TAG: My Perfect Imperfections + CONFIDENCE Advice!

[hhhhhiiiidccch]

you are beautiful <3 <3

[lipglossgirlja]

this one i can truly relate too your opening statement :)

[Hazelsaurus]

PREACH! WE NEED MORE CONFIDENT GIRLS LIKE YOURSELF! YOURE SO REAL AND I LOVE YOU! KEEP IT UP!

[hurd98]

What's your ethnicity? You're beautiful. :)

[MoniLovesRihanna]

I fucking love you :)

[ZeLdALoVeRAiShAGrEeN]

@NYCLuck

shut the hell up! i bet ur disgusting

[ZeLdALoVeRAiShAGrEeN]

my right side is better! but both of your sides are good!

[MsArabswag]

@NYCLuck nigga stfu!

[ValeriaR32]

stop with the damn hatefull comments...

[krageediana]

"shut the fuck up already..nobody gives a fuck!!"

amen..girl..AMEN.

[78mamichula]

Every time I look at ur videos u remind me of kimora Simmons you very pretty:)

[567Katii]

LOVE LOVE LOVE this video!!! :D thankyou..... lmao that cushion comment make me literally lol, thank you hun you really make me feel stronger!! I need to watch this more often!!! :) Favourited <3 xx

[BellaDonna0912]

I love your personality! Your amazing hun!

[3n3n505]

GIRL I LOVE THIS VIDEO <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

[michiiLein123]

i like you and your way of seeing life.

thx for being yourself and REAL ♥

[565michelle]

AMEN SISTA !

[mj3evr]

OMG my new fave guru. Good thing i discovered you . I like your realness and confidence. PLus you hella funny and pretty girl. Anyways take care luvs Jajaira

[aalytah]

BEST VIDEO IN YOUTUBE =) THANK YOU!!

[Yesefa999]

I'M THE SHIT!! :) Thanks you so much for this video, really you make me feel so much better about my weight and everything and you are so right, mo matter what people think about my shape, what matters is how I feel about it (and i'm working on that) :)

Thanks for your videos!

[PinkCalhoun]

"i'M THE SHIT" you sold me on that one.. I said it with you and it was impowering... Your awesome.. I am glad I ran by your videos... Don't change girl... keep it up!

[MsChelsBunny]

15:01 <3

[tiayoung18]

Preach girl!!! Omg like this video was SOOO inspiring and funny. Thank u u made my day with this video

[SamsaraCreazioni]

I REALLY REALLY ADORE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You're a beautiful person (inside and outside) and I agree with every single word you've said! Thanx for this vid! Hugs from Italy...

Grazia

[OUantmfan]

just subbed! thank you for doing this!(:

[xHalf]

Loved the confidence talk!

[livsterr18]

@LoveBLENDnBeauty Ohh, i See(: haha!

[livsterr18]

REAL LADIES HAVE CRUVESS <3 (:

I have the same thing about my wrists, hips & knees, you can feel my bones right there, yet they look big. haha(:

how old were you when you got your tounge pierced?!

i Really want mine done!

&& Oh yeah, IM THE SHIT! (: Haha!

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@livsterr18 humm, i was 19 i believe :) i've had it for about 7 years, i seriously forget it's there, lol ..

[fanoflife23]

im the shittt!~ LOL

[xfranc1n3x]

Heard about you from gurugossip (yeah, I know you read that stuff too LOL) and this was the first vid I saw

I think you're a very beautiful person, on the inside out :) thanks for being real and just being YOU! You're quite an inspiration

You just earned yourself a new subbie LOL

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@xfranc1n3x GuruGossip? forreal? haha .. now i'm curious =P lol .. thank you though, that's really sweet of you to say :) thank you for subbing!!!! <3 xoxo

[kyrafrancesx3]

do you have a tongue piercing? haha, anywaysss you're freaking gorgeous & i love youu <3

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@kyrafrancesx3 yup, i do! :)

[xSHAii93x]

youuu aree speakinn out the truthh babbyyy i lovee youu!!!!!!!!!!!

[jennypassion]

loved this video Rach! you are awesome and i love your personality!

[pacificsouljah808]

I effin love you.

[MamitaLinda87]

Girl, I just ADORE you! : )

[STR4WB3RRYS0UFFLE]

I was just gonna say you have a really nice nose! haha

[phatfaces73]

I heard the fuck outta that girly u took it too church fo real love it n nicely said.... As always stay fab n sweet ;)

[AbiRaquel]

nicely said! i love this vid! u tell them bitches girl, =]

[AbiRaquel]

nicely said! i love this vid! u tell them bitches girl,

[lxlstephbabie]

i f*cking love this! haha your so real just came across u and subbed!!

[HekeladRosenblum]

lmao!! I love u for this!! YES i feel u on the THICKNESS!! The thinnest i ever been in my life is 135 too!! i got that Pilipino nose! and all six of my brothers n sisters do too!! lmao..Love u boo! xoxo

[SHeReLLe107]

yesssssssssss! thats whats up! aaye i have the exact same things going on.. i part my bangs on the left side so that they fall and cover a bit of the right side of my face because DAMN that other side can be another person jajaj. aight aighttt. not that bad but yes.. one of my eyes is smaller than the othr and my left side is my good side. & thank you for speaking so honestly. i lovee my curves, my thickness & so does my baby's daddy =] keep posting <3

[Kymberly23xoxo]

haha LOVED this video!!!!

[babypuma5]

Like like like and LOOOVVVEEEE this video!! There's no problem to being big boned cause I know I am!

[loanieecakes08]

this is the reason why i continue to watch your videos (:

[Morghanah]

I'm kinda sad that you didnt mention you'r lips as a good thing about yourself, I would love to have as full and beautiful lips as you:) Also I love you'r nose, it's really cute and I hate mine:) You'r awsom, keep at it :)

[x33jayjay]

i like my left side better also!!! :)

[AprilAthena7]

Your skin really is FLAWLESS skin!!! :) It is AMAZING! I love your nose too! It's soo cute! I loove everything about you! Soo true, it's a button nose! You are soo pretty!

[kjonsay03]

My sisters and I have a bridge as well.. kinda glad too that we dont have the typical flat filipino nose! hahaha keep up the good vids!

[themakeupsnob]

You look gorgeous with all your perfect imperfections! love this tag too! What you said about confidence is inspiring. Thanks for bringing that back to the top of everyones mind, xoxo Sara

[3xquisit3]

I was just about to say "I hope she says she likes her nose" everytime I watch your videos Ii'm like ugh...her nose is so cute!

[MZveenuh]

i love love love this video!!! loving how you keepin it 100 (:

[chickenz56]

and i genuinly genuinly genuinly appreciate the fact that you pointed out the weight issues.. BOTH SITUATIONSS. not the the thickalicious girls but the stick skinny ones too!!! IM SO TIRED OF PEOPLE telling me how skinny i am.. FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK YOU!. im thin and im small. and im ighht wid that. (;

[chickenz56]

maybe he likes the cushion. oh girl you know the right things to say LOL. thank you for this vid. honestly.

[NATAL1ASD]

THUMBS UP ! love ur videos !!

[12AYofSUNshyne]

Watching this.. made me feel better.. thank u..

[miszjenn87]

Thanks for the video. You spoke out to all of those girls who have been judge because of weight. & Im one of them who have been judge because Im small. ;)

Thank girl.... <3

[marla06]

i loved this video and it made me laugh!! oh yeah and I'M THE SHIT! haha

[E333999]

At the end when you kept swearing my mom thought it was me talking to her whooooopsy XD lol shoulda turned down the volume. great job on the tag :)

[ilai3]

oooh, can you please make a video on your skincare routine. . and basically how you got your skin to be like it is now?! :D pls.

[SlickChick88]

@ilai3 she already did

[octoberL0VE]

i LOVED this video. i really like your honesty and i love your confidence i wish i had your confidence :( lol but im tyrna fix that.. And your hella prettty btw

[idida90degreeang]

OMG. I Love you!

Your the shit!! hahah =]

[angelicax3]

YOU'RE SO HONEST, AND REAL. i love you<3

[secretswellkept]

I love this video! Lol. I agree with what you're saying when you say when a girl doesn't like a guy commenting on her weight then she shouldn't say it to another girl. That's so screwed up that girls are meaner to other girls than a guy to a girl. It's sad that it happens but it's so true. I think a lot of girls are more criticized by their girl friends then by guys. It's one of my gripes too lol, You're awesome!

[molls8898]

I feel ya girl, you inspire me and I think you're beautiful. Any girl is beautiful as long as she works it too. And thank you for spreading this message. It's truly inspiring and touching.

[nikkithebrat]

Great advice girl! I know what you mean about not letting others opinions change how you feel about yourself. I used to be so stick skinny and was teased about it in middle school.. pretty much bullied. Then I finally filled out and I love it so much. The main reason why I'm so happy with myself and how I look/looked is because of my boyfriend of 6 years. He's always reassures me I'm beautiful. It's people with their own issues that bash on others. Love this vid, stay beautiful! :D

[wind0wbird]

in the vietnamese culture, have a "tall" nose i.e. a nose with bridge it's a sign of fortune but i just think that all asians believe having a tall nose is pretty & lucky

[cydney1234]

LOVED this vid!!! =]

[xXThuyXx]

I love this and your personality your one of my favorite youtube guru out there

I've always been told that I was fat from my family and parents even when I weigh less then most girls my age

But now my bf tells me everyday I'm pretty the way I am and trying to build my confident

This video made my day too -33

[oooakevooolution]

i fucking love you :)

[joanlovesjake]

omg i love you....everyone would always make fun of how skinny i am...customers i wait on still ask me "do you eat?" it hurts sooo bad when they say that, but i love my shape...

[p1napplez]

Love you :) xx

[MisMandula007]

This video made my day! :) and especially the last seconds of it... Thank you soooo much Rachel! I've never commented on your chanel before, but I always loved your personality! You , girl, are wonderfull! Hugs from Europe! ♥

[kayboogy]

"I'M THE SHIT!" lol! Love you Rachael!

[brittnylove2]

rachel i love you, youre so amazing and inspiring, i wish i could be as confident as you!

[shoneladii]

Love Tha Vid =) you stated that at one time you had skin problem in the past . . .I have a 11 year old daughter that has slight acne...idk how to help her...can you please give me some advise!!!

[msmatched]

matangos is having like a stereotypical white american nose.. and the opposite of that is pango which is like a flat nose. I grew up with people calling me mestisang pango cause they tell me that I can pass of as a white girl except for my nose so that's why it stuck with me what the noses are called. :)

[msmatched]

When I started watching this video I was like WHAT THE F? 19 minutes?? But when you started talking I was like... woah, so worth my 19 minutes. :)

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@msmatched haha thanks for watching all the way through :)

[starcy8899]

Reali hope to c ur voluptuous figure!!!

OOTD Mayb? Can teach how big gals can dress up n b sexy too!

Big thanks!

Love from Singapore!

[azm]

You should post videos of your VM performances!

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@azm unfortunately i can't because VM is copyrighted to Eve Ensler. it's meant to be performed in a certain way and only with her permission are we allowed to put it out there to the public. some people put it up online anyway, but if she were to find it, she could seize it if she wanted to. sorry :( i wish tho! :T

[MeCrissyMe]

say it like it is, girl! as far as you cursing... sometimes I could ONLY use shit, damn, fuck to express myself and "I" think you just passionate!! I just moved to Sac, we should kick it ;D I like ur videos and I'm sure theres others that feel the same way so "shack them haters off" lol

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@MeCrissyMe that's a great way to say it .. i'm passionate!! passionate i am indeed, i get told that all the time, haha ...

[onesmileygirl]

I love this video! I love how real you are. I love how you tell it like it. You have such great confidence. I admire that about you. You make me really think twice about how I need to be more confident about myself. My hubbie loves everything about myself. I'm always doubting him when I ask him about my weight. He says he loves everything about me. :) I'm lucky and blessed to have such a wonderful hubbie. Thanks for doing this video.

[krysology]

vulgarity... I LOVE IT :D

[naty1412]

IM THE SHIT!

no one coulda said what you just said any better! thanks for this video it was great and your great... and you THE SHIT ;-)

[littletiger06]

LOL i have two words for you "FUCK YOU" lol awesome.. say it girl =)

[19sarettina87]

thanks



[LUSSINDER]

you have a really cute nose!!!

[riosrenee]

Love this video!!! You are just wonderful there needs to be more people like you out there. Keep doing what your doing. =)

[MissAntonia90]

i love how youre so real.....

& your blog is so inspiring. it makes me WANT to keep

going with my education. cause right now, im struggling

so much. thanks for being who you are :)

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@MissAntonia90 i'm glad you're inspired! :D thank YOU for your support :)

[mszxtiine]

big beautiful & lovin it babyyy!! :D loveee you!!

[nayyohme]

your freaakin gorgeous. FACKKKK THAT. all the girls that HATE on that can go that way >>>>>>>>>>>>>. gotta always keep it confident :) great rant hun <3

[disflylatina]

You are so right.... I don't know why I beat myself up so much about my.. well not my weight but my stomach... but I love the rest of my body.... >.<

[xraaachael]

Thank you so much. I mean it. I love everything that you said in this video and I really needed this advice on confidence. <3 (:

[waverly8181]

you're a guy's gal and a woman's woman....great video...especially liked the super cute ending :)

[koaliie]

you are sooo beautiful inside and out :D love your vids!

[MakeupObsessedx3]

i love your nose! :)

[funtabulous88]

"matangos" yup you got it right girl! and i just want to say THANK YOU for this video....

[Simpliciteey]

lol yeah matangos na ilong ^^

[hanalei29]

Like Katt Williams said..."It's the Esteem of yo Mutha fuckin self bitch!!!" Good video! Thank you bc I'm not stick skinny and I'm happy!

[suisixify]

I love you girl! I love curvy girls, ive always wanted to be one. Before my classmates and friends tell me im skinny then now that i gained weight they say im fat. What the fckk! I hate it when people are like that! I support yah girl, i always think you are fukkn georgoes, and we filipinas are really beautiful!

[CupcakeGlitterGloss]

:) Thank you.

[jonasbrothersfan3256]

Rach, I love how you are making a million girls feeling more confident about themselves. The people who comment saying whats wrong with the person making the videos, that's really their way of feeling better. Now you are making those girls feel a billion times better. Probably all the girls that are being made fun of now they really thank youu, and they feels so much better and think of them as beautiful!! <3 That really touched my heart, and changed mine, and other girls life forever!! < 3333

[sapphiresky025]

"I'm the shit!" haha. You made my day. Hope you do more vids like this =)

[trackandxcross]

this video changed my life forever :)

[kuinihau18]

you are so real i love it!!

[msfistfightsvsfences]

My whole life I've been criticized for my weight and the way I look. I get it from guys and girls. It really sucks and I wish people wouldn't make it their business to make me feel bad. At least have the decency not to shout it out to me. I had a guy once yell out at me and tell me to go home and never come out because I'm too fat and ugly. I'm not even in the obese category. I'm 5'6 and weight 155 or so depending on the day. Not super fat or anything. You tell those assholes what's up!

[AyeChristine]

Damn girl, I am LOVING your confidence advice =) I'm feeling more confident already, just knowing that other girls like me go through the same shit. <3

[sofiacam5617]

i could be this confident...maybe i can now :D

[sofiacam5617]

best version of this tag video!!! I LOVE ur attitude :D I wish

[MsShawnaJ]

Great advice in this video. I love how confident you are.

[AzyanBeast123]

YOU GO GIRL !!! 14:58

[AzyanBeast123]

YOU SHOULD MAKE A VIDEO WITH YOUR BROTHER !

[CookieJar06675]

you are beautiful and confident. love it <3 thankss for the video.. you put a HUGE smile on my face... especially because Im a heavier girl so i appreciate it <3

[bossladyC24]

OH MY GOSH! I HAD THE SAME THING DONE TO ME WITH A RAZOR BY AN ASIAN LADY, SHE RUINED IT SO BAD..IT SUCKS LOL

[Shameekz56]

Oh girl you bettaaaaaa work! I LOVE IT! your "lets be real" kinda videos make my week and this one was a cake topper! You are confident and it shows, you want to empower others to empower themselves and I get that! This right hea...this shit right hea....its the bomb dot com!

[girlcanpaint0412]

Love ya girl, I need to come visit u when I go to cali :)

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@girlcanpaint0412 yes plsss! :D

[shanellemarie2]

i loved this video! "I'm the shit!" haha :)

I've been thick most of my life. The one time I got skinny, I didn't feel right. I'm proud to be thick...and I have to hear crap from people all the time. I feel confident with my curves.

Thanks for sharing this. You are so pretty!

....and confident, and that is what makes you beautiful.

[salinas51]

Love you girl!!!!:))))))

[Jbouncy321]

aww u have a kute nose! :]]

[jessxxbaby]

i love how your so confident! you should have second channel! thats all about vlogs and your opinions. :D

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@jessxxbaby i would, but i like having one channel to maintain, haha .. so thanks to the feedback i'm getting from this video, i might just do vlogs on this channel :)

[Letta510]

looove the vid. girl who the fudge talkin bout yo wieght? swear im big n im tryna get to like your size cuz i think it is super duper cute n your beautiful. swear when i first started watching your vids i thought you were a model or something. made me feel better today thanks :)

[xixCHERiExix]

You said "matangos" perfectly!

[acebaaaby]

when I took a picture with u at Leina's event I noticed u turned to your left side, its not a bad thing though. you're beautiful(=

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@acebaaaby hahaha, yeah, i remember our picture was like, we were going the same direction, not facing each other, right?! haha, fail .. damn that left side! haha. =P and thank you hun! but no no, YOU'RE beautfullll! :D

[lyssaFASHO]

GET IT GIRL!!! exactly STFU...lol love your vids!

[baibeerose]

GIRL, I FUCKING LOVE YOU!!!! You are absoluety the perfect person to help empower women!! You are soo passionate about what you say and you stick by it. You are the role model for thick girls everywhere. Thick girls should really be more like you! Your just so comfortable in your skin its wonderful!! YOU ALREADY KNOW BUT DON'T CHANGE FOR NO MAN IF THEY DON'T LIKE YOU FOR YOU & OBVIOUSLY YOU DON'T NEED TO CAUSE YOU GET MANS HAHA, LOVES YOU GIRL!!<3

[freshxsoul]

HAHAHAHA AMENNNNNNNNNN GIRL !! NOW I know what everyone has been talking about on Twitter. AMENNN =)

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@freshxsoul hahahaha!!! =P love youuuu <3

[Ayebeautyxo]

I love your mentality ! I gotta post this on tumblr.

[SMLx0]

YES i loved this! women empowerment & yay for having assymetrical faces. mine's my left tooo lol

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@SMLx0 haha forreal?! yayy! haha .. :)

[msfistfightsvsfences]

I wish I had your skin. I'm as ugly as they come girl so you thank your lucky stars that you're gorgeous, bad side or not lol.

[swimmgal]

I LOVE your skin! It's gorgeous, I'm so jealous! I love your confidence!

[DavidsMommyMaby]

I have to say, THIS IS ONE OF MY ALL TIME FAVORITE VIDEO EVERR!! Thanks for making it.

[swimmgal]

I LOVE your skin! It's gorgeous, I'm so jealous!

[JooElement]

My idol! ♥

[kimMACmai]

You tell them girl! :) loved this tag & your responses!!!

[friscobiatch78]

My X boyfriend was Filipino! and oh my god his family used to talk about peoples nose like no ones business LOL.. i wonder what they used to say about mines ..

[JELLYSOFLY]

girllll, that part on weight and shape made me totally love yo ass! you rock! :D

[fukinhip]

holy fuck, i love you

[Samiluv28]

AMEN SISTER I LOVE YOU:)

[d3mi19]

I love your videos and this might be one of your best ones :)

thanks for giving us more confindence :)

[EricanDamian07]

i love the way you are and how u express yourself and just being you:) this video helped me see myself in a different way because ive been strugglin with self confidence after i had my daughter a year a ago. i gained weight and got alot of stretch marks and i didnt feel as pretty like how i used to be but now i thank god for giving me a great husband that feels the same about me and feel better about myself too..keep up the good work:) ur BEAUTIFUL!!

[xotorixo52]

this honestly made my day i love that you have such confidence. Especially since ive been struggling with my wieght bc, my sisters wuld make fun of me bc they were sticks nd i know im not fat but compared to everyone else around me im not skinny. Ive struggled with bulemia and annorexia and its beeen hard. Ur rightt fuck what everyone else thinks and love yourself they shouldnt give a fuck about what you look like cuz its not affecting them.

[schatsoe]

I so love you! haha, you are so right in this video.. i'm not skinny AT ALL, but i have more confidence in myself then people at my school, having confidence makes you even feel more beautiful and people will notice! So for all the girls out there follow rach's advice and feen confident about yourself! this is DEF going to be A FAVORITE !!!!!!

[jenAYEAYE]

Forget it girl. She not gonna get the point. And that's her opinion on how she feels. Remember not everyone will be happy with ne thing nowadays. This is YouTube you upload whatever you like but why would parents let they're kids on her unsupervised ne way? Well cursing or not. Boo on them. :p

[xxxheartfilled]

im also a thicker girl and im super big bonded and ive been made fun of all my life and i always said that to myself, FUCK WHATEVER ANYONE ELSE SAYS I LOVE MYSELF, so for you saying that was more impowering and i fucking love you for saying it :D hollllaa (LLLL)

[asiangirl484]

Your fucking amazing !! :)

I'm not the most confident person, but honestly this video makes me think otherwise.

I watched the part about weight twicee Ha. Your beautiful and i love you videos.

[1wateroak]

I would love to see you cuss someone out.lol.

[SuzylovesErnie]

You know what I hate the Most when stores dont carry my size and I gotta buy that shit online i feel like im being discriminated that they dont want my fat ass at the store!!!So for all those stores KISS MY FAT ASS!

[SuzylovesErnie]

LOve love this VIDEO!!!

[nen1111]

LUV THIS VIDEO!!!! YOU TELL IT LIKE IT IS LOL

[mellheartspdubb]

wooo amenn giiirll

[boniOne80]

You are off tha hook!! love u for doing this video!!

[mizznatalie100]

dnt apologize for cursing that much..that is who you are :]

you say things how it should be said....

....

<3

...

fyi..my daughter loved ur vid....she's like

'mom,she's like you..when you get mad you go off,and she is right!'

lol....

...

you rock chika<3

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@mizznatalie100 lol, i love you AND your daughter! haha. that totally made my day :) <3

[PeachesNSweetness05]

you are so right in this video. i hate how people have so much time to write out negative things about sum1 as if it matter a lot to the world. viewers dont know people in the videos. and yes you are putting yourself out there when you make videos and post them online but at the same time as a human being watching the videos, you shouldnt have the urge to want to comment something negative. people are just more evil than they are good. yes there are good people out there but not enough

[rachfull]

i lost 25 lbs recently but i dont feel any more confident than i did when i was heavy. i did it so bitches in high school would stop sayin shit. i wish i had someone like u to look up to back then

[TheFashionistaGurl97]

lol I can speak tagalog^_^ and yushhh it ish called matangos .... lol._.

[riannabanana23]

....you rock. that's all

[Nanetscha]

I'm sorry, i always liked your videos, but this is too much fucking for me. unsubscribed...

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@Nanetscha lol, next time, don't waste your time telling me, JUST DO IT. geez. i'm over here promoting SELF-CONFIDENCE and not to bother yourself with the way other people are cuz IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT OTHERS THINK and you unsubscribe just because you don't like that i curse? that's a perfect example of what i mean by accepting others as they are, no matter how they are cuz what matter is how THAT person feels, not how YOU feel about them. Thanks for being a good example of what NOT to do. :)

[Nanetscha]

@LoveBLENDnBeauty i unsubscribed because i think it is unaproppiate, here are for sure younger girls watching your videos, and even if not, you could done your point without that much cursing. and self-confidence doesn't mean that you shit on other persons oppinions, it just means that you are fine the way you are. i'm aware that you won't change yourself if you think that cursing belongs to you, but a little bit caring what society thinks about you belongs to it,because you live in this society

[LoveBLENDnBeauty]

@Nanetscha exactly, you unsubscribed because you don't like that i curse, which is the same thing as thinking it's inappropriate. i'm aware that i could have made my point without cursing, but that's just how i speak and i don't feel that i should be given any shit because of it. i never said self-confidence means shitting on other person's opinions, i said that being confident means that you're comfortable the way you are, happy with how you are and what people say or think shouldn't matter.