@fnog9 hey Chris nyc here from womenchaseus headquarters..book and videos common out in a few days or so....its the greatest attraction system of all time:)..shoot me an email if interested..thanks
@LamboSpyder99 Same here man, he is teaching absolute gold. Most of it sounds absurd when you're an AFC, but if you actually GET it and act on it, what he says is 100% true.
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
At about 35:30 Tyler says he's been testing, "Don't even go there, I'm not gonna be anyone's boyfriend."
One line that I like to use that I think is a very strong attraction building dq is when you tease a girl and she says, "Omg you should be nicer to me!" You say, "I don't have to be nice to you...Because I'm not your fricking boyfriend hahaha." This should be C&F style and be lightheartedly. Enjoy :)
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
Owen Cook aka Tyler is a motivational speaker. Where is the technique? where is the in field footage? What i hear is some great insight, humour and inspirational words but no strategy no techique no real insight into the female mind. but lots of boasting apparently all his friends seem to have had 300+ women ( like they have no jobs) and he gets laid like a rock star.
I don't think you really took effort in understanding RSD, or otherwise you wouldn't say this. It works, period, maybe not for you, but for alot of other people, and for me.
HOLY SHIT... no way is this an older version of that guy with long hair... Are they the same people?? he said its 2011, crazy cool if its the same guy
aww too bad you guys don't come to my city. I'll see if I can travel to see you in a city nearby. RSD has been awesome and I have learned many things from you guys. Thanks for all the awesome stuff!
To my comments below, I can see how they may appear to be negative comments, they're not. Like I said, I actually like some of these videos. I'm 24 now. I can remember when I was around 15 reading all this fake "pickup" junk from him and mysery. All that stuff just made me even worse. If I could go back, I'd never would've listen to them. But now I can see that he's coming from a more normal apprach. One that's not "girls are better than you" angle telling u to memorize 3 days worh of convo.
lol we're supposed to follow him now 'cause "cooler" guys follow him? Even cooler guys have written books about how much you suck. So if I were to follow someone, it probably be them lol jk I like some of the eastern phylosophy tips, mediation advice and other things he shares that he's actually learned from 'others', but when he himself starts talking about some of his own beliefs about interacting with women, I can clearly see why he got bashed on Neil's book and other articles that bash him
lol we're supposed to follow him now 'cause "cooler" guys follow him? Even cooler guys have written books about how much you suck. So if I were to follow someone, it probably be them lol jk I like some of the eastern phylosophy tips, mediation advice and other things he shares that he's actually learned from 'others', but when he himself starts talking about some of his own beliefs about interacting with women, I can clearly see why he got bashed on Neil's book and other articles that bash him
TD has been depicted in Neil Strauss's "The Game" as having his own plethora of personal identity issues as he was starting off in the industry. No one is perfect, and you can learn something from everyone, man.
I give this guy 100% respects in every way possible, as he introduced AMOG Theory (with some incredible fucking Amog tactics) into the community, as well as having some great knowledge of the game in general, buttt...
I think he's extremely annoying to listen to, with that Valley girl voice and fake laugh he throws out when he's attempting humor =)
You're a pretty solid dude to be able to diss Tyler (state your opinion) and not come off as an ignorant asshole. Respect where respect is due. I wish every commentator was like you.
How on Earth can so many gullible men believe in all this PUA nonsense, and the conmen who run the PUA industry like this wanker "Tyler Durden", "Mystery", and all the other PUA fucking goons. Cold approaching random women, without the woman giving you clear indicators of interest, is just plain retarded.
But indicators of intrest if the guy is attractive, this guy it trying to help out the uglier people. You say its retarded yet its changed thousands of lives, youre clearly retarded and have no common sense
@Gapeman35 Typical PUA fanboy comment and shaming lanugage, do you honestly believe Tyler Durden or any of these PUA conmen give a rats arse about the men they are supposed to be helping with being better at attracting women? I am 100% supportive of men who want to improve their dating lives with women, but paying money to these PUA con men is not the way. And for your information, I am not retarded, I just know a scam when I see one, and the PUA industry is a SCAM.
Unaware, misinformed and malourished i see. Im not part of the PUA or will never be a part of this, i seen the link posted on a forum i go on and thought i would check it out and see what all the hype is about. If you watched the video you would realise this guy actually wants his custemors to succed. Im a good looking guy and dont need to bother with this stuff but its just interesting to watch
@Gapeman35 Do you honestly believe these PUA snakeoil salesmen actually give a damn whether their customers succeed or not? If you believe that, then you believe in the tooth fairy. If you are a good looking guy, then how would you know what an average/or ugly looking man has to endure in the dating game?
@jasoncudbill Oh dear, is "limiting belief", the best you can come up with?, I'd call it being realistic and knowing your limitations as a man. Do you honestly believe, an ugly to average looking guy is all of a sudden going to have hot looking chicks wanting to jump on his dick, just because he learned some PUA crap??
@InspectorMontelbano1 Oh dear? dont be so sad cheggers... actually i find a lot of this 'pua' stuff is a major gimmick and a lot of people are cashing in on it. However i do imagine a lot of it life changing for many blokes who dont have a lot of confidence with women and are afraid to even approach..I dont think your assumption that these tricks are taught so that ugly guys can get 10's but at least some of the stuff learnt in the community builds belief in blokes and gets them taking action.
@jasoncudbill I am all for men wanting to improve their dating lives, but PUA is nothing but lies, and sells empty promises. If PUAs were honest and ethical, the would be front with their clients, and would tell them that women are visual creatures who for the most part only care about looks.
@InspectorMontelbano1 And i know afew not so good looking guys that have alot of really attractive looking girls..you can have the money but you can still be a deuce with women..yes a theres lot of gimmicky bollocks in the community but if you took the time out to listen to tyler it goes beyond sex with women..if this stuff didnt work then there would be little demand for it after so long..and try to see the positive in all this ....you'll sleep better..thats all you get..
@jasoncudbill You know a lot of not so good looking guys with really attractive girls??, let me guess?, are these guys rich? I bet they are, because after looks, women will date an ugly guy if he is rich.
@InspectorMontelbano1 Have you actually heard from women that they are mostly visual creatures who for the most part only care about looks and money?
Or have you actually been very confident in front of girls and consistently, as to rule out confidence as something attractive for women, regardless of look?
I'd say, you've got it all the way around. It's men that are more visual, because men usually have to be the ones to initiate or make moves. What do you think ugly girls have to deal with?
@zethrusmaxel I base my opinion that women primarily go for looks and money, based on hard evidence and most importantly, their actions. And as for confidence, please quantify what "confidence" means, because no one in the PUA crowd seems to have a handle on this. Deal with fact that contrary to PUA propaganda, women are VISUAL creatures, plus women are way more shallow and superficial than men. As for ugly girls?, inspite of their looks they still have it easier than men with regards to dating.
@InspectorMontelbano1 You will honestly know what confidence is when you see it. Like Ive said, have you actually been very confident? Key word is very, like more so than a lot of people. You wont really know about something youre not. Confidence isnt easy to develop either. It takes years.
Likewise, you probably arent rich right to say that women would be attracted to you when you have the money. The same way you would not really know what girls really think because you cant read minds 100%.
@InspectorMontelbano1 your making a lot of sweeping generalizations if youre-read my last post i mentioned that this pua stuff isn't mostly about ugly guys getting models, looks are subjective so its about guys who are initially afraid to approach to then getting them to approach what they deem as being attractive and then building on that. I don't know what planet you live on but theres a lot of guys out there that have had troubled childhoods schooling etc which could effect confidence
@jasoncudbill Further to my earlier response, if you actually bothered to read PUA propaganda/bullshit, they often make the promise that any guy irrespective of looks/or money can get hot looking women, which for anyone for half a brain in their heads is 100% bullshit. Another piece of PUA bullshit is how women don't rate looks highly, seriously women are way more shallow and superficial than men, and I have seen female shallowness on countless occasions.
@s2kPsychosis What exactly do you mean by plowing it through it, and making it my passion? If I assume you mean approaching random women cold, then no, that's a dumb idea, because approaching random women without them giving you indicators of interest, is suicide.
@InspectorMontelbano1 I completley disagree Im stupidly good looking and havent always beign good with girls........ dont blame your problems on your looks
@Andoni666 If you are are as good looking as you say you are, then I find it extremely hard to believe you haven't always been good at seducing women. In all my life (I am 42 years old), I have yet to see a good looking man who struggles with women. With regards to myself, yes, I do blame my looks, as I look like an Arab (I am actually of Italian heritage), and where I live, women hate Arab looking men.
@InspectorMontelbano1 with girls especially pull your head from out you backside with the 'im a man of the world bollocks and i know best!' wheres your credentials?if you actually took the time to study some of tylers material and stop trolling this post you might learn something and for one the mateial goes far beyond dating chicks.. fuck off back under your rock and stop slating guys that are trying to help others..im done with this post.
@jasoncudbill I need to pull my head out of my backside??, mate what fucking planet are you on? Get it through your thick PUA brainwashed skull, that I am actually 100% supportive of men wanting to improve their chances with women, but listening to/or paying these PUA fuckwits like Tyler Durden,Mystery etc IS NOT THE WAY!! I have studied PUA, and practiced and it doesn't work, and for your information I am not a troll, I am deadly serious, and I am here to warn men about these PUA conmen.
@Gapeman35 In your first rebuttal to my post, you even said yourself [quote] "but indicators of interest IF the guy is attractive[/quote], so my question to you is, how can a good looking guy (who is a natural with women, because of his looks), going to teach an ugly/average looking man how to be good with women?? Obviously an ugly/average looking guy can improve his chances with women, by getting into shape and being clean and well dressed, that is COMMON SENSE, GET IT??
Can you really watch that whole video and say it didnt change your perspective on women at all, maybe if youre old this stuff might have already been self taught but to any younger guy these things arent obvious. I sort of know what you mean though mate.
This video can be educational to everyone but the deeper stuff like using ready made pick up lines is ridiculous
@Gapeman35 I have watched tons of PUA propaganda videos, and to answer your question, no, it does not change my perspective about women at all, because 99.99% of what PUAs teach is bullshit and doesn't work with women. These videos have zilch educational value, and all they achieve is to send men down a "rabbit hole" of confusion and lies. At the end of the day, women only care about LOOKS and money.
@Frederick0220 Firstly,I am not a virgin, and I have approached lots of women, so please don't be so presumptuous. And yes, for the most part, with very few exceptions, ugly,poor men often struggle to attract women. And my words are not "self-limiting" beliefs, it's called being honest and realistic.You can laugh and ridicule me all you want, the fact is I can discredit PUA junk so easily, it's not funny.
@InspectorMontelbano1 Before you were saying it's impossible. Now you're saying it's highly unlikely. I think you're closer to reality here. Most ugly poor guys don't pull, but not because they're poor and ugly! It's due to them projecting the belief that being poor and ugly means you can't pull. In other words, it's all in their head. Being poor and ugly is hardly a hindrance in and of itself with regard to getting girls.
@Frederick0220 Yes it is highly unlikely, that an ugly poor guy will have success with women, I should know I am ugly myself (I can send you a photo of myself to prove it), and most ugly guys have extreme difficulty attracting any women at all. Not being able to attract women is not "all in your head", it's based on experience.If you are constantly being rejected by women because you are ugly, you of course come to the logical conclusion that you are unattractive to women.
@Frederick0220 Furtther to my other reply, being ugly and poor IS a major hinderance to getting girls, because let's be honest here, contrary to PUA bullshit, women are much more shallow than men. And how exactly do you project a belief that you can't attract women? You can have all the "confidence", and self belief you want, but at the end of the day, it's the woman who decides if you are attractive,as women are the choosers and gatekeepers of relaionships and sex, not men.
@InspectorMontelbano1 I've seen ugly guys in person without money pull smokeshows. I know this may not sound like great advice to you but seriously keep approaching and BELIEVE that the rejections you experience are a result of a lack of confidence, not inadequate looks.
@Frederick0220 Bullshit!!, I got rejected because of my looks, not a lack of self confience, and let me ask you what exactky is "confidence"?, and how do you quantify it? You can have all the "confidence", in the world, but if a woman has already rejected you instantly (which is what happens to me), because she is not physically attracted to you, then all the confidence in the world is not going to help you. When an ugly guy gets laid, it's only because of pure luck, or he is rich/or famous.
@Frederick0220 Bullshit!!, you can have all the "confidence" in the world, and women will still reject you if they are not physically attracted to you. And what exactly is "confidence"?, and how do you quantify it? Women reject me because of my looks, last week I went on a blind date and I was not nervous at all, and I had "confidence", and guess what happened?, the woman I met said that I was a lovely and sweet guy, but she felt there was no "chemistry" between us.
@InspectorMontelbano1 Stay in set longer. The confidence will supersede the looks. Confidence to me is self-trust, being comfortable expressing yourself, and not being emotionally affected by rejection or judgment. A GOOD LOOKING guy who is confident can even be rejected. The girl didn't necessarily reject you on the blind date b/c of your looks. Sometimes there just isn't chemistry.
@Frederick0220 You have made some valid comments here, but good looking guys get rejected far less than ugly guys do. The true definition of confidence is a self assured feeling (free of self doubt) that you will achieve a postitive outcome, based on previous, performance, accomnplishment. I have approached and spoken to women confidently, yet they still rejected me. And can you define and quantify what "chemistry" is?
@InspectorMontelbano1 Seriously, LOOKS DON'T MATTER. The only difference in my opinion is that if you're not as good looking, you might have a bit of a rough landing, but if you are comfortable enough to ignore it, and just keep talking and enjoying yourself, then they'll start acting much better. Also, you say you're going in confidently, but are you just putting on a confident front when actually you're expecting failure and are scared? cos it's easy to tell.
@duvvers I am sorry but LOOKS DO MATTER, how do you explain that when I have gone out with better looking friends, they would get the girl and I would be rejected instantly? How do you explain that when I have approached women, they would refuse to engage in any conversation with me, would give me dirty looks, "the silent treatment", and "instant fuck off" signals? The main reason women always reject me is because of my race, although my background is Italian I am often mistaken for an Arab.
@duvvers You can still approach women in a confident manner, and women will still reject you if they are not physcially attracted to you. And you can only act as confident with a woman as she allows you to be, when a woman is showing interest in you, your confidence will grow because of the positive validation. When women act coldly and indifferent to me (as they always do), then of course your confidence will nosedive. My point is this, you must have success before you can have confidence.
@InspectorMontelbano1 Did you watch this video at all? 1) I would have to guess you are TRYING to get them to like you, perhaps using direct pickup lines, (which flop cos they show you are trying to get something from the girl)? 2) I really think you need to sort out all these really bad beliefs about yourself because if you keep thinking like you do then there is no way you can assume value as you approach and be comfortable and confident. Difficult to fake
@duvvers Yes, I have watched this video, and it's more of the same "pop positivity/new age quackery" the PUA industry uses to trick lonely/or sexually frustrated men out of their money. The "bad beliefs" I have about myself are based on a lifetime (I am nearly 43 years old) of rejection from my opposite sex. When you have a virtually 100% failure rate with women (not that it's my fault), it's hard to feel good about yourself.
@InspectorMontelbano1 Do you think if you go up and start talking to a girl and they think you're cool and fun (cos of how you approach, your body language and the fact that you're enjoying yourself already), that they'll tell you to fuck off? NO. I had the opposite problem to you. Not to sound arrogant, but I'm decent looking and couldn't understand why I didn't get girls til late teens. Sometimes it was pretty harsh rejections. It was because I was trying to make them like me.
@duvvers If you are a good looking guy, then how can you relate to an ugly, creepy looking guy like me? (I am not a creep, but my face is creepy) The fact that you are good looking means that women will be giving you the positive reinforcement and validation needed to succeed with women. I am 42 years old, and with the exception of a brief affair I had with a woman late last year/early this year, no other woman has shown any interest in me at all.
@InspectorMontelbano1 The point I'm making is DESPITE looks, no girls were actually interested at all because I cared about the outcome too much, because I thought I should MAKE them like me (which is the worst thing you can do to attract girls) and because I hadn't done anything with a girl I sort of felt like there was something wrong with me. Now I've fixed all these internal problems it's much much better. Get some self esteem for confidence: you don't NEED a woman, though it's nice.
@InspectorMontelbano1 Also, no you should not be determining how confident you act/ what you say by the girl or what they do. If a guy is actually confident and comfortable with himself, he doesn't need the validation, in fact if the girl is being rude, he doesn't care because he KNOWS he's cool, so he ignores it. If you rely on their reaction to feel good/ bad then it's much tougher.
@duvvers Confidence from three words, they are are PREVIOUS, PERFORMANCE, ACCOMPLISHMENT, which means if you have done it before successfully, then you know can do it again. If you constantly fail at something, how can you be confident?, Answer: You can't. I am sorry but if a woman is being rude to you, you can't ignore it, because you are human, and as a human you have feelings and emotions like everubody else.
@InspectorMontelbano1 Next time you go out, just talk to girls for your own fun and not to get with them. They'll be nicer. (Later change it so it's both). For now, make your only criterion for success that you approach.Just have fun. If a girl is being a bitch (doesn't mean she is one), that's her problem. Who cares? It's some random chick and she doesn't know you. You'll never see her again. Just go out and enjoy yourself and forget the past. Good luck man.
@duvvers I can talk the legs off a chair, and many people tell me a that I am a good conversationalist, but that means jack shit if a woman is ignoring me (what usually happens), and refuses to engage with me. At the end of the day, I have absolutely no control on whether or not a woman finds me attractive, or how she will react to me.
@InspectorMontelbano1 So no, I didn't get any positive validation , I got let's just be friends-edmany times because I went about it the wrong way. Then when I relaxed and just assumed I could get particular girls I did get them. Also, I know ugly/ very ugly guys who get really hot girls A LOT. And this used to confuse me, I was like how!?!? It's looks that matter, so why are they getting the girls? But NO, it was cos they were/ are very centred and comfortable with themselves. So no excuse
@InspectorMontelbano1 The ONLY reason your looks are screwing you over is because you are not comfortable with them and you believe that they make you WORSE than the girls you are trying to chat up and the other guys who approach them. Ok, well I disagree entirely, I think this stuff really really works, but you refuse to actually believe it. I can understand why. But that is what is actually holding you back. And yes of course you can ignore it. It's some random girl in a bar/ club! WHO CARES
@duvvers If my ugly Middle Eastern/Arab looks aren't the problem, then why do women give me instant dirty looks and are often rude to me, refuse to look me in the eye, and are more interesred in my good looking friends?
@suckmyleft1ful I am a prick am I?, and how would you know?, have you met me?, or even know who I am? If I am a "prick" according to an intellectual like you (sarcasm intended), then you would think that I would have difficulty in getting along with people, when in reality I get along with most people famoulsy. If I am a "prick", there's a perfectly good reason for it, YOUR'E CONTAGIOUS, NOW GO AND FUCK YOURSELF!!!!!!!!
@suckmyleft1ful Go and fuck yourself, and strangely enough don't women love pricks who treat them like shit?.
You are just a PUA/Slut apologist, with no fucking balls, you insult me and make assumptions about me, and you don't even know me. I treat everybody I meet with courtesy and respect, and If I was a "prick", wouldn't I get involved in lots of fights? (which I don't). You are the true prick here, and you know you a losing an argument when you have to resort to ad hominem attacks.
@dahenrysalvador No, I am not over recacting, I don't like being insulted for no reason, do you? I treat everyone I meet with courtesy and respect, like the old saying goes "treat people, the way you would like to be treated".
@InspectorMontelbano1 You think two full comments with swearing over the word 'prick' is not overreaction? Lol. You need to calm down. No wonder you don't get girls. Ugliness and temper issues are a bad combination.
@dahenrysalvador Firstly, I didn't come into this world to take shit from people (even on the internet), and I am sure you would not happy if someone insulted you. Secondly, don't make assumptions as to why I can't get women, and you don't even know me. When women have rejected me (some rudely), I never retaliated and I never got angry with them, and what about the bad boy thugs that beat up their wives/girlfriends, they obviously have "temper issues", yet women still fuck these guys.
@dahenrysalvador And further to my other reply, I resent the fact that you make false assumptions as to why you think I don't get girls. I don't get girls because of my looks and perceived race (my background is Italian), but I am often mistaken for an Arab. And where I live, women are repulsed by Arab looking men. The fact is, unless women are attracted to you physically, it's GAME OVER, and no amount PUA quackery is going to change that. And no, I don't have anger issues, unless I am provoked.
@InspectorMontelbano1 Nope. You just made assumptions about me making assumptions. Thats just you. I've simply drawn that from the fact that you were so easy to provoke by suckmyleft1ful's one liners. Take a look at how much nonsense you said back there.
You know you look Arab and yet you choose to continue living in a place where people hate Arab. Ever heard of travel? Lol. Because staying there, it's like you're begging for people to hate you.
@dahenrysalvador by travelling dont u mean running away from problems? thats a very AFC thing to do...im just basing my reply of ur comment I havent read the whole convo im too busy listening to tyler durden even though neil strauss cusses him out hardcore in the game lol
@emojefferyisagaylord I think it's you who has failed if you honestly believe looks don't play a major part in the attraction process, but it appears you have brainwashed by the PUA cult. Now go and fuck off and troll some other Youtube video, you fucking moron.
@InspectorMontelbano1 I have some hot girls who are friends and when I was learning this stuff and changing my beliefs, I talked to them about a lot of the kinds of things mentioned and they agree with everything. And no this isn't just them being fake to sound nice, I've met the guys they've been with (and some are good- looking), but others are really not great looking, and that's because they're really calm, fun, independent guys. One is in a 2yr relationship with a great guy, but who's ugly
@InspectorMontelbano1 You have emotions, but you can control them. Imagine if a homeless guy was rude to you as you passed by. Would you be depressed? NO. It's just a random girl. She's not better than you. Whether she is nice or not is not going to affect whether you live or die. Esp. if she is younger, she probably knows a lot less and has done fewer interesting things. I understand you have v. strong beliefs. But if you WANT the results then at least TRY changing the way you think. Can't hurt
@InspectorMontelbano1 If a woman is being rude you CAN ignore it. I get girls being rude to me then being really attracted to me when i make a joke out of it / just IGNORE IT. Girls are often rude (unintentionally usually) to see if you are in fact the confident, cool guy you are trying to show you are. Does a cool guy who gets girls care? NO. If you get upset they know you're not what they're looking for. I know you haven't got girls, but if you understand this then it'll get better and better
@InspectorMontelbano1 Being a good conversationalist as a friend is one thing, but are you trying to just find a connection straight away? (i.e. TRYING to get along with her.) Talk about whatever the hell you feel like talking about. If you ask questions consider asking stupid ones or if you ask generic questions be like: wait, let me guess and then say something stupid/ teasing. Don't logically try to convince her she should be interested. Just AMUSE YOURSELF. And no one line pickup lines.
@InspectorMontelbano1 If you look at guys who get girls, the degree of success depends on firstly how many girls they approach, how confident they ARE (not ACT) and how comfortable they are in themselves- More will be good looking, some will be ugly, that's because EVERYWHERE there is so much stress on looks (on tv., in advertising). Also, race doesn't matter- look at rsd and some of their instructors (plus, i have friends who get girls who're asian, etc.). These excuses are ruining your chances
@InspectorMontelbano1 When you talk, get close. When you say hi shake hands, spin them around, etc. (It's fun). Push her playfully if you don't like sth she says, hug her/ high five her if she says anything cool. Put your arm around her. BE PHYSICAL, BE LEADING. If you're getting negative responses from this it's because you're not comfortable doing it. Also, make sure your VOICE is strong, you maintain good EYE CONTACT and have good BODY LANGUAGE (no arms crossed, no leaning in).
@InspectorMontelbano1 From all your past replies to duvvers, I can tell you are too focused on how you look/other people think of you. You just need to be chill and relaxed alright? If you believe look matters, then so will the girl. If you want to be good with women, you need to stop caring about what other people think. Even if you do get rejected a lot, that's a good thing, you want negative feed back, the negative feed back should be your motivation for trying harder the second time around.
@InspectorMontelbano1 I'd say: don't care what anybody thinks of you (this means don't try and impress the girls at all, don't worry about what to say, don't try and be extra nice to get them to like you, don't ever approach with compliments etc. in fact tease them); when you're out put yourself in a fun mood, so you're enjoying yourself before you approach, and while you're talking amuse YOURSELF; get physical STRAIGHT AWAY and throughout: be comfortable with it.
@Frederick0220 Another thing, if you claim that women reject me because of my lack of "confidence, which is bullshit, because the women that rejected me did so even before I opened my mouth. Sure, I too see the odd ugly guy get lucky, big fucking deal!!, some people also win millions of dollars by buying lottery tickets, does that mean we will all win the lottery? An ugly getting a hot looking woman is the exception not the rule.
I got to comment, good work Tyler. This is one of the best videos i've seen not only in pick up, but in improvement as a person. Thanks again for what you deliver Tyler.
but isn't that completely a unnatural behavior to allways state happyness. I sometime want to talk about death or pain because it simply is part of life. Does that make a girl feel sad and dark so she would reject me. I dont think so because there is not the wish for only good emotions, right. Why allways ignoring the bad emotions and supporting the goood. thats not very mature.
But your perspective is wrong. You're automatically putting a negative label on "death and pain". You can be in a state of happiness talking about that stuff. Talking about death can be an enjoyable thing.
You call them "bad emotions" when in reality, every emotion can be a good emotion if you want it to be. An emotion is simply an emotion.
w00t look all the guys here following the cult "rsd" from tyler.He's a marketeer and also a charlatan and that's your leader pat yourselves on the back you pathetic excuse of the male species
Oh my fucking god... his faces in some situations... very Jim Carrey :DD
The11davy11 3 weeks ago
2nd time watching this. Fuckin watched too many of these too fast and can't remember shit
McGeezle 1 month ago 9
@McGeezle ... you still can download that...:)))
The11davy11 3 weeks ago
all this for what ? instead :pay a profesional, get your blowjob or so. save time and energy ... in the end : GET A LIFE
poker4835 1 month ago
@poker4835 yeah let me just swalolw that magic pill and things will be alright.
harrymatadeen 1 month ago
@poker4835 exactly...what a complete waste
womenChaseUs 1 week ago
Amazing what a waste of time..NOTHING Relevant...proves my system which I teach in about 5 minutes tops KILLS this OLD garbage,,wow this is terrible
STORYTASTIC 1 month ago
@STORYTASTIC Really? What is your method?
fnog9 1 week ago
@fnog9 hey Chris nyc here from womenchaseus headquarters..book and videos common out in a few days or so....its the greatest attraction system of all time:)..shoot me an email if interested..thanks
Chris nyc
womenChaseUs 1 week ago
@fnog9 oh sorry Im no longer storytastic..sorry for the confusion my friend
chris nyc
womenChaseUs 1 week ago
The main symptom of the truth is that it is usually given for free. Anyone who doubt's the motives of this program need to remember that.
khazal12 1 month ago
Is he not just describing a non caring, self confident typical bad boy? The bad bou persona have been since the beginning of time.
Searchinganswers 2 months ago
awesome tyler!!! even better then fight club
jscientist204 2 months ago
"its not as tight as when I jerk off" hahahah
iAREanthonyyy 2 months ago
cold approach mmkay?
Ihopeyoudietwice 2 months ago
T-dog looks great (lost a lot of weight). Unfortunately, it looks like his figure isn't the only thing getting thinner. ;)
Thanks for the vid Owen, great advice.
TheConjugalVisit 3 months ago
On the real......I zoned out and thought I saw the face of Jesus in that background faux wall pattern....
Very helpful video as well.
IamAgrocerybag 3 months ago in playlist life hack
is roger the science teacher?
ViolentKeesh 3 months ago
T DOT
intuitiveseducer 3 months ago in playlist Favorite videos
@MrShaunhunter where in Toronto will it be exactly located?
Jessykip 3 months ago
@Jessykip T DOT O DOT
intuitiveseducer 3 months ago in playlist Favorite videos
I never laught so hard like this in mouths!!!
forcecristal 3 months ago
i liked your vid, when you pronounced "boobies"
snakemont 3 months ago
Thanks. Will check you guys out when you come to Toronto.
MrShaunhunter 4 months ago
Thanks Owen.
RyanRLara 4 months ago 5
I really liked the what you said but could have done without the language. Thanks for posting.
adam4pres2008 4 months ago
what a fucking tool
Cloudkicker100 4 months ago
I just hope people can take the good from this, not become dicks to girls.
LamboSpyder99 4 months ago
@LamboSpyder99 Same here man, he is teaching absolute gold. Most of it sounds absurd when you're an AFC, but if you actually GET it and act on it, what he says is 100% true.
emojefferyisagaylord 4 months ago
This is very strong. Probably the best stuff from Tyler.
LamboSpyder99 4 months ago
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duvvers 5 months ago
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duvvers 5 months ago
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
MMArtist99 5 months ago in playlist Pick Up
At about 35:30 Tyler says he's been testing, "Don't even go there, I'm not gonna be anyone's boyfriend."
One line that I like to use that I think is a very strong attraction building dq is when you tease a girl and she says, "Omg you should be nicer to me!" You say, "I don't have to be nice to you...Because I'm not your fricking boyfriend hahaha." This should be C&F style and be lightheartedly. Enjoy :)
MLee1692 5 months ago
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
MMArtist99 5 months ago
Nothing wrong with being a motivational speaker but thats all i see here.
SirHappyThe1st 5 months ago
anyone got a link to the audio file he speaks of at 44:20 ???
kirmokin2 6 months ago
@kirmokin2 go to the rsd site and sign up for the news letter
frizzzzzzal 3 months ago
if you've seen blueprint you know who rodger is! lol
supercoveted 6 months ago
The back wall keeps getting closer.
CeleronEnergy 6 months ago
this is type of guy i like
thejazzfuneral 6 months ago
this guy is the joel osteen of girls!
4deepallday 6 months ago
david deta book?
monoseb 6 months ago
@monoseb The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
PadBoll 6 months ago
speakin the truth BROTHA
ThePackerOfFudge 6 months ago
@ThePackerOfFudge
NB-TRACKER-2.0
gnredbull 6 months ago
Has this shit even worked for anybody please reply
sonicino3 6 months ago
@sonicino3 trust me, i use these techniques, im juggling girls, but it takes some work.
newkid765 6 months ago
@newkid765
Owen Cook aka Tyler is a motivational speaker. Where is the technique? where is the in field footage? What i hear is some great insight, humour and inspirational words but no strategy no techique no real insight into the female mind. but lots of boasting apparently all his friends seem to have had 300+ women ( like they have no jobs) and he gets laid like a rock star.
Great salesman
SirHappyThe1st 5 months ago
@SirHappyThe1st
I don't think you really took effort in understanding RSD, or otherwise you wouldn't say this. It works, period, maybe not for you, but for alot of other people, and for me.
0bsidianos 5 months ago
I know, I knew Neil Strauss was just trying to slay the competition. I went overboard on Mystery a bit he's still awesome too.
smo1765 6 months ago
whos roger lol
moonfarious 6 months ago
Tyler speaks the truth.
xSobhan 6 months ago
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there are no more lairs...
xSobhan 6 months ago
HOLY SHIT... no way is this an older version of that guy with long hair... Are they the same people?? he said its 2011, crazy cool if its the same guy
honeymonster147 7 months ago
aww too bad you guys don't come to my city. I'll see if I can travel to see you in a city nearby. RSD has been awesome and I have learned many things from you guys. Thanks for all the awesome stuff!
ferdo621 7 months ago
4 people are rotten pieces of god damn fucking shit assholes who need to rot in hell
riddleman65 7 months ago
@riddleman65 Wow.
Frozenyak 7 months ago
Tyler says "bitch" too often, its wierd. Nice content though as usual
Minkki82 7 months ago
To my comments below, I can see how they may appear to be negative comments, they're not. Like I said, I actually like some of these videos. I'm 24 now. I can remember when I was around 15 reading all this fake "pickup" junk from him and mysery. All that stuff just made me even worse. If I could go back, I'd never would've listen to them. But now I can see that he's coming from a more normal apprach. One that's not "girls are better than you" angle telling u to memorize 3 days worh of convo.
jrod18123 8 months ago
@jrod18123 yes alot of that shit made me even wierder back in the day
smo1765 6 months ago
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lol we're supposed to follow him now 'cause "cooler" guys follow him? Even cooler guys have written books about how much you suck. So if I were to follow someone, it probably be them lol jk I like some of the eastern phylosophy tips, mediation advice and other things he shares that he's actually learned from 'others', but when he himself starts talking about some of his own beliefs about interacting with women, I can clearly see why he got bashed on Neil's book and other articles that bash him
jrod18123 8 months ago
lol we're supposed to follow him now 'cause "cooler" guys follow him? Even cooler guys have written books about how much you suck. So if I were to follow someone, it probably be them lol jk I like some of the eastern phylosophy tips, mediation advice and other things he shares that he's actually learned from 'others', but when he himself starts talking about some of his own beliefs about interacting with women, I can clearly see why he got bashed on Neil's book and other articles that bash him
jrod18123 8 months ago
Roger!
harrymatadeen 8 months ago
probably the smartest guy in the game.
JesusConvictScorpion 8 months ago
@JesusConvictScorpion yup, I have more respect for him than most. Shit, Mystery was a disaster in his personal life. TD has his shit str8.
smo1765 6 months ago
@smo1765
TD has been depicted in Neil Strauss's "The Game" as having his own plethora of personal identity issues as he was starting off in the industry. No one is perfect, and you can learn something from everyone, man.
LovableSaJa 6 months ago
3 people are not getting laid.
leomnyc 8 months ago
I give this guy 100% respects in every way possible, as he introduced AMOG Theory (with some incredible fucking Amog tactics) into the community, as well as having some great knowledge of the game in general, buttt...
I think he's extremely annoying to listen to, with that Valley girl voice and fake laugh he throws out when he's attempting humor =)
With all that being said, much respects Tyler!
EDMelodic 8 months ago
@EDMelodic
You're a pretty solid dude to be able to diss Tyler (state your opinion) and not come off as an ignorant asshole. Respect where respect is due. I wish every commentator was like you.
Props!
gnredbull 7 months ago
@EDMelodic
who cares what you think u shallow virgin..,
DiamondVision212 4 months ago
Awesome, very inspiring! Thanks
Sppvwolf 8 months ago
awesome upload guys. More feature length free tour vids :)
cr0uchingtiger 8 months ago
@viklodiach And I ask the question again, please quantify exactly what confidence is??
InspectorMontelbano1 8 months ago
Roger's a Living Legend!!
MonkeyMind27 9 months ago 2
How on Earth can so many gullible men believe in all this PUA nonsense, and the conmen who run the PUA industry like this wanker "Tyler Durden", "Mystery", and all the other PUA fucking goons. Cold approaching random women, without the woman giving you clear indicators of interest, is just plain retarded.
InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1
But indicators of intrest if the guy is attractive, this guy it trying to help out the uglier people. You say its retarded yet its changed thousands of lives, youre clearly retarded and have no common sense
Gapeman35 9 months ago
@Gapeman35 Typical PUA fanboy comment and shaming lanugage, do you honestly believe Tyler Durden or any of these PUA conmen give a rats arse about the men they are supposed to be helping with being better at attracting women? I am 100% supportive of men who want to improve their dating lives with women, but paying money to these PUA con men is not the way. And for your information, I am not retarded, I just know a scam when I see one, and the PUA industry is a SCAM.
InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1
Unaware, misinformed and malourished i see. Im not part of the PUA or will never be a part of this, i seen the link posted on a forum i go on and thought i would check it out and see what all the hype is about. If you watched the video you would realise this guy actually wants his custemors to succed. Im a good looking guy and dont need to bother with this stuff but its just interesting to watch
Gapeman35 9 months ago
@Gapeman35 Do you honestly believe these PUA snakeoil salesmen actually give a damn whether their customers succeed or not? If you believe that, then you believe in the tooth fairy. If you are a good looking guy, then how would you know what an average/or ugly looking man has to endure in the dating game?
InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 ...limiting belief number 1..next one?
jasoncudbill 9 months ago
@jasoncudbill Oh dear, is "limiting belief", the best you can come up with?, I'd call it being realistic and knowing your limitations as a man. Do you honestly believe, an ugly to average looking guy is all of a sudden going to have hot looking chicks wanting to jump on his dick, just because he learned some PUA crap??
InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 Oh dear? dont be so sad cheggers... actually i find a lot of this 'pua' stuff is a major gimmick and a lot of people are cashing in on it. However i do imagine a lot of it life changing for many blokes who dont have a lot of confidence with women and are afraid to even approach..I dont think your assumption that these tricks are taught so that ugly guys can get 10's but at least some of the stuff learnt in the community builds belief in blokes and gets them taking action.
jasoncudbill 9 months ago
@jasoncudbill I am all for men wanting to improve their dating lives, but PUA is nothing but lies, and sells empty promises. If PUAs were honest and ethical, the would be front with their clients, and would tell them that women are visual creatures who for the most part only care about looks.
InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 And i know afew not so good looking guys that have alot of really attractive looking girls..you can have the money but you can still be a deuce with women..yes a theres lot of gimmicky bollocks in the community but if you took the time out to listen to tyler it goes beyond sex with women..if this stuff didnt work then there would be little demand for it after so long..and try to see the positive in all this ....you'll sleep better..thats all you get..
jasoncudbill 9 months ago
@jasoncudbill You know a lot of not so good looking guys with really attractive girls??, let me guess?, are these guys rich? I bet they are, because after looks, women will date an ugly guy if he is rich.
InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 Have you actually heard from women that they are mostly visual creatures who for the most part only care about looks and money?
Or have you actually been very confident in front of girls and consistently, as to rule out confidence as something attractive for women, regardless of look?
I'd say, you've got it all the way around. It's men that are more visual, because men usually have to be the ones to initiate or make moves. What do you think ugly girls have to deal with?
zethrusmaxel 9 months ago
@zethrusmaxel I base my opinion that women primarily go for looks and money, based on hard evidence and most importantly, their actions. And as for confidence, please quantify what "confidence" means, because no one in the PUA crowd seems to have a handle on this. Deal with fact that contrary to PUA propaganda, women are VISUAL creatures, plus women are way more shallow and superficial than men. As for ugly girls?, inspite of their looks they still have it easier than men with regards to dating.
InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 You will honestly know what confidence is when you see it. Like Ive said, have you actually been very confident? Key word is very, like more so than a lot of people. You wont really know about something youre not. Confidence isnt easy to develop either. It takes years.
Likewise, you probably arent rich right to say that women would be attracted to you when you have the money. The same way you would not really know what girls really think because you cant read minds 100%.
zethrusmaxel 9 months ago
@zethrusmaxel Genuine confidence (in all aspects of all your life), comes from three words, they are:
PREVIOUS,PERFORMANCE, ACCOMPLISHMENT. Which means if you have done it before successfully, then you know you can do it again.
InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 your making a lot of sweeping generalizations if youre-read my last post i mentioned that this pua stuff isn't mostly about ugly guys getting models, looks are subjective so its about guys who are initially afraid to approach to then getting them to approach what they deem as being attractive and then building on that. I don't know what planet you live on but theres a lot of guys out there that have had troubled childhoods schooling etc which could effect confidence
jasoncudbill 9 months ago
@jasoncudbill Further to my earlier response, if you actually bothered to read PUA propaganda/bullshit, they often make the promise that any guy irrespective of looks/or money can get hot looking women, which for anyone for half a brain in their heads is 100% bullshit. Another piece of PUA bullshit is how women don't rate looks highly, seriously women are way more shallow and superficial than men, and I have seen female shallowness on countless occasions.
InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 Plow trough it, make it a passion.
s2kPsychosis 9 months ago
@s2kPsychosis What exactly do you mean by plowing it through it, and making it my passion? If I assume you mean approaching random women cold, then no, that's a dumb idea, because approaching random women without them giving you indicators of interest, is suicide.
InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 I completley disagree Im stupidly good looking and havent always beign good with girls........ dont blame your problems on your looks
Andoni666 8 months ago
@Andoni666 If you are are as good looking as you say you are, then I find it extremely hard to believe you haven't always been good at seducing women. In all my life (I am 42 years old), I have yet to see a good looking man who struggles with women. With regards to myself, yes, I do blame my looks, as I look like an Arab (I am actually of Italian heritage), and where I live, women hate Arab looking men.
InspectorMontelbano1 8 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 with girls especially pull your head from out you backside with the 'im a man of the world bollocks and i know best!' wheres your credentials?if you actually took the time to study some of tylers material and stop trolling this post you might learn something and for one the mateial goes far beyond dating chicks.. fuck off back under your rock and stop slating guys that are trying to help others..im done with this post.
jasoncudbill 9 months ago
@jasoncudbill I need to pull my head out of my backside??, mate what fucking planet are you on? Get it through your thick PUA brainwashed skull, that I am actually 100% supportive of men wanting to improve their chances with women, but listening to/or paying these PUA fuckwits like Tyler Durden,Mystery etc IS NOT THE WAY!! I have studied PUA, and practiced and it doesn't work, and for your information I am not a troll, I am deadly serious, and I am here to warn men about these PUA conmen.
InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
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InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
@Gapeman35 In your first rebuttal to my post, you even said yourself [quote] "but indicators of interest IF the guy is attractive[/quote], so my question to you is, how can a good looking guy (who is a natural with women, because of his looks), going to teach an ugly/average looking man how to be good with women?? Obviously an ugly/average looking guy can improve his chances with women, by getting into shape and being clean and well dressed, that is COMMON SENSE, GET IT??
InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1
Can you really watch that whole video and say it didnt change your perspective on women at all, maybe if youre old this stuff might have already been self taught but to any younger guy these things arent obvious. I sort of know what you mean though mate.
This video can be educational to everyone but the deeper stuff like using ready made pick up lines is ridiculous
Gapeman35 9 months ago
@Gapeman35 I have watched tons of PUA propaganda videos, and to answer your question, no, it does not change my perspective about women at all, because 99.99% of what PUAs teach is bullshit and doesn't work with women. These videos have zilch educational value, and all they achieve is to send men down a "rabbit hole" of confusion and lies. At the end of the day, women only care about LOOKS and money.
InspectorMontelbano1 9 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 LOL, strong virgin words. Leave your basement and approach. Oh wait, UGLY POOR guys can't pull!!!! Haha, your words. Self-limiting beliefs are limiting. DURRRRRRRR.
Frederick0220 5 months ago
@Frederick0220 Firstly,I am not a virgin, and I have approached lots of women, so please don't be so presumptuous. And yes, for the most part, with very few exceptions, ugly,poor men often struggle to attract women. And my words are not "self-limiting" beliefs, it's called being honest and realistic.You can laugh and ridicule me all you want, the fact is I can discredit PUA junk so easily, it's not funny.
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 Before you were saying it's impossible. Now you're saying it's highly unlikely. I think you're closer to reality here. Most ugly poor guys don't pull, but not because they're poor and ugly! It's due to them projecting the belief that being poor and ugly means you can't pull. In other words, it's all in their head. Being poor and ugly is hardly a hindrance in and of itself with regard to getting girls.
Frederick0220 5 months ago
@Frederick0220 Yes it is highly unlikely, that an ugly poor guy will have success with women, I should know I am ugly myself (I can send you a photo of myself to prove it), and most ugly guys have extreme difficulty attracting any women at all. Not being able to attract women is not "all in your head", it's based on experience.If you are constantly being rejected by women because you are ugly, you of course come to the logical conclusion that you are unattractive to women.
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@Frederick0220 Furtther to my other reply, being ugly and poor IS a major hinderance to getting girls, because let's be honest here, contrary to PUA bullshit, women are much more shallow than men. And how exactly do you project a belief that you can't attract women? You can have all the "confidence", and self belief you want, but at the end of the day, it's the woman who decides if you are attractive,as women are the choosers and gatekeepers of relaionships and sex, not men.
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 I've seen ugly guys in person without money pull smokeshows. I know this may not sound like great advice to you but seriously keep approaching and BELIEVE that the rejections you experience are a result of a lack of confidence, not inadequate looks.
Frederick0220 5 months ago
@Frederick0220 Bullshit!!, I got rejected because of my looks, not a lack of self confience, and let me ask you what exactky is "confidence"?, and how do you quantify it? You can have all the "confidence", in the world, but if a woman has already rejected you instantly (which is what happens to me), because she is not physically attracted to you, then all the confidence in the world is not going to help you. When an ugly guy gets laid, it's only because of pure luck, or he is rich/or famous.
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@Frederick0220 Bullshit!!, you can have all the "confidence" in the world, and women will still reject you if they are not physically attracted to you. And what exactly is "confidence"?, and how do you quantify it? Women reject me because of my looks, last week I went on a blind date and I was not nervous at all, and I had "confidence", and guess what happened?, the woman I met said that I was a lovely and sweet guy, but she felt there was no "chemistry" between us.
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 Stay in set longer. The confidence will supersede the looks. Confidence to me is self-trust, being comfortable expressing yourself, and not being emotionally affected by rejection or judgment. A GOOD LOOKING guy who is confident can even be rejected. The girl didn't necessarily reject you on the blind date b/c of your looks. Sometimes there just isn't chemistry.
Frederick0220 5 months ago
@Frederick0220 You have made some valid comments here, but good looking guys get rejected far less than ugly guys do. The true definition of confidence is a self assured feeling (free of self doubt) that you will achieve a postitive outcome, based on previous, performance, accomnplishment. I have approached and spoken to women confidently, yet they still rejected me. And can you define and quantify what "chemistry" is?
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 Seriously, LOOKS DON'T MATTER. The only difference in my opinion is that if you're not as good looking, you might have a bit of a rough landing, but if you are comfortable enough to ignore it, and just keep talking and enjoying yourself, then they'll start acting much better. Also, you say you're going in confidently, but are you just putting on a confident front when actually you're expecting failure and are scared? cos it's easy to tell.
duvvers 5 months ago
@duvvers I am sorry but LOOKS DO MATTER, how do you explain that when I have gone out with better looking friends, they would get the girl and I would be rejected instantly? How do you explain that when I have approached women, they would refuse to engage in any conversation with me, would give me dirty looks, "the silent treatment", and "instant fuck off" signals? The main reason women always reject me is because of my race, although my background is Italian I am often mistaken for an Arab.
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@duvvers You can still approach women in a confident manner, and women will still reject you if they are not physcially attracted to you. And you can only act as confident with a woman as she allows you to be, when a woman is showing interest in you, your confidence will grow because of the positive validation. When women act coldly and indifferent to me (as they always do), then of course your confidence will nosedive. My point is this, you must have success before you can have confidence.
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 Did you watch this video at all? 1) I would have to guess you are TRYING to get them to like you, perhaps using direct pickup lines, (which flop cos they show you are trying to get something from the girl)? 2) I really think you need to sort out all these really bad beliefs about yourself because if you keep thinking like you do then there is no way you can assume value as you approach and be comfortable and confident. Difficult to fake
duvvers 5 months ago
@duvvers Yes, I have watched this video, and it's more of the same "pop positivity/new age quackery" the PUA industry uses to trick lonely/or sexually frustrated men out of their money. The "bad beliefs" I have about myself are based on a lifetime (I am nearly 43 years old) of rejection from my opposite sex. When you have a virtually 100% failure rate with women (not that it's my fault), it's hard to feel good about yourself.
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 Do you think if you go up and start talking to a girl and they think you're cool and fun (cos of how you approach, your body language and the fact that you're enjoying yourself already), that they'll tell you to fuck off? NO. I had the opposite problem to you. Not to sound arrogant, but I'm decent looking and couldn't understand why I didn't get girls til late teens. Sometimes it was pretty harsh rejections. It was because I was trying to make them like me.
duvvers 5 months ago
@duvvers If you are a good looking guy, then how can you relate to an ugly, creepy looking guy like me? (I am not a creep, but my face is creepy) The fact that you are good looking means that women will be giving you the positive reinforcement and validation needed to succeed with women. I am 42 years old, and with the exception of a brief affair I had with a woman late last year/early this year, no other woman has shown any interest in me at all.
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 The point I'm making is DESPITE looks, no girls were actually interested at all because I cared about the outcome too much, because I thought I should MAKE them like me (which is the worst thing you can do to attract girls) and because I hadn't done anything with a girl I sort of felt like there was something wrong with me. Now I've fixed all these internal problems it's much much better. Get some self esteem for confidence: you don't NEED a woman, though it's nice.
duvvers 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 Also, no you should not be determining how confident you act/ what you say by the girl or what they do. If a guy is actually confident and comfortable with himself, he doesn't need the validation, in fact if the girl is being rude, he doesn't care because he KNOWS he's cool, so he ignores it. If you rely on their reaction to feel good/ bad then it's much tougher.
duvvers 5 months ago
@duvvers Confidence from three words, they are are PREVIOUS, PERFORMANCE, ACCOMPLISHMENT, which means if you have done it before successfully, then you know can do it again. If you constantly fail at something, how can you be confident?, Answer: You can't. I am sorry but if a woman is being rude to you, you can't ignore it, because you are human, and as a human you have feelings and emotions like everubody else.
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 Next time you go out, just talk to girls for your own fun and not to get with them. They'll be nicer. (Later change it so it's both). For now, make your only criterion for success that you approach.Just have fun. If a girl is being a bitch (doesn't mean she is one), that's her problem. Who cares? It's some random chick and she doesn't know you. You'll never see her again. Just go out and enjoy yourself and forget the past. Good luck man.
duvvers 5 months ago
@duvvers I can talk the legs off a chair, and many people tell me a that I am a good conversationalist, but that means jack shit if a woman is ignoring me (what usually happens), and refuses to engage with me. At the end of the day, I have absolutely no control on whether or not a woman finds me attractive, or how she will react to me.
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 So no, I didn't get any positive validation , I got let's just be friends-edmany times because I went about it the wrong way. Then when I relaxed and just assumed I could get particular girls I did get them. Also, I know ugly/ very ugly guys who get really hot girls A LOT. And this used to confuse me, I was like how!?!? It's looks that matter, so why are they getting the girls? But NO, it was cos they were/ are very centred and comfortable with themselves. So no excuse
duvvers 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 The ONLY reason your looks are screwing you over is because you are not comfortable with them and you believe that they make you WORSE than the girls you are trying to chat up and the other guys who approach them. Ok, well I disagree entirely, I think this stuff really really works, but you refuse to actually believe it. I can understand why. But that is what is actually holding you back. And yes of course you can ignore it. It's some random girl in a bar/ club! WHO CARES
duvvers 5 months ago
@duvvers If my ugly Middle Eastern/Arab looks aren't the problem, then why do women give me instant dirty looks and are often rude to me, refuse to look me in the eye, and are more interesred in my good looking friends?
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 because you're a prick?
suckmyleft1ful 5 months ago
@suckmyleft1ful I am a prick am I?, and how would you know?, have you met me?, or even know who I am? If I am a "prick" according to an intellectual like you (sarcasm intended), then you would think that I would have difficulty in getting along with people, when in reality I get along with most people famoulsy. If I am a "prick", there's a perfectly good reason for it, YOUR'E CONTAGIOUS, NOW GO AND FUCK YOURSELF!!!!!!!!
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 spoken like a true prick x
suckmyleft1ful 5 months ago
@suckmyleft1ful Go and fuck yourself, and strangely enough don't women love pricks who treat them like shit?.
You are just a PUA/Slut apologist, with no fucking balls, you insult me and make assumptions about me, and you don't even know me. I treat everybody I meet with courtesy and respect, and If I was a "prick", wouldn't I get involved in lots of fights? (which I don't). You are the true prick here, and you know you a losing an argument when you have to resort to ad hominem attacks.
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 Aren't you overreacting? lol. Your ranting says so much more about you than what he said.
dahenrysalvador 5 months ago
@dahenrysalvador No, I am not over recacting, I don't like being insulted for no reason, do you? I treat everyone I meet with courtesy and respect, like the old saying goes "treat people, the way you would like to be treated".
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 You think two full comments with swearing over the word 'prick' is not overreaction? Lol. You need to calm down. No wonder you don't get girls. Ugliness and temper issues are a bad combination.
dahenrysalvador 4 months ago
@dahenrysalvador Firstly, I didn't come into this world to take shit from people (even on the internet), and I am sure you would not happy if someone insulted you. Secondly, don't make assumptions as to why I can't get women, and you don't even know me. When women have rejected me (some rudely), I never retaliated and I never got angry with them, and what about the bad boy thugs that beat up their wives/girlfriends, they obviously have "temper issues", yet women still fuck these guys.
InspectorMontelbano1 4 months ago
@dahenrysalvador And further to my other reply, I resent the fact that you make false assumptions as to why you think I don't get girls. I don't get girls because of my looks and perceived race (my background is Italian), but I am often mistaken for an Arab. And where I live, women are repulsed by Arab looking men. The fact is, unless women are attracted to you physically, it's GAME OVER, and no amount PUA quackery is going to change that. And no, I don't have anger issues, unless I am provoked.
InspectorMontelbano1 4 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 Nope. You just made assumptions about me making assumptions. Thats just you. I've simply drawn that from the fact that you were so easy to provoke by suckmyleft1ful's one liners. Take a look at how much nonsense you said back there.
You know you look Arab and yet you choose to continue living in a place where people hate Arab. Ever heard of travel? Lol. Because staying there, it's like you're begging for people to hate you.
dahenrysalvador 4 months ago
@dahenrysalvador by travelling dont u mean running away from problems? thats a very AFC thing to do...im just basing my reply of ur comment I havent read the whole convo im too busy listening to tyler durden even though neil strauss cusses him out hardcore in the game lol
chronicideas 4 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.
You don't get girls because of your looks??
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Fail.
emojefferyisagaylord 4 months ago
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@emojefferyisagaylord I think it's you who has failed if you honestly believe looks don't play a major part in the attraction process, but it appears you have brainwashed by the PUA cult. Now go and fuck off and troll some other Youtube video, you fucking moron.
InspectorMontelbano1 4 months ago
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suckmyleft1ful 5 months ago
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duvvers 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 I have some hot girls who are friends and when I was learning this stuff and changing my beliefs, I talked to them about a lot of the kinds of things mentioned and they agree with everything. And no this isn't just them being fake to sound nice, I've met the guys they've been with (and some are good- looking), but others are really not great looking, and that's because they're really calm, fun, independent guys. One is in a 2yr relationship with a great guy, but who's ugly
duvvers 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 You have emotions, but you can control them. Imagine if a homeless guy was rude to you as you passed by. Would you be depressed? NO. It's just a random girl. She's not better than you. Whether she is nice or not is not going to affect whether you live or die. Esp. if she is younger, she probably knows a lot less and has done fewer interesting things. I understand you have v. strong beliefs. But if you WANT the results then at least TRY changing the way you think. Can't hurt
duvvers 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 If a woman is being rude you CAN ignore it. I get girls being rude to me then being really attracted to me when i make a joke out of it / just IGNORE IT. Girls are often rude (unintentionally usually) to see if you are in fact the confident, cool guy you are trying to show you are. Does a cool guy who gets girls care? NO. If you get upset they know you're not what they're looking for. I know you haven't got girls, but if you understand this then it'll get better and better
duvvers 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 Being a good conversationalist as a friend is one thing, but are you trying to just find a connection straight away? (i.e. TRYING to get along with her.) Talk about whatever the hell you feel like talking about. If you ask questions consider asking stupid ones or if you ask generic questions be like: wait, let me guess and then say something stupid/ teasing. Don't logically try to convince her she should be interested. Just AMUSE YOURSELF. And no one line pickup lines.
duvvers 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 If you look at guys who get girls, the degree of success depends on firstly how many girls they approach, how confident they ARE (not ACT) and how comfortable they are in themselves- More will be good looking, some will be ugly, that's because EVERYWHERE there is so much stress on looks (on tv., in advertising). Also, race doesn't matter- look at rsd and some of their instructors (plus, i have friends who get girls who're asian, etc.). These excuses are ruining your chances
duvvers 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 When you talk, get close. When you say hi shake hands, spin them around, etc. (It's fun). Push her playfully if you don't like sth she says, hug her/ high five her if she says anything cool. Put your arm around her. BE PHYSICAL, BE LEADING. If you're getting negative responses from this it's because you're not comfortable doing it. Also, make sure your VOICE is strong, you maintain good EYE CONTACT and have good BODY LANGUAGE (no arms crossed, no leaning in).
Best of luck.
duvvers 5 months ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 From all your past replies to duvvers, I can tell you are too focused on how you look/other people think of you. You just need to be chill and relaxed alright? If you believe look matters, then so will the girl. If you want to be good with women, you need to stop caring about what other people think. Even if you do get rejected a lot, that's a good thing, you want negative feed back, the negative feed back should be your motivation for trying harder the second time around.
jingleman31 1 month ago
@InspectorMontelbano1 I'd say: don't care what anybody thinks of you (this means don't try and impress the girls at all, don't worry about what to say, don't try and be extra nice to get them to like you, don't ever approach with compliments etc. in fact tease them); when you're out put yourself in a fun mood, so you're enjoying yourself before you approach, and while you're talking amuse YOURSELF; get physical STRAIGHT AWAY and throughout: be comfortable with it.
Really hope that helps, man.
duvvers 5 months ago
@Frederick0220 Another thing, if you claim that women reject me because of my lack of "confidence, which is bullshit, because the women that rejected me did so even before I opened my mouth. Sure, I too see the odd ugly guy get lucky, big fucking deal!!, some people also win millions of dollars by buying lottery tickets, does that mean we will all win the lottery? An ugly getting a hot looking woman is the exception not the rule.
InspectorMontelbano1 5 months ago
damn u look good slim man! maybe time to get ripped as-well
vidako3d 9 months ago
Dude eat something
trancemisho 9 months ago
Roger got laid!! YEEAAAAHHH!!
borefd 9 months ago
its David D'Angelo's fault. hahaha
gordodacat 9 months ago 8
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People really pay for that BS?
gladiatorsoul 9 months ago
I got to comment, good work Tyler. This is one of the best videos i've seen not only in pick up, but in improvement as a person. Thanks again for what you deliver Tyler.
evelic 10 months ago
Best video i've seen of Tyler in a long time. This pretty much sums it up. Good work RSD, good job Tyler, thanks.
evelic 10 months ago
but isn't that completely a unnatural behavior to allways state happyness. I sometime want to talk about death or pain because it simply is part of life. Does that make a girl feel sad and dark so she would reject me. I dont think so because there is not the wish for only good emotions, right. Why allways ignoring the bad emotions and supporting the goood. thats not very mature.
Fabimann 10 months ago
@Fabimann
But your perspective is wrong. You're automatically putting a negative label on "death and pain". You can be in a state of happiness talking about that stuff. Talking about death can be an enjoyable thing.
You call them "bad emotions" when in reality, every emotion can be a good emotion if you want it to be. An emotion is simply an emotion.
gnredbull 6 months ago
w00t look all the guys here following the cult "rsd" from tyler.He's a marketeer and also a charlatan and that's your leader pat yourselves on the back you pathetic excuse of the male species
d0ubl3sh0t1 10 months ago
@d0ubl3sh0t1 haters gonna hate ;)
kirmokin2 10 months ago
@d0ubl3sh0t1 please elaborate. what exactly is wrong about what rsd teaches?
StarcrossedPacific 10 months ago
@StarcrossedPacific thats probably some hater man. This shit works.
fuzkforyou 9 months ago
@StarcrossedPacific why even bother talking to haters?