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  • Idk how this helps meee

  • Stupid video and this lady doesn't know what she is talking about.

    Guys never take relationship advice on women from women.

    They think when I say, "I want a girlfriend." that it means

    "I want a platonic relationship." Her husband is probably ugly as fuck or she is single because no good looking guy will be friends with a girl for longer than a month as he would have already found a girlfriend.

  • And what if your the quiet shy kind of guy who doesnt know how to start a conversations with girls any advice?

  • Listen mate you've become such good mates with this girl your talking about till a point where that's all she can ever be. You've gotta be just an average MATE to get to the next stage nothing more

  • Me and this girl have been friends for years but I like her so much I'm sad she doesn't know and she has a boyfriend fuck him

  • Shotosboring1stpick the answer to your question resides in patience and much like in any business people are always looking for the better deal, wait till she brings te guy up and nuetrally listen and respond, after you know what he's not doing step in and be the man that does

  • I agree with this to a point, but as many others have noticed this is a rather "pussy" approach. One cannot beat around the bush, be yourself and have a life outside the girl and have confiedence that regardless of the out come you have walking power. Yes, you have to feel your way around a bit, but hell if a woman talks to you it does not necessarily mean she wants to get with you. Sun Tzo the Author of the Art of War, encourages Speed as the key to victory, "Time to Nut up or Shut up"

  • So what happens when the girl has a bf?

  • cuz she follows me now! its creepy.

  • thanks! she made it extremely unconformable now...

  • @ericdisney1 dude I'm in college too just ask her out say hey I really wanna get to know you better wanna hang out you know something like that

  • i dont have months to find out if she likes me each semestre in college is like 4 months. 2 months is saying hi and bye.

  • she moves her hands alot, i mean check out her other vids

  • Shitty advice.. two words. FRIEND ZONE

  • @pingpongHD lool

  • Your the best finally

  • This is good advice

  • This is perfect if you're still in High School otherwise plan to be single most of your life waiting to get the PERFECT Vibes.

    You can have attraction and close with a number in less time than it takes to butter a piece of toast. Need to believe? Check out Simple Pick-Up here on you tube.

  • Best advice in the world

  • Ok I need help. So theres this girl I like and she has a bf but theyve been fighting.. Nd ive talked to her the whole day sat.sun nd today. I asked her to the movies n she said yea. Nd on facebook she put "so theres this guy :) 3" I think she kinda like me?? Also im playing it real slow n smooth. Wat should I do??

  • i need weed.. right now

  • Thanks!

  • This woman Marie Dubuque, is SO INCREDIBLY WRONG! Being friends with a woman for a long time will usually get you dumped in the "Forever Friend" class & she'd never consider you as a boyfriend. Beware of this woman.

  • @jarvila2 I've gotten out of the friend zone. Fucked the bitch for a long time and then broke up with her cause she was a maniac. Good stuff.

    All you have to do is ignore them.

  • a girl i REALLY liked, showed alot of what she said and i was friends for half a year i finially confessed but got rejected but she still whated to to be firends. what does this even mean!!!

  • i hate games especially if u also like him.. waiting to long can be bad, bc u just grow tired eventually and enter the friend zone ...

  • How am I here? When, where, who? I need help, I'm lost...

  • its nice to see that many people believe in the Utopian love and chat about it.

  • Ooooh it's so much fun to play and the longer it takes, the more joy you can harvest out of it. The best game ever if you ask me. Forget all the video games.

  • MONTHS?? hell no

  • What happened to the days when men could truly romance a woman? Now it's all a big psychological mindfuck.

  • So I'm not sure if I like this girl at school, for her looks or for herself. But I notice sometimes she smiles if I say something funny and whatnot. But it also seems that she is sort of oblivious that I'm around her, and I try to make it seem that way as well. I'm not sure what kind of move to make on her for that matter, and when we talk we can be awkward at times, but it feels like we have a connection somehow. Idk if i should ask for her # or if that is too strong of an approach. Help me?

  • The first half of this video sounds pretty good but then it takes a turn. I’m sure most females would absolutely agree with this video. After all, what girl wouldn’t like several months or more of carefree, exclusive attention – and not to worry about dumping things on a whim or after finding someone else. On the other hand, I think it maybe can work sometimes – I only say “maybe”?

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  • Long and friendly, semi-courtships are fine and dandy but you could lose them, or they could lose you, during that period to someone else. It's not a practical stradegy unless, maybe, you keep your options completely open along the way (i.e. keep looking around since things may not go anywhere anyway).

  • This is how you get friendzoned !!

  • Yep, because im going to always listen to a old hagg who is older that Jesus!

  • i know when a girl likes me because she look at me when im no watching at her and my friends tell me. PERIOD.

  • Two words: Friend. Zone.

  • @RBVTBONE No such thing. Ross and Rachel were in the friends zone for 9 years...and then BAM! he was her lobster.

  • @Couscous677 oh great.. I'll be 31

  • @RBVTBONE lol you just have to be a little more persistent than Ross I guess as long as you don't go overboard.

  • "And this is my advice. And i think its the best advice."

  • Awesome job i picked up 2 girls just now from this vidoe (lol)

  • There is a boy who I don't like, but he always bothers me cause he likes me. What do I do?

  • thissi actually so true! (girl btw duh :L)

  • so what if i already make that mistake of giving her my undivided attention?...and we just became friends for a month :/ what do i do?

  • For any doubters, this is the best advice you'll probably find on youtube. I knpw from experience. Of course, this applies to pursuing a serious, lifelong relationship, not a short-lived sex life.

  • I absolutely PITY any guy that follows the advice in this video. He wont get laid, he'll just become more frustrated and depressed as he sinks further and further into the 'nice guy' Plutonic zone. Dreadful advice, its just soooo bad.

  • Hi umm today in class we watched a movie and in the movie they got married and when that was happening she was staring at me then when i looked she quickly turned away does that mean anything??

  • Ask me Dr. Dreck

  • This woman knows what she is talking about .

  • wrong if you be her friend youll get dumped in teh friend zone your wrong

  • guys this is the only way your gonna know if she likes you

    if u got money or status

    peace

  • I'm pretty sure no one in my class likes me :( I am literally going to be alone with out a wife

  • I'm in highschool

  • What are we in middle school

  • I like his girl but dunno she like me she leans on me and pretends we r going out and I dunno any advise

  • I like one girl from my school and the problem is if she likes me or not.she helps me a lot .I'm just confused.

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  • Hey I got my dream date by just giving her high fives we stare at eachother it's really sexy just listen to her answer questions it's ok. There's other fish in the sea. :)

  • "be friends first"

    .... really? Do you honestly think this works? Are you kidding me?

  • force her to suck your cock

  • I'm in 8th grade and I think this girl is amazing. My friends were telling me she's really mean but when she talks to me she's not. But I'm not the only guy she's nice too. And as you said in you other vids not to be second banana, what do I do?

  • Wow that was horrible

  • i wish more men took this advice

  • Treat em like shit!!!!, if they don't like you, no harm done. If they like you they'll try harder!

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  • I always try once!

    Me: Hi there Do you want to Dance!

    Her:NO!

    Me:Sorry, I think you misheard me...I said go home You one ugly Bitch!

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  • Viewer Request: Take your top off!

  • If you are suggesting that someone play childish games then you are a vacuous idiot who has no businesss making an advice video.

  • 15 people did not get the girl

  • Sounds like too much of a GAME to me!

    Why all the games & mysteries???

    Females play too damn much, PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Lilart1981 Mystery is beautiful.I personally find men AND WOMEN who disclose too much information too soon too be too weak to handle the complications of a relationship.I always wonder if I could trust this person with my info if they don't protect theirs.Both men and women need to exercise caution when getting to know each other.Guys who are stalkerish will embarrass girls by telling everyone that she is his girlfriend RIGHT AWAY when nothing has developed between them.Being realistic is best.

  • @Lilart1981 get used to it

  • @Lilart1981 hahahahah

  • ATTENTION GUYS!!!! no girrl wants this ya maybe a lttle hard to get but not months!!!! And we DO like it wen guys r all over us it makes us feel hot!!!!!

  • @thechelsealovescody LOLLL that all depends on the girl and how she interprets what is happening. Personally, if a guy is all over me right away i give it a little time like a few months as she is saying to see if he is still all over me.Because for all you know, he is all over you NOW because he wants you NOW ASAP.That is not genuine interest. You need to see how his attention shifts within a few months' time. A man that has self-respect is worthy of respect and his respect is more genuine.

  • works for mee tnh :)

  • Thanks because Im invthe progress of thiss an she an I are really close friends bow hope we could be more then friends

  • You can wait, but be sure you make sure she knows you're interested in her sexually, or she may think of you as just a friend.

  • ackarfan2000--Try talking to her a little more than you normally do and see how she responds. If she tends to look around the room and not at you, or if someone else grabs her attention when you're talking, then no, she is not interested. But if she seems to give you her undivided attention and she texts you back right away and asks you a question to keep the conversation going, then, yes, she probably likes you!

  • @mariedubuque what if you know for sure a girl fancies (i asked her friend to find out) you but another guy fancies her and he flirts with her. mariedubque please help!!

  • here's the deal, there's this girl i really like and we've been friends for almost all our lives. we used to talk all the time but then i had to go to a different secondary school as her. i still see her because our families are close. but lately we haven't been talking as much and i don't know whether she likes me the same way. what should i do?

  • @ackarfan2000 This happened to me too. I am girl by the way. Actually, i liked this guy when i was in my early teens but his attention drifted away. A few years down the road when our families got together he started expressing interest and sadly, I had to turn him down because the feeling had long died.

  • What if a girl touches my **** while we're studying together? Does she like me?

  • i've used this strategy before but i always end up in the friend zone -_-

  • profireman--She wants to have an "in" with your dad to get closer to you! That's what I think, anyway.

  • i just have to ask this 1 more question. a couple of days ago my folks got asked by her parents to join them for dinner along w/some other ppl 'i was out of town'. when they got thier she sat at one end &my folks at the other end of the table. my dad said, she started to scoot closer to him, until this other girl came & sat next to him. & when that happened she told that girl to trade her seats & she sat next to my dad. whats your thoughts on that, again thanks alot!

  • I agree except for the "couple months" thing.

  • I don't know about the friends for a long time. Sure it might work here and there but you run the risk of "friend zone." And she's off dating or marrying someone else:( I agree friendship should be a foundation but for me personally it doesn't matter, I always get the "i just want to be friends" bs line. I have enough female friends, I want a damn GF!!!

  • @rowsdower12 LOL RITE A ''DAMN'' GF

  • profireman--Yes, I think it went really well. She obviously likes you or would not be asking you all those questions. Next time, try reversing the role. You ask about her, and really try to get to know her.

  • ok, so i tried to talk to a girl i wanted to know, finally got to talk to her, but she was the one asking the questions,where i work, where i go to school, where's my church, how long iv been thier and so on. and as we talked she seemed to be a little shy/nervous. I would think it went well, whats your take on it.

  • tits or GTFO

  • Wait, never mind my last question,

    But, how do I kiss her?

  • What if I like her and people keep saying she likes me, what do I do?

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  • halboroks100--Just give it time. She will break up with him!

  • Wel the girl always hugs me and says hi and is always textin me. And cares bout me and i reely like her but shes got a boyfrend wat do i do help

  • @haloroks100 if she already has a boyfriend you should back off, people get killed over that shit! just be friends and see what the future holds.

  • It's good to know if she's ready for a relationship because like a year ago i was talking talking to this girl I know she's the cutest girl you will ever see but she didn't have a boyfriend and I liked her but I think I went to fast if I didn't rush things I would have had her and before we used to talk to eachother but now we barely say hi in the hallways ughh .. You meet new people and learn from your mistakes :(

  • Trunkspow--Only if you are pretty certain that she likes you. Otherwise it might be weird and awkward when you see her again.

  • hey marieddubuque

    I would be grateful if you could give me some advice on this: Even if i don't know if she likes me back, shouldn't i open myself to her and tell her how i feel? I find it really hard to take it slowly as you say. And i don't want/can't play hard to get at all.

    I want to be straightforward with women. Do i have any chance with this behaviour?

  • Just some advice for some of the guys, some girls are more bold than others and they make it plainly obvious. ;)

    If you like a girl, take it slow, if she likes you you'll know. Become friends, maybe after a while invite her over to your house, talk to her for a bit, give her a hug goodbye. If she hugs you, it means she trusts you, just DON'T grab her ass *sigh* . Make sure to get along with HER friends as well, it's no good if you like her and then be a douche to her mates.

    X) Just my two cents.

  • You're too old to do this shit. I apologize.

  • people with heart and with knowledge to understand the imperfections of others, just let it be and nothing else.

    There are many people outside, but only one should be the right for you.

    With all the respect Madam, my greetings!

  • Uhh! I see. Look Madame, I am sorry but not all women are the same, and I think you scare me when you talk in that way.

    I think with all due respect Madam, but when each person feels something special for another, one should let things happen and be oneself. I respect your video, and I am sorry, very sorry for my english but I think a man should heed his lucidity and common sense rather than their fears and doubts…This world is a place of two, and both men and women should be people...

  • "be friends with her for a really long time, i'm talking months." Alternatively, be rich, good looking, or a douche bag, and demand her undivided attention.

  • Thetenso--Ask her point blank, how long she is going to hold a grudge, because you feel bad about it and you want to move past this. See what she says.

  • what happens if you like a girl and she hates me for something stupid I did a year ago. I apologized and she still hates me, I haven't even told her I like her.

  • Eatmydust--I think she likes you!

    MsHENTAL--It's too soon to tell ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend. In fact, you never need to do that. You will know. So, try to spend more time with her and see how she responds.

  • @mariedubuque gee thanks finally some real advice really apreciate i will keep sending updates of how this goes :)

  • but i have a question she tells me things that her friends dont know but im still not sure if she likes me and i dont want to ask her to be my girlfriend yet just in case i screw up our freindship well please tell me more ways thank you

  • thanks really thanks because of your tips im pretty sure she likes me. by the way..... im a guy and i have a wierd username because i did not think of another one well thank you ....

  • She waves at me and says hi to me a lot with a big and flirty smile. Im wonderin if she likes me?please and thank you

  • Ok well there is a girl ive kinda just sorta met and well im going to a track meet and were all on a bus. Well after a while she calls my name,i turn around and she gives me an air kiss,i was like ok that was odd and she says my name again and she gives me another air kiss she does this about 4 or 5 times she also kinda says flirty things to me and smiles;in addition

  • ur lame\

    

  • spoloon--Never lend anyone money! Trust me. If you don't do it the next time she asks you, you will know if she likes you for you, or just because you lend her money. Try not contacting her for a while, and see if she contacts you. Be friendly and polite, just let her initiate the conversation.

  • What does it mean if she ask for money ( and pays back),

    she also is always turned towards me but dosnt talk much because she is shy?

    I think she stares at me when i talk but i am not sure if she likes me or she is a good listener?

  • being friends for months? u be pissed if she sleeps with another guy and u find out. within 5 days if u arn't dating this chick or doing anything forget it.

  • im really confused with my sort of relationship, there is a girl that i like and she has said she likes me...we have got together at parties a few times and she texts me all day virtually everyday and calls me when drunk...so i was quite confident with it. I then asked her if she wanted to go out for a drink or something and she said it was too soon, and she "doesnt know" and is "confused" and at parties when drunk she tells me she doesnt like me and apologises the next day. Am i being used?

  • some times girls like when guys make first moves.also they move on and just give up if the guy takes to long.

  • @horselover408 guys like me move on quick too because i might have to put in alot of "Werk" in order to win her over...like calling, texting, giving compliments, trying to act nice..

  • that was really helpful that might work with the girl i like since i bearly got to know her today

  • MarieDubuque--I've know this one girl a long time and i know for sure she likes me. If i am interested in another girl should I get to know her better or will this make the first girl jelouse and angry?

  • Shut up grandma!!! All the older people planted in the young people is insecurity, doubt, and fear!! If her body language shows it but her mouth denies it, she is just lying to herself. All those gibberish about a man walking after sex is just another excuse to run the girl game! Sex was all that man wanted! A man will stay with you irrespective of the time you let him in if he genuinely loves you! So, listen to his body language not his mouth. His body talk will tell if sex is all he wants!!!

  • Can someone help me I love this girl, not like-love. My talents are card tricks being funny can sing good soccer goalie and I make tons of girls laugh but I love a girl named Franni and don't know how to approach her, I'm crazy about her. Please help I'm desperate. Please someone HELP=o

  • wat if im ugly nd i always say thats wat she said

  • Can somebody please ask mariedubuque if she has a boyfriend? But make sure it doesn't get back to her that I asked.

  • 24voldemort--You need to break up with this girl and start talking more to Bridget. It's not fair to the girl you are dating if you really don't like her anymore.

  • There's a girl in my Class bridget and were friends but I like her but I'm dating a girl but I don't really like her Plz help

  • im 13 and i like a girl from my church we txt a lot and we I.M. each other on facebook a lot but idk if she likes me the way i like her

  • 986401--She is a little embarrassed that she told you she likes you, so know she doesn't know what to say when she sees you. So I would act completely normal and natural around her, just as if nothing happened, and nothing was said. Soon, she will be back to her old self.

  • what about this... she shows all kinds of signs for like 2 weeks, then i text her and she says she likes me alot and i respond with the same thing and she doesn't text me try to contact me again after that. i did try to contact her once since then but still nothing. its been about a week since that. i cant make sense of this lol.

  • @Tyyou9 your not the only one I got the same problem =/

  • i will never get a girl...noone likes me,im not bad or something.and theres a girl that i like,but i dont know if she likes me...im going to leave my life alone=(

  • @tyyou9 same man i like a girl and idk if shes even into me lol she stares blankly at me

  • HEIGHTSIXFIVE--Don't say that! You will find a girl who is willing to take the time to get to know you. Some people are more complicated than others.

  • I am a deep well of mystery. Girls can see it when they look at me, and it seems to normally scare them off. I'm also generally a horrible conversation starter. I don't have much appeal, I guess. : s

  • that would put you in the friend zone and how is that good?

  • I do not agree with you on the "being friends part" I met my current girlfriend 2 months before we started dating. It's still going like crazy and every time we see each other the relationship grows.

  • sdurgefafd--Just pretend that she doesn't know. Act completely normal, then it will be no big deal. And you can talk just like you used to.

  • what if she knows that i like her??? please help :( I mean my best friend knows i like her but she does not avoid me or anything...

  • okay this is how I do it: be friends for a while, then act all embarrsed when you tell her you like her. tell her what she wants to hear, and be really nice! you have to be really sweet on the fone and kinda quiet person to person, and there you go!

  • what if i take it too slowly, and she moves on to another man ???

  • @shuz90 Go faster o-o

  • MarvelousMeeks--The "high five" sealed the deal for you. She likes you! Her friends wouldn't have done that if she didn't think you were cute. So next time, find her, give her your name and start texting her or something.

  • i saw a girl at my track meet who i think is cute. i dont know if she feels the same way though. when she was about to run i said do good in front of her friends. when i went back to my friends i saw them looking for me and giving her a sort of a high five. i made small talk about what we run. she gave me her name but i never gave her mine. im not sure if shes intrested in me though

  • i feel so sad...all the ones I met have great personality but they r all kinda ugly for my taste..

  • @Alxphat shallow!

  • What a great comment!

  • Young women are concerend with themselves. Older women are concerened with you. The most attractive woman is the one who tries, like you.

  • Months?

    4 weeks if not than hit the road

    Don't waiste ur time

    4 weeks friendship

    I got a girl in HS

    Quick