It's a comfort for me know because it's nice to think that youre being looked over by someone who cares for you and is looking out for you.
I don't believe in all this ghosts and stuff, but i do believe that we have someone or something looking out for us, that has our best interests at heart. It'd be the same thing that stopped you from drowning when you tried. Something / someone clearly wants you here, it's nice to try and know who or what :)
Jay, i dont know if it's something you would ever consider, but about a year or two before i was born, my mum sufferd a miscarrage for what would have been my sister. My mother often goes to see spiritualist people, who claim to be able to pass on messages.
I think it could be kinda sweet if you went and saw one (even if you went by yourself and had a private reading). It could be like what my mum has been told a few times, that my sister is being brought up by her family that have....
These videos are so valuable and never too long. I could listen to them over and over again, and i could listen for an even longer time. Thank you for sharing your life and your stories with all of us. You offer something to kids, to adults, to parents, to those who come or once came from abuse. And you are so genuine. Thank you. One thing, as a sherriff, could you just remind kids to be safe or on their own before coming out? Nurse here, & I'm sure we've both seen too many kids on the street.
I just watched your two coming out videos. Wow theawkwardone is right you are amazing. I particularly liked your advice to your second commenter. I am 43 and just coming to turns with the fact that I have lived a false straight life. Now I am in the process of trying to untangle the web I have built while trying to minimize hurt and anguish for my children and wife. Please people don't pretend to be something your not, in the long run it will hurt others and YOU.
I watch you and Bryan all the time, I think the two of you are helping so many young gay people, we all love the videos, Thank you for sharing your life and Family with us ♥♥♥♥
My friend was in the same situation during our senior year in high school she was 17 & pregnant.She was thinking about having an abortion but her bf really wanted to keep the child and promised to always be there for her(he had a well paying job)After 2 months after having the baby he left her and went off to college.Not saying you would've have done the same but I could understand your gf situation. Idk what happen with my friend b/c I joined the Army & lost contact but I hope she's doing well
hey could you give me some advice, I'm 15 ( almost 16 ) and in high school, I've known i was gay since i was about 10 or 11 and I just accepted it about a year ago, i feel ready to come out but I'm just scared about how some people will react and how some people will take it. I've just got this terrible fear that it wont go over well but i wanna be who i am and find someone :((
@SpoonerSpecter This Oct 11th is national coming out day and we are going to make a video...It is different for every person when coming out...just be careful and dont put yourself in a bad place.
Jay -- you're an incredibly strong guy. I cannot imagine how you must've felt after everything that you went thru with your father. My father has always reacted in a negative manner; but never at the magnitude as your father. I'm sorry to hear that you never had any last chances with him. But, you're taking the place of what he wasn't. You seem like such a great father, and it's a blessing from God that you didn't turn out like him. You and Bryan are beautiful and so are your children. - Matt
@ItsTyriekJohnson all i can say is stick with yourself and stay true to you, don't come out til youre ready and the don't trick girls if you are gay...that is evil and cowardly...but stay strong and it will get better and easier...h8rs will h8...but h8rs make you famous.....
Wow. My life was very much like yours. VERY butch, macho, abusive Father. No "Fags" in his house. Well, much like your Dad, he was blessed with 2 gay sons! Isn't Karma wonderful?! Great video by the way!
I am 14 and like and unlike the kid u mentioned in the video I thank I might be bi I do not know but it's weird cause it's all so confusing I mean I know my parents won't disown me but they will never will look at me the same because I don't hide myself and no would have ever guessed I was gay or bi cause all the kids at my school who r gay act the steoreotype but they don't get physically harassed but they often get rebuke and it scares me cause it all ready fells like it is me against the wor
I am now in my mid-twenties and i knew i was gay since i was a teenager but even today i have never talk about it to my family yet, not even to my close friends. What amazed me with your story is that you also have a gay brother and sister. For a while i have been suspecting that my teenager-sister might be lesbian but i chose not to believe my instinct, but now, after hearing your story, i am in peace to know that it is normal to have a gay brother/sister. Thank you for sharing your story.
see I'm bi and i'm 17 almost 18 years old Girl and i wanted to know why is it always harder to come out to your dad then it is to your mom? see i ways had this problem telling my dad but i have told everyone else about it and they siad if thats what makes me happy then go ahead but i haven't told my dad yet and i don't know hes going to react and i'm really scared of telling him cause me and him are kind of close and i don't know what to say to him can you plaese can you help me out :(
@101starwarsfan yes my oldest sister came out at the early age of 16 and my father tossed her out of the house...Then I waited to come out till I got out of the Army I was 22 my father wouldnt have anything to do with me after that...My younger brother didnt come out till after my father had died.
"Although almost all child molesters are male less than 3 percent of men are homosexual yet about a third of all child sex abuse cases involve homosexual men molesting boys -- and in one study, 86% of molesters were homosexual or bisexual," CNSNews.com October 03, 2006
thanks you so much for doing this video....just earlier today i was thinking about coming out to myself. i am gay and i love myself. thank you so much. now its time for me to live my life
It warms my heart to know that despite all you have been through and the hatred that you felt towards yourself you were able to develop self love and acceptance for who you are. I do hope that your story reaches out to those who really need to hear it (gay boys and girls who are having taughts of committing suicide) as their lives are very precious and should not be cut short. One day i hope to do the same and change young gay lives with my story.
It warms my heart to know that despite all you have been through and the hatred that you felt towards yourself you were able to develop self love and acceptance for who you are. I do hope that your story reaches out to those who really need to hear it (gay boys and girls who are having taughts of committing suicide) as their lives are very precious and should not be cut short. One day i hope to do the same and change young gay lives with my story.
It warms my heart to know that despite all you have been through and the hatred that you felt towards yourself you were able to develop self love and acceptance for who you are. I do hope that your story reaches out to those who really need to hear it (gay boys and girls who are having taughts of committing suicide) as their lives are very precious and should not be cut short. One day i hope to do the same and change young gay lives with my story.
@cheanmingyong have you told your partner about the guy yet? I suggest you end the friendship....the guy is not good for you and you dont need his kind of friendship...Sex does mean a lot....I would also tell him that if sex isnt such a big deal why does he keep bugging you about it?
thanks for posting this, it's interesting to here different stories, ps how many cats do you have, we have 8 rescued + 2 rescued dogs & really hoping to get goats that were rescued from a farm -
The saddest part was your ex-girlfriends abortion. Your "frustation" about what the kid would've been like is a proof that an abortion will follow you 'till death.
@mentonerodominicano not only will it follow me it defines me....I have wanted to be a father ever since that day.....I think it is why I am such a good father to my children because I know that somewhere there was a child my child that didnt make it.
Your story is a very amazing one that I am sure has saved some young peoples lives. Thank you for the honesty and straightforwardness that you have shared. I know without a doubt that you have had a positive impact on the lives of many. As a priest, I also know that there are many religious leaders today, myself included, that are open and affirmming to my gay brothers and sisters. Don't loose faith and remember God loves you just as he made you...Father Rick
Your story is a very amazing one that I am sure has saved some young peoples lives. Thank you for the honesty and straightforwardness that you have shared. I know without a doubt that you have had a positive impact on the lives of many. As a priest, I also know that there are many religious leaders today, myself included, that are open and affirmming to my gay brothers and sisters. Don't loose faith and remember God loves you just as he made you...Father Rick
I find it hilarious because of the irony that 3 out of the 5 children are gay of a catholic family. Not saying what happened was a funny thing but talk about teaching a lesson.
i love you, ur so sweet and i love ur action figures! star wars very cool. and i feel horriable that ur dad disowned u. my dad and my mom jus kinda were shocked and i said to her im proud of it and if u dont except me what ev so i toallly feel fo u
I guess I don't understand someone who is DEAD forbidding someone LIVING from coming to a funeral. Had your family been so affected by his crurlty and abuse that for fear of him lierally rolling over in the casket and kicking their asses they placed sentrys or representatives to keep you out of the service?
HI FROM FRANCE,you re a courageous person ,very masculine guy as gay can also be just look at rugby player garth thomas,its not easy to be gay ,it seems all the world is against you BUT it s wrong ;just god loves you,because god is love; so who cares ,parents can be wrong and stupids ,.....to all young gay,please don t commit suicide ,this world needs people like youBECAUSE YOU CAN BRING LOVE AND UNDErSTANDING to this planet .KISS FROM A FReNCH GUY, lionel
The first email that you read I totally agree. ExplorationB did a great vid about when was or wasn' the right time and it covered this topic and he said the same things in that you need to be in a safe place and able to self sustain if your parents are not going to be receptive.
Thanks so much for posting this. Just watched your coming out vids as well as your husband's. Similar to him learning about his sexuality in a Barnes and Noble, youtube has been a huge resource for me to learn about accepting myself as a gay man. I've probably watched over 100 coming out stories on here, and seriously, this was one of the most helpful. Very insightful and realistic advice. Greatly appreciated. Take care!
My dad is same way, hates gays, and out of the five children two of us are gay, the 3rd child, myself, and the 4th child, my brother.
On a different topic, I love the Star Wars stuff. I'm a '74 baby, so I grew up in the 80's, and grew up on Star Wars, it's my 5th favorite movie of all time. I see Jaba back there, and many others. Man I miss the 80's. Good stuff bro, good stuff!
I think you are so so right. The fact that 3 out of the 5 of you are gay, is definitely god's way of sticking it in your dad's face. Man, god is awesome!
All that hate your dad had, and god played just the right trick on him. God said "oh you hate gays huh? Gays that I created, well let me just throw 3 of them in your immediate family and see if that will make you do as I say, love each other, not hate."
Through all of this wisdom and advice, I can't stop drooling over those star wars figures...lol. Oh, and you're really sexy. I love that your face matches your voice. Yeah I know that's pretty superficial in light of everything being discussed, but I just had to say it...:-)
Man that really hit me, I may not be able to relate but that helps me so much, this last Monday I actually learned and accepted myself, when that 14 year old kid asked you that question I felt like I had asked that question, cause I am 14 now and am a bisexual but not sure how my parents would act, I luv all ur bids and has helped me a lot, I have one question though, I feel I am ready to tell some friends but not sure how to tell them, can u help? Thx
@wii1221 You will have to think about each person and how they relate to you. I suggest doing it one on one with the friends you most trust. I think the best way to tell someone is to start by saying I really value your friendship and friends shouldnt keep secreats so I want to tell you something about me that I feel has been keeping us from being better friends. No matter how they respond to you be open to their questions and doubts.
Hi again Jay, I'm wondering how you being rejected by your dad affected your sister & your younger brother's coming out? Did they tell you first or did they nail the closet doors shut? I don't feel alone anymore while listening to your family.
What a guy! Your video's must give so many courage to deal with being gay. Even in today's society there are still some people out there that can't accept the fact that geing gay IS OK. We just want to love and to be loved like all those non gay's. If family and friends have a problem with the gay thing then let them live with their problem. It's up to us to move on and live our own lives the best we can. I am married to a great lady who supports me and loves me for who I am.
hey, i love your coming out videos, and about that 14 year old kid, it all depends on his parents. i came out to my family this year (im 14 turning 15 in 2 months) so lol, yeah i first came out to my friends to have support and then came out to my mother and then when it was over, i felt better and i could finally be who i was! awesome vids. ^^
It's crazy because my brother is in jail for murder and my mother visits him every week, but when I came out my mom don't call, email, visit or anything and she know where I live. So in her eyes killing someone is better than being gay.
I just want to say that your opinion on not telling your parents until you're ready is the best I have ever heard. I am an 18 year old gay guy. I have struggled with my sexuality for years. My mom has even told me straight up before that she would not be able to love a gay son. I have never wanted to tell her, but all my friends tell me I should. I just wanted to say it feels great to have someone back me up on this. You are amazingly inspirational.
Growing up gay and Catholic is tough. The Church seemed to be the strongest hurtful force against me (in the form of my parents and many conservative Catholics); but I guess God has a way of looking out for us in the most unexpected ways because the Church was also the place where I found love and acceptance, which came in the form of compassionate brothers and nuns I met while in Catholic school.
One nun in particular, a short and lively 80 yr old lady who I had worked with in ministry for a little while, used to tell always remind me--God don't make no junk! :o)
I just wanted to thank you again for sharing your family, your life, and yourself on YouTube. It's so brave for you to put yourself out there like that, and as I'm sure you can tell you are impact lots of lives in positive ways. Certainly mine. It's so simple but sharing yourself here is powerful. If you ever have doubts or ever feel discouraged, I want to let you know that you're DEFINITELY making a difference in lives. Continue the great work! Thank you for sharing yourself and being you
I'm 22 and haven't come out to my family yet, though I've decided to tell my older brother this week (he's LGBTQ-supportive). My dad is super conservative though, and I'm not financially independent, so I'm worried I might go through the same thing you did if he finds out. But your example really gives me hope that I can meet someone amazing and have a great future with him. :D
Again, thank you guys so much for your channel and blog.
After seeing both part one and two, I have to say it is an honor to have stumble upon your channel today. And I truly admire both you and Bryan, as well as your family. Take care and know that there are people who firmly support you :)
I'm 23, and I came out in July. I've been knowing since I was 15. My dad actually told me, "I knew the whole time. I was actually waiting for you to tell me." We laughed. He was in denial for a while, but he told me he just wants me to be happy. My mom took it well also. It was an extreme sigh of relief. You guys are an awesome inspiration.
You guys are exceedingly brave for putting yourselves out for public observation (and criticism) as gay parents, and I think you are having an incredible impact with the 'on-the-fence'-ers who are just afraid of something they aren't familiar with. Keep up the great work!
I thank you, Jay and Bryan, both, for sharing the intimate details of your coming out experiences with the web-community. Your coming out story is very heartbreaking, but luckily the times they are a-changin', and while unfortunately paradigm-shifts don't occur overnight, you guys are pioneers (I feel) that demonstrating to the world how amazing and loving a gay family can be.
I'm 17. I discovered when I was at the older side of 16 that I was bisexual. I recently told my mother. It seemed to blow her a bit but she didn't seem upset or angry. She hasn't spoken about it since and nothing has changed between us. I don't think my sister takes it seriously but it doesn't bother her.
My mother has told me she'll tel my father when she thinks he'll be ready to hear it. I don't think my father will really mind. He's over protective and has always made comments about 'no boys' being allowed in the house. I joking asked him once what he would do if I was a lesbain and he said he'd be relieved. I honestly think it's harder for homosexual men than it is women.
I simply told my mother I was bisexual. It was a short conversation and it moved on swiftly. I didn't tell her that I lean more towards the same sex so that may have effected that, but I didn't purposely not tell her, it's just it was such a relaxed conversation I missed it out by accident.
Most of my male friends know my sexuality. I only very recently told my female friends because I was more afraid of rejection from them. But they've been supportive. No one really mentions it and we just continue as we always have.
I think you made a good point. Sometimes it seems that the people who are the most condemning against gay people normally a) end up having kids who are gay, or b) have a lot of gay people they know around them in their life, and i do think that it is God's way of proving to them that gay people are humans also.
When i was growing up, I noticed my mother would always take the opportunity to say something negative about a gay person whether it be on news or in Public.
I am 15 and I just recently started to accept myself. I no longer think about suicide and I am ready to come out, But my Father like yours would surely disown me, So I told my closes friend because I couldn't keep it to myself and I am just trying to get by until the day comes when I can tell them.
some day you will become a man and you will fall in love and you will be happier then you could ever imagine. Then you will care what your fathers thinks but it wont be everything. Feel free to reach out to us if you ever need a friend.
I came out to my parents this year (I'm 17 next month) and it was SO boring! You needn't worry, my parents didn't bat an eyelid and the only question they had was a jokey:
"why dontcha dress better then?!"
stereotyping I know, but I needed that then - I was sick with worry.
So sorry about your Dad. Gosh!!! I am sure that your siblings and you have discussed this before..but do you think that there is a possibility that your Dad may have been gay himself?? I hope he is in a better place now... SURE! he is!
Hello, Have you been to Sigmund Freud's house in London ? . Dr. Freud's consulting room has very many objects and artifacts on bookcases tables and on his desk; some of the items are not very valuabe, others are very old -from the BC era - so, juxtaposed it is as though time stands still. . Artifacts from History and Myths from lots of different cultures; often placed in relation to each other for various reasons. . Check it out when you visit London some time. Cheers. from del-boy.
wow...you truely have deep issues my friend. u decide to go on here and watch a video with the intent on helping others and btw it was great! thx fro posting the video! anyways why would u bether even watching it if your just gonna comment like that. your discusting. oh ya, i went there! pce.
(and Bryan is too! :). I hope that your video touches many young people who are struggling with coming out. I am really shocked when I read any negative comments about your videos. I think those people are blind so I will pray for them! Please keep on your wonderful and sharing work!!! :)
My parents recently disowned me a few months ago and told me there church was there family and not me. They told me they were doing me a favor letting me into there house when I visited them. Which I did because I liked to visit them and love them because there my parents. It's hard but I just have to deal with it.
I was angry a few weeks after this happened but one day when I was driving home I heard this song and it had lyrics in it that described my situation with my parents and I just broke down and cried. I think a lot of gay people could relate to it. Song: Brother by Smashproof. You know if I didn't have a loving partner I'd would probably be so depressed and don't know what I would have done.
Ok so we know where your parnets are on this issue. at least thats a start now here is how you make change. you live your life happy succesfull and positive. You build your family with people who love and care for you. Then I bet your parents with time will start to come around. Dont hide anything from your parents let them see you happy and what it means to be gay. Hey if dick cheney can come around to be pro gay then I have a lot of hope for all of our families.
You know that's great advice. I never thought of it that way. It's great getting an outside view on this that I would never had thought of. I had disconnected myself from them to stop hurting but I think I'm strong enough to show them I am happy with my life with the people I love and surround myself with. My partner and my close friends. Thank you Jay!
I told my mom I was bi at 21. I expected her to love me even still, and she did. Just the type of person she is, even though she doesn't believe it's right. I'm so grateful for her!
I haven't told my dad yet. He doesn't believe it's right either, but I'm sure he'll continue loving me. We're pretty close, and he's cool. Very, very grateful! I know it could be different.
Thank you so much for sharing! You do a great service to others by telling your story.
Both of these videos were really powerful. Thank you so much for making them and being so open and honest. These are going to be a huge help to a lot of people!
wow Jay, it's heart breaking that yr father didn't accept it. But you are definately a role model every gay guy should look at and say: I want to be like him. Love you and I decided come out to my family this summer, goodluck to me :{
Thanks for the advice. im glad you made it past what your father did to you. yours and bryans storys are so inspiring, i love your videos. Your doing a great job at showing everyone that gay familys are the same as striaght familys.
Thank you for another heart-felt video. I'm so sorry that your father never came around. I always wanted to be a parent and feel a huge void for not being one. As you know, years ago it was so difficult for gays to adopt and now I feel too old at 51. My partner who is 59 never felt the same about being a parent and now with health issues it is out of the question. So, I am a bit envious of your wonderful family and I'm glad you hold it so dear.
Wonderful video and I agree with the advice you offered the subscribers. There seems to be this major wave or attitude among so many gay people that everyone must come out and as soon as possible....to help the "movement". It is absurd and in some instances, dangerous advice. I think that most everyone, even young people, know their families well enough to know at least what the reaction "could "be. It is just not worth getting thrown out in the street, as sad as that is.
I work as a police officer in SF and it is really sad that a lot of young gay people come to sf turn trciks get hooked on drugs get AIDS. All because their bigoted parents cant get past them being gay
Hey I was in SF recently, its neat to know you guys live there.
I've always been a very open minded person and there are things in my life I can't cope with yet (for many years I've had issues with my male gender).
I think that you guys are great role models, your not the stereotype gay couple which is good, I think people need to realize we are all human and labels need to be erased.
Nice to see you guys are Star Wars fans :) my brother works in one of George Lucas companies in SF.
Excellent advice Jay. My mother found out by accident when I was away on vacation and her reaction was the complete opposite of what I thought it be. I even took my mother to a public place to tell her face to face about it. Anyway, I really enjoyed your vid thanks for sharing and for showing that we to can provide a loving safe place to be together and raise a family!
Hopefully the kid who is 14 can find a friend eventually to come out to. A year prior to my parents knowing, my friends were an amazing support. Family is a big one, I agree its best to do it when you are more independent.
It is so difficult to give advice of that kind when some guys still risk going through the experience that you went through whereas others can now come out at 14 and get total support from their parents, school and friends. I think the key is to assess what motivates your parents. If your parents are more interested in who they want you to be than in your aspirations and who you really are - and if they prefer obedience from you to communication with you - then a good response is unlikely.
That blows my mind I started having feeling at 7 0r 8 but couldnt even comprehend coming out. I would love to see videos about what it was like to come out at such a young age
Jay, I'm glad you survived that dark period in your life.
godsheriff 3 days ago
Jay apparetnly your father did not know what a wonderful man you have become! I enjoy watching your videos and find them inspiring.
lovessox 4 weeks ago in playlist More videos from depfox
passed on to the other side.
It's a comfort for me know because it's nice to think that youre being looked over by someone who cares for you and is looking out for you.
I don't believe in all this ghosts and stuff, but i do believe that we have someone or something looking out for us, that has our best interests at heart. It'd be the same thing that stopped you from drowning when you tried. Something / someone clearly wants you here, it's nice to try and know who or what :)
FANNYLEROUX 1 month ago
Jay, i dont know if it's something you would ever consider, but about a year or two before i was born, my mum sufferd a miscarrage for what would have been my sister. My mother often goes to see spiritualist people, who claim to be able to pass on messages.
I think it could be kinda sweet if you went and saw one (even if you went by yourself and had a private reading). It could be like what my mum has been told a few times, that my sister is being brought up by her family that have....
FANNYLEROUX 1 month ago
I love love love watching your videos :] :] :]
Alishia52 1 month ago
These videos are so valuable and never too long. I could listen to them over and over again, and i could listen for an even longer time. Thank you for sharing your life and your stories with all of us. You offer something to kids, to adults, to parents, to those who come or once came from abuse. And you are so genuine. Thank you. One thing, as a sherriff, could you just remind kids to be safe or on their own before coming out? Nurse here, & I'm sure we've both seen too many kids on the street.
cautleen 1 month ago in playlist More videos from depfox
I just watched your two coming out videos. Wow theawkwardone is right you are amazing. I particularly liked your advice to your second commenter. I am 43 and just coming to turns with the fact that I have lived a false straight life. Now I am in the process of trying to untangle the web I have built while trying to minimize hurt and anguish for my children and wife. Please people don't pretend to be something your not, in the long run it will hurt others and YOU.
Zippy1169 2 months ago
I watch you and Bryan all the time, I think the two of you are helping so many young gay people, we all love the videos, Thank you for sharing your life and Family with us ♥♥♥♥
halliebell6 3 months ago in playlist More videos from depfox
My friend was in the same situation during our senior year in high school she was 17 & pregnant.She was thinking about having an abortion but her bf really wanted to keep the child and promised to always be there for her(he had a well paying job)After 2 months after having the baby he left her and went off to college.Not saying you would've have done the same but I could understand your gf situation. Idk what happen with my friend b/c I joined the Army & lost contact but I hope she's doing well
luvtwinkie1993 4 months ago in playlist More videos from depfox
Thanks for sharing your story, Jay
xephyr1000 4 months ago
hey could you give me some advice, I'm 15 ( almost 16 ) and in high school, I've known i was gay since i was about 10 or 11 and I just accepted it about a year ago, i feel ready to come out but I'm just scared about how some people will react and how some people will take it. I've just got this terrible fear that it wont go over well but i wanna be who i am and find someone :((
SpoonerSpecter 4 months ago
@SpoonerSpecter This Oct 11th is national coming out day and we are going to make a video...It is different for every person when coming out...just be careful and dont put yourself in a bad place.
depfox 4 months ago
Jay -- you're an incredibly strong guy. I cannot imagine how you must've felt after everything that you went thru with your father. My father has always reacted in a negative manner; but never at the magnitude as your father. I'm sorry to hear that you never had any last chances with him. But, you're taking the place of what he wasn't. You seem like such a great father, and it's a blessing from God that you didn't turn out like him. You and Bryan are beautiful and so are your children. - Matt
blondexnaruto 6 months ago
@ItsTyriekJohnson all i can say is stick with yourself and stay true to you, don't come out til youre ready and the don't trick girls if you are gay...that is evil and cowardly...but stay strong and it will get better and easier...h8rs will h8...but h8rs make you famous.....
Arcanetheory7 6 months ago
Wow. My life was very much like yours. VERY butch, macho, abusive Father. No "Fags" in his house. Well, much like your Dad, he was blessed with 2 gay sons! Isn't Karma wonderful?! Great video by the way!
tonytimdanes 7 months ago
i know this is off topic but nice star wars collection
JakeOutLoud 8 months ago
I am 14 and like and unlike the kid u mentioned in the video I thank I might be bi I do not know but it's weird cause it's all so confusing I mean I know my parents won't disown me but they will never will look at me the same because I don't hide myself and no would have ever guessed I was gay or bi cause all the kids at my school who r gay act the steoreotype but they don't get physically harassed but they often get rebuke and it scares me cause it all ready fells like it is me against the wor
Arcanetheory7 11 months ago
I am now in my mid-twenties and i knew i was gay since i was a teenager but even today i have never talk about it to my family yet, not even to my close friends. What amazed me with your story is that you also have a gay brother and sister. For a while i have been suspecting that my teenager-sister might be lesbian but i chose not to believe my instinct, but now, after hearing your story, i am in peace to know that it is normal to have a gay brother/sister. Thank you for sharing your story.
Emdiea 1 year ago
see I'm bi and i'm 17 almost 18 years old Girl and i wanted to know why is it always harder to come out to your dad then it is to your mom? see i ways had this problem telling my dad but i have told everyone else about it and they siad if thats what makes me happy then go ahead but i haven't told my dad yet and i don't know hes going to react and i'm really scared of telling him cause me and him are kind of close and i don't know what to say to him can you plaese can you help me out :(
ShadowWolfNInja1 1 year ago
you said that out of 5 siblings, 3 of them are gay. You also said that your father dishoned you, but did he dishone your other gay siblings?
101starwarsfan 1 year ago
@101starwarsfan yes my oldest sister came out at the early age of 16 and my father tossed her out of the house...Then I waited to come out till I got out of the Army I was 22 my father wouldnt have anything to do with me after that...My younger brother didnt come out till after my father had died.
depfox 1 year ago
This has been flagged as spam show
"Although almost all child molesters are male less than 3 percent of men are homosexual yet about a third of all child sex abuse cases involve homosexual men molesting boys -- and in one study, 86% of molesters were homosexual or bisexual," CNSNews.com October 03, 2006
WhopokedOprah 9 months ago
Comment removed
Celticman1961 1 year ago
Comment removed
Celticman1961 1 year ago
great advice!
BlaqueRain7228 1 year ago
thanks you so much for doing this video....just earlier today i was thinking about coming out to myself. i am gay and i love myself. thank you so much. now its time for me to live my life
saxophone2010 1 year ago
It warms my heart to know that despite all you have been through and the hatred that you felt towards yourself you were able to develop self love and acceptance for who you are. I do hope that your story reaches out to those who really need to hear it (gay boys and girls who are having taughts of committing suicide) as their lives are very precious and should not be cut short. One day i hope to do the same and change young gay lives with my story.
themaire 1 year ago
It warms my heart to know that despite all you have been through and the hatred that you felt towards yourself you were able to develop self love and acceptance for who you are. I do hope that your story reaches out to those who really need to hear it (gay boys and girls who are having taughts of committing suicide) as their lives are very precious and should not be cut short. One day i hope to do the same and change young gay lives with my story.
themaire 1 year ago
It warms my heart to know that despite all you have been through and the hatred that you felt towards yourself you were able to develop self love and acceptance for who you are. I do hope that your story reaches out to those who really need to hear it (gay boys and girls who are having taughts of committing suicide) as their lives are very precious and should not be cut short. One day i hope to do the same and change young gay lives with my story.
themaire 1 year ago
Comment removed
cheanmingyong 1 year ago
@cheanmingyong have you told your partner about the guy yet? I suggest you end the friendship....the guy is not good for you and you dont need his kind of friendship...Sex does mean a lot....I would also tell him that if sex isnt such a big deal why does he keep bugging you about it?
depfox 1 year ago
thanks for posting this, it's interesting to here different stories, ps how many cats do you have, we have 8 rescued + 2 rescued dogs & really hoping to get goats that were rescued from a farm -
anthonynewsome 1 year ago
The saddest part was your ex-girlfriends abortion. Your "frustation" about what the kid would've been like is a proof that an abortion will follow you 'till death.
mentonerodominicano 1 year ago
@mentonerodominicano not only will it follow me it defines me....I have wanted to be a father ever since that day.....I think it is why I am such a good father to my children because I know that somewhere there was a child my child that didnt make it.
depfox 1 year ago
Your story is a very amazing one that I am sure has saved some young peoples lives. Thank you for the honesty and straightforwardness that you have shared. I know without a doubt that you have had a positive impact on the lives of many. As a priest, I also know that there are many religious leaders today, myself included, that are open and affirmming to my gay brothers and sisters. Don't loose faith and remember God loves you just as he made you...Father Rick
EmailFatherRick 1 year ago
Your story is a very amazing one that I am sure has saved some young peoples lives. Thank you for the honesty and straightforwardness that you have shared. I know without a doubt that you have had a positive impact on the lives of many. As a priest, I also know that there are many religious leaders today, myself included, that are open and affirmming to my gay brothers and sisters. Don't loose faith and remember God loves you just as he made you...Father Rick
EmailFatherRick 1 year ago
TY so much for the video..you guys are amazing
rdnylennox 1 year ago
I find it hilarious because of the irony that 3 out of the 5 children are gay of a catholic family. Not saying what happened was a funny thing but talk about teaching a lesson.
FanChrisproductions 1 year ago
i love you, ur so sweet and i love ur action figures! star wars very cool. and i feel horriable that ur dad disowned u. my dad and my mom jus kinda were shocked and i said to her im proud of it and if u dont except me what ev so i toallly feel fo u
erathfirewater 1 year ago
I guess I don't understand someone who is DEAD forbidding someone LIVING from coming to a funeral. Had your family been so affected by his crurlty and abuse that for fear of him lierally rolling over in the casket and kicking their asses they placed sentrys or representatives to keep you out of the service?
gramps2matt 1 year ago
HI FROM FRANCE,you re a courageous person ,very masculine guy as gay can also be just look at rugby player garth thomas,its not easy to be gay ,it seems all the world is against you BUT it s wrong ;just god loves you,because god is love; so who cares ,parents can be wrong and stupids ,.....to all young gay,please don t commit suicide ,this world needs people like youBECAUSE YOU CAN BRING LOVE AND UNDErSTANDING to this planet .KISS FROM A FReNCH GUY, lionel
BRETON1964 1 year ago
I appreciate your videos. DNA doesn't always spell FAMILY, at least it hasn't for me. My real family are my friends, straight and gay who love me.
Jessecraft1954 1 year ago
The first email that you read I totally agree. ExplorationB did a great vid about when was or wasn' the right time and it covered this topic and he said the same things in that you need to be in a safe place and able to self sustain if your parents are not going to be receptive.
edaj84 1 year ago
Thanks so much for posting this. Just watched your coming out vids as well as your husband's. Similar to him learning about his sexuality in a Barnes and Noble, youtube has been a huge resource for me to learn about accepting myself as a gay man. I've probably watched over 100 coming out stories on here, and seriously, this was one of the most helpful. Very insightful and realistic advice. Greatly appreciated. Take care!
smithmen 1 year ago
[continued[....
My dad is same way, hates gays, and out of the five children two of us are gay, the 3rd child, myself, and the 4th child, my brother.
On a different topic, I love the Star Wars stuff. I'm a '74 baby, so I grew up in the 80's, and grew up on Star Wars, it's my 5th favorite movie of all time. I see Jaba back there, and many others. Man I miss the 80's. Good stuff bro, good stuff!
vegasbaby92 1 year ago
I think you are so so right. The fact that 3 out of the 5 of you are gay, is definitely god's way of sticking it in your dad's face. Man, god is awesome!
All that hate your dad had, and god played just the right trick on him. God said "oh you hate gays huh? Gays that I created, well let me just throw 3 of them in your immediate family and see if that will make you do as I say, love each other, not hate."
[more]...
vegasbaby92 1 year ago
Through all of this wisdom and advice, I can't stop drooling over those star wars figures...lol. Oh, and you're really sexy. I love that your face matches your voice. Yeah I know that's pretty superficial in light of everything being discussed, but I just had to say it...:-)
Gayheros 1 year ago 6
@Gayheros Not sure what that means about my face and voice but ill take it as a compliment thanks/blush
depfox 1 year ago
You provided great answers ,.........much respect!
Backatwon 1 year ago
Man that really hit me, I may not be able to relate but that helps me so much, this last Monday I actually learned and accepted myself, when that 14 year old kid asked you that question I felt like I had asked that question, cause I am 14 now and am a bisexual but not sure how my parents would act, I luv all ur bids and has helped me a lot, I have one question though, I feel I am ready to tell some friends but not sure how to tell them, can u help? Thx
wii1221 1 year ago
@wii1221 You will have to think about each person and how they relate to you. I suggest doing it one on one with the friends you most trust. I think the best way to tell someone is to start by saying I really value your friendship and friends shouldnt keep secreats so I want to tell you something about me that I feel has been keeping us from being better friends. No matter how they respond to you be open to their questions and doubts.
depfox 1 year ago
Hi again Jay, I'm wondering how you being rejected by your dad affected your sister & your younger brother's coming out? Did they tell you first or did they nail the closet doors shut? I don't feel alone anymore while listening to your family.
tredia576 1 year ago
What a guy! Your video's must give so many courage to deal with being gay. Even in today's society there are still some people out there that can't accept the fact that geing gay IS OK. We just want to love and to be loved like all those non gay's. If family and friends have a problem with the gay thing then let them live with their problem. It's up to us to move on and live our own lives the best we can. I am married to a great lady who supports me and loves me for who I am.
dublinluc 2 years ago
I am 28 and came out to my friends, and to my half-sister. I have yet to come out to my parents, as I am unsure how they will take it.
Alenmore 2 years ago
hey, i love your coming out videos, and about that 14 year old kid, it all depends on his parents. i came out to my family this year (im 14 turning 15 in 2 months) so lol, yeah i first came out to my friends to have support and then came out to my mother and then when it was over, i felt better and i could finally be who i was! awesome vids. ^^
kyetra1 2 years ago
Thank-you!
angelgirl2001 2 years ago
That is so sad : ( I'm so sorry to hear this about your dad...
angelgirl2001 2 years ago
your dad should be very proud of you and your family
Holeinmyhead141 2 years ago
It's crazy because my brother is in jail for murder and my mother visits him every week, but when I came out my mom don't call, email, visit or anything and she know where I live. So in her eyes killing someone is better than being gay.
jambbar 2 years ago 37
Lol about you and your gay brothers, that's so true when people hate something about other people they have it in their own home
grouli 2 years ago
I just want to say that your opinion on not telling your parents until you're ready is the best I have ever heard. I am an 18 year old gay guy. I have struggled with my sexuality for years. My mom has even told me straight up before that she would not be able to love a gay son. I have never wanted to tell her, but all my friends tell me I should. I just wanted to say it feels great to have someone back me up on this. You are amazingly inspirational.
redalchemy 2 years ago 2
Thanks!! very touching video.
Caionegro 2 years ago 2
Growing up gay and Catholic is tough. The Church seemed to be the strongest hurtful force against me (in the form of my parents and many conservative Catholics); but I guess God has a way of looking out for us in the most unexpected ways because the Church was also the place where I found love and acceptance, which came in the form of compassionate brothers and nuns I met while in Catholic school.
blink56k 2 years ago
One nun in particular, a short and lively 80 yr old lady who I had worked with in ministry for a little while, used to tell always remind me--God don't make no junk! :o)
blink56k 2 years ago 3
I just wanted to thank you again for sharing your family, your life, and yourself on YouTube. It's so brave for you to put yourself out there like that, and as I'm sure you can tell you are impact lots of lives in positive ways. Certainly mine. It's so simple but sharing yourself here is powerful. If you ever have doubts or ever feel discouraged, I want to let you know that you're DEFINITELY making a difference in lives. Continue the great work! Thank you for sharing yourself and being you
u3q2v 2 years ago 2
Hey Jay, thank you and Bryan for these videos.
I'm 22 and haven't come out to my family yet, though I've decided to tell my older brother this week (he's LGBTQ-supportive). My dad is super conservative though, and I'm not financially independent, so I'm worried I might go through the same thing you did if he finds out. But your example really gives me hope that I can meet someone amazing and have a great future with him. :D
Again, thank you guys so much for your channel and blog.
Jhaaghon 2 years ago 2
After seeing both part one and two, I have to say it is an honor to have stumble upon your channel today. And I truly admire both you and Bryan, as well as your family. Take care and know that there are people who firmly support you :)
sensoriussupremus 2 years ago
I'm 23, and I came out in July. I've been knowing since I was 15. My dad actually told me, "I knew the whole time. I was actually waiting for you to tell me." We laughed. He was in denial for a while, but he told me he just wants me to be happy. My mom took it well also. It was an extreme sigh of relief. You guys are an awesome inspiration.
moderndaybeatlefan 2 years ago 2
(part 2 of comment, sorry!)
You guys are exceedingly brave for putting yourselves out for public observation (and criticism) as gay parents, and I think you are having an incredible impact with the 'on-the-fence'-ers who are just afraid of something they aren't familiar with. Keep up the great work!
drydeniv 2 years ago 3
I thank you, Jay and Bryan, both, for sharing the intimate details of your coming out experiences with the web-community. Your coming out story is very heartbreaking, but luckily the times they are a-changin', and while unfortunately paradigm-shifts don't occur overnight, you guys are pioneers (I feel) that demonstrating to the world how amazing and loving a gay family can be.
drydeniv 2 years ago 3
I'm 17. I discovered when I was at the older side of 16 that I was bisexual. I recently told my mother. It seemed to blow her a bit but she didn't seem upset or angry. She hasn't spoken about it since and nothing has changed between us. I don't think my sister takes it seriously but it doesn't bother her.
GoldAnnaple 2 years ago
My mother has told me she'll tel my father when she thinks he'll be ready to hear it. I don't think my father will really mind. He's over protective and has always made comments about 'no boys' being allowed in the house. I joking asked him once what he would do if I was a lesbain and he said he'd be relieved. I honestly think it's harder for homosexual men than it is women.
GoldAnnaple 2 years ago
I simply told my mother I was bisexual. It was a short conversation and it moved on swiftly. I didn't tell her that I lean more towards the same sex so that may have effected that, but I didn't purposely not tell her, it's just it was such a relaxed conversation I missed it out by accident.
GoldAnnaple 2 years ago
Most of my male friends know my sexuality. I only very recently told my female friends because I was more afraid of rejection from them. But they've been supportive. No one really mentions it and we just continue as we always have.
And that's my coming out story. 8]
GoldAnnaple 2 years ago
I think you made a good point. Sometimes it seems that the people who are the most condemning against gay people normally a) end up having kids who are gay, or b) have a lot of gay people they know around them in their life, and i do think that it is God's way of proving to them that gay people are humans also.
When i was growing up, I noticed my mother would always take the opportunity to say something negative about a gay person whether it be on news or in Public.
yoka955 2 years ago 2
I am 15 and I just recently started to accept myself. I no longer think about suicide and I am ready to come out, But my Father like yours would surely disown me, So I told my closes friend because I couldn't keep it to myself and I am just trying to get by until the day comes when I can tell them.
IAmGoombaSniper 2 years ago
some day you will become a man and you will fall in love and you will be happier then you could ever imagine. Then you will care what your fathers thinks but it wont be everything. Feel free to reach out to us if you ever need a friend.
depfox 2 years ago
I came out to my parents this year (I'm 17 next month) and it was SO boring! You needn't worry, my parents didn't bat an eyelid and the only question they had was a jokey:
"why dontcha dress better then?!"
stereotyping I know, but I needed that then - I was sick with worry.
blackchristmas09 2 years ago
But my father is seriously, Completely homophobic. I hear comments daily and he said he wouldn't want anything to do with "A queer"
IAmGoombaSniper 2 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
thank you for ur videos =)
i wish i have a life like urs...
u sound like u have a beautiful partner and children(i saw ur other videos too)
but,then again im still not old enough to come out yet..
i hope my day will come and have a nice future likes urs... from candy =)
candycane520 2 years ago
thank you for ur videos =)
i wish i have a life like urs...
u sound like u have a beautiful partner and children(i saw ur other videos too)
but,then again im still not old enough to come out yet..
i hope my day will come and have a nice future likes urs... from candy =)
candycane520 2 years ago
Hey Jay-
So sorry about your Dad. Gosh!!! I am sure that your siblings and you have discussed this before..but do you think that there is a possibility that your Dad may have been gay himself?? I hope he is in a better place now... SURE! he is!
Cheers!
Jim from Ohio
stoner829 2 years ago
the world may never know....
depfox 2 years ago
honestly i thought that too
lovdbz 2 years ago
Charge your phone next time lololololol
BEAsl 2 years ago
haha yeah i heard it too im like is that my phone oh no nvm
lovdbz 2 years ago
Wow. Thanks for the inspiration. I would like to meet you guys sometime. Maybe in Washington!?
connectmoi 2 years ago
would love to ;o)
depfox 2 years ago
Where are you staying in DC? It would be great to meet up. Are the kids coming? They are so cute!
connectmoi 2 years ago
hmm we havent booked our hotel yet and yes the kids are coming we dont go any where with out the kids
depfox 2 years ago
Thanks. I sent you a note.
connectmoi 2 years ago
Where did you get your children?
alvinf1 2 years ago
adoption?
OhMyHackinGarnit 2 years ago 2
we adopted them in CA
depfox 2 years ago
Comment removed
wattever333 2 years ago
YesYesYoureRight 2 years ago
Jay that was excellent you gave great advice . I need to listen to your words to .
mike2327 2 years ago
btw my post was directed to thebasher100 just in case it seemed like it was at the vid. vid as amazing thx for it :D
vivelesmuffins 2 years ago 2
wow...you truely have deep issues my friend. u decide to go on here and watch a video with the intent on helping others and btw it was great! thx fro posting the video! anyways why would u bether even watching it if your just gonna comment like that. your discusting. oh ya, i went there! pce.
vivelesmuffins 2 years ago
You are an amazing man for sharing your story
(and Bryan is too! :). I hope that your video touches many young people who are struggling with coming out. I am really shocked when I read any negative comments about your videos. I think those people are blind so I will pray for them! Please keep on your wonderful and sharing work!!! :)
mykiskoart 2 years ago 4
Great video!
Wow, 3 out of 5 are gay, that's awesome lol!
I enjoyed listening to your responses at the end, you should do workshops! :D
20thPaul 2 years ago 4
sounds like your a really good man jay.. you and bryans video will help alot of people.
timhere64 2 years ago 2
you know what? i feel connected to your story. thank you for sharing, that was really touching.
maicongphuc 2 years ago 2
You have a very twisted soul Im sory you must have had a really bad life
depfox 2 years ago
Getting money from the Govenment that an interesting comment. Why would the govenrment be giving us money?
depfox 2 years ago
My parents recently disowned me a few months ago and told me there church was there family and not me. They told me they were doing me a favor letting me into there house when I visited them. Which I did because I liked to visit them and love them because there my parents. It's hard but I just have to deal with it.
enterprize13 2 years ago
I was angry a few weeks after this happened but one day when I was driving home I heard this song and it had lyrics in it that described my situation with my parents and I just broke down and cried. I think a lot of gay people could relate to it. Song: Brother by Smashproof. You know if I didn't have a loving partner I'd would probably be so depressed and don't know what I would have done.
enterprize13 2 years ago 2
Ok so we know where your parnets are on this issue. at least thats a start now here is how you make change. you live your life happy succesfull and positive. You build your family with people who love and care for you. Then I bet your parents with time will start to come around. Dont hide anything from your parents let them see you happy and what it means to be gay. Hey if dick cheney can come around to be pro gay then I have a lot of hope for all of our families.
depfox 2 years ago
You know that's great advice. I never thought of it that way. It's great getting an outside view on this that I would never had thought of. I had disconnected myself from them to stop hurting but I think I'm strong enough to show them I am happy with my life with the people I love and surround myself with. My partner and my close friends. Thank you Jay!
enterprize13 2 years ago
lol A collector of sorts are we...
bananabread119 2 years ago 2
we are huge collectors
depfox 2 years ago
I told my mom I was bi at 21. I expected her to love me even still, and she did. Just the type of person she is, even though she doesn't believe it's right. I'm so grateful for her!
I haven't told my dad yet. He doesn't believe it's right either, but I'm sure he'll continue loving me. We're pretty close, and he's cool. Very, very grateful! I know it could be different.
Thank you so much for sharing! You do a great service to others by telling your story.
agapelove490 2 years ago 2
im glad your parnents no what it means to love their child
depfox 2 years ago
Both of these videos were really powerful. Thank you so much for making them and being so open and honest. These are going to be a huge help to a lot of people!
JayBellBooks 2 years ago
You are doing a piece of God's work here that I can't do. Bless you brother.
Stephanreyu 2 years ago 2
Love RuPaul, that quote is so true.
kneeboarder56 2 years ago
wow Jay, it's heart breaking that yr father didn't accept it. But you are definately a role model every gay guy should look at and say: I want to be like him. Love you and I decided come out to my family this summer, goodluck to me :{
justinblue 2 years ago 4
Thank you
depfox 2 years ago
Thanks for the advice. im glad you made it past what your father did to you. yours and bryans storys are so inspiring, i love your videos. Your doing a great job at showing everyone that gay familys are the same as striaght familys.
kagomens13 2 years ago
This was very good Jay, i can see this vid helping out a gret deal of others, good work.
Signed Love Jedi Dave ^-^ XX
2006Admiral 2 years ago
Both of your coming out videos are very moving. Thank you for sharing your story and providing comfort for those who are struggling.
Have you mentioned how you and Brian met? I'd love to know more about how you met, got together, and decided to raise a family together.
kc55mo 2 years ago
HEHE that video is coming very soon.
depfox 2 years ago
I think you're very brave and I admire you for what you have done. Thanks for sharing.
ramette99 2 years ago 3
Thank you for another heart-felt video. I'm so sorry that your father never came around. I always wanted to be a parent and feel a huge void for not being one. As you know, years ago it was so difficult for gays to adopt and now I feel too old at 51. My partner who is 59 never felt the same about being a parent and now with health issues it is out of the question. So, I am a bit envious of your wonderful family and I'm glad you hold it so dear.
Billydude9 2 years ago 2
great video 5 styars I really injoyed it it does take alot of corlage to come out sorry about the spelling
RainbowPagon1982 2 years ago
Rainbow have you seen my spelling neve say you are sory about spelling there is a reason that I am a cop ;O)
depfox 2 years ago
ha yeah thank you
RainbowPagon1982 2 years ago
thanks for sharing your story, a complete story indeed. Yea, i agreed,is pretty hard to make a coming out story,Your action has indeed inspired me.
Hugs and good night.
ALVINPGTM84 2 years ago 2
Wonderful video and I agree with the advice you offered the subscribers. There seems to be this major wave or attitude among so many gay people that everyone must come out and as soon as possible....to help the "movement". It is absurd and in some instances, dangerous advice. I think that most everyone, even young people, know their families well enough to know at least what the reaction "could "be. It is just not worth getting thrown out in the street, as sad as that is.
yescandles 2 years ago 4
I work as a police officer in SF and it is really sad that a lot of young gay people come to sf turn trciks get hooked on drugs get AIDS. All because their bigoted parents cant get past them being gay
depfox 2 years ago
Hey I was in SF recently, its neat to know you guys live there.
I've always been a very open minded person and there are things in my life I can't cope with yet (for many years I've had issues with my male gender).
I think that you guys are great role models, your not the stereotype gay couple which is good, I think people need to realize we are all human and labels need to be erased.
Nice to see you guys are Star Wars fans :) my brother works in one of George Lucas companies in SF.
Biankito 2 years ago 2
SOLID advice Jay!! That's my boy JAY!! Dude you rock!!
jonvcan 2 years ago
Excellent advice Jay. My mother found out by accident when I was away on vacation and her reaction was the complete opposite of what I thought it be. I even took my mother to a public place to tell her face to face about it. Anyway, I really enjoyed your vid thanks for sharing and for showing that we to can provide a loving safe place to be together and raise a family!
countsoss 2 years ago
Hopefully the kid who is 14 can find a friend eventually to come out to. A year prior to my parents knowing, my friends were an amazing support. Family is a big one, I agree its best to do it when you are more independent.
ouREvilone 2 years ago 4
Thanks for sharing all this.
PragmaticHeathen 2 years ago 2
Jay I agree with you on some of your advice to the 14 year old. I agree fully with the advice to the 30ish guy. All in All may God bless you all.
3slimdog 2 years ago 2
Thanks for answering some of the questions and your advice was solid to our fellow youtubers..have a good night...
ROBERTKENT67 2 years ago 2
It is so difficult to give advice of that kind when some guys still risk going through the experience that you went through whereas others can now come out at 14 and get total support from their parents, school and friends. I think the key is to assess what motivates your parents. If your parents are more interested in who they want you to be than in your aspirations and who you really are - and if they prefer obedience from you to communication with you - then a good response is unlikely.
maitriparamita 2 years ago 2
im going to have a book with my coming out story ps im 9 and am gay my family know and love me
quinnbe12 2 years ago 6
wow at 9 thats incredible
depfox 2 years ago
i new i was gay when i was 4 told my parents when i was 5 and my sis 2
quinnbe12 2 years ago 2
That blows my mind I started having feeling at 7 0r 8 but couldnt even comprehend coming out. I would love to see videos about what it was like to come out at such a young age
depfox 2 years ago