Same thing. He said he lovedme nd now he has changed his mind. I love him so even tho it kills me Im gonna let him go to be happy. Ill always remember him cuz he's mi life. I really wish it would have worked out
I feel the same way about this guy, I have no idea if he likes me and it doesn't seem like he likes me :S and you made me feel a lot better about my self! Thanks :D :')
i made like the same video lmao. same thing happened to me, we were talking for three years & then bam, it just stopped. i made advice videos to girls too.
I'm a boy and you might think I'm wierd but I'm not please try not to call our gender that. Some boys are ALOT different than that. Just because i'm a boy doesn't mean I like all sport stuff I like important things like school. I also like some sporty stuff but i'm not like every boy is. So just because your a girl that doesn't make you a diva aren't I right? You could be but everyone is different.
I know how you feel, I've had a broken heart alott of times,it's the most hurtful feeling ever. If a guy is going to hurt you let them do it to someone else because you do not deserve it...
I've fallen in love and me and my boyfriend have been together 2 months and i really trust him let's just hope he doesn't go and break my heart because I love him more than anything and,he means everything to me-3
I went through the same EXACT thing!! Mine happened in 6th-8th grade. Everything you said matched exactly what happened to me!! I just recently went through it all AGAIN like 5 minutes ago and my first instinct was to go on youtube and find something similar....it hurts!!
Girl, I feel u & hear u loud & clear!!! It`s like one minute a guy likes u & the next thy don`t!!! It`s like, MAKE UP UR MIND!!! I`ve only had 1 bf & he waz a cheater so yea, i`ve been heartbroken all my life, i can`t remember how many times i asked a guy out & got rejected, it hurts alot:( It seems like every guy i like hates me & thinks im the uglyiest thing & idk y cuz im so sweet & looks aren`t everything...... Im tired of heartbreak, its just too much:(
As a guy I know were stupid most of the time so u have to make it obvious that u like us KeY thing is to work on are trust and make your move GOOD LUCK
You deserve someone very special :) im 13 and have a huge crush on a boy at school but i have no idea if he knows i exist ;( i guess thats just part of life? :/
Me and my friend like the same guy....In class he said this girl liked him so he was just gonna ask, but it turns out that she was my friend who is so well nice a little crazy but i love her!! And he said it turn out he likes another girl but no one knows who and i know this sounds stupid but i think is me...so i dont wanna push away my crush but i dont want my friend to get hurt...i really need advice...
I can absolutely relate and i never thought anyone else cared about someone but never dated them and then got their heart broken and felt like the world was ending! your video made me not feel alone!
Hey it is really good of you to share your story..I really liked watching your vid. It inspired me to put one up..Please watch it :) (and let me know what you think) i talk about some of the things you do but also about loving yourself :)
trust me... i know how you feel. I'm a freshman in high school, and have been in love with my neighbor since the third grade. we got in a huge fight and haven't spoken in over a year, and still can't get over him. i feel your heartbreak and hope everything turns out! i'm still waiting for my happy ending :(
These people need to shut up. You guys may have not been in a relationship but there was obviously still something there. I went through almost the exact same thing and I'm glad you made this!(: -Thankss
Wow i cant believe how much our experience is the same. I am a senior in high school and i fell in love with a guy in my freshman year.. loved him for 3 years and then he ended up breaking up my heart my junior year. what he did was so wrong and i still struggle with it everyday. its so hard not having friends because i feel the need to talk to someone. i have faith though that i will get through this :)
You are a beautiful girl, and I'm sure you didn't deserve whatever happened between you and this guy. But I'm here to say as a guy who's had his heart broken, we're not all the same and confusing. Some of us, when we actually say "I love you", we mean it. I for one have never said it and not meant it. Never. That exact reason is why I've never dumped anyone. I've always been lied to, and been the one in your situation. I hope you find someone who is completely genuinely in live with you, so you
Oh my god, I've been trough exactly the same thing. My boyfriend and my best friend flirted for a half year and after i cought them texting all the time i broke up with him but i was too weak and took him back just so that he could hurt me all over again. Now my ex best friend blames me and I've been going through a living hell..
im not going to be one of those people who say "i know how you feel", but this is so real. so great. you took all the words i thought of from my heart :) thanks
i know a guy might break ur heart and i know what its like but never regret something that made u happy just take a bubble bath like she said and move on there are plenty of amazing guys out there u just got to find ur prince charming
I love this im going through some tough times and you really helped me.. Always remember there is all a positive thing out of something negative thankyou xo
i went through this same thing.. Except the guy liked 3 other of some of my bestfriends, and I thought he liked me the most, so it was OKAY. Well, summer rolled around and he madeout with one of my BESTFRIENDS she knew I liked him, and he knew I still had feelings for him... one day he'd say he loves me, the next hed turn around and kiss my friends. It hurt to see that for the past YEAR, I've really LOVED him, but all he was doinng was hurting me.
I can tell how hurt youu were in the video. I would loove to talk to youu , noo homo. lol. but, youu seem like a really good girl, and no guy should treat a girl like youu and i, or any other female like that. I havnt been heart broken though.. probably not YET anyway. But Its okaye, you'l get over it soon he might come running back to youu one day, and youu might not want him, or i could be wrong. but, do whats BEST dont get LOVE confused with DECISIONS. Just sayin', but be stong, you'll find 1
It's bugs how everyone is like"you weren't in love" and blah blah blah but they don't know how you felt! Shesh :p thanks for the video! And boys are confusing :(
You were very lucky to have a family who cared and friends who wanted to help you. I went through something similar, but instead of the heartbreaker being a boyfriend, it was a best friend. Words could not describe what I felt during that period of time. And it really does scar you for life. For me, I don't think the sadness will ever stop. I will just have to fake a smile until I can heal mentally and emotionally. If only I could follow my own advice--stay strong & move on..
that happend 2 me in MS...i adored this guy for 3yrs.it started in 6th.he caught my eye when he walked in front of me.asked me out&i said yes,but he denies everything,so i deny as well..8th grd prom came&this AMAZING guy asked me&i said yes,then i found out HE wanted to go w.me..but i was like his 3rd choice..i went w.the amazing guy..he just seemed right.hes now my bf of 1year♥ but i found out HE cried in prom when i kissed my bf..but it was too late.hes affected me in a big way.after him3yrs:/
Wouldn't you call that infatuation if you never were together? Trust me I have been there and afterwards I was like what? We never really had anything...
My Story is sooo complicated !! & i get you all the way since iv'e been through it also i acctually went out with a boy & he said that he liked me but i know it's not true because i saw him kissing my BEST FRIEND!! wen i saw that i tried to calm down i got in a fight with my friend and i got suspended now my ex tried to blame EVERYTHING On me!
Cliche love story, I fell for my best friend.Today,we went on a field trip,I fell asleep on his shoulder,his arm around my waist, we held hands the whole field trip, He bought me a drink.I was about to text him a text saying how I felt,when he sent me this: "Don't lay on me or hold my hand anymore. People keep saying we're dating.You know I don't like you that way,and vice versa.If we ever did go out, it would be weird, awkward, and I just dont think I'll ever think you that way." Ouch. -.-
I know what your going through this has happens to me and I was never in a real relationship...I thought i was but obese being played):and thinking about it still makes my eyes filled with tears.....and now my grandparents and his grandparents are in Nashville for a trip....I try to get over him but the heart break still is never going to go away and he was my first real love):....even cuz of him I'm still Boy crazy always have been and always will....I'm sorry for what happend to you I think y
I can imagine what you're going through right now. Believe me, i was in a relationship which was never real. Even though thinking about it really aches me, I learned a valuable lesson: Try not to fall for someone too quickly. Now that I'm in college and slowly moved on, I realized that I maybe this was supposed to happen for better things to fall in place. I just wanted to tell you to always stay strong and never lose hope on love.
i went through heartbreak as well, my so called best friend went out with this guy that i have liked for 2 years and they just broke up and i loved him..i still do..my firstlove..doesnt love me back? i know you probably dont care just putting my story out there and wanted to tell someone...im all bunched up inside i have been for awhile. ):
@littlepinky101 my dear you were not in love with him, if you had your heartbroken THAT day as you claim you would not have even had the strength to even THINK of doing a youtube vid... your a nice girl but what you experienced was just a strong infatuation, men are not all idiots, nor women, there are the fools on each side of the gender. True love not what you claim, what you claim is the beginning of a relationship the "spark" zone ... you will fall truly one day and understand what im sayin
I feel what you're feeling too. Nothing hurts as much as a guy deserting you. You feel the pangs due to the memories and due to their words. They made you feel different, special, and beautiful, as well as worth while and then somehow manage to ditch or leave you. Lets put it simple: boy or girl alike, they somehow manage to mess with your emotions.
How could someone not fall in love with you the first second they meet you! Don't let ignorant people get to you. If they don't like you well that's their loss. Keep your head held high because there's no hope in the past. I really hope that you have a great life and enjoy life cause it dosent last forever!
so it makes me all confused ! hes also ver athletic hes on the football team and every girl i know thinks hes gorgeouse, but what im getting to is , maybe we all just have to take a step back and realize that will all get our heart broken and that highschool guys havnt grown up yet and most of them are not ready for a "real" relasionship
i hope this helps out anyone whos going through what alot of us girls are(:
i kindoff have a experiance like yours , but first let me say you have alot of guts to do this and i admire you for that your such a sweet girl never change <3 but othr than that,- theres this boy who i have a crush on and some of my guy friend found out that i did so they told him ..i think. and i dont quite know what he said when they told him buz im to afraid to ask but i figure he dosnt like me since he puts no effort into talking to me. but sometimes when he walks by me hell stare at me
you are soo kind. this guy reminds me a whole lot of this kid i know and love. he is the nicest kid in the world and hes perfect in every way. hes soo smart, funny,he's amazing at football and basket ball, hes popular, hes friends with everyone (not to mention hes attractive). i love him so much. i've liked him now since the second day of school when he lent me $5 dollars for a gym lock. i didnt know him at all(it was the 2nd day) but hes so kind.
i'm really worried he wont be in any classes with me next semester though because right now hes only in my english class. i dont really know what to do. he hasnt broken my heart and hes not the type of guy to be like a man whore. he doesnt have any gf's and idk if he ever has. i just love him sooo much.
aw, your so sweet! & I know exactly what your going threw I liked a guy and he never will never know idk how to tell him and I'm scared of rejection but I hope it gets better for you!
I give you props girl for being able to share your story & for wanting to help others. I know its really hard trust me. I think every girl at some point in their life goes through this. I had 2 major heartbreaks during highschool and finally at the end of my senior year I found my match. We are still together and going strong. I think girls just need to not look for "that guy" they need "that guy" to find them :)
Im 14 , ive "dated" before with a couple of people and it has always ended in tears
but now i really like a boy in the year above me, he is tall, athletic, sweet, and he is an amazing singer! We met when we both tried out for the school musical.He was the lead roll and i was a smaller part. we began talking and are now friends. he seems to like me too because he always looks at me then looks away quickly. The only thing is he wont make a move so i just sit there and wait all day every day xxx
i'm 18 and i never had a relationship. and, honestly, i like to be single. and these boys are so immature -.- they don't understand us and we don't understand them. and finding a great guys, "that guy", is a really difficult thing to find.
i'm sure you'll find someone that will be amazing to you Hayley :)
yes im almost 12 and there r some cute couples and so complicated relationships!!! u r truly amazing and beautiful and u can find a betta guy!!!!!!!!!!! u r a grest person dont let anyone take it away from u !
yes im almost 12 and there r some cute couples and so complicated relationships!!! u r truly amazing and beautiful and u can find a betta guy!!!!!!!!!!! u r a grest person dont let anyone take it away from u
this is a sad subject and thank you for this video...I'm younger than you and I LOVE my best guy friend but he's also "that guy" at my school so he keeps getting girl friends and I eventually got tired of it so I told him and we didn't talk for a while. We're better now but still not "dating"...It DOES make me sort of upset but hang in there Hayley! ILY! :)
I have to tell you....high school crushes not working out....well...soon they'll seem like a memory. Boys are AWFUL. Annoying, rude, loud, immature, impossible to relate with, etc. You have to wait until you find a guy who can be mature. He WILL appear, trust me. There are SO many guys out there and it really does just keep getting better and better.
I couldnt agree more about what you said about boys. I have been blessed to be with my bf for 6 years now (ever since high school and we are 22 years old now), thank goodness I have found the perfect kindest sweetest intelligent good looking man ever BUT it brakes my heart when I see my friends around me getting heart broken with assholes out there! Best of luck dear! You are an amzing girl!
No no no...the boys no what they are doing...ugh they are such jerks sometimes. all they want is attention and I want a guy who loves me for who i am and not my sexual appearances..I mean you know?? and yea its hard.
@littlepinky101 Yep, Im only 13 and ive never had a boyfriend but i know its hard and ive had 2 heart transplants! I love your Hair!! I want to see it straight?
aww hayleyD: so sad... same thing happened to me:( i was stupid and fell in love and then he broke my heart and cheated on me. i know how you feel. it really sucks, and we will cry and cry but in the end its not even gong to matter, just remember that. stay strong!
.your a really good writer....and iv got to say...when you were reading your story it hurt my heart so bad.but it was so captivating.....and reached out and touched me.
unfortunatly for me, the past keeps repeating its self: i love a guyy with all my heart and soul, "they feel the same way"...then something goes wrong.: they might just like to flirt, say the same things to every girl, and lie. maybe its my fault for loving so easily..or maybe its there fault for being confusing boys. who knows
Same thing. He said he lovedme nd now he has changed his mind. I love him so even tho it kills me Im gonna let him go to be happy. Ill always remember him cuz he's mi life. I really wish it would have worked out
butterflysflyhigh1 2 weeks ago
OMGGGGEE! THANK YOU! <33
AnniciaKeltonXx 3 weeks ago
Thanks for the advice as I have just got out of a relationship so I kind of know how you feel!xox
ELLAandSAMM 1 month ago
sigh you should date forgin men there better...
DjPetrov 1 month ago
your so weird!!
TheOMGSAYWHAT 1 month ago
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You are inspiring thats why i started to make videos about advice and stuff. Hopefully some day I can have as many subscribers and views as you :D
Esstoosilly 1 month ago
I feel the same way about this guy, I have no idea if he likes me and it doesn't seem like he likes me :S and you made me feel a lot better about my self! Thanks :D :')
Leasher10 1 month ago
I feel just the same way.
lauraqp1995 2 months ago
You're an inspiration :) thank you!
Nichole337Fan123 2 months ago
i made like the same video lmao. same thing happened to me, we were talking for three years & then bam, it just stopped. i made advice videos to girls too.
kaylagocrazy10 2 months ago
@kaylagocrazy10 wow i wrote that twice ;p
kaylagocrazy10 2 months ago
I'm a boy and you might think I'm wierd but I'm not please try not to call our gender that. Some boys are ALOT different than that. Just because i'm a boy doesn't mean I like all sport stuff I like important things like school. I also like some sporty stuff but i'm not like every boy is. So just because your a girl that doesn't make you a diva aren't I right? You could be but everyone is different.
blueghost81 2 months ago
@blueghost81 *weird*
blueghost81 2 months ago
I know how you feel, I've had a broken heart alott of times,it's the most hurtful feeling ever. If a guy is going to hurt you let them do it to someone else because you do not deserve it...
I've fallen in love and me and my boyfriend have been together 2 months and i really trust him let's just hope he doesn't go and break my heart because I love him more than anything and,he means everything to me-3
mizzmusic1000 2 months ago
I went through the same EXACT thing!! Mine happened in 6th-8th grade. Everything you said matched exactly what happened to me!! I just recently went through it all AGAIN like 5 minutes ago and my first instinct was to go on youtube and find something similar....it hurts!!
CheyenneMarieDavis 3 months ago
Girl, I feel u & hear u loud & clear!!! It`s like one minute a guy likes u & the next thy don`t!!! It`s like, MAKE UP UR MIND!!! I`ve only had 1 bf & he waz a cheater so yea, i`ve been heartbroken all my life, i can`t remember how many times i asked a guy out & got rejected, it hurts alot:( It seems like every guy i like hates me & thinks im the uglyiest thing & idk y cuz im so sweet & looks aren`t everything...... Im tired of heartbreak, its just too much:(
jadegurl92 3 months ago
aww im sorry he hurt you :(
sneekytinky107 3 months ago
She needs to realize that guys r jerks and of course they are going to break ur heart but dont cry about it cause there not worth ur tears.
kutiepiequeen 3 months ago
As a guy I know were stupid most of the time so u have to make it obvious that u like us KeY thing is to work on are trust and make your move GOOD LUCK
shortstop827 3 months ago
Like my mom says many fish in the sea! Theirs someone out their for everyone!
reeereee18 3 months ago
You deserve someone very special :) im 13 and have a huge crush on a boy at school but i have no idea if he knows i exist ;( i guess thats just part of life? :/
isabellaisavlogger 3 months ago
You're amazing! I hope you feel better now :) you deserve someome amazing
Bieleber411Mak 4 months ago
Me and my friend like the same guy....In class he said this girl liked him so he was just gonna ask, but it turns out that she was my friend who is so well nice a little crazy but i love her!! And he said it turn out he likes another girl but no one knows who and i know this sounds stupid but i think is me...so i dont wanna push away my crush but i dont want my friend to get hurt...i really need advice...
totallyrandomcutie1 4 months ago
my friend went thow that this summer
101exex101 4 months ago
I love you C:
Cookielover415 5 months ago
I can absolutely relate and i never thought anyone else cared about someone but never dated them and then got their heart broken and felt like the world was ending! your video made me not feel alone!
soccercool13 5 months ago
SOME GIRLS LIKE GIRLS.
LAR1101 5 months ago
I went through the exact same thing! it realy hurt me!
multicoolio7 5 months ago
Hey it is really good of you to share your story..I really liked watching your vid. It inspired me to put one up..Please watch it :) (and let me know what you think) i talk about some of the things you do but also about loving yourself :)
love247girl 5 months ago
trust me... i know how you feel. I'm a freshman in high school, and have been in love with my neighbor since the third grade. we got in a huge fight and haven't spoken in over a year, and still can't get over him. i feel your heartbreak and hope everything turns out! i'm still waiting for my happy ending :(
KosmeticsbyKellie 5 months ago
These people need to shut up. You guys may have not been in a relationship but there was obviously still something there. I went through almost the exact same thing and I'm glad you made this!(: -Thankss
asmajlovic1237 5 months ago
Wow i cant believe how much our experience is the same. I am a senior in high school and i fell in love with a guy in my freshman year.. loved him for 3 years and then he ended up breaking up my heart my junior year. what he did was so wrong and i still struggle with it everyday. its so hard not having friends because i feel the need to talk to someone. i have faith though that i will get through this :)
rpaige08 5 months ago
u look like emma watson
paulieluvsyou 5 months ago
You are a beautiful girl, and I'm sure you didn't deserve whatever happened between you and this guy. But I'm here to say as a guy who's had his heart broken, we're not all the same and confusing. Some of us, when we actually say "I love you", we mean it. I for one have never said it and not meant it. Never. That exact reason is why I've never dumped anyone. I've always been lied to, and been the one in your situation. I hope you find someone who is completely genuinely in live with you, so you
guitarinkrys 5 months ago
Oh my god, I've been trough exactly the same thing. My boyfriend and my best friend flirted for a half year and after i cought them texting all the time i broke up with him but i was too weak and took him back just so that he could hurt me all over again. Now my ex best friend blames me and I've been going through a living hell..
Smalamala 5 months ago
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leppardr 5 months ago
im not going to be one of those people who say "i know how you feel", but this is so real. so great. you took all the words i thought of from my heart :) thanks
thindythou 6 months ago
i know a guy might break ur heart and i know what its like but never regret something that made u happy just take a bubble bath like she said and move on there are plenty of amazing guys out there u just got to find ur prince charming
TheLegallybrunette19 6 months ago
Thanks for the video! I am 29 and still crying because a girl dumped me. Your video was an eye opener :)
YezdiRK 6 months ago
this made me cry<3
Cookielover415 6 months ago
It sounded like you were trying to hold in the tears. Nawww <3
brucasluveroth 6 months ago
this is soooo true :o /
i can relate to u 100%!
ur so adorable.
locagurl0512 6 months ago
I love this im going through some tough times and you really helped me.. Always remember there is all a positive thing out of something negative thankyou xo
VUSTAH 6 months ago
I went through the exact same thing, so your video made me cry :) Thanks for being strong enough to upload this.
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tianatorib 7 months ago
i went through this same thing.. Except the guy liked 3 other of some of my bestfriends, and I thought he liked me the most, so it was OKAY. Well, summer rolled around and he madeout with one of my BESTFRIENDS she knew I liked him, and he knew I still had feelings for him... one day he'd say he loves me, the next hed turn around and kiss my friends. It hurt to see that for the past YEAR, I've really LOVED him, but all he was doinng was hurting me.
veragloss9 7 months ago
I can tell how hurt youu were in the video. I would loove to talk to youu , noo homo. lol. but, youu seem like a really good girl, and no guy should treat a girl like youu and i, or any other female like that. I havnt been heart broken though.. probably not YET anyway. But Its okaye, you'l get over it soon he might come running back to youu one day, and youu might not want him, or i could be wrong. but, do whats BEST dont get LOVE confused with DECISIONS. Just sayin', but be stong, you'll find 1
BreeKASHtvee 7 months ago
It's bugs how everyone is like"you weren't in love" and blah blah blah but they don't know how you felt! Shesh :p thanks for the video! And boys are confusing :(
XoJillybean4Xo 7 months ago
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You were very lucky to have a family who cared and friends who wanted to help you. I went through something similar, but instead of the heartbreaker being a boyfriend, it was a best friend. Words could not describe what I felt during that period of time. And it really does scar you for life. For me, I don't think the sadness will ever stop. I will just have to fake a smile until I can heal mentally and emotionally. If only I could follow my own advice--stay strong & move on..
TheJamJayz 7 months ago
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TheJamJayz 7 months ago
i agree completely with you on the whole like bam being boyfriend girlfriend thing...why cant we just go on dates like adults?
Carolineleora 8 months ago
You remind me of Hermoine! :P
thanks for the advice!!
momoiscrazii 8 months ago
i tried to talk to my friends but i feel like they are sick of trying to comfort me...
glowbug111 8 months ago
You're a very pretty girl and you just need to find the right guy for you! I've been in your situation and it SUCKS! Btw you look like Emma Watson!(:
catluver0327 8 months ago
that happend 2 me in MS...i adored this guy for 3yrs.it started in 6th.he caught my eye when he walked in front of me.asked me out&i said yes,but he denies everything,so i deny as well..8th grd prom came&this AMAZING guy asked me&i said yes,then i found out HE wanted to go w.me..but i was like his 3rd choice..i went w.the amazing guy..he just seemed right.hes now my bf of 1year♥ but i found out HE cried in prom when i kissed my bf..but it was too late.hes affected me in a big way.after him3yrs:/
lovealwaysLudy 9 months ago
@lovealwaysLudy Goo head girl !! I LOVE That paragraph !! But youu gotta do what uu gotta do:) !
BreeKASHtvee 7 months ago
dont cry hun:/
meganpaige123 9 months ago
Wouldn't you call that infatuation if you never were together? Trust me I have been there and afterwards I was like what? We never really had anything...
snowblake83 9 months ago 6
@snowblake83 No. I honest to jesus, love him.
littlepinky101 9 months ago 11
@snowblake83 werent they togeather for 3 years?
fivestarstunermatt 6 months ago
My Story is sooo complicated !! & i get you all the way since iv'e been through it also i acctually went out with a boy & he said that he liked me but i know it's not true because i saw him kissing my BEST FRIEND!! wen i saw that i tried to calm down i got in a fight with my friend and i got suspended now my ex tried to blame EVERYTHING On me!
rokkstarz98 9 months ago
Cliche love story, I fell for my best friend.Today,we went on a field trip,I fell asleep on his shoulder,his arm around my waist, we held hands the whole field trip, He bought me a drink.I was about to text him a text saying how I felt,when he sent me this: "Don't lay on me or hold my hand anymore. People keep saying we're dating.You know I don't like you that way,and vice versa.If we ever did go out, it would be weird, awkward, and I just dont think I'll ever think you that way." Ouch. -.-
MsTheFunk 9 months ago
Only being played* sorry bout that I can't type write now and that spell check is on lol
xojbloverxo100 9 months ago
Idk y it put obese lol I was trying to say something else....It obviously wasn't real yea lol
xojbloverxo100 9 months ago
I know what your going through this has happens to me and I was never in a real relationship...I thought i was but obese being played):and thinking about it still makes my eyes filled with tears.....and now my grandparents and his grandparents are in Nashville for a trip....I try to get over him but the heart break still is never going to go away and he was my first real love):....even cuz of him I'm still Boy crazy always have been and always will....I'm sorry for what happend to you I think y
xojbloverxo100 9 months ago
Hey Hayley,
I can imagine what you're going through right now. Believe me, i was in a relationship which was never real. Even though thinking about it really aches me, I learned a valuable lesson: Try not to fall for someone too quickly. Now that I'm in college and slowly moved on, I realized that I maybe this was supposed to happen for better things to fall in place. I just wanted to tell you to always stay strong and never lose hope on love.
SweetDezire25 9 months ago
You look like hermione granger!
TheCherryBlossom17 9 months ago
:) ur such a strong and pretty girl good luck
CandyNinja98 9 months ago
excuse me, i need to know what happened?
glimmerXglam07 10 months ago
i went through heartbreak as well, my so called best friend went out with this guy that i have liked for 2 years and they just broke up and i loved him..i still do..my firstlove..doesnt love me back? i know you probably dont care just putting my story out there and wanted to tell someone...im all bunched up inside i have been for awhile. ):
millipede232 10 months ago
@millipede232 I do care, and I'm very glad to be able to help all of you. Anyone is free to message me, if ever in need :)
littlepinky101 10 months ago 5
@littlepinky101 u can b in love with someone ur not wit its possible
TheMimiboo09 3 months ago
that was meant in the least mean way possible like im just wondering :]
sammysunshinexo0 10 months ago
if he wasnt your boyfriend how were you in love with him?
sammysunshinexo0 10 months ago 4
It was a complicated situation. Technically we were. @sammysunshinexo0
littlepinky101 10 months ago 10
@littlepinky101 my dear you were not in love with him, if you had your heartbroken THAT day as you claim you would not have even had the strength to even THINK of doing a youtube vid... your a nice girl but what you experienced was just a strong infatuation, men are not all idiots, nor women, there are the fools on each side of the gender. True love not what you claim, what you claim is the beginning of a relationship the "spark" zone ... you will fall truly one day and understand what im sayin
tlarderful 8 months ago
@sammysunshinexo0 quit being mean, i met an amazing guy online we had a complicated situation like she did we never date and i fell in love with him
PINKPEANUT91 8 months ago
@sammysunshinexo0 its possible, you dont have to put a title on your relationship with someone to love them.
Miss17th 7 months ago
I feel what you're feeling too. Nothing hurts as much as a guy deserting you. You feel the pangs due to the memories and due to their words. They made you feel different, special, and beautiful, as well as worth while and then somehow manage to ditch or leave you. Lets put it simple: boy or girl alike, they somehow manage to mess with your emotions.
KittyKatXBby 11 months ago
youre goregous :)
carlablacklight 11 months ago
you sound like ur bout to cry in this video and it made me want to!
starsandzebra02 1 year ago
I hated how it sounded like you were gonna cry any second :(
sillygilly98 1 year ago 2
Oh My gosh I love this
totally a favorite
<3
-Maddie
TheMaddieinthehouse 1 year ago
I have that same shirt. from hollister right? (:
MissAbbyBieber 1 year ago
How could someone not fall in love with you the first second they meet you! Don't let ignorant people get to you. If they don't like you well that's their loss. Keep your head held high because there's no hope in the past. I really hope that you have a great life and enjoy life cause it dosent last forever!
7188253 1 year ago
so it makes me all confused ! hes also ver athletic hes on the football team and every girl i know thinks hes gorgeouse, but what im getting to is , maybe we all just have to take a step back and realize that will all get our heart broken and that highschool guys havnt grown up yet and most of them are not ready for a "real" relasionship
i hope this helps out anyone whos going through what alot of us girls are(:
xoxo- tayler
xoxotaylerr 1 year ago 12
i kindoff have a experiance like yours , but first let me say you have alot of guts to do this and i admire you for that your such a sweet girl never change <3 but othr than that,- theres this boy who i have a crush on and some of my guy friend found out that i did so they told him ..i think. and i dont quite know what he said when they told him buz im to afraid to ask but i figure he dosnt like me since he puts no effort into talking to me. but sometimes when he walks by me hell stare at me
xoxotaylerr 1 year ago 6
i LOOOOOOOVE UR HAIR!
JewcyCoach 1 year ago
you are soo kind. this guy reminds me a whole lot of this kid i know and love. he is the nicest kid in the world and hes perfect in every way. hes soo smart, funny,he's amazing at football and basket ball, hes popular, hes friends with everyone (not to mention hes attractive). i love him so much. i've liked him now since the second day of school when he lent me $5 dollars for a gym lock. i didnt know him at all(it was the 2nd day) but hes so kind.
lareca9 1 year ago
i'm really worried he wont be in any classes with me next semester though because right now hes only in my english class. i dont really know what to do. he hasnt broken my heart and hes not the type of guy to be like a man whore. he doesnt have any gf's and idk if he ever has. i just love him sooo much.
lareca9 1 year ago
aw, your so sweet! & I know exactly what your going threw I liked a guy and he never will never know idk how to tell him and I'm scared of rejection but I hope it gets better for you!
xxfeildhockey101 1 year ago
you're a really good author!
californiacation93 1 year ago
I give you props girl for being able to share your story & for wanting to help others. I know its really hard trust me. I think every girl at some point in their life goes through this. I had 2 major heartbreaks during highschool and finally at the end of my senior year I found my match. We are still together and going strong. I think girls just need to not look for "that guy" they need "that guy" to find them :)
AmandaRae089 1 year ago
Im 14 , ive "dated" before with a couple of people and it has always ended in tears
but now i really like a boy in the year above me, he is tall, athletic, sweet, and he is an amazing singer! We met when we both tried out for the school musical.He was the lead roll and i was a smaller part. we began talking and are now friends. he seems to like me too because he always looks at me then looks away quickly. The only thing is he wont make a move so i just sit there and wait all day every day xxx
limlop090909 1 year ago
your really preety and kind so im sure that you will find someone who treats you really well. also i love your hair xxxx
justalittlebitcrazy0 1 year ago
i'm 18 and i never had a relationship. and, honestly, i like to be single. and these boys are so immature -.- they don't understand us and we don't understand them. and finding a great guys, "that guy", is a really difficult thing to find.
i'm sure you'll find someone that will be amazing to you Hayley :)
LilianaMTL 1 year ago 4
You're incredibly sweet. I love your new hair :)
xmegmo 1 year ago
@xmegmo Aww thanks :)
littlepinky101 1 year ago
yes im almost 12 and there r some cute couples and so complicated relationships!!! u r truly amazing and beautiful and u can find a betta guy!!!!!!!!!!! u r a grest person dont let anyone take it away from u !
clairebieber101 1 year ago
yes im almost 12 and there r some cute couples and so complicated relationships!!! u r truly amazing and beautiful and u can find a betta guy!!!!!!!!!!! u r a grest person dont let anyone take it away from u
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clairebieber101 1 year ago
this is a sad subject and thank you for this video...I'm younger than you and I LOVE my best guy friend but he's also "that guy" at my school so he keeps getting girl friends and I eventually got tired of it so I told him and we didn't talk for a while. We're better now but still not "dating"...It DOES make me sort of upset but hang in there Hayley! ILY! :)
mindysuemlnh 1 year ago
how old are you? (:
juliapuppylover 1 year ago
I have to tell you....high school crushes not working out....well...soon they'll seem like a memory. Boys are AWFUL. Annoying, rude, loud, immature, impossible to relate with, etc. You have to wait until you find a guy who can be mature. He WILL appear, trust me. There are SO many guys out there and it really does just keep getting better and better.
crazyangelflora20 1 year ago
I couldnt agree more about what you said about boys. I have been blessed to be with my bf for 6 years now (ever since high school and we are 22 years old now), thank goodness I have found the perfect kindest sweetest intelligent good looking man ever BUT it brakes my heart when I see my friends around me getting heart broken with assholes out there! Best of luck dear! You are an amzing girl!
irenesanghyun 1 year ago
No no no...the boys no what they are doing...ugh they are such jerks sometimes. all they want is attention and I want a guy who loves me for who i am and not my sexual appearances..I mean you know?? and yea its hard.
melodysapos2010 1 year ago
@melodysapos2010 It definitely is hard. Each heartbreak is a new beginning.
littlepinky101 1 year ago
@littlepinky101 Yep, Im only 13 and ive never had a boyfriend but i know its hard and ive had 2 heart transplants! I love your Hair!! I want to see it straight?
melodysapos2010 1 year ago
aww hayleyD: so sad... same thing happened to me:( i was stupid and fell in love and then he broke my heart and cheated on me. i know how you feel. it really sucks, and we will cry and cry but in the end its not even gong to matter, just remember that. stay strong!
xoxo... a good friend
summer<3
summerstarheart 1 year ago
.your a really good writer....and iv got to say...when you were reading your story it hurt my heart so bad.but it was so captivating.....and reached out and touched me.
unfortunatly for me, the past keeps repeating its self: i love a guyy with all my heart and soul, "they feel the same way"...then something goes wrong.: they might just like to flirt, say the same things to every girl, and lie. maybe its my fault for loving so easily..or maybe its there fault for being confusing boys. who knows
forever96music 1 year ago
your story is similar to mine and my first love. i know your pain. its been over a year and i still have pain. but it does get better.
rawritsblair1 1 year ago
do you have extencetions in :o they look good
everythingbeauty13 1 year ago
@everythingbeauty13 Yes i do :) and thanks!
littlepinky101 1 year ago
@littlepinky101 I love them! Are they permanent or temporary extensions?
emma0101101 1 year ago
boys are confusing hold in there girl this was a very good video :)
MsSarahcutie 1 year ago
youre so brave! thank you for sharing your experience because i know it will help so many girls!
flowerrchildd765 1 year ago