My ex girlfriend is one too. If you feel that your partner has NPD, get out - NOW. You cannot win and the more you try the more you will get hurt. The barriers will come up and they will push you away and devalue you again and again. Then they will want you back, then the process happens again. Take it from someone who knows and get out of the 'relationship'. Life is too short.
I first came across the fact that no one is simply this or that, when I studied Carl Jung some forty years ago.
It was he who first came up with the conceptions of intro and extraversion - two polarities - but who warned to not label anyone as simply this or that.
We are all "salads" of the this and that of personality, incuding those of us who try to remain reasonably sane, in a world ruled by closer examples of pure sociopathy, for instance. Word limit reached.
Dr Hahn is very insightful, very well informed as has the gift of being concise in terms that almost anyone could understand, if she/he is able to be open but, as Dr Hahn frequently observes, those with borderline personality disorders are seldom open.
My father was a narcissist mainly and I have lived with both a hystrionic and a paranoid type(s), so I know what she is describing ... which makes me "border line sucker"?
Rhoda is careful to point out that no one is simply a "type" (cont).
@ThePODlover Wow you need some education. Psychiatric disorders are illnesses of the psyche or brain. She is not making up disorders and they are not new. Try studying Freud or Adler. Skinner or Carl Jung. Mental illness needs to be helped just as any other diseases.
@TheShirlock i understand that mental illnesses are just as bad, but this one just doesnt seem even as close as serious as AIDS or cancer or others..i didnt mean to offend anybody,i am sorry if i did.
thank you, i never knew so i will avoid those types of peoples whom i acturally know and was wondering if i was the problem it's really them !!!! thank you again
Relationship or Friendship dynamics are all different, but all involve a sense of narcissism on some level. Do we not crave r/f' ships that make us feel good about ourselves? "Grandiose sense of self" is the red flag. I can't stand like that. I knew a guy who told me his sh!t didn't stink, and he actually believed it!
I have just ended A 2yr maarriage with a wife that carried many of these traits. It has been the most devastating thing that has ever happened to me as I did love her. My heart truly goes out to anyone in such a relationship.
This could describe most democrats I know
sirclassrider 1 week ago
thanks liked it
TheGalaxyhopper 2 months ago
At 3:06 why does it say "Signs of Antisocial Personality Disorder"? I thought this video was about NPD?
JuggaloFaygoDrinker 4 months ago
My ex girlfriend is one too. If you feel that your partner has NPD, get out - NOW. You cannot win and the more you try the more you will get hurt. The barriers will come up and they will push you away and devalue you again and again. Then they will want you back, then the process happens again. Take it from someone who knows and get out of the 'relationship'. Life is too short.
djh29971 4 months ago 2
Donald Trump? Bill O'Reilly? Bill Clinton?
13CIRCLE 4 months ago
(Cont. from previous post)
I first came across the fact that no one is simply this or that, when I studied Carl Jung some forty years ago.
It was he who first came up with the conceptions of intro and extraversion - two polarities - but who warned to not label anyone as simply this or that.
We are all "salads" of the this and that of personality, incuding those of us who try to remain reasonably sane, in a world ruled by closer examples of pure sociopathy, for instance. Word limit reached.
Setarcosism 5 months ago
Dr Hahn is very insightful, very well informed as has the gift of being concise in terms that almost anyone could understand, if she/he is able to be open but, as Dr Hahn frequently observes, those with borderline personality disorders are seldom open.
My father was a narcissist mainly and I have lived with both a hystrionic and a paranoid type(s), so I know what she is describing ... which makes me "border line sucker"?
Rhoda is careful to point out that no one is simply a "type" (cont).
Setarcosism 5 months ago
I've been working a lot of psych lately at work...these are the funniest people but dang treating them seems nearly impossible.
scrolllocknumlock 6 months ago
@scrolllocknumlock well........because it is not a disorder it is just a personality type
TheJasonDR 5 months ago
she has, You Know Personality Disorder
tigerchief 6 months ago
we used to just call them assholes
sloth96cky 6 months ago 7
@sloth96cky
Right. And I also think they are among the worst. Unfortunately there are so many of them!
karadiberlino 3 weeks ago
wow people are dieing from cancers and viruses and what not and we invent new disorders you can get sick from...wow
ThePODlover 6 months ago
@ThePODlover Wow you need some education. Psychiatric disorders are illnesses of the psyche or brain. She is not making up disorders and they are not new. Try studying Freud or Adler. Skinner or Carl Jung. Mental illness needs to be helped just as any other diseases.
TheShirlock 4 months ago
@TheShirlock i understand that mental illnesses are just as bad, but this one just doesnt seem even as close as serious as AIDS or cancer or others..i didnt mean to offend anybody,i am sorry if i did.
ThePODlover 4 months ago
In one word " NAZI"
aoknponte 7 months ago
she just described my ex girlfriend. This was very insightful.
cheersmybeers 7 months ago
ALWAYS WONDERED WHAT MY SON HAD! I THOUGHT HE WAS A D D AND JUST AMASSIVE EGO
0wey2011 7 months ago
wow Ive always thought Im a narcissist I dont anymore :)
Isnt some of the characteristics the Dr describes very frequent perhaps in less degrees in many "normal" people?
LohengrinT 8 months ago
I know someone named Monica who is definitely Narcissistic.
Ma007rk 8 months ago
This disorder sounds like heaven, a constant sense of confidence and lack of self criticism is like the paragon of emotions.
desthmoneses 8 months ago
this is very informative thank you
Utubetrekk 9 months ago
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Utubetrekk 9 months ago
i have this and (BPD)
ulanowm 10 months ago
HATE PPL WHO ARE LIKE THISSSSS >.< it IRKS ME.
BrittanyJackson19 11 months ago
@BrittanyJackson19 as annoying as they may seem, it really is a mental disorder. You don't go around saying, "ugh I hate people with anorexia!"
FlirtatiousFayth 8 months ago
I think I might have this
michaelfivez 11 months ago
@michaelfivez shame i wish u the best
fashanu1000 9 months ago
LOL I love this woman.
vladetic3 11 months ago
MY BOSS!!!!!
MsTubeWhore 11 months ago
@Moneybrawl People need to quit using the term narcissism incorrectly imo.
Peridot84 1 year ago
thank you, i never knew so i will avoid those types of peoples whom i acturally know and was wondering if i was the problem it's really them !!!! thank you again
petechandanatural 1 year ago
wow.. i know someone in my family that fits this completely
Jeanette04 1 year ago
This one doesn't seem that rare...there's one of these in every office, at every party, in every family....
dw9559 1 year ago
Relationship or Friendship dynamics are all different, but all involve a sense of narcissism on some level. Do we not crave r/f' ships that make us feel good about ourselves? "Grandiose sense of self" is the red flag. I can't stand like that. I knew a guy who told me his sh!t didn't stink, and he actually believed it!
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mnbvxcvtgyhbncv 1 year ago
I have just ended A 2yr maarriage with a wife that carried many of these traits. It has been the most devastating thing that has ever happened to me as I did love her. My heart truly goes out to anyone in such a relationship.
jingles302 1 year ago
@jingles302 i am sorry to hear that hun
Jeanette04 1 year ago
That describes him all right. Scary.
Ultimatephailguy 1 year ago
Sounds like a lot of people.
MisanthropicSchizoid 1 year ago
@MisanthropicSchizoid except that these can't survive whithout being this way andthere generally very lunatic pple
flippadeal 1 year ago
Can you tell me why Boris Konovalov is tagged? : /
NecoconecoKun 1 year ago