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  • Song hits home whether your a mom or a dad now a days... Love Love Love

  • Mr. Chapin is a hero of mine. I kinda, good or bad, lived both this wonderful work and Taxi. He gave us to share such wonderful gifts. Let us not lament, but teach?

  • Ted Bundy ?

    OMG OMG

  • @MrFredGoldstein Bundy? What does he have to do with this?

  • @dasboot19801 keep your head up..

  • Still remember the day in 1981 seeing his VW on the LIE after the accident. Very sad day.

  • I LOVE AND MISS YOU MOM & DAD

  • Great Artist ... !!!!! Great Writer !!!!

  • I love you dad. See,,,,I found it.

  • I'm losing my dad to kidney failure. I think in terms of what I should have done with the time we had. But, my priorites never seemed to be about him. I'm telling you, appreciate those you love, they're gone before you know it.

  • beautiful. truly beautiful

  • i saw Harry at the New Hartford Conn civic center. Harry was an awesome song writer and performer. RIP Harry, we miss u

  • Since the first time I heard this song, I said it would never be me..... and my mother would always remind me of the day that I said it. I tried.... I really tried....

  • My ex-wife is an alcoholic and drug addict and the judge gave her custity of my 2 boys 11 and 9 I can take them anytime because she can go out and get drunk with her crestwood IL copper that lives with her and my boys want to live with their 13 years clean and sober father thats me

  • when people hear this song they think its good but when people listen to this song they remember it. fantastic as a son and a father......

  • This for my Dad. I lost him three years ago and I think about him every day...cause I know I will meet him again and I hope I was able to be like him.

    Cheers to everybody who likes this song.

  • A Classic song and it has moved thousands of people. GOD bless you

  • No fancy electronics, computers or lights. Just a couple guys with basic instruments, great writting and wonderful voice, LOVE this while we can there will never be music like this again

  • Great song,i lost my DAD 3 months ago and we both loved this song.

  • Happy Birthday DAD....This song remind my dad...I miss you so much but we'll get together then

    You know we'll have a good time then......

  • ive been drinking and been thinking about this song all day... good day man, good day :)

  • How can you not see this as the truth and common amongst all us men? How can you not like this song? Sad.

  • it happens..most times

  • Love this guy ,great...Thanks

  • This is real music...lyrics that people can connect to and gives a great message...

  • Great song by a master story teller.

  • My parents are divorced, I'm a senior and I live with my mom. Every weekend I try to spend time with my father.

  • thats pretty sad but catchy

  • Love it!!

  • it sucks but this song is so true, it really happens

  • @fabfamily2009 I definitely want to spend more time with my 9 yr old son. *tear* The part about 'throwing the ball' really chokes me up. My boy just asked me to throw it with him the other day, but 'Dad' is always busy, and just like the song, he says "that's okay." How have I been blessed with such a good boy?

  • @rkg4mer enjoy your time NOW, before you know it they are in their mid-20's already served their time in Iraq and you go where did the time go.

  • @joeprinter I know Joe.. sad but true. All we can do is be the best Dad we can be.

  • We should all listen to this song.

    Harry, how wise you were.

  • well if you could just hear the passion in the words the balance of simple GRACE ....

  • When I was in my 30's, this was a beautiful song. It's thirty years later now, my own son is older than I was when I first heard this. Made it all the way though the first verse before the tears started. Would that God could let us correct the "sins" we failed to see as we were maturing/achieving. In reality, the sins of the father are eventually revisited ON the father. I hope he can forgive me.

  • True words in that song.... makes me wish my dad was alive..

  • @kruzerdude Me too...

  • Fathers been in my life for all my years and he's moved on to ND for work, it sucks.. I've listened to this song teared up

  • I knew Harry and his extended family. Astronomers, Labor Organizers, Painters, Filmmakers, Anthropologists, Activists, Singers I had the opportunity as a young man to spend countless weekends at the family's summer property in Northern New Jersey, 40 odd years ago.

    Great song, Better person.

  • Our 1st son was born in 2004. The FIRST song I heard after his delivery....in the hospital cafeteria, "Cats In The Cradle" on the radio. Incredible.

  • 15 people neglect their kids.

  • I told myself i was gonna listen to this song without shedding a tear.... Couldn't do it.

  • press 5 repeatedly for fart face

  • the drummer is either really tired/bored or high as fuck...3:17

  • My boy was just like me..haunting yes?

  • I have didnt know my dad his whole life. Anyway i love this soung it has true meaning. If ya dont like it its pretty simple / go fuck off in your own little depressing dwelling...,,./. HAHAHAHAHAHA

  • I miss you, Dad.....

  • The employees of FurryPartners love this song! We have our cats too!

  • This song always pisses me off because it reminds me that the old man took off when I was around 5 and never called or wrote. I would've appreciated my mom talking about him a little, but she never did. Not even to call him an asshole. Just a huge blank in my life that no one talked about. I tried to fill that hole with drugs and alcohol. Now finally, after 40 years I have my dad on my FB friends list, but I haven't heard from him since last Oct. He's probably dead. See you in hell, dad.

  • @sinbadnatas im so sorry, when you to were FB was he what expected or was he nice? i mean like it none of my business but,i;m kinda curious.

  • even thou it has been 50 yrs since i last saw my dad i just hope that i grew into someone my dad would have been proud of

  • How dare this song evoke emotion in me smh I gusse you just can't deny good music of to listen to Sam Cooke now

  • Josh I met your dad a couple of times in Seattle and Sue Gensel was his secretary for many years and she is my wife's aunt. He felt like family to us and I think my favorite song is "All my Life's a Circle"

  • I never liked this song, when I was a kid it reminded me of how my own father was largely unavailable. A very pretty and intelligent teenage girlfriend once related to me how she appreciated this song, I imagine her older brother and father were in her thoughts. I owe my friend and Mr. Chapin a lot. I've never forgotten this message, and I put my family first. I have a wife and two kids <4, spending time with them, teaching, learning, laughing, and loving, that's life.

  • This song gets deeper and deeper everytime I hear it,..

    Take the time cuz You can't get it back.

  • This song is the epitome of me and my son Scotty! In the day, it was me in the military and Scotty waiting for daddy. Now the tides have turned and I wait for him!! Funny how the cycle of life works,, isn't it?!

  • Thanks for posting!

  • This shows how our life today has become.We barely have time time for ourselves much less anybody else.

  • Like the song. Gives me hope for me and my children. My son's name is Josh so this song will have a special meaning.

  • Harry Chapin is without a doubt the greatest story teller of all that came out of the sixties and seventies. This song is a tribute to fathers and sons and really hits home with me when I think of my father who passed away 6 years ago. I am my father's son. I became him in every way and all I can say is I am proud to be like Dad. Without his guidance and love I do not know what I would have become. That guidance and love taught me to be a good father to my own two sons.

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  • First time I've heard this song in a long time Wonderful!

  • I wish my boy could be the person in this song, he didnt make it he left me at 30 and four little hims are left 1,2,6,10.. he was just like me ,and i was so proud

  • @jrbiven I am sorry for your loss....and always be proud of him.

  • This song is so true.

  • When I was 3, I tried to shave my face with my dad's safety razor, and, I cut myself shaving in the process. I have a scar on my face now. I guess Mr. Chapin wasn't wrong.

  • at 9:26 PM last night, my first son was born, when my wife fell asleep i went home to prepare for his arrival and this song came on the radio at random...i had to pull over to the side of the freeway because i couldnt see through my tears. Greatest song ever.

  • @GunsmythFrog congratulations

  • @GunsmythFrog Good luck !

  • @GunsmythFrog fag

  • @GizmoGardenia ...and you are a dirt bag for posting that on here

  • @Judyp77 cry more pussy

  • @GunsmythFrog oh god...

  • @GunsmythFrog

    Yep, you pretty much described my same response to this song. Beautifull but painfull.

    I miss my dad.

  • this song is a hub for soppy comments about how they miss their dad.

  • I listen to Eminem, all the rap, techno and rock, but this is the best song i know!

  • @forgotten420 I'm so glad to hear that! It's these songs that will live on for generations to come....

  • all dad's Take time to spend time with your children.

    simple as that SPEND TIME WITH YOUR CHILDREN NOW.

  • My dad is a drug addict. I don't want to grow up like him. So i won't.

  • This song is SO nice, I like it so much!

    Josh, your dad was such a great man and singer. I love his songs.

  • i found itdad

  • i found it

  • No kid thinks this way about their fathers today...what a shame.

  • Is it just me or does this song have strong emotional effect on evreryone? This song is timeless.

  • Harry Chapin is just the best.

    I love this song.

  • I broke the pattern in my family.  End of story.

  • he put on the best concert i have ever saw.gene burnett

  • My Dad was a truck driver. Left for work at 4am get back at 7-8pm. And He would unwind w/ me and my brother n have me tell him a story. I was the babygirl of the fam. My teens had me so angry but he lost his leg and I would make him cd's from this time n cheer him up. He got a prosthetic now but he soo loves this song.

  • This is a GREAT song.

  • @elkupong So sorry. You are not alone.

  • Totally born to be a musician and nothing else. What a classic. Meant to be. It's as simple as that.

  • cats in the cridle ... hmm isnt that "ugly kid joe"??... :PP

  • @JankelxD yeh but he covered it from this legend

  • @jordanfuller10 iiiii was just listening to ugly kid joe version.... so it was better ... so i just wrote anythin that was on my mind ... :PD

  • @elkupong Damn... As a father , that stomped all over me, although I know it wasn't meant for me. It shames me, and all the other fathers out there, to even be associated with another like that.. I am sorry (truly). My Mother was always my "father" also. Peace.

  • Josh look like Harry

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  • I heard this song when it first came out. I was so moved I swore a sacred oath I would never be like that to my kid. Many years later I had a wonderful son. For 22 years now we have a total open channel of communication. I besides love I taught him nearly everything I know about life so he would not have to make the same mistakes I did. My folks never did that. This song improved our very lives. As a fellow musician/songwriter/father I know it's not easy to write a song that reaches so many!

    +

  • shut up lady this is for men

  • @onetendrunks1 Right on!!!!!!!!

  • I loved you Harry, and I was so blessed to actually shake your hand, and briefly speak to you at Huntington High School--about November of 1980! I posted pictures of Harry and Tom at my facebook page! Love to all Harry Chapin fans, BobbyK Harry was a very special, loving, human being!!!

  • @elkupong same but my mom didnt die... im sorry that happened man

  • รัก Harry Chapin มากๆ

  • This is a perfect father and son song

  • Thumbs up if this song describes you and your dads relationship.

  • I wish there was more music like this bein made today, guess i was born in the wrong decade :P

  • @G1Martins There is, look.

  • @G1Martins if u look hard enough, u can still find great music today.

  • @elkupong Your pops probably had issues with the way he was raised..and I know 2 wrongs don't make a right but he should be forgiven for your own health and well being.

  • Sounds like she wants credit for the song.

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  • @dpkellam

    Sounds like you are an idiot.

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  • Brilliant reply.

  • @dpkellam

    Obviously it was more enlightening than your dumb@ss comment of "Sounds like she wants to take credit for the song". Not only are you an idiot for thinking that, you are a prick for posting such a thing. Pull your head out of your @ss and watch it again. No hint of wanting to take any credit... only a devoted, loving wife with a nice memory of her husband, then her son... but you want to be a dick about it. You are a Jerry Springer Show type of person, all the way.

  • I guess daddy didn't love you enough. If I had an ahole of a child as yourself I wouldn't bother with you either.

  • @debo964 I hate people like you who self-censor yourself. It's not like anyone will scold you for using swears and it doesn't make you any better for censoring the word.

    Fuck you,

  • Everytime i hear this song i cry because it was my dads favorite song 

  • This is me and my dad's song

  • very great song............no one writes songs like this today. cuz kids you know "evolution"

  • It is a great song. We can feel that important times we lost because everytime we find something more important than our closest....but it is just an illusion, later we realize we can't go backward the time so that minutes remain lost for us forever.

  • @elkupong sorry to hear that. just keep your head up your mom is in a better place your dad can rot in hell (no disrespect)

  • Josh your dad was such a great man. I met him at a concert in Norfolk, VA I was just a teenager he was so nice he hung around and I got his autograph and I still have it. I miss you Harry.

  • @mkmapp01 the norva?

  • wall father like son what can u say

  • Such a beautiful song.

  • colin mockerie?

  • 1:45 its Bob from Pirate Radio!! ;D

  • 1:06

  • Wow, great song. 

  • Who is the drummer?

  • This song and CCR's Someday Never Comes (where CCR's is extremely blue).are similar in message; but the feeling of love and the emotions that run through me are completely different. Somehow Cats ITC, is more of vision, a warning, a fear; sort of like looking in the mirror at the man that I should be; at the same time it brings opposite emotions when I think of my father--he was the best. Now my 10 Year-old listens and cries to this song--then just hugs me and says "i Love You Dad". Thanks HC.

  • Seems that this song was the every other song on the radio the night my dad died.

  • Ah the 60's and 70's. When real musicians with real feelings actually wrote songs with real meaning, and record labels had common sense and let the music flow through the airwaves and top the charts. When the media simply promoted the MUSIC and noone gave a rats ass about how the artist looked and dressed and what they did in their spare time.

    The people actually listened to the words of the songs and learnt from them, truly taking in the music at hand.

    It really is a lesson long lost.

  • it took the death of my baby brother for me and my to get close !!!! WONERFUL SONG!!!!!!!!

  • Father-Daughter relationships are special, too! I <3 and miss my dad every day- God Rest His Soul! As a kid, he worked 16 hrs a day 6-7 days a week, but he was always there for me and my 6 siblings. I'm glad I was there for him too during his last years on Earth.

  • A Father -to-Son relationship is unlike any other relationship, it has more power than any other, not Mother-Daughter, not Father-Daughter, not Mother-Son, There is just something in a Father-Son relationship that women will never fully understand

  • @joshgaus Right on brother.

  • This song was bad enough when I was a kid with me having such a wonderful dad, but now after having two young boys of my own it is even worse...can't listen to it without tearing up.

  • This song came out a couple of years after my folks split up. Dad was gone on business trips so much it was six weeks before I figured out this was a little more serious. He never did figure it out, and although I'm his daughter, I've grown up much like him.

  • Probably best song ever 

  • its a sad story but this is tru exactly for me ma dad always work when he comes home i m alseep on the couch waitning ots really sad

  • My folk's divorced in 1969, when I was 5. I remember this song from my childhood. Sadly, it didn't effect my father as he moved away remarried and had two more kids (I've never met). My father forgot about me and my 2 brothers. Now, I hear that he is in a hospice suffering from Alzheimer's. How ironic. He wanted to forget, God obliged

  • Greatest song of my time. Thank you this song.

  • great classic heard this on the am radio on vacation with my folks and my dad would love to sing this song those are the best memories

  • omfg the drummer looks just like tim lincecum lol

  • It's a great song guys but this is youtube not childhood regrets anonymous so please stop with the long stories and enjoy the video kthx ^_^

  • @diggdawg89

    People are relating how this powerful song effects them. The older you get, the more distant the memories and the more you realize it is too late to go back and fix the shit we screwed up.

    Judging from your comment, you are still at the stage in your life where you are still doing the screwing up. Your regrets will come soon enough, don't go looking for them.

  • i really never had a good relationship with my father and still dont to this day i now have 2 children whom he has never met but i have to thank my step father who stepped in his place and treated me as his own and taught me to be the person that i am today my kids call him grandpa and i call him my dad it takes a man to make a baby but it takes a bigger man to stand in another mans place.

    thanks eugene

  • RIP harry

  • this is a great piece and so nice to see Sandy and Josh.. Josh I'm lookin forward to hearing you pick up where your father left off.. the years have been to far and long without a Chapin singing.

  • I love you dad!

  • Thank you, Harry

  • very very great

  • I went through this as a child, and hope my son never experiences this.

  • who really disliked this?

  • @governmentuser85 Probably abusive Fathers

  • @resserection1 my Father was the greatest man I've ever will know If I could only be half the man he was I coould put down this fucking bottle. By no means was he abusive. Guess the song is different to us.

  • A giant 6'4" 230 lb grown man of nearly 40 can be reduced to tears in seconds by this song. My wife and I have 4 wonderful children, but we both work full time and I have a home based business as well just to get by. I can hear the echo of those beautiful childrens voices in my head begging me to run and play with them. So many times I was too busy, or too tired. When I think about all the times they were made to feel that way I just can't keep back the tears. Today, I will not be too tired!!

  • i love this song so much i cry my eyes out everytime i hear it. this was the last song i heard with my great uncle before had past away because of a heart attack i was bout ten then it was one day befor my birthday.. im 18 now n everyday i miss him this song means alot to alot of ppl thank you harry chapin for making such a great song

  • i hope i'm just like my pops. im turning 20 in a month, and he still plays catch with me. this song really puts it into perspective...you get one family, but if done right, ones all you need.

  • hug your kid, even if he doesn't, or can't, hug you back, in hopes some day he wil;

    Miss you Harry. We sang these songs in circles, growing up. 30 years since your passing... time goes by so fast. Make the best you can of each moment & give much & live for many, share your dreams in deeds, Harry's action, talent, and vision showed us what one man could do...Oh if a man tried to prove what one man's life could be worth. Now if we all tried, to do that

    "I wonder what would happen to this world "

  • Thank You, You Tube, for supporting the  Series of Cats In The Cradle, in loving memory of the Lost, Missing, or Exploited Children, Mr. John Walsh, Host & Founder for our Face Book WALL. We hope to apprehend the correct criminals of Adam's murder through partnership and support. I will light a candle on Sunday, in memory of all Lost, Missing or Exploited Children. Thank you, Harry Chapin for your song. Cats In The Cradle. *****Stars. We LIKE it!

  • I saw Harry Chapin play when I was 7 and back then it was just music,,now that I am grown I look back and I relaize how lucky I was,,,Now that my dad has skin cancer I always call him and I make sure to tell him I love him,,My dad taught me to always be proud and have honor,,,I carry that around with me everyday, being a Father to 2 girls I am even have been making sure I teach them to respect and honor themselves, To Harry and his Wife..Thank-You for making such a life teaching song..RIP HARRY

  • such a great classic, I just wonder why there are taliban brained imbeciles who would kill saying this is by cats stevens

  • everytime this song is on the radio I cry. man my dads a smoker and my mom hate him so mom always bagin on him thne i straight cry

  • it just real sorry to say a song like this, would expose some of us to our failings. i'm no better than what this story tells. sometimes we learn all too late of our mistakes. but what can we do, when we first have our kids in our youth, the kids don't come with instruction manuals. we learn all too late. life sucks sometimes.

  • My dad just passed away, and I inherited his knifemaking shop. My biggest regret was simply being too busy with my life to really and truly appreciate how skillful he was until I was cleaning out and packing up the stuff, and I was able to see his genius at each level of construction of a knife, along with his design of custom tooling and benches. I hope I can honor his skill with my own, but I have a lot to learn. In the meantime, I have to figure out how to get this song out of my head!

  • @KayakMike1963 its been over ten years since my dad passed two i didnt inherted any thing and when he passed i was liven in falrida at the time had to ride a bus for 24 hours to get back to sparta wisconsin for his funral i mDE FRIENDS WHEN I WAS 5 AND I WAS MY BEST FREIND SINCE THEN GOD BEI

    SLL ALL KIDS

  • Thumbs up if your here from the office!

  • i never had a real father, a step dad who tried but didnt have a clue. i now have a daughter i love to bits but the courts wont let me see her. what can i do do but hope this doesnt happen to us?