i've seen SO many christian couples rush into marriage just b/c NOT having sex was negatively affecting their relationship....and now they are miserable and not happy with their decision, but they think divorce is wrong too, so they're shit outta luck. like if you agree.
I think you really should wait until marriage. I personally will not have sex before marriage because I think the purpose of having sex is to have children.
I've never had sex before, but I definitely think it's fine to have premarital sex. After all, wouldn't you want to at least have some experience before actually having sex with the person who you want to spend the rest of your life with?
omg that guy with that Mexican hat i think it was not sure was so creepy lol .... i am 20 years old and will never kiss or have sex till i get married even though i have close friends who r teen moms most of all i don't wanna go through what they're going through .. my guy friends think i'm crazy
the evolutionary purpose of sexual activity is reproduction, not relationships. It's actually a pretty healthy thing to be having sex all the time, and it's good exercise too. You don't need to be married to have sex, i'm sorry. But I think if you people are saving yourselves, you're doing the complete opposite. You're missing out.It has been shown that sexual activity plays a large part in the interaction of social species.
I can't say I'm against it because I've done it, but I don't like that now days..practically very one who dates, regardless of length I time has sex. Takes the special out of it. Personally, I'd wait for a certain length of time to know if that person was worth it.
As far as I'm concerned, becoming married serves as an arbitrary boundary for it to become (morally/socially) permissable for two people to make love. Sex cannot have an actual boundary because people can pass that boundary without being ready to have it with someone and vice versa.
It takes a level of personal maturity, I think, to know when you're ready to make that kind of personal connection with someone. And it's meant to be vague because it'd be the same as waiting to marry if it weren't.
I think people who have had sex with lots of people when they finally get serious with someone I think they'll have more problems when they get married... the other half/spouse will always be thinking where did you get those 'techniques' in bed from? and all sorts of thoughts that could ruin your relationship... plus I don't wanna be a cesspool like those other women out there I wanna be different from all those other girls and people you see in the media and TV shows and dramas.
I think you should have sex after 18. But just if you have the rigth person. Sex is good but if you do it with protection and not with a lot of people. Sex before marriage is important, Because what if they feel good together offbed but inbed they dont.Cause lets be honest, everybody love to have sex. and if the relationship in bed is not good. I dont think it would be good off bed.
I feel like this video didn't cover the subject well... and the people who were interviewed were awful at answering the question... I have to give this a thumbs down, sorry guys. This is a pretty serious moral that people nowadays throw out the window... Mom's View, please don't be hesitant to express your views, religious or not, on this subject matter next time... I have a feeling you are against matters involving sex before marriage.
While I can agree that they didn't choose people well, I can respect their ability to not force the conversations into a debate and I think that is truly a lost talent: the ability to be neutral while asking someone something that is personal and/or controversial.
I lost my virginity when I was 16 (I'm 19 now). Biggest mistake. I regret it still. It was really hard for me after too just because all my boyfriend wanted after we first did it was sex. Life in general went downhill for me after that, but I mean I learned from my experience and if my friends ever ask if they should or not I advise them not to before they're married. But in the end it's their choice, I'll be there for them either way. :P
I think it should be after marriage, because I feel that it is something special to be the only person to have been with your significant other in that way. Though I try not to judge people who do it before, however they need to remember that there are risks, and these ricks increase the more people you become intimate with. Things like pregnancy and STD's, though there is ways to try, to protect us from stuff like that, these methods are never 100%
Virginity is a gift you give away, not something someone can take. If you've had sex before marriage and felt like your virginity was taken, you still have it. It's YOURS to give away, NO ONE can take that from you.
Sex is awesome, don't get me wrong I support people who wait but imo if you genuinely care about someone and you are at that stage to where you want to take it to the next level then go for it. There is nothing wrong with having sex before marriage, as long as you are doing it safely and you know the consequences that can come from it.
I am 15 and have a purity ring. It says True Love Waits on it. Basically meaning that if a guy/girl really does love you then they should respect you enough to wait until marriage :) my boyfriend respects me completely for it :)
In my mind, sex is a sacred thing meant for two people who are married. I know it's not everyone's opinion, and yes, I am a Christian, but I think that saving yourself for marriage earns you a lot of respect. You are worth much more to any guy(or girl) if you respect your body enough to wait. That is just my opinion.
@LillyGBeauty I second your opinion.. i don't know, but.. having premartial sex would make me feel like I was cheating on my future husband. Does that sound weird? Haha, anyway I'm waiting as well :))
@Staubstuermche Thats not weird at all! I know exactly what you mean. But I try not to make it about guilt and make it more about really wanting such a sacred thing to be for my husband..you know?
You should NOT wait until you are in love with someone before having sex with them. It'll hurt you twice as bad when you guys break up.
Women often say they want love FIRST so they won't get played or used. But if a guy is gonna use you, he will do it no matter WHEN you have sex. So suppose you fall for him, then have sex, then he dumps you because he "only wanted sex", NOW what? You feel stupid that you gave it up. But it's your fault for waiting.
i have been with my boyfriend since i just turned 15, i lost it at 16. now i am 18, engaged and couldn't be happier with my decision :) it all depends on the individual couple and their understanding of what making love means. i am christian and relaxed as i know 100% that i will marry my partner no matter what.
@maiyakisses I'm Christian, WAS engaged to the love of my life of 3 years, lost my virginity to him. Never been more in love and were the best of friends. But like a volcano that came out of no where, our relationship ended. Sex ruins relationships at times, ESPECIALLY if you think that is what will keep you two together. I never thought I'd lose him. Before you learn the hard way like I did, please know that before he says I do and signs those papers, he will leave anytime he feels he could.
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I think the first thing you should think about is if YOU are ready. That's most important according to me. And if you trust this person enough to know that he or she isn't going to use you, it's a bonus. Another thing (yet again, my opinion) is that a marriage can't work out with losy sex (sex=happiness). So as one of the chicks say in the vid, you have to take the car for a testdrive before you buy it :)
I'm 16 and i've been dating my first real boyfriend for 16 months. we waited 7 days to have our first kiss and 7 months to lose our virginities to each other. we're in love, what can i say. i'm a christian but i'm a sinner too.
@iDoiStuff Sure you can. I admit, some teenagers say "I love you" too soon and don't mean it. We also often confuse the word "love" with "liking", BUT that doesn't mean you CAN'T be in love.
"one of the typical girls"... Wtf, man. wtf. Saying that is worse than telling your girlfriend she's fat.
not to be bitchin about anything but, marriage is bullshit. We humans are the only mammals on this planet who go against nature. Somehow some of us think were godsend, and should be doing stuff some idiot wrote over 2000 years ago. dont get me wrong, i kinda respect what other people think and do, but i dont agree. its all madeup, so churches back then could control all the deceases and whores and guys fucking around. not bad, but it goes against nature. people, just think for yourself once.
I really do respect anyone in a relationship that can hold off having sex until they are absolutely sure it's the right moment, whether that be after a few months of dating or until marriage. I feel like many times people just rush into sex because they get...bored. Like, you get over the initial getting to know the person/flirting stage, and then it's like "What now?" So i think it's a really testament to how strong a relationship is if the couple can hold off until they both feel comfortable.
If you decide to have sex before marriage you need to be mature, safe, emotionally ready, and it really means something if you are in love. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and I'm glad I waited until I found him.
I'm 17, obviously not married, but I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. I lost my virginity to him. I hate that people think that just because we're young means we can't love. We are completely head over heels in love with each other, and everyone knows it and can tell. We don't call it sex, we call it making love, and we can't wait until it turns into making a family after we marry :) Even my parents know we were made for each other so please don't reply to me just to argue...<3
@JennaLL That's like saying "let me voice my opinion, but I don't want to hear yours."
My fiancee and I are still waiting. We haven't had penetrating sex yet. It's honestly fine to wait. It makes it better. Since we're engaged I guess we Could do it, but we both want to wait. I guess sometimes people just can't help it. good luck.
For me i just don't feel comfortable having sex unless a guy is 100% sure he wants to be with me like id have sex with him even if were still boyfriend and girlfriend but as long as he doesn't lie and is loyal to me and wants to stay that way and i know he truly loves me for who i am then yeh i'm all up for it, just not too much though lol, guys these days get too pushy and i don't like it at all.
For me, I'm definitely waiting until I'm married. Sex is supposed to be when you are committed and truly in love with your partner. The only way you know that for sure is if you're married. If anyone replies to this, I'm not looking for an argument, to each their own(:
I am not against and I do not judge people who decide to wait until marriage.
But for me, I think that sex is such a big part of the relationship and you have to experience it before you tie yourself to that person forever. It also makes you closer in a way.
@Staubstuermchen you probably heard it before, but is he gay? guys never want to wait, the moment they see you they want to fuck you, like one month maybe, 3 months unlikely, after that hes having someone on the side ;). So it wouldnt be improbable hes fucking someone else right now. just sayin ;).
@Staubstuermchen LOL! you are so right! Virginity is like seeing a unicorn or a fairy! I know I am waiting but I admit it's hard because I have pressure from my friends and female cousins. And it's always the same questions. "Are you still a virgin? Why are you still a virgin? Don't you like guys? " And because I am 19 they think it's time that I do it. Someone even said one time "Just find someone and do it!" But I'm not giving it to just anyone.
People can do what they want. It's better to try and know if it's going to work or not. Personally, I would never have casual sex. I'll only have sex with them in a committed relationship.
There is nothing wrong with sex before marriage, as long as there is love involved, and even then, if two people both want to have it, they're going to do it anyway. I have my believes and I'm somwhat religious but people have to realise that marriage is just a thing made up by humans. I know what the bible says but people, that book is out-dated and no longer ment for our time, use the wisdom in it, but don't project every single sentence into this day and age. It won't work.
I think people should do what they think is right for themselves, BUT people should take it more seriously and not just "OH MY GOSH LETS HAVE SEX WOOHOO IT'S COOL!!"
*Needs Money for a Penis Reduction* "Im just tired of being made fun of cuase im so Big !!"
Ok seriously.. You need money for Drugs cause NO girl would make fun of you unless they wanted you... and a man would make fun of you because he is Jealose !!
Sex has a different emotional effect on females than males. Oxytocin is a hormone released that attaches a mom to her child. It's the same hormone that is released when a women also has sex.
I don't believe there is a right or wrong thing to do..for me, I want to wait. For other people, that might not be the right choice. I think people should do what they want and what they think is right, and have fun doing it.
Everyone is different. Personally, I've always thought I would wait until after marriage but recently that thought has changed. I now feel that, although marriage = commitment it can also be viewed just as a piece of paper showing your commitment to society. Without being married, one can be just as committed and one should have sex when they feel ready wether that be after engagement, marriage or even just going steady for x number of years.
marriage first. If you save it for the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with, you're showing them that you believe they are worth saving it for
Many people who don't believe in sex before marriage often end up rushing into a marriage just to get laid. The realization that they don't even love the person they're married to hits soon and they get divorced.
I think having sex with someone you don't love makes it wayyy less meaningful than with someone you ARE in love with. And by the time you do find someone to be in love with, it isn't as special. You don't necessarily have to wait until marriage, but one night stands and friends with benefits are iffy.
Well I'm almost 21 and I'm very happy with my choice to wait til AFTER MARRIAGE!!! wooooohooooooo BD glad I didn't lose my virginity with the any of the losers I've met.
Don't you think the "test drive it first" is a little selfish? It says that if YOU'RE not good enough for ME, then our relationship won't work. We're human's not cars. Wouldn't you rather have relationship where you love your partner by putting THEM before YOURSELF? Relationships where people have sex before marriage can and do work, I'm not stupid, but I would rather take a less selfish approach to something so important! PTL
I had sex before marriage. i was engaged to him in highschool, but he broke up with me. So many years later, my now husband and I, did end up having sex before we were married, and got pregnant the first time. As soon as we found out, we went ahead and got hitched. Wished I would have waited though!
@williyumvitin hyperbolic stances on issues is what happened, no one is allowed to occupy the gray area anymore, your either on one side or the other.
Sex is definitely an important part in a romantic relationship, whether it's a marriage or not. Just do it when you're ready, but don't let marriage be the only factor holding you out from having sex with someone you're in love with.
That girl said it perfectly "When you buy a car, don't you test drive it first?" I think sex is important in any relationship and I can't imagine marrying someone without having first shared that experience.
ideally yes, sex before marriage...However, i think if you really love that person then yes. If you are going to marry that person yes or just be with them in the long run if marriage is not for you. I just dont believe in casual flings and one night stands.
@doyouwannacookiee im gay and live in the US..well a part of the US where marriage is defined as between a man and women...and civil unions and domestic partnerships are condemned.
@crystalownsyou really? I live in the us too, and i totally forgot about that which is ironic because I just finished writing my essay on why homosexual marriages should be legal :)
i've seen SO many christian couples rush into marriage just b/c NOT having sex was negatively affecting their relationship....and now they are miserable and not happy with their decision, but they think divorce is wrong too, so they're shit outta luck. like if you agree.
breann092589 2 days ago 4
Penis Reduction!(:
Akaiex 1 week ago
@Akaiex lol
Spwnagex 6 days ago
I love how the approach any topic!
heyitskate08 1 week ago
i love how they got one person with an english accent. c'mon people Europeans know how to do this no mumbo christian crap.
soarfree402 1 week ago
I think you really should wait until marriage. I personally will not have sex before marriage because I think the purpose of having sex is to have children.
ItsDeweyTheCat 1 week ago
Sex is amazing, live your life my your own rules, not somebody elses.
clareisphit 1 week ago 2
I dont think respecting your body means not having sex before your married. It just has nothing to do with it. If you feel ready just go for it:)
LouNalim 2 weeks ago
I've never had sex before, but I definitely think it's fine to have premarital sex. After all, wouldn't you want to at least have some experience before actually having sex with the person who you want to spend the rest of your life with?
BigBen9719 2 weeks ago
Pre-marital relations are a little taboo.
riyyc1 2 weeks ago in playlist HeyKayli's Favorites
omg that guy with that Mexican hat i think it was not sure was so creepy lol .... i am 20 years old and will never kiss or have sex till i get married even though i have close friends who r teen moms most of all i don't wanna go through what they're going through .. my guy friends think i'm crazy
kelly101433 2 weeks ago in playlist More videos from TheMomsView 4
the evolutionary purpose of sexual activity is reproduction, not relationships. It's actually a pretty healthy thing to be having sex all the time, and it's good exercise too. You don't need to be married to have sex, i'm sorry. But I think if you people are saving yourselves, you're doing the complete opposite. You're missing out.It has been shown that sexual activity plays a large part in the interaction of social species.
latexprimus 2 weeks ago
i dont think you have to wait till marridge, i think its stupid, its natrual to do and makes people happy, just dont do it with anyone.
zekiraka 2 weeks ago
I can't say I'm against it because I've done it, but I don't like that now days..practically very one who dates, regardless of length I time has sex. Takes the special out of it. Personally, I'd wait for a certain length of time to know if that person was worth it.
SamanthaAshleigh91 2 weeks ago
Just wait for the right person. It doesn't really matter if you're married, just make sure you're special to them. You don't want to regret it.
pinkxvenom 2 weeks ago 10
As far as I'm concerned, becoming married serves as an arbitrary boundary for it to become (morally/socially) permissable for two people to make love. Sex cannot have an actual boundary because people can pass that boundary without being ready to have it with someone and vice versa.
It takes a level of personal maturity, I think, to know when you're ready to make that kind of personal connection with someone. And it's meant to be vague because it'd be the same as waiting to marry if it weren't.
N0tsaved 2 weeks ago
OMGosh you two crack me up!!!!
QueenuhCuisine 3 weeks ago
I think people who have had sex with lots of people when they finally get serious with someone I think they'll have more problems when they get married... the other half/spouse will always be thinking where did you get those 'techniques' in bed from? and all sorts of thoughts that could ruin your relationship... plus I don't wanna be a cesspool like those other women out there I wanna be different from all those other girls and people you see in the media and TV shows and dramas.
abigailjanet 3 weeks ago
I think you should have sex after 18. But just if you have the rigth person. Sex is good but if you do it with protection and not with a lot of people. Sex before marriage is important, Because what if they feel good together offbed but inbed they dont.Cause lets be honest, everybody love to have sex. and if the relationship in bed is not good. I dont think it would be good off bed.
brigittejapaven 3 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
I feel like this video didn't cover the subject well... and the people who were interviewed were awful at answering the question... I have to give this a thumbs down, sorry guys. This is a pretty serious moral that people nowadays throw out the window... Mom's View, please don't be hesitant to express your views, religious or not, on this subject matter next time... I have a feeling you are against matters involving sex before marriage.
TheVioletAbyss 3 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@TheVioletAbyss i agree! was surprised at the lackadaisical approach. Love love love the moms view...but this one was a fail for me.
RaandJ2002 3 weeks ago
@TheVioletAbyss
While I can agree that they didn't choose people well, I can respect their ability to not force the conversations into a debate and I think that is truly a lost talent: the ability to be neutral while asking someone something that is personal and/or controversial.
N0tsaved 2 weeks ago
i'm a 21 1/2 year old virgin! Take THAT you prepubescent whores! Just kidding, I love you guys. ^_^
KizzyBee23 3 weeks ago 9
I lost my virginity at 9 not my choice, but it has happened
MsSecretme101 3 weeks ago
I lost my virginity when I was 16 (I'm 19 now). Biggest mistake. I regret it still. It was really hard for me after too just because all my boyfriend wanted after we first did it was sex. Life in general went downhill for me after that, but I mean I learned from my experience and if my friends ever ask if they should or not I advise them not to before they're married. But in the end it's their choice, I'll be there for them either way. :P
21thereshegoes 3 weeks ago
Sex is natural.
Marriage isn't natural, it's just a man-made creation.
So why would marriage be telling me when and when not to have sex?
MaJoDo 3 weeks ago 2
I think it should be after marriage, because I feel that it is something special to be the only person to have been with your significant other in that way. Though I try not to judge people who do it before, however they need to remember that there are risks, and these ricks increase the more people you become intimate with. Things like pregnancy and STD's, though there is ways to try, to protect us from stuff like that, these methods are never 100%
decepticongirl101 3 weeks ago
"Sex is good, but don't fall in love"... Best advice possible.
Electronic91Videos 3 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
so beautiful...
urwetdreamz 4 weeks ago
I honestly dont think it's wrong...it's only wrong when you do it with so many people that mean nothing to you.
IHeartMusicAndSnow 4 weeks ago
Carlie = Kristin Wiig
musicjunkie4 4 weeks ago
Virginity is a gift you give away, not something someone can take. If you've had sex before marriage and felt like your virginity was taken, you still have it. It's YOURS to give away, NO ONE can take that from you.
MeCrazyTrisha22 4 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
they should have Kassem help them out because it seems they only get people who's english sucks haha
featherman9 4 weeks ago in playlist More videos from TheMomsView
Sex is awesome, don't get me wrong I support people who wait but imo if you genuinely care about someone and you are at that stage to where you want to take it to the next level then go for it. There is nothing wrong with having sex before marriage, as long as you are doing it safely and you know the consequences that can come from it.
pickledouche 4 weeks ago
I am 15 and have a purity ring. It says True Love Waits on it. Basically meaning that if a guy/girl really does love you then they should respect you enough to wait until marriage :) my boyfriend respects me completely for it :)
DaniLen597 1 month ago 5
@DaniLen597 You are awesome for doing that! I respect you and your opinion! That is what I am going to do too!
beadlesrcool 1 day ago
Im 19 and virgin :) im just not ready yet
johannelovesgossip 1 month ago 75
@johannelovesgossip Me too. I'm not expecting prince charming butI don't want a toad either...
callmema14 4 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
In my mind, sex is a sacred thing meant for two people who are married. I know it's not everyone's opinion, and yes, I am a Christian, but I think that saving yourself for marriage earns you a lot of respect. You are worth much more to any guy(or girl) if you respect your body enough to wait. That is just my opinion.
LillyGBeauty 1 month ago 65
@LillyGBeauty agreed...it's nice to see others who have the same view :)
karmaapolice 4 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@LillyGBeauty I second your opinion.. i don't know, but.. having premartial sex would make me feel like I was cheating on my future husband. Does that sound weird? Haha, anyway I'm waiting as well :))
Staubstuermchen 2 days ago
@Staubstuermche Thats not weird at all! I know exactly what you mean. But I try not to make it about guilt and make it more about really wanting such a sacred thing to be for my husband..you know?
LillyGBeauty 2 days ago
You should NOT wait until you are in love with someone before having sex with them. It'll hurt you twice as bad when you guys break up.
Women often say they want love FIRST so they won't get played or used. But if a guy is gonna use you, he will do it no matter WHEN you have sex. So suppose you fall for him, then have sex, then he dumps you because he "only wanted sex", NOW what? You feel stupid that you gave it up. But it's your fault for waiting.
Thumbs up to the girl at 1:17, by the way.
JayNJayShow 1 month ago
You can loose your virginity but you can never get it back when it's gone
SusieJC23 1 month ago 4
I'll be honest my husband and I were both virgins when we got married. It was really nice to know that I was the only woman he has ever been with.
mpmunk 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos 4
i have been with my boyfriend since i just turned 15, i lost it at 16. now i am 18, engaged and couldn't be happier with my decision :) it all depends on the individual couple and their understanding of what making love means. i am christian and relaxed as i know 100% that i will marry my partner no matter what.
maiyakisses 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@maiyakisses SAME besides the engagement thing!!!! x
13bexy13 1 month ago
@maiyakisses I'm Christian, WAS engaged to the love of my life of 3 years, lost my virginity to him. Never been more in love and were the best of friends. But like a volcano that came out of no where, our relationship ended. Sex ruins relationships at times, ESPECIALLY if you think that is what will keep you two together. I never thought I'd lose him. Before you learn the hard way like I did, please know that before he says I do and signs those papers, he will leave anytime he feels he could.
TheVioletAbyss 3 weeks ago
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Thederekperson123 1 month ago
1:38 Jesse From PvP, right ? :P
jonath102 1 month ago
I think the first thing you should think about is if YOU are ready. That's most important according to me. And if you trust this person enough to know that he or she isn't going to use you, it's a bonus. Another thing (yet again, my opinion) is that a marriage can't work out with losy sex (sex=happiness). So as one of the chicks say in the vid, you have to take the car for a testdrive before you buy it :)
Eliseskrevet 1 month ago in playlist Fler videoklipp från TheMomsView
I'm 16 and i've been dating my first real boyfriend for 16 months. we waited 7 days to have our first kiss and 7 months to lose our virginities to each other. we're in love, what can i say. i'm a christian but i'm a sinner too.
81salpal 1 month ago
@81salpal You can't be in love at 16.. You're just one of the typical girls.
iDoiStuff 1 month ago
@iDoiStuff Sure you can. I admit, some teenagers say "I love you" too soon and don't mean it. We also often confuse the word "love" with "liking", BUT that doesn't mean you CAN'T be in love.
"one of the typical girls"... Wtf, man. wtf. Saying that is worse than telling your girlfriend she's fat.
Eliseskrevet 1 month ago
not to be bitchin about anything but, marriage is bullshit. We humans are the only mammals on this planet who go against nature. Somehow some of us think were godsend, and should be doing stuff some idiot wrote over 2000 years ago. dont get me wrong, i kinda respect what other people think and do, but i dont agree. its all madeup, so churches back then could control all the deceases and whores and guys fucking around. not bad, but it goes against nature. people, just think for yourself once.
PeterStorm81 1 month ago
@PeterStorm81 LOL this peter kid is a fuckin idiot hahahahaha
81salpal 1 month ago
So that was pointless...
lazerbud 1 month ago
I really do respect anyone in a relationship that can hold off having sex until they are absolutely sure it's the right moment, whether that be after a few months of dating or until marriage. I feel like many times people just rush into sex because they get...bored. Like, you get over the initial getting to know the person/flirting stage, and then it's like "What now?" So i think it's a really testament to how strong a relationship is if the couple can hold off until they both feel comfortable.
BrucasIsBettaThanYou 1 month ago
It shouldn't be a religious decision. If you feel you're ready, and are with someone you're in love with... GO AHEAD!! :D
SexyLamber 1 month ago
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If you decide to have sex before marriage you need to be mature, safe, emotionally ready, and it really means something if you are in love. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and I'm glad I waited until I found him.
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lostinthemission 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
I'm 17, obviously not married, but I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. I lost my virginity to him. I hate that people think that just because we're young means we can't love. We are completely head over heels in love with each other, and everyone knows it and can tell. We don't call it sex, we call it making love, and we can't wait until it turns into making a family after we marry :) Even my parents know we were made for each other so please don't reply to me just to argue...<3
JennaLL 1 month ago in playlist More videos from TheMomsView
@JennaLL That's like saying "let me voice my opinion, but I don't want to hear yours."
My fiancee and I are still waiting. We haven't had penetrating sex yet. It's honestly fine to wait. It makes it better. Since we're engaged I guess we Could do it, but we both want to wait. I guess sometimes people just can't help it. good luck.
Nrt2Pnt0 1 month ago
For me i just don't feel comfortable having sex unless a guy is 100% sure he wants to be with me like id have sex with him even if were still boyfriend and girlfriend but as long as he doesn't lie and is loyal to me and wants to stay that way and i know he truly loves me for who i am then yeh i'm all up for it, just not too much though lol, guys these days get too pushy and i don't like it at all.
emmabee11 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
drop the junk BAM BAMMM
mblabezza 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
For me, I'm definitely waiting until I'm married. Sex is supposed to be when you are committed and truly in love with your partner. The only way you know that for sure is if you're married. If anyone replies to this, I'm not looking for an argument, to each their own(:
xTurquoiseTVx 1 month ago 4
I am not against and I do not judge people who decide to wait until marriage.
But for me, I think that sex is such a big part of the relationship and you have to experience it before you tie yourself to that person forever. It also makes you closer in a way.
blueroses311 1 month ago 2
have sex just dont fall in love " lmao
Baptb11717 1 month ago 5
lmao at the guy that goes before?? lol
austincollie17jbiebs 1 month ago
"Have you had sex?" "Yes. Sorry mom." hahaha
FrannRants64539 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos 3
I'm almost 16, and I'm happy to say I want to wait! :)
FrannRants64539 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
I thoroughly enjoyed the awkward music in the background
sweetiekpm 1 month ago
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sweetiekpm 1 month ago
1:17 megan fox anyone??
icecreamcakex2 1 month ago
why in the fuck?.....
JuniorYankee8 1 month ago in playlist More videos from TheMomsView
Props to the lady at 1:30 !
fudgeyelephant 1 month ago
Carlie is so freakin cute! HAHAHA
emilybacon1 1 month ago
CARLIE'S OUTFIT IT SOOOO SUPER CUTE!!!!!
tldegrassi 1 month ago
Is it bad that I'm a guy, almost 25 and haven't done "IT" yet?
Njpro 1 month ago
@Njpro It's not bad if you don't mind :) If you're cool with it, it's cool
PatientxWhatsername 1 month ago
What is up with people and "Help me get *Insert plastic surgery here*" signs! LOL
MissLeslyn 1 month ago
how shit, how tall was the penis guy ?
JironCFC 1 month ago
Being a virgin is something special nowadays. It's like being a unicorn :))
I really do love my boyfriend, but we are both waiting <3
Staubstuermchen 1 month ago 180
@Staubstuermchen your boyfriend is PUSSY WHIIIPED!
xBACONBITZx 1 month ago
@Staubstuermchen you probably heard it before, but is he gay? guys never want to wait, the moment they see you they want to fuck you, like one month maybe, 3 months unlikely, after that hes having someone on the side ;). So it wouldnt be improbable hes fucking someone else right now. just sayin ;).
PeterStorm81 1 month ago
@PeterStorm81 that's actually my last concern since he's pretty religious. Knowing that I'm the only one is actually a pretty damn good feeling
Staubstuermchen 1 month ago
@Staubstuermchen LOL! you are so right! Virginity is like seeing a unicorn or a fairy! I know I am waiting but I admit it's hard because I have pressure from my friends and female cousins. And it's always the same questions. "Are you still a virgin? Why are you still a virgin? Don't you like guys? " And because I am 19 they think it's time that I do it. Someone even said one time "Just find someone and do it!" But I'm not giving it to just anyone.
callmema14 4 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@Staubstuermchen waiting...? for what? thats stupid...
ticotico9000 3 weeks ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Carlie loves people.
She's hot but she's past onto the respect stage for me now.
I have allot fo respect for you Carlie!
Bak3dB3an 1 month ago 67
@Bak3dB3an did anyone correct that awful spelling of yours? Pay attention: Karli* passed* and a lot* (there's a space)
lindsabts1 3 weeks ago
@lindsabts1 Carlie***
makeuplover1219 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from TheMomsView
People can do what they want. It's better to try and know if it's going to work or not. Personally, I would never have casual sex. I'll only have sex with them in a committed relationship.
NeccoWecco 1 month ago
My beliefs its wrong. I do wonder though
LaHLiEluvsU 1 month ago 3
@Lbird1993 not what the bible says retard maybe some of y'all need to go look at that book
auburnt1 1 month ago
@Lbird1993 I totally agree with everything you wrote, well said :)
MARCH89100 1 month ago
HAHAHAHA! hysterical!
2007words 1 month ago
There is nothing wrong with sex before marriage, as long as there is love involved, and even then, if two people both want to have it, they're going to do it anyway. I have my believes and I'm somwhat religious but people have to realise that marriage is just a thing made up by humans. I know what the bible says but people, that book is out-dated and no longer ment for our time, use the wisdom in it, but don't project every single sentence into this day and age. It won't work.
Lbird1993 1 month ago
@Lbird1993 Someone's a rebel rouser
Nrt2Pnt0 1 month ago
hahahaha I laugh so hard
anaisabellecgui 1 month ago
Euww she let them do it in her bed haha
ForTheLoveOfFatLabs 1 month ago in playlist More videos from TheMomsView
let kassem do the interview's TheMomsView shud stay wit they where doing b4 this vid
BADDIARMUID 1 month ago
Sex is good,As long as your protected
bulletscary 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Phahaha oh gosh...
itsclassygal4u 1 month ago
I think people should do what they think is right for themselves, BUT people should take it more seriously and not just "OH MY GOSH LETS HAVE SEX WOOHOO IT'S COOL!!"
molly1002 1 month ago
what type of accent is the guy with the sombrero
Ironhulk43 1 month ago
@Ironhulk43 French or Russian
clbsiss 1 month ago
*Needs Money for a Penis Reduction* "Im just tired of being made fun of cuase im so Big !!"
Ok seriously.. You need money for Drugs cause NO girl would make fun of you unless they wanted you... and a man would make fun of you because he is Jealose !!
TheCrystalBoat 1 month ago
Sex has a different emotional effect on females than males. Oxytocin is a hormone released that attaches a mom to her child. It's the same hormone that is released when a women also has sex.
honeyandbees00 1 month ago 3
Kassem does it best
duckinshots 1 month ago 2
I like how people are uncomfortable with this subject but they are completely fine with Kassems question.
KathrynAutumn78 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos 3
useless and pointless
surmon11 1 month ago
lol no straight answers.
knittingkninja 1 month ago
"sorry mom" hahaha
ash3227 1 month ago
HAHA "sex is good, but dont fall in love"
KristenStewFREAK 1 month ago
penis reduction sugery is he serious
bonniesampson 1 month ago
So Kassem's videos aren't biased. The people of California are IDIOTS!!!
kristenkaufman 1 month ago
What are your thoughts on sex before marriage?
amenautoronto 1 month ago
1:11 "i like sex" xD
norringtonjacklynn 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
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norringtonjacklynn 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@ryanmajor2 she was married then she had cooper and their marriage didnt last
IINVENTEDGIGGYPIG 1 month ago
I don't believe there is a right or wrong thing to do..for me, I want to wait. For other people, that might not be the right choice. I think people should do what they want and what they think is right, and have fun doing it.
AndiIsTheSex16 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
kassem is still better :)
makeyouquit911 1 month ago 5
If only these people knew they were talking to a couple of Mormons. That cracks me up. You did a great job!
knibbles1882 1 month ago
I am 21, and lemme tell you, it's probably even harder than getting my degree but I am WAITING!
beyourselfth 1 month ago 6
bahahahhahah the guy at the end .... bam baaaam bam bammmmm bahahahha
taliax2010 1 month ago 2
Haha! great vid! keep it up guys!
X7xDaltonx7X 1 month ago
Everyone is different. Personally, I've always thought I would wait until after marriage but recently that thought has changed. I now feel that, although marriage = commitment it can also be viewed just as a piece of paper showing your commitment to society. Without being married, one can be just as committed and one should have sex when they feel ready wether that be after engagement, marriage or even just going steady for x number of years.
LICKSandWINKS 1 month ago
The guy with the sombrero was like, yeah I like sex and then looked at Carllie suggestively! Haha
LICKSandWINKS 1 month ago
We know she had sex before getting married... Hey Cooper!
ryanmajor2 1 month ago in playlist More videos from TheMomsView 2
marriage first. If you save it for the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with, you're showing them that you believe they are worth saving it for
ADoryble7 1 month ago 2
All the moms should do their everyday makeup tutorial!
gabex0x 1 month ago 3
Sex before marriage? Eh. Sex before love? Definitely matters.
bri28152 1 month ago 3
I believe you should be in love in order to have sex, and I don't need a piece of paper to tell me I'm in love.
JJCJLOVE911 1 month ago
Many people who don't believe in sex before marriage often end up rushing into a marriage just to get laid. The realization that they don't even love the person they're married to hits soon and they get divorced.
michaeljacksonator 1 month ago in playlist More videos from TheMomsView
I think having sex with someone you don't love makes it wayyy less meaningful than with someone you ARE in love with. And by the time you do find someone to be in love with, it isn't as special. You don't necessarily have to wait until marriage, but one night stands and friends with benefits are iffy.
disneynazar 1 month ago
no one should judge other peoples sexual choices, not everyone believes in a religion restricting sexual freedom.
smilehappy565 1 month ago
I think you should wait until marriage for sure.
HeyBabes909 1 month ago 3
You should never have sex when you're not in love. That's for sure.
DoodieFaceXX 1 month ago 3
Well I'm almost 21 and I'm very happy with my choice to wait til AFTER MARRIAGE!!! wooooohooooooo BD glad I didn't lose my virginity with the any of the losers I've met.
20SarahN10 1 month ago in playlist The Moms View Channel Videos! 7
this interview is awkward.....
01MIA09 1 month ago 95
@01MIA09 Naw they need kassemg in here to make this interview truly awkward...
NASCAR4ever11 1 month ago 2
Don't you think the "test drive it first" is a little selfish? It says that if YOU'RE not good enough for ME, then our relationship won't work. We're human's not cars. Wouldn't you rather have relationship where you love your partner by putting THEM before YOURSELF? Relationships where people have sex before marriage can and do work, I'm not stupid, but I would rather take a less selfish approach to something so important! PTL
Outellectual 1 month ago in playlist Katilette's Favorites 6
I had sex before marriage. i was engaged to him in highschool, but he broke up with me. So many years later, my now husband and I, did end up having sex before we were married, and got pregnant the first time. As soon as we found out, we went ahead and got hitched. Wished I would have waited though!
jaycezuniga 1 month ago
Wow.... Only one person said no.. That's sad.
MisterSheney 1 month ago 2
"sex is good, don't fall in love" what has happened to society?!
williyumvitin 1 month ago 167
@williyumvitin yeah that is pretty much all I got out of this video ..once she said that I was like...what the heck ! what is this world coming to!!!
EmilyAnneDavis14 1 month ago
@williyumvitin hyperbolic stances on issues is what happened, no one is allowed to occupy the gray area anymore, your either on one side or the other.
sevsquad 1 month ago
@williyumvitin Thats great advice!!!
Rossco9898 1 month ago
@williyumvitin Boo !!!!
StarryXONight 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
@williyumvitin We have become openminded and not brainwashed by the chruch anymore.
highsteel240 1 month ago
@williyumvitin If you live in a place like LA, I doubt there's many people you'd want to marry :D
NeccoWecco 1 month ago
@williyumvitin Oh calm down. It's not the 1950s. That lady isn't going to hurt you.
twirlerrx3 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
in soviet russia..
kdegennaro3 1 month ago in playlist The Moms View Channel Videos!
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debtisdum 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Sex is definitely an important part in a romantic relationship, whether it's a marriage or not. Just do it when you're ready, but don't let marriage be the only factor holding you out from having sex with someone you're in love with.
punchurhawaii 1 month ago in playlist The Moms View Channel Videos! 4
These girls ask some dumb questions :)
GrahamAlpha 1 month ago
That girl said it perfectly "When you buy a car, don't you test drive it first?" I think sex is important in any relationship and I can't imagine marrying someone without having first shared that experience.
blinkmeeeeeeeeee 1 month ago in playlist More videos from TheMomsView
ideally yes, sex before marriage...However, i think if you really love that person then yes. If you are going to marry that person yes or just be with them in the long run if marriage is not for you. I just dont believe in casual flings and one night stands.
BeMyVforever 1 month ago
only if u wanna go to hell hahaha just kidding u r going hell anyway
shahthegreat1 1 month ago
that old lady oh god looool wtf
shahthegreat1 1 month ago
if i waited till marriage to have sex I would have never had sex... its illegal for me to marry :(
crystalownsyou 1 month ago
@crystalownsyou um...how?
doyouwannacookiee 1 month ago
@doyouwannacookiee im gay and live in the US..well a part of the US where marriage is defined as between a man and women...and civil unions and domestic partnerships are condemned.
crystalownsyou 1 month ago
@crystalownsyou really? I live in the us too, and i totally forgot about that which is ironic because I just finished writing my essay on why homosexual marriages should be legal :)
doyouwannacookiee 1 month ago
Yes I did it and got pregnant, married, divorced. Then pregnant married divorced again. Next pregnant, married. So far so good. 3rd times a charm?
Best MOTL so far!!!
MadisonBogart 1 month ago
I want to wait till marriage but its going to be hard.
omglik 1 month ago 2
@omglik hang in there!
LuvinMyLocs89 1 month ago
I don't believe in marriage, but having sex should be saved for when you love the person.
gaptoothVLOGS 1 month ago 5