between those times, she has gone with other guys...Yes I am positive she gave me chances, I just didn't take advantage..stupid I know.Now she just broke up with yet another guy,and this it's been 4 years since my last chance...In some ways, this speech seems like it would save face, as opposed to just hanging around hoping.Anyone? with results?

[omarlives]

WHAT A LUCKY BASTARD TO NIP IT EARLY IN THE BUD LIKE HE DID. i feel its too late for that now. =(

[omarlives]

i've known this girl since childhood, i've spent over $10,000 on her, from everything to food to clothes to movies. she always says she knows i'd make her happy. but says she wants to be single since she just got out of a relationship. I mean that's understandable, but the problem is, she recently fucked a dude that she just met WHILE SHE WAS WIT HER BOYFRIEND STILL, lol the dude gave her herpes and spent zero compared to me. The saddest part is i'd rather be a cheap nigga wit herpes than me.

[flybeetle27]

When a girl says"lets just be friends",it means"Let me use you to get OTHER guys,and listen to me talk about it everyday for as long as we're"friends"and suffer.AND the best part is:if I srew up at any point,its all your fault for not making it work! Trust me,I made the wrong decision to accept as friends and, right now, I'm trying to get out of it. Others out there who want a woman that badly, don't do what I did. Once you do it, you can't turn back.

[GaMeR69]

that guy is a massive playa he should write a book that was so smooth and slick if thats how it really went down and leaving her with half of the bill showing that you mean business was perfection out of all the video ive seen trying to get out of the friend zone this was by FAR the perfect adaptation. VERY GOOD VID

[goodolt70s]

who needs women freinds,women just talk drivvel anyway!. :-D

A freind of mine said something once which is kinda hard in a way but it,s actualy very true,here,s what he said,...

,...."Women would be nothin if they were,nt so sexy,at the end of the day men are just intrested in havin sex with them,if the were,nt so attractive and sexy,men would,nt even look at them twice" :-))))

[76reliant]

yeah, once a girl says 'let's be friends', you have to try and make her jealous, probably lie and try and make her believe you are doing great without her....If she gets wind of that, she may start to develop feelings she thought weren't even there...Us guys have made the mistake of being Mr Spock logical to women who 'feel' with their heart....So anger, curiosity, jealousy ect. make them react and cause them to 'feel' for you very quickly...Once they feel for you---u got em...

[freedomofthinking]

let's be friennds" means leave me alone and get out from my life ,if it's possible with not many complications

[JosephEaorle]

What if you really DO value her friendship, in fact, you have a lot of mutual friends and play together in a band. There is definitely musical chemistry when we play together, we listen in respond to each other's playing and complement each other when the other comes up with a good variation. But can there be sexual chemistry. I left her a rose on valentines day (we spent the previous night together) and she just said thank you.

[sonoroustripleh]

u lied this doesn't work I tried dis man come on don't believe em if a girl likes u as more then a friend than she does if she doesn't than she doesn't you can't make her love u believe me I tried and learned my lesson.

[c00lwatter]

He is acting kind of wussy about it "i will always be around". NO! My Friend...NO! She needs to know you are a man, you have set your position and she refuses to accept it. Time for the both of you to move on. She doesn't want it? You do? Show her the door cause you will only be living a lie if you let her friend zone you.

[notessimodude]

Good advice, to be honest. This is different from all the other "move on" or "stay friends" bullshit I've encountered all over youtube. I never actually thought about telling the girl I like about her choices. Although I think it's a bit mean, I'll have to do it. I've already asked her out and she rejected me, but giving her that choice might make her come to me. Even if it doesn't, I've got a girl or 2 I might be able to get with otherwise.

[squrilleyboy]

Wow of all the "escape the friendzone" videos I've watched on here this one is by far the best I've seen! Not only do you guys give good tips but you also act out a realistic scenario when it comes to this subject! I wish more videos on the matter did that!

[stuntmaster16]

i'd rather just stay friends with the chick in the video

[NintendoEclipse]

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[valcrone]

i did the same thing as the guy in the video i can tell you it doesnt work, she got hella pissed and is no longer talking to me

[TimpBizkit]

Yeah if you just want to be friends but you expect him to pay, then isn't that kind of like 'dating' eh?? daft woman lol

[dumbbunny555666]

My best friend and I would be dating except that he doesn't want to ruin our friendship if we break up. How do I make him think that Wont happen?

[ilovejoejonas009]

@dumbbunny555666 I am in that same situation message me if you still need that advice

[therater2008]

One word keep it moving life is too short tor this crap!!

[DeterminedGoat]

me to be a crybaby obviously, the way guys usually are. Dont get sad, dont get pissed, dont ask questions. I don't know which approach is better, acting like its no big deal or acting like you like her too much, maybe whichever is more true. I will say that I actually really liked that chick at the time, and I actually had to be the one to ask her if she still liked me a couple of weeks later and she said she was waiting for me to ask because it seemed like I didnt care so draw ur own conclusion

[DeterminedGoat]

A girl I'd been dating for a few weeks said she just wanted to be friends and I just said smiled and said Okay. That's cool :) She got totally flustered, I could tell she was tripping out, and I asked her what was wrong and she said I was acting weird. It became real obvious after that that she still liked and we got back 2gether 2 weeks later. She told me that when I did that it made her feel like she made a mistake and that I had my shit 2gether and she'd messed up with me. She expected

[moronpaul]

Best thing to do is to walk away from the cunt the moment the slut starts talking this shit. The guy is a faggot for sticking around this skank.

Women need to be reminded/told/treated like SHIT. CASE CLOSED.

[bealltho]

To be honest- I think it's important to note that sometime in order to be true to yourself- you need to be prepared to walk away if she turns down the opportunity to be more than just friends after you've told her you can't just be friends. Often times actions prove or disprove you- make sure that what you do is congruent with what you say and the odds of you getting what you want out of dating- and life- often time will improve as a trend that matches your choice to be authentic.

[surfista584]

I can't remember how many times I've heard this before...

[alandemorias]

thanx for the tip mate....what u said in the end was right! i wasn't gettin straight forward with her. i called her just now, it was smooth n easy.

[VenomLeon]

Whooow! This vid. is useful! And it's so true! And often girls are not very sure when they say "Let's just be friends", and now i know is that when you fall in that pit, you failed! Not only have you missed your chance, but you end up lying to yourself!

5/5 + Fav.! Golden vid. right here, man! Thanks!

[Vacho2]

wow, i just told her last night that i cant be friends with her because i like her, and like pretty much everything, but she said i was being selfish,

its like cmon, if u ar looking for a friend you cant be friends with someone who likes you

[sirmoalot]

she's the one being selfish by making you do something you obviously don't wana do. I mean sure she might say a relationship would just benefit you, but you can say a "friendship" would just benefit her, so her guilt trip is shown off. Basically if she won't budge, there's no reason you should....just my opinion.

[Vacho2]

omg this is my frist time landing in the friend zone, and she was like i just wana be friends, i dident know what to do, but this is rlly good, next time i will never land in the friend zone it sux

[marleyman0]

lmao girls are so silly sumtimes

[talon115]

Women are possibly the lowest form of life. Their whole lives are based on lies and deciet. They destroy nice, caring men everyday, while these same nice guys protect and love them. Then they f*ck the dirtbags that don't care for or about them.

[Fortyball]

ah in fairness to them man, they arent all like that.

[hulk90000]

@talon115 so true my friend

[B00h44]

@talon115

true that --> beeing a total ass is the best way to score

[MissKatRob]

@talon115 That is not every woman! not every female is like that! and guys arnt the best species either! there more likely to be murderers and rapists! and they stop liking their girlfriends and wives after like 2 years. they are more likely to cheat! and find resisting temtation really hard! im not blaming all guys tho! i love guys! just not ones that put down woman! geez

[captaingangsta26]

@MissKatRob You don't know what your talking about because your another ignorant women that can't take responsibilty for anything. Rapists and murderers you say??? How do you think they come to be. Well They exist because women are constantly screwing them over and they are sick of it. The guys that cheat on their wife is the guy that is an ASSHOLE the girl CHOSE!!!!!!! That asshole was most likely a nice guy but GIRLS LIKE ASSHOLES so he decided to be one. SEE IT IS THE GIRL'S FAULT!!!

[MissKatRob]

@captaingangsta26 It's no use talking to you, because obviously you're gonna twist everything around and try to make it seem like it's the "women's" fault. I could do the same here and aim everything at men! Im gonna be bias about my opinion and you yours, so there's no use continuing this!! But I can tell you this, your not gonna have a fully enjoyable life if your against half the human race.... but thats your problem, so im done here!! Have a nice halfly enjoyed life!!

[captaingangsta26]

@MissKatRob FUCK YOU BITCH don't say I'm twisting stuff because I'm right you whore. I'm fucking telling the truth but like all bitches do refuse to take responsiblitly. HALF LIFE YOU SAY??? how the fuck do you figure not dealing with you scandelous whores is a much fuller and healthier life. Your just trying to make women seem better then they really are WHICH WHAT??? is what every dumb ass bitch does. YOUR A FUCKING COCK SUCKING WHORE AND YOU DON'T WANT TO ADMIT IT!!!!

[MissKatRob]

@captaingangsta26 Not that its any of your bussiness... ! but im a virgin! I dont see the point in waisting myself on people guys like you and cheapining myself like you probably do! And what the hell are you thinking when you tell me, I, wont take responsibility when your the one blaming Women for all of mens problems??? So i'v come to the logical conclusion that you are a double standard, insecure man lover who refuses to take a look at the amazing women out there! So please... keep it shut!!!

[MissKatRob]

@captaingangsta26 You probably didnt have much of a mom did you? or did your dad leave at a young age? were ur rents alcoholics? you dont have to tell me, thats ur bussiness, but it explains why you have such a twisted view of women! cause i know that people dont talk like you unless they had something wrong with their childhood or the way they grew up! so ur probably angry with one or both ur parents, right? well dont you think if you were brought up badly, that maybe you got a wrong view?

[bryanero]

@MissKatRob copying and pasting comments dont make u seem any smarter

[MissKatRob]

@bryanero what are you talking about?

[MissKatRob]

@talon115 Im guessing you didnt have a mom or you had a pretty lame mom!? What about mens lives? What are they based on? sex! sports! porn! LIES! DECEIT! food! video games! hmm.... doesnt seem very intelligent.....! I hear women talking about how their men lie waaaay more than i hear guys say their girls are liers!!! But of course you'r just gonna twist everything around to "its womens fault" when i could just as easily say men screwed up women!!! So shut it please!!!

[eftultima]

@MissKatRob its not about lying its about not giving the nice guys a chance which is down right bullshit. lies come during a relationship but how can there be a relationship if there isnt a chance giving.

[MissKatRob]

@eftultima i do agree the nice guys should be given a chance. i love the nice guys

[GaMeR69]

@talon115 damn where did this come from hahahah lol I got done watching this video agreeing with them next thing I know I read your comment LoL HAHAHAH but you are so right though LoL u should make a video response I would watch it hahahahaha HAHAHAHA im laughing my ass off right now!

[omarlives]

@talon115 lol lies. she says, "i'm ready to move in wit u in 6 months." 4 months pass. I say, "2 months to go!" she says, "i think i need a year to get over my man". i spend $100 every time we hang out, which is practically everyday. n then when i say, "i dont think i should be doing what the boyfriend should be doing (spending all this fucking money on you) since we just friends" she says, "but i'ma girl." =\ LMAO FML at least i got her to kiss me on the neck once! =( <-----pathetic

[bboyCircus1]

@talon115 I understand what you mean but how the world works is we are attracted to certain traits in people and those "nice" guys alot of the time are not attractive just how guys would take a supermodel looking girl over a fat but "nice" girl. She might have a awesome personality but if there is no attraction it just does not matter.

[marleyman0]

lol that was SO awkward wen he said girls dont know wot they want lol!!

[gotmewrong123]

but its true

[marleyman0]

lol yeah, but if you tell them that they dont know wot to do either lol

[KennyASmith]

holy fuck

..... wow I need to try this

[3erteen]

yes, it hurts when it doesn't go the way you want it. But is definitely for the best.

[therater2008]

Well myself I'm in that position I'll move on it's just frustration thing but the friend thing is b.s.. It's either they hook up nor not.

[irishraver2009]

just whip it out mate!..no more friends then!

[NewtonsStudent]

@irishraver2009 best advice I've heard yet.

[jazzman1930]

fake bitch wants to waste all your time and go fuck some tattoo loser.

[tunegzy1]

heck yea, nice comment tho

[Jackbear1]

6:49 Hilarious!!! "Girls, They just don't know what they want."

[fowler24]

Brilliant advice i'm really glad i found this video. Thanks

[gabrieldutch]

AWESOMEEEEEE :-)).. thanx guys," ill use this for sure in the future