Heey andrea i have a question for u in this video u say always support ur friends, but in the speak for the self vid u say if some doesnt like some1 u can still like them but like if someone treated u friends like shit wud u still be nice to ``suzy``
This video reminded me of so much .. i had a ffriend that i treated like gold she didnt treat me the same she had to be cut off afterwards i found my life to be much more enjoyable without her them school started and she started badmouthing me and i couldnt help but feel confused .. i mean i said nothing about her to anyone at all and because of her i almist lost a boyfriend and three other friends and i alli could say to her was " u wanted to no why i cut u off... this is why" .. ok im done :)
i wish i had a friend like andrea cuz so many of my "friends" hate everything i do except my bff who i love and i would jump off a cliff for her and never talk bad about her cuz shes awesome.
Andrea you are the best I swear :-D! It's extremely hard to find a female friend that will treat you with the same respect that you described in this video but if & when you do hold on tight guys.
My problem is, I'm 21 and it's very hard for me to find new friends where I live. I'm not good at talking to people I just met and whenever I do make new friends they end up bailing on me. It hurts and it I'm starting to lose hope.
mmm disagree with that point on supporting your friends. I would always want my friend to tell me if I was doing something wrong and I will always tell my friends what I think. I don't just blindly support them. That doesn't help anybody.
@tru25ninja Hey dont worry about it.If you arnt happy right now if you dont fee like ypu have good friends rite now, keep searching, Theres good friends everytwhere we just need to open our eyes and see them :)
YOU ARE VERY INSPIRING ANDREA!! THANKS FOR BEING YOU! I DONT REALLY HAVE ANY GIRL FRIENDS BECAUSE EVERYONE IS NOT TRUE OR HONEST WITH THEMSELVES. GIRLS JUST WANT TO COMPETE. IT WOULD BE REALLY NICE IF I CAN FIND A FRIEND LIKE YOU!
Thanks for your advices, they´ve been very useful for me ´cause I´ve realized I was making mistakes with others but NO MORE! Thank u very much again, u r a cute person :)
This is super amazing. This does happen to me all the time. I always have those friends that just throw me to the ground, and bash on me when I"m not there. I've always did good deeds for my friends, stood up for them ect,. & This really teaches me how I should always be, and makes me think twice about who I feel like is a real friend to me.
this was me and my "best friend" from high school. one day it just hit me, "why am i hanging out with this girl?" I dont like myself when I'm around her, and I really don't want to be involved in the things she gravitates towards doing. and even though it confused a lot of people I just had to say to myself that I needed better friends, and I just kinda stopped hanging out with her. lem'me tell you it's weird how much i can accomplish now, while she and all her friends drink and do drugs. funny.
Sometimes I have to stop talking about the things that are good in my life bc sometimes some friends get jealous. And then you find out they're not really your friends. :( but its okay. God has a plan for all of us.
hi i have one question. What is ur 2 best friends always fight with each other and they always talk bad about each other 2 u, how do u think i should handle that?
@1Peachez11 When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. .It doesn’t mean that they are a bad person, it just means that their part in the story is over. And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead. You’ve got to know when it’s dead. You’ve got to know when it’s over.
@dbritton41 ii know ii realized not everyone that comes into your life are there to stay....so we must learn what we can from them and move on .....other come with bad intentions and iit can only make us stronger...:) and ii will and always treasure those who stay by my side even with my flaws, and mistakes iive made :)
Yeah.... i have been dealing with a jealous friend for so long now. It sucks because we used to be so close, and now she's decided to compete against me because she's insecure with herself...
WHAT IF your friend is doing something like inappropriate or bad or something that will ruin her reputation, should i support it? or confront her about it? because i want to tell her its wrong but im scared she;s gonna react badly :L
Andrea, i have fallen out big time with my close friend and ive said bad things about and she has too should i confront her about it or just leave it?
Andrea I wish there were more people like you! I ditched ALL my friends because they brought me DOWN because THEY were down when I was UP! And now I'm on a road to finding NEW friends who WONT bring me down.
To other people who are going through the same thing - leave those who make you feel bad or upset you or DONT treat YOU with RESPECT. Like they did to me.
I consider myself a good friend :) and because i am a good friend finding new ones wont be hard xoxo
Andrea, let me be honest. You always help me. ALWAYS. When things happen to me in high school, I usually think, "Okay, surely Andrea has tought me to cope with this in some way." and you always do! haha. Actually today something happened to me and I was a little hurt at first, but then I thought of your confidence video and I just shrugged my shoulders. Who cares?!?! Not me. You have tought me well.
I have to watch this again every once in awhile to remind myself not only how I want to be treated, but how I have to treat my amazing friends. Maintenance every once in awhile is definitely necessary...
This really made my day. I wish I could show my "friend" this video to show how much of a ass she is. We both used to draw avidly and she would always try to compete and make me feel bad about my art skills.
Omg im in love with you now! Haha not litterally but i do wish i could be your friend! This helped so much thank you. -3 take a look at my channel i just started. Dont know what to do with it...
my friends from last year kept talking crap about me behind my back and they knew that i knew. so i decided to keep it to myself and started talking to other people. then one of my "friends" was like, we talk about you, you can talk about us. we're gonna be friends anyway
it pissed me off so much i swear i wouldve blew her head off right there. like, who says that?! then i watched this video. so i found new friends.
this video helped me so much, i just wanted to say thankyou so much. <3
I watched this video a few months ago, and i decided to part ways with one of my closest "friends". she went after any guy i wanted, and she only did this because she shot my confidence down so much and pushed me around. i realized this and parted ways with her, the RIGHT way. she started to spread stuff about me, but everyone on her side eventually spoke up about her attitude & decided to stop being friends with her. i really hope she begins to be a better friend to people now. thanks Andrea.(:
I hate when my friends and I get mad and then they talks shit and its like I'm not talking shit bout u so don't talk shit bout me ..but it never works that way and even when we become friends again they still talk shit its like omfg where's ur life at o well their lost p.s- I love ur video it was nicely made :) thanks for making it
Well I am almost everything that you said, specially the part when you said "don´t compete with your friends". But I don´t know why I always get "friends" that want to compete with me and they never get happy with my success.
This really isn't a hater comment; you are truly like my favourite guru right now, but I don't agree with "your friends can do no wrong" - what if they're seriously damaging themselves by taking drugs or whatever? In that case I think you should tell them straight that they ARE wrong and try to help them get better :) <3
although i'm already aware of a lot of this, i thank you so much for posting it. lately i've needed to be reminded of how i should be treating my friends, and how my friends should be treating me.
thank you, you said everything clearly and simply the way it should be.
HELP?!? i just got one of the skool "losers" to hang with my group of friends! and in the beginnin my friends thort she down to earth, really nice and a great person! but now shes starting to be bitch coz she thinks shes top shit now bcoz she hangs with alot of friends now! I wanna say somethin to her bout it, but im scared!!! HELP? and i love ur vids Andrea! u seeem like a great friend! :)
HELP!? i just got one of the grades "losers" to come into my group of friends and shes shes so nice and everyrhing, but now that she has friends that are like in the crowd, she starts being up herself like shes acting shes top shit? and i wana say somethin but im scared to!!! HELP??
btw i love you Andrea! You seem to be the perfect friend!
Thanks a lot for this video. I really needed to see this to learn how to be a proper friend with other girls. Its much different being platonic friends with dudes, you bust their balls and don't really, "talk". I've been frustrated with my female friends and didn't know why because I have been treating them like dudes basically. Thanks a lot :)
i don't have friends anymore, not since i started dating my current boyfriend. i learned what kind of people they really were,when they started attacking me for no reason, and harassing him when he's always made me totally happy and treated me better than any other person i've ever met. my sister's my best friend, always has been. and when you're best friends are your family- life is good.
I wish u were my friend. I dont have close friends. Everyone i have trusted has talked crap behind my back. I was starting to think cool friends dont exist but u seem like u got that "dont to others" thing down.
im learning how to treat my friends like gold. but sometimes i dont feel they do the same... all i want is a friend thats like a sister that puts effort into a friendship
Not that this is happening to me, but I'm confused. When you said to accept them for who they are, what if they bully others, or is really snobby to others except for you? & About the "dont compete against your friends" part, what if they date your exboyfriend? I'm just kinda confused lol. Please answer.
could you make a video about making friends.. that sounds wierd but i have a hard time communicating with people like im very shy and i just want to know how i can... not be shy.
The 61 people that disliked this video are clearly bad friends. Everything you said here was TRUE! So god damn true. I absolutely LOVE this video, xoxo.
Girls like this are actually like gold, they're so difficult to find. I recently left a group of friends because they were telling people my personal business, bad mouthing people they didn't know and I also found out they look down on me because my parents aren't together cos thats CLEARLY my fault. I just couldn't handle it anymore, they were making me that way. There are very few people I consider to be good friends now, could count on two hands.
this is really beautiful said.. But don't be naive. You can make yourself rules and make agreements with friends. But the good thing about having friends is that you don't have to. Trust, faith and reliability are the most important aspects of being a friend! You should work for a teen magazine or something.. And I'm not trying to be offensive by saying that. But a lot of teens like to hear or read the stuff you are telling now to the world.
@totalglamourgirl and I mean "ditched" as in becoming best friends with that girl and stooping down to her level of cattiness without even noticing that she was losing me..
@totalglamourgirl Heyy! The same thing happened to me.. I did what Andrea mentioned about just parting ways. She had ditched me for this god awful bitch so I just stopped hanging out with her which wasn't that hard to do seeing as she spent all her time with the bitch. Haha basically I think you should part ways with her because there are a lot of other great girls that will make much better friends than her!
what do u do if your friends just start ditching you and you have absolutley no idea what you did? plz help me these are my good friends since second grade...oh and thx for this video. i'll try to uphold your rules :)
hey i was watching ur fried n idk what to do my friend which i tought it was my best fried bt ijust fond out tht she was saying tht she dont talk to me at all n tht we aint friends anymore n last year one of her friends talk shit aboutme n she didnt say anything n she got mad at me cuz i got mad at her cuz she didnt defend me so idk what to do i hope u can help me out
hey i was watching ur fried n idk what to do my friend which i tought it was my best fried bt ijust fond out tht she was saying tht she dont talk to me at all n tht we aint friends anymore n last year one of her friends talk shit aboutme n she didnt say anything n she got mad at me cuz i got mad at her cuz she didnt defend me so idk what to do i hope u can help me out
hey i was watching ur fried n idk what to do my friend which i tought it was my best fried bt ijust fond out tht she was saying tht she dont talk to me at all n tht we aint friends anymore n last year one of her friends talk shit aboutme n she didnt say anything n she got mad at me cuz i got mad at her cuz she didnt defend me so idk what to do i hope u can help me out
My "friend" use to constantly bash me and make fun of me. She would tell my other friends untrue and random shit about me to make herself look better. I finally wised up and told her off. We're not friends anymore and I feel 100% better :). I WISH she could see your video!
ur such a great person. I wish I could be more like you. I agree that you should accept your friends for who they are. I need to start working on accepting one of my friends for who they are instead of trying to muffle her personality. thank you so much. this is so inspiring.
I really wish there were more people like you. I have amazing friends and we would be willing to die for eachother without hesatation if we had to. I didnt have that last year. A "friend" of ours was turning us against eachother so there was alot of fighting. This year I have made it a personal goal to do the best I can to better my self as a person,a friend and family member. Now that that year is gone I have 7th grade to do the best I can to better myself . Thank you so much for the video.
Most "friends" my age are just bitchy to everyone. They talk shit about even their own "friends" and it makes no sense... I wish there were more friends like Andrea
Thank You For Making This Video, Andrea Me And A Friend Of Mine Just Recently "Parted" And Arent Really Friends Anymore, And She Does Talk Smack About Me To My Friends And Peers And It Hurts. But Now After Seeing This Video, Im Just Gonna Be Like "Kay? You Dont Like Me? Okay You Dont Have To. Dont Say Shit About Me And We'll Be Cool. Not Friends. But Not Those Two People That Always Talk Shit About Each Other And Just Try To Make The Other Feel Like Dirt" Love Your Videos, Andrea Truly Inspiring
It is allot easier to walk away then it is to face each other! good friends will try to fix things and work it out and try to be a better friend. and if it doesn't work out you weren't good friends at all!
I am a terrible friend but me and my bestie are terrible to each other we both do pretty crummy things to each other, But you also say that me and my friend are two different people. I am the one who has the big mouth and she is the one who doesn't say anything to me till it is too late then kinda makes me feel shittier. In the end I say sorry and all I can do is try to fix myself. I think friendship is working together even if you are bad to each other. Bc all humans make mistakes!
Damn, its a sad relazation to see that youre being a bad friend..
I recently got a boyfriend and Im of course in that stage of lovey doveyness where me and him are all that matters, my boyfriend goes to classes from three till about seven so my only chances to see him are in the mornings, my closest friend goes to school at normal hours and gets out at two so its perfect but i basicly blew my friend off for him for about an hour, its wrong but i dunno how to balance the two
My Friend just got went away from school becouse of her just yesterday becouse she said am acting like her mom balablabla and the thing is she aks me and my bestfriend advice we jsut say do do that do that she wouldt neven do that like what u have being sayin on youtube she would never put it in action we but she blaimed me
Heey andrea i have a question for u in this video u say always support ur friends, but in the speak for the self vid u say if some doesnt like some1 u can still like them but like if someone treated u friends like shit wud u still be nice to ``suzy``
TheAbbieSparks 4 days ago in playlist Andrea Speaks
You seem like such an amazing person and friend-3
Hungariancitz2011 1 week ago
Sadly of you pick the wrong person there's always a " end " I'm friend..
iLOVEcandy517 1 week ago
This video reminded me of so much .. i had a ffriend that i treated like gold she didnt treat me the same she had to be cut off afterwards i found my life to be much more enjoyable without her them school started and she started badmouthing me and i couldnt help but feel confused .. i mean i said nothing about her to anyone at all and because of her i almist lost a boyfriend and three other friends and i alli could say to her was " u wanted to no why i cut u off... this is why" .. ok im done :)
boniitachiika36 1 week ago
i wish i had a friend like andrea cuz so many of my "friends" hate everything i do except my bff who i love and i would jump off a cliff for her and never talk bad about her cuz shes awesome.
12swimmerfly 2 weeks ago
This is actiolly the first video I've seen ever since I subscribe you. Your positive vibe is amazing to me.
KathyCakes467 2 weeks ago
Awwww i agree with everything you said and me and my friends do all the right things you mentioned.. through thick and through thin
SweetnSourBeauty 2 weeks ago
as you get older, it becomes harder much more difficult to find friends. hence ,it becomes much easier to troll =P
themonstera 2 weeks ago
she has hennah on.. lol but totally true!
zahraaj 2 weeks ago
Andrea you are the best I swear :-D! It's extremely hard to find a female friend that will treat you with the same respect that you described in this video but if & when you do hold on tight guys.
Mocha101006 1 month ago
what if u don't want to be friends with someone anymore b/c they are annoying or something.
nickmaisto12 1 month ago
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Truth987Seeker 1 month ago
Seriously, Every single DON'T has been done to me -___-
I'm pretty much my own bestfriend.
ceefee11 1 month ago
@ceefee11 m2
IsyEyes 2 weeks ago
My problem is, I'm 21 and it's very hard for me to find new friends where I live. I'm not good at talking to people I just met and whenever I do make new friends they end up bailing on me. It hurts and it I'm starting to lose hope.
purelylindsay 1 month ago
your like big sister to me :)
tia3094 1 month ago 7
I so agree :)
jazzyfizzel94 1 month ago
OMG you should make more advice videos like this :D
craziibutseriousme 1 month ago 5
My friends never treat me like gold but I would do anything for them = (
HippiePower3 1 month ago
I will Love 2 be your Friend :-)
adriannagirad 1 month ago
oooooooooooooooh, now i knowww :/
maxisacrace 1 month ago
Thanks!(:
TheBeautyandskin 1 month ago
mmm disagree with that point on supporting your friends. I would always want my friend to tell me if I was doing something wrong and I will always tell my friends what I think. I don't just blindly support them. That doesn't help anybody.
missshaneena 1 month ago
I dont think i have a good friend? :(
tru25ninja 1 month ago
@tru25ninja Hey dont worry about it.If you arnt happy right now if you dont fee like ypu have good friends rite now, keep searching, Theres good friends everytwhere we just need to open our eyes and see them :)
NikiZify 1 month ago
YOU ARE VERY INSPIRING ANDREA!! THANKS FOR BEING YOU! I DONT REALLY HAVE ANY GIRL FRIENDS BECAUSE EVERYONE IS NOT TRUE OR HONEST WITH THEMSELVES. GIRLS JUST WANT TO COMPETE. IT WOULD BE REALLY NICE IF I CAN FIND A FRIEND LIKE YOU!
BrittMsBritt 2 months ago
I wish you were my mate in 'highschool' You're so strong-minded!
MyChemicalWay22 2 months ago
Thanks for your advices, they´ve been very useful for me ´cause I´ve realized I was making mistakes with others but NO MORE! Thank u very much again, u r a cute person :)
Sissy2505 2 months ago
You are just beautiful inside and out!
chellymrdillon 2 months ago
annddd DONT BE JEALOUS!
KammiieSammiie 2 months ago
U love concrete I think thats the Shit lol
NikkiRoseification 2 months ago
This is super amazing. This does happen to me all the time. I always have those friends that just throw me to the ground, and bash on me when I"m not there. I've always did good deeds for my friends, stood up for them ect,. & This really teaches me how I should always be, and makes me think twice about who I feel like is a real friend to me.
JuicyCoutureOutback 2 months ago
this was me and my "best friend" from high school. one day it just hit me, "why am i hanging out with this girl?" I dont like myself when I'm around her, and I really don't want to be involved in the things she gravitates towards doing. and even though it confused a lot of people I just had to say to myself that I needed better friends, and I just kinda stopped hanging out with her. lem'me tell you it's weird how much i can accomplish now, while she and all her friends drink and do drugs. funny.
missXmarie0990 2 months ago
ITS BACK!!! :D:D:D:D:D:DD:
girlyvintage8 2 months ago
Sometimes I have to stop talking about the things that are good in my life bc sometimes some friends get jealous. And then you find out they're not really your friends. :( but its okay. God has a plan for all of us.
bye0bye0birdy 2 months ago 6
I have HOORIBLE! Friends :( that sucks
pinkgirlylove 2 months ago
I have some crappy friends -.-
BAMFITSamber 2 months ago in playlist Andrea Speaks
whats the background music?????
lilomanner 2 months ago
Thanks!
Kaciesinger1 3 months ago
i wanna be your friend .
silly784 3 months ago
hi i have one question. What is ur 2 best friends always fight with each other and they always talk bad about each other 2 u, how do u think i should handle that?
thx, bye
MRdolphin134 3 months ago in playlist More videos from AndreasChoice 2
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I have no friends, no one understands me. =(
Quasi84 3 months ago in playlist Andrea Speaks
i recently got cut off by one of my close friends
iim not going to go iinto detail on why she did iit because honesly ii dnt know yy
but ii do know that it was because of a boy
iit was hard for me and iit took me so long to get over iit
but another friend came over to my house one day
she was also cut off by the same girl because of a guy
iits realy upsetting because ii treasure my friends adn keep their secrets even after tehy cut me off :( iidk ehts just sad
1Peachez11 3 months ago
@1Peachez11 When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. .It doesn’t mean that they are a bad person, it just means that their part in the story is over. And you’ve got to know when people’s part in your story is over so that you don’t keep trying to raise the dead. You’ve got to know when it’s dead. You’ve got to know when it’s over.
Treasure those ones that never betray you. :)
dbritton41 3 months ago
@dbritton41 ii know ii realized not everyone that comes into your life are there to stay....so we must learn what we can from them and move on .....other come with bad intentions and iit can only make us stronger...:) and ii will and always treasure those who stay by my side even with my flaws, and mistakes iive made :)
1Peachez11 3 months ago
Yeah.... i have been dealing with a jealous friend for so long now. It sucks because we used to be so close, and now she's decided to compete against me because she's insecure with herself...
xDreamCreateInspirex 3 months ago
You got to cross a good friend. It just wouldn't be right, to not Cross a a Good Friend. A really good friend should become family.
blvcccvrd 3 months ago
@blvcccvrd she means dont betray them.. not in a religious way
pinkgirlylove 3 months ago
Werent you in Sin City ??
TheBrradsullivan 3 months ago
I have not one friend because girls choose to compete with me. And I'm not bragging. I HATE it.
cupcake1264 3 months ago
WHAT IF your friend is doing something like inappropriate or bad or something that will ruin her reputation, should i support it? or confront her about it? because i want to tell her its wrong but im scared she;s gonna react badly :L
ooh, btw i likee our henna :Dx
Mubsx 3 months ago
Andrea, i have fallen out big time with my close friend and ive said bad things about and she has too should i confront her about it or just leave it?
Molly28xx 4 months ago 6
i hate my friends more nicer i am the more bitches they get
5juicygirl05 4 months ago 2
i try and be a good friend, but mine suck, their 2face and bitchy:(
kiarasumal125 4 months ago 6
Andrea I wish there were more people like you! I ditched ALL my friends because they brought me DOWN because THEY were down when I was UP! And now I'm on a road to finding NEW friends who WONT bring me down.
To other people who are going through the same thing - leave those who make you feel bad or upset you or DONT treat YOU with RESPECT. Like they did to me.
I consider myself a good friend :) and because i am a good friend finding new ones wont be hard xoxo
stalkingyourmomm 4 months ago 7
aww i love how your talking about this with he beautiful music in the background, hehe it's like something from a movie
evann1621 5 months ago
You are a great friend!!
pooja69patel 5 months ago 5
Andrea, let me be honest. You always help me. ALWAYS. When things happen to me in high school, I usually think, "Okay, surely Andrea has tought me to cope with this in some way." and you always do! haha. Actually today something happened to me and I was a little hurt at first, but then I thought of your confidence video and I just shrugged my shoulders. Who cares?!?! Not me. You have tought me well.
LPaige14 5 months ago 89
Im a bad friend :(
healingv1sion 5 months ago
Fuck off to anyone who disliked ..... like seriously??? Pure HATE!
AdreenaTalina 5 months ago 5
I have to watch this again every once in awhile to remind myself not only how I want to be treated, but how I have to treat my amazing friends. Maintenance every once in awhile is definitely necessary...
Thank you for the eye opener (:
hunerz305 5 months ago 3
This really made my day. I wish I could show my "friend" this video to show how much of a ass she is. We both used to draw avidly and she would always try to compete and make me feel bad about my art skills.
CaptainAyu 5 months ago
I'd LOVE to be your friend!
ebaNelvaNme 6 months ago 4
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be my friend </3 (:
KIddyTymz 6 months ago
Man I wish you were my friend.
lucyfletchermusic 6 months ago
ineed to rethink ...
sarahthewonder 6 months ago
'you love concrete? thats the shit' OMG I LOVE U LOL !
brucasluveroth 6 months ago 53
"don't talk about my friends. that is how you will get a new asshole." LMFAO ily
missaliciaxo 6 months ago 8
Omg im in love with you now! Haha not litterally but i do wish i could be your friend! This helped so much thank you. -3 take a look at my channel i just started. Dont know what to do with it...
cleoluvsyouu 6 months ago
you know what? my friends suck. >:(
margaritamaisky 6 months ago in playlist Andrea Speaks
my friends from last year kept talking crap about me behind my back and they knew that i knew. so i decided to keep it to myself and started talking to other people. then one of my "friends" was like, we talk about you, you can talk about us. we're gonna be friends anyway
it pissed me off so much i swear i wouldve blew her head off right there. like, who says that?! then i watched this video. so i found new friends.
this video helped me so much, i just wanted to say thankyou so much. <3
xtrishaa4 6 months ago
All your videos really inspire me to be a better person. Honestly you are the reason why I have become such a better person.
whenrobotsrule 6 months ago 5
your a great friend
y3y6 6 months ago
I watched this video a few months ago, and i decided to part ways with one of my closest "friends". she went after any guy i wanted, and she only did this because she shot my confidence down so much and pushed me around. i realized this and parted ways with her, the RIGHT way. she started to spread stuff about me, but everyone on her side eventually spoke up about her attitude & decided to stop being friends with her. i really hope she begins to be a better friend to people now. thanks Andrea.(:
JordynDoll 6 months ago
You look so much like Rosario Dawson!
carabobara17 6 months ago
You are a good friend
NeonPunk29 6 months ago
Wow Andrea. It seems like you have it all! I hope your friends really value having such a good friend like you <3
KoreanAngel795 6 months ago
Oh p.s- again 63 people have no friends
TheSammikay 6 months ago
I hate when my friends and I get mad and then they talks shit and its like I'm not talking shit bout u so don't talk shit bout me ..but it never works that way and even when we become friends again they still talk shit its like omfg where's ur life at o well their lost p.s- I love ur video it was nicely made :) thanks for making it
TheSammikay 6 months ago
you are sooooo cool <333
ChocolateVanessaFan 6 months ago
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xoBumbleBeeBabexo 6 months ago
i love you so much!! thanks for your advice :) you have truly inspired me to become more care-free around my close people :) stay awesome
love, hanna
mshannaluvsuby 7 months ago
Well I am almost everything that you said, specially the part when you said "don´t compete with your friends". But I don´t know why I always get "friends" that want to compete with me and they never get happy with my success.
Choices84 7 months ago 3
This really isn't a hater comment; you are truly like my favourite guru right now, but I don't agree with "your friends can do no wrong" - what if they're seriously damaging themselves by taking drugs or whatever? In that case I think you should tell them straight that they ARE wrong and try to help them get better :) <3
BelleMademoiselleVie 7 months ago in playlist Andrea Speaks 9
I seriously wish there were more girls like you out there.. Cause 99% of my so-called "friends" are the complete opposite of what you explained...
XoHelloILoveYouXo 7 months ago 4
although i'm already aware of a lot of this, i thank you so much for posting it. lately i've needed to be reminded of how i should be treating my friends, and how my friends should be treating me.
thank you, you said everything clearly and simply the way it should be.
Cindsrocksyo 7 months ago
your thumbnails ARE SO HOT.but your SO ULGY.
0DoughBoy0Films 7 months ago
@0DoughBoy0Films look at who has no confidence. just because you might think something doesn't mean you have to show the world, keep it to yourself.
MsWebby2011 7 months ago
@MsWebby2011 bitch got a penis?
0DoughBoy0Films 7 months ago
@0DoughBoy0Films psh yeah of course.
MsWebby2011 7 months ago
@MsWebby2011 bitch lesbian ?
0DoughBoy0Films 7 months ago
@0DoughBoy0Films psh yeah of course.
MsWebby2011 7 months ago
@MsWebby2011 bitch got cobwebs in pussay?
0DoughBoy0Films 7 months ago
@0DoughBoy0Films all up in there!
MsWebby2011 6 months ago
@MsWebby2011 peniss!!L!L!!L
0DoughBoy0Films 6 months ago
@0DoughBoy0Films lol
MsWebby2011 5 months ago
will you be my friend? ha
reubenblitz 7 months ago
HELP?!? i just got one of the skool "losers" to hang with my group of friends! and in the beginnin my friends thort she down to earth, really nice and a great person! but now shes starting to be bitch coz she thinks shes top shit now bcoz she hangs with alot of friends now! I wanna say somethin to her bout it, but im scared!!! HELP? and i love ur vids Andrea! u seeem like a great friend! :)
janieftw 7 months ago
HELP!? i just got one of the grades "losers" to come into my group of friends and shes shes so nice and everyrhing, but now that she has friends that are like in the crowd, she starts being up herself like shes acting shes top shit? and i wana say somethin but im scared to!!! HELP??
btw i love you Andrea! You seem to be the perfect friend!
janieftw 7 months ago
Thanks a lot for this video. I really needed to see this to learn how to be a proper friend with other girls. Its much different being platonic friends with dudes, you bust their balls and don't really, "talk". I've been frustrated with my female friends and didn't know why because I have been treating them like dudes basically. Thanks a lot :)
xXRawrJanisXx 7 months ago
i don't have friends anymore, not since i started dating my current boyfriend. i learned what kind of people they really were,when they started attacking me for no reason, and harassing him when he's always made me totally happy and treated me better than any other person i've ever met. my sister's my best friend, always has been. and when you're best friends are your family- life is good.
missXmarie0990 8 months ago
well said <3
pinkchicken1999 8 months ago
I know alot of people who should watch this at my school
MissJello2 8 months ago
You Inspire Me !
viridiana2270 8 months ago
THUMBS FUCKING UP !! GREAT VIDEO !!!
Aviao100 8 months ago
dang. i have some shitty friends >.<
itszeldaaxD 8 months ago
i seriously wish i'd watch this a few months ago...
CamiixxJasmineV 8 months ago
Im in love with concrete.
CaylaJewel01 8 months ago 37
well damn. I just realized that I have some shitty friends.
but it's cool, cuz i'm a bad one too. Thanks for giving me incentive to fix that <3
artielove96 8 months ago 141
I wish u were my friend. I dont have close friends. Everyone i have trusted has talked crap behind my back. I was starting to think cool friends dont exist but u seem like u got that "dont to others" thing down.
AngelandAna1 8 months ago 8
im learning how to treat my friends like gold. but sometimes i dont feel they do the same... all i want is a friend thats like a sister that puts effort into a friendship
sweetsweetsz 8 months ago 8
@sweetsweetsz i know how you feel :/
itszeldaaxD 8 months ago
Not that this is happening to me, but I'm confused. When you said to accept them for who they are, what if they bully others, or is really snobby to others except for you? & About the "dont compete against your friends" part, what if they date your exboyfriend? I'm just kinda confused lol. Please answer.
LovelyBeauty21 8 months ago
could you make a video about making friends.. that sounds wierd but i have a hard time communicating with people like im very shy and i just want to know how i can... not be shy.
beutiful25 8 months ago
so a video on finding good friends! It would be really helpful!
woahhitsbriana 8 months ago
i loved watching this video so much
TheBillibabu 9 months ago
Here I am...watching this video...taking notes.
<3
SaraStickAround 9 months ago 3
this made me realise ive only got two REAL friends <3
missKirstenxox 9 months ago
@missKirstenxox Bad news Kirsten, you should have realized that without having to see this video :/
Lionh34r7 9 months ago
@Lionh34r7 hm ok
missKirstenxox 9 months ago
The 61 people that disliked this video are clearly bad friends. Everything you said here was TRUE! So god damn true. I absolutely LOVE this video, xoxo.
SofaKingThoroTV 9 months ago
Girls like this are actually like gold, they're so difficult to find. I recently left a group of friends because they were telling people my personal business, bad mouthing people they didn't know and I also found out they look down on me because my parents aren't together cos thats CLEARLY my fault. I just couldn't handle it anymore, they were making me that way. There are very few people I consider to be good friends now, could count on two hands.
Cherryobby 9 months ago
@Cherryobby I hope you find new amazing friends, no-one deserves that kind of treatment!
PipSparkle41 9 months ago
i was afraid to watch this video.. uh..
katyandmiabffs 9 months ago
this is really beautiful said.. But don't be naive. You can make yourself rules and make agreements with friends. But the good thing about having friends is that you don't have to. Trust, faith and reliability are the most important aspects of being a friend! You should work for a teen magazine or something.. And I'm not trying to be offensive by saying that. But a lot of teens like to hear or read the stuff you are telling now to the world.
MrBrightside89BE 9 months ago 2
@totalglamourgirl and I mean "ditched" as in becoming best friends with that girl and stooping down to her level of cattiness without even noticing that she was losing me..
27lisalisa 9 months ago
@totalglamourgirl Heyy! The same thing happened to me.. I did what Andrea mentioned about just parting ways. She had ditched me for this god awful bitch so I just stopped hanging out with her which wasn't that hard to do seeing as she spent all her time with the bitch. Haha basically I think you should part ways with her because there are a lot of other great girls that will make much better friends than her!
27lisalisa 9 months ago
my good friend just totally backstabbed me for this girl i really dont like. shes really mean, what should i do? cut her off? or make upp...
totalglamourgirl 9 months ago
what do u do if your friends just start ditching you and you have absolutley no idea what you did? plz help me these are my good friends since second grade...oh and thx for this video. i'll try to uphold your rules :)
okay12898 10 months ago
i wish i would have a friend that would be just something like that... But i dont... your friedns are lucky..
Notahateronly4school 10 months ago
please be my best friend??? haha
TiffyTindellMusic 10 months ago
Your a breath of fresh air. FINAL i have found someone with the exxact same beliefs
bozzojbe 10 months ago 3
what do you mean by "crossing friends"
goodgal16 10 months ago
I wish there were more people like you lol
cat0891 10 months ago 3
I had a friend who broke every single one of your rules... Needless to say I'm not at all friends with her anymore
turkeyzrdabomb 10 months ago
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hey i was watching ur fried n idk what to do my friend which i tought it was my best fried bt ijust fond out tht she was saying tht she dont talk to me at all n tht we aint friends anymore n last year one of her friends talk shit aboutme n she didnt say anything n she got mad at me cuz i got mad at her cuz she didnt defend me so idk what to do i hope u can help me out
thnx :)
nenabellaify 10 months ago
hey i was watching ur fried n idk what to do my friend which i tought it was my best fried bt ijust fond out tht she was saying tht she dont talk to me at all n tht we aint friends anymore n last year one of her friends talk shit aboutme n she didnt say anything n she got mad at me cuz i got mad at her cuz she didnt defend me so idk what to do i hope u can help me out
thnx :)
nenabellaify 10 months ago
hey i was watching ur fried n idk what to do my friend which i tought it was my best fried bt ijust fond out tht she was saying tht she dont talk to me at all n tht we aint friends anymore n last year one of her friends talk shit aboutme n she didnt say anything n she got mad at me cuz i got mad at her cuz she didnt defend me so idk what to do i hope u can help me out
thnx :)
nenabellaify 10 months ago
i think that all friends do compete a little and i think there;s nothing wrong with that
whitefrost123 10 months ago
I wish my friends would watch this...they do the exact opposite of everything mentioned in this video to me
jennarossity23 10 months ago
I've been ditched by my friends for their boyfriends.....thats why im on YouTube LOL!
CoutureSista 10 months ago
My "friend" use to constantly bash me and make fun of me. She would tell my other friends untrue and random shit about me to make herself look better. I finally wised up and told her off. We're not friends anymore and I feel 100% better :). I WISH she could see your video!
thehapagirl92 10 months ago
the advice you give is so amazing. better than my mom!!!!
Lsivanandan 10 months ago
I feel I'm a good friend but the only problem is .. I don't know how to make friends.. ;-;
DuskPixiee 10 months ago
Your videos are better than self-help books
I'm gonna be up til like 4 watching these...tho I have midterms tomorrow :(
Aleu 10 months ago
ur such a great person. I wish I could be more like you. I agree that you should accept your friends for who they are. I need to start working on accepting one of my friends for who they are instead of trying to muffle her personality. thank you so much. this is so inspiring.
razzberrry 10 months ago
I really wish there were more people like you. I have amazing friends and we would be willing to die for eachother without hesatation if we had to. I didnt have that last year. A "friend" of ours was turning us against eachother so there was alot of fighting. This year I have made it a personal goal to do the best I can to better my self as a person,a friend and family member. Now that that year is gone I have 7th grade to do the best I can to better myself . Thank you so much for the video.
GirlsRock951 10 months ago
ur so sweet and a good frnd XOXO
Lovelybeautyluver 10 months ago
Most "friends" my age are just bitchy to everyone. They talk shit about even their own "friends" and it makes no sense... I wish there were more friends like Andrea
CarleyLoves 10 months ago
The best video with the soundest advice!
I love most of your videos but rarely comment. I have to say this one tops them all.
Thank you.
indigostarburst 10 months ago
Thanks for the vid! great outlook . great advice (;
NelahLove 10 months ago
kewl rulz to live by... thanks... ur friendz r luckeee
peazlove247 10 months ago
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BAMitsRuzi 11 months ago
Out of all the videos you've done, this one is by far you're best video. great job and continue to do these Andrea Speak videos. They are great :)
lannababy9 11 months ago
Does anyone know a perfume that smells like VS love spell?
amandaparker25 11 months ago
Thanks for the video, its great !
fruitystar98 11 months ago
Thank You For Making This Video, Andrea Me And A Friend Of Mine Just Recently "Parted" And Arent Really Friends Anymore, And She Does Talk Smack About Me To My Friends And Peers And It Hurts. But Now After Seeing This Video, Im Just Gonna Be Like "Kay? You Dont Like Me? Okay You Dont Have To. Dont Say Shit About Me And We'll Be Cool. Not Friends. But Not Those Two People That Always Talk Shit About Each Other And Just Try To Make The Other Feel Like Dirt" Love Your Videos, Andrea Truly Inspiring
AlwaysTheBadGirl 11 months ago
I liked this video a lot. I love seeking and receiving wisdom. Thank you for making that easy Andrea!
divsstephrose 11 months ago 71
It is allot easier to walk away then it is to face each other! good friends will try to fix things and work it out and try to be a better friend. and if it doesn't work out you weren't good friends at all!
eenersux 11 months ago
I am a terrible friend but me and my bestie are terrible to each other we both do pretty crummy things to each other, But you also say that me and my friend are two different people. I am the one who has the big mouth and she is the one who doesn't say anything to me till it is too late then kinda makes me feel shittier. In the end I say sorry and all I can do is try to fix myself. I think friendship is working together even if you are bad to each other. Bc all humans make mistakes!
eenersux 11 months ago
SOOOO TRUE
floorz08 11 months ago
i love this music =D
goes well with the video x
SydellexX 11 months ago
lmfao..i dont care if they're in love with concrete cement?...you think like me
therealgofallgs 11 months ago
Damn, its a sad relazation to see that youre being a bad friend..
I recently got a boyfriend and Im of course in that stage of lovey doveyness where me and him are all that matters, my boyfriend goes to classes from three till about seven so my only chances to see him are in the mornings, my closest friend goes to school at normal hours and gets out at two so its perfect but i basicly blew my friend off for him for about an hour, its wrong but i dunno how to balance the two
BikinikilI 11 months ago
My Friend just got went away from school becouse of her just yesterday becouse she said am acting like her mom balablabla and the thing is she aks me and my bestfriend advice we jsut say do do that do that she wouldt neven do that like what u have being sayin on youtube she would never put it in action we but she blaimed me
TrudyMununkum 11 months ago
Thank you for being a friend, my dear ;)
XTheWickedShadowX 11 months ago
You have hennah on :D
joenasluver95 11 months ago
Wow, I want you to be my best friend(:<3
glitterygirlxoxo 11 months ago
nice mehendhii :) r u indian :)
Karnvir16 11 months ago
i noticed the medendi on your hand! lol :)
nepalichiq 11 months ago