Dear Friend

[hesicko3]

como se llama la cancion

[ihatemuslims1989]

i think that your taking this gaining weight thing way to far..your starting to look fat!!you need to lose at least 20 pounds to llok good again..what are you doing?you had potential before,like wow..i dont know how you think you look good there fatty!!!:(

[mcgiga1]

Search a twin (:

Julia.Hassels@t-online.de

[pcmkatie]

Bulimia is to hard to fight, I lost my battle, even though I have all of my friends trying to help me, being skinny is to important for me

[iris77012]

Ik heb boulimia en ik moet over een paar weken naar een kliniek :S

ben al 18 kilo afgevallen

[iris77012]

Ik heb boulimia en ik moet over een paar weken naar een kliniek :S

[allievee]

this video is amazing im in recovery after a 5 years battle with anorexia. this gives me inspiration to get better. <3

[191hottttstuff]

i love dis video.!(:

[jesusluvsme12345]

I feel comforted by this song.

[cailleman]

very nice video and the music is so beautiful

[9headsiskel]

Binge eating is a problem, also...we can't forget those who can't control how much they eat. In any case....help is needed. I could go on for hours about the reasons for these disorders; media, insensitive family and friends, etc...but i wont. Just know that the need is there. All that we need are people to step up and reach out....who will it be? You?

[industry846]

I have a little bit of everything. I try to starve myself but when I fail i binge. I have inflicted myself a few times but always in unpredictable spots with scissors just for pain.

[elibeth121]

@industry846 I hope dear, that you find the courage to go into recovery and get rid of this awful disorder. If you need to talk to me, you can write me anytime. I will always be here to listen.

[Peppen07]

Amazing :D xxx

[CookieJarBaran]

Name ?

[PrinzessinSteffsch]

boar ich liebe dieses lied...das kommt bei mir zur zeit nur in der dauerschleife

[purumkim]

its a good video. I understand it and can relate :'(

[jackieontheroad]

most girls unfortunately don't have an idear how pretty they are!

[Borrodine]

I dont know the back story on this but it looks like you are on the long road to recovery.I just wanted to add that the video were inspirational and moving.Though I dont know you,we will never meet and we are worlds apart,I just wanted to wish you my heart felt wishes on your recovery.Please stay the course and though the journey will be long and frought with stormy interludes the destination will be all you hoped for and more.May your gaurdian angel be wise and willing....and give her my love.

[Cookie180990]

i hate that the devil can do that to people. make them think they're fat and ugly. God bless you guys. you are loved.

[wompi69]

this song is amazing, it makes me cry...

[erdferkel1337]

meine version von dear friend ;D

watch?v=EtiWVmq41Hw

[soccerchic376]

i was played this song the night before i went into treatment by my friends and sister..i cried like a baby..and still do..i need to go back in i need my life on track, this song touched my heart. so beautiful.

[jesusfreakheather]

this video touches my heart.....i struggle with anorexia, cutting, depression, and suicidial thoughts everyday....alone........i want help, but am too scared to speak up to anyone.....

[jrotcgirl21]

you are not alone, hun.

i know it may be really hard right now but i promise you will pull through.

if you need help start with talking to a friend.

if you dont have anyone then write it down, sign it and "accidently" drop it by an adult you know will read it and help you.

may seem juvinele but at times it is better than verbally saying it.

i know it's rugh for you but people care about you, esp. your future husband. take care and message me back if u need 2 talk.

[Cookie180990]

i hope this song saves your life. i hate it that people go through that crap. it's cruel.

[jesusfreakheather]

thanks, i'm doing much better now, i don't struggle as much...i've stopped cutting, and i eat more, but i still struggle with eating as much as i should, and on occassion (although i hide it) i struggle with suicidal thoughts and depression...

[Cookie180990]

i'm glad you've stopped cutting. i promise, you'll get there. and can i offer you some advice?

don't hide it. God puts people in our lives to help us, so you gotta let them. most importantly you gotta let Him.

i'll tell you something that God told me a while ago that really touched me: Never forget that I love you.

i'm so glad you're doing better.

[jesusfreakheather]

@Cookie180990 i was doing better.....but now i'm not so sure......i'm trying to rely on God and trust him, but its really hard for me right now....

[elibeth121]

@Cookie180990 awesome reply cookie, God has filled you with his wisdom. Keep reaching out to people!!!

[Cookie180990]

@elibeth121 thank you :) that's really encouraging.

[elibeth121]

@jesusfreakheather I am so proud of you that you are doing a bit better. You can write me anytime, I will always listen and I am praying for you

[jesusfreakheather]

@elibeth121 i was going to a mental health councelor for a little while (2 appointments) cuz my doctor got me to agree to telling my parents about my cutting....i didn't like the councelor and was able to convince her at my last appointment that i don't need to come see her anymore....i was doing a lot better around that time (or so i felt) but now i feel myself falling farther and harder than ever....i'm about to go off to college too...i don't know what i will do there (harm wise).............

[Boricua4Christ]

@jesusfreakheather ... just you saying it on youtube makes a difference .. I know your post was a year ago but it was a step ... use your testamony to lift others .. :0) 

[jesusfreakheather]

@Boricua4Christ i'm not doing good...in fact i'm a lot worse...before i would just not eat, now i don't eat but there are times when ppl notice and make me eat and afterwards i go throw it up.....i also used to cut, but now i just burn myself or scratch with a safety pin until it bleeds....i don't have a testimony right now cuz i'm doing too horribly...

[Boricua4Christ]

@jesusfreakheather .. I understand that you may fail at times .. so does every other christian .. just the fact that you are being transparent about it makes you strong .. No matter what this video will do wonders because it will allow those in your same shoes to know that they are not alone in their situation. Once you can get back up you will tell them how you do it and God will be gloryfied. God Bless you.

[Boricua4Christ]

@jesusfreakheather .. By the way .. make sure you pray and read the word .. your relationship with God is what will change you. You may even need to fast.

[favoritesmoothies]

@jesusfreakheather hi. just so you know, depression happens if you don't have enough iron, vitamin B12, vitamin B6, vitamin B5, potassium, zinc and copper. just thought you might want to knnow, because I've felt the same of feeling depressed, cutting myself, eating disorders, etc.. Nutrition has a MAJOR effect on our emotions!!

[jesusfreakheather]

@favoritesmoothies hey, yeah i know that. but so does having chronic severe depression, and borderline personality disorder.....

[favoritesmoothies]

@jesusfreakheather that's what I'm saying: certain nutritional deficiencies can cause chronic severe depression and borderline personality disorder. I know SO many people (including myself) who have really cured their extreme depressions with the right nutrition.

[anareston]

i love this video :]]

[EveryEffort]

this is beautiful

[Carama87]

wer singt dieses lied ??? wunderschöööön...

[takenjmm]

this is really great inspiration for me.. im also not in recovery

[takenjmm]

@elibeth121

hey im doing better.. i still struggle with the thoughts of death...

and sometimes i dont wanna eat so i eat what i have to..

thankyou for caring(:



[Thinislove234]

this is such a great video although i am not in recovery ne more it is inspiring

[speedFOXSonic041]

wowt hey are hot!!

[xoxoselinabutterfly]

il love this video :).

[TheChokladKola]

great video

[Starved4perfection]

i dont get it if this is a vid you say for anyone recovering why would you make it like a thinspo with picz like that, i find it motivates me more and not make me wanna recover lol you say in the description that it is for people to find light?? i jsut dont get it am i missing something??

[MariaRegine]

I konw.. I'm sure the intention with this vid is good, but for me it works like thinspo:P

[SilverishKitten]

You suck.

[idorianch]

i do.. and i love it.

[Robo2oo9]

well all these girls on this are fit !:D

[ElYeej]

This video made so much sence! and you´re like so right!

It´s good to know that i´m not the only one in this...

Thank you for this video it made me feel better <3

[xxXDaNcEr4LiFeXxxxx]

Love this song <3

Though why do mary-kate and ashley keep coming up in this video?? =S x

[purplishcherry]

mary-kate was once anorexic, and she is one of the most famous/beautiful thinspirations there is.

[SusieBabie16]

:(i've got anorexia :( i trying to recover

but dont seem to hope all others r okay x

[MYGOALISTHIN]

im wannab thin.

[BBSing2006]

This was one of my best friends and mine songs; it's a very heartfelt song.

[xxpollilopxx]

I was like, omg, your fucking amazing!!!

[madcow30011]

anyone need a thinspo friend? i could really use one (boy or girl) :)

[kidoimnot]

hey ill be your anna buddy

[wenniscui]

some girls to share the pain is better than

any i am not a girl but i also have sadness sometimes...

that's terrible....

[madcow30011]

anyone need athinspo buddy coz i know i do ::(

[EmoKiller12349]

ok so i was looking for the song for my ballet dance so i could pratise at home. This is the song. I watched the video and it realted to me so much. Now this dance has a whole new meaning. I will dance it with a whole new passion.

[beautyisana]

who sings this?

btw: i love this vid.

favorited.

[scstevens08]

stacie orrico

[xxxSkatingLifexxx]

This is so beautifully sad. Great job, and thank you.

[NeedToBeThin]

This made me cry. I have had an ed for years and I feel so damn alone all of the time

[EmoKiller12349]

It made me cry too. The first three times i showed it. I am in recorvery of bulima and anorexia. So i was like. "why did i do that?" and sometimes i will go weeks with out eating. So you should message me some time. You are not alone.

[anadidy]

dear friend u shoud eat... not eating it's not resolving your problems at all.. and remeber one day u will forget about all this saddnes that's it's only of u want too

love doyna

take carer of you

I was like u too ands I know hoe u feel

write back

[EmoKiller12349]

I know I need to eat more.

It isnt helping but It makes me feel better.... sorta,

I cant forget about any of this shit,

Nobody Knows how I feel. They may kinda know but No one knows

[anadidy]

belive me that I really now what you benn throw I was like you too I think nobody understands me but there is someone wwho understand us and know everything about us..

take care of you

[EmoKiller12349]

I sent you a friend request so we could continue this conversation in privet

[anadidy]

thanks  alot ..of cousre we will do

xoxo

[StillAliveJo]

I´m not agree. We aren´t same we are all different, but everybody is beautiful.

[ZarahMxx]

thanks the video is really good x

[xnaughtyxnicholexx3]

1:19

is perfect

[purplepurplechicken]

i want to thank my friend danni cuz i think she kept me alive, i wanted to starve myself but she made me eat, it saved me, thanks danni

[babigurll89]

looks are not important..anorexia is unattractrive and in my opinion it looks worse than obesity and why try to impress people who are self absorbed..those types turn out to be bad friends and in the end its better to be alone because then you can only worry about yourself

[haridelle]

Well, I'm skinnier than at least half of the girls in the video but I still don't feel anorexic. I know eating disorders are a serious problem but we can't just say that every skinny girl is sick...

[FgaMe9182]

jup

[ShavaShav]

This video is on crack, don't watch it unless you want to feel worse about yourself

[wenniscui]

i feel i lost my way...

the life is so cute that sometimes i felt...

l return from the southern china to northerneset about 6 times a year for my

learning...

i have nothing , just a empty heart

[iWillStayAlive]

i feel sry for you :(

[purplepurplechicken]

do you have to be super skinny to be aneroixx cuz likei have the syptoms but like im not skinny

[popprincess4978]

at 00:12 i am just like the girl pinchinh her self to see is fat

[popprincess4978]

I dont have en ED but trust me im alone.... no one likes me at my school like loves me like with boys im just another other emoish girly retro scence punk girl put all together with a punch of glue! im really ugly & fat, im 5'4 and weigh 120 but im more muscle then so much fat but i have big thiighs i sometimes do S.I no one knows tho and i plan to keep it that way! i am alone

[ne0isHere]

Thank you. I feel better now. I'm not alone <3

[MrsJonasJonasLove]

<3 thankyou.

[0zphatz0]

who wasz the

girl at the end..

also....was u in the

vid..?

[krystalmartinez01]

i think this song can be about eating disorders it can be about what you see fit you know?

[feellenium]

so true

[Impluse3]

i adore this video i'm 14. and i've never had an ED but i've been worrying about my weight for about 3 years now. theres just so much presure to be so thin. i weigh about 97; and my friends always say that i'm not fat. and its not that i'd say i'm fat. i just always have to suck in my 'gut' or what ever. and i think it would be nice to loose alittle weight. but then i'm also 100000% comfortable the way i am sometimes. life is hard. and these videos are amazing<3 :D

[LosSenoraDiablo]

is that 97 kilos or pounds?

It's alright to loose a little weight,

but when people take it to the extreme it's sad.

It's good you're comfortable at times with the way you are, [:

if you get down or something, why don't you try thinking of things to make you happy?

like,

"today my hair looks extremely good"

or something?

:D

and yes this video is good ^-^

[Impluse3]

97 pounds. yeah i know. i am comfortable with myself most of the time. its only when i'm around certian people. but i'm getting better at it and so many people have replied to my comment here. it really helps the way i feel about myself. and thats a good idea. i'll try that next time thanks :)

[PrincessAriel2sing]

This song breaks my heart and brings me to tears. I had an ED, and my friend is still struggling with hers. This song describes the hopelessness. I love this girl so much, and she is destroying herself. I can only watch. "Dear friend, I feel so helpless. I feel there's nothing I can do." So true. I want to save her, but I can't. ED is a fucknig bastard and is stealing her.

To all with an ED- Please, get help. There is someone who loves you whose heart is breaking watching you. God bless you.

[123AmberJane456]

my school report came through this morning. and i compared it to one from year 7, in the yr 7 one, it said i was bright. bubbily, happy, chatty and would probably do better if i stopped smiling and started working :P now, reading my latest one, it says that i am too shy, withdrawn and 'clearly facing issues in her life' anorexia has ruined me. as has drinking too much. im a differant person to the girl i was just a few years ago. thank you to this video. hope exists.

[xsween101x]

I've never had weight problems but when my self esteem was at its lowest I used to cut...and drink far to much from 15...sometimes im still affected cos i was bullied so bad at school and by so called friends...but at the end of the day it was me who left england for a life of travelling..back home now after 7 months of working in Greece to save for Greece, America and hopefully australia to do all my travelling..i came off best...u all will to xxx

[Samantha1234perfect]

thank you so much for this hun xx

it makes me feel better

[AnasAngel20]

I love all your videos.

[geebatart]

amazing song

[chelssharpe]

Stacie Orrico is a wonderful vocalist.

[freakyizzy19]

OMG! you're video touch every piece of my heart! i just love it!.Thank you so much!, videos like yours are really appreciated for people like me.People that have live with eating disorders!.

[mmmwwwuuuaaahhh]

memories... if i can turn back the time..where all my friends are together but my mom to me to breath in and breath out..yah i forgive so as my friends..ilove you guys mgbati bsti na nga kayo noh.. smile sa pikchur hehhe...dont just follow your heart or else you will be broken like me..evrything will be balance put god at the center..ok?ilove you all... :]

[mmmwwwuuuaaahhh]

thankyou..i suffer from what? hehe

thanks... i realize evrything..

should i say.,. follow your heart?

what.. forgiveness we all need that..yhanks..

[makinganewme]

the song is beautiful

[LovinHimIzCrazi]

omg that girl at the end had such a beautiful smile

[nadiacinnamon]

honey its all really beautiful

and its really good that you tell them 'i believe in you' its something everyone should hear every once in a while

but could you change the 'remember there is always someone who feels worse'-line?

cuz i dont think thats right.

tell them 'everyone has their own struggles, but know that you are not alone'

i think that fits better

good luck

[robeybaby]

I suffered sexual abuse.

Thank you for posting this song.

So sweet.

[bananagirl2010]

REALLY???mee too.

This song helps me so much...i listen to it all the time.

[xXxAnasAngelsxXx]

this video is so nice

[Ilovetyler2007]

i really love this song it has a story and it has a purpose.

[chubbycheeks2371]

I suffered from anorexia nervosa for 4 years im starting to recover finally. Songs like this have helped me through ever single step thank you for posting it!!

[23meda23]

WAW!!

i cried ....this song gives me faith!!

i loved the end part whe n u said "ur not alone"!!

[ashy10199]

omg i suffered from sexual abuse wen i was 10. since then my life has ben nothing but hell, and in turn suffering from an eating disorder.... this song is beautiful

[videostina1983]

i had anorexia, but like in a documentary said, is not always for trying to be a supermodel, it can happen for depression, and im always fighting with myself for not to fall again.

[ablackrosetear2]

Who sings this song?

[shakiras14]

stacie orrico

[changingone77]

The song and the script could be inspiring, but having all the thinspiration-type photos behind it just makes me feel worse. Thanks for trying, though.

[meissie95]

i love this song so much

and the pictures let me think.

its so nice

iloveit<3

[becauseImcarly]

I dedicate this song to all my closest friends...

...Especially Laura, because I know you've gone through some really hard times lately. I love you, Dear Friend.

[justduckysplat]

other people strugleand others care it'sjust so hard to find those people

[wenniscui]

Not are u beautiful, but you'll always be,

that's meaningful..

[rotkvica193]

i am so alone...

[orcinus74]

no, you're not.

you're never alone.

we're all here for each other.

[chewingXstierfome]

this song is amazing

[hfew362]

where u get the photos coz one of them are mine lol its ohk just asking where u got the rest coz me and a friends are making a video for our firend that past away 3 weeks ago in memoery of her thankz xx

[TutugirlEL]

i adore this song

and the meaning

it explains a lot and i think a lot of people can relate

[beautywithin85]

Plz don't compare yourself to me when you post pro anorexia thinspo crap...while I agree that we all struggle and feel alone..you are nothing like me, and I am NOT in this with you. I am NOT in denial, I will NOT go down without a fight, and I am NOT powerless...I will stand by you PROUDLY when you choose to do something about it but not a moment sooner...Nice thoughts...but the way I look at it when you choose your ed over relationships you ARE alone...

[tesso16]

This was me and my bestfriends song

i always knew summin was wrong

and was always there

even if she had nothing to say the cmpany cheered us up:)

[landro1985]

The girl in the end of movie is the women of my dreams. Anyone knows who she is, inform me please!!!

[lorrainejohnson]

I love the clips from full house.

[MFlovesAF]

ce chanson est tro belle

mais ca me fait mal pour voir ces filles

c'est moi quelques mois passée

[priscillalvsreaction]

<333

[kamilka92]

This Is Dear Friend Stacie Oricco :*

[ChathamGurlsx3]

what song is this? does anyone know?

[samme96]

i love this song it was my recital song

[KaitoArina]

Beautiful ;_;

[thembalina2409]

thanks..great video...inspirational(Y)

[PrincessAlejandra]

omG! ty!

[Hann456]

I so, soo Love this song. Amazing lyrics.

[myself525]

i love your videos so muuch!

great!

:)

[HaterzItsZhane]

I <3 thiz song so much bcuz im all those things she talks about nd when i hear this song i feel betta about myself!!

[Acconlove2]

I really like it!

Awesome!

[Love6Is6Murder]

Nevermind i noticed towards the end.

[Love6Is6Murder]

anyone wanna share who sings this?

[cluelessbaby]

Stacie Orrico xx

[Aamanda0023]

good lord, did you not see it clearly written on the video?!?!

[Love6Is6Murder]

anyone wanna share who sings this?

[EverydayFalling]

such a sad but sweet song. thumbs up.

[CourtX6]

This was an amazing video...absolutely beautiful made me cry

[HappyBrittney]

amazing song my dance team did dat sng

[katydids03]

that was beautiful. i had such a good day on the outside but on the inside it was so terrible. its so hard for people to understand what food does to us. i want this war with myself to end. this video made me feel a bit better though. so much love to you. thank you.

[xLookAtMoi]

is that you at the end?? beautiful

[jesslubben]

Wow, that made me cry, especially when you said "I believe in you." Thank you because I don't hear that all too often and that is just what I needed right now. For someone, even though I don't know you at all, to believe in me means the world to me. Thank you.

[Elliheron]

I loe this song

me myself is really skinny but i know i am as much as i eat and eat i cant get fat :(

i dont no how to gain weight

[lightforthelost]

sry hun ur asking the wrong people haha

[PetiteFrame]

One of the best videos i've seen in a long time.. made me cry, wonderful video.

xoxo

[veryverycherri]

unbelievably beautiful

[BitingGrizzlies]

This song is so sad...reminds me of someone...and myself sometimes...

[bozenared]

this song is so sad i still like it

[Swameh]

this made me cry.. because its exactly how i always feel. thank you so much lauren.

[Reexio]

a lot of people dont know, but even Mary Kate herself has said when all the drama was around about her eating disorder, a lot of the pics the media used were of Ashley!