Dating more than one person

[YooTouchMyTralala]

0:43 mustache?

[macphersonleedsunite]

Vanae12 you very good at this, are you an expert?, where do you get these ideas from?.

[nnaji1985]

your personal opinion is quit bad. this is because when u date more than one person you will definitely be bias which makes it very and almost impossible to choose the right person.so i suggest we date one at a time.

[delli2011]

most people don't have the energy but i know hot girls whom feel the several guys they are hanging around are friends, while the guys think they're dating...

[gr8tgoogelymoogely]

is this video about Double Penetration?

[aurangxaib]

YOUR FAT

[smoku46]

shes so hot id date her mum and her daughters (when mom will turn into granny)

[torrid426]

If I'm dating two women at the same time they will be dating each other as well, but mostly I'm monogamous. If a woman wants to date other people that's fine I just loose her number.

If you are not number one move on.

For the stupid people yes this applies to one night stands.

[dancethroughchrist]

well i dont think that dating multiple people is right if you are a person like me.....a person like me would think it as fine untill the other person started dating to see who is a better match and then i would get jealous.........idk about you but thats just my opinion

[qqq3434]

thanks

[nicholemotley11]

i dont think dating multiple people is right.. i mean dont u want to know that u are their one and only? i know i do! if they have more than one gf then u feel kind of like ur just used to pass the time. i hate that feeling

[fedea82]

Vanae, why do you talk like a stupid person? You´re not funny....

I know I wouldn´t date you if you talked like that.

[HighKlass420]

damn you are trippin.

[fedea82]

Yeah yeah, whatever....

Also, fuck the low ratings, I don´t give a shit about Vanae´s asskissing fans!

[HighKlass420]

lol im not an asskissing fan but look at her! she's so fine!

[SilverSurfer3o]

looks like you just subscribed several hours ago. definately not an asskissing fan but just a fan of her looks.

[fedea82]

Fine? You mean hot?

Well, she´s not my type. Specialy when she opens her mouth....but good for you!

[wind767]

Hey Vanae, I met this amazing Hostess the other day, she was awesome and we talked for a bit and I asked her out to coffee and she said she had a boyfriend so it kinda ended there, then I get home and she added me on facebook. what does that mean?

[fezzard]

meaning she likes u as a friend...

[Isual]

probably wants to be friends, you could just keep up with that and then when she breaks up with her bf. wait a couple of weeks and go for it...

[SilverSurfer3o]

hey vanae, send me a postcard and you can have it your way. =)

[SilverSurfer3o]

Dating multiple people at the same time. I personally think its a bad idea. i mean, if you don't have the time for 1 person to see if there is a connection then you shouldn't be dating at all. honest or not, ultimately someone will end up getting hurt.

[56jmoney]

SilverSurfer3o - what if you invest all of your time/energy into 1 person and it doesn't work out?Like Vanae said, "dating should be light-hearted and fun. Perhaps we have different definitions on dating but it seems like your equation dating with relationships - they're not synonymous.

The more dates you have the more possibilities you have of finding that one person you'd like to have an intimate relationship with.

[vanae12]

when i said 'dating' in this episode, i was referring to ' going on dates, first meeting people and lightly dating'. of course, if you're in an exclusive relationship or serious dating, you shouldnt be dating multiple people.

it's common sense not to.

=)

[SilverSurfer3o]

going on dates is totally fine. there's nothing wrong with that. it's the going on multiple dates @ the same time that i dont think it's good idea. i mean, do you buy multiple cars @ the same time and see which 1 fits your needs and then return the other one back?

[HighKlass420]

that example seems a little irrelevant

[CaptainDaccat]

@vanae12 Wait so now day's there's "light dating" "serious dating" "super serious dating" "semi exclusive dating" " periodic serious semi congressional exclusive relationship" "light relationship" "serious relationship" "semi exclusive possibly engaged"? Where does it end? It all sounds like vague, misleading, excuses for people to treat each other like a 1970's key party where everyone dresses up as furries & has one big piss orgy.

[smoku46]

@SilverSurfer3o every chick gives advice as a "love" advice. If every girl is falling in love with you or you date clingy girls then yes someone might get hurt, divas doesnt count, they love that

[EnIightenMe]

dating more than one person is ok if ur not gonna have sex with each one of them.

[kopi7o]

i love the comic at the end.lol..vanea is funny.

[probounderxxx]

I gave up on womens and will no longer try to get one unless some1 rly wants me...

I had 3 girls interested on me....and I screwed up bec I was trying to get them all so if one of them doesnt like me I could get the 2 other girl...but I ended up with no girls...and with all the lies I had to move to a new city bec I had no longer friends...=(

[PwndTastic]

wow

[bboyhelix]

hey where was this filmed?

[mariaalelu]

costa rica

[LonestarCo]

hahah, nice dance moves vanae.

cute. lol

[spykerider]

hey ur hair grew =]

[BangItzKay]

LOOL SUPER CUTE DANCE MOVES

[KKD1247]

Honesty is fine....then I wound up losing both women!

[kimmiz]

lol unless theyre fine with you both both of them :>

[carefulcarpenter]

Jealousy-- is that a turn-off, or is a person more attractive because of it? -- in your personal opinion?

[11asidehero]

you have a loud voice do you directly speak into the microphone

actually dont anaswer that stupid question =-p

[darktreeshade420]

ok then i get it . oh by the really like the way you have your hair now ..awesome !!

[Zellps0]

if you decide to date someone you are commiting yourself to that person. if you cant follow through with dating one person be single and meet people.

[OuWiK]

You´re more suntanned ...

[lsv99822]

Girl: "i'm dating someone else..." (wait for it...)

Guy: " WHAT! you cheating whore!"

I can't bring myself to date multiple females at one time. my theory is everyone is unique in his/her own way... chances are i'm going to like qualities of both female... in the end one of them will most likely end up getting hurt.

p.s.unless it's you Venae, i don't care about the other girl. lol. yeah you just hit on by a "youtuber" :P

P.s.s. i'm sure you get hit on alot anyways.

[vanae12]

there's a difference between casual dating in the beginning vs dating exclusively then being cheated on.

and please don't use offensive words like 'whore'. respect women and people in general

[xdarkkilllrx]

For all of you that wish for a date good luck. Finding a girl to like is very hard but keep trying you have to do the work and get to know her.

[OMGITTANYA]

I wish someone would ask to go out with me =/

[DemonEmpire420]

r u a girl around 17?

[Guest1001]

I think the bit about honesty is what won me over, Vanae. Up until then, I wasn't sure. Even though I'm only 20 years old, I think I'm a little old-fashioned when it comes to dating. I don't believe in "not being exclusive" because, to me, that's just another way of saying "cheating". But I guess if someone is honest and up front with both/all parties from the beginning, it could be okay. Unless the best possible guy/girl is someone who also doesn't believe in "not being exclusive" ...

[HarrySackthatsme]

i wish i had a date

[FriedNugget]

I think its ok, but as ssoon as you get into a more serious relationship with 1 of the other, you gotta ditch the others.

[littlebro05]

great advice ^^ i love it lol

anyway just need to tell you something but... the audio levels for the part before you say "lets do this" is wayyy to high. if put my speakers on minimum it's still very loud, but when u start speaking i can't hear anything.

anywho keep up the great work :)

[vanae12]

sure, i'll keep that in mind for my next episode =D

[misssjlovesrichie]

goorgeous daarling goorgeous!! ^_^

i agree with you! like 500% ^^

ure the best! -muah-

take care V princess

-signe-

[vanae12]

hugs, sweetie

Vanae

[FriscoDuck415]

Vanae, my name's Steve fr Frisco.

B4 I answer what I think, may as well tell what I think so far of U fr this Vid. Just subscribed 2day. So, here it is.

What up w/the Hundred Days T-Shirt if you're not supportin' the homefront & puttin' 'em in as background music? Now, w/a shirt like that, I just KNOW you're not from like L.A. Y aint U representin'? Yo?

Other than that, you're 1 FINE, girl. Almost worthy of some time off line. Give me a shout. Later. BTW, Paluka was their 1st name. Peace.

[vanae12]

the hundred days are my friends and i've def used their music in my previous episodes, just not in this one.

glad you know them and their old band. they really are very talented musicians. =)

[JohnM3D]

What is the meaning of her T-shirt phrase "the hundred days" and the two people kissing?

[crazyisemo2]

no its not okay, In my opinion its childish, unless its completely mutual.... which most of the time its not and lol u never reply to my comments *crys* lol but I have a gf now and I would NEVER cheat on her with another person...... and I would hope she would do the same thing

[skyungjae]

<3<3<3 u! u! u!

[puset00]

well.. lol

i dont really care. i tell them "hey i have a girlfriend. we can still hang out"..

then all of the sudden...

im gonna have a new girlfriend.. lol

[jujurawks]

pop it ! lol

[vehnom1]

I like your hair.

[Scheider28]

Its cool as long as the people you date know!

[crazzydave7]

only date one person at a time. if u find ur self likeing someone else u got to break it off with the first person.

[jimmiexiong]

dating multiple people at the same time is okay because dating is just a form of friendly socializing. but it only works with mature people who understand eachother at the same level & know itz only a friendly relationship, nothing more, nothing less.

[Greg88429]

I agree that it's ok to date multiple people if you are honest with all of them... and nobody's hurt.

But for me personally, I hate competition. I'd hate to know if the girl I was dating was hanging around with other guys. I get too jealous, but I just want to be protective.

And if that girl is dating around to find what she likes, she can't make up her mind. To me, it just seems that if a girl doesn't like to date one guy at a time, she'll struggle with marrying and staying with one guy.

[NicolinoOh]

i agree with u ^^

[AliceCullen415]

Since I can't really speak from personal experience because of my lack therefore, I can only speak on what I believe is considered "right". Well, I think it really all depends on what that individual is trying to achieve by entering a relationship--or more than just one. If you're trying to achieve higher social status, then one might want to date a plethora of people. But if you really want a strong steady relationship with a person, they might just want to stick with one.

[chmlndgdss]

I'm dating a girl who has a sugardaddy. Its not easy lemme tell you! We're open with each other and made some guidelines but its still very hard to combat jealousy issues. I've said "I can't do this anymore" a thousand times. But I can't bring myself to leave cause this girl has my heart totally and is helping me grow as a person. So I just go back and try to bite my green tongue. :P

[kastmaster2000]

I am half Costa Rican :) My family on my dad's side all live there! Are you in San Jose capital city over there? Say hi to my famiy over there!

P.S. The coffee over there ROCKSS!!! 10x better than what we get standard here in USA.

[TheManAbove]

Being someone who hasn't had a lot of dating experience, I am very confused about a lot of things. Friends and family often say that if I meet someone, don't get tied down to soon. I can understand if someone were to say to not try to make it too serious from the start, but are they condoning that I become a player? I can understand if someone better comes along and such, but this whole "Don't get tied down, but go out and meet and maybe date people" deal confuses me.

[Qualinesti]

Wow...you look great pumping in that tight shirt

[Kaho]

You nailed it Vanae, I totally agree with you about the honesty part..

[th3inquisitiv31]

the sound effects at the end of the video are cool. . . .

[mirkus21]

DATING MORE THAN ONE PERSON ITS RIGHT

[Venezuela305]

I think it really depends on the definition of Dating. Some people call dating just the simple interviews in a restaurant, or maybe to see a movie. However, others consider dating anything that doesn't include sex.

To me, the moment you kiss , or you let them know you feel attracted to them is the limit point. Anything beyond that point is Exclusive, even if it only happened once.

But hey, who am I to judge anybody about their opinion. Go be horny and multi-date, if that makes you happy.

[prototype2030]

Vanae you're so adorable hahaha, that dance is old :b

Way to be a noob :b

I agree, its ok to see other ppl. For the most part ppl should assume that the person you are dating is also seeing someone else, the most common mistake ppl make is that they assume that thier relationship is exclusive. Remember that it's never exclusive until you make it exclusive, and always be honest and upfront.

[nidoom]

Vanaeeeee you are the best

[bornbillsmith]

It depends what you mean by dating.

There's nothing wrong with asking someone out to see a movie or go to a restaurant and only doing it because you enjoy there company.

Even if that ends up with more then a kiss goodnight if it's understood that no commitments are being made .

This doesn't mean it can't develop into something more.

It's just it's not being done with that expectation..

[Cavetroll100]

Sounds like you're having a great time working AND vacationing in Costa Rica. Looks like a great place to do both. (Not to worry your hair looks great! And so do you!)  Enjoy a little for us too!

[Devilsgrave13]

Ever considered that dating on itself is a great subject to talk about while dating?

It leads to funny stories, with recognisable stuff you both can relate too.

Plus it actually tells something about that other person.

Anyway, nothing wrong with dating more then one person in my opinion. Have a drink with one girl one night and another with a different girl the next. Just make up your mind before things get too physical rather then fooling around with both.

[enerumu]

well, for me I just know people, I don't ask anyone on a date until I realy want to be with that person, like the next step after getting to know the girl I like..I don't know, I just date one person at a time that's all

[Efferts]

I agree with Vanae, too. That casual dating can mean "nonexclusive". Sadly, the misinterpretation is common. There are a lot of jealous ppl about- even when you're terribly honest about your priorities.

[tony77tony77]

love the new do V. LOVE YA!!

[KeroroGunsouTX]

I'm totally making a gif out of that dane move. :p

[boax02]

wow 6th

[Iz69]

well dates are pretty much interviews. so if you feel that interviews are bad to do amongst a grip of companies then maybe dating more than one girl is bad. HAHAHA...

[SalesmanJohn]

hell yeah it's ok

[LemonGirlProductions]

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[higgynuttter]

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[FriscoDuck415]

Why do people keep posting these nut sacks?

[higgynuttter]

have you been following me?

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[SlimJim58]

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[Jimm9349]

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