I was wondering, when a girl gets married to her husband, but they do not live together yet, do the parents of the girl still have the rights to say no any yes. For example: if she wants to go out with her husband, does she have to ask her parents before leaving the house?, or can he ever say no?
@supersarah777 Yup I know... My comment was a reply to someone else's comment. It was something totally different. Nothing about nikah, rather something after this.
@AstagfirAllah , my parents are dead, my father when i was 2, my mother when i was 46, my not a child, i have been muslim since i was 18. and its my adult sons, who do not want me to marry, furthermore, i know it is haram to meet with men or even talk to them, sorry i was not more specific, when asking my question.
How would I go about approaching a guy for marriage? We're both involved in MSA events but I have absolutely no idea about how to go about it, and I think he's shy, too...sigh.
My question is, I have heard that if a girl's wali refuses to marry her daughter for no sharia reason, then can someone else can be her wali! Furthermore, the fact that her parents refused to meet and are now forcing her I am sure is not halal, as the prophet (SAW) released one girl from a forced marriage and told us that if a man with good piety asks for your daughter, do not say no for all you will cause is fitnah! What within sunnah and quran can be done?
The answer that was given in the class (insha-Allah the videos will be posted soon) is that : when the Wali refuses to marry a sister for no valid reason, she has the right to move on with different Wali (for example: a community leader, well known Imam, a scholar and so on... which plays the role of a Muslim ruler in a Muslim minority for these kind of issues).
The leader/Imam will try to convince the father and if it doesn't work he'll become the Wali for the sisters
@jannahtv@AstagfirAllah , my parents are dead, my father when i was 2, my mother when i was 46, my not a child, i have been muslim since i was 18. and its my adult sons, who do not want me to marry, furthermore, i know it is haram to meet with men or even talk to them, sorry i was not more specific, when asking my question.
@mygirlmeme Your parents know best trust me. If you're going to force the marriage upon your family and they aren't approved of the person, then Im guessing there will be no baraka. If you had some sort of relationship with him, its haram and second because you guys met in a haram way there is little blessings. Trust me get married to someone your family will approve. Pray istakhara. Your committing your whole life to someone you could just be having a temperarly crush on.. Allah knows best.
@AstagfirAllah , my parents are dead, my father when i was 2, my mother when i was 46, my not a child, i have been muslim since i was 18. and its my adult sons, who do not want me to marry, furthermore, i know it is haram to meet with men or even talk to them, sorry i was not more specific, when asking my question.
@mygirlmeme I'm sorry about your loss. I thought you were a young adult. It does not feel good to be alone. Everyone wants a companion and someone to love. I was referring to the youngins these days they think they are in love and they meet up and so on. After they get married everyone is suspicious of the other.
@mygirlmeme I do hope your sons can see that its not easy being alone and that you find someone who is not judgemental, paranoid, and close minded. Subhan Allah the converts are the best, they understand more and are unlikely to judge. May Allah guide you and reward your patience. The boys don't want to see their mom with someone other than dad. its normal.
Asalamu Alaykum bro im glad u asked this question and there are many that can answer u and i'll be the first. You CAN NOT marry your wife's mother this is strictly prohibited in is islam , you cannot do this is because you are a Mahram (chaperone) for ur mother inlaw. I hope understand my answer properly
Nope. strictly forbidden. See quranic verse below:
Prohibited to you (For marriage) are:- Your mothers, daughters, sisters; father's sisters, Mother's sisters; brother's daughters, sister's daughters; foster-mothers (Who gave you suck), foster-sisters; YOUR WIVES MOTHER; ......
As`salaamu alaykum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakatuhu,
InshaAllaah this reaches you in the best of health and in a state of ever increasing eemaan. Aameen.
JazakumAllaahu khairan for your interest in JannahTV. We are currently in the works of producing more videos and will be launching very shortly, inshaAllaah. Once launched, we will notify you, bi'idhnillaahi ta'Ala.
Mashallah! May A11ah(SWT) bless the speaker and bless you for uploading this for us. Inshallah you can tell us how we can hear the rest of the lecture.
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AmatullahTheTraveler 1 year ago
asalam o3alaykoom warahmato lillah wabarakatuhu,
I was wondering, when a girl gets married to her husband, but they do not live together yet, do the parents of the girl still have the rights to say no any yes. For example: if she wants to go out with her husband, does she have to ask her parents before leaving the house?, or can he ever say no?
Please explain in details thank you very much!
MoroccanCHICK100 1 year ago
@MoroccanCHICK100 u don't have to ask ur parents once you are married, but you could inform them as a courtesy. :)
MaryamMowjood 1 year ago
@MaryamMowjood No .. nikah without parents consent is haram and sin..Only hanfi deny it but bukari ahmed tirmidi have this hadith.
supersarah777 11 months ago
@supersarah777 Yup I know... My comment was a reply to someone else's comment. It was something totally different. Nothing about nikah, rather something after this.
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@AstagfirAllah , my parents are dead, my father when i was 2, my mother when i was 46, my not a child, i have been muslim since i was 18. and its my adult sons, who do not want me to marry, furthermore, i know it is haram to meet with men or even talk to them, sorry i was not more specific, when asking my question.
mygirlmeme 1 year ago
Nikahfied is redefining what one should expect from a Muslim matrimonials. Providing content specific to the needs of Muslims along with education.
sotne12345 1 year ago
sipraomer..
you will not by accountable for that but the persons that did not accepted you will be. And you will get wifes in the herafter brother
cajibulqariib 2 years ago
If a man has not been accepted by anyone. Will he be held accountable for remaining a virgin on the day of judgment.
sipraomer 2 years ago
How would I go about approaching a guy for marriage? We're both involved in MSA events but I have absolutely no idea about how to go about it, and I think he's shy, too...sigh.
bswaynow 2 years ago 6
Do you have a brother or a mahram that you can perhaps tell him about and ask him to approach him InshAllah?...
One thing, do not go to him and speak to him alone as you are both strangers to one another.
littlemissnas 2 years ago
can you ask him for coffee or breakfast/lunch? maybe get to know him as a friend? is that possible?
psGFXtutorials 2 years ago
mashallah, this is a good intro but where are the other parts???
baltoom001 2 years ago
Asalamu alaikum Brother,
My question is, I have heard that if a girl's wali refuses to marry her daughter for no sharia reason, then can someone else can be her wali! Furthermore, the fact that her parents refused to meet and are now forcing her I am sure is not halal, as the prophet (SAW) released one girl from a forced marriage and told us that if a man with good piety asks for your daughter, do not say no for all you will cause is fitnah! What within sunnah and quran can be done?
muslimman114 2 years ago
if a sister's wali does not want her to marry at all and does not accept any brother, can she find someone else to be her walkil for the marriage?
mygirlmeme 3 years ago
The answer that was given in the class (insha-Allah the videos will be posted soon) is that : when the Wali refuses to marry a sister for no valid reason, she has the right to move on with different Wali (for example: a community leader, well known Imam, a scholar and so on... which plays the role of a Muslim ruler in a Muslim minority for these kind of issues).
The leader/Imam will try to convince the father and if it doesn't work he'll become the Wali for the sisters
and Allah knows best
jannahtv 3 years ago
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@jannahtv @AstagfirAllah , my parents are dead, my father when i was 2, my mother when i was 46, my not a child, i have been muslim since i was 18. and its my adult sons, who do not want me to marry, furthermore, i know it is haram to meet with men or even talk to them, sorry i was not more specific, when asking my question.
mygirlmeme 1 year ago
@mygirlmeme Your parents know best trust me. If you're going to force the marriage upon your family and they aren't approved of the person, then Im guessing there will be no baraka. If you had some sort of relationship with him, its haram and second because you guys met in a haram way there is little blessings. Trust me get married to someone your family will approve. Pray istakhara. Your committing your whole life to someone you could just be having a temperarly crush on.. Allah knows best.
AstagfirAllah 1 year ago
@AstagfirAllah , my parents are dead, my father when i was 2, my mother when i was 46, my not a child, i have been muslim since i was 18. and its my adult sons, who do not want me to marry, furthermore, i know it is haram to meet with men or even talk to them, sorry i was not more specific, when asking my question.
mygirlmeme 1 year ago
@mygirlmeme I'm sorry about your loss. I thought you were a young adult. It does not feel good to be alone. Everyone wants a companion and someone to love. I was referring to the youngins these days they think they are in love and they meet up and so on. After they get married everyone is suspicious of the other.
AstagfirAllah 1 year ago
@mygirlmeme I do hope your sons can see that its not easy being alone and that you find someone who is not judgemental, paranoid, and close minded. Subhan Allah the converts are the best, they understand more and are unlikely to judge. May Allah guide you and reward your patience. The boys don't want to see their mom with someone other than dad. its normal.
Salam and blessings onto you and your family.
AstagfirAllah 1 year ago
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donkeypokeywokey 3 years ago
Asalamu Alaykum bro im glad u asked this question and there are many that can answer u and i'll be the first. You CAN NOT marry your wife's mother this is strictly prohibited in is islam , you cannot do this is because you are a Mahram (chaperone) for ur mother inlaw. I hope understand my answer properly
Salamu alaykum
Nasreen01 3 years ago
Nope. strictly forbidden. See quranic verse below:
Prohibited to you (For marriage) are:- Your mothers, daughters, sisters; father's sisters, Mother's sisters; brother's daughters, sister's daughters; foster-mothers (Who gave you suck), foster-sisters; YOUR WIVES MOTHER; ......
4:23
Emphasis added. Hope
ctonn 3 years ago 4
Mashalla Excellent video! Are you planning to upload the second part, or make new videos?
SamuraiWarrior48 3 years ago
i cant find the second part. it was really interesting
safeenakay 3 years ago
Where's part 2? OMG. Anyway, nice video.
UmmAbdulah 3 years ago
salaam wa'alaikum......does anyone know the name of the Nasheed played in the beginning of this video ?
Rakibno1 3 years ago
Would you please upload the rest of this amazing lecture.
Nadia251 3 years ago
salam alaykum... this lecture is really good just woundering where i can find the seconde part,,, this be great mashallah
muslimcanadian 3 years ago
jazkAllah khair brother.where is the the 2nd part....please post it soon inshAllah..
margachi123 3 years ago
i think theres no part 2
Anisa767 3 years ago
wheres part 2?
norasweetcakes 3 years ago
this is really good we want the rest.please
buterfly786 3 years ago
i like how u sed at 5.40
buterfly786 3 years ago
please upload other parts as well... thanks
smartoez 3 years ago
where are the other parts...i relly liked itt
nil987654321 3 years ago
As`salaamu alaykum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakatuhu,
InshaAllaah this reaches you in the best of health and in a state of ever increasing eemaan. Aameen.
JazakumAllaahu khairan for your interest in JannahTV. We are currently in the works of producing more videos and will be launching very shortly, inshaAllaah. Once launched, we will notify you, bi'idhnillaahi ta'Ala.
Please keep us in your du'aas,
Wa'assalaamu alaykum,
JannahTV Team
jannahtv 3 years ago
mash allah good leacture, Jazak Allah khair
swordpeak 3 years ago
Mashallah! May A11ah(SWT) bless the speaker and bless you for uploading this for us. Inshallah you can tell us how we can hear the rest of the lecture.
djrun 3 years ago
jazakAllahu ghairan.. does someone knows which nasheed you heard at the beginning? jazakAllah.. wa aleykum salaam wa rahmatuAllah
amatunlillaah 3 years ago
yeah i was lookin fo rit too
firoz85 3 years ago
Jazak Allah khair.. Good advice
staticstrawberry 3 years ago
Assamu alaikum,
If possible could you upload more videos about marriage? jazaka Allahu khairan
mawaddahwarahmah 3 years ago
is there like a continuation to this?
graziosoheldin 3 years ago
is there like a continuation to this?
graziosoheldin 3 years ago
Thanks for the helpful information!
kiwiiiz823 4 years ago
Very interesting and very well done. Thank you.
rhito68 4 years ago