Help! He Doesn't Want Anything To Do With My Baby!

[prettylyricsmarie]

the guy may not want to be the dad, but if he is the dad, he will have to pay for the child...that's better than nothing...

[cokerainbows]

you popped it out, you should raise it? what a load of shite, i would MAKE him pay for the fucking kid, thats the least he can do,the kid is his, he cant dodge reponsibility but thats men for you!...and that guy reminds me of paul rudd.

[KatieGutz]

You guys suck. I've heard that guy on the left wants to be a monk...you can tell by his HUGE bald spot. Go eat donkey balls and set fire to children in the name of GOZER! GOZER THE CONQUEROR SHALL CONSUME YOU ALL! HAIL GOZER!

[ManieThao]

wrong go to jerry. lol fight on.

[evramos70]

He didn't use a condom, she didn't make him... and you don't want to start a family? How do you think babies are made?

FYI: Unprotected sex with two healthy people is how babies are made.

[buopesado]

hehehehehe its a tricky one

their expensive ($460)

[iamaGod357]

im talking about the abortion pill

[iamaGod357]

but i though it works by changing yer hormones so if i drink some wont it mess up my hormones and make me grow boobs or something?

[KimySan]

iamaGod>

Seriously ! She HAS the baby now, you CAN NOT force her to aborpt. That's just simply against law. I'm sure there's something somewhere that could defend her cause, cuz if you hadn't wanted that baby, well you just had to use a condom. Is all. Now assume it, you CAN NOT FREAKING FORCE HER. It'd be like using drugs on her. Sheesh. And pushing her down the stairs? Is it the baby or her and you want to kill?

[loveacarrot]

Women take your bcp. Don't be having babies with men out of wedlock. It is so stupid serious and know that you cannot keep a man with a baby. Don't even take the risk of having a baby with somone who you don't know without a doubt will be ther for you if you get preg.

[iamaGod357]

she wont take that either is there a way to slip it into her drink?

[xXRichardDawkinsXx]

I've heard of places where the abortion pill can be crushed into powder and slipped into food.

[longhairaek]

omg! shame on all 3 of u, if she wants the baby then itsnot ur choice to make her not have it, either u r there for her ur not, but thats fucked up u dont force her to take an abortion pill or have a miscarraige, if ur gonna not be ther for her than leave her, u wouldnt be the 1st guy but i cant believe u even thoughtr about pushing her down thw stairs wtf is wrong w u?!!

[xXRichardDawkinsXx]

I didn't say I condoned it, I simply said how.

[iamaGod357]

will she be able to taste it? will she notice it?

[iamaGod357]

i got my girl pregnent and she wont get a abortion how can i make her have a miscarriage? should i push her down the stairs?

[cokerainbows]

@iamaGod357 you're a piece of shit, go cut your dick off

[dusted2death]

Those are some harsh truths guys, but i admire your honesty with the mother of the baby... Keep up the good fight.

[iamaGod357]

yo mayne i got my girl pregnent and she wont get a abortion how can i make her have a miscarriage? should i push her down the stairs?

[Grimmancer]

you guys are great but really Dan just shave your head already! the Franciscan look is just not you man

[DanAndJenn]

LOL, may go there eventually...

but I agree, for now I went with a really short cut that I'm happy with - should see it in the vids coming out in next cpl of weeks. :-) -- Dan

[wolfinside]

When he had sex with this woman, he agreed to have an orgasm, not a baby. Since she has all the choice to have this baby (or not) then she should assume all of the responsibility for the baby as well. He has no choice, he should assume no responsibility.

[KunoichiKira]

also to all the preachers spouting crap about adoption: do you KNOW how long those kids generally wait to get out of the adoption process?

what HELL people have to go through, to GET one of those kids out of that system?

and just how many kids have you heard of that are going like hot cakes out of adoption centers.

mostly to gay couples *NOT A BAD THING* but people are making it harder on them to live so why would they even think about adopting.

[KunoichiKira]

i wouldnt say " ever had sex with "--sperm DOES have a shelf life, so its not like if you [ a woman ] bang a guy and expect to get pregnant from it still after so long.

i think itd be better to say if she hadnt had sex with anyone RECENTLY. obviously...but eh, nitpicking aside; if she wants the baby, she could opt for ditching him and finding a better father, one who LIKES kids. if not; abort.

its just better for her, the kid, and the rest of the overpopulated planet.

[intrigid]

One way that a guy could "know" that it wasn't his was if he had a vasectomy.

[penguinchicky]

Thank you for the common sense!

[genie542]

this reminds me of the maury show with the situtation...

[tripthe1]

Wow. Tough cookies you guys.

You get FIVE stars for telling it like it is.

[Nekoflame]

If you legally prove that the man is the father, he has to pay child support. Else, he doesn't.

Is that right? You could've mentioned that if she's going to have the baby, she should prove he is the father so he pays child support.

[kaysniper]

nice swiss cheese plabt, i used to have one till it got trashed by someone

i miss my tree

[ujdo]

NO on abortion. She's writing this obviously because that is not an option. It's not the babies fault. If she want's to keep it, sue for child support or give it to a couple who wants a baby.

[steffx21]

damn those "newb's of sex" they want unprotected sex...but don't know how that u can't be 100% sure of ur sperm...a single drop way before u finish can get a girl pregnant...i hate those idiots that run away from a baby...it's his fault, hers too cuz she accepted unprotected sex.poor kid...if he gets born...will learn that his father was a fool and he is a mistake :(

[LordReserei]

Abortion is wrong and it shouldn't matter about the rest. My mom found out she was pregnant, unplanned and my father left my mom straight after finding out, never met him, yet I couldn't care less....I don't have a desire to meet him or anything. All that matters is the mother/child relationship is good and strong.

[Lemnii]

To everyone who is saying abortion is the only way:

Ever heard of adoption?

It's also a good option, especially if the person feels like she is killing a human being. But both options are good if the child is not wanted.

[OdeToNecrophilia]

It's not always so easy for a mother to give the human being that came out of her fucking vagina to a complete stranger.

[Lemnii]

And It's also not easy for someone to feel like they are killing a human being.

Either way it may be a lose lose situation for the mother. It all depends on her.

[AutumnBrooke]

There are plenty of kids out there who have single moms as parents and are perfectly healthy and happy. If she wants the baby, she shouldn't feel like abortion is her only option. It didn't sound like she was asking "What do I do about the baby" but more "What do I do with this POS man?" anyway.

[OdeToNecrophilia]

You're acting like it's a piece of cake raising a child.

[AutumnBrooke]

No. I have two so I know it's not. I was just replying to another comment.

[raindrop10155]

I really thought this was an important issue that needed to be addressed

[tpeeq]

"You are not the father" =P

[asaisaac]

MAURY FTW!

[RADV12]

#1 she was stuid for having unprotected sex with him #2 do u know about condoms #3 if he refused to use condoms tell him to go play with himself

[EuroInvicta]

This looks like a perfect, textbook case where ABORTION is a great answer!!!

[decsilentenigma]

if he didnt want to have a child, he shouldnt have slept with her... and/or without protection... simple as that...

[lostmygrapejelly]

10th!!

[n00b0wn3rzz]

if they're having sex without being married, than that's bad enough right there. it's both of your fault if you're not married. you need to be married before something like this happens - by the way, i feel so weird commenting on these because i'm only 13.. :)

[ilovesouthpark01]

The only option is be a single parent, abortion or just go Juno style. It's no happy ending b/c it is what it is. But that's just my opinion.

[Seraphin69]

When You want to be "adult" sometimes You'll be forced to be an adult.

I think having a baby with some scum of a person is one of the worst things that can happen to an emotional person. Every solution is bad and some are terrible.

[cools287]

i think adobtion is wrong trust me

[8Lucinthium8]

There's nothing wrong with not wanting to be a parent. While he's a jackass for assuming she cheated, he's not an asshole for not wanting to be a parent for the baby. Not everyone wants to be a parent.

[Gladosayx]

I hear you, I wouldnt want to be a parent either and thats why I keep safe, Now accidents cant still happen being safe but unless he did everything he could he IS an asshole for just leaving all the responsibility on the woman.

[videowatcheer]

if he doesn't want a child he should have been more safe

[lavinder11]

Sure, not everyone wants to be a parent. You would think they, especially him, would have thought of that before not using the pills or a condom or something.

[jesuslover1990]

1, take his ass to court

2, hes probally a low life

3, leave the ass hole

and fuck him over by going 2 court an getting child support