The Shame of Sexual Abuse

[peaceindacity100]

Can a lover abuse you? what about teenager!

[Sundance2104]

I've heard a lot of rhetoric about how adults are responsible for their actions and held accountable for child rape/sexual abuse but not much regarding abuse perpetrated by teens on younger children. I do hold anger toward my brother's friend who repeatedly sexually abused and raped me starting from around age 8 or 9 and ending around the time I was 13 or 14; however when assigning the shame it's difficult to assign full shame and blame on a 13-18 year old. How does shame work in these cases?

[ARCdomintion]

What if you let out the secret and they didn't believe? Why don't they believe? Why wont they help me? Why me? What did I do? Did I do something? I don't know anything anymore. I just want help but I don't want to have to ask them for it :'(

[HealingVibrations]

As a child from ages 7-9 I was raped 200 times over 2 years by a US airforce colonel named Bob Barlett. He worked for the catholic charities and had raped 15 other boys, who grew up poor and did not have fathers. My mother forced me to go with this man every weekend, and after raping me, he would make me wear diapers and piss and shit in them and then walk around the rest of the day in my own excrements. He went to jail for 2 months, its surprising I havent suicided, but my spirit is mighty

[beesully]

More about child abuse

[midgechick]

Owen,

The Relationship Revolution is indeed revolutionary. I'm plowing quickly through the book and I know I'll read it again and tell many others about it.

Blessings back to you!

[bwhouare]

I appreciate you subscribing and spreading the word

Blessings

Owen

[reVerse2bfree]

Thank you for your valuable work.

[wulvireen]

good video

[bwhouare]

Thanks for the acknowledgement.

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Blessings

Owen

[BiteHunter]

what if you are in love with the aggressor? and what if the agressor is an adult? and who are you supposed to reveal it to?

[bwhouare]

Dear BiteHunter,

If you are in love with the aggressor, you have to look at your meaning of love. Love doesn't cross boundaries of another person. It is an adults responsibility to hold sacred the healthy boundaries of a person younger than them. You could reveal this to another adult who could help you work it through.

Blessings

Owen