Dating Tips for Shy Guys -Quiet Guys - Ask Chauntel

[GMoney42983]

What does it mean when they say they want to take things slow\?

[askchauntel]

@GMoney42983 who is they?

[CrazyToastie]

@enterjcs

Oh my god yes.

If you ever find of a way to pull conversations out of your arse, please let me know.

[SegaSaturnBlack]

she attractive

[ShellB12]

You keep saying "Women don't know how to approach the quiet guy". But, I'm confused.... generally women don't approach men in general.

[askchauntel]

@ShellB12 if you would like we can use the word interact

[DaGeneral16]

All that just now could've been summed up in 1 sentence. This girl should have a tv show.

[PrinceDreLance]

i want Chauntel to be my girlfriend You are sexy!

[TheSUBGAMER]

Man,never listen to a girl advice about dating!

[TheSUBGAMER]

@TheSUBGAMER read book 101principles about todays problem men have because of media,feminist etc.

[Casarzino]

nice singing voice

[EricSchwin22]

Chauntel...I really like you, and I just wish more women would think like you, ya know? Awesome video!

[WaterBoyOnDaRise]

Good singing.

[lukaqota]

You missed the point. The quiet guy had a communication problem and you ask him to communicate. He has first to solve the communication problem before he goes to action.

[bjb101nyj]

so you want dudes to send flowers and write poems to girls they don't even know? that shit doesn't work in the real world... comes off as creepy & stalkerish

[jumpa305]

@chataira Maybe quiet guys just don't want to talk to you. Even these type of guys will aventually start talking to you once they get to know you. Its called warming up to you. Maybe you make them uncomfortable. I think I've spoken to you before...

[rikshaw223]

why do women like flowers i can never understand this. OK! i'm a BM & i do like good quality tool. once i gave a girl friend a tool box & some tools, she was not impressed but, weeks after flowers would have died she made good use of them & she was very greatful in more ways than one if you know what i mean. :-)

[emcred]

Like the way you sing.

[Coolflames101]

You have seductive eyes.

[Hecydec]

Am new my question is how to flírt at chopin mall whent am tipsy a little drunk am shy at any way

[djdnauk1977]

i would date you chauntel, youre beautiful

[askchauntel]

@djdnauk1977 thank you so much (:

[Dharma73]

@enterjcs Agreed. Rejection can affect anyone/everyone. No one is ever exempt

[President1st]

I am a quiet guy i always have been, but the problem is, words don't flow easily when I see a woman I like, also Women do reject quiet guys in favor of the other louder guys, the more provocative guys and the I agree with most of the things you said but not all, as some men don't approach beautiful woman like you through fear of rejection

[askchauntel]

@President1st as long as ur able to show her that you are interested she will deal with the fact that ur quite

[Michaeltanase]

Chauntel what does it mean when a girl says, "I'm glad you keep asking me out, but I'm way to busy right now?" Doesn't make sense she we used to date for one month and then just email's..Is she trying to brake up with me?

[askchauntel]

@Michaeltanase it means that she is somewhat interested and trying to keep you as an option but too busy for anything serious. and she cannot break up with you if you aren't together yet now can she?

[TheSUBGAMER]

@Michaeltanase that means that she is a attention whore,just tell her"i want to fuck you' and see what happens

[starfaery]

Why does it have to be a video?

[Terrra91]

Can someone help me? I really like this girl at university and wanna chill with her but she never turns up (frustratingly). I'm quite quiet and so is she. How can I get her to talk or give her an incentive to come to university more often? Thanks.

[Layemard09]

Look at those big sweet lips, hmmm, look so good.

[Layemard09]

I want me some chauntel. hmm hmmmm.

[FashionRawkz]

You live in Miami?!?!

[jumpa305]

@chataira ou are a loser and i don't want you to kill yourself just because the truth hurts...lol

[jumpa305]

@chataira Aw did I hurt your feelings for cursing...Ill keep it pg 13 for you lol. You are not very bright. Stop dating bad boys thats why you always get beaten. Its so amusing how non sensical people like you always say the famous line "get a life" or "I don't want to know you" I can tell you're not the sharpest tool in the shed for this reason. Who said you were going to get to know me...and I HAVE a life which is something that you don't have obviously...now Im going to leave you alone for y

[jumpa305]

@chataira You are a typical dumb asshole that can't comprehend anything past a first grade level... a ditsy female which is not my fault and Im aloud to make comments if I want, its youtube hello...your comments aren't exactly CONTRIBUTING to the video either lol

[jumpa305]

I have yet to see a girl stick with a quiet dude...for more than one date...lol

[jumpa305]

@chataira You probably act stuck up and thats why the quiet guys don't like you.

[Dharma73]

@chataira I would think so, that females should just go and approach men more often.

[broadcastmyass4u]

A lot of guys will give you the first impression of being quiet, but they actually aren't quiet guys at all. They just can't open up right away, they don't want to make an ass out of themselves.

[bilanehasan]

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[kutroyortana]

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[lauh4rl]

@chataira ...dont be lazy approach the dude its ur life no regrets

[TONYEB132]

i could keep secrets cause i mostly forget about them

[andt1994]

@chataira yeah they should it would be alot easier i dont think i spelled easier rite

[jannevellamo]

Write a poem? It NEVER works. I've been stupid enough to try that a few times and it INVARIABLY backfires. Either you end up as a gay suspect or you look like a creepy pervert, stalking her with weird rhymes, before you chop her up and stuff her in the freezer. Even if she herself thinks it's cute, her friends will turn her against you for sure. If the poem is good, they do it out of jealousy and if it's bad, they're probably afraid of you.

[GrantLogan2]

I feel that I'm way to analytical and quite not really shy tho I guess

[ten1men]

tip not hating but please shorten the intro lil bit

[thebionicpig]

@chataira Quiet guys are not always shy....maybe we are more calculating. I promise you EYE CONTACT in longevity is the single most powerful message a man can give.

[lk90jn65]

FLOWERS? BULLSHIT lol

[thebionicpig]

@lk90jn65 Exactly how many thugs you know send flowers? My reasoning for the statement is if other video's the hot topic is women desiring thugs over nice guys... 

[stacks6969allday]

haha ur hella high haha good points

[itsonelouder1]

Great advice

[ShottaSparX]

i love your voice

[dre1on3]

i have a question im quiet and shy and i hate it because every time a realy cute girl come up to me i stare at the ground trembleing with fear and i realy hate it so how do i stop doin that

[thebionicpig]

@dre1on3 Give short open ended answers because women love to talk....you give them a opening and they can do 9:55 minutes worth of talking in a 10:00 minute conversation. Just continue to nod in approval. Don't focus on being funny or clever etc... just be yourself and after a few minutes that initial fear will fade quickly. Dre if you can conjure up enough nerve to stare her in the eyes while she is debating a point that it is something that gets MAJOR BROWNIE POINTS!! Good Luck my man!

[KeBanger18]

im shy but i ainnt scared to hit dat

[willz1804]

ILIKETHIS!!!!!!!!!!

[Noniythegamer]

Theres this girl at school i really like, and she seems to like me aswell. She was in my English class last semester and always said hello to me and asking me how i am doing, and even jokingly saying " I love you" almost everyday. She also says these same things when i see her in the hallways since we don't have class together. I am polite and say hi back and all, but im way to shy to go up to her and really talk to her in real conversation or even ask her out.

What should i do?

[Casarzino]

FLOWERS?? NO!

[halofan1227]

i like a girl and im in middle school...im new in the school and this girl is really pretty and is also hard to get....last night i went to party and noticed she was looking at me most of the time but she is really hard to know if she likes me....i have a shyness issue and ive had it almost all my life ....also my best friend has been friends with her since hes little and she had a party for best friends and told my friend i was shy, so is it good that she talks to my friends behind my back?

[mastachiefs49]

Man I'm extremely shy... I'm also very polite and nice to women when it comes to them talking to me. But besides that I just listen to my Ipod all day in school...It is very hard for me to walk up to a girl and tell her she gorgeous and compliment her and what not..mainly because once I compliment her I have no clue how to start a conversation and it just becomes awkeward O.O

[sanoxxxx5]

@mastachiefs49 i have the same issue i call it shyness syndrome

[zrk9a]

okok how about conversation topics?

we are quiet because we can't think of something good or anything to say.

[RogelioakaBullet]

but chauntel she want's to make more friends :(

[Apsu72]

I'm sorry, sister but I don't think you gave us enough info.

[vdjjdv1]

I'm a shy guy but the thing with me is as soon as I get attracted/involved with a girl then I get shy & silent & nervous & so on. OMG! Am I psyco or somethin....

P.S. I'm popular... I'm shy only when she-s in my sight & not (that much) while texting or chatting on phone...

Plz cont. if you think you can help...

[prilstrudel]

P.S. by the way, Chauntel, you are absolutely GORGEOUS! You radiate such a natural sweetness, weren't I already married, I would want to hug you and give you a BIG kiss! You're so adorable.

May you marry the right man and get lots of happy children.

[askchauntel]

@prilstrudel wow! thank u so much! God Bless

[kaffum]

I agree, she has a very attractive personality

[askchauntel]

@Shuley76 great point!

[prilstrudel]

@askchauntel

Great point but that's exactly what the shy guys will NEVER do!

I was once a shy guy myself and I know what it was like. Even making eye contact was a major task for me and made me very nervous!

[Cobe1976]

Forgive my ignorance, but what the hell does xDDD mean?

[KigurumiAlice]

Quiet guys are DARK HORSES

[alynn1990]

Shy guys drive me crazy!!!!

[flyazn91]

gosh, just the video i was lookin for

[Cobe1976]

Most women like loud, boisterous men with big cocks.

[beautifuldaemon]

xDDD

[thomasina100]

ummm that is so not true i hate guys that are fucking loud and boisterous but big cock hell yea haha

[jea740]

Haha most quite guys got huge cocks because most blood flow there.

The reason wiman get cheated on is because there looking for the wrong people

[Imtubin]

nothing is worse than knowing you're beautiful, but your treated like an ugly duckling.

[hubomba]

I am indeed a quiet guy but I can open up when I get to know someone.

[JesseUrbin]

Yeah so I'am I.

[duanerichard]

Doesn't she have beautiful lips

[Mrmikeshelton]

I'm usually real quiet until I get to know you and I feel comfortable around you. I've found the best way to break the ice with a girl I'm interested in is to find something I like about her and give her a sincere compliment. They can usually tell the difference between when you're being sincere and when you're just trying to kiss their ass because you're after something.

[Mrmikeshelton]

Love the song in the intro. One of my favorite Janis Joplin tunes. You have a wonderful voice, especiall for that style of music.

[urbanburglary]

SO true about quiet guys being the nice ones.

All the outgoing, loud guys I've dated turned out to be jerks.

But the quiet ones are really sweet, usually.

[xquickstrykex]

@urbanburglary Hmm why do girls go for the loud mouthed douchebags all the time? Do you ever think that maybe the quiet guy is quiet because he doesn't wan't to be the fucking loud douche? You girls date the big mouth and leave the quiet guy in the background, then the loud mouth usually leaves you in tears...

[urbanburglary]

@xquickstrykex Guys shouldn't keep quiet because they're scared of being the "loudmouth douches." If you're a naturally a quiet guy, do your quiet thing. But if your quietness is just to cover up your fear of rejection, you have to get over that fear.

Girls go out with the popular douchebags partly because they're buff, and also because they're popular and fawned-over by the rest of the school. "If I date him, all the girls will be SO jealous of me and I'll be instantly popular!"

[xquickstrykex]

@urbanburglary I hate the fact that girls do that...I would never date a girl because she's popular but an idiot. I wouldn't be able to put up with it. How can you put up with a douchebag? Take him home? Just because he's popular...All the while the guy that truly cares about you is on the sideline watching judging himself because he's not "popular" and doesn't have a 6 pack...That's low.