People look at porn the way they look at Celeb magazines, we look at their lifestyles and want to hav sum of wot they hav, if not all, we want to b like them. But to us everyday people its Not real. The same with porn, not how sex really is in reality of a couple. like wen a guy starts a family the woman he is with and luvs, becomes the mother of his children, so sum men will find it hard to look at their partner as a sexual desire, and in sum cases turn to porn. Its just how it is.
@RaikenXion - Pornography can be many things to different people, but all these things are addictive in nature. Pornography enters through the eyes, triggers the neurotransmitters in the brain releasing dopamine and other neurochemicals that have no true or solidified meaning. These emotions are quick and fleeting, many professionals have compared these effects as similar to heroin or cocaine. This is why pornography can be intensely addictive and why many are looking for solutions for recovery.
@innergold1000 I think the only true solutions and I will bare in mind there r a few out there, suited to different people. I think the only is simply to get out there and try talking to people, family, close friends, and if not these, psychiatrists. To help build a person's mind set. If more people just got out there and tried very hard to build a decent social life, this wud also help. Ofcourse many people r different, sumtimes this stems from childhood.
@RaikenXion - Living a healthy lifestyle, spiritually, emotionally, physically and mentally is one of the best things people can do. Many fall because they allow their lives to get off balance. Balance is key and that is what we are helping people do, find balance. Thanks for the comment.
@innergold1000 Yeh I'll agree people do need balance as you say in their lives and this is very hard to attain for many people. We're all different, sum people turn to religion, others turn to alcohol. I think talking is important, but if a person has no1 to talk to (and many r in this situation), then it can b hard for them to find help.
@RaikenXion - You are correct and that is why we have put together an online forum that focuses on sexual addiction issues. We have several blogs that focus on porn addiction and provide help aids. Please help spread the word. We are here to help. Thank you.
@dandyd032000 - Thanks for subscribing to our addiction videos. We really appreciate the support. We also appreciate you taking the time to post a comment. We have responded via PM. We answer every question but it does take time, that is the purpose of our forum. The group helps each other. If you want immediate answers to your questions, you would need to purchase our treatment system to have access to the private email group.
@mrawesome1797 - It is very destructive and distorts reality. Many individuals say they wished they never looked at one photo because it is forever engrained in their brain and they can't get it out of their mind so it interrupts their life on a regular basis.
Hi Gordon, I am an LAC out of Arizona and have been looking for a resource like yours for clients for some time. Is your treatment manual on Amazon? This is an exciting and helpful find.
@incarnadinelifestyle - We just started training therapists how to use the InnerGold system. If you are interested, let me know by sending an email from our site.
I have been watching porn since I was about 12/13, now I am 22. I have tried stopping watching porn for about a year now but i always end up binging and then becoming very depressed after the binge. I hate living like this.
The only way to stop watching pornography is by listening to music. I know it sounds silly but it works for me when I have the desire to watch it. I just stop, think and put on some tunes that lifts my spirit, not religious music but good music!
@RealHipHopTunes - music, as long as it is uplifting and positive, can be very beneficial. We are glad that you have discovered this. Wish you the best.
@SilverGalford I would just encourage you to watch as many of our videos about addiction and sign up for our forum (innergold org) and than ask any additional questions you may have.
@shazusa2000 We are glad that you are learning how to manage your addiction, if you learn the language of recovery, soon you will find greater control and mastery.
@HaggenPagan26 We honestly wished more people could do this but unfortunately the majority of people struggling with this addiction, have been unable to. Congratulations for having the discipline.
I found the CURE for addiction and I have proof for this claim. Click on my name and witness Powerful Stories of Freedom. I personally know and have witnessed over 100 addicts who have found True and Lasting FREEDOM after being enslaved by their addictions for so long. I have been through many programs for my addiction, but have never found so much Hope, Joy, Peace, and Love than I have in the program I am in now. And the people I know who have given their stories are experiencing the same!
I need to stop watching porn -Its not that I care about what anybody else says about it - Its the fact that most of the time Im watching a lesser man with one or more women who act as though there having sex for me.
@baosj I realize Iv been addicted to porn and sex from the day I discovered my old brother Playboy's at 9 yr old. Always seeking perfection, my first marriage was to a beauty queen and ended when I finally gave in to temptation and had back to back one night stands.
It was not sex but beauty I am addicted to and though I can say I have experienced everyone of my sexual fantasies, now at 48 those memories only fuel my addiction even more. Only now I accept its an addiction I have no answer for
@antonio030562 Sexual addiction issues are the hardest to learn to manage because by nature we need sexuality to survive. The fact that you are recognizing this as an addiction will help you to start to learn to manage it. Here is our site with a lot of free resources to help you towards long-term sobriety and management.
Crushing the desire to view porn is using will power and will power works only so long. You are combining faith and will power and recognizing your nothingness without God which is powerful. Some people this is all they need others also need a little more help. Congratulations for being able to do this without additional help.
I find meditating about the part of the brain that controls addicts and telling it that I am the boss, helps. I tell it right when I recognize a trigger i.e "that the beer commerical with the hot girl or the stress of work or my depression just tigger the hippo part of my brain and beware."
Thank you for the all videos Innergold. This is very informative on how the brain works. I kept wondering why people relapse so easily and why people kept doing something that ruin theirs life and the lives of people who love them. May all addicts be free from suffering and good luck.
People look at porn the way they look at Celeb magazines, we look at their lifestyles and want to hav sum of wot they hav, if not all, we want to b like them. But to us everyday people its Not real. The same with porn, not how sex really is in reality of a couple. like wen a guy starts a family the woman he is with and luvs, becomes the mother of his children, so sum men will find it hard to look at their partner as a sexual desire, and in sum cases turn to porn. Its just how it is.
RaikenXion 2 months ago
@RaikenXion - Pornography can be many things to different people, but all these things are addictive in nature. Pornography enters through the eyes, triggers the neurotransmitters in the brain releasing dopamine and other neurochemicals that have no true or solidified meaning. These emotions are quick and fleeting, many professionals have compared these effects as similar to heroin or cocaine. This is why pornography can be intensely addictive and why many are looking for solutions for recovery.
innergold1000 2 months ago
@innergold1000 I think the only true solutions and I will bare in mind there r a few out there, suited to different people. I think the only is simply to get out there and try talking to people, family, close friends, and if not these, psychiatrists. To help build a person's mind set. If more people just got out there and tried very hard to build a decent social life, this wud also help. Ofcourse many people r different, sumtimes this stems from childhood.
RaikenXion 2 months ago
@RaikenXion - Living a healthy lifestyle, spiritually, emotionally, physically and mentally is one of the best things people can do. Many fall because they allow their lives to get off balance. Balance is key and that is what we are helping people do, find balance. Thanks for the comment.
innergold1000 2 months ago
@innergold1000 Yeh I'll agree people do need balance as you say in their lives and this is very hard to attain for many people. We're all different, sum people turn to religion, others turn to alcohol. I think talking is important, but if a person has no1 to talk to (and many r in this situation), then it can b hard for them to find help.
RaikenXion 2 months ago
@RaikenXion - You are correct and that is why we have put together an online forum that focuses on sexual addiction issues. We have several blogs that focus on porn addiction and provide help aids. Please help spread the word. We are here to help. Thank you.
innergold1000 2 months ago
Inner gold I tried going to your blog but you guys mostly ignored me
dandyd032000 2 months ago
@dandyd032000 - Thanks for subscribing to our addiction videos. We really appreciate the support. We also appreciate you taking the time to post a comment. We have responded via PM. We answer every question but it does take time, that is the purpose of our forum. The group helps each other. If you want immediate answers to your questions, you would need to purchase our treatment system to have access to the private email group.
innergold1000 2 months ago
innergold:Welcome
ameliamay24 2 months ago
innergold1000:Your nice.
ameliamay24 2 months ago
@ameliamay24 - Thank you!
innergold1000 2 months ago
What's so bad about it
mrawesome1797 7 months ago
@mrawesome1797 - It is very destructive and distorts reality. Many individuals say they wished they never looked at one photo because it is forever engrained in their brain and they can't get it out of their mind so it interrupts their life on a regular basis.
innergold1000 2 months ago
No wonder that one day, I'll be single again:)
I can't stand having a partner who finds his satisfaction with porn than the real one...
Obviously, no matter what I do...it's no sense at all...Lucky me!
143Sponge 8 months ago
@143Sponge - Don't give up hope. Not everyone is a porn addict.
innergold1000 8 months ago
@innergold1000 Thanks a lot...I hope there's one for me out there:)
143Sponge 8 months ago
Hi Gordon, I am an LAC out of Arizona and have been looking for a resource like yours for clients for some time. Is your treatment manual on Amazon? This is an exciting and helpful find.
incarnadinelifestyle 9 months ago
@incarnadinelifestyle - We have our book, "The Language of Recovery" on Amazon.
innergold1000 9 months ago
@incarnadinelifestyle - We just started training therapists how to use the InnerGold system. If you are interested, let me know by sending an email from our site.
innergold1000 8 months ago
Do you think instead of quitting cold turkey, it might be best to just allow myself to watch it once every 2 weeks or some reasonable schedule ?
MrAusty 9 months ago
@MrAusty - We think it's best to commit to recovery with full intent of heart.
innergold1000 9 months ago
I have been watching porn since I was about 12/13, now I am 22. I have tried stopping watching porn for about a year now but i always end up binging and then becoming very depressed after the binge. I hate living like this.
MrAusty 9 months ago
@MrAusty - For additional support go to our forum, which is dedicated to helping individuals struggling with sexual addiction issues. innergold org
innergold1000 9 months ago
@MrAusty - Don't give up! It takes time learning how to manage our addictive voice. You can obtain long-term sobriety. Don't Give Up!
innergold1000 9 months ago
Is it true that 9/10 people have the odd look at porn?
lovesnooker2010 10 months ago
@lovesnooker2010 - not sure what your question is, "odd look at porn"?
innergold1000 10 months ago
jesus said cut off your right hand.
superpleiadian 11 months ago
The only way to stop watching pornography is by listening to music. I know it sounds silly but it works for me when I have the desire to watch it. I just stop, think and put on some tunes that lifts my spirit, not religious music but good music!
RealHipHopTunes 1 year ago
@RealHipHopTunes - music, as long as it is uplifting and positive, can be very beneficial. We are glad that you have discovered this. Wish you the best.
innergold1000 1 year ago
@SilverGalford I would just encourage you to watch as many of our videos about addiction and sign up for our forum (innergold org) and than ask any additional questions you may have.
innergold1000 1 year ago
I used to do everyday Porn+Masturbation, Thanks God now I do once a month
shazusa2000 1 year ago
@shazusa2000 We are glad that you are learning how to manage your addiction, if you learn the language of recovery, soon you will find greater control and mastery.
innergold1000 1 year ago
@HaggenPagan26 You are correct. These questions are really valuable and really help addicts process their addictive behavior.
innergold1000 1 year ago
@HaggenPagan26 We honestly wished more people could do this but unfortunately the majority of people struggling with this addiction, have been unable to. Congratulations for having the discipline.
innergold1000 1 year ago
I found the CURE for addiction and I have proof for this claim. Click on my name and witness Powerful Stories of Freedom. I personally know and have witnessed over 100 addicts who have found True and Lasting FREEDOM after being enslaved by their addictions for so long. I have been through many programs for my addiction, but have never found so much Hope, Joy, Peace, and Love than I have in the program I am in now. And the people I know who have given their stories are experiencing the same!
mdcombs79 1 year ago
AWESOME VIDEO!!!!!!!!!THIS GUY IS KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT IS GOING ON IN THE BRAIN OF AN ADDICT!!!!!!!!!!!!
123williamfr 1 year ago
Once a year... My cycle was once every 2-3 days when I was really deep into my addiction.
feedtherightwolf 1 year ago
I need to stop watching porn -Its not that I care about what anybody else says about it - Its the fact that most of the time Im watching a lesser man with one or more women who act as though there having sex for me.
dinitis 1 year ago
@baosj I realize Iv been addicted to porn and sex from the day I discovered my old brother Playboy's at 9 yr old. Always seeking perfection, my first marriage was to a beauty queen and ended when I finally gave in to temptation and had back to back one night stands.
It was not sex but beauty I am addicted to and though I can say I have experienced everyone of my sexual fantasies, now at 48 those memories only fuel my addiction even more. Only now I accept its an addiction I have no answer for
antonio030562 2 years ago
@antonio030562 Sexual addiction issues are the hardest to learn to manage because by nature we need sexuality to survive. The fact that you are recognizing this as an addiction will help you to start to learn to manage it. Here is our site with a lot of free resources to help you towards long-term sobriety and management.
innergold1000 2 years ago
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solomonii0 2 years ago
Crushing the desire to view porn is using will power and will power works only so long. You are combining faith and will power and recognizing your nothingness without God which is powerful. Some people this is all they need others also need a little more help. Congratulations for being able to do this without additional help.
innergold1000 2 years ago
I find meditating about the part of the brain that controls addicts and telling it that I am the boss, helps. I tell it right when I recognize a trigger i.e "that the beer commerical with the hot girl or the stress of work or my depression just tigger the hippo part of my brain and beware."
digitalpenciler 2 years ago
Meditation is powerful!
innergold1000 2 years ago
Thank you for the all videos Innergold. This is very informative on how the brain works. I kept wondering why people relapse so easily and why people kept doing something that ruin theirs life and the lives of people who love them. May all addicts be free from suffering and good luck.
digitalpenciler 2 years ago
Your welcome. We are glad we were able to help you understand how addiction works. Hopefully this will help you know how you can help others.
innergold1000 2 years ago
nice video it is useful
nmania03 2 years ago
Can someone please post more videos of this guy POST THE EXERCISES Or something I need fucking help
huggiehuggie1 2 years ago 20
We will be posting more videos soon. Best!
innergold1000 2 years ago
Me too -I watch porn and know I shouldnt.
dinitis 1 year ago
Thanks for posting the video
banaras1 3 years ago 9