@xBeautifulThingsx If you were bullied by other girls that can only mean that they were jealous of you. I was humiliated at work and that's what caused my anxiety. I can relate to not being able to talk to my family. When I say "bullshit" I'm talking about how magazines and the media try to tell people how they should look and act, etc, instead of just letting people be themselves. People put on an act because that's what they think they should be doing. The media is to blame.
I think the media contributes to people having these disorders because they're always trying to show people how they should be and act, and if you don't act like the media wants you to act then you must have some problem. It's such bullshit.
SAD is not something to joke about. People with SAD can have serious panic attacks. They're amazingly self-conscious and think all the time about all sorts of problems that very often have no direct relation to them at all.
knowing that you have the disorder is such a huge advantage.i suffered from SA with neurotic anxiety for 7 years..and i dont even know..well the recovery will really take time..and the only way to get rid of it is-- to get rid of it..i know its not easy.but thats the only way...just try to eliminate one symptom at a time or day..just start from the smaller ones to the big ones,,try to resist it..tell yourself that this is not normal..and therefore you ought to do the normal..always pray^^
Most people with social anxiety do not make it at all obvious, and everything happens in their mind. I do exactly what this girl does, stop talking and look around, getting lost in thought and worries.
@usemycolors wow. dude...i mean, you just put my EXACT thoughts and my view on my life in a comment. let alone say..perfectly. im in the same shoes as you are... BUT. im tired of it. from this very moment, i will try my hardest to work on this, and accept my self as is. all i want from life is HAPPINESS. i don't care about money, or being successful...love, caring and hapiness is all that i've ever wanted. BUT did nothing to achieve them. this.will.now. CHANGE. because i can change it. so canyou
well, take it from me, that most people are shy/embarassed/worried/anxious because of 1 thing i find in most cases: They are worried if they are ugly or fat or whatever around other people. And you my girl, are not any of those at all. You are beautiful, dont even worry about what people think about, Ive got good taste lol and if I say you are fine, you are fine, if anyone else thinks not, they are fucking crazy.
the truth about it its like a embarrassing moment why now i gonna work to
saudi arabia some people there are not strick, plus i like to go to a very strange place that i meet stranger,im happy but i have awkward smile,i dont say it will result to bi polar disorder
im telling the truth even my family dies...its like all the people want a smile
and thats all they wanted,maybe 50/50,i never want to talk to anyone cause
i have this awkward smile,now my face is painful from time to time
i dont see you have severe social anxiety or you are not in public,i tell you the truth its hard for me to smile and i dont want anyone to see my awkward smile even a single visitor in my home,its like your performing your trap in your self,now tell me the truth if you have awkward smile,now i like talking serious topic like religious or spirituality,
please can u help? im 15 but look young for ym age and one day i was at my grandmas house and i thought'everyones looking at me' ' what if i do something wrong or act weird or pull weird faces' nd it was one day in july 2011 and now when i watch tv or have dinner in front of my mum or dad i get embarassed nd all that so i end up trying to act normal but i can't. i can tell that my mum nd dad are thinking ' whts she doing ?' and there really angry at me. have to older sisters at uni. please help
i KNOW THE CURE FOR SOCIAL ANXIETY...IT WAS SOOOO EASY FOR ME TO GET OVER IT..THATS WHY IM TYPING IN CAPS..I HAD THIS UP UNTIL MY 19 BIRTHDAY 2 WEEKS AGO...IF YOU TRULY WANT TO GET OVER THIS..UNDERSTAND THIS..AND I MEAN UNDERSTAND THIS...YOU MUST TALK TO PEOPLE..I KNOW ITS AQWARD BUT GUESS WHAT...EVERYONE IS UNCOMFORTABLE IN PUBLIC TO AN EXTENT...THE ONLY WAY TO GET OVER THIS IS TO TALK..THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK..IT MAKES IT EASY..ANY QUESTIONS. MESSAGE ME..I CAN HELP YOU AND WANT TO..PEACE!!!!
For a good life & meaning try Truth-savescom, also, Robert M. Price, ' The reason driven life ', also mindvendorcom & authentichappinessorg, richarddawkinsnet,
girls call me cute and i still have social anxiety. i get the best grades in class and i still have social anxiety. i just passed my driving test and i still have social anxiety. Arent these past events supposed to give me confidence. i just have no hope anymore... :(
@noobguy1234 Please don't give up, I promise you it's the anxious feelings that make you not able to enjoy these successes. You need to have successes socially, connecting with people, in order to feel confident. Well done on passing your driving test, and on getting the best grades, those are very worthwhile achievements! To feel confident, you need to push your comfort zone, but also KEEP TRYING to face the fear. PM me for any more advice, good luck and peace my friend.
I get very afraid of being in a place full of people, i just have this thought in my head that people are judging me and then boom! I start having nausea and light headed. At some times my face becomes extremely red and i start sweating uncontrollably.
I find this vid accurate. Living can be so hard when people see a normal looking person and can't understand why they are so unhappy or avoidant. Drugs help sometimes but I have yet to find any proper solution. Worry, worry, worry all the time.. no love for me, just a selfish lump of condensed pain always.
i suffer from SAD also.i dont like to start conversations,look people in the eye and i always think people dont like me.it totally blows.this girl on the video is really cute,and im not shy 2 say it
This video by far helped the most, I could never look people in the eye for more then 1 second. For years I've had this and did not even realize it. Recently I have self reflected and realized my issues. Every day now I'm born into a new existence...I'm actually living life, and socializing, bringing smiles to people's faces =D Just today I went to buy a book and chatted with the clerk for 30 MINUTES straight! It was a heck of a "marathon" but I was able to contribute and listen all because of u
you are very cute :) just like a doll i also suffer from social anxiety and im a man i been told im very cute but the personality is more important than looks
@MsSecretme101 no there is not really obvious "shying away" behavior, but there is extreme fear - which people with social anxiety can be very good at hiding - after all one of their biggest fears is people noticing them look afraid, so they have learned to control the showing of their fear quite well compared to others - yes i was afraid, but people can do things they are afraid of doing, even if they are shy, if they have a higher purpose bigger than themself.
@NoSocialAnxiety also i had been involved in recovery for awhile using various techniques, so was not a fully shy person that had never began recovery
That is so true. I've learned to hide my fear too. People always tell me I'm too relaxed... ha thats because they have no idea what's going on in my head.
Has anyone suggested the scientific approach? A Neurofeedback specialist can analyze the problem by looking at the brain activity. If you have severe activity causing your thoughts to race this will cause severe anxiety. Neurofeedback can unlock the brain. My son has had 26 sessions and is feeling extremely better.
You are gorgeous! I totally know where you are coming from. I've had SA for most of my life. This is such a great video. You're so brave for posting videos. Keep trying!
Don't mean to get you anxious, but you are very attractive!That is a distraction for me to any of your vids I've seen! I'm not sure using a mask would help either as your eyes alone are enough to do the damage :D
Do you realise the term 'social anxiety disorder' is in effect a manufactured pseudo-illness?
'Social anxiety disorder' was pushed by international PR agency Cohn and Wolfe in an award winning 1999 campaign to increase sales of Paxil. The campaign was titled “Imagine being allergic to people”
During the campaign there were over a billion references to 'social anxiety disorder' in the press as opposed to just 50 in 1997.
@incomprehensible1 I am not saying that mental illness of any type is unreal. My point was to demonstrate how this 'label' has been marketed by companies with the sole intention of increasing revenue and market share. Call me old fashioned but that concerns me.
@zekezero12345 in the 'dark ages' probably a lot of the same illnesses there are now, but they werent named, so they werent treated. i havent written that well, but to say that it is a 'pseudo illness' (theyre youre words) is disgraceful, and how can you treat something if you dont label and categorise it. labels work and are vital. forinstance, DIABETES ... its a label, it has symptoms... i'll guarantee you there was a time where there was no occurrences of it, because it wasnt named etc
Yea noone can tell you have social anxiety. You just look like another person in the crowd. Your just a damn grain of rice in a big bag of rice. Ppl don't have time to think about you. Good luck!
i cant even look anyone in the eyes because i feel like they are reading violent intent from my eyes.... i cant cross at a cross walk, because i beleive everyone is staring at me...and i get really angry...i have hard times walking into my own home, because i dont want to be looked at or talked to immediately...list goes on and on...I cant even talk to women...i feel like a joke...its forcing me into an alter ego of rage and violence to just embrace all the negativity and make it a reality.. :*(
why is it that there are so many people who suffer from social anxiety...there isn't even a single one in real life? I mean where are these people...i wish i could meet these people...i dont wanna be alone anymore
@interoma4evr There are everywhere. If you go outside for a day, even go to a grocery market or wherever, you're most likely gonna pass someone that has Social Anxiety but how would you know right? No one expects you to have it unless they know you personally..
"thing is its cute when a girl looks nervous and shy, im a guy with severe anxiety and i do all them things but it makes me look like a serial killer"
Er, no. I've been told I come off as a total stuck up bitch due to my social anxiety and I'm a girl. I've heard people talk crap on girls with social anxiety because it makes us seem like "cold bitches" lol, which sounds cool but it sucks to make friends when people think you're an arrogant stuck up snobby bitch.
visit my channel and just try to do "kapalbhati pranayam" under the guidance of baba ramdev. No medicine is the solution of this situation. Oxygen will cure this disease just do pranayam every day this type of situation occur due to low level of oxygen in the brain try every day i will bet every one who are commenting in this community its completely removable
SA is the dumbest thing, I have/ had it,really hard to get rid of. For me it kicked in when I was going places with my friends, I could just go worry all day and not have any fun. It get´s better when you get older . The main thing is to have friends who understand you, and get help at the earliest stage possible! And thumbs up for you doing this ! That´s the best way to go about it, front it , kick it in the face ;)
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That was... stupid. I find no point in this very useless video of you staring and trying to look pretty. Don't waste my time just because I have a life and you...? Thats what youtube videos are for, right?
I love that you are making these videos to try to help fellow SAers. I found that being public not only helped others, but helped myself get over my own fears.
I think it's great that you were able to post this to show people that you are still struggling with your own SA. Hope you are doing well. Keep up the good work!
such a great vid. There are so many ways to look at it :) like im not calling it Social Anxiety DISORDER anymore, its just a sensation in my body i get round ppl. Like fire. And fire isnt bad it keeps me Warm :) Fighting it doesnt help, so iam accepting it. AND its really starting to change everything. Accepting me by spending time with me and 'my fire' inside. Learning all this great stuff from ACT therapy or acceptance therapy its beautiful. peace in time
there are alot of peaple out there who feel the way you do.It can be hard sometimes not to worry about what others think.You need to ask your self who comes first you or others.Do what makes you happy ,and say what ever you want who cares what other peaple think.You should have more confedince as nice looken as you are.You should be sayen the guys want me and the girls are jelus cause im sure they are.
very beautiful you are. i don't have SA anymore(i think, but i still feel nervous in tight places with lots of people), but i'm kinda depressed so it might come back.
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wow nice. u have alot of guts 4 making this video while still suffering with an anxiety disorder. i also have social anxiety disorder an i wudn't be caught dead doin this lol u shud be very proud of urself =)
I'm positive many other people with social anxiety are watching your videos because of how pretty and smart you are, not to mention the great advice and support and humor you give.
I suffer with Social Anxiety myself, but at the same time I see my Introversion as a gift. Social Anxiety is only a problem if it stops you from living the life you want. Introversion is a personality trait in which people tend to be introspective and like spending time alone. I myself am actually highly introverted, although I do like company at times. I just hope you don't get shyness and introversion confused. Let no one tell you that it is bad to be introverted.
I have read in books that truth is strengthening and far more weightier than untruth.
You have proved this through this video.You are really courageous.This is most commonly experienced by S.A.D people.I too have this problem.I'm trying to improve myself and i get encouraged when i get helpful materials like this.Thanks a Lot.
what i find hard about this disorder is school , school is so bad for me i worry about lunch i think what if all these people think i am a loner or loser or weird for sitting by myself at school when i make a friend i only talk to one person who i keep close to then they start dominating me because i dont know how to stick up for myself and they start to treat me bad because i am so shy and easy to take advantage of , i have quit school i am all alone i hate this disorder it feels impossible
I don't think I appreciate seeing social anxiety being made into a joke. For those of us who do suffer from this serious problem, it is really no laughing matter.
@warder105 but I do take it seriously. If I didn't take it seriously, why would I make the other videos to share help with others with S.A?
My only intention with this video was so people with S.A could smile or laugh at me and feel better. It can be good for decreasing anxiety for seeing things lightly or with a sense of humor and not taking things seriously. It's an idea that helps me, but maybe it doesn't help others. So I'm sorry if it offended you, I didn't mean for that.
EMILY. YOU ARE A INSIRATION TO ME IAM A 29 YEAR OLD WOMEN WITH SOCIAL ANXIETY. AND I LOVE WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS BECAUSE YOU MAKE ME FEEL LIKE IAM NOT ALONE IN MY BATTLE WITH THIS. I WOULD LIKE TO BE FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE WITH SOICAL ANXIETY SO WE CAN OVERCOME IT, HELP EACH OTHER, AND SUPPORT ONE ANOTHER. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP GIRL, YOU DOING A GOOD JOB:)
@gemini29ism. Hi there, I'm a 26 year old man from England and I also have social phobias. I know how you feel, it can be a struggle sometimes just to get through a normal day but I think that half the battle is knowing that your not alone in the world. Feel free to send me any messages if you want to and to Emily....A huge thank you for these videos :)
Hello pretty girl! Nice make-up. Have you ever seen a psychiatrist? I mean, have you ever told anyone who is a professional in mental health? HUuuH? o_O Anyway, funny video, especially the "messy hair" part. HAHA ......... ha!
Great video I know what your going through. I have social anxiety disorder and it can be debilitating. It's good know there are others out there like me. Keep up the good work
My anxiety is so bad it inhibits me from living a healthy life. I spend so much time alone. I live in my head. I can go to work but besides that I spend my life at home. I wish I wasn't like this. The weird thing is it's been a downward sprial for the last 5 years or so. Retracting more and more in. Right now I feel as though I can't take it anymore. Something must change. My mind has talked itself out of even trying to get better. It's scary.
@IIemzyII I hear you .. it's a really nasty condtion to have .. I know it firsthand .. but at least you can go to work .. some people can't even do that and are forced to be unemployed .. those are really f===d
I like the way you show how silly it is...the things we think inside out heads and even though you are wwiggibg out...you look completly fine like not a care in the world...it true...thanks for making me smile about a not so smilely thing...:)
Hahaha Very funny , i discovered that i have S.a.d too , but it's getting under control now ... but i just love my life and the way i am ... good video ...
im more councious about my looks than perosnality.. because, i see myself only worth it if i were perfect, and i cant think another way
rockisbetter 1 day ago
u r shy at talking, but not at showing ur self, i suppose
u r pretty confident
but u dont talk well..
rockisbetter 1 day ago
@xBeautifulThingsx If you were bullied by other girls that can only mean that they were jealous of you. I was humiliated at work and that's what caused my anxiety. I can relate to not being able to talk to my family. When I say "bullshit" I'm talking about how magazines and the media try to tell people how they should look and act, etc, instead of just letting people be themselves. People put on an act because that's what they think they should be doing. The media is to blame.
chicks123 3 weeks ago
I think the media contributes to people having these disorders because they're always trying to show people how they should be and act, and if you don't act like the media wants you to act then you must have some problem. It's such bullshit.
chicks123 1 month ago
SAD is not something to joke about. People with SAD can have serious panic attacks. They're amazingly self-conscious and think all the time about all sorts of problems that very often have no direct relation to them at all.
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I admire how positive you are because its always good to stay positive in these situations
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you're too cute
Cassify06 1 month ago
I look scared talking to new people
JJJer14 1 month ago
man sum timez i luk like this and no1 notices cuz im hiding my fear but other times i hav panick attacks and its obvious
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knowing that you have the disorder is such a huge advantage.i suffered from SA with neurotic anxiety for 7 years..and i dont even know..well the recovery will really take time..and the only way to get rid of it is-- to get rid of it..i know its not easy.but thats the only way...just try to eliminate one symptom at a time or day..just start from the smaller ones to the big ones,,try to resist it..tell yourself that this is not normal..and therefore you ought to do the normal..always pray^^
38marga 1 month ago
thats soo me lol :(
pidigrimerde 1 month ago
Yup I have social anxiety
Mupp1t 1 month ago
@Mupp1t
take an arrow to the knee :D
CRAKIZGOOD 1 month ago
@CRAKIZGOOD Holy smokes I didn't expect to see you here...I actually do have Shyness / Social Anxiety, I'm afraid to tell my girlfriend that...
Mupp1t 1 month ago
This is exactly how it feels for me.
I can really relate to this. D:
Most people with social anxiety do not make it at all obvious, and everything happens in their mind. I do exactly what this girl does, stop talking and look around, getting lost in thought and worries.
EccentricMushroom 1 month ago
You look sweet. We should hang out :)
TheBlackStar999 2 months ago
this is hot
xtremefush 2 months ago
@usemycolors wow. dude...i mean, you just put my EXACT thoughts and my view on my life in a comment. let alone say..perfectly. im in the same shoes as you are... BUT. im tired of it. from this very moment, i will try my hardest to work on this, and accept my self as is. all i want from life is HAPPINESS. i don't care about money, or being successful...love, caring and hapiness is all that i've ever wanted. BUT did nothing to achieve them. this.will.now. CHANGE. because i can change it. so canyou
TheSpyChecker 2 months ago
FYI, I think you have a very warm and loving face.
scrapbook11 2 months ago
I think this woman is very beautiful...thank God for America!!
AceBoogie9eleven 2 months ago
@AceBoogie9eleven She is australian...
ChrisKroeger17 1 month ago
I think people are shy because others want them to be something they are not and make them feel uncomfortable for being themself
prettyyoungthing90 3 months ago
well, take it from me, that most people are shy/embarassed/worried/anxious because of 1 thing i find in most cases: They are worried if they are ugly or fat or whatever around other people. And you my girl, are not any of those at all. You are beautiful, dont even worry about what people think about, Ive got good taste lol and if I say you are fine, you are fine, if anyone else thinks not, they are fucking crazy.
unleasheth 3 months ago
the truth about it its like a embarrassing moment why now i gonna work to
saudi arabia some people there are not strick, plus i like to go to a very strange place that i meet stranger,im happy but i have awkward smile,i dont say it will result to bi polar disorder
im telling the truth even my family dies...its like all the people want a smile
and thats all they wanted,maybe 50/50,i never want to talk to anyone cause
i have this awkward smile,now my face is painful from time to time
rockwitchdrunk 3 months ago
i dont see you have severe social anxiety or you are not in public,i tell you the truth its hard for me to smile and i dont want anyone to see my awkward smile even a single visitor in my home,its like your performing your trap in your self,now tell me the truth if you have awkward smile,now i like talking serious topic like religious or spirituality,
rockwitchdrunk 3 months ago
please can u help? im 15 but look young for ym age and one day i was at my grandmas house and i thought'everyones looking at me' ' what if i do something wrong or act weird or pull weird faces' nd it was one day in july 2011 and now when i watch tv or have dinner in front of my mum or dad i get embarassed nd all that so i end up trying to act normal but i can't. i can tell that my mum nd dad are thinking ' whts she doing ?' and there really angry at me. have to older sisters at uni. please help
230896livs 4 months ago
@230896livs
I fully understand
truthoutmedia 3 months ago
ZOMG this girl is so shy maybe she is browsing pictures of Robert Pattinson staring to the camera
sinanzzz 4 months ago
I really did enjoy the really attractive girl, i do find the video interesting as it has a enlightning subject matter for me at least
hughmccorry1 4 months ago
Yeah one of my friends is telling me I'm kinda socially awkard......... I never even thought of me being that way but whatever. Haha
111Cut 4 months ago
i have the same thing but i leand how to cantrol my face but its hard how you do that??
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stripthatfatweightlo 5 months ago
the scene with the dog was sexy
FriendlyCroock 5 months ago
i KNOW THE CURE FOR SOCIAL ANXIETY...IT WAS SOOOO EASY FOR ME TO GET OVER IT..THATS WHY IM TYPING IN CAPS..I HAD THIS UP UNTIL MY 19 BIRTHDAY 2 WEEKS AGO...IF YOU TRULY WANT TO GET OVER THIS..UNDERSTAND THIS..AND I MEAN UNDERSTAND THIS...YOU MUST TALK TO PEOPLE..I KNOW ITS AQWARD BUT GUESS WHAT...EVERYONE IS UNCOMFORTABLE IN PUBLIC TO AN EXTENT...THE ONLY WAY TO GET OVER THIS IS TO TALK..THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK..IT MAKES IT EASY..ANY QUESTIONS. MESSAGE ME..I CAN HELP YOU AND WANT TO..PEACE!!!!
FLATFEET3 5 months ago
For a good life & meaning try Truth-savescom, also, Robert M. Price, ' The reason driven life ', also mindvendorcom & authentichappinessorg, richarddawkinsnet,
zytigon 5 months ago
girls call me cute and i still have social anxiety. i get the best grades in class and i still have social anxiety. i just passed my driving test and i still have social anxiety. Arent these past events supposed to give me confidence. i just have no hope anymore... :(
noobguy1234 5 months ago
@noobguy1234 Please don't give up, I promise you it's the anxious feelings that make you not able to enjoy these successes. You need to have successes socially, connecting with people, in order to feel confident. Well done on passing your driving test, and on getting the best grades, those are very worthwhile achievements! To feel confident, you need to push your comfort zone, but also KEEP TRYING to face the fear. PM me for any more advice, good luck and peace my friend.
milescend 5 months ago
ur so hawt. i could just kiss u. :)
Wowurgaylol 5 months ago
i lost my confident after im being fat..and always thinking bad about me n other people..hard for me to talk like other ;(
MissKimPikad 6 months ago
Making the video itself as a social phobia, I congratulate you for his courage.
kabatabak 6 months ago
the song made me smile. wow i aint heard that in YEARS! THANKS FOR POSTING
hairspeaks 6 months ago
@hairspeaks Aint? Are you from one of the confederate states?
UniverseOffspring 5 months ago
very purdy
spacedreams2111 6 months ago
@spacedreams2111 lol
UniverseOffspring 5 months ago
I get very afraid of being in a place full of people, i just have this thought in my head that people are judging me and then boom! I start having nausea and light headed. At some times my face becomes extremely red and i start sweating uncontrollably.
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theblange23 6 months ago
OMG girl this video is hitting the nail on the head =)
Stacey353 6 months ago
I find this vid accurate. Living can be so hard when people see a normal looking person and can't understand why they are so unhappy or avoidant. Drugs help sometimes but I have yet to find any proper solution. Worry, worry, worry all the time.. no love for me, just a selfish lump of condensed pain always.
fetalbetal 6 months ago
cute!!
Jontemaaa 6 months ago
I am a very ugly guy with no social anxiety, maybe I should get it.
pingtran 7 months ago
i do eye contact but i cant talk so they think im Autistic coz autism and social anxiety are pretty similar
celtic4ever18 7 months ago
O.k you're making me blush:)
acevamp 7 months ago 2
You are so pretty. ~Dont Worry, be Happy.
pingtran 7 months ago
@pingtran social anxiety isnt bad if you are a girl coz men shouldnt have this they are supposed to be outgoing and crazy
celtic4ever18 7 months ago
i am a very handsome guy with Social Anxiety
drunkenp0t 7 months ago 2
@drunkenp0t yeah also me i have beautiful icy blue eyes i look like sid from skins with tony eyes haha
celtic4ever18 7 months ago
Social anxiety girl is a CUTIEE :)
codemiesterbeats 7 months ago
i suffer from SAD also.i dont like to start conversations,look people in the eye and i always think people dont like me.it totally blows.this girl on the video is really cute,and im not shy 2 say it
threet777 7 months ago
This video by far helped the most, I could never look people in the eye for more then 1 second. For years I've had this and did not even realize it. Recently I have self reflected and realized my issues. Every day now I'm born into a new existence...I'm actually living life, and socializing, bringing smiles to people's faces =D Just today I went to buy a book and chatted with the clerk for 30 MINUTES straight! It was a heck of a "marathon" but I was able to contribute and listen all because of u
BlossomBarVideos 8 months ago 2
how can you look so lovely? i am in love with you, :)
phe2003 8 months ago
id like to give you a kiss x
andrew19vato 8 months ago
you are very cute :) just like a doll i also suffer from social anxiety and im a man i been told im very cute but the personality is more important than looks
celtic4ever18 8 months ago
I'm sorry but I don't see any shyness.
MsSecretme101 9 months ago 7
@MsSecretme101 no there is not really obvious "shying away" behavior, but there is extreme fear - which people with social anxiety can be very good at hiding - after all one of their biggest fears is people noticing them look afraid, so they have learned to control the showing of their fear quite well compared to others - yes i was afraid, but people can do things they are afraid of doing, even if they are shy, if they have a higher purpose bigger than themself.
NoSocialAnxiety 9 months ago 35
@NoSocialAnxiety also i had been involved in recovery for awhile using various techniques, so was not a fully shy person that had never began recovery
NoSocialAnxiety 9 months ago 6
@NoSocialAnxiety you are BEAUTIFULLLLLLL i wish i could get to know you i live in california ......howbout you?
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ktcsca 7 months ago
That is so true. I've learned to hide my fear too. People always tell me I'm too relaxed... ha thats because they have no idea what's going on in my head.
ktcsca 7 months ago
sheew...sheew....shuuuuewww
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Has anyone suggested the scientific approach? A Neurofeedback specialist can analyze the problem by looking at the brain activity. If you have severe activity causing your thoughts to race this will cause severe anxiety. Neurofeedback can unlock the brain. My son has had 26 sessions and is feeling extremely better.
Diane9773 9 months ago
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modderbox 9 months ago
@modderbox Like me. But in order to get rid of it, you have to learn to do things like this. I may have to force myself one day. I wont like it.
spidercentz 9 months ago
@modderbox
[citation needed]
nervousneuron 7 months ago
You are gorgeous! I totally know where you are coming from. I've had SA for most of my life. This is such a great video. You're so brave for posting videos. Keep trying!
ambernc 9 months ago
you are so gorgeous.
truthoutmedia 9 months ago
Don't mean to get you anxious, but you are very attractive!That is a distraction for me to any of your vids I've seen! I'm not sure using a mask would help either as your eyes alone are enough to do the damage :D
Infinitpossibilities 9 months ago
Do you realise the term 'social anxiety disorder' is in effect a manufactured pseudo-illness?
'Social anxiety disorder' was pushed by international PR agency Cohn and Wolfe in an award winning 1999 campaign to increase sales of Paxil. The campaign was titled “Imagine being allergic to people”
During the campaign there were over a billion references to 'social anxiety disorder' in the press as opposed to just 50 in 1997.
(I am not trying to belittle any mental illness)
zekezero12345 10 months ago
@zekezero12345 its real, i live it every day
incomprehensible1 9 months ago
@incomprehensible1 I am not saying that mental illness of any type is unreal. My point was to demonstrate how this 'label' has been marketed by companies with the sole intention of increasing revenue and market share. Call me old fashioned but that concerns me.
zekezero12345 9 months ago
@zekezero12345
Right. Exactly what product do these companies market? Anti depressants do not cure social anxiety.
truthoutmedia 9 months ago
@zekezero12345 in the 'dark ages' probably a lot of the same illnesses there are now, but they werent named, so they werent treated. i havent written that well, but to say that it is a 'pseudo illness' (theyre youre words) is disgraceful, and how can you treat something if you dont label and categorise it. labels work and are vital. forinstance, DIABETES ... its a label, it has symptoms... i'll guarantee you there was a time where there was no occurrences of it, because it wasnt named etc
incomprehensible1 9 months ago
@zekezero12345 I wish you were right. Then I might actually have a job and not live with my parents.
spidercentz 9 months ago
Yea noone can tell you have social anxiety. You just look like another person in the crowd. Your just a damn grain of rice in a big bag of rice. Ppl don't have time to think about you. Good luck!
WhatsHappening783402 10 months ago
Great a song and a Beautiful Girl (Emily) = PERFECT.......!!!
Please keep posting your videos
fansmessi 10 months ago
THAT MUSIC IS AMAZING BEEEEE HAPPY!!!!!!!!!
RAZACHILD101 11 months ago
i cant even look anyone in the eyes because i feel like they are reading violent intent from my eyes.... i cant cross at a cross walk, because i beleive everyone is staring at me...and i get really angry...i have hard times walking into my own home, because i dont want to be looked at or talked to immediately...list goes on and on...I cant even talk to women...i feel like a joke...its forcing me into an alter ego of rage and violence to just embrace all the negativity and make it a reality.. :*(
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Lanii2000 1 year ago
why is it that there are so many people who suffer from social anxiety...there isn't even a single one in real life? I mean where are these people...i wish i could meet these people...i dont wanna be alone anymore
interoma4evr 1 year ago
@interoma4evr There are everywhere. If you go outside for a day, even go to a grocery market or wherever, you're most likely gonna pass someone that has Social Anxiety but how would you know right? No one expects you to have it unless they know you personally..
azncoolz 11 months ago
at least you don;t have to worry about people thinking your ugly.
tvver 1 year ago
thing is its cute when a girl looks nervous and shy, im a guy with severe anxiety and i do all them things but it makes me look like a serial killer
SpeedKing408 1 year ago
@SpeedKing408
"thing is its cute when a girl looks nervous and shy, im a guy with severe anxiety and i do all them things but it makes me look like a serial killer"
Er, no. I've been told I come off as a total stuck up bitch due to my social anxiety and I'm a girl. I've heard people talk crap on girls with social anxiety because it makes us seem like "cold bitches" lol, which sounds cool but it sucks to make friends when people think you're an arrogant stuck up snobby bitch.
666mamakoala 8 months ago
Thank you ^^ it made my day ^^
yumi1851 1 year ago
visit my channel and just try to do "kapalbhati pranayam" under the guidance of baba ramdev. No medicine is the solution of this situation. Oxygen will cure this disease just do pranayam every day this type of situation occur due to low level of oxygen in the brain try every day i will bet every one who are commenting in this community its completely removable
vivekapply 1 year ago
Ha funny and also true. Such a pretty girl too. You will get over it completely, don't worry be happy ! :)
MrXSpeaks 1 year ago
for the cure to this condition go see Charles Linden then go see Paul Mckenna job done. really it is removeable. TOTALLY REMOVEABLE.
rico46davis 1 year ago
@rico46davis dont you have to buy all those books from them or w.e
azncoolz 11 months ago
@azncoolz what price do you put on freedom?
rico46davis 11 months ago
SA is the dumbest thing, I have/ had it,really hard to get rid of. For me it kicked in when I was going places with my friends, I could just go worry all day and not have any fun. It get´s better when you get older . The main thing is to have friends who understand you, and get help at the earliest stage possible! And thumbs up for you doing this ! That´s the best way to go about it, front it , kick it in the face ;)
eeemanjam 1 year ago
I can deal with the video and the pretty girl, I just don't know if I can deal with the music.
troydeancarpenter 1 year ago 17
I want you
twilightdimension 1 year ago
Itsz funn laughing at myself:)
XsoEmiXD 1 year ago
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That was... stupid. I find no point in this very useless video of you staring and trying to look pretty. Don't waste my time just because I have a life and you...? Thats what youtube videos are for, right?
dazzlinglifeshow 1 year ago
I love that you are making these videos to try to help fellow SAers. I found that being public not only helped others, but helped myself get over my own fears.
I think it's great that you were able to post this to show people that you are still struggling with your own SA. Hope you are doing well. Keep up the good work!
RomeoAnddotdotdot 1 year ago
thats what i have to deal with my self everyday...
kitty2010857 1 year ago
such a great vid. There are so many ways to look at it :) like im not calling it Social Anxiety DISORDER anymore, its just a sensation in my body i get round ppl. Like fire. And fire isnt bad it keeps me Warm :) Fighting it doesnt help, so iam accepting it. AND its really starting to change everything. Accepting me by spending time with me and 'my fire' inside. Learning all this great stuff from ACT therapy or acceptance therapy its beautiful. peace in time
MrSunnymad 1 year ago
will u marry me??
MrPhon1984 1 year ago
there are alot of peaple out there who feel the way you do.It can be hard sometimes not to worry about what others think.You need to ask your self who comes first you or others.Do what makes you happy ,and say what ever you want who cares what other peaple think.You should have more confedince as nice looken as you are.You should be sayen the guys want me and the girls are jelus cause im sure they are.
w186mo214 1 year ago
I hate this singing and whistling. I hope that song dies as soon as possible.
TheZa1994 1 year ago
@TheZa1994 the song rocks xD
uros160 1 year ago
haha @ 0:30 know exactly what you mean. all these irrational things to worry about that dont fucking matter!!! Make it stop!!!!!
CantWeedThis 1 year ago
um...i just fell in love with you...sorry about that
karp821 1 year ago
very beautiful you are. i don't have SA anymore(i think, but i still feel nervous in tight places with lots of people), but i'm kinda depressed so it might come back.
thebeginner15 1 year ago
awww you look so beautiful.. love the video
TSBNT 1 year ago
cute vid.
You've got really nice eyes btw.
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johnnyolsen100 1 year ago
I'm shy and I didn't get this at all...
jazzoidz 1 year ago
how can i get this song?.. :)
BrendaRyleigh 1 year ago
good video + song
sl2mmer 1 year ago
great vid
danndan6 1 year ago
your so cute.
fear946 1 year ago
socialphobiaplanetdotcom :)
AimeebabyUK 1 year ago
wow nice. u have alot of guts 4 making this video while still suffering with an anxiety disorder. i also have social anxiety disorder an i wudn't be caught dead doin this lol u shud be very proud of urself =)
Pmike2345 1 year ago
The best video ever on youtube, bravo I loved it, very well done. I will watch again before I go to bed.
vaxantiques 1 year ago
just letting you know, your so beautiful.
I'm positive many other people with social anxiety are watching your videos because of how pretty and smart you are, not to mention the great advice and support and humor you give.
woodwhips 1 year ago
Sounds like myself
slick5066 1 year ago
i worry all the time
Hummers222 1 year ago
very creative.
58mohit 1 year ago
Don't be happy, worry.
GaryNull 1 year ago
Hello ..loved the video....this is what social phobia done to me if you check me out
PluckingTranny 1 year ago
your very beautiful you look like you have a gental heart
SoraInuyashaAsh 1 year ago 12
@SoraInuyashaAsh thank you. You are awesome! :)
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
@NoSocialAnxiety awww thank you Miss Angel your videos cheer me up
SoraInuyashaAsh 1 year ago
@NoSocialAnxiety
I suffer with Social Anxiety myself, but at the same time I see my Introversion as a gift. Social Anxiety is only a problem if it stops you from living the life you want. Introversion is a personality trait in which people tend to be introspective and like spending time alone. I myself am actually highly introverted, although I do like company at times. I just hope you don't get shyness and introversion confused. Let no one tell you that it is bad to be introverted.
CybernautZero 1 year ago
@NoSocialAnxiety I agree, you're very beautiful and look like you have a great vagina, I mean gentle heart.
UniverseOffspring 5 months ago
I have read in books that truth is strengthening and far more weightier than untruth.
You have proved this through this video.You are really courageous.This is most commonly experienced by S.A.D people.I too have this problem.I'm trying to improve myself and i get encouraged when i get helpful materials like this.Thanks a Lot.
cooltej03 1 year ago
what i find hard about this disorder is school , school is so bad for me i worry about lunch i think what if all these people think i am a loner or loser or weird for sitting by myself at school when i make a friend i only talk to one person who i keep close to then they start dominating me because i dont know how to stick up for myself and they start to treat me bad because i am so shy and easy to take advantage of , i have quit school i am all alone i hate this disorder it feels impossible
passdedutch 1 year ago
@RefurbishedBrain *hug* :)
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
I don't think I appreciate seeing social anxiety being made into a joke. For those of us who do suffer from this serious problem, it is really no laughing matter.
- Just a thought.
warder105 1 year ago
@warder105 but I do take it seriously. If I didn't take it seriously, why would I make the other videos to share help with others with S.A?
My only intention with this video was so people with S.A could smile or laugh at me and feel better. It can be good for decreasing anxiety for seeing things lightly or with a sense of humor and not taking things seriously. It's an idea that helps me, but maybe it doesn't help others. So I'm sorry if it offended you, I didn't mean for that.
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
@NoSocialAnxiety
I just watched your other videos. I'm sorry I was so quick to judge. Keep it up.
warder105 1 year ago
EMILY. YOU ARE A INSIRATION TO ME IAM A 29 YEAR OLD WOMEN WITH SOCIAL ANXIETY. AND I LOVE WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS BECAUSE YOU MAKE ME FEEL LIKE IAM NOT ALONE IN MY BATTLE WITH THIS. I WOULD LIKE TO BE FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE WITH SOICAL ANXIETY SO WE CAN OVERCOME IT, HELP EACH OTHER, AND SUPPORT ONE ANOTHER. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP GIRL, YOU DOING A GOOD JOB:)
gemini29ism 1 year ago
@gemini29ism thank you! I am glad <3
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
@gemini29ism. Hi there, I'm a 26 year old man from England and I also have social phobias. I know how you feel, it can be a struggle sometimes just to get through a normal day but I think that half the battle is knowing that your not alone in the world. Feel free to send me any messages if you want to and to Emily....A huge thank you for these videos :)
simtube83 1 year ago
@simtube83 thank you. You are wonderful! :)
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
I like this video because you took your profile picture from this video.
MrTransam1987 1 year ago
@MrTransam1987 hahahaha XD
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
@MrTransam1987 he he he :)
MrTransam1987 1 year ago
i'm wandering if i should go to bandcamp or not. i'v played tuba for 3 years and placed 4th chair in state btw.
simulation17 1 year ago
the guy who wrote this song originally committed suicide.
Toro953 1 year ago
your very preety :)
twinkletoesstar 1 year ago
@twinkletoesstar Thank you :)
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
This made me smile :)
jebusiscoming 1 year ago
@jebusiscoming I am glad of that! :)
NoSocialAnxiety 1 year ago
you DTF?
xlr8ation1 1 year ago
damn your hot do you have a boyfreind
hanamid 1 year ago
Have you tried meditation to alleviate your anxiety?
CleverDjembe 1 year ago
I found a way to overcome my S.A.D .....being arrogant, and you are sexy.
GaryK425 1 year ago
Nice video
btw you are beautiful
xSherKhanx 1 year ago
Nice video!
Whats the name of the song? :)
teststudent3 1 year ago
Hello pretty girl! Nice make-up. Have you ever seen a psychiatrist? I mean, have you ever told anyone who is a professional in mental health? HUuuH? o_O Anyway, funny video, especially the "messy hair" part. HAHA ......... ha!
youtuba87 1 year ago
Great video I know what your going through. I have social anxiety disorder and it can be debilitating. It's good know there are others out there like me. Keep up the good work
PLMOFT 1 year ago
lol found it .. it's by 'holly dolly' the singing donkey from italy .. arranged by Luca Ontino, Barbara Tanzini, Valentina Dante and DJ Satomi
steelermia 1 year ago
Realli funni! i kno EXACTLY what u are going thru
Nautii20 1 year ago
My anxiety is so bad it inhibits me from living a healthy life. I spend so much time alone. I live in my head. I can go to work but besides that I spend my life at home. I wish I wasn't like this. The weird thing is it's been a downward sprial for the last 5 years or so. Retracting more and more in. Right now I feel as though I can't take it anymore. Something must change. My mind has talked itself out of even trying to get better. It's scary.
IIemzyII 1 year ago
@IIemzyII I hear you .. it's a really nasty condtion to have .. I know it firsthand .. but at least you can go to work .. some people can't even do that and are forced to be unemployed .. those are really f===d
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relictv 1 year ago
I like the way you show how silly it is...the things we think inside out heads and even though you are wwiggibg out...you look completly fine like not a care in the world...it true...thanks for making me smile about a not so smilely thing...:)
TheGoobeee 1 year ago
I sometimes get scared when a plane passes overhead too.
pimpthemhos 1 year ago
Hahaha Very funny , i discovered that i have S.a.d too , but it's getting under control now ... but i just love my life and the way i am ... good video ...
FaCaranga 1 year ago
this may be a dumb question but .. who sings this version ?
steelermia 2 years ago