... however, interest in me from anyone else has resulted in a territorial approach - behind closed doors. I am tired of being objectified. I am not his 'thing' for amusement to make him feel 'important'. I imagine this is very hard for him, the difference in my reactions, compared to earlier in the relationship when I was the ultimate in devotion (!). I agree that he seems to expect certain things from me as of right (ownership).
it is interesting that my narcissist insists that he is not jealous and abhors my own jealous behaviour (which I admit has been an issue in the relationship). However the tables are somewhat turned now, he is exhibiting insecurity in relationship to me, whereas before he appeared downright blase. Another man could blatantly hit upon me and he would stand back, seemingly disinterested.
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DrZuli 10 months ago
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rosskay 11 months ago
... however, interest in me from anyone else has resulted in a territorial approach - behind closed doors. I am tired of being objectified. I am not his 'thing' for amusement to make him feel 'important'. I imagine this is very hard for him, the difference in my reactions, compared to earlier in the relationship when I was the ultimate in devotion (!). I agree that he seems to expect certain things from me as of right (ownership).
notakennedy1 11 months ago
it is interesting that my narcissist insists that he is not jealous and abhors my own jealous behaviour (which I admit has been an issue in the relationship). However the tables are somewhat turned now, he is exhibiting insecurity in relationship to me, whereas before he appeared downright blase. Another man could blatantly hit upon me and he would stand back, seemingly disinterested.
notakennedy1 11 months ago