This is Brietta, and I have a few important comments. I know all about internet safetey, and I love your videos. I used to sign up for a lot pf chatrooms that were supposed to be safe. Now I know they probably aren't. I used to do clubpenguin, but that's getting boring. I need a SERIOUSLY safe chat site. What should I do?
Didn't bullys use actual violence back in the day? Todays "cyber bullies" are not really bullies, more like assholes. as keegah said, "'cyber-bullying' can be halted with the little X button in the top-right corner of your browser window. Stop whining."
Sadly, a lot of people don't take cyber-bullying seriously at all because they think that when you're posting on the Internet, it doesn't count as real life so they don't bother to think about other people's feelings. I think this is a very good message. It could be improved a bit but you've already gotten a lot of helpful critique so I don't really have anything new to say in that area.
Most IP's are static now a days. If the cyber bully new a thing or two about computers you could easily scramble and hide your IP so you can't trace it.
So here we have a painfully politically correct multiracial superhero trio (one's even in a wheelchair!) and yet it's okay to stereotype online game players as hopeless weepy nerds?
Surely if stealing is a component of the game, then there's nothing wrong with it? In games where you're not allowed to steal things, they just don't implement the stealing feature. This cartoon wasn't very well thought through.
In many cases, younger kids especially, give out their real address, etc. that makes an online threat relaistic as an offline one.
and online gaming harassment is a huge issue. But so is profile-harassment in social networking sites. that's why we work with them to try and stop and prevent it on social networks.
thanks for your thoughts.
we are all unpaid volunteers at wiredsafety. You would be a good addition.
you are right....several comments pointed out that the hacking wasn't clear enough and it might have been seen as game play. We'll be modifying the video to reflect that it was hacking.
it was the dog threat that took it out of the hacking only realm.
While I did find myself laughing at it, I'll give you props for trying to illustrate bullying issues. Even if you get a lot of flack on the Internet for various reasons, it'll be beneficial for some kids to see such PSA's. Good luck in your messages.
Third, you don't explain what "trolling" is. The things happening to the victim can very well be a part of the game mechanics. Look up Eve Online, most of the user base are far worse than the troll described, and it's actually *encouraged*.
thanks...through comments here and in focus groups, we learned that it wasn;'t clear that this was harassment, rather than just a better gamer getting his items. we're reworking it.
It's not really cyber-bullying if the game has pvp and looting. Usually when someone is being a douche and stalking/camping you, you get your guild members to harass him to the point that he wants to quit. The police don't enforce what happens in MMORPGs, and you sure as hell couldn't get arrested for being a douche online.
That said, if someone was bothering this kid that much, he should've taken a break or stopped playing the game altogether. Kids need to learn their own conflict resolution skills and they don't get that from having mommy solve their problems for them. As they grow up, parents and teachers won't be there watching them every second of every day. It's this excessive hands-on approach that have lead to our litigious society, among other things.
I'd just like to point out that it would be impossible to get an IP address of another person unless you're directly connected to them. In your scenario (a massively multiplayer online role-playing game or MMORPG), the two people would both be connecting to a company's server. Therefore, a subpoena would be needed to force the company to supply the IP addresses.
Also, I think that your resources might be better directed toward online harassment in less direct forms while gaming; it would make much more sense to focus your efforts on the daily harassment encountered while playing virtually any online game. (500 char cap is terrible)
Firstly, I would like to point out a minor inaccuracy in your discussion of static/dynamic IPs-- what you say may have been true 5 years ago-- that mostly only corporations are in possession of static IPs, however, with the decline of dial-up, many personal connections now also use static IP addresses. (continued in next comment)
You are correct, but even with ever-on connections, you need a subpoena to get behind the ISP's assignment of that IP address. and every time the highspeed connection is dropped, a number is reassigned.
While there are many details we left out in describing this, we had to decide what was enough for the ten year olds viewers this was written for. :-)
I think you're not giving most ten year olds enough credit, I'd wager they know a fair bit more about how the tubes work than you do. Tor or other anonymizers are fast becoming commonplace, so I think that attacking the effects of "cyber-bullying" is a losing battle, and you should be focusing more on eliminating it at the source.
shrugging it off is what we adivse if it's a one time thing and no real life threats are involved. This involved a real life threat and was repeated. A ten year old may be frightened by anonymous-appearing threats on his dog's life.
Six kids have killed themselves over the last few years after being cyberbullied. There may be more. I think we need ot arm kids with the information they need ot know when and how to report cyberharassment and when to shrug it off.
So like, tor or anonymizer will they leave my cyber breadcrumbs omG?!
And police can just LOOK UP IPs without contacting the ISP and getting a subpoena without a warrant first!?? I THOUGHT THIS WAS AMERICA!! "The right of the people to be secure in their..papers, and effects, against unreasonable searches and seizures, shall not be violated, and no warrants shall issue, but upon probable cause, supported by oath or affirmation.."
actually, if the person is using a static IP (many have them these days) and no going through their ISP for one (in this case it was assigned to his father's website), no sobpoena is necessary. and a warrant is not needed to get a subpoena, in any event.
Probably cause for a threat would have existed had this been a real case.
I think you will have a VERY hard time getting kids to take this seriously. The message is important but you're going about it the wrong way. The most common form of cyber-bullying between children is not hacking each other's MMRPG accounts, but rather leaving abusive messages on mediums like MySpace or Facebook. Kids would be able to relate to that kind of scenario much more easily than this Everquest-style example. Most kids probably won't even understand the gaming aspect of this cartoon.
we have several other animations on cyberbullying/profile bullying too. Game bullying is becoming a bigger problem with younger gamers (12 and under) these days. we thought we'd address this here.
TBH, it moves too slow to keep anyone's attention. Unless it is a classroom type of showing, you are going to loose people. The addition of background music throughout the whole thing may help. It is a good message you are trying to portray, just you aren't going to get the penetration you are shooting for.
Other than that, it is a decent production and gets the point across.
thanks....we'll see what we can do to speed it up.
I also understand that some of the kids are confused about the bullying, and think that because the boy lost tools and inventory items playing the game, we considered that cyberbullying. We'll clarify that it was through hacking and intimidation (threatening to kidnap the boy's dog in real life and making other threats), not through legitimate game play. Appreciate the feedback.
My sister had this happen kindof.
some bully on the net emailed her the laughing skull virus
We must fight hard to protect ourselves on the webs
brightmotor 3 years ago
Dear Perry,
This is Brietta, and I have a few important comments. I know all about internet safetey, and I love your videos. I used to sign up for a lot pf chatrooms that were supposed to be safe. Now I know they probably aren't. I used to do clubpenguin, but that's getting boring. I need a SERIOUSLY safe chat site. What should I do?
carogirl3 3 years ago
The cartoon is a bit stereotypical but nevertheless informative. Good job.
MasataSanata 3 years ago
Didn't bullys use actual violence back in the day? Todays "cyber bullies" are not really bullies, more like assholes. as keegah said, "'cyber-bullying' can be halted with the little X button in the top-right corner of your browser window. Stop whining."
nuclearlion 4 years ago 49
wow.
just wow.
TehRacooonODoom 4 years ago 8
Billy forgot to connect through 7 proxies.
Derangedcow 4 years ago 28
i am going to steal your dog
roflmao1447 4 years ago 17
look at those sidelong glances yeesh I don't want these women to judge me like that if I call in
tomatoplz 4 years ago 15
Sadly, a lot of people don't take cyber-bullying seriously at all because they think that when you're posting on the Internet, it doesn't count as real life so they don't bother to think about other people's feelings. I think this is a very good message. It could be improved a bit but you've already gotten a lot of helpful critique so I don't really have anything new to say in that area.
SofaKingDanny 4 years ago
I do believe the Universal Internet F***tard Theory applies here.
Average Individual + Anonymity + An Audience = Instant bully.
Nevertheless, "cyber-bullying" can be halted with the little X button in the top-right corner of your browser window. Stop whining.
Keegah 4 years ago 6
If you close your browser, the cyber bullies win.
Kiiiiiiiiitsuner 4 years ago 11
If you close your browser, the cyber bullies win.
Kiiiiiiiiitsuner 4 years ago 6
I think this is the greatest thing ever.
I say that with absolute sincerity.
desumania 4 years ago
the can and do. not often, but more than they realize.
thanks for your comment.
parryaftab 4 years ago
The problem here is that some online gaming industries might refuse to give out IP adresses for the sake of privacy.
"Fewer kids could do this if they realize they could get caught" The question is: Could they really?
ianboswell 4 years ago
Most IP's are static now a days. If the cyber bully new a thing or two about computers you could easily scramble and hide your IP so you can't trace it.
CowGuy 4 years ago
Hahaha, good stuff.
KombuchaClock 4 years ago
So here we have a painfully politically correct multiracial superhero trio (one's even in a wheelchair!) and yet it's okay to stereotype online game players as hopeless weepy nerds?
MangaPunkSai 4 years ago 61
Somehow i agree with this statement manga said.
Ps360Facepunch 4 years ago
Manga:
this was written and designed by gamers and game designers. They wanted to make it funny and a bit light.
sorry if you were offended.
parryaftab 4 years ago
Surely if stealing is a component of the game, then there's nothing wrong with it? In games where you're not allowed to steal things, they just don't implement the stealing feature. This cartoon wasn't very well thought through.
SplurgyA 4 years ago 9
thanks. as I mentioned previously, it wasn't clear enough that this was not theft within the game play. We're reworking it.
parryaftab 4 years ago
I'm going to the internet department of my police station right now!
vedicardi 4 years ago 2
My mom is a public speaker on bullying.
handicappedhero 4 years ago
great. where does she do her speaking?
parryaftab 4 years ago
The Middle School Conference in St. Louis.
It's usually in July. Are you familiar with it?
handicappedhero 4 years ago
no, I'm not. But so far the offline bullying experts tend to work apart from the cyberbullying experts. Wish her luck, for me.
parryaftab 4 years ago
Sorry, thought I replied to this earlier. She speaks at an annual conference in St. Louis.
She's also recently published. I'll send you a note to her material.
handicappedhero 4 years ago
In many cases, younger kids especially, give out their real address, etc. that makes an online threat relaistic as an offline one.
and online gaming harassment is a huge issue. But so is profile-harassment in social networking sites. that's why we work with them to try and stop and prevent it on social networks.
thanks for your thoughts.
we are all unpaid volunteers at wiredsafety. You would be a good addition.
think about it.
Parry
parryaftab 4 years ago
Responsibility. Learn it.
theamazingbender 4 years ago
you are right....several comments pointed out that the hacking wasn't clear enough and it might have been seen as game play. We'll be modifying the video to reflect that it was hacking.
it was the dog threat that took it out of the hacking only realm.
thanks for your thoughts.
we are listening. :-)
Parry
parryaftab 4 years ago
Cool.
IchieiChiaki 4 years ago
lol
Modernicide 4 years ago
ROFL
ARGHNAME 4 years ago
While I did find myself laughing at it, I'll give you props for trying to illustrate bullying issues. Even if you get a lot of flack on the Internet for various reasons, it'll be beneficial for some kids to see such PSA's. Good luck in your messages.
jayjayjay 4 years ago
thanks. :-)
we'll take anyway we can to get kids to learn more about this.
and laughing is good! lol
Parry
parryaftab 4 years ago
Third, you don't explain what "trolling" is. The things happening to the victim can very well be a part of the game mechanics. Look up Eve Online, most of the user base are far worse than the troll described, and it's actually *encouraged*.
lwoegaston 4 years ago
thanks...through comments here and in focus groups, we learned that it wasn;'t clear that this was harassment, rather than just a better gamer getting his items. we're reworking it.
appreciate the feedback.
parryaftab 4 years ago
I lol'd too
stringman271 4 years ago
It's not really cyber-bullying if the game has pvp and looting. Usually when someone is being a douche and stalking/camping you, you get your guild members to harass him to the point that he wants to quit. The police don't enforce what happens in MMORPGs, and you sure as hell couldn't get arrested for being a douche online.
Rauffle 4 years ago 4
where is the conclusion? I wanna see the little snot get pwned!
thewerecactus 4 years ago
I think it's better left to your imagination. :-)
but we considered it.
parryaftab 4 years ago
That said, if someone was bothering this kid that much, he should've taken a break or stopped playing the game altogether. Kids need to learn their own conflict resolution skills and they don't get that from having mommy solve their problems for them. As they grow up, parents and teachers won't be there watching them every second of every day. It's this excessive hands-on approach that have lead to our litigious society, among other things.
nhpr 4 years ago 4
I'd just like to point out that it would be impossible to get an IP address of another person unless you're directly connected to them. In your scenario (a massively multiplayer online role-playing game or MMORPG), the two people would both be connecting to a company's server. Therefore, a subpoena would be needed to force the company to supply the IP addresses.
nhpr 4 years ago 5
I lol'd irl.
sacrisesma 4 years ago
I lol'd irl.
mushroomjay 4 years ago
Not to detract from the issue or to force levity into a serious issue but Parry Aftab, I think you have one of the best names I've ever heard.
Tavlov 4 years ago
lol....
thanks
parryaftab 4 years ago
I lol'd.
WHATNINETHOUSAND 4 years ago
I lol'd irl.
Moother 4 years ago
Also, I think that your resources might be better directed toward online harassment in less direct forms while gaming; it would make much more sense to focus your efforts on the daily harassment encountered while playing virtually any online game. (500 char cap is terrible)
Outlandishlizard 4 years ago
Firstly, I would like to point out a minor inaccuracy in your discussion of static/dynamic IPs-- what you say may have been true 5 years ago-- that mostly only corporations are in possession of static IPs, however, with the decline of dial-up, many personal connections now also use static IP addresses. (continued in next comment)
Outlandishlizard 4 years ago
You are correct, but even with ever-on connections, you need a subpoena to get behind the ISP's assignment of that IP address. and every time the highspeed connection is dropped, a number is reassigned.
While there are many details we left out in describing this, we had to decide what was enough for the ten year olds viewers this was written for. :-)
thanks
parryaftab 4 years ago
I think you're not giving most ten year olds enough credit, I'd wager they know a fair bit more about how the tubes work than you do. Tor or other anonymizers are fast becoming commonplace, so I think that attacking the effects of "cyber-bullying" is a losing battle, and you should be focusing more on eliminating it at the source.
Besides, what ever happened to shrugging it off?
adrianmpike 4 years ago
shrugging it off is what we adivse if it's a one time thing and no real life threats are involved. This involved a real life threat and was repeated. A ten year old may be frightened by anonymous-appearing threats on his dog's life.
Six kids have killed themselves over the last few years after being cyberbullied. There may be more. I think we need ot arm kids with the information they need ot know when and how to report cyberharassment and when to shrug it off.
thanks
parryaftab 4 years ago
I lol'd irl.
Moother 4 years ago
So like, tor or anonymizer will they leave my cyber breadcrumbs omG?!
And police can just LOOK UP IPs without contacting the ISP and getting a subpoena without a warrant first!?? I THOUGHT THIS WAS AMERICA!! "The right of the people to be secure in their..papers, and effects, against unreasonable searches and seizures, shall not be violated, and no warrants shall issue, but upon probable cause, supported by oath or affirmation.."
tunakbesfar 4 years ago
actually, if the person is using a static IP (many have them these days) and no going through their ISP for one (in this case it was assigned to his father's website), no sobpoena is necessary. and a warrant is not needed to get a subpoena, in any event.
Probably cause for a threat would have existed had this been a real case.
parryaftab 4 years ago
This has to be a joke, cybercrumbs? On my war jammers?
Whatever happened to just reporting a troll to a Games Master or administrator?
RupeeClock 4 years ago 3
Apparently it's much easier to just go to the police.
videoCWK 4 years ago
I think you will have a VERY hard time getting kids to take this seriously. The message is important but you're going about it the wrong way. The most common form of cyber-bullying between children is not hacking each other's MMRPG accounts, but rather leaving abusive messages on mediums like MySpace or Facebook. Kids would be able to relate to that kind of scenario much more easily than this Everquest-style example. Most kids probably won't even understand the gaming aspect of this cartoon.
smbicsm 4 years ago
thanks.
we have several other animations on cyberbullying/profile bullying too. Game bullying is becoming a bigger problem with younger gamers (12 and under) these days. we thought we'd address this here.
Appreciate your comments.
Parry
parryaftab 4 years ago
game bullying lol it called smack talk.if one can't take it then don't play it.
cprcomics 4 years ago
I think that anyone who enjoys gaming should be able to play it without being harassed.
parryaftab 4 years ago
a trail of cyber bread crumbs?
ITT proxies, etc.
zakbroman 4 years ago
true
c665 4 years ago
What we need here are some serious acting classes!
Still, pretty funny.
UNKNOWNFILE 4 years ago 2
Oh please. I seriously doubt the police would care about a hacker in an online game. Usually, hackers are just banned.
abyssroxxors 4 years ago
dude.. that kid who got bullied is my hero.
EmilyxisxawsomexD 4 years ago
I'd hit that.
Monkeygod06 4 years ago
nice...
mastermaxisme 4 years ago
TBH, it moves too slow to keep anyone's attention. Unless it is a classroom type of showing, you are going to loose people. The addition of background music throughout the whole thing may help. It is a good message you are trying to portray, just you aren't going to get the penetration you are shooting for.
Other than that, it is a decent production and gets the point across.
Just some things to think about.
firemissionary 4 years ago
thanks....we'll see what we can do to speed it up.
I also understand that some of the kids are confused about the bullying, and think that because the boy lost tools and inventory items playing the game, we considered that cyberbullying. We'll clarify that it was through hacking and intimidation (threatening to kidnap the boy's dog in real life and making other threats), not through legitimate game play. Appreciate the feedback.
Parry
parryaftab 4 years ago
thanks...
parryaftab 4 years ago
Brilliant.
drtwilight 4 years ago
My students love this take on Charlie's Angels. I've seen the teenangels in action on TV and they are pretty terrific.
It's hard to find resources that teach students about cyberbullying that affects boys. Game bullying is a big problem in our school.
can't wait for the next webisode.
CG
cyberbullyguru 5 years ago