This is How You Give Constructive Criticism to People (It's much more accepted)

[DoyIeHargraves]

You sure are hung up on people bein' sweet.

[wildslave1]

Do a video on what you think about white that are attractive to Black woman

[Fearless2005]

EVERYTHING YOU READ WAS ACCORDING TO THAT MAN'S EXPERIENCE WITH BLACK FEMALES. WHEN IT COMES TO THE ETHIOPIAN FEMALE.. THE WHOLE VIDEO WAS A RESPONSE VIDEO TO SOMEONE REGARDING INTERRACIAL DATING WITH BLACK FEMALES. THROUGHOUT HER VIDEO, NOT ONCE DID SHE SAY "ALL" BLACK WOMEN. SHE DID SAY MOST (OVER 50%) . MORE BLACK MEN ARE SPEAKING OUT AGAINST THE DEEDS OF BLACK FEMALES BECAUSE OF HOW BLACK FEMALES HAVE ATTACKED & PUT US DOWN OVER THE DECADE. BLACK FEMALES DO SAY "THERE NO GOOD BLACK MEN"

[Fearless2005]

@Fearless2005 WHY WHEN BLACK FEMALES PUT BLACK MEN DOWN, THEY'RE KEEPING IT REAL, BUT WHEN BLACK MEN VOICE THEIR OPINIONS AND CONCERNS... HE HAS TO HATE HIS MOMMA, AUNT, SISTER, ETC? LOL ISN'T THAT A DOUBLE STANDARD? BLACK MEN HAVE NO ALWAYS SPOKE OUT AGAINST THEIR OWN WOMEN... THERE'S A REASON FOR ALL OF THIS HOSTILITY TOWARDS BLACK FEMALES. THE MORE BLACK FEMALES REFUSE TO LISTEN TO THE HEART OF THE BLACK MAN, THEN FURTHER APART HE WILL GROW AGAINST AND AWAY FROM YOU.

[lovie2000]

@Fearless2005 Did you actually listen to my video... I sometimes think that people have selective hearing. not once did I go against what the Black man experiences or the Black woman.... I simply read a Black mans, reasoning behind why he doesn't date Black women.. and agree with what he said in relation to SOME women, not ALL. Some Black men and some Black women both have problems and issues that lie deeper than what is being told or displayed.... and bashing each other is not going to solve it

[Fearless2005]

@lovie2000 YES I LISTENED AND THOUGHT IT WAS A GOOD VIDEO & ADVICE. BUT I ALSO THOUGHT THAT BLACK WOMEN NEED TO TAKE THE SAME ADVICE WHEN THEY SPEAK OF BLACK MEN, AND EVEN THEIR SONS THAT'S DYING IN THE STREETS. SO MANY YOUNG BLACK MALES HAVE TO HEAR FROM THEIR MOTHERS "YOU AIN'T SH*T, JUST LIKE YOUR DAMN DADDY AIN'T SH*T!" CHARITY STARTS AT HOME AND SPREADS ABROAD. BLACK FEMALES LAUNCHED THE WORLD ATTACK ON BLACK MEN A LONG TIME AGO. BLACK MEN ARE NOW FIGHTING BACK AND IT DON'T FEEL GOOD.

[rdatlasmbrd]

@Fearless2005 can't argue with women. they believe they are always right.

[Fearless2005]

@rdatlasmbrd SO TRUE! THAT'S WHY THE BLACK RACE WILL CONTINUE TO SUFFER AS A PEOPLE.

[rdatlasmbrd]

@Fearless2005 EXACTLY! IF WE ARE MAN ENOUGH TO SAY WE ARE WRONG EVEN THOUGH WE ARE RIGHT THEN HOW CAN WOMEN AND MEN COME TO A COMPROMISE, ONE THOUGHT FOR PROGRESSIVENESS!

[lovie2000]

@Fearless2005 As far as the Ethiopian woman, this video was not about her..... however I did choose to state that her video was taken the wrong way, because of the way she delivered her message..... and I stand by that

[lovie2000]

@Fearless2005 Yes she said the majority, then she went to 50%, then she went to over 90%...... now which one is it..... that is part of the point..... she was all over the place throwing out false stats

[Fearless2005]

@lovie2000 SHE MENTIONED OVER 90% WHEN SHE WAS SPEAKING OF A PARTICULAR THING, LIKE DATING OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE, OR DATING ASIANS. LISTEN TO HER VIDEO CAREFULLY WITHOUT GETTING HUNG UP ON THE WORDS "BLACK WOMEN." IT'S ALL ABOUT HER CONTENT, AND I DIDN'T SEE WHERE SHE DELIVERED IT WRONG. BESIDES, IF YOU AS AN INDIVIDUAL KNEW SHE WASN'T REFERRING TO OR DESCRIBING YOU.. THERE'S NO NEED TO TAKE OFFENSE. .

[lovie2000]

@Fearless2005 That would be like me getting on a video, saying the majority of Black men about 50%; ain't worth a damn.... they make babies and leave their women to take care of them..uhmmm over 90% I say.are either locked up gay or don't have a job, or sleeping with 5 - 6 women at one time.. they are not father material.....Now that wouldn't be right would it? There is absolutely no truth in what I just said in this comment... because they are numbers guessed and thrown up by me and my opinion

[Fearless2005]

@lovie2000 FUNNY YOU SAID THAT, I'VE HEARD THAT FROM THE MAJORITY OF THE BLACK FEMALES I'VE SPOKEN TOO. I EVEN HEARD THE MAJORITY OF BLACK FEMALES SAY THAT "THERE ARE NO GOOD BLACK MEN, ALL BLACK MEN ARE DOGS, BLACK MEN DON'T TAKE CARE OF THEIR CHILDREN, ETC..." JUST WATCH & LISTEN TO ALL THE THE ANTI BLACK WOMEN VIDEOS ON YOUTUBE THAT WERE CREATE BY BLACK MEN, AND A FEW BLACK WOMEN. THEY ALL HAVE THE SAME THOUGHTS, AND SAY THE SAME THING. WHAT THAT FEMALE SAID WASN'T NEW TO YOUR EARS.

[mssmia14]

Wow, everything he said was negative. I wonder how he feels about his mother, sisters, cousins, and aunties ? I do believe some black women are that way, but there has to be a rhyme/reason for it. Of course, if another person man/woman cared enough they would want to find out why or ask why. I know one thing, I’m glad God is not like man. Imagine, if God got tired of our daily short comings, walks off and leaves…oh Lord where would be.

[lovie2000]

@mssmia14 Yes it was something else, but according to him, they were actual experiences.... and I do know some women that act the way that he described, so I must say I believe he did experience that and it is true... but like I keep saying people have to be careful how they say things, because the majority of Black women are not like what is being described.... nor do I believe that the majority of Black feel this way about Black women

[twister7boy]

hey girl.

wow sounds like any woman on earth not just one race.

and i dont mean all women if one is loud they are loud just like any man.

you just gotta keep out there until you find one that works for you.

i like a woman that tells it like it is anyway.

wow this guy never met a lot of my girlfriends.

yeah its all about how you say things.

im not the best at it.

nothing anybody says could change my mind about my friends :)

nighty night

[lovie2000]

@twister7boy True, I know women of other races that are loud and angry.... one of my cousins to be exact, she gives my cousin hell

[seand67]

THANK YOU. I love the way that you addressed this wave of negativity that is taking over the You Tube community.

[TruthSerum101]

Honestly, I don't like being addressed via my race/ethnicity. It's a turn off and almost always involves a compromise of my esteem. I'm not doing it. I'm an individual and I'd rather be addressed via my conduct - I can change that but I can't change my race. I won't be "grouped" by race rhetoric and lazy thinkers.

A lot of what people hear is what they focus upon.

[Buddhalocks]

Well said!

[october81972]

You made excellent points in this video!