Don't get your mind twisted into thinking most black women think this way. The media want us to think that black women's thought patterns are this degraded to further split the black man and black woman. What better way to tear black families apart?? Think about it black people.
black/mixed women who is single or not, teaching their daughters how to love and to sleep with white men for being "happy" and how all black men are anti sh't! that is why a lot of them are single, unmarried and white men's porno whores. so don't blame only black man in your sh't!
this is problem only in black/mixed women who are single or not, and this is absolutely truth. a lot of them hated black men, dark skin and are self-hating white men's whores. single black/mixed women raise them sons like daughters and daughters like sellout gold digger white men's porno whores to f'ck with everybody for money.
alot of women want a 100% black guy which means he's PERFECT which is no such thing. Ask yourselves this, if it was such a man would he even want you??? Are you a perfect woman??? Let reality sink in that nobody is perfect. Some of y'all have VERY HIGH STANDARDS..if a guy like that exist how do you know that you even meet his standards. Just something to think about. What do y'all think?
The whole "not giving a nice guy a chance" is the reason all my friends do the shit they do. I personally tell all the black men I know to do something with their lives instead of chasing pussy because they chase so hard after the Lauren London type girls they end up getting into shit trying to fit a fine girl's image.
I personally don't care. I don't chase after pussy. I have to build my future right now. If I get a girlfriend during my time, that's fine otherwise its no big deal
I agree that WOMEN should be the ones coming out against this...moreso than men at least. The Black sisterhood needs about as much work as the brotherhood, if not more.
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true...and it goes both ways...but at least with men its not really displayed as casually (by 'it' i mean their ideas on what they want in a woman [in more ignorant terms])its just sad to me how heavy of an influence that the media seems to have on black culture =(
@heartboy86 I never said that an educated man cant have swag...i was just refuting the thug refrence and i get what youre saying but again try not to geveralize though bc people are always hearing black men talk shit about black women (and vise versa but more strongly the other way around). People are fed, and devower a lot of garbage about black women and with 85% of youtube being racist as it is...you may want to specify that its not all of us but I gwt what youre saying for the most part
@amastara i think its even worst when you have two female celebrities that say stuff like this becuase younger women will listen to that crap and feed off it which is so sad but yea i see where you coming from as well
Ok your right that they biracisl racial But The bottom line is that they are still BLACK regardless if they have even a single drop of BLACK they are BLACK women in america. And i dnt kno y u r making that a Point But nobody cares wat The hell they are mixed with. They are still BLACK at The end of The day.
@MermaidLove91 i think they pointed out the fact that they are biracial bc who knows if they grew up around their black "side" so to speak... maybe tv has glamorized this image and they want a part in it too
aslo, congratulations opening up yet another forum and titling it with judgemental, race driven bullshit for lowlives like raofarrell to engage in and spew mindless shit to get a rise out of people in his otherwise empty, pathetic life.
Im a black female, and no maya and lauren have not hurt my dating chances you ignorant, generalizing fuck.
this is the most convoluted(in the lamest sense) and TRITE psychobabble on youtube.."encourage them to basically destroy themselves".. what the fuck does that even mean.. you sound like every other unattractive and self riteous black man in most of your videos if not all. You're horrible, get off the internet.
What is the correlation between that minute long nonsense rant about being "tracked" in the u.s and a comment made by a black female actress. MORON.
BW are so fukn trashy. I cant even stomach looking at them anymore. Why did BM get stuck having to call these filthy baboons women. BM you need to get a WW, and stop rolling in the dirt with these apes. BM need to encourage BW to date outside the race so that BM arent stuck with miserable ass nigger broads.
@raofarrell BTW, WE DON'T WANT YOUR MONKEY-LOOKING, FAKE, BROKE, RETARDED ASS ANYWAYS. YOU'RE A LOSER WITH WAY TOO MUCH TIME ON YOUR HANDS. B-I-T-C-H!
I'm online alot and come here to laugh at you during my breaks because I'm writing a thesis...for grad school...for my Masters, actually. You are just entertainment and serve no other purpose....except to remind me that when I'm done with my J.D. in 3yrs, to stay the hell way from BW. I got a msg from you yelling at me 10 minutes ago asking me not to msg you , so I'm confused as to why you are replying to me. Unplug ur computer and stick ur finger in the socket...ur worthless.
@raofarrell i want to say this. i reply because i love to assholes like you fall. it won't be too long when you're down on your luck. you're only making me stronger because i don't take offense. i excuse you for your ill manner and bad behavior. like i said, you're a fake wannabe who's still just a nigger to white people. so don't take your hatred of yourself out on any of us bw. we weren't the ones who did crap to you. your blind hatred is the one killing bp.
@raofarrell so what if you're working on your thesis. so am i. but you are not intelligent as you think. but keep telling yourself that, maybe it might come true someday.
@raofarrell ANOTHER POOR EXCUSE FOR A BM. IT'S PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO GIVES THE REAL BM A BAD RAP. YOU OBVIOUSLY HAVE ISSUES BEYOND MY CONTROL. WHO EVER HURT YOU TO THE POINT WHERE YOU HAVE TO BASH TOTAL STRANGERS WAS EXTREMELY WRONG. YOU NEED TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE IN WOMEN WHO ARE TRYING TO PROVIDE FOR THER FAMILIES AND THOSE THAT ARE, LKE YOU SAID, PURE TRASH. WORD OF ADVISE BEFORE I LEAVE, DON'T HATE ON THOSE TRYING TO DO WHAT'S RIGHT. YOU WANT WW, BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR.
all these comments about bw needs to stop. if you don't care or like bw, that's fine, but some of you are getting out of hand with the name calling and stereotyping. you know who you are so i don't need to point you out. just bc these two individual like a certain type of men doesn't make everyone of the same. get over it! please for the love of god keep any and all negative comments to yourself. you are not part of the solution, you're part of the problem. serious problem to be exact.
@raofarrell its not a fantasy its reality. I dont live my life generalizing about groups of people and wasting time putting others down. I wonder which black woman wronged you to have u on here bashing as if you've met them all.
well actually baldy, under what other circumstances does a person need 100% of any sort of data to draw a reasonable conclusion. When the weather forecast calls for 70% chances of rain, I bet you carry ur umbrella? Do you think Rasmussen polled 100% of the country to discover that Obama had a 49% approval rating? Only BW require you to have met 100% of them b4 you can draw a reasonable conclusion. This is niggertry! BW fukn suck, we all know it !
1st: Y didn't u film urself? 2nd: What INDIVIDUALS prefer is exactly that, THEIR preference. U can't generalize an entire group of ppl based on what a few BLACK women do. I have white family & I have black family, & my white cousins like the "bad boys" too. That's a woman's personal choice. They're not "promoting a type of mentality" it's finding some1 who works 4 u. If u r a certain type of woman u need a certain type of man that can handle u. If a "thug" is that guy then so be it.
You can't fault a woman for what she likes. Would YOU change if someone disagreed with who YOU like? Black women are 70% never married...so we have proof that the "I love thugs" thing is just a fantasy that rarely works to her advantage. But only Black women can change this, not "nice guys" complaining about it. Go get a white or Asian girl and be happy!
...and your voice can't be helping with the ladies either...lol.
I agree with almost everything stated but nice guys are mainly complaining because most women especially black women ask "Where are all the good men?" after screwing loser men.
@reservedintelligence These types of discussions can't be had without talking about sexual attraction. Women are initially going to chase the objects of their sexual desires...which ISN'T nice guys. It's pretty much the same with guys chasing the "hot girl". All the complaining and rationale in the world isn't going to change someone's sexual preferences.
I have no clue what you guys are talking about. Who are these "young black women" who would rather have a thug than an educated and kind man? I haven't met ONE of these girls so I think the people who are commenting and generalizing about black women as a whole should take a step back. There are plenty of women (of all colors) including myself who would never even consider being with someone into drugs, crime, etc.
@BALEDE what fantasy world do you live in. BW couldn't possibly make it to the top of EVERY freakn statistic in this goddamn country by dating educated men. What a nice little fantasy world you have created for urself
@raofarrell You have a BAD case of "POST TRAMATCI SLAVERY DISORDER" Please round up all the type of white women you can attract - which will be stupid, dumb, and low self- esteem and get the hell out of the black community. YOU WILL NOT BE MISSED !
its like young blk women would stay with a man that treats her like shit but when a good educated blk man comes along,she claims he is wack.Its sad that if a blk man is doing something with his life other blks will make fun of him,but that no good nigger,and i mean nigger,comes along and most of the blk women will flock to him,thats why you see alot of educated brothers dating white women.
get the FUCK outta here. Who cares where a goddamn educated BW goes. If any BM cared they would have dating them all along. When I see an educated BW I wonder how many BM she demanding niggertry from, because thats all BW do is come to BM for the supreme nigger then run to WM when her need to stand on top of a nigger is over. A BW could be a Rhodes Scholar and I woulnd't give a flying fuck. BW are filthy slave apes wrapped aroung the WM's cock, so who cares !!
@raofarrell you are still a puppet and i'm not changing that. if you forget who you are, i can't help you. you have issues that you need to deal with. you're no better than the racists trash that i have to deal with everyday. you have a big ego and it's starting to show. bm men aren't that special either. what made you like this? oh wait, like i care. btw, you are also an ape. don't start with name calling bc i can get with you. puppet, go dance for yo master
lol..I'm a ape. I'm not giving birth to monkey shit babies with no idea who the other parent is. I believe that role belongs to BW, actually. BW have populated this fukn country with monkey shit bastards who were better off being aborted. The filthy apes open their legs to perfect strangers, spawn their ape shit babies, and expects me to foot the goddamn bill. You are sick for even defending a goodamn ape, I dont care if you are one urself. Hurry up and die..we dont need you.
@raofarrell call it what you want. i still stand by what i said. untimately, it's not your problem who their fathers are or whom these women sleep with. the world would care less if assholes subhuman like yourself die. at least i don't. get over yourself and get a life. the only ones who gives a shit to what these women do are pricks like you. go away troll and bother someone else. apes are more intelligent than you think. so to call me or another bw an is actually a compliment. thank you jerk.
Thats exactly what makes a dumb nigger broad a dumb nigger broad...the shit you just said. What BW do is always their business, UNTIL OF COURSE, the perfect stranger they made a baby with leaves them with monkey shit nigger babies and no money. OR until the ape bitch is dying from HIV and taxpayers to buy her meds. BW fukn suck.
exactly, and this is why you stupid nigger broads suffer, why BM are no longer dating you, and why you have to crawl thru life hoping and praying that a WM show you some attention. Your welfare mentalities! People are free to do what they want, but a stupid dumb niggerboo is the only one who thinks everyone but her should be responsible for her irresponsibility. If nasty ape BW didn't think like you, maybe we wouldnt have so many Black THRO AWAY babies. You nigger
@raofarrell ASSHOLE. LEAVE ME ALONE YOU PIECE OF SHIT! IF YOU HAVEN'T THE COURTESY OR UNDERSTANDING TO KNOW WHEN A PERSON WANTS TO BE LEFT ALONE, THEN YOU'RE MENTALLY STRUCK. I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU OR YOUR RETARDED RANTS JUST LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE MORON! I HAVE A MAN AND I DON'T NEED TO BE WHAT YOU WANT ME TO BE. JUST GO AWAY PEST AND STOP BOTHERING ME. YOU SAID WHAT YOU HAD TO SAY AND SO DID I! LEAVE IT THAT WAY AND HARASS SOMEONE ELSE. SINCE THAT'S ALL YOU'RE DOING WITH YOUR TIME.
@raofarrell btw, your mother should have did humanity a huge favor and aborted you. that way, people wouldn't have to put up with a clown like you. BYE!
@30kitagreen what are you talking about,please view the vid first than comment,the vid was about how some blk female will date a low life than a educated blk male,thus the you see more educated blks with white woman,this vid has nothing to do with an blk female dating a white man,i just simply said thats why you see alot of blk males dating white women cause of blk women like her.
@heartboy86 thank you for pointing that out. i am looking for a good man and took personally what you said. i am a very good woman who is trying to live life and be judged or made to believe that's all i can get. i refuse to end up like other women. don't put all black women into one lump and then maybe someone mght not take offense to what is being said.
@30kitagreen lol i wasnt saying all were, i know there are some good women out there,not to brag but my mom is an educated God fearing women and someday i hope to find a women with similar views in life,regardless of her race,there are some good females out there and sadly there are some no good ones out there.
@heartboy86 i can feel you. sorry if i took it personally, but i get hurt easily, especially if i am told i'm not worth anything. it's true there are females who make it extremely bad, regardless of race, for the good ones. you are very intelligent, i can tell by what you say, and can actually sit down to have a real conversation without name calling. i seriously need to stop feeding into people's intentions. but thank you for clarifying everything. i appreciate it.
@30kitagreen you are welcome,you seem eduacted yourself because you didnt use any profanity explaining your views or anything like that and its nothing to takes somethings personally when its dealing with the black race,slavery has been over for more than 140+ years but its still a sensible thing to talk about among African Americans so its nothing wrong with taking it a little personal.
@heartboy86 thank you. to me, if we as whole can't deal with the past, we will never make it further in the future. the people i've seen here on youtube either have low self esteem or don't like who they are. i'm thinking it's probably programmed into their minds that they are less then human therefore, they are stuck to become what people assume they are. to me, i thought slavery was over. i want to start a program to help out the community
@heartboy86 and to teach them that loving who they are and those around is very important if the black community is to erase the stereotypes that has plaqued us for so long. i think we have became our own worst enemies. i love people of every race that's who i am. but i also love what i am. others needs to do the same. i'm just saying.
@30kitagreen yea that is true,you must love yourself b4 anything and be happy the way God made you regardless what ppl say or do to you.At the end of all the only bean that has a say so in my life is God but i completely agree with you.
Bitch please...you are a DUMB BLACK BITCH, and I cant wait until you are on ur knees begging for a WM to pay you some attention so you can feel you have something in life. And the reason YOU ARE A DUMB BLACK BITCH, is because as fucked up as BW are (HIV, babies, etc.,) Your stupid nigger ass would actually support the dumb shit this nigger said in the video. This is why you stupid cunts are dying off from the HIV...stupid nigger!
@raofarrell all i can say for your sorry excuse for a human being is: SO WHAT! WHO GIVES A SHIT WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY? nigger will not hurt me. it makes me stronger than the person who calls me that. just because you hate yourself doesn't mean you have the right to judge people. as for me, i'm through talking to your tired, broke ass wannabe. for all i know, you're the one who might be dying from aids. i wouldn't wished that even on my worst enemies. so who's the real nigger, punk?
@raofarrell there aren't enough adjectives to describe what the hell you are. go somewhere and just fucking keel over please. you're the one who is a waste of humanity. like i said before, you not part of the solution,you're one of the problems. get over what happened to you and move the fuck on already, JERK! BYE!
@heartboy86 im sick of you imbeciles always tying this shit to "black women" instead of ghetto black women bc thats who most of this applies to...thats dumb as hell...most of us just want someone with some sort of swag among other things...swag does not mean someone whos a THUG or exhibits borderline neanderthal like behavior....its just being ultra sure of himself and not corny (i.e. steve urkel), and someone who's culturally relatable (no Taye Diggs archetypes)
@amastara lmao what are talking about,i was just stated how some black women will date a guy that treats them like shit but hates the guy that treats them right,keyword-some
@heartboy86 or maybe you should re-read my statement...you didnt say some you said it in a general sense. no one said that swag=thug...i said that most black women want someone with the relatablilty factor (culturally that is) and swag...not some thug who treats her like shit. no educated black woman wants a thug (bc you and i both know that the day where dudes lay on our couches while we work is DONE lol) is just the ghetto ones that want thugs and youre saying that we all do.
@heartboy86 if you would have said "some" in the first place i wouldnt have commented but you said "its like young black women" and then ---oh wait nvm i see what you are saying the keyword is "young"..my bad lol...but even still thats not always the case, you gota specify that though bc not everyone on youtube gets that.black women are always being demonized by the media and now our own men...
@amastara no you clearly try to say educated men cant have swag by saying thugs and swag have no common meaning,which is true but its still remains that some blk women wont date a educated blk man,nothing personal i just call it how i see it,some women rather listen to the BS the democrats feed them and stay on welfare than get an education,im not syaing all but there is way to many
@amastara others words if you not in school nor in thr military i'm not talking to you,if you are stagnic and not doing anything with your life why should i waste my time on you,,right,i dont care if the girl looks like halle berry lol,if she isnt doing anything with her life than im not even going to talk to her
The only people who dislike "interracial dating" are people who have a hard time "interracial dating". I am white and I hate it when insecure black girls cut half their beautiful faces of to look more white... "NOSE JOBS" like Lauren London has. I like the beauty of a black woman who loves the features she was born with. I prefer natural black beauties like that new artist Jane Bordeaux.
Its matters because there are ppl out there in the world who look up to them. I mean what kind of messege is that I want a STREET dude over a nice guy. Like really???? Theres a problem with that. And also since they have the power to influence and speak to maybe thousands of ppl it can affect one mind or one person or 30 0r 100 it doesnt matter.
what a stupid Black broad you are. Because little girls look up to this nigger filth, have father-less babies by street filth crude, and then die from HIV. You dumb ass ape.
lol having a child with a multimillionaire empire holder thats one of teh msot popular figures in the world? haha well ive seen many middle to upper class people do ALOT worse hahaha
do you know what she means?! when she said street she doesnt mean someone selling dope, killing, stealling. she wants someone who knows the streets, knowledge of the way things go in the streets. I grew up in the projects and I have a son now who is 10yrs old & i say to myself I hope he gets street knowledge because I dont want him to get out in the world & have people take advantage of him. that doesnt mean i want him to be hood
what does knowing the street entail? I suppose if you want someone to continue to live in the projects, then they should "street knowledge", but you don't want that do you? ....do you?
How do you know thats what she means? If it were in fact street knowledge idk why wouldnt she just say that? Idk its debatable but in the real world like the corp world why would street knowledge be impotant? Couldnt you just have common sense. I mean whats going to get you by in the real world common sense and being educated or Street knowledge
Ok look dude who are you judge black women on what type of guy they like I agree with MyaFan443 that we don't ask ourselves "Where are the me?" For your information because there are plenty women who are single and know who to take care of themselves.That really irritates me when you make DUMB A** statements like that.
BW wake up, we need a good man in our corner. Stop the madness with this"I don't need a man" , and yes, i do have a husband who i adore dearly. when you change your stank attitudes towards men you will get one. Yes, i am a sista who is telling you the real. more than 1/2 of you on this line don't have a man or just a part time man. sometimes you have to close your mouth because your not always right. i still love my people and wish u well in your journey of finding Mr. Right.
The thing you are missing is that most women don't ask themselves "Where are the men?" That's lame. Woman can survive & live on their own without men. Look at the rates of single-mother households. GET A LIFE....U are turning these celebrity words into general ignorant statements! Are u mad because they don't want you?
You're right. Woman can definitely survive and live without men, but at what cost. Because not every women has Mya or Lauren London money, and raising children by yourself is a hassle regardless of if you're male or female. Believe it or not, if you do decide to definitely go alone, male or female, there's a stage of depression that you go through. I am the son of a single-parent who had to work 4 jobs raising me. I had to learn how to be a man on my own cause I didn't have a father figure.
look, i don't disagree with all that you have to say however, i do disagree with women can live without men. this a mentality of a black woman "We don't need no man" yes we do every woman desires to have a good man in their corner including you, so please stop the "Women don't need men act" its getting old. no one wants to be alone. what you should have said,"Woman can survive without low life men" as for Lauren, Mya, and you stop looking in the wrong place and ask for your soul mate from God.
@livinglife2thefulle1: im glad u explained that cos i have a hard time gettin people to take it in usually. the problem with that "i dont need a man" shit is that, when women adhere to that mentality, u leave no role for a man in ur life. so when u GET one, hes automatically obselete. because women today are trying to fill these voids themselves, theres nothing for the man to do inthe relationship.....
@livinglife2thefulle1: .... i think that just like women want men to make them feel like a woman, men also want women to make them feel like men. but with so many softened men and so many hardened women out there today, few of us know how to do that.
Why is this guy generalizing ALL black women? How do you know what black women like? Some black women like thugs, some like nerds, some like intellectuals, some like out going guys. There isn't one type of guy that all black women like. Some black women date other races as well. I'm curious what race are you? And why do you think you're an expert on black women? You are so off base from what I look for in a man and what the black women I know look for. This sounds like a whole lot of nothing.
Whatever that is suppose to mean. If that is even true, that still doesn't give him the right to generalize ALL black women!!! I don't care what percentage of black women are single. I'm a black single (divorced) woman and my ex was not black he was white and no he wasn't a thug. All of the women I know black, white,hispanic,and asian do not like THUGS! And what makes you an expert on what black women like?? Black women are just like all women. They want to be loved and treated well.
@61Terri they want to be loved but they want to be the men in the relationship. Truth is truth. the black women is a demon today. and remeber i don't want to hear about white peoples issues.
Another ignorant generalization of Black women. Your statement is so wrong on so many levels. I don't have the time to try and educate you. You're a waste of my time. I don't really care what you think of black women you are irrelevant!!!
@61Terri I don't want your education because i have knowledge of self and others. Your too systemized. Remeber it's not what i said, it's what the white american government said about us. But i already knew these things to be true before hand, you are in denial.
I don't let anyone determine who I am. By your comment you are the one that buys into the sterotypes that are projected on others. We can agree to disagree this is getting exhausting. I don't have the time for narrow minded people, but you probably won't get that. Happy New Year to you!
wow! ..there is nothing more classic than a guy who feels he is an expert on woman.. moreover, i cannot see you but from the sounds of it you are caucasian, or at least not black for the matter, and i am having an incredibly hard time trying to fathom your audacity to insert such criticism on what a black woman is attracted to. i say this bc you have no idea what it is to be black, live black, and know black. you do not even meet the first criterion to have, let alone give, insight on what a
I have to agree with henryfrick1 says about Lauren London. At her age I never liked the hood guys. In fact I never got along with them. I preferred the intellectual types and I still do.
What I found attractive about my wife : doesnt like to argue, non-confrontational, actually listens, and occassionaly says I'm right. appreciates what I do for her, and knows her responsibilities as a wife and mother. So many black women I encountered in my college years...too many issues. I moved on...my wife just happens to be mexican.
I can't stand when people that marry out side of their race try and bash the women and men of their on race. Stop generalizing ALL black women. Maybe the women you dated wern't for you, but that doesn't mean that there aren't any black women that aren't loving wifes and mothers. Mexican women have issues too. Don't kid yourself. All races have indivisuals that have issues. I was married to a white man and that had nothing at all do w/ black men. I happened to fall in love w/ him for him.
@61Terri what people are talking about. You don't make sense. Your not even in the minority of black women for black men so you shouldn't be commenting. I not botherd about other races problems like YOU! You sound like a boot licking mama slave. So he didn't fall in love with you, no.
No cortezforever you don't make any sense. And you sound ignorant and prejudice. Some people are to stupid to live!!! If I was married obviously he loved me, he asked me to marry him, and we were married for several years and have two beautiful children. We happen to have a great relationship and we are partners in parenting. I know this is probably to much for you to comprehend! Anyone that spews the kind of garbage you are is just a waste of time!! I'll pray for you!
@61Terri I can't see the sense in your non sense. You said, 'I fell in love with him.' You didn't say WE fell in love with each other! So it is yOU! who is 'ignorant and prejudice.' So you believe you 'are to stupid to live!!!' I had a feeling you was on the edge. Don't pray for me you hypocrite, i don't believe in a white jesus!
What you fail to realize is you are JUDGING. That is not your job nor is it your placce. Let God do His job and live your life. You will be much happier.
@PunkyPrincessPop Well look at it like this. If today most men started giving strippers props and dissing college bound women, in a few years college enrollment for women would go down and there would be more women on the poll...just sayin...it's the same concept. Don't underestimate what people will do to be popular with the opposite sex. Also encouraging something tends to lead to more of that activity.
im a black guy but i wasnt born in america i been here for a while but i was raised with the cultural values of where im from west africa which are great, and over my years here i have realized black women and men here in america have serious issues!, not all but i would say worse than any other race, so i do agree with the comments on finding people for serious relationships in other countries america is fuked up, influences of entertainment run this country which is all bullshit in reality
on the lauren london, i always thought she was an idiot from day one! when i saw her with lil wayne i though straight groupie, typical black chick, next thing shes pregnant with this dudes baby and he gives her the shaft sayen he doesn' wanna be with her, but he'll support the kid
I disagree that everything is decided at 17 to 21. You are making blanket statements that no longer reflect the reality of American society. People often go to college later in their 20's and do fine. People get master's degrees and go for second careers in their late 20's, 30's, and 40's. These girls are stupid. What does blck women have to sit around with a bullhorn addressing every stupid celebrities comments? What about rap and hip hop, this is not influencing young men?
I disagree as long as these types of women don't date black men they will do fine. Their dating futures will be bright. I went to Dallas and lived in a neighborhood where there were virtually no black men but had white men, middle eastern, north african, Asian. I never dated so much and had so much fun. Typical American, homo men who think women are going to sit around waiting for them but we will not. To all women get a passport and travel to another country to get a man. They are %100 better.
I'm sorry I think he needs to just leave Lauren Londen alone. When she said that I think she meant she wants a guy dat can stand for himself on his own hold his own. A fighter.. smh
the brotha might take a lil while to get to his point but what he says is true. I can't believe LAUREN LONDON is sayin this shit. hoodrat bitches like her are to blame for the black on black violence killin a lot of young black men today.
Whoever did this video sucks.yake this off of youtube.This has nothing to do with anything.If men want to look hood thats fine thats some girls choice.thats not mine so I choose nice guys.Women cant babysit men 4ever.If we reject them we will be helping them out.who helps us out.
@raofarrell Fuck you!!!! I agree with totaly52. You are a self hate dumb ass who have way to much time on you hands. The truth!!Please the truth is that you are a retard who just got lucky to be born in this era. If your ass was born during the 50's,40's or earlier you would be strung up on a tree for looking at a white women.Shit there are some places where your still not safe.Whether you hate your own kind or not your still a nigger to them.So grow up Ass Hole or go! you will not be missed!!
@raofarrell see, it's people like you who are really the agitators of racial hatred. you hate who you are but can't say it in another way. you may feel like that, doesn't make you right. do you think that by saying words like that is going to effect people? you sound more ignorant than the racists idiots i see on youtube everyday.now go dance for yo master puppet.
I think it is very strange for Lauren and Nivea to both be pregnant by you no who. He has a song out about him wanting to *uck everygirl. So many stupid women want these thugs, but wanting a thugs leaves you single with baby momma drama, and having a battle for child support because your thug is to busy making other babies and not taking care of responsibilities. These women should want more out of life, a thug is a street dude/baby daddy/hostler not someone you can marry and take home to momma.
That's exactly why I don't take these females serious anymore...
They are only good for fucking for the most part. If a female has these type of mentalities they deserve exactly what their looking for...
How many dudes are "Street" & looking for a family with a white picket fence??? Stupidly so many females think exactly like this so my solution is to lay them on their backs because they offer nothing else but "Eye Candy"...
Why are women so fucking retarded? Their mentalities as a whole are completely self-destructive and belied by naivitee and self-hatred. They are ruining their lives for absolutely no reason.
WTF is biracial? When the cops come around do you scramble to get your shit together...then you black wtf. Remember when they told Tiger Woods we don't serve chicken on the golf course. how about everyday they threaten PRESIDENT OBAMA. Biracial Wake up there's a brown paper bag test bitch don't fail it! Sheep
you took a while to get to your point but that is just their opinions and who cares. i thought they said something racist or controversial. Shame on me.
Kirstb- It's not just an opinion or "their opinion" It's most women of colors opinion between the ages of 18 to 30. It is at the same age group that young men of color are attempting to gain acceptance from women. This is why these young men becomes assholes, thugs, no jobs, bady daddies etc. At that age these "women" don't respond well to a man that brings leadership, respect and responsibility. Once these women change and want a real relationship and can't find one; they cry wolf.
Lauren London and Mya are NOT black women!! They are two dumb ass BI-RACIAL women trying way too hard to be "down" and they're completely ignorant. Clearly their WHITE mothers raised them badly.
Look at Alicia Keys...another bi-racial woman raised by a white mother constantly having thugged-out, ignorant black men with "swag" as love interest in her videos. This problem affects ALL women, who crave bad boys, get treated like shit, and then blame ALL men for their problems!!
Certain women like thugs, so what? Their comments should help "nice" guys avoid them and look elsewhere. Many of us make wrong choices in our partners, but hopefully, we eventually learn what suits our personal taste. The real issue is that so many women go for the "thug" and then have the audacity to blame all men for their lack of judgement,when he wont change his ways. The truth is; women don't know what they want! Just because they're famous doesn't equate to good taste, just look at Whitney
@bendelite Lol That may have been true when you posted this response but now Bobby is the clean one and Whitney still don't got her shit together, he might have helped but it doesn't seem like he forced her at all.
also, these men "date" them, e.g. Lauren just for sex and to make everyone aware that they smashed it and then suddenly they break up. The so-called temporary commitment is used to make them feel comfortable b/c women r usually worried about men calling them hoes, which usually happens when a man has sex with a woman without a commitment. they don't want to b considered "jump-offs" or bust-it babies.
I agree. these women say these things b/c they like the attention from those type of men but even those men don't marry them. Mya has been passed around from Jay-z and The Game, but those guys don't even want to marry her. Those men actually changed their lives and don't want a women who is attractive to that old lifestyle b/c they themselves don't want it. they know a nicely dressed hoodrat when they c one.
The brother who made this video needs some game.
Women have some standard answers they give it's simply their programming and what they think people expect from them.
You often find them with a dude who does not have any of those qualities
they say one thing but respond to another.
Nothing they say is written in stone.
I suggest you read everything by Tariq Nasheed and also speed seduction.
jment34 1 month ago
Who ever disliked this video is dumb as hell!!!!!
reignsupreme 6 months ago
Don't get your mind twisted into thinking most black women think this way. The media want us to think that black women's thought patterns are this degraded to further split the black man and black woman. What better way to tear black families apart?? Think about it black people.
nstiNctiVnatur 7 months ago 2
black/mixed women who is single or not, teaching their daughters how to love and to sleep with white men for being "happy" and how all black men are anti sh't! that is why a lot of them are single, unmarried and white men's porno whores. so don't blame only black man in your sh't!
realblackxxxx 9 months ago
this is problem only in black/mixed women who are single or not, and this is absolutely truth. a lot of them hated black men, dark skin and are self-hating white men's whores. single black/mixed women raise them sons like daughters and daughters like sellout gold digger white men's porno whores to f'ck with everybody for money.
realblackxxxx 9 months ago
alot of women want a 100% black guy which means he's PERFECT which is no such thing. Ask yourselves this, if it was such a man would he even want you??? Are you a perfect woman??? Let reality sink in that nobody is perfect. Some of y'all have VERY HIGH STANDARDS..if a guy like that exist how do you know that you even meet his standards. Just something to think about. What do y'all think?
teddyd14 9 months ago
When I grow up I wanna be a street nigga
Greeneyez2475 11 months ago
The whole "not giving a nice guy a chance" is the reason all my friends do the shit they do. I personally tell all the black men I know to do something with their lives instead of chasing pussy because they chase so hard after the Lauren London type girls they end up getting into shit trying to fit a fine girl's image.
I personally don't care. I don't chase after pussy. I have to build my future right now. If I get a girlfriend during my time, that's fine otherwise its no big deal
UnlimitedProdiction1 11 months ago
I agree that WOMEN should be the ones coming out against this...moreso than men at least. The Black sisterhood needs about as much work as the brotherhood, if not more.
pogistarr 1 year ago
the audio for your video BLOWWWSSS!!!
elaye08 1 year ago
Plenty of women do not feel that way. I can attest as I am sure a lot of other dudes can.
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shaparnapash 1 year ago
true...and it goes both ways...but at least with men its not really displayed as casually (by 'it' i mean their ideas on what they want in a woman [in more ignorant terms])its just sad to me how heavy of an influence that the media seems to have on black culture =(
amastara 1 year ago
@heartboy86 I never said that an educated man cant have swag...i was just refuting the thug refrence and i get what youre saying but again try not to geveralize though bc people are always hearing black men talk shit about black women (and vise versa but more strongly the other way around). People are fed, and devower a lot of garbage about black women and with 85% of youtube being racist as it is...you may want to specify that its not all of us but I gwt what youre saying for the most part
amastara 1 year ago
@amastara i think its even worst when you have two female celebrities that say stuff like this becuase younger women will listen to that crap and feed off it which is so sad but yea i see where you coming from as well
heartboy86 1 year ago
Ok your right that they biracisl racial But The bottom line is that they are still BLACK regardless if they have even a single drop of BLACK they are BLACK women in america. And i dnt kno y u r making that a Point But nobody cares wat The hell they are mixed with. They are still BLACK at The end of The day.
MermaidLove91 1 year ago
@MermaidLove91 i think they pointed out the fact that they are biracial bc who knows if they grew up around their black "side" so to speak... maybe tv has glamorized this image and they want a part in it too
amastara 1 year ago
y do u hide behind a microphone
Dimmoe 1 year ago
both of the women above are not black women they are mixed so it doesn't count
003bone 1 year ago
aslo, congratulations opening up yet another forum and titling it with judgemental, race driven bullshit for lowlives like raofarrell to engage in and spew mindless shit to get a rise out of people in his otherwise empty, pathetic life.
Im a black female, and no maya and lauren have not hurt my dating chances you ignorant, generalizing fuck.
shipoopie0101 1 year ago 3
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shipoopie0101 1 year ago
this is the most convoluted(in the lamest sense) and TRITE psychobabble on youtube.."encourage them to basically destroy themselves".. what the fuck does that even mean.. you sound like every other unattractive and self riteous black man in most of your videos if not all. You're horrible, get off the internet.
What is the correlation between that minute long nonsense rant about being "tracked" in the u.s and a comment made by a black female actress. MORON.
You soundly and forwardly suck.
shipoopie0101 1 year ago 5
@shipoopie0101 your a dumbass and those who gave you a thumbs up
akthemoor 2 months ago
@akthemoor maybe grammar should play a greater part in your future decisions to insult
00sparkleandshiiine 2 months ago
@00sparkleandshiiine why should it? I'm sure you still got the picture didn't you?
akthemoor 2 months ago
BW are so fukn trashy. I cant even stomach looking at them anymore. Why did BM get stuck having to call these filthy baboons women. BM you need to get a WW, and stop rolling in the dirt with these apes. BM need to encourage BW to date outside the race so that BM arent stuck with miserable ass nigger broads.
raofarrell 1 year ago
@raofarrell BTW, WE DON'T WANT YOUR MONKEY-LOOKING, FAKE, BROKE, RETARDED ASS ANYWAYS. YOU'RE A LOSER WITH WAY TOO MUCH TIME ON YOUR HANDS. B-I-T-C-H!
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@30kitagreen
I'm online alot and come here to laugh at you during my breaks because I'm writing a thesis...for grad school...for my Masters, actually. You are just entertainment and serve no other purpose....except to remind me that when I'm done with my J.D. in 3yrs, to stay the hell way from BW. I got a msg from you yelling at me 10 minutes ago asking me not to msg you , so I'm confused as to why you are replying to me. Unplug ur computer and stick ur finger in the socket...ur worthless.
raofarrell 1 year ago
@raofarrell i want to say this. i reply because i love to assholes like you fall. it won't be too long when you're down on your luck. you're only making me stronger because i don't take offense. i excuse you for your ill manner and bad behavior. like i said, you're a fake wannabe who's still just a nigger to white people. so don't take your hatred of yourself out on any of us bw. we weren't the ones who did crap to you. your blind hatred is the one killing bp.
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@raofarrell so what if you're working on your thesis. so am i. but you are not intelligent as you think. but keep telling yourself that, maybe it might come true someday.
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@raofarrell ANOTHER POOR EXCUSE FOR A BM. IT'S PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO GIVES THE REAL BM A BAD RAP. YOU OBVIOUSLY HAVE ISSUES BEYOND MY CONTROL. WHO EVER HURT YOU TO THE POINT WHERE YOU HAVE TO BASH TOTAL STRANGERS WAS EXTREMELY WRONG. YOU NEED TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE IN WOMEN WHO ARE TRYING TO PROVIDE FOR THER FAMILIES AND THOSE THAT ARE, LKE YOU SAID, PURE TRASH. WORD OF ADVISE BEFORE I LEAVE, DON'T HATE ON THOSE TRYING TO DO WHAT'S RIGHT. YOU WANT WW, BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR.
30kitagreen 1 year ago
all these comments about bw needs to stop. if you don't care or like bw, that's fine, but some of you are getting out of hand with the name calling and stereotyping. you know who you are so i don't need to point you out. just bc these two individual like a certain type of men doesn't make everyone of the same. get over it! please for the love of god keep any and all negative comments to yourself. you are not part of the solution, you're part of the problem. serious problem to be exact.
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@raofarrell its not a fantasy its reality. I dont live my life generalizing about groups of people and wasting time putting others down. I wonder which black woman wronged you to have u on here bashing as if you've met them all.
BALEDE 1 year ago
@BALEDE according to him, everyone of us
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@BALEDE
well actually baldy, under what other circumstances does a person need 100% of any sort of data to draw a reasonable conclusion. When the weather forecast calls for 70% chances of rain, I bet you carry ur umbrella? Do you think Rasmussen polled 100% of the country to discover that Obama had a 49% approval rating? Only BW require you to have met 100% of them b4 you can draw a reasonable conclusion. This is niggertry! BW fukn suck, we all know it !
raofarrell 1 year ago
1st: Y didn't u film urself? 2nd: What INDIVIDUALS prefer is exactly that, THEIR preference. U can't generalize an entire group of ppl based on what a few BLACK women do. I have white family & I have black family, & my white cousins like the "bad boys" too. That's a woman's personal choice. They're not "promoting a type of mentality" it's finding some1 who works 4 u. If u r a certain type of woman u need a certain type of man that can handle u. If a "thug" is that guy then so be it.
divalizzous 1 year ago
You can't fault a woman for what she likes. Would YOU change if someone disagreed with who YOU like? Black women are 70% never married...so we have proof that the "I love thugs" thing is just a fantasy that rarely works to her advantage. But only Black women can change this, not "nice guys" complaining about it. Go get a white or Asian girl and be happy!
...and your voice can't be helping with the ladies either...lol.
WhyBeF 1 year ago
@WhyBeF
I agree with almost everything stated but nice guys are mainly complaining because most women especially black women ask "Where are all the good men?" after screwing loser men.
reservedintelligence 1 year ago
@reservedintelligence These types of discussions can't be had without talking about sexual attraction. Women are initially going to chase the objects of their sexual desires...which ISN'T nice guys. It's pretty much the same with guys chasing the "hot girl". All the complaining and rationale in the world isn't going to change someone's sexual preferences.
WhyBeF 1 year ago
You speak the truth, two thumbs up
MultiSnyderman 1 year ago
I have no clue what you guys are talking about. Who are these "young black women" who would rather have a thug than an educated and kind man? I haven't met ONE of these girls so I think the people who are commenting and generalizing about black women as a whole should take a step back. There are plenty of women (of all colors) including myself who would never even consider being with someone into drugs, crime, etc.
BALEDE 1 year ago
@BALEDE what fantasy world do you live in. BW couldn't possibly make it to the top of EVERY freakn statistic in this goddamn country by dating educated men. What a nice little fantasy world you have created for urself
raofarrell 1 year ago
The ape bitches don't call it out because this is all of their views....BLACK MEN, BLACK WOMEN FUCKING SUCK !!
raofarrell 1 year ago
Dude basically you took the whole video to tell us that you are gonna make another video.I learned more from the comments below than anything else
6sen 1 year ago
@6sen
Regardless it need to be said. Filthy Black Bitches are destroying our race.
raofarrell 1 year ago
@raofarrell You have a BAD case of "POST TRAMATCI SLAVERY DISORDER" Please round up all the type of white women you can attract - which will be stupid, dumb, and low self- esteem and get the hell out of the black community. YOU WILL NOT BE MISSED !
totaly52 1 year ago
@raofarrell NIGGAS LIKE YOU ARE DESTROYING OUR RACE. THE WAY YOU THINK IS INCOMPREHENSIBLE IN EVERY WAY.
30kitagreen 1 year ago
its like young blk women would stay with a man that treats her like shit but when a good educated blk man comes along,she claims he is wack.Its sad that if a blk man is doing something with his life other blks will make fun of him,but that no good nigger,and i mean nigger,comes along and most of the blk women will flock to him,thats why you see alot of educated brothers dating white women.
heartboy86 1 year ago 11
@heartboy86
BROTHER...YOU SAID IT BEST.
I SAY...FUCK THEM BLACK HOES and go to school.
raofarrell 1 year ago
@heartboy86 ALL GENERALIZATIONS !
totaly52 1 year ago
@heartboy86 and that's why you also see alot of educated black women more then ever going to white men.
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@30kitagreen
get the FUCK outta here. Who cares where a goddamn educated BW goes. If any BM cared they would have dating them all along. When I see an educated BW I wonder how many BM she demanding niggertry from, because thats all BW do is come to BM for the supreme nigger then run to WM when her need to stand on top of a nigger is over. A BW could be a Rhodes Scholar and I woulnd't give a flying fuck. BW are filthy slave apes wrapped aroung the WM's cock, so who cares !!
raofarrell 1 year ago
@raofarrell you are still a puppet and i'm not changing that. if you forget who you are, i can't help you. you have issues that you need to deal with. you're no better than the racists trash that i have to deal with everyday. you have a big ego and it's starting to show. bm men aren't that special either. what made you like this? oh wait, like i care. btw, you are also an ape. don't start with name calling bc i can get with you. puppet, go dance for yo master
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@30kitagreen
lol..I'm a ape. I'm not giving birth to monkey shit babies with no idea who the other parent is. I believe that role belongs to BW, actually. BW have populated this fukn country with monkey shit bastards who were better off being aborted. The filthy apes open their legs to perfect strangers, spawn their ape shit babies, and expects me to foot the goddamn bill. You are sick for even defending a goodamn ape, I dont care if you are one urself. Hurry up and die..we dont need you.
raofarrell 1 year ago
@raofarrell call it what you want. i still stand by what i said. untimately, it's not your problem who their fathers are or whom these women sleep with. the world would care less if assholes subhuman like yourself die. at least i don't. get over yourself and get a life. the only ones who gives a shit to what these women do are pricks like you. go away troll and bother someone else. apes are more intelligent than you think. so to call me or another bw an is actually a compliment. thank you jerk.
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@30kitagreen
Thats exactly what makes a dumb nigger broad a dumb nigger broad...the shit you just said. What BW do is always their business, UNTIL OF COURSE, the perfect stranger they made a baby with leaves them with monkey shit nigger babies and no money. OR until the ape bitch is dying from HIV and taxpayers to buy her meds. BW fukn suck.
raofarrell 1 year ago
@30kitagreen
exactly, and this is why you stupid nigger broads suffer, why BM are no longer dating you, and why you have to crawl thru life hoping and praying that a WM show you some attention. Your welfare mentalities! People are free to do what they want, but a stupid dumb niggerboo is the only one who thinks everyone but her should be responsible for her irresponsibility. If nasty ape BW didn't think like you, maybe we wouldnt have so many Black THRO AWAY babies. You nigger
raofarrell 1 year ago
@raofarrell ASSHOLE. LEAVE ME ALONE YOU PIECE OF SHIT! IF YOU HAVEN'T THE COURTESY OR UNDERSTANDING TO KNOW WHEN A PERSON WANTS TO BE LEFT ALONE, THEN YOU'RE MENTALLY STRUCK. I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU OR YOUR RETARDED RANTS JUST LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE MORON! I HAVE A MAN AND I DON'T NEED TO BE WHAT YOU WANT ME TO BE. JUST GO AWAY PEST AND STOP BOTHERING ME. YOU SAID WHAT YOU HAD TO SAY AND SO DID I! LEAVE IT THAT WAY AND HARASS SOMEONE ELSE. SINCE THAT'S ALL YOU'RE DOING WITH YOUR TIME.
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@raofarrell btw, your mother should have did humanity a huge favor and aborted you. that way, people wouldn't have to put up with a clown like you. BYE!
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@raofarrell just like you said. ur an ape, bitch.
SB7771 1 year ago
@30kitagreen what are you talking about,please view the vid first than comment,the vid was about how some blk female will date a low life than a educated blk male,thus the you see more educated blks with white woman,this vid has nothing to do with an blk female dating a white man,i just simply said thats why you see alot of blk males dating white women cause of blk women like her.
heartboy86 1 year ago
@heartboy86 thank you for pointing that out. i am looking for a good man and took personally what you said. i am a very good woman who is trying to live life and be judged or made to believe that's all i can get. i refuse to end up like other women. don't put all black women into one lump and then maybe someone mght not take offense to what is being said.
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@30kitagreen lol i wasnt saying all were, i know there are some good women out there,not to brag but my mom is an educated God fearing women and someday i hope to find a women with similar views in life,regardless of her race,there are some good females out there and sadly there are some no good ones out there.
heartboy86 1 year ago
@heartboy86 i can feel you. sorry if i took it personally, but i get hurt easily, especially if i am told i'm not worth anything. it's true there are females who make it extremely bad, regardless of race, for the good ones. you are very intelligent, i can tell by what you say, and can actually sit down to have a real conversation without name calling. i seriously need to stop feeding into people's intentions. but thank you for clarifying everything. i appreciate it.
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@30kitagreen you are welcome,you seem eduacted yourself because you didnt use any profanity explaining your views or anything like that and its nothing to takes somethings personally when its dealing with the black race,slavery has been over for more than 140+ years but its still a sensible thing to talk about among African Americans so its nothing wrong with taking it a little personal.
heartboy86 1 year ago
@heartboy86 thank you. to me, if we as whole can't deal with the past, we will never make it further in the future. the people i've seen here on youtube either have low self esteem or don't like who they are. i'm thinking it's probably programmed into their minds that they are less then human therefore, they are stuck to become what people assume they are. to me, i thought slavery was over. i want to start a program to help out the community
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@30kitagreen i know we wasnt talking about slavery, i just used that as an example about something pertaining to African American
heartboy86 1 year ago
@heartboy86 and to teach them that loving who they are and those around is very important if the black community is to erase the stereotypes that has plaqued us for so long. i think we have became our own worst enemies. i love people of every race that's who i am. but i also love what i am. others needs to do the same. i'm just saying.
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@30kitagreen yea that is true,you must love yourself b4 anything and be happy the way God made you regardless what ppl say or do to you.At the end of all the only bean that has a say so in my life is God but i completely agree with you.
heartboy86 1 year ago
@30kitagreen
Bitch please...you are a DUMB BLACK BITCH, and I cant wait until you are on ur knees begging for a WM to pay you some attention so you can feel you have something in life. And the reason YOU ARE A DUMB BLACK BITCH, is because as fucked up as BW are (HIV, babies, etc.,) Your stupid nigger ass would actually support the dumb shit this nigger said in the video. This is why you stupid cunts are dying off from the HIV...stupid nigger!
raofarrell 1 year ago
@raofarrell all i can say for your sorry excuse for a human being is: SO WHAT! WHO GIVES A SHIT WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY? nigger will not hurt me. it makes me stronger than the person who calls me that. just because you hate yourself doesn't mean you have the right to judge people. as for me, i'm through talking to your tired, broke ass wannabe. for all i know, you're the one who might be dying from aids. i wouldn't wished that even on my worst enemies. so who's the real nigger, punk?
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@raofarrell there aren't enough adjectives to describe what the hell you are. go somewhere and just fucking keel over please. you're the one who is a waste of humanity. like i said before, you not part of the solution,you're one of the problems. get over what happened to you and move the fuck on already, JERK! BYE!
30kitagreen 1 year ago
@heartboy86 im sick of you imbeciles always tying this shit to "black women" instead of ghetto black women bc thats who most of this applies to...thats dumb as hell...most of us just want someone with some sort of swag among other things...swag does not mean someone whos a THUG or exhibits borderline neanderthal like behavior....its just being ultra sure of himself and not corny (i.e. steve urkel), and someone who's culturally relatable (no Taye Diggs archetypes)
amastara 1 year ago
@amastara lmao what are talking about,i was just stated how some black women will date a guy that treats them like shit but hates the guy that treats them right,keyword-some
heartboy86 1 year ago
@heartboy86 or maybe you should re-read my statement...you didnt say some you said it in a general sense. no one said that swag=thug...i said that most black women want someone with the relatablilty factor (culturally that is) and swag...not some thug who treats her like shit. no educated black woman wants a thug (bc you and i both know that the day where dudes lay on our couches while we work is DONE lol) is just the ghetto ones that want thugs and youre saying that we all do.
amastara 1 year ago
@heartboy86 if you would have said "some" in the first place i wouldnt have commented but you said "its like young black women" and then ---oh wait nvm i see what you are saying the keyword is "young"..my bad lol...but even still thats not always the case, you gota specify that though bc not everyone on youtube gets that.black women are always being demonized by the media and now our own men...
amastara 1 year ago
@amastara no you clearly try to say educated men cant have swag by saying thugs and swag have no common meaning,which is true but its still remains that some blk women wont date a educated blk man,nothing personal i just call it how i see it,some women rather listen to the BS the democrats feed them and stay on welfare than get an education,im not syaing all but there is way to many
heartboy86 1 year ago
@amastara others words if you not in school nor in thr military i'm not talking to you,if you are stagnic and not doing anything with your life why should i waste my time on you,,right,i dont care if the girl looks like halle berry lol,if she isnt doing anything with her life than im not even going to talk to her
heartboy86 1 year ago
@amastara and who ever said the word swag was related to thug,you really need to reda my comment again to comprehend what i wrote
heartboy86 1 year ago
The only people who dislike "interracial dating" are people who have a hard time "interracial dating". I am white and I hate it when insecure black girls cut half their beautiful faces of to look more white... "NOSE JOBS" like Lauren London has. I like the beauty of a black woman who loves the features she was born with. I prefer natural black beauties like that new artist Jane Bordeaux.
tastebillyfrost 1 year ago
@tastebillyfrost when we say that they tell us to go to hell maybe i should pay a white man to tell them natural hair and nose is right for them lol
TheWatcher2k10 1 year ago
@TheWatcher2k10
DAMN..HOLY SHIT !!
raofarrell 1 year ago
I really dont know if thats what she means, just guessing. I think you need both common sense and street knowledge.
lolamac7 1 year ago
I have a strange feeling that laura london is going to die in the near future.
kambridge967 1 year ago
@kambridge967 Or she will be lonely & miserable for the rest of her life when the bad boy/thug kicks her to the curb.
gemini19662007 1 year ago
@kambridge967
haha..the HIV
raofarrell 1 year ago
Y do u care tho? They're grown leave them alone. You're not with them so it's really not for u ta worry about.
ImGonnaMarryThatBoi 2 years ago 2
@ ImGonnaMarryThatBoi
Its matters because there are ppl out there in the world who look up to them. I mean what kind of messege is that I want a STREET dude over a nice guy. Like really???? Theres a problem with that. And also since they have the power to influence and speak to maybe thousands of ppl it can affect one mind or one person or 30 0r 100 it doesnt matter.
todd198521 1 year ago
@ImGonnaMarryThatBoi
what a stupid Black broad you are. Because little girls look up to this nigger filth, have father-less babies by street filth crude, and then die from HIV. You dumb ass ape.
raofarrell 1 year ago
she has a child by Lil Wayne...we see how high her expectations are.
BLKMRM 2 years ago 3
lol having a child with a multimillionaire empire holder thats one of teh msot popular figures in the world? haha well ive seen many middle to upper class people do ALOT worse hahaha
blazeboy36 1 year ago
do you know what she means?! when she said street she doesnt mean someone selling dope, killing, stealling. she wants someone who knows the streets, knowledge of the way things go in the streets. I grew up in the projects and I have a son now who is 10yrs old & i say to myself I hope he gets street knowledge because I dont want him to get out in the world & have people take advantage of him. that doesnt mean i want him to be hood
lolamac7 2 years ago
what does knowing the street entail? I suppose if you want someone to continue to live in the projects, then they should "street knowledge", but you don't want that do you? ....do you?
BLKMRM 2 years ago
And @lolamac7
How do you know thats what she means? If it were in fact street knowledge idk why wouldnt she just say that? Idk its debatable but in the real world like the corp world why would street knowledge be impotant? Couldnt you just have common sense. I mean whats going to get you by in the real world common sense and being educated or Street knowledge
todd198521 1 year ago
Ok look dude who are you judge black women on what type of guy they like I agree with MyaFan443 that we don't ask ourselves "Where are the me?" For your information because there are plenty women who are single and know who to take care of themselves.That really irritates me when you make DUMB A** statements like that.
lexylu619 2 years ago
u talk too much
m0sthated80 2 years ago
BW wake up, we need a good man in our corner. Stop the madness with this"I don't need a man" , and yes, i do have a husband who i adore dearly. when you change your stank attitudes towards men you will get one. Yes, i am a sista who is telling you the real. more than 1/2 of you on this line don't have a man or just a part time man. sometimes you have to close your mouth because your not always right. i still love my people and wish u well in your journey of finding Mr. Right.
livinglife2thefulle1 2 years ago 2
The thing you are missing is that most women don't ask themselves "Where are the men?" That's lame. Woman can survive & live on their own without men. Look at the rates of single-mother households. GET A LIFE....U are turning these celebrity words into general ignorant statements! Are u mad because they don't want you?
MyaFan443 2 years ago
You're right. Woman can definitely survive and live without men, but at what cost. Because not every women has Mya or Lauren London money, and raising children by yourself is a hassle regardless of if you're male or female. Believe it or not, if you do decide to definitely go alone, male or female, there's a stage of depression that you go through. I am the son of a single-parent who had to work 4 jobs raising me. I had to learn how to be a man on my own cause I didn't have a father figure.
bk1600act 2 years ago
I bet your Single?
maxluxur01 2 years ago 2
look, i don't disagree with all that you have to say however, i do disagree with women can live without men. this a mentality of a black woman "We don't need no man" yes we do every woman desires to have a good man in their corner including you, so please stop the "Women don't need men act" its getting old. no one wants to be alone. what you should have said,"Woman can survive without low life men" as for Lauren, Mya, and you stop looking in the wrong place and ask for your soul mate from God.
livinglife2thefulle1 2 years ago
@livinglife2thefulle1: im glad u explained that cos i have a hard time gettin people to take it in usually. the problem with that "i dont need a man" shit is that, when women adhere to that mentality, u leave no role for a man in ur life. so when u GET one, hes automatically obselete. because women today are trying to fill these voids themselves, theres nothing for the man to do inthe relationship.....
creeball 1 year ago
@livinglife2thefulle1: .... i think that just like women want men to make them feel like a woman, men also want women to make them feel like men. but with so many softened men and so many hardened women out there today, few of us know how to do that.
creeball 1 year ago 2
yo make a good point, my friend
msg360 2 years ago
@msg360 Thank you for seeing the truth i'm no trying to disrespectful to her.
cortezforever 2 years ago
such a loser!!! just cuz u dont get any woman XD
pcd4live 2 years ago
Why is this guy generalizing ALL black women? How do you know what black women like? Some black women like thugs, some like nerds, some like intellectuals, some like out going guys. There isn't one type of guy that all black women like. Some black women date other races as well. I'm curious what race are you? And why do you think you're an expert on black women? You are so off base from what I look for in a man and what the black women I know look for. This sounds like a whole lot of nothing.
61Terri 2 years ago
@61Terri because over 70% of them are single. that's why.
cortezforever 2 years ago
Whatever that is suppose to mean. If that is even true, that still doesn't give him the right to generalize ALL black women!!! I don't care what percentage of black women are single. I'm a black single (divorced) woman and my ex was not black he was white and no he wasn't a thug. All of the women I know black, white,hispanic,and asian do not like THUGS! And what makes you an expert on what black women like?? Black women are just like all women. They want to be loved and treated well.
61Terri 2 years ago
@61Terri they want to be loved but they want to be the men in the relationship. Truth is truth. the black women is a demon today. and remeber i don't want to hear about white peoples issues.
cortezforever 2 years ago
Another ignorant generalization of Black women. Your statement is so wrong on so many levels. I don't have the time to try and educate you. You're a waste of my time. I don't really care what you think of black women you are irrelevant!!!
61Terri 2 years ago
@61Terri I don't want your education because i have knowledge of self and others. Your too systemized. Remeber it's not what i said, it's what the white american government said about us. But i already knew these things to be true before hand, you are in denial.
cortezforever 2 years ago
I don't let anyone determine who I am. By your comment you are the one that buys into the sterotypes that are projected on others. We can agree to disagree this is getting exhausting. I don't have the time for narrow minded people, but you probably won't get that. Happy New Year to you!
61Terri 2 years ago
yes there are alot of women that like thugs but with black women they take it to another level
emmettmays85 2 years ago 3
@emmettmays85 BW sure do take it to the limit.
gemini19662007 1 year ago
Lauren London and Mya are both biracial.
Also there are more BW married 20-44 yoa than BM. (2008 census)
lastseenin216 2 years ago
yes they are biracial but if they were with white men ya'll would consider them black women
emmettmays85 2 years ago 2
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this guy sounds like a stupid nigger tryna sound smart lol
moynul123 2 years ago
wow! ..there is nothing more classic than a guy who feels he is an expert on woman.. moreover, i cannot see you but from the sounds of it you are caucasian, or at least not black for the matter, and i am having an incredibly hard time trying to fathom your audacity to insert such criticism on what a black woman is attracted to. i say this bc you have no idea what it is to be black, live black, and know black. you do not even meet the first criterion to have, let alone give, insight on what a
tashboog 2 years ago
the speaker sound like a idiot.
Bloodsport1 2 years ago
I have to agree with henryfrick1 says about Lauren London. At her age I never liked the hood guys. In fact I never got along with them. I preferred the intellectual types and I still do.
TruthFan 2 years ago 2
What I found attractive about my wife : doesnt like to argue, non-confrontational, actually listens, and occassionaly says I'm right. appreciates what I do for her, and knows her responsibilities as a wife and mother. So many black women I encountered in my college years...too many issues. I moved on...my wife just happens to be mexican.
RealDre25 2 years ago 6
Well of course! Mexican women are raised that way. Hispanic women have those motherly and wifely qualities that you look for.
prodigy2520 2 years ago
I can't stand when people that marry out side of their race try and bash the women and men of their on race. Stop generalizing ALL black women. Maybe the women you dated wern't for you, but that doesn't mean that there aren't any black women that aren't loving wifes and mothers. Mexican women have issues too. Don't kid yourself. All races have indivisuals that have issues. I was married to a white man and that had nothing at all do w/ black men. I happened to fall in love w/ him for him.
61Terri 2 years ago
@61Terri what people are talking about. You don't make sense. Your not even in the minority of black women for black men so you shouldn't be commenting. I not botherd about other races problems like YOU! You sound like a boot licking mama slave. So he didn't fall in love with you, no.
cortezforever 2 years ago
No cortezforever you don't make any sense. And you sound ignorant and prejudice. Some people are to stupid to live!!! If I was married obviously he loved me, he asked me to marry him, and we were married for several years and have two beautiful children. We happen to have a great relationship and we are partners in parenting. I know this is probably to much for you to comprehend! Anyone that spews the kind of garbage you are is just a waste of time!! I'll pray for you!
61Terri 2 years ago
@61Terri I can't see the sense in your non sense. You said, 'I fell in love with him.' You didn't say WE fell in love with each other! So it is yOU! who is 'ignorant and prejudice.' So you believe you 'are to stupid to live!!!' I had a feeling you was on the edge. Don't pray for me you hypocrite, i don't believe in a white jesus!
cortezforever 2 years ago
Oh cortezforever you keep makeing my point. Stop talking it's getting embarrising. I'm done, let's just agree to disagree!
61Terri 2 years ago
What you fail to realize is you are JUDGING. That is not your job nor is it your placce. Let God do His job and live your life. You will be much happier.
armywife7178 2 years ago 2
Why are we supposed to be blaming black women for the way black men behave? Isn't everyone responsible for their OWN actions?!!
PunkyPrincessPop 2 years ago 8
@PunkyPrincessPop Well look at it like this. If today most men started giving strippers props and dissing college bound women, in a few years college enrollment for women would go down and there would be more women on the poll...just sayin...it's the same concept. Don't underestimate what people will do to be popular with the opposite sex. Also encouraging something tends to lead to more of that activity.
dealmaker007 1 year ago 3
@PunkyPrincessPop "If black women liked astronauts there'd be thugs in space" lol
dealmaker007 1 year ago
@PunkyPrincessPop he isnt blaming them,he was stating how some blk women rather date some one that is no good than some one thats educated.
heartboy86 1 year ago
i fell asleep listenin 2 dis bullshit
lilwaynefan1309 2 years ago 6
Good stuff!!!! I agree hands down...
love83forever 2 years ago
interesting points!
NIKIMBO 2 years ago
im a black guy but i wasnt born in america i been here for a while but i was raised with the cultural values of where im from west africa which are great, and over my years here i have realized black women and men here in america have serious issues!, not all but i would say worse than any other race, so i do agree with the comments on finding people for serious relationships in other countries america is fuked up, influences of entertainment run this country which is all bullshit in reality
Justfine59 2 years ago 6
Hey man I realize we have problems but Africa is no garden of eden either
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago
on the lauren london, i always thought she was an idiot from day one! when i saw her with lil wayne i though straight groupie, typical black chick, next thing shes pregnant with this dudes baby and he gives her the shaft sayen he doesn' wanna be with her, but he'll support the kid
Justfine59 2 years ago 6
I disagree that everything is decided at 17 to 21. You are making blanket statements that no longer reflect the reality of American society. People often go to college later in their 20's and do fine. People get master's degrees and go for second careers in their late 20's, 30's, and 40's. These girls are stupid. What does blck women have to sit around with a bullhorn addressing every stupid celebrities comments? What about rap and hip hop, this is not influencing young men?
2Baiforev 2 years ago 2
I disagree as long as these types of women don't date black men they will do fine. Their dating futures will be bright. I went to Dallas and lived in a neighborhood where there were virtually no black men but had white men, middle eastern, north african, Asian. I never dated so much and had so much fun. Typical American, homo men who think women are going to sit around waiting for them but we will not. To all women get a passport and travel to another country to get a man. They are %100 better.
2Baiforev 2 years ago
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I have to agree with this wholeheartedly. Black women as a whole are fucking retarded.
AnonymousWhitePerson 2 years ago
I'm sorry I think he needs to just leave Lauren Londen alone. When she said that I think she meant she wants a guy dat can stand for himself on his own hold his own. A fighter.. smh
latinablackmommy 2 years ago
the brotha might take a lil while to get to his point but what he says is true. I can't believe LAUREN LONDON is sayin this shit. hoodrat bitches like her are to blame for the black on black violence killin a lot of young black men today.
Htownluv29 2 years ago 3
Whoever did this video sucks.yake this off of youtube.This has nothing to do with anything.If men want to look hood thats fine thats some girls choice.thats not mine so I choose nice guys.Women cant babysit men 4ever.If we reject them we will be helping them out.who helps us out.
BLEE31489 2 years ago
I hate when people make videos and take FOREVER just to get to the point.
Tiphany757 2 years ago 15
@Tiphany757 Thank you. What a waste of time. Get to the point already!!!
lueyes22 1 year ago
@lueyes22
ANOTHER DUMB BLACK NIGGA BITCH WHO HATES HEARING THE TRUTH !!
raofarrell 1 year ago
@raofarrell Fuck you!!!! I agree with totaly52. You are a self hate dumb ass who have way to much time on you hands. The truth!!Please the truth is that you are a retard who just got lucky to be born in this era. If your ass was born during the 50's,40's or earlier you would be strung up on a tree for looking at a white women.Shit there are some places where your still not safe.Whether you hate your own kind or not your still a nigger to them.So grow up Ass Hole or go! you will not be missed!!
lueyes22 1 year ago
@raofarrell see, it's people like you who are really the agitators of racial hatred. you hate who you are but can't say it in another way. you may feel like that, doesn't make you right. do you think that by saying words like that is going to effect people? you sound more ignorant than the racists idiots i see on youtube everyday.now go dance for yo master puppet.
30kitagreen 1 year ago
I think it is very strange for Lauren and Nivea to both be pregnant by you no who. He has a song out about him wanting to *uck everygirl. So many stupid women want these thugs, but wanting a thugs leaves you single with baby momma drama, and having a battle for child support because your thug is to busy making other babies and not taking care of responsibilities. These women should want more out of life, a thug is a street dude/baby daddy/hostler not someone you can marry and take home to momma.
makiya27 2 years ago 2
That's exactly why I don't take these females serious anymore...
They are only good for fucking for the most part. If a female has these type of mentalities they deserve exactly what their looking for...
How many dudes are "Street" & looking for a family with a white picket fence??? Stupidly so many females think exactly like this so my solution is to lay them on their backs because they offer nothing else but "Eye Candy"...
Lilart1981 2 years ago 10
Why are women so fucking retarded? Their mentalities as a whole are completely self-destructive and belied by naivitee and self-hatred. They are ruining their lives for absolutely no reason.
AnonymousWhitePerson 2 years ago
WTF is biracial? When the cops come around do you scramble to get your shit together...then you black wtf. Remember when they told Tiger Woods we don't serve chicken on the golf course. how about everyday they threaten PRESIDENT OBAMA. Biracial Wake up there's a brown paper bag test bitch don't fail it! Sheep
sinistavoicez 2 years ago 3
you took a while to get to your point but that is just their opinions and who cares. i thought they said something racist or controversial. Shame on me.
kirstb724 2 years ago
Kirstb- It's not just an opinion or "their opinion" It's most women of colors opinion between the ages of 18 to 30. It is at the same age group that young men of color are attempting to gain acceptance from women. This is why these young men becomes assholes, thugs, no jobs, bady daddies etc. At that age these "women" don't respond well to a man that brings leadership, respect and responsibility. Once these women change and want a real relationship and can't find one; they cry wolf.
ImumCoeli13 2 years ago 5
Lauren London and Mya are NOT black women!! They are two dumb ass BI-RACIAL women trying way too hard to be "down" and they're completely ignorant. Clearly their WHITE mothers raised them badly.
Look at Alicia Keys...another bi-racial woman raised by a white mother constantly having thugged-out, ignorant black men with "swag" as love interest in her videos. This problem affects ALL women, who crave bad boys, get treated like shit, and then blame ALL men for their problems!!
ajac9988 2 years ago 3
Lauren London's mom is black and her dad is white, but her dad was not around for most of her life!
kirstb724 2 years ago 2
Certain women like thugs, so what? Their comments should help "nice" guys avoid them and look elsewhere. Many of us make wrong choices in our partners, but hopefully, we eventually learn what suits our personal taste. The real issue is that so many women go for the "thug" and then have the audacity to blame all men for their lack of judgement,when he wont change his ways. The truth is; women don't know what they want! Just because they're famous doesn't equate to good taste, just look at Whitney
bendelite 2 years ago 17
@bendelite Lol That may have been true when you posted this response but now Bobby is the clean one and Whitney still don't got her shit together, he might have helped but it doesn't seem like he forced her at all.
sajohnson09 1 year ago
It took me a long time to get the point of this video. i bet he could have said it in just two minutes.
BlakeBarbieDoll 2 years ago
also, these men "date" them, e.g. Lauren just for sex and to make everyone aware that they smashed it and then suddenly they break up. The so-called temporary commitment is used to make them feel comfortable b/c women r usually worried about men calling them hoes, which usually happens when a man has sex with a woman without a commitment. they don't want to b considered "jump-offs" or bust-it babies.
batonbeauty 2 years ago 4
I agree. these women say these things b/c they like the attention from those type of men but even those men don't marry them. Mya has been passed around from Jay-z and The Game, but those guys don't even want to marry her. Those men actually changed their lives and don't want a women who is attractive to that old lifestyle b/c they themselves don't want it. they know a nicely dressed hoodrat when they c one.
batonbeauty 2 years ago 2