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  • breaks my heart to say sometimes you just gotta drive down the road and cry it out. But I love this song bc i know the feeling of sharing custody of my children

    -E

  • i love this song reba!

  • this song is for parent that did the right thing for their kids, but love each other still and don't want to admit it and confuse the kids

  • if chesney sang this song to...why wasn't he in the video?

  • the first time i saw this song i was like who the heck r those ppl and i nevr realy like reba but now i watch the show and seeing this made me so sad cuz i realized the father and the mother were van and cheyenne and now i love this song

  • I thing this song fits almost every kid that's gone throught divorce. You know wanting there parents to get back with together again but knowing they wouldn't.

  • I think this song is a bit more directed at the parents who have pride issues. All it takes is a bit of honesty

  • That's not the case sometimes. There's an even uglier side to divorces. When one of the parents are very stupid and irresponsible, but still wants the kids. That's what my lil' bro and I are going through.

  • That show owned

  • awesome video

  • i really love this song

  • Kenny Chesney???

  • Haha, I find it entertaining how Reba isn't featured in this title as the artist AT ALL, and Kenny isn't even in the video. Lol, fail.

  • It's an EPIC FAIL

    lol. :D

  • wow,it starts out where the kids are like 5 and it end's when they're 15-16! so cool!

  • who play's the mom in this video?

    she look's like ashley greene and sarah michelle gellar!

  • Joanna Garcia

  • the parents are the ppl who play Van and Cheyenne in the show Reba...

  • her name is johanna garcia she was cheyenne off of the reba show and the dad is steve howey he played van on the reba show.

  • i luv reba

  • @ballpythonsthebest me too!!

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  • what a tearjerker! this song reminds me of my nieces and nephews, the every other weekend part, rips your heart out!!

  • If you don't like this song, don't bother watching it or listening. Simply put, avoid it if you don't like it, we don't need to hear your complaining!

  • oh pooperscooper458 now i know y u got thay name......its bc wen u say anything its nothing but shit that comes out of ur mouth....btw this is the best song eva

  • the little girl is definitely older because the little boy is still in a booster seat

  • Over time you will forget why you broke up, realize the love is still there, but understand why you are no longer together. Your paths were not meant to be. Respect each other, and most importantly, love your children. They are not a pawn with dollar signs on their heads. They are the product of a love you once shared and together, Mom and Dad should raise them, regardless of custody.

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  • It was a good decision to use Cheyenne and Van, it added depth to it, when i watch it I always wanna cry :( Reba Rocks and so does Cheyenne and Van!

  • sniffel sniffel

  • they dont show her as part of the video as it creates a more effective and individual video :)

  • this doesnt really have anything to do with the show, reba just used them because they are good actors and people do recognize them. but if you watch the final episode of the series, van and cheyanne stay together. and so do brock and barbara jean (just in case you were wondering)

    btw, does anyone else wonder why kenny chesney isnt shown at all in the video?

  • I was wondering the same thing... why isn't Kenny Chesney in the video??

  • Thank God i aint the only one who watches the reba show lol

  • my wife and i recently seperated and i sit at my best friends house everyday missing her listening to this song missing my wife and my 3 daughters. everyone please pray that this works out for me she is the love of my life and i wont know what to do without my girls in my life.

  • Im not saying divorce is a great thing, but however somTimes its for the best. U know? its just a lot of times divorce is one sided because their other spouse is in the marrige for the kids. what they dont undertand is that do u really think the kids want to see their mommy and daddy fighting or ignoring each other? i dont like it! i really dont

  • is this how the show endes up?

  • @skb38491 I hope not! I'd be so sad! (Plus the boy looks older than the girl, and Elizabeth was born before Van and Cheyenne's second baby, whatever gender it was. I don't think they specified.)

  • Nooo! the boys younger! because in the start the boys in a car seat and the girls not, so shes older, but i know its sooo sad:( but i do think this is how it turns out

  • Just clearing up, that's Van and Shi-Anne from the Reba TV show, right? (pardon my spelling of Shianne)

  • yeah.

  • ya it is thats pretty intersting to see

  • I love this song but it's a shame that people who are divorced and want to get back together again NEVER say the words.

  • Without repeating any of the noted observations, I have to say that the story being conveyed through this song reminds me of some of lifes challenges. In my experience, marriage and love is the most complicating thing for me to understand. It seems love has become conditional, that people in it are driven by selfish needs.

  • OK i read most of the comments and want to tell this.. no matter how you look at divorce is a way of somthing bad however we MUST remember the kids. I know this now and see my 3 everyother weekend. I look at the times we shared and can never take that away from me.. please everyone their are good dads that didnt deserve this, wanted a family to raise. Now i see them knowing that there is another man , but I am their only dad, but will be the best dad I can be for my 3 and only my 3.

  • This is means so much. this is how it was with my parents every other weekend. but now its changed.... my dads gone in jail and so now its nothing i would rather it be like the song then him not show up at all :( its so hard. but everyday i count down the day im gonna see him I love my dad more than anything in the world (: cant wait to see him again. ahhh!

  • i used to go to my dads with my sister t see my other sisters athis house we all spent the night every 2 weeks on the weekends . i dont dothat anymore... i miss it , but the music is heartbreaking.

  • I love my stepmom but i need my amily together again maybe my mom will be happier. I need to be able to see my dad but he works all the time i only see him once in a while.

  • @brandicakes96

    I can identify.....

  • This song breaks my heart because I know what its like to have to go from house to house every other weekend. Divorce is one of the hardest things a person could go thru

  • you know i was just thinking.this video looks like if van and Cheyenne had divorced on reba.they had a girl and was having a son

  • i was thinking the same thing!!!

  • As a child of divorced parents, I have to thank god for the way I was raised. Now that i am 20 years old and have had no contact with my father for almost 5 years, I realize that my mother did what was right and now I look back and thank her for it. As I grow up now my mom and my relationship has changed into more she has become my best friend and my biggest fan.

  • this song came out at the time i was going through my divorce and i am the one that gets to see my kids every other weekend. so this song was hard for me to listen to at first because it hit so close to home, no i love it to death, just like all of Rebas songs, shes great, i love her. keep up the great work Reba you always know what songs your fans need to hear.

  • i wish my daddy was still in my life but you know i am choseing not to see him because he has been not a good dad to ma and my bros and i still luv him and i iwhs i could see him but it has been 3 years when i last saw him.i wish he was willing to 2 say hello 2 me but then i not seeing him but i wish i had a daddy that could be there for me,i have a stepdad but he not there often,........................­.....

  • i know i did the right thing giving her up for adoption, i couldn't raise her alone, and i can't bear the thought of seeing him every other weekend

  • this song makes me cry everytime its so sad

  • this song gives me gooebumps every time i hear it. Reba and kenny did a great job.

  • cheyanne and van did really good job with this video - well done!

  • this is an amazing song! i love reba!!! and i never noticed thats cheyenne and van either!

  • This song breaks my heart.

  • hey listen from ANOTHER kids view If your gonna fight all the time, split up, IF you can work it out, try, but If your gonna fight all the time, Its horrible for the kids. To see your two parents fight all the time, and then the mood after the fight, is awful Its much easier for the kid,not to see that. And take it my mom, is not the best, they fight, and its just bad for me and my bro. Divorce, should only happen if theres no other option. But somtimes, its better 4 the kids.
  • From A KIDS view. Moms and dads out there, please keep it together for your kids. :) My mom spent all my dads money did drugs and cheted on him. Im not saying stay in that but I am saying dont do that! Do you not relize how much it hurts, My mom die on my 8birthday, she was a horribnle mom and I dont like her but Ido love her. I hope that maybe you would see what comes first. :) To all you out there struggleing. think what I wjent thru and I didn't tell you half. :)

  • The door swings both ways.

  • lmao i'm not laughing that your mom died. but come on, you don't know every story, you can't keep being misserable just for the kids. they will grow to resent it.

  • I know. thats y i said dont't stay in it but dont do it either. Liek when u get married or have kids or whatever realize what ur going into.

  • thats Cheyenne and van frm the tv show wow i neva noticed!

  • My son's father hasn't seen him in 3 years, I'm not too broken up about that though, because the last time I ran into him he told me "you know I don't smoke crack anymore" Good job ass, you're not supposed to smoke crack in the first place.

  • i love this video. I have watched every episode of Reba and i love Van and Cheyenne. This song makes me hope its never me in this situation

  • Actually, in the video I think the girl is older, her brother just grows taller than her, because at the beginning, he's still in a car seat where she isn't. But as someone else said, they don't look as far apart in age and their kids would be. I just like to tell myself that it's not them haha

  • I hate that this is my life. love the video, reminds me I am not alone in this mess.

  • it dont mattter that theirs ears around im sure the kids would be hysterical and happy as hell

  • this is how my parents were/are... since i dont see my dad right now its not like this :( id rather it be like that then not seeing him its hard

  • havent you guys noticed that a lot of songs these days are about sex drugs teenage pregnacy marriage and divorce

  • thats because people are too lazy to make their relationships work. and because everyone is told from the time that they're little to do what makes you happy. But guess what if you get married and have a couple of kids, then, (unless its abusive or something,) its time to take one for the team.

  • I absolutely agree with what you say about people being lazy and being taught to do what makes THEM happy! As a society we have lost so many morals and love for others! I know I would do anything to make it work with my husband specially if there are kids involved! I really liked your comment!

  • @Professerzorak

    Somtimes its not them being lazy,

    Look im a kid, my parents fight A LOT,

    and its horrible, they just dont get along,

    (my mom,is not a very nice person)

    So they are gonna split up

    and its better for me.

    IN THIS CASE, i dont know about everybody's, but for this one

    Me and my bro, are better off

  • You can tell that the video isn't based off of their show 'Reba', since the son seems older than the daughter, or of similar age, when Elizabeth was born first and no other birth was quickly followed by that that would result in a boy.

    Reba Fan.

    I love her voice! <3

  • i like this video alot

  • they are not divorced reba just thought it would be a good touch to us them as the couple in the music video

  • i havent watched that show in about 2 years are they divorced now?????

  • the first second i was, like wow, isn't it a coincidence that the actors from the Reba show to play in the video, and be divorced. but it makes sense if you know the show

  • wow that is crazy how they made song with them make u wounder if their will be in other show with them and how they are not together... crazy.. good song too :)

  • O ok thanks. thats deffently the blond in me. WOW!!!! I feel STUPID

  • @Sexeyback13 hey dont blame it on ur hair color its just a stupid moment we all have them...

  • @woog757 Yea but i have them alot so, i died my hair red and question how did u just notice its van and Cheyenne i noticed it the secoend i saw the video

  • Ti yperoxo kommati...s'agapaw akomi..

  • its the kids that got married from reba!! man im slow i just noticed that

  • @galvezmiddleanimal yeah I just noticed it too...

  • i think reba just used them in the vid.

  • she looks better with the red hair then blond

  • very nice song!!!

  • So does this video mean that Van and Cheyenne get divorce after the show ends?

  • @thegameal wait does that meanare they really married and not just in the show or am i misunderstanding

  • You are misunderstanding. They are only married on the show. thegameal is asking if the music video is a continuation of the show's story.

  • <3 van and cheyenne. this song is so sad, but amazing!!

  • take a look at this great song I found by Johnnie Panzani called Stay. I really liked it

  • anyone notice that the Mother and father are Van and Shian(sp?) from Reba's show

  • lol i noticed that to but i wasnt shure

  • why was the title of this video changed?

  • l stop this from happin l let her take my son away now lm rejecting it my parent dont even know lm dad but legally l can do nothin until he turn 18 an kncoks on my door

  • dont worry im sure..hell come and knock on ur door once hes 18...

  • Why isn't this video on itunes? i would love to buy it and watch it whenever I want.

  • Or you could just get firefox browser and the download helper and download it for free.

  • this song cuts deep. Im living this song now. I have my children and every other weekend I go drop them off, and when I see her my heart still drops. We both live our own lives, but she will always be the mother of my kids, my love for 10 years. My sons still ask when will live together again. I cry inside. I moved on finding some one new, but I will never be complete. You cant live the past.

  • wow that is really deep. i can honestly say this song reminds me of my parents as my siblings and i were growing up as children. my parents feel the same about eachother as you feel for the mother of your children. the only thing that is holding them back is pride, and a few family members who disagree on them being together again. its been 16 years since their divorce and it has hurt us, we still continue to suff til this day as we are all young adults. we dont get to spend any hoildays with

  • i cry when i hear this

  • this video is my whole life i would be goin back to back to homes when my parents divorced and to be honest both parents of mine were to blame for the divorce and i find this song very comforting to me

  • this song makes me so sad

  • i really don't see how anyone on here can say what they do about their parents. I guess you have to loose one to really appreciate them. As much as i despise my dad i am so glad i still have him.

  • aha! thats van and cheyanne from the show reba! thats so kool, i guess thats their kids or somthing

  • I know i misss her show so much!

  • she is cool

  • my mom and dad r gettin sepearted becsause when he would go away to work he was cheatein on her come to find out hes been doing this for 1yr and he stoped to see this woman and her kids b4 he came to see me and my brothers..my brother is like my dad i plan on haveing him give me away at my wedding

  • i love how they stay the same age and then there kids get older

  • reading all these comments make me want to cry harder :(

  • my parents were never married, nd my dad's a jerk, my mom's happily married to my step dad, nd i plan on having him give me away at my wedding.

  • this song gets me every time. i remember when my mom would drop me and my brother off at my dads for the weekend. i would cry every night wanting them to get back together. both my parents are re-married now, and seem to be happily married. it just was never the same though. divorce sucks.

  • hey im jw is that van and shyanne of the series?

  • Yes it is! I remember watching another video where Reba mentioned they were in the video!

  • yeah it is.she just died her hair that's all

  • Yes,they are

    This is soooo sad :(

    Where are those days when love starts?

  • My dad left before I was even born, he took off when he found out she was pregnant. I would rather have my parents in this difficult situation than to have seen him once in my life.

    On the other hand, since he's a jerk, I have a wonderful stepfather who gave me away at my wedding. Funny how life works out.

  • i just met my dad for the first time ever last month ...im 24 he walked out just like yours .... im glad you found a good father fugure , to love you :) your story remnded me of myself but now im goin thru this exact thing ...everyother weekend ....i guess its for the best tho ...cheers

  • Kids shouldn't have to go through something like that. America's family situation is sad. I'm glad my parents love each other and our family enough to stay together.

  • It is a horrible situation. My dad was married before he married my mom and so i had three older half siblings who came over every other weekend. I hated not seeing them all the time, I love them so much, and I can't even imagine how hard that would've been for them :(. I'm lucky. My parents have been together for 20 something years now :)

  • go on abc and vote for reba mcentire for the favourite female country music artist for the american music awards she deserves that award

  • this song makes me cry so much...me and my fiance just had a baby and i love them both so much but me and him are having a lot of issues right now...and it makes me want to try to mak this work even harder...I cant do this to her...I love her to much...to make her go without her daddy...she didnt ask to be born or to go through the mess were in...

  • it says Kenny Chesney in the title but you never see him in the video

  • I absolutely love how Reba has "Van and Shiane" from the show Reba in this video. Reba is amazing

  • I totally agree. That makes it an even better video. Kinda sad though, makes it look like van and cheyenne are "over"

  • I hope my kids never have to go threw this...and I hope their father and I never do either

  • I hope my kids don't have to either. I want to make sure that my husband and I are ready before we have kids so we never have to go through this. I'm not married by the way.

  • Well i have 3 kids and their father and I arent married yet we've been together 6 years

  • Congrats on ur kids. are you two planning on being married someday? sorry if im being too personal, you dont have to answer that if you dont want to.

  • yes hopefully next oct..i've been putting it off due to money

  • Congratulations. I hope you two will be really happy together for a long time! Yeah, not having the moeny for things can be a problem especially now. I'm sure you will have a beautiful wedding.

  • ugh society is going down the drain. women who have "baby daddys" dont respect themnselves. You're supposed to keep your legs clothes until you are MARRIED!

  • yeah, it's hell. my parents divorced when I was 4 & I didnt get to see him again until I was 7. We had visitations which almost always ended badly :(

  • my dad buned me

  • Reba always has such pretty eye makeup! This is one of my favorite songs ever!

  • it should be reba mcentire and kenny chesney

  • hey guys...i have a question...did this happen to van and cheyenne for real in the show or is it just in the video cuz used to watch reba but i dont have time anymore? :( ....Thanks :)

  • um not sure cables out so i haven't been able to watch show lately it might of been in a newier episode

  • No. the girl is obviously younger than the boy and Cheyanne & Van had a little girl first.

  • No it's not for the show. She just decided to use them in this music video. They actually ended up together in the show.

  • No it is not real, beacuse Cheyenne and Van had a girl firs and then she got preagnant again. At the end of Reba they stayed together-happili ever after. :P

  • no that didnt happen but everytime i see this vid. i wonder, sometimes i wish it was different people playing that part. still nice vid, and her hair is soo pretty

  • I love this song i saw my dad everyother weekend love this song!

  • wow really nice

  • OMG i love this song, i think it's so pretty. i love how she used van and Cheyenne for the music video.

  • reba u are so prettyyyyyyyy!!!!

  • I love her eye makeup in all her videos! She always looks fantastic!

  • i love the show reba and this video rocks

  • yes its can and cheyenne im a big fan of her show reba its a mad show and reba as a singer is amazing in herself and her songs are so touching i can relate to so many of her songs

  • yes!van and chayenne!

  • anyone else notice thats van and cheyne? from her show, with a older byo and younger girl, i wonder if this is rebas way of what couldve happend to them if the show hadnt ended

  • No i would not be the show because remember Cheyenne had a girl first and she got pregnant again so the girl would be older

  • No it would not be the show because Cheyenne had a girl first and then she got pregnant again so the girl would be older

  • it could have been the same way maybe the boy just seems older then he really was

  • this is my life, only i am not still in love with my ex

  • the best country ever

  • this song always breaks my heart. As a single mother, of a 18 month old, listening to this song, and knowing this is what REALLY does happen, Kills me. :(

  • meganight if you are living with at least one be happy some don't have that

  • im a 13 year old who has never lived with both of my parents and probably never will i want to know what it feels like

  • I just wanna say be happy for what you had. My mom died on my birthday when I was eight. My parents seperated before then, I LIVED on no money ..My mom negleced me. i was depressed a suicidel. I to this day dont know if my mom ever really loved me. I am the same age as you and I know just how you feel. Just wanted to let you know ur not alone, cuz i thought i was. be strong, this work out for the best. ( or so I heard)

  • My rents are seperated. Its just like that except its only me who goes to my moms.. I miss being toghter as a family... but I know that its ok I'm 17 and I just miss my family being whole

  • its because your country

  • im 23 and i think reba as a woman is about ten times hotter to me then any chick my age,shes a trophy,couger for sure!!

  • In the hit sitcom REBA (which can be seen daily on the Lifetime Television Network,)

    Joanna Garcia plays the role of Rebas daughter, Cheyenne, and Steve Howey plays the role of her son-in-law, Van. So, when it came time for the mother and father roles to be cast, Reba naturally thought of them.

  • I agree with Manolo0528 because on the television show, Van and Cheyanne had Elizabeth first. Whoever the boy in the video was, he looked older that her.

  • nooo i dont think anything happened to the two characters. i just think reba decided to put them in the video because this was after the show was off the air and thought it would be nice reunion you know?

  • ahh! why did she break up van and cheyenne? wtf?!

  • I miss the show so much.

  • i love this video

  • this reminds me how my life was on the weekends on weekend mom then the other dads

  • I have a question Why did they use the characters from the show??? I watch Reba but did something happen between Van and Cheyanne and it looks like they had another kid instead of Elizabeth! I havent seen it in a while!

  • They used the ACTORS from the show. (They love Reba & would do it for her.) However, there is no reference to to the show or its characters.