Heard all this before but you are sooooooooooooooo right i keep talking myself to doing it because i think it might solve alot of the stickin points but dam its so hard to start this crazyness
The fear of rejection comes from fear of being rejected by the tribe or village, which would mean certain death. I don't like the advice of looking to get rejected, it focuses on a negative outcome. Better to focus on something positive, such as challenging yourself to talk to every hot girl you see. Some rejection will happen from doing that, and you will also create the frame that you can talk to hot women, which is a very strong frame.
Practicing does work. Today I saw a pretty girl with her boyfriend and I knew she'd reject me if I asked her out in front of him so I went up and asked if she wanted to grab a cup of coffee, then he pulled out a pistol and shot me in the stomach. It does work, I felt the butterflies all coming out and now I'm sure next time when it's just a girl by herself I'll have way more confidence. Thank you, my pivot.
LOL it doesnt help at all when you know you're going to get rejected. Trust me. I do things like that for fun with my friends, but it's not the same at all
Hi coleen! I've just subscribed to you, I like very much your tips.. they're kind of unique! And you're such a gorgeous girl, thank you for posting videos here on youtube! (:
thats the same song in your video that gets me pumped up too! but its well overplayed and i never wanna hear it much now haha. I like Kings of leon - Sex on Fire, Transplants - Diamonds and guns. and even then those are examples of bands I normally listen to despite the fact my "default" or "prefered music genre" is Metal. hahah
If you're not going to take advice from a hot girl, then dont even bother watching her videos. She know's what she's talking about. Who are you though, a guy who's subscribed to these videos, and then telling guys who not to do?
i first got rejected when i was with my friends during haloween and was walking around town in a custume....instead of going house to house i go girl to girl for trick or treat..my treat = their numbers....my trick? coin rolling..lame? i guess so..but ive got my fair share of rejections that night but ohwell...no man can get everything he wants....he gets everything he needs.
saw you longboarding in the last vid. gotta say thats pretty damn awesome. Its hard to find girls that longboard here in michigan. Damn i need to move to cali.
the more i get reject it never gets easier for me, im sure you dont get rejected much do you?
my aapproach was never direct, i used to listen and talk to them, but i just ended up being there friend and the girl would end up going with a guy she met for 5mins of a saturday night just because he looks like brad pitt or something.
i know i sound like a bit of a loser but my relationship life is a sad tale lol
Thanks for the advice but i could never hit a women lol even tho if a guy had got me as angry as they did sometimes id be tempted to forget my moral stature
Death is guaranteed and in the future far away from now. Rejection is always around the corner or whenever you put yourself out there so it's a more pressing "fear" so obviously people fear it more. This isn't rocket science but basic common sense. 0.001c from this comment but every little bit helps corporate America & those who sell out to it but ask for a public option and you're a communist.
No wonder China will overtake us.
See how I can turn a video on inane pick up tips to current events
Yes, Colleen, you're definitely right that most guys are cowards when it comes to talking to girls. However, often the guys that aren't cowards are massive tools, and that, along with the fear of rejection, is another reason why many guys don't approach beautiful women. I don't want to be a massive tool with a pickup line!
Also, this is all easy for a gorgeous girl like yourself to say...
Coward is a harsh word, dont you think? I'm not a friggin coward. I admit I have a fear of rejection, but still, coward is such a harsh word. That's why "us" people are "cowards" because we are too nice and we dont want to get rejected.
hottie! :)
r4bb1tr1pp3r 3 months ago
pftt,
i'm sure you get rejected and know what it feels like...
NOT
girls dont get rejected
guys do..
we have to take the initiative to ask a girl out..
hunter7754 4 months ago
Heard all this before but you are sooooooooooooooo right i keep talking myself to doing it because i think it might solve alot of the stickin points but dam its so hard to start this crazyness
DarkSimonX 4 months ago
PUMP UP THE JAM PUMP IT UP xD
Acnd12 6 months ago
@thepickupchick I don't even ask cuz my fear of rejection is bad could u plz help
tailsfan2498 6 months ago
Ok. Wana fly to Tennessee and get lunch with me
waitummwhat 8 months ago
thumbs up if you dont like the little commercial window because it cobers the boobs
bentigui 8 months ago
I think youre great ,the most unique, gorgeous looking girl on the net , everybody else looks like barbies sisters.
phunkyboy 9 months ago
nowadays rejection on fb = suicide :D
gtabro1337 9 months ago
What pumps me up ? My right hand...
HispanicImpression 1 year ago 7
The fear of rejection comes from fear of being rejected by the tribe or village, which would mean certain death. I don't like the advice of looking to get rejected, it focuses on a negative outcome. Better to focus on something positive, such as challenging yourself to talk to every hot girl you see. Some rejection will happen from doing that, and you will also create the frame that you can talk to hot women, which is a very strong frame.
anatole69 1 year ago
lol, why are you comparing a friend rejecting an offer for a piece of gum, to getting rejected by a girl?
thats 2 totally different situations and of course I wouldn't be devastated if he rejected the gum.
its 2 totally different situations.
I'd actually rather go my whole life without asking a girl out than getting rejected and having my feelings torn out.
Plus my social skills suck really bad
:P
hunter7754 1 year ago 18
@hunter7754 " I'd actually rather go my whole life without asking a girl out than getting rejected and having my feelings torn out".
Wow, that's the saddest fucking thing I've ever heard in my entire life.
elpibegustavo 5 months ago
@elpibegustavo
i know right?
hunter7754 4 months ago
süß aber dieses tschüß am ende klingt oberkacke ^^
cinestar2 1 year ago
I'm sure you get rejected all the time... ha not! Good advice though....
bkjeep 1 year ago
i would fuck that chick
lautaarmy 1 year ago 3
Benny Benassi - Satisfaction, Who's Your Daddy
Voodoo and Serano - Blood is pumping
MikelRysk 1 year ago
@MikelRysk nice songs!!! lol
DwankMob 1 year ago
great advice! =d
JohnathanG613 1 year ago
1:01 :X
RegiusCruor 1 year ago
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RegiusCruor 1 year ago
Practicing does work. Today I saw a pretty girl with her boyfriend and I knew she'd reject me if I asked her out in front of him so I went up and asked if she wanted to grab a cup of coffee, then he pulled out a pistol and shot me in the stomach. It does work, I felt the butterflies all coming out and now I'm sure next time when it's just a girl by herself I'll have way more confidence. Thank you, my pivot.
weversonman 1 year ago 4
My rejection muscle has a cramp.
RAMKING61 1 year ago
My videoresponse get me going! haha!
Pabstpabst 1 year ago
would u like to have me screw your pussy ? if u say "NO" am gonna fucking kill ya bitch !
yyin3061 1 year ago
my future forcast may contain mild alcoholism and moderate rejection... remember an unbrella. lol love your vid.
mrdaynne 1 year ago
Baby Hates Me - Danko Jones
Audioslave22 1 year ago
lol who vidded u at the part where u sang black eyed peas? lol Pervert..
TheJo1006 1 year ago
2,5 for boobs + 2,5 for ass = 5 stars :)
Achw3l 1 year ago 4
@Achw3l: Sorry Mate, you need to adjust your calculation. what equals a thumbs up? ;)
CJohnnyK 1 year ago
sexyy subb
standup91 1 year ago
lol you make me laugh, great advise, im gonna go get me some rejection!
1GOD1JESUS 1 year ago
"HERP DERP IM A WOMEN WHO LOOKED UP WHAT REJECTION MEANS"
you dumb bitch. *faceplant*
ebayporn123 1 year ago
her voice sucks
hcemdayan 1 year ago
Mcr black parade =)
zaktanowns123 1 year ago
great song
Dionuts 1 year ago
OMG, I'm gonna get sooo rejected! =D
Erilis666 1 year ago
i just tried that is it on the house thing and they barred me ... thanks colleen >_>
sweetiepenguinman 1 year ago 2
how do you know how much death hurts if...your dead?
and won't it depend on how you die or how badly you get rejected?
i'm not trying to be a smartass or anything, i actually wanna know
Zemoeldo 1 year ago
LOL it doesnt help at all when you know you're going to get rejected. Trust me. I do things like that for fun with my friends, but it's not the same at all
TeeJayHammer 1 year ago
"put it on, get out there and get rejected." LMFAO
UsmanAhmed2 1 year ago 2
Hey Colleen, what's your worst relational fear? Mine is meeting a guy in a reeeeeeally hot chicks body... kinda' like You j/k
sorry, respond to me already daaaangit!
TeddyRuxpinMomma 2 years ago
I just had to ask. how many times has a boy rejected you, and how many times have u rejected a boy.
alvitocabral 2 years ago
she prob rejects them for fun . tbh with her confidence how could she have trouble? ya know
codeman336 1 year ago 2
will you go out with me?...can't wait to have my first sure-fire rejection!
trip98765432 2 years ago
Thank you, i just subscribed, YOUR AMAZING, looking for idea's what i was doing wrong for a while, all these videos really helped,
Ps, is there many rejection i can try out ? i cant think of any on the spot
DallasT88 2 years ago
MMMMMM,NICE CULO.
colongil 2 years ago
she always says "tschüss" xD well,tschüss dann,viel spaß noch^^
Darkpoeticangel 2 years ago
@Darkpoeticangel Pretty sure she's saying "Cheers" lol, but I could be wrong.
JennyAMc 2 years ago
@JennyAMc well,I repeated the part a few times,and now I´m not sure about it.Cheers or tschüss o.O well, what ever :D
Darkpoeticangel 2 years ago
You also remind me of Keira Knightley. It's not the accent, it's your face at first glance!
CuprousChloride 2 years ago
Stand Tall by Epic Score. It's phenomenal!
CuprousChloride 2 years ago
Hehe, I got a pump song... Try looking for Endzeit on Youtube. :P
Serphilith 2 years ago
Hi coleen! I've just subscribed to you, I like very much your tips.. they're kind of unique! And you're such a gorgeous girl, thank you for posting videos here on youtube! (:
BlackLukeS 2 years ago
That is on of my pump songs too
animewarrior16 2 years ago
you are an angel
TheVeedubb 2 years ago
id like to do you. 094 453 22 14 call me.
Pravoizavlijesvijeta 2 years ago
i love your accent...:)
pforward07 2 years ago
your singing is terrible-stick to giving pickup advice ;)
badboybanton 2 years ago
lol you know Colleen.. not many people are that tough to be able to handle so many rejections lol
Boichuahsang 2 years ago 2
nice boobs!!!
jimb27774 2 years ago
...ur bouncing all over the place n i want to tackle u
kyleain 2 years ago
you are a killer and you are correct
mohamadgkhalil 2 years ago
what do u do in reall life talk back model seem pretty wiff the media stuff good on ya
my daughter sally in all that stuff movies modeling and now ios ENTERING MISS WORLD PAGENT GO SALLY ARNOTT 2010
markiss303 2 years ago
you're pretty fuckin hot
hitandrun782 2 years ago
This woman humour and advice is brilliant but her singing is painful to the ears lol
SirHappyThe1st 2 years ago
ok i ll start training right away. can i kiss you Coleen?
Vantir 2 years ago 3
thats the same song in your video that gets me pumped up too! but its well overplayed and i never wanna hear it much now haha. I like Kings of leon - Sex on Fire, Transplants - Diamonds and guns. and even then those are examples of bands I normally listen to despite the fact my "default" or "prefered music genre" is Metal. hahah
melung 2 years ago
a song that gets me pumped would probably be Pretty Fly for a White Guy by The Offspring
blakesoprito 2 years ago
Colleen, by the looks of these comments, theses guys will never learn!
Thegirlnextdoor42 2 years ago
why would you put on a song that you like then
go and get rejected that's retarded and it's a
little weird get advise on rejection from someone
as hot as you. a little less advise and a little more
tonight's gonna be a good good night on mute of
course.
takefiv 2 years ago
If you're not going to take advice from a hot girl, then dont even bother watching her videos. She know's what she's talking about. Who are you though, a guy who's subscribed to these videos, and then telling guys who not to do?
Thegirlnextdoor42 2 years ago
your telling people to go out and get comfortable with rejection. fear of rejection is a good thing.
if your not feeling a fear for rejection then your
not doing it right. a great acronym for fear is
"feeling excited and ready"
i get what your trying to say. do it once so the
mystery behind getting rejected holds no power.
but don't go out just to get rejected try to pick up a girl and "if" you get rejected be conscious of the
fact that it doesn't always happen unless your a dick.
sirussm 2 years ago
Good point about rejection , well I would like to lick your sweet ass and pussy , whats my chances ?
onetrashdancer 2 years ago
the problem is, my favorite song is 20 min long, and my second favorite song is 4 hours long, not really a song actually.
jazzman07 2 years ago
Symphony?
CleverDjembe 2 years ago
lol . alright. can I have ur number?
COAKLAND 2 years ago
shes got a CRAZY body
tinchoboy 2 years ago
i first got rejected when i was with my friends during haloween and was walking around town in a custume....instead of going house to house i go girl to girl for trick or treat..my treat = their numbers....my trick? coin rolling..lame? i guess so..but ive got my fair share of rejections that night but ohwell...no man can get everything he wants....he gets everything he needs.
deathoctober 2 years ago
hey lest fuck
Someone0like0me 2 years ago
guy- would you like to dance
girl- no
guy- I'm sorry. you must have miss heard me. i said your ass look big in that dress.
lol
cant remeber where i heard that. but theres a heap more.
zzzspina 2 years ago
Ready for the weekend by Calvin Harris, I just really like it.
TheGreyday 2 years ago
It really hurts emotionally to get rejected. And it's not easy or joyful to be a pick up artist, unless you're talented.
freestylesphynx 2 years ago
OKay wtf, lol The restraunt thing with the on the house, but why would you wanna go out and purposly be rejected?
tylerh1295 2 years ago
So pickupchick what's Ur cell # and msn? plz turn me down, this will help me a lot ;) Or just tell me what they are, that will help even MORE, heh
MistaQuake4 2 years ago 2
You are sexy as the come beautiful!
DynamicD10212 2 years ago
If a girl rejects you, it's best to insult her like her hair or weight and then leave the area quickly.
madmaxninja08 2 years ago
i like that..
good thoughts...
noelSinner221 2 years ago
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colleen do u wanna to suck my fucking dick?? lol
HowDoUFindMe 2 years ago
lol i gotta feelin...i love that song.
Simsom1 2 years ago
I've got the feeling that you don't get rejected pretty often, do you?
On the other hand I really think that you are right with this:
"The more you get rejected the less it will affect you"
masticore26 2 years ago 3
you definitly say jizz 1:09
kolbiie 2 years ago 3
she says bye in German >.>
jethyy 2 years ago
Will you have sex with me...Colleen?
pinkeyedtennisshoes 2 years ago 13
5 *s
Colleen, you give REALLY good advice. Confidence is the key. Here's hoping that your viewers take advantage of it..
DJP49 2 years ago 2
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I cry about this every night. thanks for the help.
yolkster007 2 years ago
Here's To Life by Streetlight Manifesto 'pumps me up'.
You should listen to it.
thepappytube 2 years ago
"Down Inside (Subterra & Dekko Remix)" by Adam Form is an epic song, youtube it.
Cheedillow 2 years ago
WOW YOUR FUCKEN REALLY BEAUTIFULL!!!
HJP1100 2 years ago 3
LOL, go out there and get rejected....LOL. Cassie by Flyleaf gets me pumped.
reallionaire2008 2 years ago
A super hot girl giving advice to guys on how to meet a girl and get laid. You don't see that every day ^_^
seanlaca 2 years ago
So this girl wants even more guys to ask her if she will have sex with them?
Wow, I should go look her up
waltermh111 2 years ago
"Take Me On" by A-ha pumps me up. There, I said it, darn it all. So sue me
Theegamedude 2 years ago
Love that song!
thepickupchick 2 years ago
Nic @S
omega2402 2 years ago
when she says 'fears' it sounds like 'fizz', when she says 'cheers' it sounds like 'jizz'... maybe its just my imagination or wishful thinking lol
djnapkin 2 years ago
when did she say cheers?
Gameinggames 2 years ago
her very last word?
djnapkin 2 years ago
she said tschüss not jizz lol
Gameinggames 2 years ago
tschüss
1. (informal) bye, cheers, ciao
djnapkin 2 years ago
:D I thought you thought she said cheers when she said tschüss. But also I didnt knew that cheers means tschüss. :D
Gameinggames 2 years ago
wana fuck? not afraid of rejection but you just might say yess!!!! :)
southsidebaby17 2 years ago
hot
npalardy 2 years ago
ur friggin hoooottt
trevz12345 2 years ago
saw you longboarding in the last vid. gotta say thats pretty damn awesome. Its hard to find girls that longboard here in michigan. Damn i need to move to cali.
jtyokomo 2 years ago
true story! love the ending hehe :-) keep rocking colleen
JuztPaultje 2 years ago
tschüss is german.
you can speak german? cool
werwolfisddoof 2 years ago
The next rocket scientist we have here.
Joppsta360 2 years ago
interesting.
shlomowinkler 2 years ago
As pitbull said.
I know you want me. you know I want ya.
^^
Nice vid
Cheburashka94 2 years ago
i like ur pump song its also one of my pump songs lol
mmthegirl0418 2 years ago
Wow, do us rits really sound like this? God, it's annoying.
demonicfurby 2 years ago
best vid ever.
thewishywashysound 2 years ago
getting away with murder - papa roach
best pump up song ever
linksminion13 2 years ago
IM IN LA TRICK lmfao
Sumguyoverthere 2 years ago
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doorsopen1943 2 years ago
do you want a piece of gammon?
aarondkeogh 2 years ago
love your vids...!!!! and your sexy accent!!
daniele952 2 years ago
u have nice boobs
Bishop1293 2 years ago 2
nice butt xDD
eldorond 2 years ago
was song was that?
Qunir 2 years ago
i gotta feeling blackeyepeas
eldorond 2 years ago
She's a smart girl this one.
JayTheSex 2 years ago
the more i get reject it never gets easier for me, im sure you dont get rejected much do you?
my aapproach was never direct, i used to listen and talk to them, but i just ended up being there friend and the girl would end up going with a guy she met for 5mins of a saturday night just because he looks like brad pitt or something.
i know i sound like a bit of a loser but my relationship life is a sad tale lol
kaleluk31 2 years ago 5
try being a bad boy
kanthPL 2 years ago
a bad boy? treat em mean dont work eather i dont think thats me
kaleluk31 2 years ago
cocky&funny then ?
kanthPL 2 years ago
yea u should have beaten her up.
madmaxninja08 2 years ago
Thanks for the advice but i could never hit a women lol even tho if a guy had got me as angry as they did sometimes id be tempted to forget my moral stature
kaleluk31 2 years ago
well that is why anglo men are closet gays or whimps.
madmaxninja08 2 years ago
tschüss
micpog90 2 years ago
Cool vid, great advice, lovely smile =)
DMSL2007 2 years ago 3
i'm ben and you can call me your divet.
swivelingchairguy 2 years ago
"Awsomest chick on youtube"
thatbrownguy 2 years ago
I like that song and Too Hot by Swollen Members!
RVD705 2 years ago
yea shake that ass
leumaschan 2 years ago
hoobastank - Inside of you
really cool song check it out
emonb0077 2 years ago
O.O hoooooot
Boneher4life 2 years ago
i love this chick
fazadeset 2 years ago
Ok then, would you like to come over I have a whole pack of gum? lol :P
booya62056 2 years ago
Or you get rejected so much that you write a suicide not and kill yourself. lol. Just sayin
Madblaster89 2 years ago
Memories by David Guetta ft. Kid Cudi.
good shit.
YTxManzini 2 years ago
Coleen, will you buy me a sammich:-P?
TheKingOfRuckus 2 years ago
So true.....
pernoy 2 years ago
same song haha
fbibfiles 2 years ago
i'd rather ask the girl if she wants a piece of gum, and have my friend tell me i suck
if you say its good for me...its gonna be a good, good night...mailing my tears to you
bphoru 2 years ago
really love 1:00, sizzling hot...
kim00909 2 years ago
i'm too afraid of rejection.
What are you persuing in LA?
drummerkid1993 2 years ago
Nice video, good advice.
fisher7654 2 years ago
Well, I'm not too afraid of rejection, because I've rejected many many times.
Domingo0022
PS: I've got real tough skin! :-)
Great video!
Domingo0022 2 years ago
You probably get this alot, but you have amazingly beautiful eyes. Just thought I'd drop a quick compliment between Youtubers :-)
mikeDJLP 2 years ago
I listen to death cab to pump myself up
CapumOfOuttaSpace 2 years ago
Death is guaranteed and in the future far away from now. Rejection is always around the corner or whenever you put yourself out there so it's a more pressing "fear" so obviously people fear it more. This isn't rocket science but basic common sense. 0.001c from this comment but every little bit helps corporate America & those who sell out to it but ask for a public option and you're a communist.
No wonder China will overtake us.
See how I can turn a video on inane pick up tips to current events
LotharioCasanova 2 years ago
youve got problems m515umc
drunkscanbefun 2 years ago
I tried to reject my dad but he raped me anyway :( now I have aids :**(
m515umc 2 years ago 3
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youve got problems
drunkscanbefun 2 years ago
Dad wins
sunkah 2 years ago
lmfao
kawnra 2 years ago
nice video
deadly1010P 2 years ago
nice video... seems liek a crazy idea, so it might work...
hellicus99 2 years ago
Thank you, woman.
IgnominiouZ 2 years ago
did you say jizz?
itsazy 2 years ago
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deadly1010P 2 years ago
nevermind
deadly1010P 2 years ago
I realized this a while ago when i asked out alot of girls and all of them said no lol Rejection doesnt bother me at all anymore.
robingshade 2 years ago
ok ill try it, thepickup chick, wanna have a snog?
nope sorry still feel like wanna cut my wrists
kaleluk31 2 years ago 3
Sorrry, distracted again by a busty girl on a bed.
fieldofgrass 2 years ago
all i heard was "im hot"
especially when she started dancing :0
lapolla88 2 years ago 2
Yes, Colleen, you're definitely right that most guys are cowards when it comes to talking to girls. However, often the guys that aren't cowards are massive tools, and that, along with the fear of rejection, is another reason why many guys don't approach beautiful women. I don't want to be a massive tool with a pickup line!
Also, this is all easy for a gorgeous girl like yourself to say...
afuchs1017 2 years ago 5
Coward is a harsh word, dont you think? I'm not a friggin coward. I admit I have a fear of rejection, but still, coward is such a harsh word. That's why "us" people are "cowards" because we are too nice and we dont want to get rejected.
Rebldoomer 2 years ago
By the way, Colleen thanks for the video ;D
Rebldoomer 2 years ago
cowardLY maybe?
afuchs1017 2 years ago