Stigmatized

[soltera07]

it's nice to see alex and aaron together..

[rockcons]

lupet mo alex band!

[starefromafar]

@rockcons wow pinoy! rock on dude!

[amats20]

love this song

[NHUUUUUU]

great song, great video, great lyrics... I miss these days and I miss The Calling, they had so much potential!

[jeromejay24]

a really unforgettable song

[mabebexS]

what is the meaning of stigmatized? hmmm

[PedrOiisLas]

Vivamos nuestras vidas por separado

Pero manteniendonos juntos tu y yo

Solo vivimos nuestras vidas, estigmatizados

<3

[megustaverlas]

Would you let yourself fall in love with someone who has strongly different political views from you?

[theluigi1994]

first time i heard this song and it is my favourite song ever

[pinOyinbLoOd]

alex is so handsome.. :))

[andrefsferreira]

why's the n, I mean, why's the afro-american running?

[janmizpha01]

i like this song..never let go to the one you love.

[SolaceIceFox]

I love this song. It has deep emotional meaning and hits home for me. Music has the power to do incredible things =)

[HelzBellz113x]

HaHa cool vid :)

[vvang123]

o yea and ahh, don't it look as if alex and the guitarist were about to shall i say "Jump" that guy at 2:19?

[vvang123]

hey is aaron the guitarist?

[liamw15w]

alex rocks

[bogna28]

Alex your the best:}

[usadickies16]

the greatest song ever it is always played on the radio when we are in the operating room

[givZuheLL0001]

stigmatized.......

[lenymo89]

I believe this song is dedicated to a gay relationship. Not Alex Band since he's married to a woman, but "stigmatized" means "cast out or infamous". The only relationships really cast out now are homosexual ones.

"Even God himself and the faith I knew shouldn't hold me back, shouldn't keep me from you"

"I believe in you even if no one understands"

"Live our lives on different sides"

This means so much to me =') This perfectly describes me and my lover, as I am in a gay online relationship.

[Lionel0008]

@lenymo89 you can relate it to a gay relationship but other than gay relationship, the poor loves the rich relationship is also cast out, interracial love is also at times cast out, so as may-December love is at times cast out

[ivanclaysburgh]

I'm not sure this song is dedicated solely to gay relationships. I think the video illustrates it very well: it's about couples who are divided by religious beliefs and ethnicities, but are united by love.

[burper22]

I agree, it could men that, however, it could also mean mixed race relationships.

We all know of cultures thatneed to hide relationships because it's not with someone of the same race or religion.

[GaryKnuckles]

Hahahahaahahahahahaha, I can't take ur comment seriously!! =] Nice one...

[lenymo89]

I don't think anyone can take yours seriously...

[GaryKnuckles]

Ooooh that was a good one, Wow wonder what country yur from...

[lenymo89]

I'm from the US.

[GaryKnuckles]

Hah, Thats just fabulousicious , Juicy even.. Tell me, When you look at your penis do you get a boner? Its okay you can tell me I'm a doctor :)

..and seriously, who rates comments, sham all ye yanks are innocent...!! Go on, gimme a "Poor Comment""

[lenymo89]

What the hell have you been smoking?

[GaryKnuckles]

I've been smoking weed Leny, Lots of weed.. Wha bout u, still smokin da penis??

[lenymo89]

I'm a virgin, mind you.

[GaryKnuckles]

Ooooo K

[iBolt07]

@GaryKnuckles - Time to come out of the closet.

Beautiful song and message!

[GaryKnuckles]

@iBolt07 = You know your right, Thanks!! From now on I'm gonna be a big faggot, suck chunky hunky dick and find it hard to sit down.. That sounds like a great lifestyle.

[iBolt07]

@GaryKnuckles = Since when is it all about sex? There is no justification for your hatred toward the gay community other than the fact that you are simply uncomfortable with your own feelings.

[GaryKnuckles]

@iBolt07 - Zzzzzzzz.. You my friend are a fucking dope, I'm very comfortable with my own feelings thank you very much so stop trying to be Doctor. Phil and rationalize this situation..Seriously, go back to lenymo89's first comment, read it, read it again and honestly tell me you haven't found it thee slightest bit funny . Now don't get me wrong, I'm not homophobic in any way, I have friends who are gay, But fuck me that comment sounded very very funny and I had to make fun of him after that..

[iBolt07]

@GaryKnuckles - I am Lenymo. This is just the account I post videos to. Let me clarify the comment I made... I said "I believe this song is about(...)" I apologize for phrasing that wrong, "To me, this song means..." is more appropriate.

For someone who isn't a homophobe, you sure came off as one =/ Either way, I'm not gonna continue with this. If I offended you at all, I'm sorry.

[GaryKnuckles]

Ssssssh, Lenymo man listen, ya didn't offend me, relax its fine.. I was just being a pure prick

Anyway your right, Lets stop with this shit, I'm sorry too=]

[iBolt07]

*didn't expect that on Youtube* Well... thanks :) Let's just agree that this is an awesome song!

[GaryKnuckles]

Agreed=]

[iBolt07]

What other artists u like? Ever hear of 8stops7 or VNV Nation?

[GaryKnuckles]

Nope.. Nickelback, Staind, Metallica ammmm.. bands like that=]

[givZuheLL0001]

MY IDOL

[givZuheLL0001]

We live our lives on different sides,

But we keep together you and I

Just live our lives, stigmatized

[tegoy666]

they left there houses to watch the calling...cool

[freemancarl]

0:39 is that a Yamaha? ;)

[Caro18ann]

Hola, que bien que te gusten sus canciones, escucha su canción que se llama Wherever you will go, es muy buena, si te gustan Busted, Westlife y Jesse McCartney pasa por mi otro canal IlikemusicVn, muchos saludos.

[xxxStigmatizedxxx]

lovelovelove love the calLing and alex band so much. he's teh best musician ever . get chils when i hear his voice<33333333333

[jesstine22]

tease me...

then leave me....

when i hear ur voice driving me insane..

jujuju...

[Congresssux]

Alex Band has a voice that only God would endow!

[V4MpIV4MpI]

You're right!!

[newmooneyesonfire18]

His voice is just PERFECT!!!!

[lilstephQt]

ilike this. it may be an ordinary video but the song is deep.

[badmizfitz]

awsome

[TheSara90]

i LOVE this song, but i dont really like the vid:( looks kinda cheap to me:(

[raidenclaw]

ahuevo albach21, recuerda q esos recuerdos nos hacen mas fuertes jajaja, cuidate caon!

[fruitshoot01]

wow, lol

[voulamj87]

We live our lives on different sides,

But we keep together you and I

Just live our lives, stigmatized <3 <3 <3

[220390alvaro]

orale esta chido soy de mexico espero y entiendan mi idioma esta va dedicada ala chika que mas quiero a lissandra

[Homare15]

si yo tambien la kiero Mi Lissandra!!

^^

[givZuheLL0001]

yeah gud...!!

[albach21]

yo tambien se la dedico a ella campeon jajaja

[melinecosta12]

Essa música é perfeita... Não há nem como explicar o que sinto qdo a ouço ou assisto ao clip... é maravilhosa mesmo!!!

[54spiritedwill54]

Wonderful^^

[marcoseduardo2009]

Muito bom esse video viu adorei. sempre que puder irei assistir de novo

[ryanmanutd08]

What a song :D

[Yune02]

Best song ever!

[marcoseduardo2009]

otimo video , o melhor para mim.

very much video, the best for me.

[camb702]

This song is like the yeast extract they use to make Twiglets. Even though I hate Marmite, I do love my Twiglets.

Peculiar.

Thanks for uploading. Great song.

((-:

[lildudeSrn]

mint song i luv the first bit

if i give up on u

i give up on me

its gd cos it describes mi lyf at the moment

[nouamirite]

wtf, learn to spell

[Xrayl15]

dude, theyre speaking spanish...

[reillydon]

sound english to me mate duh!!!!!

[p1ckg1rl]

great song. shit vid

[markkram17]

i like to didicate this song

to Ladyjane Gan

baby i love u... this is for u...

i love u so.....

[03JustinChan03]

favorite video!!! oh so amazing

[doboldragons]

luv this song..awesome!!

[bluedimon16]

►i LOVE tHis SoNg..

►iTs sO coOL..

►iTs sO meAniNgfuL..

►gOOd JoB tHe cALLiNG

►hoPe yOU CaN cReaTe aNoThER sOnG fOr uS►

[lolorecca]

every time i listen to this song i feel like i'm alone and happy.... just understand the lyrics and feel it every time you're listening.... guys have a nice day.... always think that alex will make a song for us..... thankx.......

[voulamj87]

love this song!! <3 my fav off the album!

[eutuxiaMJ]

nice song :)

[blueheaven99]

nice. cool.

[123whufc123]

i love this

[jairei1]

r u describin yourself?? harhar

[jayraine16]

nice s0ng

[linkanil2002]

Great Song ^^^

[rechelle1212]

i luv alex band!!!!,....

[liebe666tod]

love it!

[justmusic247]

flawless.

[bethandydeclan]

love the jeans where u get them

[Sheilapleite]

se eu desistir de você, eu desisto de mim se lutarmos pela vardade ficaremos juntos ... lalalal PERFEITO ... essa musica é de mais !

[MarioSk8erRock]

perfect song, bealtiful.

canção perfeita, muito linda

[openheart29]

100% certified ________________

[negapichu]

Wonderful^^

[LAPyramid28]

Absolutely amazing song from The Calling - Alex's voice is lovely! He totally rocks!

[kalogznet]

this song is really awesome...I LOVE YOU ALEX!

[renegade2009007]

Love the song but could someone please explain the meaning. I don't get it

[HIP56948]

Love doesn´t have frontiers

[goldapotter]

it means that when ppl look you at you they see what they where told, it could be the farthist thing from the truth. when he was in high school he was stigmatized. so he is saying here, who cares. i love you, you love me, who cares what ppl think. thats what the songs about.

[Kzeg77]

omg 1:17 alex looks like the guy from final fintasyX, TIDUS :O

[trinemusss]

The best song ever...

[vampirehunter06]

i dedicate this to my late friend very true friend.. tol madaya ka ng konti sa ginawa mo sana masaya ka sa ngayon di ka namin makakalimutan....

[Chadlazaga]

you got that right kairijoelyn21! Maganda kasi sobra!!!

[kairijoelyn21]

damn..?!i really love this song..hndi nkakaswang pkinggan..?!alex rocks..?!

[lloolliittaaa]

I believe in you Even if no one understands I believe in you, and I don't really give a damn If we're stigmatized We live our lives on different sides But we keep together you and I We live our lives on different sides We're gonna live our lives Gotta live our lives We're gonna live our lives We're gonna live our lives Stigmatized

[iulyv]

Alex writes the best lyrics and has the greatest voice ever . This song is just perfect. And Alex is so cute. Look at 4:16 how sweet he is :).

[tRoYLlorito]

anOthEr cOOl soNg fRom tHe caLLing...

anD iT hAs nICe lyRicS tOO..=)

[5305665]

NIVE SONG NICE VIDEO.........

[gerardwayfan87]

just one word - amazing

[fastskyr34]

Aaron's hair is very nice - wish I had it! Also notice how lovely Alex's eyebrows look? I want them! Awesome song!

[LOLAICHINA]

This song rocks! This is my favorite of the Calling.

[blunted32]

Shaina is HOTT

[sweetybenz]

w0w.........i REallY LuV DiS S0nG s0 mUcH......

[anacel164]

I lov this song, the calling is great!!!!!

[davisdiretor]

Essa música é simplismente linda

[technowizard13]

its a wonderful song... heh, i can relate to it

my drama teacher would tell him (alex band) to open his mouth further when he sings, and to enunciate

but that would ruin some quality of the song :P

[lyannzulueta]

anung team mo?? haha

bisaya!!!!

barok!

haha

[dzoycejm]

hahaha team song hahahhahah

[SemiCharmed21]

team song nmn toh na aking bagong prinsisa..

sya si sassy girl ko

.... love u akii

ms. n

[palifot]

d best band 4ever. the calling..

[palifot]

nice song.. go alex ur the man..

[nicdale0908]

i like it this song its make me cry also... so amazing voice i love it!!!

[ewelafrommars]

aLEX IS mARRIED ;/

[vanhiertotdaar]

to who?

[stalagmite]

Jennifer Sky

[blueeyedbetty]

i know! :'-(

[belltinker123]

god... since when?

[blueeyedbetty]

since july 2004

[marciogleds]

amu esse video prendir a tocar e cantr sou fan da banda the calling em especial essa musica

[89finland]

wonderful..it made me cry..this song is beautiful!!

[anonymusdude]

w the calling 4 ever!!!!

[caniino22]

Cool,,grat voice

[vhins14]

can't help but to listen to this song.its so beautiful, and amazing voice too..!

[pazdragon]

its very nice song...

[xxmirrorsenemyxx]

this is mine and my boyfrends song

i love it it has so much meaning towards our relationship

were 3000 kms away from each other.i miss him

[mirrian666]

lindo,perfeito,um dos melhores clipes do tc...saudades do loiro perfeito *-*

q voz viciante jesus!! :/

[emily060606]

im in this video

[mindfreak0525]

Alex Band is oooo HOTT

[ANAVRINVALO]

love the calling great theme great voice great guitar

[jessnally]

gAnda ngA enzo!,.

ahEhhe,,..c m.A :'(

[Diablow187]

Galing

[enzosponge]

wat a voice

[pogskathy123]

I rlly luv this song, it reminds me those day w/ her

[pogskathy123]

wt5w44tt

[1981fla]

esse é o meu loiro lindo!!!!!!!!!

essa musik muito linda amo muito.......

como as musiks do alex band c endentifikm cmigo..........

[prettyAlxia]

Alex band is so nice and love the song!

[michrhy]

this song is dedicated to my only MAHAL... SUZZANE MOTA.. of oregon USA...

[henry082003]

The song is good but i don't like the video i'm not satisfied.

[iluvartalexakis]

how come?

[henry082003]

The song is good but i don't like the video i'm not satisfied.

[brinetta20]

omg i just love love love this song :)...

[glayzmcr05]

alex is so.....cute..!

[jovay07]

labyah alex.. mmmwwaaahhhh

[punkyrockymetaly]

i love this song!!

[ellette24]

LAVYAH ALEX....YOUR SO CUTE......

[00Izabel00]

amzing song i think its my javourite song from the calling.... alex♥

[fazza7900]

i bought their album for wherever you will go but i like this song more!!!! :)

[discoliebe]

Such a lovely song; incredible.

[Maandenschijn]

just amazing!

[mismollymac]

i love this song. i cant ever get it out of my head! he rox GO ALEX!

[ArchangelaxRoxasX3]

My. This is like the me and the guy I used to love <3 not that we're that different, but I'm pretty sure that people around us will disagree if we go steady.

Amazingly awesome song, btw. This is my most favourite song from the entire The Calling songs I've ever heard.

[mismollymac]

best song! i have heard in a while. love it ! so sweet

[Miakathi]

This song is so beautiful and true...

I think this video shows the message very clearly.

Thanks for uploading it!

[WannabeChicks]

I didn't know that video yet..but I like it =)

cant wait for the new album...

[AkireLuvAB]

OMG I love this song...and I love the video!!! I can't wait for Alex's solo album (OCTOBER!!!!!!)!!!

[DeWdZ67]

fergie huh? and i thought it was amy of evanesence.. awsome song

[stuncytucsok]

worth watching...

[fatevsthewarmth]

wait a sec. 1st of all i love this song,...2nd isnt it fergie is ryt over there, the one whos at the kissing scene?

[rhaerlejr]

Absolutely brilliant and inspiring directing and film making!!! A true pleasure to the ocular senses.

[shlaran]

Hey im a guy and i listen to calling. I like it because you can acutally feel genuine emotion in his singing. Its nice to hear real stuff then all the flakey stuff. Also this song and vidio remindes me where i live and the intolerance of mixed faith and race couples. like me muslim american, my girl friend christian indian

[shlaran]

wow reminds me of me and my girlfriend. Im white and muslim, she's christian and indian. lets say society isnt that thrilled about us. but we love eachother and thats all that matters. "well take the punches everyday".

[ShakinAllOver07]

Gay video...wkd song

[AnErDrIk]

Omg^^ I love this so song<3