" I'll do mine " <----- First time through this whole thing I choked up really badly, dunno why, it was just so sincere and you can tell he really wants to try and be better, he really loves his family.
Incedible performances from all involved especially DT it must be so hard to act so differently when there is nothing wrong with you I love it when he is with joel at bedtime its exactly as you would picture David as a dad he will make some child very happy some day. If he's this good here the new drama he is doing called "Single Father" will be amazing !!! Good Luck David
I love the bit where he's with his son, and explaining what's wrong with him? If that makes sense. It's so cute and fatherly, and makes me smile because it's like he is on the mend, and he's trying :)
This is one of the most heartbreaking and frustrating films I've ever seen. There's such a lack of practical advice and support from EVERYONE around Tricia and Alan, and even when they can see that they can't cope ('he's on antidepressants, and I'm self-medicating') they just react angrily. And Alan's parents shouting in front of Joel is no good, and Alan's friend's speech about he's pathetic probably did more harm than good.
Alan's parents need to just shut the F up! They have NO idea what Tricia is going through... NO IDEA what it's like to have the shell of the person you once loved and who loved you walk around. His mom is just a b*tch - good for him he decided to stay with his family. You go, Alan!
yeah but richard hammond didn't wake up as a different person did he. he was fine and back on top gear soon. Alan woke up not as Tricia's husband but as someone else, someone Trish didn't recognise. you can't compare this to Richard Hammond. Every case of brain damage is different, you can't compare one to another.
You can't know what his wife thought of. And besides, just because someone hasn't been physically damaged doesn't mean that emotionally and mentally they're 100% okay. I mean I'm not excusing her but think how rough it's got to be on someone when the happy life they had before is ripped away from them. It can't be easy in any sense of the word.
Imagine your husband, your soulmate, or you dad turning into someone completely different. Someone who gets aggresive and then suddenly starts crying like a baby, someone who you have to care for all of a sudden...
Just 'cuddling' that person doesn't help!
This movie portrays those difficulties beautifully AND realistically...
I'd like to see all you people try to manage if something like this happens...
you're so right - not that that makes it "ok" to deal with it in a stupid way, but it is SO easy to judge and say "they should have dealt with it better", but when each day is just a struggle to cope, to not go mad - very few people would have the strength of character to get through that without doing or saying things when they "should know better".
I concur 100%! You took the words right from me. This movie takes an ambiguous, difficult, misunderstood topic and beautifully puts it into picture for those who don't understand.
I am definitely going to feel the effects/influence of this movie emotionally AFTER I finish watching it; I'm gonna cry then. I don't feel horrible now, cuz I'm too into the movie. Anyone have the same?
I hated the part where Tricia wanted to abandon him. I know she had been through alot and it is a very difficult situation. She took marriage vows for better or for worse. Life isn't easy. You can never predict what is going to happen, but you don't abandon your loved ones when they need you the most.
David looks so cute when hes with his "son" in bed near the end. I bet he'd make a great dad. A truly breathtaking actor. Sarah is also an amazing actress.
I'm fairly certain the very beginning - with the credits - was there to show you how amazing they actually were together before the accident, just to make the entire thing THAT much more painful and heartwrenching to watch.
She needs him, though. And while she's there trying to help him, he's totally unresponsive. I can't imagine being put in that position. Even though she was a bit hopeless in dealing the situation, it takes enormous strength of character to be a full-time carer. To be thrust into that position with no warning, and having to deal with the reality of having to care for a personality which has murdered that of your soulmate, would be impossible for most people.
you're dead right. my mum was a full time carer for my dad for several years... it nearly did her in. for that to happen with no warning... it's so easy to judge but people don't realise the strength of character required just to get out of bed each day when this is what your life would be like.
@Libintia Love means taking care of someone even when they can't appreciate it. I think the reality of that ideal is what this part of the story is based on.
She's complaining about him leaving her becasue he said it was too hard. Now look what she's doing! She figures since it's too hard, and that he'll never be the same Alan again, she might as well pack up the boys and leave. But she doesn't realize what a good wife she can be BY HELPING HIM!!!!!
Wow! 4:15, David looks like the lead singer in Maroon 5! that's weird....
RemusTonks555 2 months ago
@RemusTonks555 his beard is a little thicker than Adam Levine's but he kind of does look similar yeah!
masteraj57 1 month ago
He does look like a bit of a donut!
MrRobfullarton 3 months ago
Where's part 9-10 ?
cristygreene 7 months ago
" I've done my best "
" I'll do mine " <----- First time through this whole thing I choked up really badly, dunno why, it was just so sincere and you can tell he really wants to try and be better, he really loves his family.
cowgalannie 10 months ago 4
Trisha can be a selfish bitch at times; yes, she might be the one who has to live with Alan's behaviour, but it's not like he can help it.
antidisastablish333 11 months ago
That mother-in-law is horrible.
Staar84 1 year ago 8
stupid mother-in-law... I bet if she really had him in her home for more than a month her tune would change.
eji313 1 year ago 7
Thank you for uploading! This is amazing.
youthdecay411 1 year ago
He's getting better, I feel so bad for him, that bitch!
Rayningstorms 1 year ago
Incedible performances from all involved especially DT it must be so hard to act so differently when there is nothing wrong with you I love it when he is with joel at bedtime its exactly as you would picture David as a dad he will make some child very happy some day. If he's this good here the new drama he is doing called "Single Father" will be amazing !!! Good Luck David
toryah1988 1 year ago 4
There is so much pressure on her from everyone!
HeatherRuthDiane 1 year ago 9
I love the bit where he's with his son, and explaining what's wrong with him? If that makes sense. It's so cute and fatherly, and makes me smile because it's like he is on the mend, and he's trying :)
dancingfreaknic 2 years ago 8
This is one of the most heartbreaking and frustrating films I've ever seen. There's such a lack of practical advice and support from EVERYONE around Tricia and Alan, and even when they can see that they can't cope ('he's on antidepressants, and I'm self-medicating') they just react angrily. And Alan's parents shouting in front of Joel is no good, and Alan's friend's speech about he's pathetic probably did more harm than good.
This film really opened my eyes :(
yayrappelz 2 years ago 11
She's just running away from her problems, thats not very much of a wife or a mother is it?
Scottishgal78 2 years ago
We've all run away from problems in our life, it doesn't make us less of a person. 'Burnout' and all that...
crazypianolady 2 years ago 5
"I don't know why I'm doing this, I couldn't make dinner before the fucking accident." Hehe.
timegirl95 2 years ago 10
this drama didn't half make me cry. david tennant is such a brilliant actor. <3
iambrillianto 2 years ago 8
DT is a fantastic actor! What a strong performance.
stlouisphile 2 years ago 7
And Tricia, with not a lick of guilt...
ilrbwamhfae 2 years ago
Alan's parents need to just shut the F up! They have NO idea what Tricia is going through... NO IDEA what it's like to have the shell of the person you once loved and who loved you walk around. His mom is just a b*tch - good for him he decided to stay with his family. You go, Alan!
czness 2 years ago 12
Omg when he got mad, when he was cooking I started bawling. It's such a great movie!
ALWAYSloving23 2 years ago 3
yeah but richard hammond didn't wake up as a different person did he. he was fine and back on top gear soon. Alan woke up not as Tricia's husband but as someone else, someone Trish didn't recognise. you can't compare this to Richard Hammond. Every case of brain damage is different, you can't compare one to another.
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i think she was a little bit selfish Richard Hammonds wife never though of leaving him becuse she loved him and that was all that mattered.
rollypolly94 2 years ago
what happened to richard hammond
simplythebest3000 2 years ago
He was in a high speed car accident whilst filming for top gear. He almost died.
LegolasThranduilion 2 years ago
You can't know what his wife thought of. And besides, just because someone hasn't been physically damaged doesn't mean that emotionally and mentally they're 100% okay. I mean I'm not excusing her but think how rough it's got to be on someone when the happy life they had before is ripped away from them. It can't be easy in any sense of the word.
ilovefootballers 2 years ago 8
Aw, When he got in the bed with the little boy! He'd be good as a dad. (:
Iloveemusic1 2 years ago 7
The mom is harsh on her! I mean she is being put on a strain! I fell so sorry for Allen!
QuincyInLove 2 years ago 7
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trixiebell62792 2 years ago
I don't get you people...
Getting pissed off at Tricia and their son...
Imagine your husband, your soulmate, or you dad turning into someone completely different. Someone who gets aggresive and then suddenly starts crying like a baby, someone who you have to care for all of a sudden...
Just 'cuddling' that person doesn't help!
This movie portrays those difficulties beautifully AND realistically...
I'd like to see all you people try to manage if something like this happens...
plienow 3 years ago 3
you're so right - not that that makes it "ok" to deal with it in a stupid way, but it is SO easy to judge and say "they should have dealt with it better", but when each day is just a struggle to cope, to not go mad - very few people would have the strength of character to get through that without doing or saying things when they "should know better".
sarahflute 2 years ago 5
I see that being realistic about that earns negative votes... not surprised!
sarahflute 2 years ago
I concur 100%! You took the words right from me. This movie takes an ambiguous, difficult, misunderstood topic and beautifully puts it into picture for those who don't understand.
lighthousedreamers 2 years ago 9
That bit with Alan cuddling his son was both completely adorable and utterly heartrenching. I'm crying AGAIN, damnit!
sarahflute 3 years ago 2
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trixiebell62792 3 years ago
The bit with Alan and Joel was so sweet.
werewolfatemyphoenix 3 years ago
I don't care what anyone else says, "selfish c**t" sums up how I feel about Tricia about now
ladycplum 3 years ago
I Agree !
shoppestar1995 3 years ago 5
Oh nice, I have an opinion and I get negative votes?
ladycplum 2 years ago
Joel's reaction when he opens the door to his grandparents. Hehe.
crazypianolady 3 years ago 5
how can she do that to him? its really sad poor alan i really hope they work thru this does anyone elsE?
galifreysboi 3 years ago
He's trying so hard he's going to do it xx
kbjdouglas 3 years ago
omg i just burts into tearts when he said ''ill do mine'' this is like the saddest thing ever :/
CaitlinChemical 3 years ago
This is amazing everyone should see this it might change some of the bigotry associated with brain injury.
kbjdouglas 3 years ago 4
Yes THIS movie and Regarding Henry are the two BEST movies about this!!!
ctswardour 2 years ago 2
phantomphan85 I want Sarah Parish Babies! hehehe
newr97y57 3 years ago
Aw, Joel at 3:59, bless his heart xx
madvillainess 3 years ago 4
Love the pinny and I love him too xx
kbjdouglas 3 years ago
lol... the time just happened to be exactly 6:10... riiiiiggghhtt...
vantrandao 3 years ago
i love that duncan donhuts bit!
elphiegreen 3 years ago 4
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you CAN do it Alan!
sirasaga 3 years ago 3
I am definitely going to feel the effects/influence of this movie emotionally AFTER I finish watching it; I'm gonna cry then. I don't feel horrible now, cuz I'm too into the movie. Anyone have the same?
lighthousedreamers 3 years ago
GOD that mother in law is soooo bloody cheeky....this is so sad though, can't believe it. Amazing acting!!
HannahsRhapsody 3 years ago
Duncan, Duncan.. Donuts, Duncan Donuts, that's how I'll remember you. ...And you look like bit of a donut, so that's quite good.
:D Amazing
Isabella428 3 years ago 6
I hated the part where Tricia wanted to abandon him. I know she had been through alot and it is a very difficult situation. She took marriage vows for better or for worse. Life isn't easy. You can never predict what is going to happen, but you don't abandon your loved ones when they need you the most.
sassyshannen 3 years ago 11
That scene with Alan and the son in bed... I didn't realize I was smiling until about 2 minutes later. It was so cute.
Rainstarhasastick 3 years ago
David looks so cute when hes with his "son" in bed near the end. I bet he'd make a great dad. A truly breathtaking actor. Sarah is also an amazing actress.
EmmsLovinTakeThat 3 years ago 13
Collywobbles sunflowers cauliflowers LMAO
dtrules7809 3 years ago 7
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! funny but sad! x x x x
bagitha 4 years ago
poor woman...
tomblacky 4 years ago 2
was that beging after the accident because is the first time i've seen the video camara witch makes me think he gets a bit better at least
tennant1971 4 years ago
I'm fairly certain the very beginning - with the credits - was there to show you how amazing they actually were together before the accident, just to make the entire thing THAT much more painful and heartwrenching to watch.
midcirclenine 4 years ago 4
first time i have started crying for more then half an hour for a tv show
tennant1971 4 years ago 3
"Eight of nine. Enjoying yourself?" <---are you kidding?! This is amazing!
rockbloodyon 4 years ago 6
I love David Tennant in this but the wife is a bitch! She's selfish! I understand she's upset but he NEEDS her!
spikelilgirl 4 years ago 2
I agree, but put yourself in her shoes. She does need some time to herself to wind down. Although not in the way she did...now that was selfish.
Spartibartfast 4 years ago 8
She needs him, though. And while she's there trying to help him, he's totally unresponsive. I can't imagine being put in that position. Even though she was a bit hopeless in dealing the situation, it takes enormous strength of character to be a full-time carer. To be thrust into that position with no warning, and having to deal with the reality of having to care for a personality which has murdered that of your soulmate, would be impossible for most people.
This story's awesome. Cheers, mc9.
Libintia 3 years ago 29
your so right:D thumbs up:D
lilmisswhatsername 3 years ago 2
you're dead right. my mum was a full time carer for my dad for several years... it nearly did her in. for that to happen with no warning... it's so easy to judge but people don't realise the strength of character required just to get out of bed each day when this is what your life would be like.
sarahflute 3 years ago 2
@Libintia Love means taking care of someone even when they can't appreciate it. I think the reality of that ideal is what this part of the story is based on.
geschreiben 3 weeks ago
OMG i love harry treadaway in this movie!!!
willow733 4 years ago
She's complaining about him leaving her becasue he said it was too hard. Now look what she's doing! She figures since it's too hard, and that he'll never be the same Alan again, she might as well pack up the boys and leave. But she doesn't realize what a good wife she can be BY HELPING HIM!!!!!
lovincake 4 years ago
she alrdy cheted on him now shes going for his best friend!?!?! what a whore!!!!
teddybear0509 4 years ago
i want david tennant's babies! hehe
phantomphan85 4 years ago
I thought the mother in law was going to go off on her.
GAH this entire program is just fantastic. Not just David.
dallazkatt 4 years ago
oh thankS for uploading, cant beleive i missed it when it was shown on the old beeb.
i mena, two of my fave actors, mr tennant and harry Treadaway, its a must-see
brilliant drama!
naz7786 4 years ago
they arent there all the time! how dare they say such things.
7574849 4 years ago
Duncan... Dunkin' Donuts, that's how I'll remember it, and you look like a bit of a donut, so that helps.
roccuno 4 years ago 5