James Marshall - How to approach a shy girl in a foreign country and get her number

[jdjldc]

language barrier fucked him

she didn't get his idiomatic expressions and jokes

he held his frame so strong tho

[InfiniteGXT]

this was really awkward

[OutyMan]

It's not whether you win or lose. It's how you play the game. This man is an ice cold champ. It didn't pay off in a big way here(For HER), but he's now that much better for having done this. Thanks for sharing this. Very informative. By the way, if you play like this, you'll win quite a bit.

[johwak121]

@OutyMan you are 100% correct my friend, you get it!!

[cooroxd123]

so did that number ended up being flaky?

[70sfaisal]

He could have left at any time during the whole conversation, and he would have been forgiven for it - but he didn't. If you can do this then you can approach any woman.

[MrRefurbishedBrain]

You can tell the girl wanted to disappear in a hole because felt inadequate. I bet she's a sweet girls when you get to know her.

That really showed how you really care about people and your high level of empathy. I bet my ass 80% of us would have left her standing there like an idiot, thinking about another missed opportunity because "I'm so fucking shy". You instead behaved like a real gentleman and never showed an inch of impatience or worse.

That's sheer class.

[TheBboyStyle]

He did a great job.

Loled at the afc's comments.

Greetings from france ;)

[onee]

I guess the only reason she is so nervous is, because she struggles talking English.

[MegaJackMeister]

Great....



[Frederick0220]

"In that case you have to introduce yourself to me and be friendly to me." This guy pimps hard. Gonna compare him to Cajun again. Both guys are freakishly relaxed and fearless.

[godoymike]

wow she is a safe that he's trying to crack



[leo3xxx]

so borinnnng!!

[yosupmyhomies]

AHAHAHA at 5:50 the 2 guys kissing and then laughing on the right..

[TUBESTEAKNIG]

this was like an adult talking to a little kid

[boab23]

she was just in a bad mood, and he matched her energy, made the best of a bad situation. props to him because i would of left ages ago

[TheOneAndOnlycE]

You did well. She just wasn´t interested.

[Frederick0220]

@TheOneAndOnlycE She was interested. Look at her body language. She was slowly but steadily warming up to him as the video progressed. I bet he fornicated her a year later. A lot of people don't like James' low energy but his confidence and funny dry sense of humor are undeniable. This is a helluva lot more natural than that dancing monkey faggotry.

[ishotthesherifswife]

@Frederick0220 helluva= posh people right 'hell of a' :P

she said she doesnt go out at night so not used to socialising much, but deffo liked him

[Chomper839]

this misses sooo many opportunities to tease her

[Chomper839]

I thought this guy was really good until I saw this video.

[KrassimirCavalerra]

Boring as fuck... 

[middoo08]

man that was incredible

[EmmanTheGr8]

swag



[BombiaC]

awesome vid mang! have you met her a year later? august 2011?

[KHANS2060]

one way to look at it is that, small talk does not really go far, but this guy can go along with an awkward kinda moments so its very informative, also he is very comfortable and easy going which slowly makes her under his control. she is very low energy btw

[Ligadelaseduccion]

What is wrong with the camera dude?

Fast class to be a cameraman pleaseeeee!!!

[memohavok]

Guys stop complaining, this guy is giving you an example, and also is trolling. Go watch other of his videos, he is good. Also notice this is the first time being approached for this girl! She was shy and nervous all time! Moving her head everywhere, dancing like a dumb, dont know what to do. She may be interested, there are also girls equivalent to the shy guys who get all dumb in front of a cute girl.

[NMHAJA]

Nice channel.. subscribe straight away

[milpatel83]

SashaPUA cried in his sleep watching this.

[Sempertacsil]

my 3-cents about THIS vid:

1)serbians/russians or any slavic influenced country are cold to foreigners to begin with(esp. serbian women)

2)No amount of 'fun vibe', high-energy or relaxed-body-language game'll change that coldness

3)James's deadpan tone is how the typical serbian man talk to their woman

*note* If you a man of african-descent, then belgrade is heaven for you. Apparently, serbian women have this attracted curiousity towards a stereotypical black *aesthetic*

[FreeBlago1]

This is painful. Why not just ask for her number and/or leave?

[JonItalia]

@FreeBlago1 He used her for practice.

[FreeBlago1]

I got hit with creepy shrapnel over here! "do I make you nervous?"

[Aexexx]

This guy had the balls to approach, which I admire, but jeez, I can't see any attraction being built. She didn't mind the company while waiting - she didn't have an iPod to listen to? He DLV'd and sounded needy: "Do you want me to stay?". He ploughed, and got her to open up a little, but I would love to know if this went anywhere. This is not natural though. See sashadaygame, Canadian in London. His game is inspiring in a GOOD way. thenaturaltv inspires me in that I can't be any worse than him.

[TheKyros100]

Very Boring Conversation...he really needs to take the girl on an emotional journey and make the interaction memorable for her. At least he is actually out there approaching though.

[MrZergytime]

u picku ja bi mu dao broj samo da ga se rijesim .. i woud gave him my number just te get rid of him ..



[bwidger]

i think he did fine considering she was so unresponsive....it was a bit long though

[bglass1]

thought body language was ok....WAY too many questions...Was this an interview? felt like one

[omarm1984]

If she was shy she would've walked away before his first sentence is over..

[farhat1506]

are you really coming on the 30.08.2011: )

[sensationaldenny]

This guy is really good, nothing phases him and he is quick on his feet

[lucasilva1991]

shes got pretty lse still shes hot - hope shes another person once undressed :P

[craze6663]

@jeffda12

das how good pick ups are

[Navykicksbutt]

Lol she didn't want to talk to you.... It was weird... You would have made me nervous! Lol

[jeffda12]

I didnt like it i felt i could have done a better job. PUA .EROS

[mdudewheresmacar]

My question is...why, after 10 straight minutes of probing this clearly boring and uninteresting girl, would you still even want to talk to this girl?

Sure, this is a great demonstration of pure will power and obdurateness, but it doesn't really teach a natural lifestyle, does it? What self respecting person would tolerate a woman who an barely tolerate life, as this one obviously can't.

[adityajuneja7]

what the...

[On1wheel247187]

Kudos for playing the no ejection challenge. As far as this being a successful pickup, Id being willing to bet she never answered your text or phone call. And yes you made her extremely nervous probably cuz you were interviewing her for 10 minutes!!!

[devilkazuya0]

@adwaye Makes perfect sense!! So just because you don't get success with it and everybody else does, it doesn't work? Lol well played.

[mickjairmo]

Not bad, i feel theres gonna be buyers remorse though.

[thenaturaltv]

@mickjairmo depends how good you think your follow up game is :)

[tradingbr]

@thenaturaltv you call or just txt?I have bad experiences trying to pull this low energy game on the phone, seems that girls wont pickup the convo often enough

[SomethingSoOriginal]

This is a great pickup that me laughing all the way through. Breaks all the conventional rules of cold approach yet still gets the number. Dead-pan game all the way!

[pr4nk5tr]

Traveller, musician... and business man.... I guess

lol that was gold

[Mammetun]

Jadan je

[bsdpowa]

lol